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| -1 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?Oh she did, buddy ;) | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 5 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?The thing that prompted this question was a link up with a girl. She was playing with my thigh under the table after 5 min of meeting. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?Nah, just wondering. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | How to keep frame after hookup to get moreThanks for the answer, brother. It is so hard, though. Because we talk for like a week and they all bubbly and they seem interested in me but at the end its only sex (I dont complain). I am way too bubbly, I feel like I own something to them. But time after time, girl after girl, its the same. The problem is that the sex is way too good, like they shake, I rail them. But then I lose frame. But its very hard for me to treat them like just a hookup, because I feel like I own them a sweet time afte… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to keep frame after hookup to get moreNo, they don’t want nothing serious. But I treat them well after the hookup (cuddling, etc) which make them run away… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How to keep frame after hookup to get moreI become bubbly after the hookup. They think I want something serious after the hookup. Like I’m good to get the job but not to keep it. It’s jarring. Since they fucked me because I don’t know my looks or my superficial frame sexual dominance I looo like a jacksss after | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with curious, too talkative one night standSame brother. I think we need to be a bit less caring, less providers. Just have a pinch of a POS behaviour. Because most girls associate that behaviour with golden retriever energy, with needy. And at the end, the relation is mostly about sex, and its all superficial. So, I think if wee need to feel better, we have to grow a spine and just be a bit of a fuckboy all through and through. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?Hinge | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 10:11 PM |
| 6 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?Me. Granted ts not consistent. Its mostly 20-24 year old women that party a lot. But I still bed 10 women a year. Its a number games, that it. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 11:12 PM |
| 7 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?I think I'm very much the perfect guy to respond you. I've hooked up with 40 plus women only through Hinge, etc. And I've never been keen to going on dates, its a hassle most of the times, and I think you do that because you are honest with yourself and feel that even going on a date when sex is the goal is a waste of time because at the end sex its all that matters. Well, I'd say that you have to go for a young demographic, like 20-23. Reduce your standars, be sexual straight up and something w… | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 10:42 PM |
| 12 | How to Phrase Decent-Paying Job on Dating Profile?Put the industry as a whole as your job. Like, for ex. If you are a teacher, say you work in education, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Should I go for it ? Is she just being nice ?Yeah, shes 21 after all. My dating demographic, after all. Its just the comment that threw me off. But yeah, you are right. I will shoot my shot, nothing to lose, invite her drinks and thats it. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Should I go for it ? Is she just being nice ?So, update. She still gave me the eyes today, tilting her head and so on. But while I was sitting she was having a talk with some girl coworkers and gay guys. She was talking who she wants to marry rich, to have a house and so on. I got taken by that, i really bummed me. She was still giving me the eyes and all, but I dont know if i should text her... Like, she is into me but this barrier... | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:02 AM |
| 15 | Why women pull away even when things are ‘going well’— and how to react when it happensDrop it. Too grown to be playing these games | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 04:21 AM |
| 17 | Why women pull away even when things are ‘going well’— and how to react when it happensHow old was she? Younger girls might like the thrill but not the subsequent baggage | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best city in the "world" to date and does weather matter?All but Montréal. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Does subtle flirting works ?Yeah, the clingy would be a thing. I just think that since I'm always high energy during dates they get friend kinda vibes. But when i'm calm and collected and we hook up I show my bubbly side which contrasts heavy with the calm side and I look needy, or eager to see them again, which in part its true. Thats why I trying to dose my bubbly side. | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | How to hold frame when getting fuck me eyesIt’s not really an HR situation. I will be doing a job for a company and she’s the responsible of the company. She’s not my boss or whatever. They were fuck me eyes, but then today I was feeling low energy and we barely talked. I don’t lose nothing texting her after the job is done since I won’t be doing this type of work anymore. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How to hold frame when getting fuck me eyesThink I have fumbled again. I was feeling low energy today. I don’t know, I have moments while I get the signs I just become numb or not into despite being really into her. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 11:11 PM |
| 7 | How to hold frame when getting fuck me eyesI did that. I haver her number. Should i hit her up with a date after the job is done ? | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 12:44 AM |
