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| 2 | It gets better!Sloppily drafted post by me. Here is what I meant by that. I put out right at the beginning of talking to her I'm only interested in dating for marriage and gave her my timeline as to that which would be both of us getting annulments and having a church marriage. What is involved there is nothing past first base (idk maybe a steal of second every once and a while) for two years. No commingling of finances, no moving in, etc. Even though she is a single mom who might need help I'm not talking mar… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/23 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Missing the memories and life, maybe not the personReach out to all your other friends and family now. Read, gym, hobbies etc. It WILL get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 09:26 PM |
| 3 | It’s happening, Exs disgusting lifestyle is affecting my kidsAs man moved out of the pirating days of the bronze age collapse where might alone made right and back into a complex society where skill in counsel, and wiliness were needed to navigate a complex society and the complex challenges life throws at us, the blind rage of Achilles, and the unmovable pride of Agamemnon fail to flourish. Instead, one must find the knack for getting the right tool and approach for your problems. Yes, sometimes you finally do kill all of the suitors who have been eyeing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/23 06:43 AM |
| 3 | It’s happening, Exs disgusting lifestyle is affecting my kidsOdysseus vs Achilles my friends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/23 03:53 AM |
| 8 | Divorce is so much worse than I imaginedIt can get better. She's living with her new bf in a 600ft 2b house, cant even host the kids, house we lived in we rent from my parents, so I'm happy to pay parents money I will get back 30 years (or less God forbid) when they pass, but no equity for her to get. I have almost full custody of the kids. Kids know what is up re who is around and who is not. No alimony either. Wrecked me at first because I thought there was still a chance with us. Keep strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Confronted stbxw about how she would be paying her part of child support if she had a kid by bf of 3 months, got her in writing to commit to using retirement funds and credit cardsDude I am a f****** lawyer I'm a public defender in an area where public defenders have resources I have successfully defended three murders my jurisdiction doesn't allow for anything beforehand she isn't pregnant we do have what's called a separation contract which is a thing in my jurisdiction which he has signed in which she is acknowledged that we have not had any sort of central relations for x amount of time and that any child that she has isn't mine mine is a jurisdiction where I could th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Confronted stbxw about how she would be paying her part of child support if she had a kid by bf of 3 months, got her in writing to commit to using retirement funds and credit cardsDude, it is at best 60/40 in my favor. Right now I have 100% of overnights. This is me being happy getting in writing where she plans to get the money if she isn't working. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 06:13 AM |
| 14 | I finally got to do things I wanted to do with the kids for fun now that we are seperatedFuck yeah king | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 02:33 AM |
| 6 | After a few weeksYes. Stop it. It fucking hurts, it sucks. Even if you have kids, once someone files it is OVER. Why would you ever trust her again? Do the usual stuff that is recommended here, no drinking/drugs, gym, good diet, lots of reading, new hobbies, new friends, save your money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I go for 50/50?I already gave an example, getting her in an agreeable mood by helping her move out and giving her all the time she needs to try and get knocked up even though I think it is a stupid fucking idea and I still (until very recently) had feelings for her. I got her in good feelings to me as a "team" then I walked her through how much of a pain in the ass it would be to try and have true 50/50 custody with me living 20-30 minutes away depending on traffic, so she, thinking I'm still on "team kids" sl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Should I go for 50/50?I am in the midst of a divorce. I am a public defender in a big west coast city where we have resources to do our jobs, who has, in the past, worked 80 hour weeks doing complex mental health homicide cases. Right now im "resting" in an easier spot. I started from position that 50/50 was the least I was willing to agree to. She has moved out to her bf place, and I've slowly whittled her down to where she has agreed I should have every overnight until and unless she and bf get a bigger place, and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Replacing my stbxw art with something better while her new bf doesn't let her put up her artYeah, it's a weird thing, not really cheating because we've been just co-parents for years now (read past posts for more). But when she started staying over at his place every night I took down everything of hers right away, she still has a shit ton of stuff here all stuffed in a side bedroom (because he lives in a two bedroom bungalow) and she was all crying about how she doesn't feel like she has a "place" since she is in process of moving between. I'm like, not my problem. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/23 10:54 PM |
| 3 | More single dad success stories please!I'm early on with this, look at some recent posts of mine to see the success. I have primary custody of three girls one with special needs and I FUCKING love it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/23 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Stbxw new bf and his mom blew off meeting my kids for first time, if it wasn't so sad it would be so funnyI have then every night from 8pm-school bus or 9am on Saturday (she is usually late) I still have them from 8pm on Saturday, then I have all day Sunday. Every bedtime, everytime I get to read bible story (I came back to Catholic faith in October, about four months before this all started, she did not, can no longer interfere) and bedtime story and the our father. If my special needs kiddo needs to wake up to pee in middle of night it is me every night. If at 2-4 am she is up s reaming needing co… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/23 03:04 AM |
