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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:18 AM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:23 AM
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FDS MEMESmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:48 AM
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LEVEL UPmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:12 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:03 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:31 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:17 AM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:58 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:10 AM
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DISCUSSIONmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:37 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:19 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:48 AM
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BOOK REPORTmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:31 PM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 06:28 PM
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DISCUSSIONmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:56 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:44 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:29 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:13 PM
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RANTmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:00 PM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:00 PM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:35 PM
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meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:09 AM
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REMINDER 👑meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:39 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:53 AM
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FDS MEMESmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:19 PM
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LEVEL UPmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:26 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:20 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:33 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:46 AM
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DISCUSSIONmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:27 AM
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REMINDER 👑meecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:21 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:18 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:09 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYmeecy166/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:20 PM
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I remember when I made a post celebrating 20k or sumthing. We've grown so much 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:03 AM
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Ikr lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:52 AM
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Yall stop 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:25 PM
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I don't plan to have kids. No way can I have healthy kids. I would say my mother figures I see in like tv series, movies and novels. Might not be healthy though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:15 PM
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I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:29 PM
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What about women who are friends with all their exes and like being friends with them? How do yall view them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:28 PM
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I'm so jealous of women with mothers that advice them and talk to them? What's that like lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:18 PM
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😂😂😂I'm sorry i can't and I refuse to belive this story. I need receipts 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:06 PM
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A video call can't hide the belly and it can't really show u his height. Like are u gonna ask him to drop his phone and stand in front of it to assess him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:05 PM
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But women are too shallow! Why can't you guys date all the men but we men get to pick who we like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:03 PM
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Not just height but weight too. I'm 5'9 and skinny. I was going to meet up with this guy and he said we were the same height and he was like wow you are my height. Met him in person this guy had to be 5'6, and he had a massive gut belly, like sir you are 25. And it was so big but he hid it in his picture lol. Another red flag is that he literally agreed with everything I said, like even when I was testing him about stuff I don't like, he still agreed with me, trying to pretend to be something he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:01 PM
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The more they say you don't want to know. The more I freaking want to know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:06 PM
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21 lol like you. I used to love and live for it but now I realize that quality over quantity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:58 AM
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I am a selfish person though lol and idgaf. I come first always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:13 PM
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But you are discriminating on me for not wanting to date me a 33 year old father of 3 kids with a baby mama. I'm 21 yall fml, it's so embarrassing that someone like that would even ask me out, i need a cleanse and I rebuke failure men like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:12 PM
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He has to be gay ain't no way around it lol. The bottom doth protest too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:07 AM
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I got u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:05 PM
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Yes but also in the post. I made a mistake by not screenshoting everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:41 PM
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Yes she did. I made a new post. They talked and she broke it off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:40 PM
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Im sorry yall. I made a new post. Not sure how to edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:39 PM
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What do you Mean? They ended things and she said so in the comments. her being happy with what she got means that she broke things off with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:11 PM
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I agree so many short fat guys with pot belly. The worst part Is that I'm tall and skinny and I'm not into the whole opposite attract b.s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:28 PM
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And yall are just bitter single and jealous lol. That's always the comeback
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:26 PM
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It's like you can feel the shift change after they've had sex with you. I really don't think you can use men for sex. You can use them for their money, time, and dates but not sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:18 PM
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Fuckk I just commented this lol. We all think alike 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:17 PM
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I don't even say anything to them. The funny part is that they think they are using the guy, like you are using someone who doesn't release any chemical bond after sex. And without fail the girl always ends up catching feelings. It really is the worst lol. Another one is being so happy that the guy buys them lunch before having sex. I wonder what causes this? Even the most intelligent people I know think it is empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:16 PM
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Thats what I've always wondered. A lot of these girls don't use protections too, like dang spreading and getting std's and ruining your fertility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:12 PM
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But modern feminists have deemed it as empowering. It doesn't matter if it is or isn't empowering. What matters is it is empowering lol. Reminds me of my male "feminist" friend, who likes to preach about women hooking up with different dude is empowering and it's women taking control of their sexuality, and yet can't explain why it is empowering. Like shut up you know it's because it leads to you and other men getting laid, it empowers your dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:11 PM
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I am demisexual. Sometimes I don't even like the label because all it means is that I need emotional connection to have sex with someone, but it's like a normal human need, I guess people preferring one night stand over sex with intimacy have become the new normal and the rest of us get labels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:09 PM
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I think men are the same, just different genre of trash. Not all men are trash but i don't think race determines anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:32 AM
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I swear I thought the stereotype was that white girls are easy and promiscuous and not black girls. Although I'm not a pos that categorizes people based on race so I wouldn't know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:31 AM
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Lol you just left the date? Oh my God i love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:14 AM
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I know lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:34 PM
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Because they are devils. I joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:04 PM
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I understand where you are coming from, but I believe in cutting off toxic guy friends not just all of them. I also have never had feelings for my guy friends and I have a lot of good guy friends and I vet them and any sign of disrespect and they are blocked. I also grew up as the only girl out of brothers so I've always had guy friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:58 PM
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No way, so this is like a pattern with them? Mine doesn't contact me unless she is going through something with a guy and she wants advice, she used me as a therapist for most of her relationship with our other friend until I had to shut that off cause I was sick of it. Funny thing is she went back to him after she came to my room crying and blocking him and now she cut me off. She never listens when I have to tell her anything about a guy lol, I'm actually happy the friendship is over, you live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:58 AM
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I know this sub is about relationships in the sense of dating and marriage, which I've perfectly applied to my life, but I really need to do better when it comes to vetting my friends. Pickme's make horrible friends because all they care about is male attention and they will do anything to get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:33 AM
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I don't know if they actually belive this or they just force themselves to. They sleep around with different guys daily and they convince themselves that they are using those guys instead of the other way around. And I've noticed that they do catch feelings but when it isn't reciprocated they convince themselves that they don't want a relationship anyways. The mental gymnastics is phenomenal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:31 AM
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What the fuck? Like seriously my friend is literally like this, currently ex friend because she prioritized our other male friend over me, but wtf this is exactly her and I was just thinking about that today. I should have known when the first thing she said was she prefers guys cause girls are too much drama, while simultaneously calling herself a feminist. She would also complain about how she doesn't have female friends and I'm her only female friend and now I know why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:30 AM
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Pls pm me the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:03 PM
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Lmao. I really tried to read this, I dont understand how people read this and actually understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:20 PM
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Wow, I am very confused, this is a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:20 PM
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Can you pls link the tedtalk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:20 PM
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Oh my fucking god, why has this being my dilemma for the past month, I’ve been thinking about my personality who I really am. I remember growing up my dad and people around me molded me to be quiet, agreeable, not bother anyone. And now I realize how unhappy I am this way and this isn’t me or my personality so it’s like I am reevaluating my whole personality cause I don’t even know who I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:47 AM
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5’6????? I’m taller and I don’t have any issues. Where do you live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:26 AM
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I believe in healing after breaking up so I take my time, it’s almost being a year and I’m completely healed and ready to date again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:24 PM
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This reminds me of being childfree and the response I get, like how dare you not follow the life script and sacrifice your body and womb to bring some unknown child into this world, selfish woman. It is so interesting what is expected of women, like I signed some sort of contract that i must reproduce or else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:20 PM
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I love showering it helps me relieve stress and elevate my mood so every now and then I shower two times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:56 PM
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People don’t understand our humor on here ): .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:13 AM
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It is very beautiful. I wish I had the energy and creativity to do something cute to my room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:11 PM
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I don’t know why but I’ve noticed it, it is obvious women in their 20’s don’t want them, what the disgusting scum bags don’t realize is that’s the truth comes out in the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:44 PM
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Interesting I’m sure he called his ex a gold digger for not wanting to pay full portion for the rent and dates and also not agreeing to this same prenup, I’m sure he’ll tell the next woman about how both his exes are gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:38 PM
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What about other self defense classes? I plan on starting one soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:01 AM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:24 AM
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😭😭😭 I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:23 AM
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Like let’s pretend marriage doesn’t benefit men the most, and married men are not more likely to get promoted, get paid higher and are respected more in society than single men, let’s project all that into women so they’ll feel the need to hurry up and get married and then we reap all the benefits /s, most people on this sub don’t understand my sarcasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:11 AM
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Well now I’m crying. Luckily I only had one relationship and I’ve learnt so much since then, because of this sub and all the book recommendations. I’m literally reading why men love bitches but it’s like if I never joined this sub I would still be the naive girl I was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:33 PM
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Same issue with my ex, just not social media, I told all my coworkers and friends about him and he would whine about how we can resolve issues ourselves, while asking his friends to speak to me about going back to his shitty self
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:37 PM
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This is why parents should instill self esteem on their children, especially their daughters, value her so much and tell her how beautiful and valuable she is that even what others consider the maximum is seen as the bare minimum to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:33 AM
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This age gap relationships barely works, and the disgusting power imbalance between them, where the men has so much life experiences and the woman is just now figuring herself out, ask me how I know? I know it is hard op, but you can do it and you won’t regret it, you’d probably be looking at this post in the future like wtf I can’t believe I ever needed assistance letting this old fart go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:32 AM
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I am a homebody so I’m never into doing things. But op I think you are fantastic for doing whatever you want to do alone, I dislike when People are scared to go out to eat alone, shop alone, watch movies alone etc. like f$ck what people think, they don’t pay your bills so go out there and live your life. When I start coming out of my shell I plan on doing all this by myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:32 AM
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I honestly hate the fact that I agree but I agree 100%, and I’m not going to lie I saw the post on tiktok and I commented that this is where pickmes end up. Lord forgive me 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:25 AM
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This is so cold blooded but I upvoted. Shit I’ve lost all my empathy for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:11 AM
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This sub literally gets 100-200 subscribers everyday. I hope the true message never gets lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:24 PM
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He is a rapper, machine gun kelly, he also acted in a movie with Megan fox, they claimed to have met on the movie set
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:27 AM
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I know right, I feel like we are the minority in our views, you can’t know a guy for a year, you need more than that, men are very good at hiding their behaviors but with them You’ll start to see who they really are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:57 PM
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Is that healthy for us? I’m thinking of taking a break from reddit, these threads are not good for my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:49 PM
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I was going to post this, but I just so sad and depressed at the post and I deleted it. This is sad 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:49 PM
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My clown ass was always like, oh my god no, you are a good person, and just as good and better as the other guys that chased me🤡🤡🤡, And the clown award goes to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:12 PM
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Never again. That’s all that’s matters. Letting go of the past, learning our lessons and moving on 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:26 PM
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He even told me he doesn’t understand why I’m dating him, why him because he knows other guys way better than him ask me out, I should’ve listened to him 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:25 PM
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Shit happens in life 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:24 PM
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Good job op, you live and you learn, and 3 months is nothing compared to years spent with lvm, and at least you didn’t sleep with him. I’m just looking for the bright side out of everything. Everything in life happens for a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:30 PM
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And no one cares about how everyone says men shouldn’t cry, don’t y’all know that when you say men shouldn’t cry, it makes us want to murder and rape women /s. I’ve seen way too many of those excuses, it’s not fair that some men think it is fine to murder and rape because other men told them they shouldn’t cry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:04 PM
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This is the second one I’ve watched when the woman agreed to go on another date. I don’t get it, what is so attractive about a cheap stingy man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:00 PM
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That’s why we shouldn’t go to their house, be alone in a car with him, everything with all these men have to be done in public, I feel like it is doable, but dating apps makes it more possible but this sub warns against dating app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:50 PM
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LA seems like London to me, both cities have women complaining about dating there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:48 PM
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And then she moves him into the house, pays all the bills, have his baby, and they live happily ever after in pickemisha kingdom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:17 PM
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I’m not convinced either, I used to see my friends and be like hmm men and women can be friends, but my friends have slept with a lot of their guy friends and the rest try to make a move on them. I used to have a lot of guy friends growing up but not anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:16 PM
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I know you lie, your lips are moving, that is my mantra on men, if his lips are moving he is lying, if his lips are closed he is thinking of a lie. Don’t trust men 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:15 PM
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I thought about this, he could have, especially since she was already topless, her defense down and alone in her home. He is a sick man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:13 PM
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This is why I’m not down with guys roommates regardless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:12 PM
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Damn I fit two of these, in a picky eater, and I don’t interact well in conversations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:09 PM
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Aww thanks, my friend and I are trying to find my talent, I feel useless not having any. Thanks for the support. Your post is gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:08 PM
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Congrats op, no more falling for men’s shit and their apologies, they rarely change when they say sorry, breakups aren’t easy but you’ve got us op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:05 PM
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It looks amazing op, I wish I just had one talent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:58 PM
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Prudes are no fun, and if you give it up on the first date you are a wh$re that gives it out to everyone ugh I’m so done with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:17 AM
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Not all men but especially you, for gaslighting me about things I’ve experienced. (This isn’t directed at you op)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:15 AM
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There is even a term for it, “dickmatized”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:05 AM
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Aka ALL MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:09 AM
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Third person saying Leo’s and Gemini’s, I’m literally counting all of us, I also have it written down in my notes that I would never date a Leo and Gemini, and people say astrology is fake 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:07 AM
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You are the first to say us cappies, I wouldn’t mind dating one though, it’s nice to date your own 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:06 AM
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Same!! I’ve met my people!! Three of us have said the same thing about them, I’m a cap, are you an earth sign?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:06 AM
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I’m a Capricorn please read me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:04 AM
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Are you me? I’m a Capricorn and I always have issues with those two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:02 AM
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Leo’s. Blessed by the devil himself. And yes Gemini’s, they are very unstable, trump, Kanye west, Naomi Campbell and Azealia banks are all Gemini’s, and if you know anything about all these people you know they are said to be mean, controlling, and you start seeing patterns. Gemini’s make good friends but bad boyfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:01 AM
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You are so funny and you make me laugh like a crazy person 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:58 PM
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Shit, I didn’t know this was something I could do till Today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:29 PM
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I’m a Capricorn, and it is weird, I’m good at guessing when someone is an Aquarius, I just recently guessed it yesterday with some girl on tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:05 PM
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I am thank you. You are so sweet, are you a Capricorn or Aquarius?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:28 PM
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Same 19, inexperienced, didn’t even know anything about relationships and he was 34 . I’m glad you’ve healed op, now we can see all the red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:23 PM
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What if the entrance to leave faces him and he can see you running out of the restaurant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:04 PM
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I love that, you are a badass 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:03 PM
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I’m sorry I laughed 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:01 PM
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I know, and they say old men are more matured 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:21 PM
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I have never experienced this, normally I would say no, but if this happened I would slap or taser him, that is mad disrespectful. And I’m thinking that older men are not raised in this society of sexual harassment and metoo, I’m young and I date young guys and I feel like because we grew up in a social media age they understand some of the right etiquette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:34 PM
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Actions >>>>>> words, don’t tell me you are sorry and then repeat the same shit again, show you are sorry by correcting your behavior, respecting my boundaries and never do the same shit again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:19 PM
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Wow, now I know why they like younger women sometimes, we truly don’t know the red flags to look out for, a lot of us don’t see the red flags in this situation, he would never try this on a 25 year old, her brain is more developed and she would see red written all over the text. I’m glad for this sub and that I did not have to learn this with age and time. Hugs op, I’m sorry this scum of the earth did this to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:55 PM
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He can tell because he is obese himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:37 PM
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That’s mostly why I posted it. It was so sad, I talked to her about it, she told me she was brought up nice and she feels the nice to be nice about harassment, and to be nice to strangers, I told her dangerous men bank on us being nice, they target the “nice girls” cause they know we wouldn’t scream or cause trouble, we’d just apologize like she did and give them space, being mean and standing up for yourself is the best case scenario, a simple scream to everyone in that building and he would ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:21 PM
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Everyone told her to get wasp spray. I found it on amazon and they said it is more effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:18 PM
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I know this is the weirdest question in the world but how do you ask for his last name? Do you just meet him and ask for his first and last name or text him and ask. I’ve had guys act kind of weird when I ask for their last name. I feel so weird for asking this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:51 AM
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So how can we avoid this? What red flags to look out for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:45 AM
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I guess it depends, I’m fine with 3-5 months. You have to have great safe control to wait for 8 months and above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:23 AM
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😂😂😂. I’m fine with three months though, like we women want and like sex too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:20 AM
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Umm what does her personal life and whatever she has going on with her husband, has to do with all black women? so one black woman = all black women wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:13 AM
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Lmao 😂, I bursted out laughing, rogue pickmeisha 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:02 AM
9

Low value male, the lowest of men, they tend to be users, abusers and other negative traits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:16 AM
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I watched dirty John on Netflix, and while he was trying to find his victim, he met a woman who told him both her brothers are police offers, and they were always meddling in her life, and he immediately stopped seeing her, I was thinking if it would be a good idea to lie about something like that to scare off sociopaths like that. My lie was going to be my dad is a cop, my mom is a lawyer, and my brother works in the prison. Is that too much? The last one is true though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:30 AM
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I love y’all, no one in real life tells me shit like these, before this sub i was just going to be single for almost a year and then find a guy who I can be honest with and tell all my life story and everything my ex did. Thank y’all for writing all these amazing advices to guide women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:27 AM
15

Hugs op ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:53 AM
12

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:52 AM
21

Same lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:23 AM
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Why do they get mad when women try to do the same though? In height, looks and money. It’s like they believe we are objects, comparing us to cars and door locks, so we should be used for what we look like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:18 AM
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This is like the duet chain of some of the girls he played with: https://vm.tiktok.com/J2pVsyk/ This is the Snapchat video, where his friend shows the fuckboy what he did and the fuckboy laughed: https://vm.tiktok.com/J2pv2Vw/ He did this to 20+ girls, the good news is that one of his family member saw it then she posted it on their family group chat, I hope karma hits him hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:24 PM
2

