See post hx. Non-romantic with wife three years, she decided to date when I I thought we were waiting out COVID, her grad school, and special needs kid getting older.

She is now trying to have a kid with a guy she met three months ago. I'm "supporting her" by taking all the overnights with kids (including special needs kiddo who often wakes up during night). (Really I'm pushing her out of house frog boil style)

So she can time having sex with new bf (who works nights) and so she has more time to organize his messy cluttered place to "someday" host the kids over there.

One of our big fights was cleanliness etc. I've offered to take over bathing of kids so no fights over tickytack shower cleanliness. We split each week 3/3 Wednesdays switch. With taking over all showering, she now only has bedtime duty Thursday and Saturdays. I do bedtime 5* a week every week as she leaves as soon as I start showers.

Shit. She's even starting to bitch about her Saturdays, doesn't want the kids until 9am vs 7am now she has to drive half an hour to see them and can't just lay in bed and let them have screens.

I'll take every moment with the kids.

Fuck I hope she gets knocked up with her horrible all pregnancy all day morning sickness, Ill keep offering more time with kids to support through pregnancy and newborn time. One day she will wake up realizing she lost the kids.