| 4 | Dads, how far do you live from your children?Op, Im sorry you aren't getting the love and support and empathy you were wanting here but instead guys all bragging that they have full or almost full custody or love right next to their kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/23 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Night #1 of not moving out..Washington is a two party consent state for audio recording anything illegally recorded can never be admitted into evidence it is also a crime I am a Seattle public defender who has successfully defended murders if you want to know why you should listen to a person on the internet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Rant on stbxw basically abandoning kidsNo actually. So she's autistic (so am I not "as much") and she also has gender/orientation issues and we have a lot of baggage. We suck as roommates, and there is a lot of mutual relationship trauma too. (She mostly fucks this guy with a strap-on while he wears women's clothes, but also they are trying to have a kid). There were a lot of reasons we didn't work. However, she has ALWAYS acknowledged I am a great dad. Other than nitpicking cleaning and folding laundry issues, she has basically ackn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Rant on stbxw basically abandoning kidsI appreciate the thought behind this comment. And this rant didn't contain all my feelings on this topic. I am NOT complaining about having to do too much parenting. No way. I love it. This thought process about the kids knowing who actually cares? Hell yeah, that is me too. I asked my oldest, who is in 5th grade what she thought about not seeing mommy as much and she said "it's fine, it means we get to go more places" (because I'm the only one they usually takes them places all three together b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Rant on stbxw basically abandoning kidsNo way in hell that is happening, we are entering final parenting plan in next week or two locking in things where Ive got primary custody. It is well documented in writing that we have not been sexually active in years, and she has been spending every night over there for weeks now. While I'm in a default parentage state, it's very easy to disclaim and as soon as she gets pregnant I'll insist on the declaration of non-paternity. Divorce final mid July. She will be officially moved out by mid-Au… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | One day after taking 1.5 extra bedtimes stbxw gave me every bedtimeIt's joint decisions, as that is all I can get while still getting all the other concessions. But I still have primary custody. That will matter more | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | One day after taking 1.5 extra bedtimes stbxw gave me every bedtimeShe already agreed to primary custody in my favor. She only gets every other week's m-sat, and can't host kids overnight at his place until next year. I bet she and new guy will never even exercise the right to overnights once it's been 7 months of the kids having me put them to bed every night. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 12:44 AM |
| – | Already taking another 1.5 bedtimes a week from stbxwI'm happy about this. She has agreed to primary custody for me. She has agreed no alimony even though unemployed, I won't be paying any child support. I get more time and influence with the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsSee,here's the thing, why do I even want a bigger house where they could have my kids half time? Instead I want to slow roll the overnights. I want her to get pregnant in like December, and then as opposed to kids going over for overnights in January, it is delayed another 21 months for pregnancy and newborn time. Then I file a parenting plan modification and ask to eliminate her overnights completely because she hasn't had any in 2+ years | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Tonight is last time stbxw lays their head down anywhere in my homeOh man, there is a completely separated story about trying to remain friends, chat me for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsOnce I've lost the weight (used to be a college wrestler) will take up BJJ. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsWithin a week of her dating I had made sure to set appointments with the doctors with the dentist with the eye doctor additional specialist appointments is needed more extracurriculars all of that things that she had been ignoring that as the stay-at-home mom who only has online grad school to do she was supposed to do all an attempt to try to shame her out of spending so much time and energy on this guy best thing that ever happened to my kids was their mom falling for the doofus because it got… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsWon't be paying her a dime. And I basically control everything about the kids for next 7 months unless his rich mama buys them a bigger house to have the kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsYep. Losing weight, hitting the gym, faith, therapy, more fun times with the kids, quit drinking, getting back into my nerd hobbies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsI had many an issue myself. We were a dysfunctional couple, but I'm a great dad, even she will admit it. Week of Easter I cried entire mass on Wednesday just sobbing as I made ready to make a general confession of all my own faults in my marriage. And it was a long confession. I'm in therapy, and have been working through things pretty quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsDidn't to me. I made it clear I wasn't going to be dating and made comments multiple times we were waiting for xyz to happen to get divorced. Both sides had their interpretations. I basically immediately started seeking a divorce. She fell in lust with this guy.its been acknowledged numerous times in paperwork and emails that we are not sexually active. I can easily demand a paternity test. I know who this guy is, name, dob, where he lives. Also, I'm a public defender who has very favorably reso… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsYeah, I get you are running out of eggs. But damn, three months? She only started staying over there even half time a month ago. Before that she was only even seeing him twice a week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Now stbxw is trying to have a kid with person they met three months ago. Agrees not only to no alimony, but 8/6 primary custody, and can't have overnights until next year while on his shitty 2br house with my three kids including one with special needsRead through the post history, we had not been a couple in three years, and she misunderstood and thought she was free to date. We have a special needs kid and she is going through grad school. I thought we were just killing time until she was done and had a job. It still really messed me up,because I always hoped we would work. Don't worry, it is very clear and in writing that we are not fucking. She will gladly sign a declaration of non-paternity. If it happens. It is only a 5% chance each mon… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Need you bros to remind me to stop caring about herThing is, I'm getting primary custody and she is going to move out (we rent our house from my parents). I just have to tough it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Need you bros to remind me to stop caring about herNot my style but I understand the energy. I was a high school and college wrestler, so will put my energy into combat sports. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Need you bros to remind me to stop caring about herYep. Sober, gym, losing weight. After I've lost the weight going to start MMA/BJJ/kickboxing training in weeks where I don't have the kids. About ten months ago I returned to the catholic church, I get to take my kids every Sunday even on her weeks. Today my kids future godparents are coming over for dinner. I'm a public defender who has done really serious cases. My specialty is complex mental health defenses to homicide charges in a jurisdiction where public defenders are actually well paid. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Need you bros to remind me to stop caring about herAgreed, special needs kiddo makes it even harder. And still living together for next six months as we finish divorce, she takes care of special needs kiddo over summer (it would be 10k plus to find someone to do that now), and new guy (allegedly) gets his two bedroom house ready for my kids half time. Need to split. Need to not interact much. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Need you bros to remind me to stop caring about herI appreciate what you're saying and it is what I need to hear but that's the really weird thing about this we still do care about each other we just clearly don't work as a couple. And she took 3 years in therapy to deal with that and I have 2 months in therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportI am interested in your litigation plan in a blue state for the working dad with sahm stbxw where dad makes most of the money for me to get a better deal than this. Seriously, please let me know and I will follow it. You would only make this comment if you were a expert in litigation in this area unless you are a complete asshole. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportBoo | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 06:01 PM |
| 2 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportNope, we tried that five years ago both agreed didn't work. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportI have the 51. So stbxw would pay me. I make MUCH more. If it was 50/50 or if I was the 49 in this equation I could whittle down the child support I paid her by delineating all the things that I would pay for like daycare and health insurance and things like that and also by having substantial residential time with the children but that would be harder to eliminate the transfer payment than it is by agreeing to 51/49 in my favor. They so want out of this relationship and into their new relations… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportI am the parent with more resources. Stbxw is spouse with less. As the primary custodial parent court will accept waiver as I have adequate resources. Stbxw would otherwise have to pay me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportShe will sign problem is two months to run out clock on cool off | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 09:15 PM |
| 5 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportShe's signed, it's just so early in process we are still in initial cooling off period. Oh yeah, we are splitting who is "primary" with kids week to week, I always live here, just go live in man cave on her weeks with kids, on her weeks off she gets to go live with him full time except doing child care in afternoons on school days until I'm done with work. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportYep, that is where I'm getting myself too. And I've kept all the resources, without her spending I'll get it done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 11 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportLonger back story to that. We have not been together as a couple for a long time and only staying together because we have special needs child she thought that she could date that was not my understanding of our agreement it wasn't exactly cheating at one point I told them to cut it off she then told me that he would suck my dick too sure that he is not a threat I don't know why she told me that then we actually start divorce proceedings and it looks like they are actually going to try to live t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 02:56 PM |
| 7 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportBecause I have primary custody stbxw would owe me child support, it's waivable in my state if primary custody parent has adequate resources | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 02:51 PM |
| 36 | She's so in love now and wants away from me so much she is now agreeing to 51/49 me, no alimony, no child supportThat's the kicker, I am a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | First transition to solo parenting time--this is heavenIt is a much much more complicated situation about what we all did to each other. We also have a special needs kid, and she is in grad school. We will likely be sharing this house, where I will live full time, but she half time (can't have any new partner here) for at least another year if not longer. I secured an agreement no introduction of any new partners until at least six months after divorce is finalized (three months from now). She can't exercise residential time elsewhere until a list o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 12:35 AM |
| 5 | First transition to solo parenting time--this is heavenAnd stbxw isn't just abandoning things. Honestly we were awful for each other and both had hurt each other so much over the years that we were much less than the sum of our parts. I bear a ton of blame here too. While I think they are still being unwise in what they are doing re new boyfriend, stbxw did do all the effort to clean, has the last three nights she was primary gotten the girls to sit down at the dinner table with her (even if it was all microwave fare or things like ramen--which one … | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Need to remember to take the high road and enforce boundaries even on the little thingsI hear you. It's hard when the only interaction I've had with this person is something so negative. Nine months before I have to interact with him at all is a long time to allow for healing and grieving etc. And I'm in therapy, hitting the gym, I had already been going back to mass and taking two of my three girls, I'm working on getting supports from the parish to