I didn’t know that was a thing wtf, I guess the only thing to do is report him so he doesn’t bother any other woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:56 PM
3

The daily fail is the worst in this, they don’t care at all about sexualizing minors and women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:58 PM
2

Same, a lot of us still live with our parents, this is sad, I’m wondering if I would have fell for it if I didn’t have this subreddit. I’m digging more into the guy in the video, and he really lovebombs them and treats them super sweet at first and then ghosts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:51 PM
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He is not even attractive, I don’t understand why so many girls my age were willing to drive to see a bland sandwich looking guy, like why did their parents allow it? Cause I know mine would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:43 PM
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So many other girls fell for it so I’m guessing he is a master manipulator and the OG fuckboy, cause these girls were willing to drive hours to see him, he must have lovebombed the hell out of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:42 PM
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Y’all I’m on tiktok right now and this gets so so much much worse, this man is a grade A military fuckboy, he not only did this to this girl but other girls, they all drove to see him and yeah he had sex with them, his other military fuckboys made a Snapchat laughing at this girl and hyping their boy up, no wonder y’all warn us against military men, and if it’s not against the rules I’ll drop the tiktok link, this is so sad, so many girls need FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:40 PM
2

Damn you give really good and thoughtful advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:27 PM
2

Umm 27 is not old wtf, why do adults say they feel old at a young age, I’m 20 and if you feel old then I’m a grandma 👵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:25 PM
7

I’m guessing it is mirroring, they are trying to be your perfect guy by asking you everything, then pretending they have similar interests and want similar things as you do, as a way to bond with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:24 PM
3

What app is this? I noticed most of the people posting lvm on here are posting from bumble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:23 PM
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That’s sad, I never wanted it for myself but I thought it was empowering before I joined this subreddit. I used to think all my friends were empowered, while wondering if there was something wrong with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:17 PM
6

I dated a way older guy and he was shit, guys my age are actually better in my opinion than older guys, way way better. But I guess it depends on the generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:15 PM
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It’s sad because we do speak and write things into existence, people have to be careful with what they ask for or think they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:14 PM
3

Isn’t that a FWB? I can’t do that because I catch feelings when I have sex unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:13 PM
2

It’s beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:11 PM
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Mine is when they bash women for choosing the wrong men, like women that end up dating felons, dating men that don’t want their kids so they end up as single mothers, and in the exact same breath hate women for choosing better, and having standards and boundaries, I remember some celebrity saying she didn’t want to date a guy that worked 9-5 and she got bashed so hard, even women were coming after her, bashing her on behalf of men. So they tell women to choose better and have standards and when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:10 PM
57

Wow, I’ve always noticed this, but I’ve always seen it as men putting their differences aside to come together to hate on women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 06:07 PM
19

I’m writing all the recommendations down on my notes app, this app sounds amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:36 PM
109

I have a story to share, I went on a date with this guy, he was 28 he used to sell cocaine and he had to go to jail, he almost got stabbed to death and he got shot once, he bragged a lot about how much he made, and how he made $40’000 a year from working in the oil field. To me all these were red flags cause I was 19 and I wanted to date an age appropriate man, I told him and he went off on me, telling me I’m discriminating against him and age is just a number, on our first date he wanted to tak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:29 PM
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I would have destroyed his self esteem there and tell him his girl overestimated it and it is super tiny. He deserves a dose of his medicine. so the professional thing to do would be to report him, I don’t know how it works with religious organizations but I’m guessing there is like someone who is in charge, the creep should be stopped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:31 AM
3

This is so wrong 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:10 AM
2

I hope this is a joke, the emoji kind of alluded to that? Hopefully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:31 AM
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I honestly believe you don’t know someone until like 3 years together, that’s why so many lvm lovebomb and move quickly, you don’t really know who he is but he is already telling you he loves you and he is ready to move mountains for you and wants y’all to move in together and do shit fast, he wants you to get hooked before the veil comes off and he can’t keep the act any longer. I also think 6 months is a good timeframe if you are like diligently watching for all red flags and anything off with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:43 AM
2

Girl I thought it was a tv channel or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:36 AM
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I deleted all The pictures/notes/diaries of my ex, it’s like it never happened, all I remember are the lessons I learnt from that relationship, and it’s made me more ruthless and strategic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:32 AM
2

Are you a psych major?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:10 PM
13

In an ideal world you did everything right, you cooked, you cleaned, you were loyal, attentive, you had sex whenever he was horny, these are the things men claim they want, “the perfect woman” truth is they still treat these women like shit, we all need this subreddit because we don’t live in an ideal world, where abuse doesn’t take place and men are perfect creatures. Stay strong op you’ve been through a lot ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:09 PM
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But not all men, don’t use the minority to judge all the good guys 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:26 AM
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Cause we are not sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:25 AM
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Unfortunately he is not being dragged and shamed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:25 AM
2

Thanks for sharing and your mom is amazing. I’m sure she is in heaven now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:34 AM
9

Can’t you just take his shit to the streets, hide any keys he has, and then lock him out, I understand he was your boyfriend and some part of you cares about him, but I feel like you have no other option at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:43 AM
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Mother in law from Hell, he is a spineless wimp, defend your wife you backless tweep. He should have told his mother to get out, or better yet not invite her, I’m sure he pleaded with his wife to let his mother attend, that woman is going to suffer because her husband won’t defend her in this marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:18 AM
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Hindsight is always 2020, and I’ve heard that abusive men can hide who they are till The woman is married/pregnant. Before you got pregnant were they any red flags?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:13 AM
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Good for you for defending yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:06 AM
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Men know this, I’ve noticed that men are actually neater than women, like men actually do a lot of chores and are bothered by clutters, I’ve had men and women question the whole women are neater than men thing, because it ain’t true. The only one I find true is men not knowing how to cook even at an old age, and cooking is a basic life skill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:06 AM
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I don’t know about them being able to date anyone they want, most of them have trash personalities and they love coming for their fellow women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:16 PM
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What computer costs $14,000, and why would you buy one so expensive when your wife who just had your baby, needs a surgery for what she went through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:47 PM
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Why talk about that when we can talk about how liberating having sex is, and how liberating sex work is? Talking about that puts the real spot on men and that’s not true equality /s. And hugs to you op, I know how hard South African women have it, it is crazy to me, South African men really hate women and it shows through the feminicide, domestic violence and rape rates, SA scores very high in those scores, literally number 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:43 PM
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Honestly I do too, and I always say it a lot. I freaking love honesty, don’t care what you are saying or doing, just don’t lie and be completely honest with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:03 AM
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Chile there is a lot of women like these, a lot of them can’t be saved, as empathetic as I am sometimes you just gotta leave this women alone, they live in la la land, and they are happy this way, I just stay away from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:18 PM
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Yeah his eyes are dead, cold and empty. Let me go google the smirk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:10 PM
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For good reasons, with periods, pms etc. men are just sociopaths for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:09 PM
6

Umm what in the lunatic mental Illness hell. What is going on here 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:01 PM
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Maybe it depends on the state, I know California DV is taking more seriously maybe because it is more liberal, or because they have high domestic abuse situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:50 PM
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I’m watching a show about abusive situations, and they actually do give a shit, I also thought they didn’t. Which is why it is good to leave paper trails, maybe you don’t want to leave now, but for when you eventually leave. Keep going to the hospital to have the wounds documented, take pictures, call the cops, keep doing this so you have a case at the end. Cause hindsight is always 2020, you might not recognize it enough to leave now, but for when you do, you would have a solid Case that would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:49 PM
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Incels inspire men to commit terrorist attacks. While we support women and empower women, we are just the same /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:46 PM
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And it leaves a paper trail for the next woman. Op did a fantastic thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:43 PM
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If it were me, I would just text him sorry for his loss, and my thoughts are with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:48 AM
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Guys it’s a joke, it is some fake weird trend on tiktok and it’s been posted here twice already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:37 AM
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It’s not real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:36 AM
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Same, don’t want kids, ideal is three room. I’m so introverted that I just need so much Space and time alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:36 AM
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I was just thinking about that today, like I used to want two rooms, now I’m Like three rooms is better, in case we have guests, I don’t want to share beds with a guy, except when I’m scared of sleeping alone, like I have nightmares/don’t feel safe anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:35 AM
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You skipped 11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:42 AM
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Fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:54 AM
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Yup and I’m quiet, I’ve always been quiet and shy in my dreams. This subreddit definitely sparked something in me, its even showing in my dreams too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:49 AM
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Damn me too op, I normally don’t talk about my dreams cause people around me never want to listen. I’ve become so much more assertive with men in my dreams, calling out shit left and right and speaking up. Although due to the quarantine I haven’t practiced any cause I’ve been indoors. But it’s crazy how I act in my dream now after joining this sub, like telling my ex to fuck off and calling all men out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:26 AM
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I’ve learnt my lesson, I know I don’t have any out there but never again, if a guy asks me for nudes I am cursing him and his whole lineage out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:55 PM
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Just a dollar? What a stingy loser, keep it blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:52 PM
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And take pictures and go like damnnn 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:12 PM
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I mean women want sex too, sex is amazing with the right partner, but we realize how men abuse it, use women for sex and then call the same women wh$res, so we use logic, make them work for it even though we want it too. And honestly if you can’t wait for that long, get a sex toy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:26 PM
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I’m going to treat all my dates like an interview, I ask all the questions and you provide me with factual answers, cause I’ll double check, like I’m inviting you into my life and body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:18 PM
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Also don’t be alone with a man if you know you are not ready or they’ll pressure you, invite you to their place to “cook” for you because they are a chef, or invite you over to watch a “movie”, or offer to give you a “ride”, especially when they know you are both going to be alone in the car. Stay woke ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:17 PM
11

Were they Leos 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:37 AM
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I know, the only hope I get is the childfree subreddit and how a lot of them are happily married, reality is so much different, so many creepy men looking for wives and I want none of that, I might move, but I should also be comfortable being single because I don’t want to compromise and be unhappy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:00 PM
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Yes I’ve learnt this. I’m asking all the questions, so he wouldn’t try to be my “perfect man”. I’ve heard women say that men listen so they can pretend to be who you want and then when they have you hooked up, pregnant/married the mask comes off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:59 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:20 PM
5

Op can you tell me some more information about this, if you’re uncomfortable saying it here you can pm me, Were there any red flags before this, how long have y’all been dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 07:51 PM
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I agree but I’m also having difficulties with dating multiple guys, I’ve done it and it was hard to juggle so many and I had to cut them off, I know giving them nicknames makes it better, also what if the guy asks you if you are seeing other people. My new mantra is that I’m single till I’m married but I find it hard to date multiple guys advice pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:51 PM
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Nah the world has always been this way but I agree with you people are shitty and miserable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:18 PM
10

She wants validation from them, like we likes you best dear pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:21 AM
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I don’t have any, I’m childfree and I’m full of empathy, I know a lot of people with children who are selfish/narcissists/assholes so you are wrong. Maybe with women, but not with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:40 PM
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I don’t care about men’s issue at all, only women and children issues, and I still wouldn’t date a guy with himpathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:39 PM
9

Why are there more men wanting food and drinks like.. they expect her to foot the whole bill on their first dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:34 PM
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I’m not even American. But I understand what you’re saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:19 PM
3

Shit and I thought my ex was a liar, he was stupid though so I could tell he was lying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:22 PM
6

I wish we had a relationship quiz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:12 PM
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I’m glad this has Never happened to me, although I’m paranoid and I carry weapons but the male ego is so fragile, I would be traumatized for months if that happened to me. I’m glad you weren’t hurt op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:10 PM
14

Lol I wanna do this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:03 PM
5

I love that it is exaggerated cause it scares me away and I need that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:31 PM
2

Same age, childfree since I was 5 yrs old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:30 PM
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I blame society, I’m childfree, but i recognize that a lot of women are lied to about how wonderful pregnancy and childbirth is, I don’t understand that because at 20 I know and I’ve always known cause I can see the truth. They think it would be amazing someone to play with and love them dearly, it would change their man and they would live happily ever after, the reality is way different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:29 PM
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It’s not racism to worry about your safety and the culture you marry into, don’t ever think it is, seeing how high rape is in India scares me, and I doubt I would date an indian man due to their colorism, and how women are treated, it’s not racist but at the same time it is not politically correct so it’s best to keep such opinions to yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:16 PM
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Divorce is taboo in my family, but I’ll vet vigorously before I marry, and if he makes a sudden change, I’ll be the first in my family to get a divorce, I love breaking records
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:13 PM
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Why are some women like this? In cases like this you are not just protecting yourself but you are protecting other women, not everyone might be aware of this case or who this monster is so he could go on to abuse other women when the monster should be behind bars and since she is a public figure, she is literally showing other girls what to do in this situation and how to handle abusers 🤦🏿‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:12 PM
6

I’m glad I haven’t met weirdos like that, like congratulations on being tall, and what else are you offering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:09 PM
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A lot of women literally only want that, tall, and some add tall and big dick, and I’ve always been confused like what does that bring you? How does that add to your life, I understand the big dick part, but the height thingy, especially when you’re short. I just want my height or taller, 6’5 is not going to pay my bills or bring me joy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:59 PM
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I was so confused too like why are they talking about women card
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:52 PM
6

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:47 AM
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That is so sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:28 PM
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This is a joke thank god, I saw it earlier this morning. The homeless man is just a google picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:28 PM
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I believe in listening to your intuition, and mine always tells me not to try it, and that I would regret it. It’s better to be safe than sorry..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:10 PM
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I love when the trash throws itself out, then I don’t need to get my hands dirty, it just flies out to the garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:09 PM
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I was going to Make this comment, I had no idea she was a mean girl, I loved being Mary Jane, it’s sad that she is though, they gain nothing but bitterness for being mean and vindictive to other women but a total pick me to men, she took her husband back after he had an outside baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:07 PM
2

Op can you dm me the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:53 PM
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I agree, they think they can handle that because they are the same, not realizing an aggressive man is way more dangerous and deadly, and she won’t be able to handle him in fights and arguments. While milder women would be scared and intimidated of dating someone like that because they’re not used to it. Problem is people have trouble believing an assertive/confident/bossy woman can be abused because she can be domineering to everyone else especially women but tame to her man. Sorry for the long…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:18 AM
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Lol I just commented this 👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:06 AM
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Not your fault, it’s seen as normal even in the movies, especially when y’all are grownups, but this subreddit really dives into the whole psychology and bullshit men do to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:05 AM
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Chile, my ex told me he loved me on the first date, wanted to get married, wanted 5 kids, wanted me to be his girlfriend, he was moving so fast and it set multiple alarm bells in my head cause I was 19
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:04 AM
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Even if he does I’m still single until I’m married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:03 AM
35

I like 5’10-6’3. I’m tall so I like having a wide range to choose from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:02 AM
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As a skinny flat chest, flat booty girl, I don’t get offended and entitled when men say that, and trust me I’ve heard it all my life, straight to my face and I don’t even react, tell a man that he is not your preference and you could lose your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:01 AM
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I think pedophiles should be castrated, I just don’t understand how someone that isn’t allowed around kids is allowed to have his own kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:08 PM
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I can’t just imagine the pedophile doing something to his daughter or some of her male friends, and she’ll take their side and call the daughter a liar, just like she treated her niece, I wonder how she got so fucked up, so many women have been abused but they mostly speak out against abuse, and she is old enough and exposed to things and she should know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:07 PM
6

Welcome op. Please read the required books from the handbook, I’ve currently read like 7 books this quarantine, all fds approved and my mindset has changed so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:50 PM
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It’s interesting because she seems so confident, and assertive, I’ve noticed that it’s always the type that you expect to never be in that situation that are always in it. And maybe she is just more bossy and assertive with women, but let men get away with shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:40 PM
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I’m sad I don’t have any sisters, that’s what I thought the first time I came across that post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:59 AM
3

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:29 PM
8

Keep bragging, stories like this lighten my mood. Tnx op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:58 PM
8

Op you’ve done amazing by leaving him, contacting the police and seeing a counselor. Three great steps, my advice is to read dangerous men and how to spot them, the gift of fear and why does he do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:15 PM
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I’m so used to horrible stories on here that I was expecting the punchline, like he went and came back with a ring(too early) or he left and spent too long cause he was hanging out with a woman. I’m just happy that it is a happy ending, it’s good to read good news on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:11 PM
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Oh my god op thank you for making a post about it, gracias
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:06 PM
8

What tactic was used? Other signs to watch out for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:54 PM
8

Can you also post your list, I’m 20 and interested. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:53 PM
6

They are but in a far more dangerous way, men are much more horrible to women and for the most part we don’t react violently, you say no to a man and it could very well cause you your life. I wouldn’t call what they are sensitive, maybe sociopathic and emotionally void
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:42 PM
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Congrats op, I wish there were breakup parties like we have wedding celebrations. You did amazing but breakups aren’t easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:38 PM
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Damn tell me more, how else can I tell, like vague details cause I can’t tell. Although my ex was an awful kisser and awful in bed, last guy I messed around with was a good kisser and good in other areas, I’m convinced that there is a correlation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:35 PM
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After watching Thelma and Louise and the end when they drove their car off, I was so happy Thelma had good sex, that made her act all crazy and loosen up, even if brad stole from her, still though no woman deserves to die without experiencing some mind blowing sex. I agree with you op, we just need to find a way to know if he is going to be good at sex or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:33 PM
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Thanks for explaining, cause I’m currently adapting everything I’ve read in the book, and I was going to reject men harshly, like say no and mean it and keep saying no firmly, cause I thought that would make them back away. Now I’ll just stick to giving them fake google number, so like when they call it, it would still ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:55 PM
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Where did you learn to fight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:00 PM
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I gave out a fake number at work once, he came back the next day demanding for my real number, I was scared shitless and I gave it to him and he called me right there, he was so confused that I didn’t want to go out with him or hang out with him 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:59 PM
137

