As we finish divorce we split weeks, I have sunday-tuesday, she has Thursday-saturday (kinda). She has moved out to live with her new bf (it's complicated, no direct slut bashing, we were in loveless marriage for three years).

However, level of not caring is just wow.

Kids stay with me at home every night, one of kids is special needs and often needs help over night. I do all school mornings, she comes over 330-5pm on school days I as finish up work to be with kids, we switch Wednesdays, on her nights she sticks around until 8pm (her guy works nights, she needs to get back by 830 to say goodbye to him--she says). (They are unwisely trying to have a kid three months after meeting).

Stbx didn't come over on Monday, which okay, not her day, but was a holiday and kids home all day. since I was off and Monday is one of her guys off days, and then when she decided to tell me Monday night maybe she had really messed things up with him and I told her off that I wasn't one to talk to about that (she was catastrophiizing) I then didn't have her come over on Tuesday and took off early from work, then was over yesterday from 330-8, then today was over 330-5pm, but apparently had a lot of drama going on and wasn't feeling mentally great, including being sad I took down all the art she had put up (even though she doesn't live here anymore), so I offered to take over, she said she felt bad to have to have me take more time with kids, but I told her frankly I have no interest being in same building with her while she is not in a good space mentally which she accepted. Oh, and then as I'm having best friend and his wife over for dinner on Friday, she will only be over here from 330-5pm to a funeral in hometown on Saturday so she won't take that day with kids, then Sunday is my day again.

So between Saturday at 7pm (when she left an hour early to fuck) to next Monday at 330 she will have seen the kids 7.5 hours.

Where as, not counting school hours (where I am still primary contact as I work from home and school is five minutes away but she is living 20-30 away) I will have spent 170 hours within 30ft of them (expect when I take them to a park or something).

Idk, I get why she went to find someone else, but God damn, are you lost in lust.