take my special needs kiddo, making friends there. My parents live half a mile away and will be focusing on concentrating their time… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Need to remember to take the high road and enforce boundaries even on the little thingsThanks. I appreciate the perspective. I do have concerns with the bf. A month into my stbxw dating, he's saying can't wait to meet kids, be stepparent, but he's saying this in context where he thinks stbxw will stay with me for two years so he gets all the fun times. Then he's talking about how his mom will help them buy a house so they can host kids half time. Then I get a bit concerned, stbxw is insisting on divorce, is clearly in a dopamine Haze, and this guy hasn't even met my three kids, in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Wow, introspection and empathy from the stbxIn her defense it is a lot more complicated than that. This wasn't exactly cheating. We've been not together romantically for three years and before that both and explored an open marriage which we both agreed didn't work. There were some comments I made years ago that would make her think she could date, but she misunderstood, and I hadn't communicated enough about what I thought current things were. We were both stuck in a haze of depressed limbo for a very long time. In the end, this was a go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Wow, introspection and empathy from the stbxShe sticks around with this guy that she's with I have no interest maybe that will change sometime in the future with healing and time but as it is from my sanity boundaries are up and will be for a long time would you have a special needs kiddo so we're going to be attached in that way of dealing with that kids needs for the rest of our natural lives | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Wow, introspection and empathy from the stbxI get what you are saying. And I haven't provided much other details. Signed agreed divorce papers were filed two days ago. 50/50 with minimal alimony and some very favorable other agreements you can search for in my other few posts. Neither of us wants the other back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Wow, introspection and empathy from the stbxThank you yeah the most important thing is disentangling forgiveness from trust it's over a few days short of 3 months from now after the cooling off. The agreed divorce paperwork will be signed off by judge then we get through the summer when our special needs kids still needs to be cared for by her for the entire summer because we didn't put away money for Nanny and then we split the house each week week to week. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Filed todayOnly half time, and only subleasing from me, I get to decorate house (except for her one bedroom) how ever I like. Both of us hope this is a much shorter arrangement than that. However we have a kid with special needs and we need to work together on that. Any new partner of hers is not allowed at the house. Yes, this is an odd arrangement, but it means that until she is actually set on her feet, I am sleeping in same house as kids every night. I have no plans to date for a very long time. I will… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Filed todayNo. We both met at the same ivy level college though. She's a grown woman, even if I think she isn't thinking completely clearly, she is capable of hammering this out on her own with me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Filed todayExcept in those cases when both parties are unrepresented and realize that even though this is a tense situation, it is better to settle now and save the many tens of thousands of dollars this could all spiral into (GALs, psych experts re kid with special needs etc) when over the course of two months we hammered out every last detail of an agreement we both could live with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Filed todayYeah I spoke briefly in one of those 5-10 minute consults with a divorce lawyer or two and when I told them what I had gotten as a deal they were like you're an attorney as well you know how to close a deal this is a deal. Just get it done | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Filed todaySure, feel free to dm. I would caution there's so much else going on here that I'm not sure how generalizable my situation is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Filed todayNow see this is the agreement that's now more favorable to her she was going to agree to one quarter of the alimony and to 5149 custody in my favor and have the alimony only last 2 years not four. Edit: so what I gained from this is the agreement not to introduce any new partners to the kids for 6 months after the divorce finalizes and the additional language where a safe home for my disabled kiddo means a detached house wear special needs kiddo has their own room so what I bought with this agre… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I've "won" but want to help the transition to a new stepparent go better, should I just stop?Some more background. We've not been romantically together for at least three years. She had reason to think it was okay to date, I still had hoped we might get back together. I don't blame her for dating, although I do think she's being silly right now. Also, the part of the agreement that still makes her "my problem" for the foreseeable future is that we've agreed her parenting time will occur at my house, and she will have a bedroom here where she lives half the time doing her primary parenti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 02:32 PM |
| 5 | I've "won" but want to help the transition to a new stepparent go better, should I just stop?I guess I was hoping to reach even further, facilitating his becoming a stepparent if he really is going to be good with the kids. Yeah, I should just take the win. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 06:21 PM |
| 4 | I've "won" but want to help the transition to a new stepparent go better, should I just stop?Lol, true | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 06:19 PM |
| 4 | I've "won" but want to help the transition to a new stepparent go better, should I just stop?I was able to at first get her to agree to cut off all contacts, that is when she asked for the immediate divorce giving me everything. Then I was like, damn, if you will do that, you can see him starting a month from paperwork filing, just no overnights or adult activities as I don't want you getting pregnant. Should I just let them go at it again? The issue is part of this will be that she will have her visitation time at my house, having one of the smaller bedrooms (he can't be here). So we a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 06:05 PM |
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