I read the gift of fear, and I read that saying no and not caring about being polite is the best way to do it, because if you say no too politely they won’t back down and now I’m confused because so many women say no impolitely and men still act aggressively towards them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:58 PM
248

The entitlement to young women is sick like wtf, sick deranged men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:08 PM
33

My crazy ex future faked me, except that I was 19 and didn’t even want to be married and I don’t ever want kids, that prompted me to break up with him, I sent a long text breaking up with him, he texted back saying he just wanted to talk to me one last time, I said no then I changed my mind, I met him and he cried, begged, pleaded, told me I would never regret it, he cried so much and he was begging, we were alone in his car, I kept saying no and then I changed my mind and I thought to myself, h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:06 PM
5

He knows where I live, the police have been useless for me, I’m convinced that they are only trigger happy about catching drug dealers. I live with my parents so I’m not scared, I know he wouldn’t dare come here, because we have stand your ground laws where I live. I’m in school so I’m planning on seeing a counselor when fall semester starts, I called the police on him for his assault, I just didn’t think the bastard would still keep contacting me after the assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:46 AM
7

IKR it’s so sad, people on this sub are becoming really mean, show some empathy for your fellow women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:00 AM
5

Extroverts are the majority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:44 AM
13

I know it is so weird, I understand when 15 year olds do it, but grown ass women acting this way and caring so much like go build a self esteem instead of trying to change yourself and fit into what men want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:32 AM
27

A lawyer wtf. I was expecting it to be a hit to cover the whole Epstein stuff but this makes sense too, I just wish the bastard is still alive to suffer and be tortured in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:31 PM
42

I’m confused, how is he supposed to take care of his child or be around his child, how do any sex offenders take care of their children or be around their children when they are not allowed around kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:30 PM
10

Why are there so many of us in this sub? I mean I love it but I’m curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:26 PM
41

Has anyone had an ex call with unknown number and not say anything? It’s been 9 months and he is dangerous and I’m scared cause he is like 14 years older. Advice please. This post resonated with me cause I was thinking of curses his ass and his whole lineage the next time he calls but now I’ll stop picking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:25 PM
383

Pick a struggle, they just want to blame, and demean women. They hate single mothers and they hate condoms, They hate fat women but like when a girl can eat, they hate wh$res but demean prudes, like pick a struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:17 PM
36

Man child says what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:36 PM
18

This is so sad, I don’t know anything about them but I digged deeper and she lost her virginity at 30 to this loser, this could have been her first serious relationship so she probably didn’t even know what red flag to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:34 PM
12

It’s fucked up but the only part I agree with is that American women have life easier than women in developing countries, trust me it is way easier. This man is a misogynist piece of shit that doesn’t respect women or think much of women, not just disrespecting his wife, but he is disrespecting his wife’s mother, calling her a lying bitch, saying her job is easy but it’s a woman’s job so he won’t do it, if it’s so easy he would do it all and brag to her about how easy it is. He is very ungratefu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:10 PM
12

That’s not her lol, those are models, I thought the same too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:07 PM
32

Husband sure fancies him a Dave 🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:42 PM
10

You shouldn’t be friends with your ex, especially if he wasn’t shit in the relationship. Although I know people that are friends with all their exes, I don’t get it, it’s like that chapter has closed and should never be opened again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:40 PM
96

But age is just a number 🙄. Old men disgust me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:51 PM
40

He must be talking to himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:29 PM
4

How old are you, and how old is the creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:23 PM
17

I want a puppy, And a dog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:21 PM
44

Haha I needed this last year at 19. I understand what she is saying though, I don’t think she is preaching for girls to be prostitutes, she is saying stop trying to stay around for that one shitty guy that keeps doing shitty things because you have a long road ahead of you, do things that are worth your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:27 PM
16

I beard big Sean gave her multiple orgasms and he has a big dick and he is really good in bed. She is dickmatized unfortunately. She even asked him if he was going to marry her and it was so awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:33 PM
50

So like are they trying to test boundaries by doing this or they just don’t care about the woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:34 AM
3

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:11 AM
3

What site did you look him up on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:07 AM
7

I agree. But those are the only circumstance we collectively agree to give them a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:11 PM
27

I’m 20 and times are still the same. Me and every woman my age consider older guys disgusting. They are only worth it when they have a lot of money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:59 PM
26

I agree, men are disgusting and delusional. I’m 20 and old men repulse me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:58 PM
18

I can smell it and see it like immediately they approach me, fds weirdly opened my intuition senses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:57 PM
25

I’ve learnt my lesson. I will never get into a relationship like that again. You live, you learn, you move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:56 PM
5

Might as well get paid for your empowerment, she’s dumb no offense to her, if I was reckless enough to do what she does, I would get paid for it for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:54 PM
2

Thanks you’ve been very helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:48 PM
4

Do pray tell, is there anywhere you can tell that it’s big, like subconsciously, watching his body language, a lot of women can tell but I don’t know how
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:50 AM
3

I honestly just want to be called by my name, I find pet names disgusting and I’d rather be called my name, so for me personally it is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:46 PM
2

Yeah I think op is a demisexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:27 AM
10

Op I’m sorry, people like us need to learn how to detach our feelings from sex, my friends do that and I don’t get it. Maybe don’t have sex for a while, even when you start dating, don’t have sex, till you’re sure he really likes you, and don’t be alone with him ever, not in his car, your/his place or he’ll pressure you and you’ll regret it. Hugs op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:26 AM
11

Hugs op. Keep speaking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:58 AM
15

None of them are, I am a proud agnostic, I just recently completely denounced my religion, I used to flop around before, but now I’m completely done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:23 AM
28

Tread lightly, I’ve noticed that Muslim women would swear up and down defending Islam and Muslim men and claiming they are the most respectful men in the world, even more respectful than western men, i don’t know if it is brainwashing, I’ve had numerous conversations with them about it. Like Muslim men would sit on social media and judge a girl in a hijab for not covering her neck and feet, while he is shirtless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:07 AM
8

They really are, you would think their only job was to racially profile, find drug dealers and arrest people with illegal drugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:18 AM
21

Dang I’m surprised Muslim tinder is like this, here i am thinking Muslim men are more conservative about sexual conversation, because I’ve been seeing too many videos of them criticizing women in hijabs for not covering any part of their body properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:07 AM
22

Just because you are the exception, doesn’t mean it isn’t true. So many women go through hell as sex workers, that’s like saying just because I wasn’t shot, that means gun control laws in America is the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:04 AM
4

I see it the way you do too, like how is comparing and contrasting dress clothes pick me? She wasn’t saying leave the wh$re with the short skirt for me the cool girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:02 AM
36

Seeing as her child is a girl and this is what she grows up with, her crazy mum’s life and how she accepts it, is what the little girl grows up to view as normal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:56 AM
51

I’m reading why does he do that. And the author mentioned that women like this do themselves a disservice because their children grow up to resent and blame them for keeping everything away from them and lying to them, because the kid knows something is wrong and their intuition feels off with their fathers, and for the mother to lie to them and shift away the blame the kids end up hating them for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:54 AM
10

I honestly don’t know why they think we care or why do they want us to care. I’d actually be happier and safer about that, I don’t even leave my house without a taser and paper spray, that is how scared I am of men. I refuse to go on a date without carrying weapons, men scare me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:28 AM
1

I’ve also noticed that I’ve been having a hard time reading which is why I used audible. Just sign up for a free trial, get some headphones on and listen, you can also listen when driving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:48 AM
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Oh my god I’m literally listening to it on audiobook right now, and for the past few hours I’ve been looking up the title on here to read the other posts. It is so eye opening and blunt, so straight up and true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:50 PM
44

But women are nurturing caretakers, it’s in their nature to care and heal people! Why pay a therapist when I can dump all my problems on my partner for free /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:47 PM
31

The most pick me stuff is I didn’t uphold my boundaries, and respect myself enough to put me first and not his feelings first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:13 PM
5

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:45 PM
7

What if he slaps back 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:44 PM
3

Can you please go on, what are the red flags and green flags to a rejection in such a situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:44 PM
5

I just say I’ve never been in one, I don’t claim him, it never happened, and he made me feel bad for him so I could date him and I never liked him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:43 PM
18

Whoo I just finished an audiobook on the gift of fear and I literally just said the same thing you wrote on your title. I would rather be wrong than stay alive, than ignore my intuition and regret it for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:41 PM
31

I forgot to mention that this is a country in Africa and not America. And this was like 2005-2010 or something, I was like 5 when I first saw her, and I was like ten when I last saw her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:19 PM
5

How can you sue for that? Like on the basis of what...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:17 PM
162

Another story I would like to share, that I recently recovered in my childhood memories. Was a homeless woman, since I was a child, I remembered her being on the street, and for years she was on the street, she wasn’t just homeless she was also mentally off, I don’t know her mental disorder. Then suddenly I never saw her again, for like two years, and then she came back pregnant, and it was sad, she was like even mentally violent after the child, and she would just place the child anyhow, and fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:33 PM
95

I know, it might sound weird but I’ve always thought of what they did when they were on their period, and what I could do to help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:28 PM
159

I’ve always empathized with them. Is it bad that I have no empathy for homeless men and I only have empathy for homeless women regardless of their circumstances? Like it doesn’t make sense to me, like you both are homeless, why rape someone who is suffering as much as you are. And those pathetic men that target and rape homeless women, cause they know that no one would care about her, and they could kill her and no one would care for her or miss her😭. Evil lives and breathes amongst us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:27 PM
22

Honestly that’s what I’ve always thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:21 PM
10

Why the fuck was he stealing your clothes? What the fuck was he wearing them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:03 AM
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lol “at risk pick me youth” girl you’re still at risk 😭😭😭. Edit: And I see that this is your first comment here, and looking through your post it’s no wonder it keeps happening, you need this sub and you need to read a lot of the recommended books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:31 AM
18

I’m the first one, although I won’t insult you i do think it is tough love if a friend does that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:27 AM
4

I don’t like the show, and I don’t know why I can’t watch it no matter how I try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:26 AM
12

So is it better to ignore his texts/phone calls for a long time to see how he reacts to it? I personally think it is, the last guy I tried it on went full crazy and I ended it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:25 AM
52

It wasn’t even love, it was manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:24 AM
10

This also applies to friends too, I called my bitchy friend out and she said this, now she acts sane around me. But normally she would say I’m too bitchy/mean/sensitive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:40 AM
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Full text: My fiancé (25M) spent our entire savings (which we both were saving for our wedding and honeymoon) to buy a gaming pc. What's worse is that ever since he got the pc, he has totally ignored me (27F) he has absolutely forgotten that I even exist in his life. My fiancé and I got engaged in December last year. In January this year, we both together decided to save money every month for our wedding and honeymoon. In 6 months, we saved around $8000. Last month, my fiancé's bestfriend bought…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:45 PM
12

Thank you, I needed this last year but it’s never too late to change your mindset and work on yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:41 PM
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I guess the country I lived in is considered a third world country but I’ve moved now. Thinking about my childhood, so many memories I never thought of before, so many girls like 8-12 were sexually assaulted by older men right in front of older people and nothing happened to those men, the girls were shamed by their fathers though. And yup, I’m the only girl of 3 brothers and from like 3 my dad would spank me for not covering up in front of my brothers, I wasn’t allowed to wear underwear or shor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:43 AM
5

I’ve never seen that part of the Bible before. And I read all the Bible verses when I was younger. Although I was way more interested in the verses about Jesus than other verses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:59 AM
16

Ugh why do we all have friends like that. I refused a guy’s proposal for me to come hang out in his dorm, and my friend told me I was too harsh and he meant well. Luckily I had this sub to support me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:42 AM
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Aww thank you. Everyone calls me boring though, and all I do all day is take classes, meditate, listen to music, sleep, wake up. I like it this way because I don’t have any drama and I’m introverted, but I still sometimes want to do more like my friends, I never want to do anything with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:40 AM
4

I just wish I spoiled myself more, take myself out, do yoga, Zumba, join something and take myself out more. Although I have the virus as an excuse, and I’m super happy being single even though I’m a boring person. I need to make my life more interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:36 AM
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I just wish I spoiled myself more, take myself out, do yoga, Zumba, join something and take myself out more. Although I have the virus as an excuse, and I’m super happy being single even though I’m a boring person. I need to make my life more interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:36 AM
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But but my high sex drive and men high sex drive and women low sex drive so women should control themselves more. Believe it or not I’ve heard this argument before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:32 AM
46

I remember some twitter post, how come every woman has a friend that has been raped, yet no man has a friend that is a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:31 AM
85

This reminds me of the post about Egypt and how oppressed the women are, even when they are fully covered in burkas. Also if it’s the woman that is so wrong and sexually seductive, why don’t lesbians rape women at such high rates that men do, I mean lesbians see women everyday in short skirts, crop top etc. one last thing, if a man can control himself, in a beach or in a swimming pool filled with half naked women tanning/swimming, why can’t they control themselves everywhere else. A word where t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:30 AM
61

This happened to me like a month or two ago, I got a phone call and I was like who is this? And he introduced himself telling me he Met me a year ago but he never called me, so I just screamed at him that he woke me up and I had to go back to sleep. And he texted me and I just told him that I don’t know him and I don’t plan on knowing him, he still called a few times but after a few hostilities he stopped. I regret ever been nice to men and letting them down gently, because they think not being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:01 AM
44

I mean I’m so picky with my food, I literally don’t drink soda, milk, rice, spaghetti etc, like I’m so picky I don’t eat a lot of food, so I’m trying to channel that pickiness into my love life, it is working so far 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:42 AM
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I’ve heard Russian women say this all over social media , like Russian men pay for everything and always bring flowers if they visit, and they might be trash but it comes with benefits. While American men do the opposite and they consider it a culture shock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:44 PM
7

I heard they were ruthless lol. I mean the cold ass snow does something to a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:42 PM
3

British people always speak so bad about the other gender, like awful things and especially the men talking to the women. I’ve noticed that Americans don’t do it as much and I wonder why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:41 PM
194

I honestly don’t care how controversial this sounds. If I’m not feeling you or you show an ounce of red flag, I’m ghosting and blocking, you don’t deserve an explanation or anymore of my time, unfortunately I had to learn the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:57 AM
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Well damn. Same with my ex, and he told me he would prove my father wrong by showing me how good a guy he is, and he proved just the opposite, they are mostly trash and vet the fuck outta them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:01 AM
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This is not the right mindset to have, you shouldn’t even be thinking of a relationship right now, it’s not wise to think finding the one would solve all the depression you have. First you need to find a therapist, or maybe an online therapist and a good one to talk to you about what is going on. Like the last thing that should be on your mind is dating and using social media, you have to heal first. And I’m going to dm you if that’s fine. I want to be your friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:29 AM
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If that’s what you think is best for you, and you know it would make you happy than why not? Stay single and enjoy being single. I personally don’t think all men are trash, my brothers are good guys and I’ve had male friends that were good too, but not amazing. I still have hope, this subreddit helps with that by teaching us how to weed trash men out. But not everyone wants a relationship and that’s fine. And by end it all, do you mean your life or relationships in general?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:48 AM
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This is so sad what a piece of shit, they are both scum. Pedophiles should be castrated and given instant death penalty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:27 AM
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She said her dad had no idea and she couldn’t tell him cause she was scared he would kill them and go to jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:21 AM
10

Lol I bursted out laughing he is a pos and you dodged a major bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:09 AM
9

This applies to me thank you for this, I felt bad for him and neglected myself and my feelings just because I felt bad for someone that added nothing to my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:03 AM
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I’m so so happy I didn’t join the military, I was just talking to someone about it, I was so going to join and I was about to, but the universe has other things in mind, it took them too long to process my documents and when they finally did I was over it and exhausted, they wanted me to join and kind of begged but I stood my ground, and we had to go to some place where they did physicals on us so we stripped naked and they touched our privates, it was a male doctor too and they were just yellin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:27 PM
6

I’m tall and skinny and I get that a lot from men, it’s strange it’s mostly short guys that comment on how tall I am, like oh my god you’re so tall, “I like that” “I like tall girls you should be a model”, but everyone comments on my weight, never negatively though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:09 AM
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I’m tall and skinny and I get that a lot from men, it’s strange it’s mostly short guys that comment on how tall I am, like oh my god you’re so tall, “I like that” “I like tall girls you should be a model”, but everyone comments on my weight, never negatively though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:09 AM
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You’re so pretty 😍. Sorry I know I’m fixated on the wrong issue but omg you’re pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:06 AM
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Hopefully not, I pray no woman comes across him or says yes to him, he told me women always say no when he asks them out, and it took him years to finally find a girlfriend, I guess they all saw the walking red flag he is, hope all women recognize it in him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:00 AM
17

How can you do this? I don’t even know where to start or how to do it? Like what questions do you ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:59 AM
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Why is this though? I used to be the same way, I wanted guys that had a traumatic past because it made people better in my undeveloped brain. Luckily I only had one that lasted for a few months before I kicked it to the curb and now I’ve learnt my lesson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:17 AM
47

As a black person it is never too hot for lotion, stay woke and unashy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:06 AM
77

There were so many triggered people in the comments, like just because you’re broke and you and your baby daddy can’t afford gifts doesn’t mean you hate on others that can: https://twitter.com/ceorashad_/status/1278429878199738368?s=20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:50 AM
6

