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| 1 | Covid has got me messsed upTry picking up a hobby, helped me a lot. Learned ukulele and guitar | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Covid has got me messsed upOn it atm but that shit boring af | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Covid has got me messsed upDamn okay, what are you trying for calisthenics? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Covid has got me messsed upLmfao! My guy snapped! | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Covid has got me messsed upFeels brother! | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Is there a red pill but for friends instead of girls?Honestly, stick to your mission and wait till you find the ones the work with it. Once you do It will be worth your while. Until then, find a way to be socially satisfied. Connect with people around you, start conversations to learn and be keen to ask people to come join you in what you are doing. Believe me you will not see results until you ask the correct way but when you do. Those people that do join you might just become the best friends you have ever had. Until then lift, focus on your mis… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 05:12 AM |
| 3 | What is the best college major?Yeah, marketing is a cutthroat industry and if you dont know how to read people and social work between the lines. They will ear you alive aha. The only way I could see people working in marketing without social skills is purely on the art side or having preexisting contacts. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the best college major?I’m pretty sure I asked the same question about this about 3 years ago. Was in the same boat pondering on my life in the future and how I wanted to do big things and change the world aha. Don’t get me wrong I did, just not what I had planned. Ideally, pick something that you already have an interest in. If you like computers and can get along comparably with the nerds then go into CS. If you are a social guy go into marketing. If you like math go for accounting. If you have business experience g… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me, do I have some type of personality disorder/need therapy? Or is this just situational?Yeah man, sound like a confidence thing. Like your not sure what to say type thing? But yeah, you have to first start talking to like minded people who you can chat with, share experiences and such. This will help you develop confidence and show you what it means to interact with others then with more exposure to like minded people you'll want to talk to more people like that and you'll engage yourself in more conversations. Cause it feels fucking good to have a good conversation and your body k… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I’m 18 and there’s something wrong with me sociallyNot gona lie man when I meet someone I like and ask them to hang out. Guy or girl, I sound desperate. It sound like a pleading heart pouring out type question. "Hey man, you seem pretty chill and we should honestly hang out some time" they respond to this with compassion, I know their a bro. They insult me, then fuck them and move on. Mind you I do this very occasionally with people I have had a good conversation with or relate with on some sort of level. Emotionally, hobbies etc. The other is i… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 08:09 PM |
| 8 | I’m 18 and there’s something wrong with me sociallySomething is wrong with every kid socially when their 18. Hit the gym, itll help with the confidence in holding eye contact. Talk to everyone, they wana talk great. They dont, move on. Repeat this along with getting a better wardrobe and building relationships with people around you. Family first then aquantences. Getting good at this shit take time and practice. So practice! | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Anybody here felt like a mess at 18 but is better off now?A lot of people are man, including myself. Just stick to things that will make you better and women and power falls into place. Hit the gym, find hobbies to de stress with, find a social circle that's engaging. Most important of all eat food that makes you feel good. Stick with these guidelines and build your daily routines accordingly and you will see results. I'll give you an example of a routine I use. Mind you this is never the same month to month as their are always improvements or dial bac… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 01:45 PM |
| 0 | How to Stop Giving a Fuck What People Think of YouThat's a fair point and I agree with you. I also think breaking down this post into a series of posts would also allow for this content to e better digested. Offering more long term value to the members. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/20 04:00 AM |
| -5 | How to Stop Giving a Fuck What People Think of YouThese refreshers are nice and can we please put a word limit on these. Please and thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | What are some signs of bluepill behavior?This | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 02:40 AM |
| 11 | Feeling disconnected from the rest of society, because most people live in a feel-good realityThis reads like a rant from someone who cant build relationships. I mean it sucks when you cant maintain a relationship and when the constant support you will receive is to have an IDGAF mentality. It doesnt work if you want this resentment to go away. Start making an effort to build a network of good friends who you can just say shit to without it being offensive. You'll meet these people off the bat. Hell, they'll even try and one up you. Let them! Even if you know its bullshit. If you let tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 03:05 PM |
| 39 | Affirmations for a Needy Young Man Looking for Love.The moment you decide that you just want to be a kid in a relationship it's over. Woman want a man and not a guy who is still trying to figure himself out. What you need are friends and people who can help build you up. Sure some woman can help do that but their pussy wont be wet for you. They will only do it for survival. So get your ass out there and meet new people who are better than you and work your way into their mindsets. That's how you will grow . Hit the gym. Play sports and have fun. … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | To the veteran RPers, how do you handle shitty times?That's good to hear man, keep doing what your doing. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 2 | To the veteran RPers, how do you handle shitty times?Honestly, go with your gut on this one. If you want to keep her around for the sex, make sure you let go of her right away cause then you'll never have a reason to improve. You'll be okay being you. If you actually like this chick then take a break and come back. If things work out great, if not then just move on. Close things on a good note and just keep doing what your doing. As for the death, sorry to hear than man, that's always a tough one. Just make sure you grieve on that. Take the time t… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:26 PM |