| 7 | How to hold frame when getting fuck me eyesThe situation was this. Girl I never seen, meet her for a contract at work. Shows me the area. Then when she was telling me the following schedule for the next days, she was giving me the eyes, and telling me “ does that work with you?” Idk | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | How to hold frame when getting fuck me eyesI tend to get nervous | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 05:22 PM |
| -5 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Red flag. But treat with caution. Suggest a low stake date. If she says busy still and doesnt suggest herself, drop it. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | What’s something oddly specific a girl did to flirt with you on a date that was memorable ?Yeah. Then we had sex in my car. She was very blunt with her seduction. Very nice girl. She looked exactly like AOC, the politician. Sometimes I miss her lol. | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 03:46 PM |
| 5 | What’s something oddly specific a girl did to flirt with you on a date that was memorable ?We were near a lighthouse. The water was rough. I said, jokingly, id throw you there. She said: do it, and grab my hands to put it on her neck. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Playfullness vs manly energy when to calibrateThanks for the comment. I think that the balance is the hardest on dating because it can be the deciding factor, regardless if you vibe with the girl. I think with high energy guys that talk too much like me, its kinda always an insurmontable task to know how to show the manly sexual guy. Because we use our high energy playful side to create interest or to break the ice. I can do the bold manly but its never well calibrated because I show too much energy or golden retriever energy and then switc… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How to approach this girl at classlobster better | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:21 AM |
| 2 | How to approach this girl at classThanks for this, bro. I need to take action, for once. Too used to dating apps hook ups that get nowhere. I know the chances are not on my side but I have to go for it. What fucks me over is that I've been with girls a bit more beautiful than her, but it was always on the context of a hookup, come over type of thing. No this context. I will accept that probably outcome, and just honor my word of going after what I want. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How to approach this girl at classSo, asking her out is the way ? I really want to know this chick, and have a connection outside dating apps, really. Maybe im socially inept, but having a gradual attraction its kinda impossible for me. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How to approach this girl at classI kinda do hence the asking lol. All my relationships started from online dating, I've approached people, women but when i was like 19 ; im rusty as hell. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to approach this girl at classYeah, I understand your point. But wouldnt be weird to ask her out when we havent even lock eyes ? Like, I know and agree with all you say. But if she rejects me its gonna be a tough next 5 classes... | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How to flirtBe playful, show her contradictions, challenge her, touch her act like a kid but with intent | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Its not how many but how. Need ideas to break this barrierI do, to the point we kiss sometimes. Its that sometimes i get lost on the sauce ; like I act like a virgin mid date, or say romantic stuff and its over. Its like I've been so used to girls showing me clear signs that I dont know what to do at all when its neutral. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Yeah, for a 60 year old man 20 -24 is the best. You weirdo. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 10:11 PM |
| -1 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Youre such a god at bad takes | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?"The life stage gap was enormous with them having no financial security, minimal emotional maturity, and their views of life after college were pretty unrealistic" This is really the core issue. No sexual connection will occult this. During these dates, these girls have told me stuff like : "I know how to work me" another one told me "I have to get a bit drunk when I meet somebody", or another " would you have sex with a guy if tone really pretty girl told you it was the only chance youd fuck he… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Where did I say they werent people ? Kinda weird, out of context comment that is. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Thats the problem. Outside of the bedroom, we dont connect. Before the sex and the flirting its nice, but once we have sex, we dont connect. I remember once, this girl, after we had sex, and I was droping her home, I was trying to make convo, and seh became all dry : giving me one word answers. So, i stopped talking to her and it was all silence the whole way. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 08:57 PM |
| -4 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?I want a friends with benefits type of deal, but with whom I can actually talk | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 07:37 PM |
| -6 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Like a fwb but with whom I can actually have convos after sex | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 07:36 PM |