Op if that’s you, you look beautiful and your room is so nice and spacious compared to my compressed room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:23 PM
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You live and you learn. I’ve forgiven myself for being too nice and taking a lot of disrespect while feeling bad for him, “because he lost his father” “his ex cheated on him” “and he went through a genocide”, not once did I ask myself why that is any of my business and why I feel the need to heal a damaged man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:32 AM
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I honestly have like a 1000 reasons why I don’t want kids, and this is like 10 on my list, because men change, like chameleons, immediately the child comes they see you as their property and they know it is harder to leave and a lot of women don’t want to be single mothers so they stay and put up with more bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:30 AM
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I remember seeing a woman with a child, comment that another women is lucky that the father of her child is babysitting their own children while the woman goes out to jog. I mean she got rightfully dragged but imagine praising a man for being with his own child. It’s like giving a standing ovation to a fish for swimming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:28 AM
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Your brother is a rapist, or at least a potential rapist, he has a rapist mindset, and I doubt he is only going to go after women who dress slutty, any woman that decides to come over to his house, appears to be drunk, walks alone in the dark, etc, are also who he sees as women to rape. Just cut him off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:15 AM
10

Thanks for explaining. I’ve never been there before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:29 PM
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But saying women shouldn’t sleep with men on the first date, and women should look out for red flags and not further relationships with men that like beating them in bed, this is all misandry, not letting men do whatever they want to women and warning women about red flags is literally hate speech against men /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:29 PM
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Oh wow that is amazing, you are a doctor!! So cool, I’m also in the medical field but not as high as a doctor. I’m proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:27 PM
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I just clicked the second sub you posted and they seem chill, they are literally mourning women subreddit being banned and calling Reddit hateful. I can’t believe they banned r/femalesubreddit, like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:26 PM
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I’m happy the Donald is banned. Honestly as far as they don’t touch this subreddit then IDGAF, this subreddit is the only reason I have a Reddit account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:23 PM
4

Who gives a shit, find someone for you who makes you happy, lots of men prefer tall women, except if you are planning to date all the tall men in the world and lock them in your closet or something. And the guy in the picture is dating zendaya in real life and she is 5’10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:07 AM
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Would you want that though? Like a lanky giraffe. No offense to giraffes 🦒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:06 AM
2

I’m almost your height and my ideal height is 5’11-6’3, it’s insane that everyone has different preferences of what they consider ideal in a partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:03 AM
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I’m tall and I don’t want a super tall guy either, I don’t get it, I would feel unsafe around him, I prefer a little bit taller than me to like 6’3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:02 AM
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How do you know her mom’s age? She didn’t mention it in her post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:58 AM
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Damn y’all be having mums guiding you and talking to you about relationships, sex and men. But Op it is never too late, start following this subreddit and your mother and apply both advices to your real life relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:57 AM
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Do you ask for specific therapist? My last therapist was trash and she blamed me a 19 year old for being manipulated by a 34 year old she was awful. So like what criteria do you look for in a therapist, it’s nice to talk about things but it’s not nice having a shitty victim blamer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:55 AM
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My first and only ever relationship was awful, and that is really bad and it made me question myself a lot, because he had no redeeming qualities and the red flags were as high as the sky waving and screaming at me. Hvm’s do exist, and karma is real for men like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:53 AM
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I agree, the only guy I know that uses Reddit is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:48 AM
2

Same with my mom, she is one of the reason I don’t want kids and it’s so funny that she wants grandkids from me and she thinks I would give her any lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:46 AM
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Oh no I completely agree with you. I’m just talking about Reddit in general and wanting to ban this sub for racism when it is filled with women of color and we don’t practice hate speech, if saying “don’t date men that want to split the bill” is hate speech, then arrest me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:15 AM
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I’ve always wanted to visit nyc, oh my god I would be so nervous but I’ll make it, and I’ll be so quiet so I’m warning y’all in advance 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:06 AM
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We are none of those things, I’m sure most of the mods are black women, we literally have women from all around the world posting here, even myself, if this sub was racist or sexist I wouldn’t be here and neither would the thousands of black, Asian, and Latina women posting on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:05 AM
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I just tried it, it’s a bit hard to navigate and click Around but it is smart to plan ahead now. At least it will always be there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:03 AM
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Now if I say my ideal man is a rich handsome man that treats me amazingly, I would be called a shallow b word, only men are allowed to have standards 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:23 AM
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My favorite is still “at risk pickmeisha” I lol when I see that flair, like do people with the flair not just burst out laughing anytime they post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:09 AM
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Same. It’s been almost 9 months since my breakup and I don’t even want to date again, I genuinely don’t think the men in my city are high value, maybe when I move or something but for now I’m fine being single and focusing on myself, school and work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:07 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone in this sub talk bad about trans people, or even mention trans people like ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:04 AM
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It reminds me of how r/childfree is compared to a hate sub, and I used to think that because Reddit told me that. Instead it is filled with women who don’t want to succumb to what they think women should be and make great sacrifices for no benefits just to have a child, and no one tells women about the pain of childbirth and after childbirth with postpartum depression, body changes, husband acting different etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:03 AM
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You joined this subreddit a few years ago? This subreddit or Reddit in general? So no one told me about this subreddit till a few months ago and it’s been here for years and there is speculations going on that it is about to get banned. I’m finna throw hands, all these valuable lessons that I could have gotten a few years ago and helped my life 😭😭😭😭😭. I’m so sorry for hijacking your thread to talk about me op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:01 AM
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Sometimes when I get angry at how stupid I was for letting someone so ugly with a micro dick mistreat me like that, I remember that everything happens for a reason and now I’ve gotten so many valuable lessons from that relationship. And it led me here and this subreddit has helped me better my life and my future love life. And I’m sure it’s the same for you, we’ve honestly got to go easy on ourselves. Hindsight is always 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:58 AM
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Wtf did we date the same guy, same exact story with me, his penis is not even the size of my baby finger, and he was so aggressive and horrible at fingering, oral sex and sex in general like so bad, he had no redeeming qualities, he was ugly, horrible personality, small dick, bad sex and trash all around. And honestly I’m the clown for feeling bad for him and dating him for 8 months even though I never liked him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:28 AM
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Lmao, I think men with short dicks are the most abusive, I know I’m generalizing but don’t @me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:25 AM
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I don’t know why I get so triggered at comments like this, last year I dated a 34 year old man at 19 he lied and said he was 25. Now whenever someone calls him a pedophile to me, or I see comments like this I get so triggered, like I’m traumatized or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:23 AM
9

Can I get verified through telling you guys who I am on here, I don’t feel comfortable with the whole process on discord. But check all my post history and everything. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:19 AM
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Can I get verified through telling you guys who I am on here, I don’t feel comfortable with the whole process on discord. But check all my post history and everything. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:19 AM
5

Can I get the discord link please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:03 AM
12

Can’t the mods make this subreddit private? Would making it private protect us? I’m so sad and I’m praying for this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:59 AM
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Thank you for creating this wonderful subreddit. You are a life saver and you’ve helped and inspired so many women. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:20 AM
6

Nigerian ??????!!!!! 🇳🇬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:14 AM
38

Sad. I never used to watch porn, but I went through a stage where I decided to check porn out, I was disgusted but I found two girls that I liked watching, one was Canadian and I would only watch her, like two months later I was just scrolling on twitter then I found some news that she was dead, then I dived deeper into her drug use and how she came to L.A to be an actress but she was tricked into porn and she came from a dysfunctional family, I started hating porn, and then the other porn actre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:36 AM
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What season/episode is this, I need to check it out. I think I might have been dennised, except I didn’t feel anything for him and I was the one constantly trying to break us up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:30 AM
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Still the same I specifically named that age for a reason, famous women are the only one people can remember and look up, no one is going to know who I’m Talking about if I started to name all the women I know in my life who are in their 50’s, that are beautiful, and just look at peace with life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:06 AM
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I agree with never giving men the benefit of the doubt. And also trusting your first intuition, when I first saw my ex I thought he was ugly, disgusting and dirty, even during our first date, I didn’t want to go and I broke up with him immediately, and then he started crying begging crying and being pushy, telling me I won’t regret it and he loved me(just after one date) turned out to be the biggest mistake of my life, all because I refused to listen to my intuition and I let him push me into gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:41 AM
23

I have zero sympathy for men that are not my family members. No fucks given
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:42 AM
9

If only I read the comments first.. like damn that man is bitter, sexist, and racist. I’m sure he looks like shit, people that hateful look 50 in their 30’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:42 AM
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Damn racist misogynist piece of shit, how can white men be so racist and sexist at the same time, at least pick a hateful struggle, and I doubt at 34 he is getting young girls like that, the only way he could is if he lies about his age. I’m 20 and no one my age wants a lonely, bitter old man who cries about the wall, he is bullshitting. What a racist scum though, racism is one thing I’ll never get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:37 AM
9

Disgusting looking creature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:58 AM
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I know it’s so weird. with how men talk bad about marriage and how women glamorize marriage, I used to think marriage was good for women and bad for men, but seeing all the stats and real life experiences, marriage is amazing for men and not so amazing for women for the most part, so I don’t get why women glamorize it and men act like it is something they don’t want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:38 PM
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I’ve also been watching sort of a true crime documentary and it is called wives with knives, one thing I’ve noticed is these men are usually drunks, smokers, drug addicts, or drug dealers and they tend to cheat, these are like the red flags I’ve noticed that abusive men demonstrate. I’m watching it to take notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:35 PM
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I’ve noticed that women in their 50’s look the most beautiful and the most fulfilled, and I say this as a 20 year old. Examples are: Naomi Campbell, viola davis, Jennifer Anniston, Halle berry, Nicole Kidman, etc. there’s just something about that age that I don’t know. They always look so stunning, happy and fulfilled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:40 AM
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Haha, I have a friend like this, talking about vasectomy would take away the guy’s manhood, like If he loves me and he is childfree he would do it. I believe words are greater than actions, men would lie and say they love you and would give you the world but their actions never match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:22 AM
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I’m going to make any man I decide to marry have a vasectomy. I’m childfree and I only want childfree men and I don’t do casual sex so I don’t think that is too much to ask for. People might think it is selfish and “taking away his manhood” but it’s going to be his choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:20 AM
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Sad women have been taught to put others needs before ours. I’m glad I am unlearning that now at 20 and I’ve never been happier, I only love myself, care for myself and put myself first and I’m so happy and for the first time in my life I feel fulfilled and I’ve been able to set boundaries and use the word “no” more. How did no one teach me this before 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:18 AM
14

Same!!!! I feel like lvm’s have always been around and now i am hyper vigilant to them, like my sixth sense has been opened and I can always tell the end! I’m amazed by how much I’ve learned in a few months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:43 AM
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Yeah I get that, I’m the same way except I’m 20 and I sneaked around and got in a relationship last year which I regretted. If I had this sub last year things would have been so much better for me, but it’s never too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:23 AM
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“fortunately”, people that find this sub before dating are the luckiest of all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:09 AM
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I don’t have one but still laughing at my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:06 AM
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I’m no longer letting things slide, I’m going to be calling the shit out of people till they reveal their true ugly self like wtf was that shit, what a sick man, I hope no woman ever goes out with him, he deserves to be lonely pathetic and sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:41 AM
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So if you are a party person it means you love to have sex with any and every man, including unemployed bums that live in their parents basement. Op I loved how you shamed him and called him out, I’m taking notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:54 AM
114

I’ve noticed that genuinely good people with good hearts age the best, and evil people that do harm age like shit, they might live long but they age the worst and start looking 40 at 20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 10:02 PM
14

I was just thinking about this, I just randomly cried a lot when I was with him, like full on tears and I would cry and cry and scream and cry, like dang my poor body was rejecting every part of him, and because he kept begging me to stay with him or he would kill him self, I literally neglected my own self, my own body and my own sanity to stay with him because I pitied him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:13 AM
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My only regret was not fighting back more, firing back more, being nice and sweet and letting things happen. It proved to me that I didn’t love myself, that I didn’t consider myself enough to defend and care for myself. I’m actually happy I got into a relationship like that, it brought me into a journey of therapy, self love and self realization, now I know what I don’t want in a relationship and what I do want. And now I love myself enough to prioritize myself and put myself first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:07 AM
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I knew he was going to propose but I didn’t say anything because everyone was being cynical and thinking of the worst. Congrats op, you guys make a cute couple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:15 AM
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I need advice on my friend, she is toxic and one of those cool girls, “I only have male friends because females are evil type” she always says mean things to me and she is very mean spirited, sometimes she is nice but for the most part she is very mean even though I’m nice to her, my friends also complain about being around her, they call her mean, rude and weird. I’m so close to dropping her but I don’t know how to go about it, I’ve never been friends with anyone as mean spirited as she is so I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:09 AM
5

Can someone please summarize? I’m way too scared to watch the video, I can’t lose more faith in humanity, reading is better so please summarize what he teaches so I know what to avoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:42 AM
7

How are childfree men weird? I’ve honestly never met one, that’s how scarce they are in my area, all my friends are asking me to try online dating and I’m honestly thinking about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:36 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏. I have this stickied in my notes, especially when I saw what happened to that poor girl, fighting for the same men that raped and killed her, I’m going to be more selfish and prioritize myself, I’ve always prioritized others happiness over mine and how that shit is over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:10 AM
5

I like the “what can you offer” reply, I’m stealing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:08 AM
38

I came here because I was going to make a post about this, if a man says “not all men” we know he is trash, but would would be a good answer/green flag to that answer. Let’s say you are talking about the mistreatment of women to a potential boyfriend, what answers are green flags to expect? Most men say “not all men”, so I’m curious on what a guy should say when you complain about the injustices towards women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:01 PM
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Lol wtf no way that profile is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:06 AM
14

What a jerk, I’ve never met anyone like that, when I buy groceries I’ve noticed men would actually stare into my grocery basket like they are counting everything and making some judgement, I normally buy a lot of yoghurt but I have no idea why they stare and glare at my basket. I didn’t know bold assholes like that existed and like you I wouldn’t know what to say I would just freeze up because it is such a disgusting thing to say to someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:58 PM
13

Same I literally learnt nothing from her about relationships or sex, everything from sex I learnt from my sexual psychology class, and everything from relationship I’m learning from here, how sad though it’s as if I don’t have a mother, I have to learn about relationships from Reddit 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:56 PM
19

What if they beg you and plead and say they won’t leave till they get your number, and you happen to be at work and your bosses don’t give a shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:02 AM
17

I’m so jealous of girls like you that grew up with supportive mothers that love you and gave you advice, you’re lucky for having that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:02 PM
41

I’ve never read the book before but I love the movie and I’ve watched it like five times, Amy was supposed to be the “crazy” one but I loved her and I keep watching it over and over to really understand her, I think I’m obsessed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:37 PM
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Saying women like to get raped is also not okay so he gets what he deserves. And no the type of media people watch doesn’t always say anything about them. Lots of people watched that movie even guys, I guess they all want to get raped, especially the teenage girls watching it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:27 AM
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The plot was all over the place and the movie was boring as hell, I regret watching it and I rate it a D-, with the kidnapping situation it gets an F from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:00 AM
18

Wtf does: “I don’t understand why women like to get raped mean?” No fucking body likes to get raped, what a sick thing to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:58 AM
6

Honestly I’m getting this way, I don’t want a guy with trauma or any kind of mental illness, I don’t want anyone with baggage that would try to unload it and take it out on me. If we were dating and he starts telling me some traumatic event he experienced im dipping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:47 AM
4

My people!! I thought the same too and I felt like I was the only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:08 AM
10

I would have told him I hoped he had Coronavirus and he should invite me to his funeral and block. Yes I’m evil 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:07 AM
13

Reminds me of my ex, he was sick and I drove him into every hospital so they can admit him, he normally picks me up with his car so I drove him and we drove for a while cause they were all closed till we found one. He literally used that kindness over my head, he would tell me he knew I loved him because of what I did for him, and when I broke up with him he would remind me again that doing that showed that I loved him and it gives him hope that I would take him back again. I honestly regret doi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:06 AM
10

Get her!! I was going to say something but you handled it well. How are you going to tell someone not to believe in astrology like mind your business and fuck off!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:03 AM
9

What is that about? Is it sad or educational? What would you rate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:05 PM
24

This is true. I’m ready to date again and meet someone new, it’s been 8 months and I’m healed. I’ll start dating again when quarantine ends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:24 PM
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What is her zodiac sign? Do you know his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:29 PM
31

This is why I carry pepper spray, they both need to be sprayed, that woman is the scum Of the earth for defending that man, there is something so sick and evil about women and men like that. I love that girl so much for defending her cousin, the cousin was in tears but good for her for defending her and speaking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:05 PM
9

Let’s be honest, posts asking for advice barely gets likes and comments, everyone rushes to the memes and screenshots of bad boyfriends. I guess that’s what the masses want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:17 PM
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Full text: Boyfriend won’t stop telling me I have B.O. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and everything has been great except for one thing. Every single day, at least once, he will tell me that I stink and smell of b.o. When we met I showered every day, applied regular deodorant in the morning, brushed my teeth three times a day. Now I am so paranoid about smelling bad that I shower at least twice a day, I apply new industrial strength deodorant every few hours (I have a reminder on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:23 AM
36

Lol why is her name: “at risk pick me youth” I swear the flairs in this subreddit makes me lose my shit, so creative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:17 AM
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The audacity though, who came up with that bullshit, like how does that help anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:15 AM
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What the fuck is this shit, black people are being shut in this street so let’s make some more videos degrading block women wtf!!! This is sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:14 AM
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I don’t think so, the only thing I recognize is, if you are a confident attractive man, you should have it easier than other men cause men do the chasing. Other than that I think women have it easier than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:38 PM
64

They feel entitled to young women but the feeling is not mutual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:36 PM
96