| 10 | To the veteran RPers, how do you handle shitty times?Find ways to make the shitty times go away. No one can pull you out if you're not trying yourself. Stuck in a shitty relationship, express it and see if it works out. If not leave. Health failing, feel like shit 24/7. Get off social media and hit the gym. Build routines that you do every day that make you feel good about yourself. Shaving, dressing well, eating breakfast with people you like. Relationships suck, dont have any friends. Try to talk to people. Build real relationships. Let some of … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I'm having a hard time moving on from the fact that my ex-LTR of 3.5 years didn't have sex with me while she slept with other dudes throughout the relationship.Honestly, address the thought whenever it comes to mind and then continue on with your day. Cant do anything abouts what's been done. One day the thought will spring into your head and it wont even phase you. So just focus on yourself and what you're going to do next | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The One Red Pill I Can See You Still Haven't SwallowedI like the content but maybe some proofreading might be nessisary. Great post. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | If you want to be confident you'll have to mount up and prepare to failPrepare to fail but always have something to fall back on. Friends, family, relationships something. Otherwise when you fail you will be looking for something to calm you and drugs and alcohol are an easy out. Have a strong foundation before you set out to fail. Otherwise, it's a risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Cant forget LTRYou just havnt properly emotionally processed it. You have to entertain the thought. Think about it when you're alone and laugh, cry whatever the fuck. Do this a couple of times and the though will slowly stop bothering you. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a much bigger bully?Fight him, even if you lose he'll think twice before just picking on you and brothers will be more proactive when you two are around each other. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | U.S Dating market from a Latino perspectiveI would post this on trp, this is actually gold | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What is the red pill approach to nutrition?My hard fast rule is Cut out shit that makes you feel like shit. That means all them bigmacs, quinoa, shitty protien powders and anything that doesnt sit well. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Waitress “hit on me” in front of my date while taking our order. Why do women do this?Theres you're answer OP lol | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Untitled: "Let's not mince words. There is a growing trend in Internet feminism that works EXACTLY by conflating the ideas of nerd, misogynist, virgin, person who disagrees with feminist tactics or politics, and unlovable freak."Just do better than the people around you and be nice to them, just like how a father looks at there son. They know there idiots but if they ask for help or need help just guide them in the right direction. Dont force your opinion on people, if they dont agree stop talk but stay calm and listen. Then retort with personal experience but calmly. This shit does wonders and is great practice for frame control. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | How to bounce back after traumatic event in life?Keep your head up and do your best to build a schedule and when ever anyone asks you about what has happened or how you're doing tell them the truth, especially if it's people close to you. Be upset with people not alone and eventually by speak to more people they'll slowly talk you into a more positive light about the tragities that happened. Everything will be okay, just remember that. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.Sounds like you need to meet more open minded people you can talk to or even just people in the same sphere of influence as you. My go to with blue pill people is to just talk to them normally, go quite when they say something stupid and excited when they say something I agree with. This way i can see who makes me go quite more and just not hang out with them. Also gives them the signal of the same thing. That and to work on your social life, just like game you will have to take risks. Sometimes… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Dont get along with peopleHmm never thought of that. Yeah, I've always had my ego prevent me from returning the favour or even not helping in the first place. I'll give it a shot. This is solid advice. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Dont get along with peopleIm down to give that a try but I'm not sure what a baseline would be. What would a baseline look for yourself? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Dont get along with peopleHmm, yeah doesnt feel so good. But the problem I'm facing is that I use to talk to everyone but that tended to stunt my growth. I would get into playing nice politics and as a result got nothing done. Is there a way to balance this? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | I took a big look at my life and realized I've surrounded myself with functioning alcoholics for a long time. Where are the best places to find quality friends who aren't going to be booze hounds?What jobs have a zero tolerance for drugs and alcohol? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | When I am mysterious, I don't talk much and be boring, when I just talk, I lose frame.I thought I was the only one with this problem Haha. What I found to work well was trying to build relationships with people who I could be quite with. Talk when needed if not enjoy the embrace of being okay with the silence. Then when I would go out I'd make everything a challenge, very machismo type and do my best to show off to guys that show off, be quite and hold frame with people who hold frame. Etc etc. Those friends and family that I could stay quite with were the ones I would do to u wi… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:08 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop hating myself?Go lift, talk to people and get good at something. Once you do these three, you will see yourself feeling healthier,more confident and people will want to be around you. Also, try your best to find people who are like you that you can comfortably talk to. Tell your shitty jokes and they'll still talk to you. This builds a nice base you can always come back to after you go out and challenge yourself. If you need more explanation or just want to talk PM me | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How true is it that women don't care about you, they only care about how you make them feel?Well, yeah but so do you and I. If it came to life or death and I barely know you sorry buddy its every man for himself. If I am close to you then I'll take the bullet, just my character. Point being spend more time with people and make good friends. Then you'll never have to worry how "women dont care about you". | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Using Your Cash To Maximize Muscle MassMainly cause if your on your back, your ass is being pushed upwards. Try sleeping on any hard surface and you'll know what I mean. As for the arm, if you curl it back and put your head on it, you can comfortably relax your head on your bicep, its thicker. Other than that sleeping on your back also increases the chance of you snoring which can lead to a loss of sleep and now your having to sleep longer to get the same amount of rest as someone who isn't. Might as well sleep on your side and enjoy… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?What the fuck does that even mean? Are you trying to be funny? | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Using Your Cash To Maximize Muscle MassSleeping on your back is horrible for your posture and induced snoring. Learn to sleep on your side with your arm under your head. Get use to that and you can literally sleep anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?Okay I see that, people i talk to on my day to day i can do the anecdotal stuff. I'll try the whole staying engaged thing but when I use to do this before I was met with a lot of cold shoulders. Its been about a year so fingers crossed that doesnt happen again. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?Yeah that guys cancer, I'm more with the jordon belford crown on this video and yeah been lifting for the past year and a half. Saw some nice gains and lifestyle changes. If theres anything other than that I'd be down to try it. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?Oh shit yeah I do. I use to listen a lot before and found that a lot of people became uncomfortable. I would do my best to continue the conversation but was unable to contribute as the person kept talking. Made it very difficult to be heard and all round was difficult to live, always feeling tense and such. Now I kind of just say shit and let people correct me if I'm wrong but this also opens the flood gates of bad shit just happening around me. (Thinking more Logan Paul esk) Not sure if I'm rig… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Speaking to people who are more powerfull than you?Haha, probably but at this point in my life, I think it's necessary. I just moved to a new city and am making a whole new social circle and trying to figure out what to do for my career. I think without this I would just end up not really doing much and just be stuck in my head. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I now see why spinning plates is the most desirable outcome but shit it feels lonelyNow use all the hobbies and talents to talk to people. Use the conversations (about anything at all, the more random the better) to build yourself and your thought process. While you do that try and find ways to use what you've learned to build something. Something that a single person cant do on his own. A business, charity, a house... anything. As long as it involves more people than just yourself. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Embarrased myself at a networking partyI am coping with stuff but now I use mostly lifting and casual conversations with people to cope. Alcohol is only for social events, where usually I dont drink much. Just spent the whole day drinking and smoked some weed. After which I wasn't too good with it all | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong for not giving my gf constant attention?If your frame is strong enough, stay quite and invite her for food and give her the low down when she mentions any accusations. (Make sure its stern) if she accepts them keep her. If do not want to be in a relationship where the other person doesnt trust you. Say that, deal with the emotional outburst from a place of caring and she will probably say sorry. If she gets mad, let her leave without saying anything. Worked for me in the past, flows on the idea of being the oak and not the wind. Good … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Not as aroused in LTR as I used to beMaybe she might just be too submissive and you need someone who offers a bit more of a challenge | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else just get annoyed by people's presence?Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else just get annoyed by people's presence?Its construction so yeah, for now you can. Hoping to change that in the future when I'm more established | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | LTR overly affectionate when she thinks I'm mad at herNo man, look. When you're in a relationship there are other larger games at play then the little petty shit. There is a give and take for how the person behaves with you and how you behave with them. If your an arrogant cunt she will be submissive as it's the only way to make that work. Now you as the arrogant cunt who is better than her at everything let's a few of her negative quality traits slide she'll over look your dickishness. Otherwise she will start to fight for control and you go into … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | LTR overly affectionate when she thinks I'm mad at herLol stfu. LTR's aren't the same as plates. Jeez | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Captain Retard Fucked Up AgainJust gave me the starkest whiplash, focus on yourself (lift) and then make some good guy friends. You seem to be in a needy place in life, find people you can comfortably be needy with. If you cant find them, then make them. (Find people who admire you and then open up to them, exactly how a girl friendzoned guys) you'll start to feel more secure after opening up to people. Then use those times of vulnubility to build your confidence little by little. Go from there. There a lot of condensed info… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Frame, abundance and 1-ncountGet some hobbies brother, start working out, drawing, what ever the fuck. Just do something. Once you start getting good at it, people will notice, especially working out. Then just brush off the compliments as if you're doing it for a higher purpose than there compliments, which you are. And you will have more abundance than anything you can imagine. Sounds like your marriage is going south. Take this advice with a grain of salt and do what works best. But I would take a vacation from it all an… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Do any recovering Beta Males come to despise your past self?Na just respect the fuck out of that guy for turning me in the beast that I am today. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 03:43 AM |
