So I have for past few times able to insta date.

My structure is a very strong opening, and some funny initial 4-5 minutes, and if I feel the vibe is right, go for the date, persist if necessary. I suck at kino right now and I know I need to work on this. But I also wanted some feedback on the conversation part.

My strategy right now, is not to talk about myself, but always get the girl to react and talk about herself more and more. Then I always try to speak honestly about what she said, which a lot of times mean not agreeing with her, sometimes [purposely] tying what she said to a negative trait [but in a playful way], so that the next thing she does is qualifies herself. In this process again, she goes on speaking more than me.

At the end, I would have hardly given myself away but she generally speaks a lot about herself. I feel this is a good way of her feeling comfortable and her feeling good about herself.

But do you feel this is the right strategy?