Sad. Clown shit, you don’t know who those strange men are or what they’ve done, or if they would even spit on you if you were on fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:35 PM
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They are only good at killing unarmed black people, most of them are useless, 40% of police are also domestic abusers so I don’t give a fuck if anyone gets offended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:51 PM
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I’m sorry but why is she paying, she should have let him known from the start that she is not with the shit and she is not paying. And let’s say they end up together and have kids, is he going to pay her for giving birth to his children, also would she and her children continue paying him for food? She needs to leave him ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:46 PM
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That person lacks empathy, I loathe people like that, clearly the woman has been groomed and trapped with babies, she was a child when it happened but nope let’s blame a child for not seeing the “signs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:39 PM
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She was 16 and he was 20, you think a 16 year old is capable of thinking enough about the signs to ignore, even grown women end up in shitty relationships. I feel bad for her, she never had a childhood and I wonder where are parents her and why they allowed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:38 PM
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I guess she might be scared of the evil boys that hate women finding the username and getting her nudes, and also releasing it on tiktok, they sometimes use the nudes as their profile picture on tiktok and blame the girl for sending it. It’s happened on tiktok before, really sad the girl cried but they kept taunting and blaming her and using her leaked nude as their profile picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 04:27 AM
13

He can’t feed himself, so she feeds him or something. And while they were dating she didn’t notice all this, all she has just been trying to change him all his life, he is “emotional” but never considers her feelings. Just a lazy selfish man child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:48 PM
6

What country is that? I don’t even mind if you PM me telling me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:05 PM
19

The whole “gold digger” debacle leads me to believe that men are just jealous that woman Practice hypergamy and marry up, rich women rarely marry poor women and it is not encouraged, while rich men don’t care and they tend to marry someone who isn’t richer than them either. So poor men are mad that women “gold dig” way better than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:02 AM
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I hate the whole picture thing, especially when you’ve seen my face and we’ve met, reminds me of some guy that kept asking for pictures of me, because I was beautiful, like over and over again even though we already met, when I said no he stopped talking to me and he got mad anytime I said no wtf, now I’m scared of what he used my picture to do, although I only showed my face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:53 PM
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Also it helps that she hasn’t had any children. “runs”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:50 PM
20

Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:49 PM
89

Black don’t crack, Angela Bassett and Naomi Campbell are proofs of that. Melanin is a blessing from the gods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:49 PM
28

All this posts I’ve been seeing on Reddit, I will never tell a man about my past and any of my hardships, it’s like some men don’t see women as fully human, I break down when I hear my friends or even strangers on the internet talk about their abuse. But for men it’s a way for them to get off on it, on her trauma and her pain, how sick is that. I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:48 PM
39

Yes, I just said that. Just imagine if you got like 50 orgasms in one go. Your libido will magically sky rocket 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:00 PM
31

My ex used to beg me to scream in bed and act like I enjoyed it. And my clown ass did, I so wish I didn’t feel the need to pretend and just straight up tell him that he was awful in bed, a good -0. But I didn’t want to hurt his feelings 😭, I’m too kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:00 PM
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I personally feel like my libido is as high as the sex is good, like they are directly proportional. My ex was shitty in bed and I was hardly if ever in the mood. But I don’t think I have a low libido though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:58 PM
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To sum this psycho up, he thinks all women are gold diggers and evil and shallow for this, yet he only wants hot women, and upholds hot women. When women convince him otherwise he calls them ugly and tells them they must have settled. Op you need a therapist, shouldn’t you be happy that they are women who actually like broke men like you, but no you call them ugly and ask them to rate themselves smh
/r/ExRedPill03/06/20 05:47 PM
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He did, people let him have it and he was crying about how he is not an incel and he doesn’t look down on her. To view the comment, click the link on the op, and then click the username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:50 PM
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Wtf did I just read. This is why people here preach to not tell men your full history and your sexual history because they would use it against you and to degrade you. I’m just glad this subreddit is here to lead me to the right direction. I wish I didn’t read what that psychopath wrote, dude has a major superiority complex and he looks down on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:42 PM
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Mansplaining is when a man dismisses your opinions and tries to argue that your opinion is wrong, like I’ll say something like the exams are hard to my professor, and the idiot will say that he doesn’t think the exams are hard, they are very easy and good for us. Luckily my female professor took my side and she agreed with me that the exams were hard but she doesn’t make them, she was asking us what we found difficult In the class, I kept my mouth shut when he said textbooks, but he decided to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:57 PM
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Men of Reddit always give the shittiest advice, like split the bill, communicate, etc. they are only looking at it from their perspective and I used to take their advice, and about that sex positivity b.s. because they want to get laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:26 AM
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Oh my god this is so sick, he is a pedophile and a rapist I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:24 AM
28

I’m fine with them dismissing their black blood, like Dominicans, I’m not going to beg anyone to claim black, just don’t be a racist piece of shit, I don’t know why that is so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:22 AM
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This is so sick, what a racist piece of shit. I hope he gets what is coming for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:21 AM
39

👏 you are so right, about the innocent until proven guiltily, they don’t even have any proof, women are inherently evil liars and men are the victims. I’m just happy to see a woman winning,even if she is just as vindictive as the men she is fighting, she is doing it for a good cause, those men are misogynist as fuck, joe is also abusive and drove his boyfriend to suicide, Jeff is also abusive, he beat his ex wife and he preys on younger woman, he also uses the tigers to lure women into his house…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:51 PM
20

Police and millitary men are the two occupation I will never date,I’ve seen a lot of women on social media warn women off them, and I’m not one to go against warnings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:33 PM
48

I heard there are a lot of traffickers and people looking to instigate shit in the rally, women need to be safe and go in groups and carry weapons to protect yourself. To many evil pieces of shit going to the protests to hurt people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:31 PM
62

Why would any woman even want to deal with a mentally ill man, he is more likely to turn out abusive and she is going to end up blaming herself unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:26 PM
199

I just love how she stands up for herself and she went against so many misogynist men in her life and still won, her ex husband is also a typical predator that preyed on a teenager at his old age, and the way she talks about him, he sounds abusive. I’m team Carole, I love how she pisses off the white men on Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:25 PM
54

I loathe him, even online discussion this fucker would purposefully pick my discussion to disagree with. He mostly does it when I’ve finished speaking to mansplain me. It’s a majority women course, so he interrupts the ladies when they speak, he grinds my gear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:19 PM
17

They went out for a drive, if they have to drive there and she couldn’t walk back home, it most definitely isn’t the same Apartment they live in, so I doubt it is Saudi Arabia. The country that requires women to cover up even when it is burning hot outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:11 PM
27

I’ve vowed to myself that I will never date/marry a guy that would feel the need to change how I dress, how do I vet that? What kind of red flag should I look out for? Because there are always warning signs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:00 PM
22

Are Saudi women even allowed to wear shorts outside in the first place???!! I highly doubt this happened in Saudi, and I’m guessing she wore shorts shorts that probably showed her bum..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:59 AM
159

I have a classmate that does this to me, I’m just waiting on the right time to explode on him, I’m The kind of person that lets things slide till I explode. The stupid fucker always mansplains me, everything I say he’ll try to explain why it isn’t so, ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:56 AM
8

Visit the Netherlands, I’m going to visit for the weed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:36 AM
24

Or women don’t know what they want, like boy I do you just keep mansplaining me instead of listening to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:49 PM
5

Worst part is I’m just trying to watch a movie or click a site and then I just see some cartoon women with big boobs saying “fuck me” wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:19 PM
22

Lol fashion nova is such trash, even the sleep outfit are trashy like I’m Trying to sleep not show off my goods to the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:17 PM
13

I hate when we get grouped together as “humans” like nah sis it’s just them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:14 PM
11

A man who is willing to walk away from that woman who actually loves him, is a man who is going to be single, bitter, lashing out at woman and at his ex wife. She won’t take you back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:13 PM
54

Men will literally step and trample on your boundaries if you don’t uphold that wall high. They really are like predators and they can sniff out weakness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:10 PM
37

I agree, I am happily single, deserts are sweets and they feel good, I personally feel Like men are like sodas, you don’t need it to live but it taste good but dangerous in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:09 PM
29

Happened to me too, I told him no I don’t want to be alone with him in his dorm, and he backtracked that it’s just a movie and he wasn’t planning on doing anything because his roommates are around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:08 PM
54

Yeah I’m going to be in your house with wine to get you drunk and vulnerable and making out with you, but no we are not going to hook up, just you drunk and losing your inhibitions and we end up naked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:07 PM
15

He sounds like a dickhead, I would have debated the fuck out of his ass, he is a failure in life and taking it out on women. Men who major in philosophy are the biggest assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:04 PM
20

Thank you!!! Philosophers are major assholes, absolutely miserable dickheads, it’s not my fault you are majoring in a dead major. It’s also majority male so this only count for the males. And yes I’m mad about my asshole philosophy professor I took 2 years ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:02 PM
6

Op hugs, they all sound like Pieces of shit but I’m so proud of you, and you are going through so much right now, and I know from experience that therapy helps. I’m proud of you for speaking out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:59 PM
20

Same, it’s nice to find a community I can relate to. I wish I found it a year ago but it is never too late to learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:28 PM
3

I just did !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:59 AM
31

Yeah I don’t know who they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:44 AM
54

Age is just a number and jail is just a place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:55 PM
36

You changed my mind, I’ll revert my vote. And I love your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:21 PM
53

I just can’t upvote the piece of shit, it’s like I’m complicit in his scumbagiry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:46 PM
97

I absolutely love that she left and she is not falling for his manipulative tears, so the next time he feels stressed at work he is just going to cheat on her again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:45 PM
56

That man is psycho and probably a narcissist, not once did he take full accountability for his actions, he just blamed her wtf it’s her fault that he didn’t tell her he was stressed, it’s her fault that he slept with another woman multiple times, it’s her fault that she wants part of his income to raise their offsprings, she deserves more than 50%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:44 PM
27

It’s so wonderful to find like minded women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:48 PM
55

Men protect and other men, I guess they can only empathize with each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:48 PM
39

I agree even other women shame prudes, I don’t know if it is where I live but all the single girls I know have men on rotation and are constantly sleeping with different guys. My friend has a guy she plans to marry waiting for her back home while she sleeps with different guys and he knows she told him and he accepts it, even though he is super religious. Sex positivity and sleeping around is very in with gen z
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:47 PM
30

Im childfree but I do intend to get married, what I’ve noticed is every single guy I’ve met wants kids, I have never met any guy that didn’t want kids. I have hopes though because none of my brothers want kids so I know CF guys are out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:27 PM
30

The man is scum, I’ve always thought having a dog is the best way to be safe around men but this proved me wrong. I would have unleashed the dog on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:55 AM
172

I’ve noticed that men get angry when you tell them you like them as a friend or as a brother. That boy is sick there was no escaping that so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:53 AM
27

Damn I’m a bad person, I would have told him that I hope the depression kills him and I would have blocked his number. You handled it so well and classy bravo 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:38 AM
9

Hmm I see that in relationships with men but not in everything else, it’s a realistic way too think though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:29 AM
13

If only everyone else were like us, but that isn’t how the world is, too many people just searching to take advantage of good people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:28 AM
20

That is so deep and so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:27 AM
27

When you ignore the Redflags you are doing yourself a disservice, and one day you would think about all the red flags and tally them up and see what a clown you were. If someone shows you who they are the first time believe them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:27 AM
3

Oh yeah true I get you. I’ve seen so many men get exposed by people who know they are married/gay, at the same time that is what background checks are for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:25 AM
13

I would just report him and block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:23 AM
18

I would show him on social media, you never know who might recognize him. and he would be absolute fucking trash to chest on me because I posted him on my socials, he is just making the dumping easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:21 AM
7

I know this is not the time, but seeing all these public relationships unfold has made me comfortable in being single, all the couples that made me feel the need to rush to find a boyfriend are all broken up except for one, and they all talk about how bad the relationship was, but I never saw it, they show you what they want you to see. I heard about the news, her husband is worse than garbage for cheating on her with one of her subscribers wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:19 AM
1

You didn’t read my previous post, I talked about being a bra addict and how I wear bras everywhere, at the same time I don’t think bras are necessary, a of girls go without bras and they are fine, I have small breasts and I can choose not to wear bras but I find them comfortable. You sound like you got riled up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:00 PM
12

I agree I think the whole bra thing is bullshit stirred up by bra companies to make women buy bras, also a scare tactic so women can cover up and wear torture devices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:22 PM
19

I know, the disgusting double standards, I rarely see posts of women commenting about their attractive boyfriends but so much the other way around and the comments are all : “leave her, she is disgusting for not caring for her health, I also left my ugly fat wife when she gave birth to our kids”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:12 PM
15

Insane, I’ve never see a man on that sub empathize like that to the women they think are letting themselves go. It’s just I’m no longer attracted to her, how do I drop hints that she is fat. And everyone is like break up with her she is disgusting. But she shows so much empathy and the comments didn’t even mention her abandoning him and finding a hot guy to date hmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:10 PM
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That study is interesting, because I always wear bras and my breasts are perky, people comment on how perky it is when they see it. My friends that wear bras have perky breasts and my friends that don’t have dropped breasts, though not saggy. I think size affects perkiness/sagginess, I doubt bra or no bra affects anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:04 PM
7

Thats not even true so many studies have debunked that. And I say this as a bra addict I literally wear it when I’m alone in the house or in my room but I wear it cause I like it. For other women bras are a torture device and a way to cover your nipples so the men don’t stare, not wearing a bra doesn’t make your breast sag so do what you want. And show him this study: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.medicalnewstoday.com/amp/articles/259073
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:33 PM
40

The double standards, so they can use women as rehab centers, therapists, and for sex. But a woman not wanting to go 50/50 is worse than a murderer and a gold digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:33 PM
2

It’s filled with lies. The bullshit I’ve read on there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:29 PM
8

I hate kissing men with beard, it’s like you’re being poked and beards are nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:27 PM
9

But it is unhygienic and gross for women to have body hair. But clean and fine on men!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:27 PM
10

That’s so cool. Have you met her/Miley Cyrus, since she is Miley’s god mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:38 PM
13

lol I love jolene. For some reason it empowers me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:38 PM
24

I was 19 when a 40 year old guilt tripped me about dating him, he told me I was already 19 so I should date him and settle down, I cursed him out, I have other dating prospects not going to settle for a 40 year old creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:25 PM
5

Aww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:20 PM
5

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:19 PM
13

I agree my experience with this, was just wanting to be friends and him crying about how he can’t be friends with a girl and I should please give him a chance blah blah, he got very crazy when I just wanted to be friends or when I wanted to break up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:18 PM
66

It’s mostly men that say, humans are violent, they know they are the dangerous one but they always bring up how humans are violent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:16 PM
47

My favorite part is when they call you childish stupid fuck maybe date someone your own age if you think I’m childish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:14 PM
23

25 is too old for me too, I’ve always been repulsed by other men which is why I’m going to be more aggressive with my background checks, cause men lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:13 PM
28

Interesting. I’m 20 and people support me and tell me not to date them. Most of my friends are also not into old men, really disgusting how aggressive they are, with their age is just a number bullshit, and you are discriminating on me for not wanting to date me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:12 PM
10

Me neither it is disgusting and I hate the power imbalance so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:11 PM
7

What helped me was telling people word for word every shitty thing he did to me and they threaten to beat my ass if I went back to him, the kind of reaction they had to it and how they were amazed at how ugly he was and he had no good qualities and I kept going back. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:54 PM
19

Wtf why was my relationship all this things. I really need to love myself more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:00 PM
8

It’s for them, instead of wearing those lifts, they should just come out and wear 5 inch stilettos, if you don’t like it change it lol. High heels was originally meant for them anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:58 PM
46

Loll, 5’11 guys are the true liars, they know if they say 6ft people would call bullshit, so they just claim 5’11 when they are in fact 5’8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:57 PM
279

Hold on, Facebook was created to rank women’s look, not that attractiveness should excuse it, but he is ugly as fuck, worth billions but still looks like a raw fried egg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:56 PM
43

Society normalizes it and disparages women that choose to stay single and not have children, calling them undesirable, everyone wondering what’s wrong with her, family member and friends barging her about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:26 AM
4

I understand but don’t let the feeling rush you into marriage, you should never rush into it because it is not all glitter and gold, your friends might not let you know of the bad things that goes on in a marriage, but I get why you feel this way. I’m 20 and none of my friends Are married so I don’t know this feeling so I can’t judge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:23 AM
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She shouldn’t have told him she was going to open one. My stupid ex wanted us to have a joint account because what is mine is his, and vice versa, and I was like what if one person takes the money and runs away and he started stuttering 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:16 PM
19

Wow women are being sent to 30 years for abortion, I bet you rapists and pedophiles don’t get the same sentence, men are so evil and callous with their need to control women. In my country they burn thieves to death but blame women when they are targeted by pedophiles/rapists, I hate this sick male dominated world! El Salvador is a country going through so much where humans are dying due to gang violence, instead of focusing on that they are punishing women for having miscarriages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:58 PM
17

Things would go back to how it was before dating app existed, men making more effort, I prefer real life too because there is so much I know now and I can vet better in real life and watch body language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:43 PM
30

I absolutely love her energy, I feel like sometimes we go through bad stuff in life to learn lessons and better ourselves. Personally I wouldn’t tell him to “forget it”, I would just leave and block his number, when he comes wait and searches for me I truly wouldn’t give a damn, and yes I’m petty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:45 PM
85

Piece of human trash, he was in his 40’s when she was born, she didn’t exist when he was 40 years old. Her self esteem must be non existent, dating a disgusting old man and then proposing and flaunting it. Please love yourselves 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:27 PM
3

Word though, younger men are more handsome, why would we go for ugly old men when we can just find someone young with the same interest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:24 PM
8

Sounds like he doesn’t even care, maybe this is just how healthy people breakup and I don’t recognize it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:13 PM
29

Of course it’s a Leo male, ugh never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:11 PM
21

Wtf I just finished reading it, everyone in the comment section are gaslighting her, makes me think though, there are men that date women because they want tall kids, it happens the other way around to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:09 PM
43

