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Where do you meet girls almost 10 years younger than you?
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:54 PM
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What about sex, though? You even said that first time was awkward. She didn't ask any questions?
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:15 PM
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From fellow virgin in late twenties: How did you disclose to girls the fact that you are inexperienced? Did you tell them on first date? Before sex? Maybe not at all? How did they react?
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:22 AM
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I would have hookups at least once every 2-3 weeks with above average looking women Holy shit what. Would you explain how you managed to get so many girls while being socially anxious? Was it like drunk hook ups after parties, social circle game, Tinder?
/r/seduction19/11/19 11:49 AM
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And how did your parents feel about you bringing random girls home in your tens?
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:48 PM
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"I'm 30 years old and slept with 26 girls, and had a monogamous 8 year and 2 year relationship" Holy shit what? So your score was 24 at age of 20? How is that possible if you say you never cold approached at clubs?
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:30 PM
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It's a good advice, thanks. I tried it and it definitely helps to cool down but not sufficiently.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:24 PM
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But I can masturbate few times a day without even watching porn, so I guess it rules out problems with testosterone etc?
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:22 PM
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As I said if you believe there's no way to get them out then it's a fair answer. I wanted to avoid comments like "why would you want to hook up with her" which I find ridiculous. I will still wait for what others say though.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:14 PM
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I don't watch porn almost at all, maybe like once a month I'll relapse and binge. But way less then average guy. Last time I tried having sex I wasnt masturbating for like a week. When I was on a date with her I was hard all the time, until the moment we undressed.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:10 PM
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Isn't LMR a normal thing which i should just overcome?
/r/seduction18/10/18 09:59 AM
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you mean intimacy "she wants", yes?
/r/seduction18/10/18 09:58 AM
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strange, i know. but I'm probably giving a lot of nervous vibe due to my virginity...
/r/seduction18/10/18 09:58 AM
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It's great that you are commited, but you seem to be too hard on yourself. ​ I want to face the awkwardness, the uncomfortability. I want to sweat and panic and then fucking do it anyway. ​ I quit masterbating until I've approached at least one girl ​ Overanalyzing and subsequently disappointing myself ​ 90% of guys never approaches girls without proper reason, so don't beat yourself up for not being (yet) within minority that do. It will only drive you into depression and anger, I know from exp…
/r/seduction28/08/18 07:56 AM
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You're biggest obstacle as I see it is your social-circle. This is where you need to spend your effort on. Here's my suggestion on how to start building that. Did advice like this actually work for anyone here? Most people have their social circle from high school / university etc. If neither of these worked for him for whatever reason, then building it from scratch using sport clubs etc. is difficult and will probably take years.
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:23 PM
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Even though my opinion on the book stays rather unchanged, your explanations helped me to understand some things, thanks!
/r/seduction02/03/18 05:21 PM
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The most glorified book on this sub, but somehow my post keeps getting upvoted. I'm positively surprised and a little bit puzzled...
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:15 AM
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Thank you for this post. It summarizes perfectly my point of view, especially these 3 points: It doesn't have enough actionable advice Couldn't agree more, dozens of pages about how you should be non-needy and vulnerable, but few sentences at best about how to get there. it reads like Manson wrote it to appeal to female fans it can be characterized as "what guys want to hear so they could give it 5 stars on Amazon and recommend it to their friends"
/r/seduction01/03/18 08:08 AM
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Thanks for the answer, makes a lot of sense, but still, your comment reads a bit like Manson's book. Mark had more invested in himself, successful men have more invested in their circumstance. Ok, but what exactly did he do? What do you mean by "invested in himself" if things like education and muscles fall into "circumstances" category? A broke loser achieves success with women because he is confident and loves himself. The women see this and love him too. He has more invested in himself, and n…
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:30 AM
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Sorry but your advice seems completely irrelevant to my case. Where did I say I text them the next day? I wait 2-3 days, and go straight to the point - propose to meet. Isn't that exactly what high status men does? You say that proposing second date in first text after first date is too early, but if I value my time so much why would I waste it on some useless text convo?