| -6 | Is dating younger college girls worth it ?Nothing to relate with | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itShe said this : We met 10 minutes ago, and you had already decided that it wasn't interesting and you didn't want to continue the conversation. I literally told you like three times that I needed time to look at the menu and you just kept changing the subject… of course I’m not following. Then again, I do not know you, it is extremely normal for someone to take time to warm up to people. It was a first date for me too… can't I also be nervous and not know what to talk about??? Also, it wasn’t li… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itUpdate: She texted me this : We met 10 minutes ago, and you had already decided that it wasn't interesting and you didn't want to continue the conversation. I literally told you like three times that I needed time to look at the menu and you just kept changing the subject… of course I’m not following. Then again, I do not know you, it is extremely normal for someone to take time to warm up to people. It was a first date for me too… can't I also be nervous and not know what to talk about??? Also,… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itShe texted me this lol : "We met 10 minutes ago, and you had already decided that it wasn't interesting and you didn't want to continue the conversation. I literally told you like three times that I needed time to look at the menu and you just kept changing the subject… of course I’m not following. Then again, I do not know you, it is extremely normal for someone to take time to warm up to people. It was a first date for me too… can't I also be nervous and not know what to talk about??? Also, it… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itI don’t see the selfish part? But ok. I was honest with herself and myself. She gave signs enough of not being into the convo. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itI don’t think I was brutal. I told her : I found you very attractive, you’re my type (she smiled at that) and told her, it’s just connection, I sense it early on or not. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itI think it was a mix of both. I understand people opiniom of giving it more time. I joked with her, asked her open end questions. But her body language did it for me. I couldnt see myself keeping the convo that long. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itSpot on. While shes my type greatly, what just did it for me is when i asked her : So, how you enjoying the city (shes new) ; oh, I love it, i love the parties and the frats. Im 27 living on the suburbs with my own house, that party era is distant for me... | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itWhats bizarre is that she was very into planning the date. She even told me that the first round was on her. Then, when we arrive and all, I try to order on the same menu as her, but she tells me dry : look the scan code and see. For me she got mad because shes very pretty, young and shes not used to getting rejected. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itYeah, great advice. I just think, or at least in my personal dating history (online dating since im 19... countless dates and all) , that the moment you ask the other "is everything good, I dont see you engaged" is over, because the signals are too strong. Her checking out the waiter also did that for me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itHer body language was off, I did joke around calling her chamaquita (endearing world in mexican lingo ; shes mexican and im latino too), but it felt like she wasnt into it ; the energy, the vibes werent there. I saw me carrying the convo for the whole night, so I dipped. While being respectful of course. Its first time it arrives to me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itThanks, I will definetly use that approach. Regarding this situation, perhaps I was impulsive. But at the moment it felt right for me. She was being very short with her answers, barely eye contact, and even checking out another dude. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itThe awkward stuff was created because I told her there wasnt a connection AFTER ordering the drinks. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itYeah, I totally get that. And thats why I feel bad and bit remorseful. But her body language towards me was off ; I gave her opportunities to expand the topics and so on. I myself been through those 10 min its awkward, but I just felt it was me carrying the whole convo weight. I might add, I saw her checking out a waiter. So that sealed it for me, also. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itIt was hard, man. She was just giving me nothing to work with. I was easing up but I just felt she wasnt into me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectMontreal bars are crazy, though. Its like 30 $ without tips for two drinks!! | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Paying, feeling disrespectYour view of dating is completely skewed. You've taken my frustration with two specific people's inconsistent behavior and twisted it into a narrative where I have some secret, transactional agenda. My complaint isn't about broken promises or whatever the fuck you assume i cling to ; it's about a lack of respect and honesty. Its about how I sense during those dates that they are more for the fun night rather than to get to know me. When Im trying to engage with them, and they're just laughing ha… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectThat's also an interesting perspective. So, if someone does what 'feels right in the moment,' they can be as unclear as they want? The issue isn't what she 'promised.' It's that being honest and direct is still a valuable trait, even in casual dating. Also, your characterization of women is rather plain. If we follow your advice, they are just pure vibes and just react to what goes on the date. Of course they have expectations as well. Regarding the old "people dont owe you nothing" argument, wh… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectThanks for the post. Sorry, but i dont know why it appears like that but I didnt ask her to twerk. We were talking about dancing and i asked her if was able to do that. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectAny types about framing other than just to make her prove to me ? And how can it be introduced in convo? | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectIm upset about they expecting me to pay, no saying thank you. And the whole effect paying has on my approach. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Paying, feeling disrespectYou have the reading comprehension of a ten years old. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Paying, feeling disrespectI dont do dinner dates. Its drinks. But where I live (Montreal) every cool trendy bar gets like 30 $ for two drinks, it sums up. But I will follow that advice, dont invest till I can see something worth it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectThanks for the advice. Its very difficult to me to tease, like Ive done it but its not my go to move ; for me it gets stale quickly... Regarding the paying, Ive been on dates with lots of women, and its only been me paying, every time, without exception. And they take more than one drink, at times. Ill think I have to follow that principle as to frame it that she aint the prize, which is somehting I struggle with. I just thin these two experiences broke me in that regard, broke the gentleman guy… | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectI didnt asked her to twerk. We were talking about dancing and different forms of dancing. The double standard is that she can ask me about my sex experiences and react to it next to other people, but I cant ask her about dancing and twerking. The rest of the advice is solid, thanks. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectWhile I appreciate the comment, you frame it that shes the prize and that I have to win her over. Thats a posture that I want to break from. Im far from prude but she was being a bit loud and reacting to my stories a bit too much. I should have end it there. This whole post regarding the money is that I feel that they least they can do its to say thanks. I also disagree about the "she doesnt own me something" talk. Thats a very bad way of seeing dating. Decency still exists, respect, intentional… | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Paying, feeling disrespectWe do get to know each other. We even kissed. But sometimes, I just either get lost on the convo or im not dominant enough. But they kiss me, but then reject me. So I'm a big overthinker and it makes me question that theres something wrong with me, with my masculinity. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Paying, feeling disrespectThanks for the comment. I just think I contribute to it because last girl for example, I told her : I will take care of you for the night. So she approached it as I just need to show up and be pretty type of thing. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Paying, feeling disrespectWill for real do this. Funny enough, everytime it has been like that, or low money dates, I get the sex. But this situations really bothered me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsIt is a failure since it always happens like that. Ive been in countless dates, last year I saw like 20 girls. It always ends like this. I understand what you say. But when every time it’s like this, I might be the problem. And it’s a failure of my character that I cant connect with a single woman other than sexually. It speaks something about myself. Hence the feeling of failure is more understood. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 12:08 AM |
| -1 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsRather return to my ex if it gets to that point | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsGreat analysis. Thank you. Some points though. At the beginning, we did shared lots of good moments, we touched, she was looking me with interest. Then suddenly, as the date went along it faded. I dont know why, I sincerely dont know why: she stopped being talktative and such. You are also very right I act from a scarcity mindset. One point is this though: I feel it as a failure because I couldnt get her or like being physical with her. I feel that if the girl doesnt show clear interest in me, I… | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsNice way to put it!! | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsDifficult to be dominant we she is yapping about dumpster diving and how she loves being an anarchist. | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyI dont know, the circumstances. Having sex on my car, their apt looking messy. Once the rush of the first minutes of seing them naked for the first time dissapear, I just feel disgusted having sex with them | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyTotally. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyIts very hard, because I've been used to have sex the first date. Because then again I've been on dates with girls I mostly didnt like physically. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyHinge, at coffees, my local library | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyTruth. But I've been with hot ones, and I didnt need to put effort ; granted they were like 22 and in their "hoe era". | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyMhm proabably. But the main problem is that the ones I like have a different total lifestyle than me. They're artsy girls, goths, etc. ; while they might like me online and in person our lifestyles are very different and that might makes it a bit tough to connect. I like them physically but we dont align ; while the others I have sex I might not lie them physically but we have something to share. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Getting laid, but feeling emptyI’m a trucker while studying law and sometimes substitute teacher. I’m working hard to finish well in law school so I can clerk for a judge!! | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Did i eff up hereWe finished the date at 1am. I texted her that like 20 mins after i dropped her home. I saw no response till 8pm next day. The ignored text was : Id take you to the restaurant I told you. Then I sent her the blunt text and she responded like 10 min after. So yeah, it was obvious she was ignoring me. | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Did i eff up hereI flirted, I was touchy, we had sexual innuendos. But when i was pushing for like more sexual contact, like touching her leg slighlty she backed off ; when we were holding hands she wasnt as keen., she was into it but not that much into it. Now looking back, she took two drinks and when she took another drink she told me that i should get another one, I told her I was good but she insisted. Its complicated. I dont have success when taking them out and get them to sleep with me. Most times I have… | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:55 PM |