And you can’t be a gold digger! We split the bills and sex would probably be awful!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:02 PM
31

Wtf so bold. I prefer the trash that shows you it is trash, compared to the trash that hides his wife and you never know till he hits it and runs away. They are both trash though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:01 PM
9

Bruv my real life ex was like this, dating app attracts trash but so does real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:59 PM
19

My ex played this shit on me, run for your life. He lied about his age then blamed me for not asking about why he would lie about his age 🤡🤡, how dare I find out from snooping around!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:59 PM
5

Same I’m also practicing self love and loving myself, I used to think I needed a boyfriend to love me and do things for me but nope I can love myself and spoil myself. I’m also no longer depressed and I always think positively and my life and how I view men has changed tremendously. My self esteem has also skyrocketed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:57 PM
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So many men supporting him in the comments lol, I thought y’all hate gold diggers? Are you just mad because women don’t want to date your dusty ass, so you want to date up too. I just hope that woman finds her self esteem from the hole it is buried in and flies away from the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:29 PM
75

Makes me wonder if they really think they are the prize, and just imagine the lack of empathy it takes to do that to your spouse in their most vulnerable moment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:22 PM
17

I’m just happy she broke up with him and I hope she never ever thinks otherwise and entertain his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:17 PM
38

And then crop tops and then hair dye lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:15 PM
26

Might sound evil to say but I’m happy that happened, evil pos like that don’t deserve to have offsprings, just imagine you could have being one of those unfortunate women in that breaking mom subreddit. I am happy you’re doing so much better now. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:49 PM
34

Lmao I’m childfree too, I’ve seen how they do a 365 when children come in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:39 PM
69

At the same time, how do you vet someone like this, they’ve been dating 15 years and he is showing that he is a true pos after 15 years, I’m tiyaaad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:26 PM
52

Women are trained to, cook clean and satisfy him, I mean look at the Bible and the whole Adam and Eve story, Eve was literally created for Adam’s pleasure, religions also focus on oppressing women specifically. I’m just glad women are waking the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:24 PM
19

I get body positivity but she looks like that and she is a woman, a real life woman and that’s fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:21 PM
73

It’s crazy, Emily is considered beautiful, she is smarter than she presents herself, she has a banging body and she is financially doing well, and she settled for that caveman of a husband who refuses to pay rent 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:16 PM
73

She is the reason I used to think feminism was white rich women centric who wanted to take their tops off, like she was so bold about it and always getting naked, showing her tits and calling it feminism. I’m glad I’m more educated on feminism and I see her as the pick me she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:14 PM
2

I had no idea that was possible lol, I’ve always thought both things contradict each other, a truthful man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:52 AM
15

Word. If you can’t love yourself, how would you expect anyone else to love you? How would you even know what love is when you don’t even love yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:11 AM
9

At the same time isn’t living alone scary? I’ve watched so many documentaries about women living alone, I personally feel like they get targeted. I want to live alone but I’m paranoid, I’m going to have cameras, alarms, passcodes, and dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:03 AM
3

Lol I knew you were going to what about Obama me, thats all you trump supporters have, Obama and Clinton bad too😂. Compared to trump Obama is an amazing president and a HVM and you will deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:27 AM
0

And what about Qasem Soleimani, to be clear I don’t support him, but trump bombed him out of nowhere, he led him to believe they were developing a peace deal and he killed him. Is his murder alright because he is not an American citizen? And those poor children locked in concentration camp, it’s fine because their parents broke the rules? You trump supporter lack serious empathy, and do not what about Obama me, stay on topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:10 AM
15

It is disgusting how sexist they are, the good thing is that it also opens younger women’s mind to what men are capable of doing. I wish I was as exposed to that, I had no idea of men’s nature and I had to learn the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:51 AM
5

It’s fine to bomb the shit out of children in the Middle East, kill women and bomb children, but to kill a grown terrorist because he is an American citizen, now that is where we draw the line!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:49 AM
9

Umm he had ties with al-Qaeda, so terrorists should be spared because they are American citizens, I have zero empathy for terrorists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:48 AM
-1

Excuse you, who did Obama order to be assassinated? I’m going to need you guys to drop links.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:29 AM
10

And how is Obama an asshole? Obama was an amazing president, and I’ll take him over that obese racist orangutan. Compared to trump Obama is a hvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:03 AM
-28

And trump is better lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:35 AM
58

Only when a woman complains about being raped though, any other time it is cricket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:58 PM
85

Like she’s not sure if he is being abusive or just joking, she probably feels bad for him because he has Lyme and he is in recovery, so she feels the need to take care of him and to nurture him. I feel so bad for her, she is so sweet and he is an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:57 PM
178

I remember Selena saying he emotionally abused her and some people were gaslighting her, telling her to move on and stop using his name for publicity. I feel so bad for Hailey, she seems so sweet and nice, it breaks a part of me to see sweet girls like this being mistreated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:55 PM
39

Saving this, I love this sub and I’ve saved and learnt from so many quotes 😭😭, although I wished I had this last year, it is never too late
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:00 AM
15

I used to be that way till I was like 19, I’m 20 now. In my case I grew up with three brothers, a sexist father and a mother who is male identified. I’m thankful for social media for educating me. She’ll change to I’m sure, there’s hope for younger girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:01 PM
21

I def used to have a savior complex, with my clown cape ready and flying to save the world and to save men, I thought to myself, he’s been through a genocide, his dad died, his ex cheated on him, he’s going through so much racism. Let me fix him, and he is only the way he is due to his trauma, a little loving would change him 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:55 PM
34

I used to tolerate the cool girls “pick me”, like so what, why should it affect me if some girl has problems with other girls. Nowadays they infuriate me, especially when they are adults and they bring down other women to hype the clown gender up 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:52 PM
36

Even if you tell them, they would call you a hater, yes I tried. It is insane how these women cling so hard to men that don’t love them, like he is not even pretending to love her or care, it’s so weird to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:50 PM
45

This is sad, girl he is not going to marry you, and even if he does it’s because you are practically begging for it and he is marrying you out of pity, making him the prize, like there are other man out there that would treat you better. She needs to work on her self esteem and dump him, surprisingly I hardly meet women like this in real life but so many on tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:47 PM
14

This subreddit was created by u/THEOGJammies . And it was created to help guide women on how to choose better. I’m glad she created this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:11 PM
60

I’m sorry but jihadmeisha’s 😂. But I agree it’s crazy these girls are privileged and they live good lives they just decide to abandon it all to be the wife of psychopaths who don’t even respect women and think Nothing of raping women and stripping women of their rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:39 AM
39

Happy birthday op. I’m glad you dumped him and you know your worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:27 AM
20

Wow he is an asshole, birthdays aren’t big in my family either but if I like you, I will remember and wish you a happy birthday or buy something for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:23 AM
34

What is wrong with loving yourself though? I am learning to love myself, and it is working wonderfully for me, my self esteem and self confidence has skyrocketed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 12:16 AM
27

He is not even willing to pay for dates, he wants a free servant, like a maid who bangs him but pays for everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:32 AM
56

This is cute lol, but how do they have so many costumes? I don’t even have one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:22 AM
29

Sure abuser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:40 AM
7

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:38 AM
158

He is just misunderstood, he is acting out and jealous because he has been trauma. A little bit of loving should help him 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:20 PM
79

It’s never going to be fair if women are the only ones that can carry and birth children. The fact that only women have to go through that is unfair on its own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:12 AM
93

I love how she is asking innocently so he would have no choice but to explain himself and his depravity, feign innocent and make them say what they want clearly and sue them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:04 AM
57

If only women could make an app to check a man’s dick size and whether or not he could make a woman orgasm just by pointing my phone at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:58 AM
25

Lol I just said I am not down with ever sending nudes, it was cute being naive and thinking the best in people. I would rather be proactive now than learn from my lesson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:11 AM
81

Y’all are really scaring me and I love it, I used to think there was nothing wrong with sending nudes as far as you don’t show your face but now I have picked up my self worth from the dust. No is a complete sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:20 AM
7

I’m so sorry I hate poor men and my preference makes you lash out, I take it as a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:07 AM
128

Probably wearing short shorts and a tight white tank top, what did he expect??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:24 PM
38

If he wasn’t wearing those sun glasses, this wouldn’t have happened, you dress and cover yourself up, he was asking for it with that sign. I hope she doesn’t get charged, she was standing her ground
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:24 PM
78

Thank god ive never heard that phrase in my life, what a sick saying, telling women to settle for dust and maybe the dust will turn to glitter one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:22 PM
7

Same lol, thing is though I am done with doing right by people, especially the men I date, if you do one wrong thing you are out of the door, I shall practice no empathy to the man I date, no forgiveness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:43 AM
7

He sure did, and more awful things shall come his way, yes I am a bitch 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:41 AM
13

I believe in karma, and karma has a sick sense of humor, same thing is going to happen to my ex lol, because karma comes when you least expect her to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:40 AM
18

I asked because my friend said it is weird as fuck, and she knew my ex lied to me about his age, I could just ask in a playful way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:47 AM
66

Ugh I hate men that lie about their age. Is it weird to ask for drivers license to make sure he is who he says he is, because I don’t trust men anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 07:54 AM
31

Hmm sometimes it makes me jealous, because I go to school and work so hard but then I snap out of it, it is not the life I want personally, yeah it looks glamorous from the outside but not all that glitters is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:49 AM
33

Lucky you my therapist was trash and she blamed me for what happened, I literally spilled my guts and she told me there must be something wrong with me to take all that abuse and not leave, that he is at fault but I am at fault too 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:06 AM
8

There has been so many posts on that app about that, I saw a woman who has been dating her bf for 15 years and no ring and she made a video with him and she was pointing to her finger, I told her he didn’t love her and she got mad oop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:31 AM
19

Yes, it wasn’t like that when I was growing up, but for the past two years yes, and they always mention it. Now I don’t know if it is what 90% of them are looking for, I believe beauty is in the eye of the beer holder, so like even if one guy doesn’t find you attractive millions of others would, just weed them out and find the best one for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:23 AM
38

Lol and she is flattered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:58 AM
7

But honestly though would it be crazy to do this? I wrote it down on my list to do. Like anytime he does something wrong make him write a 6 page essay, correct grammar on why what he did was wrong and why he would never do it again. Yeah I’m crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:17 AM
40

Lol I died, me in my past relationship 🤡 shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:16 AM
22

Oh my god I love this movie queen, it’s on Netflix everyone needs to watch it, it is indian and so empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:14 PM
21

I don’t think men need tweets like this to think it is okay. They treat women like shit even before twitter existed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:13 PM
22

My love language is receiving gifts 🐔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:12 PM
12

Ok female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:38 PM
50

You didn’t know? I advocate for violence when you get raped because the police won’t do shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:38 PM
27

Lol that is why I keep my mouth shut about the whole cardi b situation, I don’t support her tying those men up but I keep my mouth shut, because men do even worse when it is women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:37 PM
6

This sounds like I wrote it, I’m an infj and a earth sign(Capricorn) and yes I’m just throwing random facts about me to see why we think the same way. I don’t think we are incapable of loving someone, we just have to be patient and wait for that perfect someone that sends fireworks in us. I will always believe in soulmates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:18 AM
10

Lol I got suspended multiple times for saying, bitch, asshole etc. I also got comments deleted for asking the op questions lol I hate that sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:28 AM
26

The mods are on a powertrip in that sub, absolutely batshit crazy, been that way for years now lol. I used to get so sad because r/askmen is so cool, while r/askwomen , which is supposed to be a safe space for women is ran by assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:38 AM
29

I know right, I just read the post with my wtf face, in what world are children undervalued, children as seen as precious and fragile beings that should be protected, it’s an instinct that most of the world have. They are literally seen as the leaders of tomorrow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:36 AM
6

Hmm I don’t think children are under valued, maybe it’s just my culture but having children is seen as this fantastic thing to do, like you just brought forth life and it is seen as amazing, and if you don’t want children as a woman you are seen as a selfish witch, how dare you not want to reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:35 AM
4

Hopefully condom is able to protect people from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:24 AM
6

No one did anything? That is so sad because my only plan is to only have public dates and carry weapon so I would have witness just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:31 AM
25

The Carole Baskin way. I kid lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:25 AM
26

This is why people in this sub advice us not to tell men intimate things about ourselves even when they ask. I’ll start practicing this ruthlessly now, men are sick creatures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:22 AM
19

This is so true, most of his friends didn’t have girlfriends because they were all trash like him, and all he did was show me off, invite me over to show me off so they can get jealous, ugh I wish I spoke up for myself more. When I was shy to meet his friends he went off on me and he got so angry 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:03 AM
151

I used to think all men were good until proven otherwise, like all men had good intentions and rapists, players etc were the minority, lmao boy did I get a reality check. Now I treat all men as guilty until proven otherwise, I’m always going to prioritize myself and my safety no matter how defensive he gets. I’m not going to look at all men with a rose tinted glass and dismiss their actions, they are all the same until proven otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:43 PM
12

All pretty women, you would think they were exposing something more frightening than beauty 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:23 PM
21

I didn’t know he was a rapist, I just know that women fawn for him and call him a gentleman. He is a sick demented human being, what he did to those girls is demonic. And that feminist sub is weird, they are downvoting the op for saying porn is bad and leads to rape https://jezebel.com/three-years-was-enough-time-evil-angel-decides-to-welc-1832120131
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:26 AM
148

You are so cute. Tiktok is filled with pickme’s, girls who go viral are the one that think girls cause too much drama and guys are better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:07 AM
40

She looks so different. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:56 AM
3

I don’t know how things are done but I’ve always thought Mother’s Day gift is from child to mother and not husband to mother, especially not casually dating a guy and expecting a Mother’s Day gift because you have a child. But that is just how Mother’s Day is celebrated around me, or maybe I have low standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 11:14 PM
18

Thank you op, unfortunately I was raised that way, my dad always prioritized turning the other check, never standing up for myself and never getting violent. Yup now I’m rewriting my whole personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:26 PM
29

Or you chose the wrong man. Lol I guess they are all wrong then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:19 PM
10

Does this count if he jokes about beating you, like beating you with a belt and stuff. I remember my ex always jokes about how he would beat me if we got married and he would laugh and say it was a joke when I went off the rails, and then he would promise to never say it again and he would rinse and repeat. But he never hit me, one thing he always said was that he would never hit someone or get violent. So like his two words were contradicting each other and I was left confused and angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:42 PM
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I think so too, she is already blaming herself, I feel so bad for her. Edit: oh my god this isn’t even the one I read, I thought it was the one on relationship advice about the woman that got drunk and was raped by her friend’s husband. Men are literally scum, like why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:00 AM
48

Oh my god, I was just thinking about this today, it’s sad because it was a college gym, I used to be so scared to go to the weight section cause literally all the guys would stare at me, they all stared like they would lift weights and stare at me, sometimes I would be at the treadmill and they would just walk next to me and just stare as I run on it. I was so shy and I didn’t say anything but it was so uncomfortable 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:04 AM
13

Especially being called hot/sexy, nothing worse than that, might as well say I like your body and I want to be inside it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:01 AM
11

Yes we are both going to go through 9 months of pain and being uncomfortable with stretch marks and weight gain. And then we are both going to give birth to the size of our watermelon out of our small hole and go through excruciating pain and probably even poop in front of people. I saw that post when it was posted and majority of the posters supported op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:51 PM
13

We would probably be called chores digger, men have all sort of names to shame women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:17 PM
13

Especially in this day and age of women working and making money just as much as the guy does, so the woman is probably making the same but doing all the housework too, so what is the point of having him around, just get a dog or something at least they are loyal lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:16 PM
10

Even on here too, till people started calling them out. the one that pissed me off the most was a man making his daughter’s hair that got all sort of praises here, lol I’ve never in my life seen a woman get praised for making her daughter’s hair, even if it is her first time and she did a fantastic job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:13 PM
12

I feel like this is about a comment that I made in a previous sub, I honestly didn’t mean it that way but it is hard to not beat yourself up when you saw so many red flags and you went diving in. I have to ask myself, what is wrong with me and what went wrong. But you are right no one should blame themselves for an abuser’s action
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:02 PM
48

Yeah it’s not a man thing, it’s an idiot thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:44 PM
13

Why is this my story, except I never told my mom about him and mine was last year and he turned out to be abusive too. It’s sad what we’ve been through. I heard that abusers know who to target. I just hope we never attract such demons again. I’m also not allowed to wear shorts or show skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:17 AM
6

So you can kill me and store me in your fridge. If there ever was a red flag bigger than this profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:17 AM
78

Did we have the same mom?? I’m literally 20 and my only advice is stay away from them, but 2 years from now she is going to be hassling me about marriage and kids. I’m just happy I live in a world where I can get information if I actively searched for them cause my mom is not useful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:13 AM
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I’ve been waiting all my fucking teenage life for a group like this, an environment where women give other women advice, especially older women passing down advice, since my mom has never given me any male advice. This sub is a blessing, and thank you jammies for creating this safe haven
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:53 AM
133

It is funny how many young girls glorify this old days, thinking all the guys were cute, not realizing the real situation of how things were
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:06 PM
42

That’s so sad I didn’t know that, poor thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:05 PM
34

I’m the only one that thinks otherwise, I’m 20, so my friends are like 18-23. And they all view sex this way, sex on the first date, sex with different guys, sex immediately as you both meet and hooking up on dating apps. I’m just happy you guys make me feel normal cause my friends shame me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:05 AM
58

I told my friends that I plan on waiting 3-6 months or till marriage and they told me he is going to cheat on me. I don’t care, if he does that then the trash is just taking itself out, men will cheat regardless. And this is an imaginary relationship btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:52 AM
24