| 5 | How To Get Your Shit Together: A Guide For 15-to-25-Year-Old Pieces of ShitMan, as a 24 year old who just went through depression, loneliness and general feeling of failure. Can say that this guide is on point. Everything said here is exactly how I went about it to be where I am today. The point about defining yourself by what you can do and not what you associate yourself with that others can do. I've seem this work wonders. Being a social recluse I tried for a long time to do things others did to fit in. It wasn't until I picked up hobbies on my own and just did them… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/19 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Lonely being an alpha?I mean what I'm learning recently is that being a lone wolf only works if your good at shit and have something to back it up. I.e you have a talent, good at ball, have good taste in music something along those lines. The more you have the longer you can naturally hold your alpha state in different context. This will make people accept your cocky ness and alpha mannerisms and not try and put you down but rather do there best to please you. Focus on your shit, get good at it by whatever means beta… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Totally unmotivated to try. Too much failure for scraps."I still have nothing worthy to my name" Try an enjoy the little things. Waking up in the morning and just feeling good when you stretch yourself awake in bed. Got up, brushed your teeth and they look white. God damn, check your self out. Do a little dance in front of the mirror and get dressed. Enjoy your own company. Find someone to share this enjoyment you have with your life, could be a family member who would laugh at you or a girl who would be fascinated by your excited outlook on life. Ke… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Talking to menYeah, seems like I have to visit Carnegie's book again and I'll give asking people "what there role is" a solid shot. but yeah I use to be quite ruthless and now have switched it over to being kind. I find people think that I am too needy when I do start being nice or i lose frame control and shit goes south. Working on it but would like to hear if you guys have thoughts on being nice but not too nice. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Talking to menNo, I created this job out of a need I saw in the business I knew I could fulfill. But when it comes to speaking in a manner that we have some new opportunities people tend to get inflated and begin to act as if I'm going to beg them to join me or they look at me with heavy skepticism. I find I lose frame in those situations. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Talking to menI guess this might be where I am lacking, I usually go with asking them how things are but am finding that doesn't really help. So I've started watching sports and making comments about the weather, and have been having some success with that. Not too sure what else I could do, would like to hear your thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble talking to peopleYeah started to realize that you do need people with no real utility in your life. Great way to put it btw. And yeah just picked up the book. Gona give it a read. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble talking to peopleI'm finding as much as outcome independence and idgaf were great in making me more social, they didnt help much in helping get people together to build something. I recently started a business and I find it hard to have that attitude and still move in a productive direction, same goes for family. But it works well to the outside world and honestly think cause I've been stuck with work and family for so long that my thinking has changed to that being the only mindset. But yeah I'll try and focus … | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble talking to peopleThanks man, I'll give that a shot. The one thing I have been having a problem is people liking me enough to invite me out. I'm usually quite reserved and like lengthy deep conversation and everytime I talk to someone new I get this look of slight wtf. Before they peace out. So I'm having a hard time getting them to like me. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of youtuber NollaGirl504? Is she a unicorn?Lol, good one | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys think of youtuber NollaGirl504? Is she a unicorn?What she says and what she does are two different things. You dont know her in real life so stop obsessing over her. You're wasting your time and ours. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I find my mission? I’m struggling to wake up.Go do something and speak to people. It could be anything just pick a list of topics you like roll a dice and go do it. Works out great if not the next one and keep doing this till you find something you like and/or a group of people you like. Then talk to them, eventually topics like what are you doing, what's your plan for the future comes up and then you can elaborate it to them and they will help guide you to a suitable path. This is the way I'm doing it and it's working well. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitFeeling the same way lately, started working on pursuing goals to better my career and overtime I speak to someone it always feels like I'm speaking to an npc's to help me get to where I am going. And when I hit the gym I always feel like I'm just leveling up my strength. I dont know if this is weird or not; I dont care. It just feels so good to know that I'm leveling myself up. Kudos on cutting out gaming did the same a year ago but keep in mind once you feel comfortable without it, dont be a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Exposing How Women Manipulate MenThat's when you can just call her a crazy bitch who's trying to ruin your life cause she couldnt get over a break up. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 03:25 AM |
| 4 | The worst date I have had in my life.Had a similar experience but ended up plating her for a couple of months. She was shy, quite, barely spoke a lick of english but she was fucking hot. Everyone who met her through me would always point out how hot she was so I kept her around. I would speak and she would listen. I could say anything and she would try her best to understand, if not I would take the time to explain. Seems like over investing but ever since then i have been able to teach people things really well. Just having to bre… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsHow? She gives her pussy up on demand. Duty sex is not the same as regular sex. He's lost her and would need to either find someone else or be good enough to make her uncomfortable enough of losing him. So hit the gym | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsAre you yelling me she wont jump on Chad's cock if she can the chance? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - wife suggested I go elsewhere for blowjobsShes looking for better options, distance yourself and start working on yourself. Fix your diet, lift, dress better; anything to improve your smv. She will shit test you, just keep doing you and eventually either she will cave or you'll find someone better. Good luck | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | On quiet confidenceYeah I find I'm not that calibrated or have enough frame when it comes to other social circles so I end up saying things that usually dont work in the context. Working on it, getting better day by day. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 07:20 PM |
