Hey babies, just trying to find out if anyone else has experience with this. I’m not against physical touch at all, though it does make me uncomfortable when I feel like there isn’t consent or I don’t know you like that. One example of this is in my everyday life. I have a coworker (38m) who will routinely grab my hands in order to look at my nails (one of the ways I take care of myself is always making sure my nails are on point). I also love wearing those fuzzy Sherpa jackets, I have a bunch of them. He will frequently grab my arm and touch the material on my jackets, then discuss with my the material.

None of this is vulgar or inappropriate i don’t think? But it still makes me kind of uncomfortable. I wouldn’t think to grab his hand or arm, or anyone’s for that matter unless I was sure we were on that level. This is something I experience with a variety of men and I just want insight on it. I don’t really want to create an awkward scenario and ask them to stop if it’s not a big deal...thoughts?