I agree, that’s why it is mostly rich white celebrities following it. they’ve reached the peak of everything and all they want is to do the same shit men do, that’s the only thing they have to worry about, and that is why it is promoted so much, celebrities are pop culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:30 AM
29

Clown me but this is why I try my best to hate my ex, I try so hard to only remember the shitty part of the relationship and never the good, knowing myself I’m the clown that always wants to go back and I was never thought self respect, till I found you guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:52 AM
11

Lmao 😂 words can have different meanings, I am so happy I don’t walk through life being this triggered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:47 AM
15

Where were you last year 😭😭😭😭, i didn’t know what to do and I did none of the above. I’m such a clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:30 AM
41

I guess their emotion comes out more in anger and manipulation, while women’s emotion comes out more in empathy. In most cases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:22 PM
23

Never believe anything that comes out of their mouth. If his lips are moving he is lying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:30 AM
18

He is not even attractive so he is no price
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:09 AM
23

How dare they have standards and not date any useless criminal bum that comes their way!!!! No wonder men try so hard to control women. There is nothing better than a woman that knows her worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:08 AM
24

What pull alarm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:53 PM
6

lol I failed all this in my last relationship. Now I know better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:43 PM
5

What a sick human being. I am so happy she got out. I am proud of her, she also set up a good example for you too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:53 AM
72

I’m Proud of her. She gives 0 fucks. I still have to work on myself to be and feel this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:43 AM
15

Same. I’m depressed now, I hate going to sleep depressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:42 AM
44

Wtf oh my god. No 😭😭😭, I cant 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:41 AM
15

Wow I thought about this, but I told myself there is no way in hell they would do this, they might have some dignity left in them but nope men will forever be trash and I need to stop thinking they will ever rise above that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:40 AM
6

Same 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:38 AM
2

I get scared of being a target when I live alone. What do you do for safety? I’ve always wanted to live alone till I started thinking about creeps and stalkers. I know I overthink things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:38 AM
12

I don’t care either as far as he is not insecure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:43 PM
181

This is sad. If you are a sex worker they see you as less than nothing even in your death. Even everyday women are treated like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:28 PM
24

I know that now, he guilt trip me with so many crap to stay with him. I’m glad I found my dignity and I told him to fuck off at the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:56 AM
97

Aye, talking bout he is going to kill him self and I’m the only reason he is happy and wants to live in this world. and he is still not dead after the breakup. I will never believe anything that comes out of a man’s mouth again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:43 AM
8

I love this lol. Sometimes it gets hard but I’ll rather wait for boas than get with another lyingas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:24 PM
15

Oh my god I almost posted this. I am the same height, and there was this guy at my job claiming to be 5’11 and he told me I was lying about my height and I had to be at least 6, because I was taller than him, so I had to get the real 5’11 guys at my job and they stood next to him, he stopped talking trash after that 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:30 AM
31

They think it’s only women that have biological clock. Some 40 year old man told me that my clock was ticking when I rejected him and I was 19 lol, I tore him a new one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:11 AM
12

Ouch 🤕 I guess I’m trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:31 AM
37

Thank you! I love honesty, there is nothing more attractive than honesty, and a man who tells you he is shit and warns you, is way better than the Chameleon that promises you the world but is actually truly shit. At least you know to run away and if you go in, you know what you are getting yourself into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:51 AM
11

That is what I thought, even the rules book and other women have said the same. I think it is more ideal and easy, to end the relationship after you are engaged, compared to marriage and the shame that comes with it when you want to divorce in a month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:25 AM
22

Same lol, I don’t want kids so my ideal is 2/3 bedrooms and separate bedrooms for both of us, like i cannot share a room 24/7, and separating a room gives us space. And I’m not religious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:24 AM
3

One question, what if you were engaged and he proposed to you? What if you are broke, nowhere to go and he offers? And I’m still navigating the whole thing and I always imagine scenarios like this. And also before you get married wouldn’t it be smart to live with the guy and try to see what it is like to live with him. I’m just curious, not saying you are wrong or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:21 AM
16

Yup I forgot about that till I watched the previous season with the coven. #traumatized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:34 AM
36

Have they ever met a woman before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 04:33 AM
3

Injf here too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:01 AM
3

What is your mbti? Mine is infj. Also I noticed that I wanted someone who had a traumatic past, because I thought it would make them more empathetic, but after the loser I’ve been with, I’ve changed my mind and I want a healthy normal person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:59 AM
11

I was going to make a post about this yesterday, I was feeling insecure about my body count at 20, when my 18 year old friend can’t even count her body count cause it’s been a lot, and my 22 year old friend has had 9 guys, and my other friends have been with a lot of guys. So they’ve had great sex and they are always talking about it, while mine was awful, not even con-sexual and just crappy, don’t even know if it counts anymore. This post makes me feel better, I was really feeling it yesterday …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:06 PM
2

I want in then. Hopefully these books are like empowering,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:39 AM
1

I wish I could join but school is killing me. And how do we afford/get the book especially in quarantine Times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:33 AM
8

The one thing I like about American men is that they are honest, you get what you see. Men from my culture are bonafide liars. I don’t know anything about dating European men, but I’ve heard they are better than American men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:19 AM
21

I’m scared. This is sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:18 AM
27

In existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:10 AM
38

Guys that are obsessed with body count , have tiny dicks and are awful with bed. They are obsessed because if she doesn’t have any experience she would have no one to compare him too. Spread the gospel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:14 AM
10

Same, only because I am hoping it isn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:15 PM
4

This sounds like joe from you, no that is too much of a compliment, because this guy is even more crazy and fucked up than joe. She needs to run and not be flattered he is crazy, and who knows what he would try to do if she tries to run away. Also she needs to tell her brother’s fiancé about what they’ve done, she needs to know too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:29 PM
3

This sounds like joe from you, no that is too much of a compliment, because this guy is even more crazy and fucked up than joe. She needs to run and not be flattered he is crazy, and who knows what he would try to do if she tries to run away. Also she needs to tell her brother’s fiancé about what they’ve done, she needs to know too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 09:57 PM
18

Especially on here, I had to call out a few posts, like yay he combed his daughter’s hair, bow down to him, like mothers do all that and more and don’t even get praised. The biggest double standard for me is single women being bashed for being single women, and single dads being praised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:23 AM
28

She sounds like me last year, looking at her post history, of my boyfriend this and that, poor girl she needs to dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:02 PM
6

Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:00 PM
22

How scary those poor women. Men are sick and it is crazy what they would do without all these laws preventing depraved acts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:32 AM
6

I only see this shit on the internet wtf, mainly Reddit. I’m 20 and shit like this, like I’ve never seen it in real life, just the incels of Reddit, being angry about the fact that women don’t want em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:09 AM
4

I haven’t gotten one 😭😤😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:06 AM
19

I downloaded tinder because of the travel around the world feature, and the number of men screaming for women to message them first was alarming, legit demanding it, even the ones looking for hookups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:12 PM
46

Which ones would you recommend, funny enough my lvm ex was 34 and lied about being 25, and I didn’t find out till I looked him up, he was easy to find but so many others are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:09 PM
51

She is an embarrassment to herself and other pickme’s, I am not taking her L
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:08 PM
64

I don’t know how to put this in the post, so I’ll reply to myself. The full story: I (23f) am days away from giving birth and my (37m) boyfriend just decided to tell me that he can't be at the birth--because he's married Edit: thank you all. It seems like getting legal help is priority #1. So first off I know the age gap probably should've been a red flag but I was stupid. We've been together for two years but he lives in a different city. When I got pregnant, he said he was going to move to my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 09:04 PM
15

I’ve been knew that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:05 PM
29

And imagine a woman reading that and actually swiping right and developing an attraction. Like how big and wide does the red flag have to be ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:03 PM
3

Of course it’s a Gemini, and last time I was getting flamed for my thoughts on Gemini men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:02 PM
6

Oh my god, reminds me of a 40 year old that kept begging me to date him last year, I was (19) and he would beg and beg, that age is just a number, he would spoil me, give me everything I want, literally pleading with me wtf I had to block him. And it didn’t stop there 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:58 PM
3

Mine did but my dumbass felt bad and stayed with him and I regret it. He kept crying and talking about how he would crash his car. I wish I just told him, do it! I won’t miss you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:32 PM
10

Oh my god yes. I don’t know if it’s because my self esteem is low but I absolutely hate it, but I don’t mind when women compliment me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:08 AM
7

Oh shut it, the bullshit quote you typed here, talking about African women and generalizing your statement as something that happens in all parts of Africa. You are a white European, shut it and don’t speak for us with your generalizations. The racism sure did jump out of you. What part of Africa do they talk about women carrying testicles lmao, I never said anything about poor people but you jumped to your racist stereotypes, I was addressing your bullshit quote and generalizing Africa as a con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:16 AM
6

Lol what part of Africa? You people and your generalizations, I’ve never heard that in my life, at least specify the country/region, or just say in some parts of Africa. Africa is a huge continent and not a city
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:31 PM
6

Lol, I hate that man, I hate how overrated he is and I don’t know why he is seen as this great author
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:34 PM
20

It’s like a real life animation of the cartoon, but this is very accurate for some African women. This is just trash poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:07 PM
8

I think the boy might have kwashiorkor, it is a problem with children in developing countries, big stomach and skinny legs and arms due to malnutrition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:00 PM
17

This is so sad, update: she married a German guy of Indian descent but damn they are brutal. I feel bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:32 AM
7

Getting married: having a wedding and a delicious birthday cake, also having him get down on his knees and commit to me at the altar. Reason to have kids: none. Disclaimer: this is merely my opinion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:08 AM
1

gracias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:52 AM
3

I don’t even know how to pronounce scrotes, is it pronounced exactly like scrotum without the “um”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:30 AM
2

The full link por favor, please message me I need to read the rest of this pos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:29 AM
31

Why is he referring to her like some cattle he bought from the Market
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:45 PM
18

It is mostly, “she was crazy” and the man could turn it around and say she slept with his best friend to garner pity. Except if you are a real life lie detector you can’t know for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:44 PM
26

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:43 PM
9

And we can all see his small pp, unlike women whose breast is saying hello to the world, men have theirs hidden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:43 PM
15

A small dick is a downside, I’m having flashback memories 🍤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:42 PM
7

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:41 PM
123

None, absolutely zero because we are not violent deranged animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:38 PM
8

Jesus what a sicko
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:37 PM
17

I don’t like reading things like this, we need more positivity and less of this deranged pieces of shit and what they think, it is kind of triggering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:51 AM
232

I don’t understand how they can get pleasure from women suffering and screaming 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 10:44 AM
32

He is not looking to make op a wife either, just another baby mama statistic that he going to badmouth to the next one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:52 AM
29

But, single mother bad and single father superhero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:50 AM
12

I know the bar is on the floor with this statement but at least he is honest, so many pos will lie about all this and claim to be single, and when you find out you are already a statistic, men love to lie and women think men love us like we love them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:49 AM
5

I do the same thing, and I always forget my passwords
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:18 AM
11

lol I love this, you created a whole account to find her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:14 AM
3

Unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:17 AM
152

Oh my god, he combed his daughter’s hair! HVM no man could never! Best dad in the world 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:47 AM
3

He don’t don’t want you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:09 PM
23

Thanks for the positivity, I’m so used to seeing lvm’s on here and I thought it was another lvm post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:06 PM
12

F him I weigh 5’10 130 pounds and my pos ex used to joke about how I would get fat if I had his kids and then he would get mad when I got angry. All I’m saying is dump him then dump the weight. Don’t do shit for an insecure lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:21 AM
8

Leaving, I am proud of myself, it was my first relationship so I didn’t know what a relationship was supposed to be like. But I feel more self confident like I’ve been through it all and I can climb the tallest mountains and swim through the Atlantic ocean lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:18 AM
112

Lol but gold diggers though? Y’all don’t like gold diggers or pickme’s trying to take care of you, so what do you want lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:15 AM
96

ItS JuSt a JoKe BrUh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:12 AM
22

Empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:03 AM
6

No, I really want to know because I’m down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:40 AM
22

Lol it was just her, and maybe one that told op to give her bf the bubonic plague and take care of him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:39 AM
25

I hate them more and more each day, what an awful creator to make me attracted to them 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:38 AM
38

TrUe LoVe, like he would do the same for her 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:30 AM
53

I found the post and I just had to leave because I broke my fingers from downvoting so many comments and losing faith in humanity till I saw yours. I can’t believe they weren’t being sarcastic, they were suggesting she gives him a b.j. For giving her a freaking virus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:28 AM
3

How would you do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:23 AM
3

Oh my god the first thing I thought was frank Gallagher!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:20 AM
26

Can you post the link or like the full story? I really want to see how it ends and read the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:30 PM
5

I love y’all, just trying to rhyme lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:14 AM
34

Same lol, I don’t know why that is a bad thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:17 PM
22

I love this woman, a true gem in a world of Gemini’s 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:49 PM
57

Why aren’t women praised when they do things like this? Men are praised for doing the bare minimum wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:29 PM
5

I agree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:26 PM
13

Why couldn’t I have been born a lesbian, or the dog of a rich person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:22 PM
46

He is a shitty male so he takes offense, when we hate on shitty men, he sees it as an insult to himself and all men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:26 AM
23

Why are Italian guys so handsome? Like not all of them but a size able portion are so handsome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:22 AM
58

How dare they want a financial stable man, like I want a beautiful young woman. The audacity!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:19 AM
61

Oh my god mass murder? They are also very racist, one thing I noticed in those male echo chambers is they tend to be very racist and hateful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:18 AM
24

Lol I didn’t know we were discussed so much, I always hear women on here complain about it and this is my first time seeing it. Thanks for linking the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 08:17 AM
15

Like you want a young, beautiful girlfriend, and you want her to ignore the handsome young men are age and date you, but you have nothing to offer her, she should just date you out of her kind heart while you date her for her looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:41 PM
6

In their defense it was a different time period, for the most part they had no choice, especially the blonde woman and her husband cheating, i was so proud of her when she left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:07 PM
6

I loved adrianna, I had to stop watching because I sensed something bad was going to happen to her, I hated how Chris treated her, how he would always beat and abuse her and she would go running back. I love the song certamante: https://youtu.be/bCMPryaniN0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:06 PM
13

Still it’s their job, and they never cracked down on this before the pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:17 PM
16

Innocent until proven guilty, I remember going on a date with a pos and he wanted me to go to a restaurant outside my city and I was like no, we are doing it in this city, he got so mad at me for assuming he would do anything to me and I clapped back, I still went but to the one in my city and I walked there and blocked him. Not anymore, I’ve learnt my lesson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:15 PM
37

IKR, beards are disgusting, especially when you kiss, and I read a study that beards have a lot of disgusting bacterias. Men sometimes write studies to big up other men’s confidence, the study about women liking beer guts, ugly men, old men, poor men and then the ones about beards. Society likes to raise men’s ego and lower women’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:38 PM
6

Donate some money to a broke college student. How did you end up so successful and rich op? I’m taking notes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:59 PM
3

Wtf is a redneck smile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:56 PM
25

Same lol, how is armpit hair gross on women and sexy on men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:08 AM
74

I love penises I don’t know why this made me laugh out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:07 AM
60

Especially black women, especially when the hyping isn’t reciprocated by black men, it is so weird how black women will hype this men up 24/7 and they just throw it in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:31 PM
2

Lol west Africans are not super tall 🤣🤣🤣, where’d you get that from lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:26 AM
12

Honestly I am attracted to money, money is very attractive to me because I like money. But attractive guys are attractive to me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:36 AM
8

What happened to American men? They used to be so much taller, like in older pictures/movies, even the old men I see are like 6ft and above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:20 PM
73

Lol like I don’t mind if the man is extremely attractive himself, but a man that looks like sponge bob’s foot, having the guts to judge women and give them rating scales like wtf, the nerve! The gall! The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:39 PM
72

I’m gonna need y’all to stop calling me out okay. This exact thing happened, his friend was talking about my country and how he would never visit my country because he was scared, and I just looked at that pos, waiting on him to respond and he said nothing, so I confronted him about it and he just said, “that is not how he feels about my country, and I should have said something myself and since he doesn’t feel badly about my country, he didn’t respond to defend me” ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:40 PM
4

Wow 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:58 AM
62

Wow pos, doesn’t give a shit about DV, only when the “bad hombres” are doing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:55 AM
15

Gemini men/emotionally abusive men in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:45 AM
9

Kick Him Out 2020 💃🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:48 AM
10

Good job 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:35 AM
46

Same, I used to be jealous of those girls in relationships, and I used to look up to lifelong marriages, but you just never know. I just wanted a relationship, without even caring about how bad it could be, because I watched too many romcoms, thinking all men were like that and reality slapped me in the face and now if he is not the highest of HVM, I don’t want him, and the first red flag and I’m working out the door. Thanks to y’all I know my self worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:32 AM
16

Lol my ex really cared about that, he had a micro dick, awful kisser, awful at oral and awful at bed, I didn’t even know cause I had no one else to compare him too, till I kissed another guy and lord I was suffering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:29 AM
19

Lol my male “friend” is a feminist, and his equal rights is that it is fine to beat a woman, if his girl gets pregnant he would push her down the stairs and he never pays, he makes the other girls pay. I guess they just nitpick the parts of feminism that aligns with them and just roll with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:38 AM
25

My mouth leaks when I eat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:29 AM
11

I can’t believe you are getting downvoted for this smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:28 AM
11

Me using tiktok, I’m bored in quarantine and ashamed, I have to report so much posts harassing women and the comments supporting them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:57 PM
17

Unfortunately I use tiktok and this is so common, so is bullying and harassing women, so many pickme women will defend all this and bash women too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:15 PM
1

I just got off the phone with the cop and they are going to do nothing due to the lack of evidence, why even bother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:40 PM
9