| 10 | On quiet confidenceYeah moved back home and don't know what it is but when ever I am around extended family I can say anything and people start laughing. Act how ever i want and bring out an air of carelessness and boom laughter. Now just gotta bring that over to my social circles. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever forgive someone or even be cordial with them if they are the reason you lost a large chunk of your life?By product of my environment I mean acted like I had nothing to lose and alienated myself due to how i was being treated | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever forgive someone or even be cordial with them if they are the reason you lost a large chunk of your life?It wasn't public and I dont know what happened in the meeting. They had good evidence against me and no none of them tried to contact me except for a couple of guys who pulled me aside in person and said they weren't a part of it. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever forgive someone or even be cordial with them if they are the reason you lost a large chunk of your life?Other people were the reason I was kicked out. A fault was exaggerated out of proportion and it was used by a select few to kick me out. Some people did but I had given them a tough choice go with the influencal and stay in the frat or pick my side and risk losing it. I just didnt have enough friends to back me just a few and those are the ones I would like to go back to | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever forgive someone or even be cordial with them if they are the reason you lost a large chunk of your life?I alienated myself, acted as of I had nothing to lose. Became a product of my environment. Made some mistakes that are hard to come back from and never apologies for them. So I want to go back and do so at least for the solace of my mind | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Porn has ruined my life. This is the rock bottom. I can't tell this to anyone. I can't post this anywhere else. Please help guys.Try and only tap when your horny, not when yout hard (two different things). And when you are horny breath heavy (from your core) when wanking yourself. That'll do two things, you'll last longer and get to enjoy the orgasm more and it'll tire you out so you wont need to keep going. Then relax for a bit and go do something. Now make sure you do all with with no porn, just try and seduce yourself, if you need to start by just looking at a nude pic then transition out of it. This I find works bette… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Self-Confidence Must Be VerifiedIt's a sad reality when you think your the shit and you have nothing to show for it. Not only will you doubt yourself but people will begin to put you down as well. It wont be on purpose but it'll be subtle jabs that they had nothing to do with. I.e you walk into a bar and your buddy gets hit on and he brushes a 8 off like it's annoying. Then deep down you'll get this gut sinking feeling where you will know your buddy us just more attractive then you and will push you to work harder. So somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Feeling suicidalI find parenting my parents add to my social market value. I can go out for a dinner with families and take mine. To that token, they are able to converse and get along with other people rather than being stuck in there own world. This was I can build my image as a family man, which is quite useful in getting to some of the positions I need to in terms of business. I can see where you are coming from and that is a fair assessment but I came back to my parents broken in every sense of the word an… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Feeling suicidalYeah man, I found the people around me were useless and I did and still blame them when it all goes to shit. But now thinking about it, they just dont know any better so I took a step back, let them take some of my responsibilities and started to work on them. Teaching them my ways and how to act, talk and behave. This has drastically changed out relationship for the better and cemented my presence in the home. Now if I were to take on all the responsibilities I had before I could lean on them f… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Feeling suicidalI think I'm going to stay away from meds as they can just be as addicting and wont help me build a conducive lifestyle that I want to live but I will definitely go see a physiologist. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 05:29 PM |
| 10 | Feeling suicidalYeo actually fuck this shit. Imma get my shit together and figure it all out and come back in a month, having figured something out and I'll post an update. Enough of this feeling sorry for myself shit. Time to grab life by the balls. Thank you boys! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Feeling suicidalYour right, I do feel like I am destined for better things. Just dont know what yet and am having a hard time figuring it out or at least some path to it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Feeling suicidalYeah took some t3 to try it out yesterday and smoked a cigarette today. Going to cut them out. Looks like it is just that. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Feeling suicidalBro the love, got me all teared up. Yeah man that one thing that makes me happy is performing my music in front of everyone and just sharing it. Thanks man. I'm going to stick to this! | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Your commitment is worthless if you have nothing to offer.Yeah, I find this can also be attributed to friends and family. The ones you can have around to bring you up and figure things out are the ones worth keeping. Or you will have to dominate and teach them your ways. No way around doing at least one of those two without sacrificing your success. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | As long as you're not marrying her, the right amount to "invest" in a woman is however much it takes to get laidThis was well put together and every word was written to be read. No fluff, no rhetoric, nothing. Honestly, appriciate you putting this together and will be following your future posts. One thing I would say is in this category of thought would be to add pursuing your oneitus. Now this might not be a popular opinion and I do welcome discussion but a lot of the skill I developed in dating was by following through with girls I absolutely loved (oneitus) from the beginning and fucking up my way thr… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Are men never taught to sell themselves ? How can we learn this ?Eye contact and how many people take the time to listen to what you have to say. I find that when in relaxed and try to explain something to someone slowly calmly and assertively. If there into me they have a hard time holding eye contact if not they hear what I have to say and answer or not here what I have to say and give the wrong answer. Note, also establishes dominance from the get go. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 03:52 AM |
