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Never go for the number, if logistics allow it. My second question is always "What are you doing here", that allows you to determine how much time you have. If you have time, just talk random stuff and once you are in a flow, suggest an insta date. Get to know her and let her get to know you, do it together. Now go ahead and do 200 more approaches and then come back here. Taking action is the biggest thing!
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:45 PM
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I wonder it is a personality thing, people who are take a lot of blame on themselves, I did that lot, and I suppose not being able to attract a women also was something I put the blame on me. Something about me must be so unattractive and humiliations perhaps was just a way of getting the confirmation that I'm right, that I shouldn't try harder, that I will never be able to get a woman. People who have a tendency to blame others perhaps get turned on by brutal porn, I know a lot of guys at my un…
/r/seduction23/01/17 04:28 PM
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I have been trying NoFap and it helps. Porn did my make my fantasies worse. To answer if I'm just as dominant as other men, of course there are guys more dominant than me, but I know guys who pretty much haven't done shit with their lives but are dominant with women in bed. I think my submissive behaviour may be due to couple of things and this developed early on : I was short and fat in school, and I felt inferior to beauty something I never had, and something I felt I'll never have. I am still…
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:50 PM
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Thanks I will try to be open about this.
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:32 PM
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Thanks mate. I guess being secure with it is the manly thing to do. It is what it is.
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:31 PM
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I started about 5 months ago, exactly your age. I used to feel the same thing but it really doesn't matter. I had a much rubbish record than you, I could hardly talk to girls before. But these months have been very interesting, have been to dates with girls I wouldn't have earlier dreamed of opening. Age wise most of them were under 25, couple of them 18, who cares, but they really seemed mature and it wasn't hard to connect. If she doesn't care, I don't care. But I have no clue where to meet gi…
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:53 PM
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Who cares? I know European guys more handsome and taller than me, but so many don't approach , so many can't take rejection, so many can't hold a conversation. Looks matters, height matters, ethnicity matters, but what matters the most is how you make her feel. And the biggest thing, if you don't care, she doesn't care either, it just takes a bit of time for her to let go of her notions.
/r/seduction07/09/16 09:37 PM
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No offense taken. I used to think the same thing. Dude not just Indian but very short as well. Put that package together and it's gaming on tough mode. I used to tell myself the same thing you say to me. And I must have been rejected more than 100 times, neglected many times, insulted couple of times, but just keep going and you'll find a way. Still lot of work to be done but what's the other option. Game or go home. Cheers.
/r/seduction07/09/16 09:22 PM
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You're actually right, thx
/r/seduction06/09/16 09:19 PM
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Haha, actually I'm an Indian myself but I started approaching only recently only when I moved to Europe. So I am naturally more comfortable approaching European girls. I did approach couple of Indian girls but it wasn't fun and they seemed very uncomfortable. Now I have had more dates with European girls than Indian girls. In India, I was this shy guy who would mess up talking to girls. Also Indian girls think about long term relationships and marriages rather than just fun. I don't blame them, …
/r/seduction06/09/16 08:58 PM
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Damn, too bad, I didn't take her number, I realise I should have.
/r/seduction15/08/16 12:11 PM
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Thanks for the reply, mate. Newbie mistake, yes I never made eye contact before approaching. I am used to handling rejections, it happens all the time during the day game, but it was the first someone completely ignored me, the nature of it really got to me. But I suppose, it is best to take one step at a time, better to focus on the day game, while start talking to girls in bar rather than noisy clubs/discos. At least girls never ignored me when I talked in bars. Once I'm more confident I'll tr…
/r/seduction12/06/16 04:45 PM
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Absolutely agree, I totally think it's possible to do better. Before today I never imagined that it would even go this far, so I bailed after little success, but I now I hope I can take it up a notch. But I'll honest next day, I'll be anxious again and it'll at least take 1-2 attempt to break loose, just like warm up before playing sports.
/r/seduction08/05/16 08:00 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Yes, I did exactly that infact, sorry for the confusion in the post. I brought up the dialer and gave her the phone. Unfortunately I whatsapped her "Sorry if I made you uncomfortable". She replied immediately "You did not :)". I suppose yes you're right. Anyways I'd like to thank this thread, two days earlier I asked another girl's phone number and she gave it immediately, although I don't really find her attractive but she lives in the neighbourhood and it's nice to have a…
/r/seduction02/05/16 09:31 PM
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She said yes when I asked her if she wants to hang out, but next when I asked for her phone, I suppose she was not expecting it and to me she had that look of surprise, hesitancy and discomfort rolled into one. For one moment, I thought if she was just being polite.
/r/seduction02/05/16 08:20 PM
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Actually I have approached 6 before, but the responses were always completely negative. This is best response I've gotten yet.
/r/seduction19/04/16 04:15 AM
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I wouldn't say poetry is lame but this wasn't the right place to use it for sure .
/r/seduction19/04/16 04:12 AM
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Hi guys, It is not that I discovered something entirely new via the comments, yet it was a stark reminder about how messed my mind is and how long this recovery process is. After reading some of the replies, I felt incredibly down, think about it, I thought of it as a bit of success and then to suddenly discover I was a big loser to have done that was hard to take. I even resented the lot of you and wanted to the delete the post. But then I realized this is the truth and it only makes me stronge…
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:37 PM
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Thanks bro for the honest feedback.
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:31 PM
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Thanks, agree with what you said. I need to put in a lot of work and I have long way to go. However I just felt action is better than no action.At least at this point I have feedback from you guys.
/r/seduction18/04/16 05:35 PM
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I just looked it up, and I suppose that is not the case. I mean yes she was beautiful but I am not hung up on her, I wouldn't mind asking out anyone else. Unless it means being hung up on beautiful girls, then yes.
/r/seduction17/04/16 11:29 PM
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Thanks for the honesty, it is something which I am aware I really need to work on. But a lot easier said than done. I have simply approached girls about 5-6 times, and all were bad responses, so I feel better about this one. As you said long way to go, but at least this gave me a tiny bit of confidence and more motivation to work on myself. And thanks but honestly, I'm not a poet or have much poetic talent, those were pretty simple lines. I just needed to write something.
/r/seduction17/04/16 11:08 PM
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Develop an attractive lifestyle, commit to it, reach a point where you don't "need" women so badly. But meanwhile if you see an attractive woman, just tell her whatever you feel about her. You can meet girls when you travel, in gym, when you go to movies, you have to make the move, there is no other way. And no, you're not old. None at all.
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:19 PM
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