| -1 | Did i eff up hereYeah. I have been that sexual man that doesnt have to even try and the deal is done. I made the moves, etc. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Did i eff up hereGreat insight. The problem is this. I build the connection, I flirt, etc. Im normal during the dates, but if I dont conclude the date with a kiss or something, and because of past experience I feel like I wont receive a text back or something(low self esteem, I know). With this girl after the date I drove her home, parked, and escorted to her place, she told me : oh what a gentleman. And so on. So the problem is not the date but the after, me questionning myself. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Did i eff up hereWhats the moral of the story then. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Did i eff up hereYeah. Well, we move on. Like I said, if I dont hit the first night I just self sabotage. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:51 AM |
| -2 | Did i eff up hereDid I should not lean on my gentleman side during a first date with a chick that clearly doesnt want anything serious. | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:22 AM |
| 6 | Did i eff up here100$ down the drain I guess smh | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | How to turn this into fwbUpdate: shes coming over again this weekend. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How to turn this into fwb5"8. Shes a bit taller than me. I'm muscular but not lean. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to give up; what should I doI cant lie. Yersteday check, I felt that when she meet me she thought i didnt look like the pics. I got that feeling yet we still had like 4 hour date. A completely waste of gas, money, time. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Wanting to give up; what should I doI have been in so many dates that I got desensitized but still hurts when i see them being all reserved and me have to carry the convo. Like whats the point of going on dates anymore | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to give up; what should I doThey are not high value, just a bit better than average. Funny enough if the girl is fun and talktative I can hold my own and flirty and have sex with them but shy girls feel like a chore for me. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her or not ?It is funny. People like you are the worst redditors ever. Think they know everything about someone by some words. Plain and simple. 1) I didnt become attracted to her over night. First time we talked i wasnt attracted to her. So I didnt even think about making a move. 2) I like her physically. Difficult to attract her when i only see her 5 min every 3 weeks and we are both occupied. So yeah. You saying she knows I like her is just plain ignorance, fake "wisdom" of you, and just very poor thing … | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I text her or not ?Thanks everyone. Yeah it will be weird if I text her like that. I’ll just wait to see her and make a move there. I really like her so I don’t wanna mess up. | /r/seduction | 15/05/24 12:53 PM |
| 3 | What should I doThe ball is on my court. But I think she wants more than just fuck. Or at least not in a car. She was complaining about that. I live with 2 roomates, so its tough. I'd ask her but it'll be more of the same, I think. It would set the tone, i know. But she likes to go for roadtrips and stuff. I'd like to have both. Bang her and have nice activities. But i'm just thrown off by the change of vibe and idk I think she might be saying that just to reject me in a way, which I dont mind. But its mind gam… | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What should I doAfter we had sex I hit her up but the energy wasnt the same. So I said to myself : well, rather just go for a fuck buddy then. And cut the talk. Then when I told her to come over she said yes at first. Then changed her mind and said that we werent looking for the same and she wants more than than. And that I should hit her up if me too want more than this. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What should I doLook. Thanks for the good word, buddy. Real great. 1) I just invited to fuck last time. I havent shown any neediness. I havent hit her up since she told me that if I was open to something more that I should let her know. 2) Why would I call her out ? Bruh she is no my gf or anything wtf. We barely spoke after we had sex, and if we did it was just me ending the convo quick. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Am I getting played ? What does she wants ?She does, she likes to hold hands and kiss. So yeah, thats why im confused. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean, the opportunity is there. Like you said, she wants it, and you too. I dont see any problem. Try to play it cool, hit her up like 2 weeks from now. Since you say that you guys dont sync on a personal level, it makes things easier. The thing is that she wants sex, or finds you attractive. Thats perfect. That also implies that she wont try to build something so waiting a month, so it wont be a problem. See, when girls only want sex they can see guys just as guys see girls when they only wan… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:55 PM |
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