| 2 | NoFap and TRPAh honestly it was probably your body yearning for some comfort. That might be something you should work on, try developing better relationships with family. This is probably the easiest to do as you can just ask them to join you in a mutual activity like chess or some shit or just join them in whatever they are doing. This way you can help them do what they need done and you get some comfort from the human interaction. Use this to build your character and to learn how to build connections with … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize with men?How would you say would be the best approach to get involved in those circles. Is it just a respect based committee in those or is there a way as a new lifter I could befriend then? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize with men?Yeah let me just break my ribs | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How to socialize with men?Socializing with men to me goes along the lines of trying to do things together. Can be something difficult like running a marathon or something stupid like chugging beers till someone pukes. I guess the rivalry and camaraderie of the relationship between men, real friends. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How to socialize with men?No, it doesn't seem like it. There a lot of work to be done but my question is when are you the best version of yourself? How can you tell? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize with men?Lol, not wrong. I'm use to talking to/ chasing girls, got away from that now and am trying to focus on myself more and socialize with guys. I'm finding the skills I developed talking to girls do not translate well to socializing with guys and am trying to figure out what guys respect in equals and people there are better than in order to be friends with them and or mentor them. The goal is to find a committee that I can help improve and that can help me improve. If that doesn't happened I'm okay… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How to socialize with men?I can understand that but how do you make friends to go hiking, fishing or get drunk with. Just trying to build a community where we could go do shit. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:19 PM |
| 7 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?Correction. Be a good father to your father. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Why "I am the prize" mentality is bullshit and what you need to do insteadThis is hundred percent true all the I am the prize mentality did for me is make me an entitled douche. Sure I was getting girls but the better ones, the ones I wanted slipped away. Same with business more i went in with this mentality to work and to interviews i noticed a distaste in people's mind about me. I could feel it. This resulted in me being on the ball all the time and the stress got to me. I was stuck in a position of I have to be right or I lose frame and smv mindset sacraficing soci… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with my productivity since not being a looser anymoreSeems like you need a routine. Something you can do every day, the same way. This will allow you to use your full potential when you need it most. In this case when you need to grind. One thing to keep in mind is that back when you started you probably didnt have much care for your mental and physical health it was all about getting out of that rut. But once you do and see it is nice on the other side you don't have to struggle. Now you can take this time to grow in all aspects of life then havi… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Trying to Become a High Value Male. Need Advice.Do your best to make guy friends. Ask people for advice and listen. Try your best to keep the conversation going without sounding too needed and eventually you'll get a guy who's willing to mentor you in what ever it is you asked him for advice on. This way you gain a person looking out for you because you respect what they have to say and they will give you advice you didnt even know you needed. Sure you could do this alone and become Chad with 10/10 smv haha jokes you wont. As much as we like … | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 01:48 AM |
| 3 | What should I do / does it mean if my gf calls me to vent about her problems?You could try man to woman frame where you take charge of the conversation. Try things like summarizing what she said to get a bette RV understand of what she's saying and to tell her that your listening and respond with an answer(this answer could be how she's feeling and just blame on that). There will always be an awkward pause after but she will get the point or there will be no awkward pause and she'll say thanks or why she was saying what she was saying. Maybe she's tired or pmsing. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | I seem brain dead, how can I address this?Yeah, I find when I do. I have nothing to say or I just word vomit when I say so something. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I seem brain dead, how can I address this?I use them to relax myself at the moment. I have some anxiety issues I have to deal with | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I seem brain dead, how can I address this?Yeah just got vitamin d checked and it is low. This actually might be it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as "My one perfect calling / life purpose / passion". This is also another form of BP oneitis. Passion is a way of being. When oneitis in life goes down, many more possibilities open up that you didn't notice earlier.I agree, being passionate about something is one of those phrases you use to describe what you are doing in life or have done. Almost in a Stockholm syndrome towards what you are doing. The same way when a happy couple tells you "I knew from the beginning that he was the one". We all know it's not true but we say awww to support there belief that it's the right thing to do. Another thing to note is that only the hard things in life need this type of communal support. Where you have people being … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | FRAME - At The Atomic Level (NOOBS READ)Wish I found a post like this before. I made the mistake of taking holding frame quite literally and never giving in. Just know when your back is against the wall and you've messed up. No matter what the other person does make sure you apologies. Although you've been playing power games and holding frame like a boss. When you mess up, owning it and making it right will go a long way in how people around you perceive you and the relationships with the people who you were trying to hold frame and … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/18 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRPSee in that position I would've been tempted to just speak to the guy and politely say what I though was going on. Guys usually cave and agree when you label whats going on. Then tell him to check out trp. Would you guys consider doing that why or why not? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you speak to people who are better than you in your career or talents?I ask questions out of respect and listen but I find it hard to add to the convo without being rude. Then I get anxious and nervous when responding. And usually get a bit of a stutter. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you speak to people who are better than you in your career or talents?Hmmm, this just made me realize that I've started to ask for permission rather than be direct. So asking questions would you mind explaining that to me rather than explain it to me. Thanks for that | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you speak to people who are better than you in your career or talents?How do you not let that get to your head. I find it difficult to work with people like that and am quick to shut down any aggression but its costing me as I'm realizing now im losing it on valuable information which just isn't available from other sources or at least it feels like it. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Did any of you ever beat the over-thinker mentality? What did you do?Doing things that really challenged me without making me anxious. Learning the piano and guitar. Heavy lifting. Having serious conversations with people while holding eye contact. Taking the time to look at people and listen to them, I.e giving them the floor to speak. All these also gave me a huge SMV boost as well so it's a win win. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm a "good listener" but conversation fizzles out after a bit.Honestly I think I might lose patients when listening to them something i have to work on. Almost feels like when you stubble over your feet but in a conversation. I cant seem to find the right time or place to say certain things so I just go with the typical u hmmm | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 03:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm a "good listener" but conversation fizzles out after a bit.I find it awkward to interject unless they ask and when I try to the conversation just dies probably cause they can tell I'm annoyed. Don't know how to not be annoyed | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Describe yourself from the moment you found the redpill vs the person you are at this momentI was a pathetic anti social frustrated chump. Angry at the world for not being perfect and always trying to prove that I was the best. Now I just don't give a fuck until I have to prove something. Spend a lot of time improving myself and the people around me; my family and friends, by just kindly pointing out there flaws and helping them fix them. Now I have close connections with the people around me. Working on honing my crafts and talents and all in all enjoying life. Still have a lot to wor… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.Try finding one thing that makes you forget everything. You'll know what it is when you do it. I won't give you any examples cause I don't want you to think of anything in specific. I want you to look for a feeling of empty silence in your head where your doing something and its challenging enough where you have to think but your doing it slow enough that its enjoyable. If you were to do this 'activity' at night you should feel sleepy, try and breathe and let it just be your thing. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women want you to win the gameCouldn't agree with it more. Was talking to a girl for the past month or so and can say without a doubt she was much more experienced than I but she gave me every chance in the book until I fumbled and got upset. Lost my frame and lost the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | any tips on how to stop focusing on sex (nofap, noporn, monk mode) etcI mean you wouldn't be in this position if work was like what I mentioned before. Another thing you could do is join sports leagues. (Try for more mixed communities male/female) | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 08:15 PM |
| 9 | any tips on how to stop focusing on sex (nofap, noporn, monk mode) etcTry volunteering someplace. The company you get is usually a bunch of people who just want to relax and talk. It's really calming and it will help you think of other things than sex, especially if you're not social. Itll force you to try and have better conversations. Try shelters, political campaigns etc | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Learn to contend with other men.When your dealing with guys who are socially savvy they will try and overtake the conversation to there favour and if you dont do something about it, you risk losing a certain level of admiration from the crowd. If you lose too much you risk people just trying not to associate with you. Hold your own and they fall head over heels for you. The way your talking it just seems there arnt many socially savvy and aggressive men in your crowd. As much as it forces you to compete you learn to enjoy it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 3 | The fine line between breaking frame and social calibrationDepends on the crowd, I usually go in holding my frame and if I like them I slowly let it down. Sometime you just have to be okay with giving other people some control. I think of it more like extending a hand for them to hold so they dont drown trying to stay afloat in my frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 03:48 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl goes quite?How would you suggest I do that? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being a stuttering walkover?Try saying something you know to be completely true to a mirror with as much anger as you can put out without being loud ie stern voice. Works to get me out of a stuttering stupor. Repeat till it feels natural. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Shes leading on a lot of people, how should I approach this?You're right haha | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Shes leading on a lot of people, how should I approach this?New to the city and have made quite a few good friends out of it so right now. I think this is my best bet to get friends who kind of challenge me. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The God HoleHe didn't use the show as an example. He used the post he had seen. Should be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Lifes taking a shift and I dont know how to cope with it.You're right I am, but this is something as my understanding of being a man holds me to. I'm not asking for a cop out. I just want to know how I could cope. Life isn't easy no matter what you do. So it's not a matter of running away from my problems and finding new ones. Id rather deal with the ones I have. Maybe this is a horrible idea. Sure, but I'm doing this so I just want to know how to COPE with it and still come up on top. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Lifes taking a shift and I dont know how to cope with it.Yeah | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Lifes taking a shift and I dont know how to cope with it.I can and have while I was a university | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Lifes taking a shift and I dont know how to cope with it.I'd love to man and I know this will hold me back but my dad never had anyone and I cant leave him. Hes not the best but he trys and I cant blame him for that. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 04:47 PM |