You guys are so helpful and I am very thankful for this sub, I just hope it stays forever, cause I will always need this large feminine support group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:08 PM
7

Eww i accidentally upvoted that post, thinking it was this post ugh 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:02 PM
1

Fuck, I just pressed charges on my ex, even though it happened last year, I’m so scared to proceed and most rape cases don’t even go to court
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:00 AM
38

Shut up, you’re killing me 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:57 AM
1

Can you tell me, what happened after you press charges, like the court proceedings and everything, you can message me too because I’m too scared about everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:42 AM
13

Welcome to the club, thankfully I’m 20 and I know better now, but last year I was such a clown, holding everything in and just being so nice to him, no matter what he did to me 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:56 PM
5

And why do they do this? And what should I say to this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:12 PM
1

Can you send it to me pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:23 PM
30

Wow I do this a lot, what is wrong with me? Why was I so stupid in the relationship, always rationalizing everything he did, I’m sure if he killed me, my ghost would be like: “maybe he didn’t know I would die”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:11 PM
4

We can be friends, can I message you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:49 PM
16

My pos ex just says “don’t say that, don’t talk like that, I don’t want to hear it, it’s not good” I’m a clown, sometimes I would go so deep and tell him about things I’ve been through and he wouldn’t listen, just look around, while whenever he poured his heart to me about his trauma, I would listen and cry with him. I’m a clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:47 PM
24

And it’s natural for all women to want rich men ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:13 PM
28

I was just thinking about this today, mine is 12 and he was like 17, I was so uncomfortable, I was running errands and he wanted to escort me and I told him no that it was really far but it was just a few blocks away and then we got there and he was like, “it’s not even far” and he kept inviting me to his house, he literally gave me his address, his house number and the color of his house, and he told me the time I should come by 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:08 AM
9

Honestly she was 15-17 back Then and now she is 30 and people change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:27 PM
16

Jennifer Lopez love don’t cost a thing, I used to love that song till I just recently listened to it and cringed, I can’t listen to it anymore without rolling my eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:24 PM
2

I set up an appointment to get started for today but they cancelled due to corona virus, they all put that as priority
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:58 AM
1

I don’t think he knows I have feelings for him, I hadn’t talked to him in a year and We hardly ever see each other anymore, so he doesn’t know but thanks for the advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:53 PM
23

Tiktok annoys me, this pick me women would defend anything, it is sad because I expect that from older women and not young women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:25 PM
16

Interesting, my ex was a pos and he had a lot of friends, he estimated that he had a thousand friend in total but only trusts like 10, I’m also very introverted and I just thought to myself to date introverts like myself who only have like one or two friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:03 PM
17

And they would treat you bad for it, I don’t understand the psychology of why, maybe they feel so good and they think they are better than you for getting with you, or maybe they are punishing you for all the other hot girls that didn’t get with them and ridiculed them🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:31 PM
61

And then call the same women gold diggers for being attracted to status, pick a struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:04 PM
5

Is it me? Check real quick Florence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:29 AM
40

Thank you, why did I have a mom that didn’t even talk to me about periods and I thought it was a shameful thing to keep quiet, going through an abusive relationship and only having reddit for advice cause I couldn’t talk to my own mother 😭, I’m crying rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:07 AM
12

Thank you, I’m trying to develop boundaries and this is helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:06 AM
4

🤗 evil is real, it’s not your fault just know that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:58 AM
1

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:07 AM
1

I wish I had your mom, mine has never given me guy advice and I’m 20 smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:04 AM
8

Did we all date the same men wtf this is my ex too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:35 PM
14

Why is the lie mostly the number 25. My 34 year old ex told me he was 25 too, is there something special about this age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:43 AM
6

Just wanted to come back and say you were right. She confessed to me that they’ve been having sex for a long time now wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:39 AM
62

Why aren’t they in the kitchen cooking my sandwich? And If they want equality I’m going to have to hit them because that is equality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:33 AM
12

She is a legend 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:32 AM
8

Nope they never taught me, I don’t know shit, which is why I’m on Reddit learning 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:50 PM
13

I agree that you guys aren’t racist, and that’s one of the reason I like this sub, compared to other subreddits you guys are really welcoming and open minded. And I hope the sub stays, r/childfree gets the same hate too and they’ve been growing strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:28 PM
77

I have noticed that, even 40 year old poor gremlins want the same but they want the woman to love them for their personality lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:01 PM
11

She looks the same dang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:37 PM
5

Sounds kind of like my ex, please seek therapy, you sound young, I go to school counseling and it is amazing, you should try it, you would get to the root of the situation and before you know it, you’re free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:21 AM
14

Like we’re strong enough for the average male, like you’re not in shock mode when it happens smh, no wonder so many rape cases go unreported
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:05 AM
10

For me a bad friend would be someone that heard your woes, insecurities and sadness and then proceed to tell you how much better they have it, I remember talking to my friend about my breakup and then she told me how much better her ex was and how he is amazing, I also told her about how my mom isn’t good and then she began to tell me how her mom was amazing and her best friend. We’ve only been friends for a week due to school but I can access that she isn’t a good friend. Your friend doesn’t so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 10:41 PM
17

I know im 20, and I’ve never heard anyone my age group say they like men that old, the delusions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:44 PM
5

Did we freaking date the same guy or do they just have book they all follow, he used to always question me, he would tell Me I was so beautiful and I can have anyone I wanted and why did I chose him, i thought he asked that because he was insecure, but now I know he asked that because he was lower than a gutter rat and I should have never given him a try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:12 PM
1

Thanks I actually looked up old app on google and couldn’t find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:13 PM
1

Too late I have class in two hours, yes I’m stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:51 AM
53

Yes thank god, and I’m Going to therapy now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:51 AM
1

lol ok, I thought you were saying 6ft at 130 Ibs is not skinny, I’m sorry I’m sleep deprived I’ll delete my comment, I read your comment all wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:43 AM
1

Can someone tell Me what old stands for ? Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:33 AM
12

Me too I love y’all so much thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:04 AM
52

Interesting that he lied about his age, made himself 10 years younger, so people wouldn’t call his creepy ass out, she should cancel the wedding, the man is useless and old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:52 AM
5

Oh my god same! I wrote this except he was a grace a piece of shit liar and he sexually assaulted me and I kept going back cause it was my first and I didn’t know what to expect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:43 AM
6

Fuck same, I actually left like 12 times in the span of an eight month relationship, he was my first so I didn’t know what to expect, now It’s been three months and with counseling I feel better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:40 AM
14

I mean it’s probably different people saying both things, people who call men with tattoos trashy are probably not the same people who tat themselves up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:13 AM
7

So men can like women based on their weight, attractiveness, youthfulness, color, hair, shaved, hair color etc but women can’t even judge them on anything or else we are shallow b words smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:51 PM
3

Sad 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:12 AM
12

I would and could never but some women like sex more than men, I don’t, fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:14 PM
24

I don’t like insulting people’s looks but you need glasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:20 AM
35

What job did you have, I’m 20 and still working 13 an hour 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:28 AM
42

Lol my brother told me the same thing, he was talking about it with his friend right in front of me, they talked about how it is such a turn off, and his friend said a woman that approaches him is just good for sex, like the role changes when you approach him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 02:21 AM
25

I don’t want to overstep my boundaries but Vanessa said she doesn’t want to get married right now, and she wants to get married in her late 30’s and have kids down the line, everyone is different, but Cassie Ventura said the same thing till she found her hvm and then she got married and had a kid within a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:18 AM
26

I’m not like other girls, I put my man first, I work, cook and pay the bills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 05:34 AM
1

As a Capricorn, he can drown in lake Everest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:12 AM
4

Oh my god that was fake 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 01:31 AM
1

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:30 PM
7

I can’t find it, I searched up your name and female dating strategy, and the link isn’t taking me directly to the app sighs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:35 AM
5

Yes homo, I would bang Rihanna and I’m straight supposedly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:29 AM
13

You can’t save all of them, either she learns her lesson now, or she is going to learn her lesson years from now or maybe never, Pickme’s live to old age while still being pickme’s, it is what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:50 PM
13

I’ve noticed that more girls our age are pickme’s and when they grow and mature they change, i work in a fast food restaurant and when girls 15-22 are with their dates, they always rush To pay and they smile and grin about paying since it is modern, while 25 and older the guy always pays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:36 PM
79

They are just jealous of rich men and the fact that they can’t provide for their dream women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:00 AM
5

Aww that’s cute 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:27 AM
12

lol stop being nice to those psychopaths, incels probably won’t pee on us if we were on fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:24 AM
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I don’t give a shit, I love our reputation and you’ve got to remember that reddit is male dominated and they are a lot of incels that have disgusting thoughts about women and they hate us for being women and wanting to be treated better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:12 AM
2

I love how popular we are, 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:33 AM
4

Oh my god are they guys like that? I’ve never heard of that how sick and scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:31 AM
13

I agree that men of color are not better at all, let’s just say that all men are trash regardless of color and leave it at that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:28 AM
8

Wtf in the racism hitler, Jim Crow hell did I just read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:19 AM
14

I told my pos ex I was bisexual and he got angry at me, and he told me “he doesn’t like the gays” and I shouldn’t tell him things like that nor should I have relationships with girls and I told him I was sorry yes I’m a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:03 AM
24

Block his ass 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:59 AM
5

I’m sorry you only found us yesterday, cause I was wondering how you fell for this lowlife after all the sub preaches, but it’s good you found this sub so you can know what to watch out for and you’d be able to smell lvm’s from a mile away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:59 AM
6

It happens quite a lot surprisingly, like Hailey Baldwin and Justin Bieber, David Beckham and Victoria Beckham, Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber, Jessica biel and Justin Timberlake, Halsey and Evan peters, then this too and probably a lot more but these are the only ones I can think of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:45 AM
38

Are they really men commenting here, but their comments are hidden?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:09 AM
99

What if he really wants a baby and he gets turned on by you going on about it? Serious question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:06 AM
77

I’m So happy I found them at 19, I wish I found this sub like 9 months earlier though😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:16 AM
3

I thought heart attack was about him, my best song from her: https://youtu.be/AByfaYcOm4A
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:32 PM
38

Honestly 27 is a really fertile and reproductive age.... but I see what you’re saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:31 PM
21

They know who they want, and what they want from the minute they lay eyes on you, sad but true, you can’t force it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:30 PM
6

Thanks, happy New Years to all you gorgeous ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:10 AM
59

Yeah I remember being 15 and 25 year old guys would send me dick pics I had no idea it was illegal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:26 AM
1

Yeah thanks for asking, I just woke up and I feel better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:49 PM
1

Dude I don’t know how but you are so right, I almost broke my neck cause I was high and I kept twisting it fucked up, and dude I got high for the first time today and like you predicted it I should have taken your advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:44 AM
7

I remember my pos ex would ask me “why did I choose him” out of every guy asking me out I decided to choose him, he said that like he thought he was low, And I thought he was insecure, but now I get it he is lower than dirt and I don’t even know why I chose him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 08:13 PM
1

Not in Texas 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:45 PM
1

Are you skinny too? Yeah but just because a guy is 6ft and over doesn’t mean his income is 6 figures and over, you’re not that daft are you? Guys Like zac Efron, Kevin hart, Jeff bezos, and mark zuckerberg are short/average height, my ex was 6’3 and broke and abusive as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:00 AM
11

I love your post and content Jammie, you post on lipstick alley too and you made me woke, to the evils of men in our community so it’s an honor you replied
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:56 AM
46

No girl 18-21 is checking for him, why are men, especially old men so delusional? I’m 19 and me and my friends hardly acknowledge old men but on social media they go on about how they can get any young girls da fuq
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 12:39 AM
2

Weird that height would make a guy high value, he can be 6ft over and beat your ass, cheat on you, be poor etc, height doesn’t make a man valuable or invaluable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:48 AM
11

It is not your fault ma’am, he is messed up not you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:43 AM
3

I know I’m so glad I found you guys, it is such a supportive and friendly environment, I think it’s because they are hardly any males around. But I love it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:41 AM
3

Lol I’ve noticed that we here tend to talk shit and attribute it to a certain culture, like Brazilian men, Turkish men, Italian men, Pakistani men, Indian men etc maybe it’s just men in total that are garbage not the specific culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:42 AM
7

I hate you 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:57 AM
6

Interesting that the worst offender which is the dead beat dad never gets any hate, if it was the opposite, single dads would be praised and worshipped and the deadbeats mom would be dragged and hated on, Funny how that works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:47 AM
10

I feel like it’s a general advice, rupaul gives about life and confidence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:44 AM
6

I don’t think you are a pickmeisha, you were just a woman that fell in love with an abusive psycho, you are a victim and you got out, I wish you the best in life and your relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:42 AM
14

Thank you yes, culture 1000% matter, especially when you speak a common language
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:37 AM
17

I just know he is indian, drag me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:36 AM
97

Women are way too nice, men are., no words nice enough in the dictionary to describe men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:33 AM
16

Even my dad told me he knew within minutes of meeting my mom That she is his wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:25 PM
16

They know, within the first day they meet you whether or not they want to marry you, I always read stuff of how couple met and the men always said they knew within “30” seconds that she is what they want and they’ve had long term girlfriends before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:24 PM
3

Nope it is two different things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 07:51 PM
7

I think Indian women are more beautiful so .. I didn’t know Indian families accepted such unions, I thought Indians are forced to Marry only Indians by their family members and I Feel like you are greatly overestimating Indian men dating out lol, when I see Indian men in public they are 100% of the time with Indian women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:17 AM
8

Honestly this isn’t much about race, it’s more about being a powerful, beautiful woman and still staying with an ugly cheater, pickmeisha knows no color
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:56 AM
18

Philosophy professors are assholes, fight me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:49 AM
14

I thought Indian women married out more? I’ve always thought Indian women are beautiful, Indian men on the other hand ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:46 AM
7

Hold on I thought op was brown and not black? Two different things ma’am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:44 AM
24

Honestly I wasn’t raised this way but I’m not black American, I’ve noticed a lot of black American women just praise and worship black men which is just so weird and strange to me like how can you praise a man that mocks you, like black American men talk so much shit about black American women in public and receive so much love in return weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:43 AM
11

Oh my god I was going to make a post about this I swear today I was itching to post this, I don’t get it can one of the #blacklove ladies come explain to me? What is with the one sided love? Is it Stockholm syndrome, when one black guy says something bad about black girls, a million black girls say something positive about black guys I don’t get it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:41 AM
19

I don’t know why you guys still date them no offense but the rape in India and how sexist and backwards Indian men are, also Pakistan where women are treated like fourth class citizens just pay them dust and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 04:38 AM
12

Honestly really nice manipulation also the fact that they’ve believed and bought it all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:57 PM
23

I feel like the black community is really toxic, expecting women to settle and build men up and accept any behavior from black men, when it isn’t even reciprocated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:57 PM
92

Same way men marry for looks and youth, even the ugliest no teeth 70 year old grandpa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:12 PM
2

Cause flowers die and I can’t eat flowers 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:09 AM
6

I honestly hate flowers and I find them overrated, chocolates >flowers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:53 AM
15

Oh my god thank you 😭😢, I’m crying I’m sorry it took you years hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 04:01 AM
12

Lmao I’m confused as f
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:50 AM
8

Me too I’m 19 and I only want younger guys, a lot of older guys also lie about their age 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:45 AM
5

This is me im the shy nice girl but I’ll be calling them out in public, like you know you are old enough to be my father?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:43 AM
7

I don’t even make eye contact with old men, and I roll my eyes and walk away if they ever try it, cause I can tell when a guy likes me so they don’t try it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 06:23 AM
6

Oh my god I was going to make a joke about it, guy would ask for my number and it would just be a line of “hello beautiful” in my messages, no originality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:04 AM
2

Thank you oh my god I feel like a freak of nature cause I’m always smiling, people literally walk up to me and ask me why I’m smiling all the time and anytime my friend takes a video I see myself just smiling for no reason like a freaking freak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 04:36 AM
23

Oh my god you should be top comment he is a pos, wants sex and can’t even pay a $9 movie ticket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 02:03 PM
4

Off topic but what are Italian men like? I saw you mentioned them in your other post but I’ve heard they are romantic but what is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:33 PM
36

A lot of them are bitter and they strangely feel entitled to younger women disgusting old creeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 10:24 PM
5

Off topic but 6’6 is not kind of tall it is super duper tall, but I don’t care about height and 5’11 is tall to me, how tall are you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:59 PM
40

Lol you and I know it is not true, I know it sounds like a gross generalization but not all Saudi women have it as easy as you do, I know female family members that live there, one happens to be a Muslim and African and she was disgusted about how human beings and women are treated, next you’ll be denying how Saudi treats their foreign maids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:35 AM
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I wish I found this sub before dating my ex, patriarchal but can’t build their countries like western countries, what’s the point of calling it a patriarchy and treating women like second class, my pos ex wanted 5 kids and he told me I can’t get fat, and I shall have all his kids, work more than 12 hours and cook and clean for him, never again to dating men from Africa, throw the whole boat away. And you know they don’t expect western women to play those backwards role, And they always talk shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:18 PM
5

Oh my god thank you, I’m a fob too but I’ve been Here for 5 years and my pos ex has been here for 3 years, he told me he was 25, he would always check my id’s and pictures and I never thought to check His, till his roommate that he told me was 21 turned out to be 30, and his nephew he said was 22 was 27, he didn’t let me check his Id, then I checked and the pos was like 35, he told me He had to lie about his age to Immigration, never again to dating fobs, American/westernized men only. And fobs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:11 PM
7

Italian men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 11:48 AM
10

Honestly American men are a million times better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:51 PM
34

Honestly me too especially indian men, I had a Pakistani friend that was being forced to marry her cousin and she told me horror stories. What is wrong with Indian men? Seriously why do they hate women so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:45 PM
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