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:01 AM
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Thanks for reply but I'm still lost. Just to explain points 1 & 2, "investing" doesn't mean that money and status get you women Yes I understand, "investing" means self improvement, right? Than why are there so many guys who spent their college days wisely and have a good job and don't have any success with women? And on the other hand you have Manson, who after college cannot afford a place to live and swims in pussy. Which of these guys invested more in themselves? So a broke loser can get gir…
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:38 AM
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I keep my texting to minimum, usually it's something like: "hey how are you, + some joke" If they reply to this I already propose another meeting. Few times I proposed to meet already in first text after date, maybe it's to early I don't know, but that's more or less what Mark Manson recommends in models. And I rather agree with him here, if you did good impression on a date, it shouldn't be so easy to fuck it up with texting, unless you do something offensive etc.
/r/seduction01/03/18 05:22 AM
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Interesting point with number instead of FB, would other readers agree? I thought that FB became a standard nowadays, at least for people below 30.
/r/seduction28/02/18 08:17 PM
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No, I didn't invite them to my place due to poor logistics. Also, I'm still to anxious to do it after just 1 date. But I don't see it as big deal, I think most guys would also be anxious to have sex after first date, but they solve this problem by getting second dates.
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:57 PM
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Something mark doesn't address but Brene Brown does: you aren't required to share your every shameful detail with everyone, as long as you have someone you can. Thanks, this looks to be an answer to my question! Can you tell me where did you read about this? I only watched the famous "power of vulnerability" speech from her, where she introduces the concept, but doesn't really explain how to work on it. Thanks!
/r/seduction10/04/17 07:36 PM
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A women will not turn you done because of something like that. Thanks for the answer, but do you have any argument to support this? All the seduction advice of the world can be summed up in one sentence: women want a men who is able to get other women. And being a virgin at my age is the exact opposite of that, no matter what the reason is.
/r/seduction09/04/17 08:35 PM
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Join a rock climbing gym, hot yoga, running club, scuba, sailing, yachting Sport clubs are usually male dominated, excluding some specific sports like yoga or dancing. But I agree with rest of the post.
/r/seduction19/03/17 09:50 PM
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I think what would help is if she clearly shown that she's interested in me despite of my nervousness. Another option is expressing a will to meet again after an awkward night. But in this case, she was clearly turned off (can't blame her for that).
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:33 AM
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I didn't have any erection issues, I was simply too paralyzed to escalate. I doubt drinking less will help with that.
/r/seduction15/03/17 07:18 PM
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I just wanted to say that I'm in exactly 100% same situation as you, here's similar topic from me: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5yrozr/after_years_of_selfimprovement_still_a_virgin_due/ Do you think you could suffer from social anxiety? Anyway, I know how you feel and wish you luck!
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:14 PM
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Then maybe someone should edit the sidebar? Im a beginner and it makes me confused to hear completely opposite advice on this...
/r/seduction14/03/17 06:18 AM
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"(I can tell by her fb that she has bf)" if she has a bf why are you still pursuing? I didn't know about him earlier (still not 100% sure), and "I have a boyfriend" is said to be one of the most common shit tests.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:13 PM
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I don't know how she is "normally" because I don't know her well. But when I met her in person she wasn't like this at all.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:12 PM
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Thanks for the answer.: I've seen this guy on fb now, I didn't know about it earlier, and "I have a boyfriend" is one of the most common shit tests, according to this sub. Anyway, I didn't ask what I should do in this situation - I'm just curious about her behavior which seems inconsistent and simply rude.
/r/seduction13/03/17 06:57 PM
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Thanks for the answer. But do you really think this book could change my mindset if I already read shitload of self-help material and nothing helped?
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:20 AM
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That means one limiting belief less in my head, thanks a lot!
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:29 AM
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Thanks but that's really not what I'm asking about. As I stated, my experience with woman is 0. I was just curious after how many dates (or let's call it meetings if you assume she friendzoned me) she might start thinking "why he never invites me to parties with his friends" etc. My goal for now is just to calibrate. Of course I'd like to close her but I also need to be realistic.
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:55 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:29 AM
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So in your opinion it's perfectly normal and I should care more about escalation? By the way yes, I might already be in friendzone but in my situation it's still valuable experience...
/r/seduction06/03/17 06:29 AM
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