| 4 | A Man's Guide to Conquering AcneHmmm, I thought i was the only one who noticed that beef helped. Everytime I eat steak (no potatoes) my face clears up. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Bouncing back from a hard fall. A brief note from a broken man.Agreed, and to add to this constantly failing damages you mentally on another degree. It shoots your confidence and it sucks but it can be something people should use to there advantage. Take it as a sign they might have done something wrong and develop that confidence slowly but surely. This way you're confidence will be a humble sort of confidence where your not being cocky for being cocky sake or fitting in. Rather because you truly believe in yourself and that is something I find this sub re… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Bouncing back from a hard fall. A brief note from a broken man.Fuck man, I've been broken for quite some time now and I cant tell you how much having a routine helps. It keeps you going, gives you a normal to allow you to experiment with new things. A sort of home if you will. Needed this to keep me on track. Thank you! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I can be quite condescending, how to lighten the mood.Fair, confidence and boldness is definitely something I need to be more consistent with so I can see that. But yeah i usually don't care about social mishaps it's just when it keeps happening that it comes to my attention. Sometimes I do say things that are quite bold and makes people uneasy is there a way to back peddle from that? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 09:40 PM |
| 9 | Don't fall into the trap of binary thinking, there is such a thing as a middle groundI've recently been thinking a lot in line with this logic and recently even been debating the idea everything we do with women also applies to men. Be it a subsect of men but I have seen it time and time again where trp knowledge that I would use on women would apply to men. Even ideas such as AWALT and such where guys behave the exact same way as people describe women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | The women that are obsessed with you want to push you downI get that this post can be an example of this but could you possibly elaborate a little more as to why? I was dating this girl a while back who I use to give advice/mentor her in business. It didn't end well, would just like to know if this could have been a reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Does the game ever end?The game of having to hold my frame all the time | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I am becoming an incelIt could be clubs anywhere, I like poetry so i just went to a couple of meeting. Had some casual conversations and after going there a while some of us hung out after the club. Grabbed a few pints etc. You could do this with any type of activity you like but I would stay away from anti social social clubs or where the people are just pussys. If you can respect them try and spend more time with them. All this was the hardest for me to figure out but the key to socializing with people better than … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I am becoming an incelJust go out and be as social as possible. Join clubs, lift and just have fun. I know its simple advice and it's probably been said a thousand time but I was in the same boat a year and a half ago and now I've had a couple relationships, a couple hookups and lifes just good. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I properly apologies to my friend?Thats the thing we can still hang out and it's fine, by fine I mean it never comes up but I lost his trust which means he won't take my word for shit like he use to. This guy is really mature for his age | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Social Networking - The Best Tools I Used to Boost My Social Proof (Including Examples)Recently, I've noticed when another leader type personality takes over the conversation I tend to go quite and start to resent that person. I usually play it off and go along with there jokes but sometimes it just seems improbable cause the other person just keeps cutting me off or something else along those lines. How about do you guys deal with a situation like that? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Whats the next move?Could you elaborate or point me in the right direction, articles, pua etc | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.Honestly, in the same shoes as you were back in college. I want girls to be loyal to me but I'm not to them, how did you get over that cause I'm having trouble not accepting them not falling head over heels for me. It gets hard to hold frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineeringI had dreams man. I wanted to be an engineer. I wanted to change the world and I was on this Nikola tesla high for 3 years. Pushing myself past any discomfort I could possibly think of. I use to sleeps 2-3 hours a week trying to make myself the best I could think of but I crashed and burned. Got sick. Developed a million food intolerances. And this was when I was clean, no drugs, no booze. It didn't work out so yeah now I'm lost. I've thought about it long and hard and just don't know what to do… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineeringI like rapping and free styling, I like doing parkour and scaling building. Hell I also enjoy the shit out of chilling and getting fucked up on booze. I also love hitting on chicks. But none of these things are going to make me money right now and that's what pisses me off. Like wtf am I suppose to do | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineeringI'd have to be doing something that involves me moving around all day. I couldn't do anything I have to sit for too long. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Relationship advice?Oh believe me I'm not dating her because she's white. It's cause she's the first person I've ever had a relationship with. But, yeah I have been looking for a while now and I might just do that. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Made it clear to girl I like her and continues to try and friend zone me.Yea, your right! Will do, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I survive being alone?Yea, i get aggitaed and anxious | /r/askTRP | 08/09/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How can I survive being alone?Yea thats the plan so far, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 10:47 PM |
| 1 | How can I survive being alone?I have been doing that a lot and have made some great friends. But sometimes I just have to be alone, whether it be studying for exams or driving for days alone etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I survive being alone?Why polymer/nylon clothes? Btw that what I hope to do once out of school lol | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | How can I survive being alone?Yea I always make sure I speak with others on a daily basis, cause otherwise I just become unproductive. But sometimes I really need to get something done or just can not socialize due to circumstance and need a way to cope, I tryed weed and alcohol before and it worked quite well but again I would rather not | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Moved into apartment with a life long friend, his GF (the guest) is Chinese and freaked over me smoking weed in the living room. I'm thinking his relationship with her is pathetic, wanted to hear some opinions of red pill individuals.I agree with you on the weed and making you unmotivated. Heres an article about it, I think its fairly new http://medicalxpress.com/news/2016-08-marijuana-rats-lazy-cognitively-demanding.html | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/16 05:01 AM |
| 6 | On the second day, he learned how to liftHoly fuck! That was the most awe inspiring thing I have ever read. R.I.P Craig | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 03:35 AM |
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