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munchinggobbles/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 10:20 AM
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DISCUSSIONmunchinggobbles/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 02:56 PM
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CMVmunchinggobbles/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 08:45 AM
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CMVmunchinggobbles/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:33 AM
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munchinggobbles/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 04:36 AM
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munchinggobbles/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 07:27 AM
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Why would you not date someone closer to your age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:42 AM
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Dosent make you an expert on them all of a sudden
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:51 AM
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Not from a first world country but clearly you’ve never been around woman and get all your info from the internet .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:27 PM
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You don’t think those woman have baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:10 PM
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Don’t be delusional in thinking that foreign woman want you for your amazing personality and sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:01 PM
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I used to be an endorsed contributor before the great split (redpillwomen vs redpillwives). In my defence I was an impressionable 20 year old with no experience with dating. I sucked in any advice on dating and this was the first thing I came across back then. They were nice ladies. They gave pretty solid advice I guess when it came to attracting men but not too much info on the kind of men you'd attract with said advice. What I wasn't a big fan of was the idea that women were somehow the irrati…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/21 04:04 AM
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We're talking about shame here, honesty isn't the same as shaming. No one's asking to be coddled and honesty is appreciated but shame with the intent of change seems like a quick fix. If people cared about change they'd be invested in the cause.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 05:50 PM
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Wouldn't empowering people to make more wise decisions with their life be a better option. Shame is just makes people better at hiding things from society then resenting society. Shame is from a self righteous point of view making the shamer feel better about themselves. It's a simple and solution to a complex problem.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 05:41 AM
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Yup, when I was a younger,pale Justin Biebers / side-swept-hair-emo-boy-bands were more my thing in terms of aesthetics. Now days it’s the tanned/dark solid manly bearded guy. Personality and other things factors in more in terms of attraction than it used to so that affects my preference looking for more stable , confident , well put together nice guys than hard-to-get , douchey(not that I liked douches, just didn’t mind it too much) cool boys. But I’ve always found myself drawn to people who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:16 AM
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I disagree that they’re low value. I think anyone would take the advantage if presented and in a state of in capability of advancing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 01:22 PM
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I think there is a certain amount of truth in both pills but to staunchly advocate one pill and nothing else and then follow it like a religion ,denying other people’s experiences seem more of choice than the truth that people have different lives and experiences. The push for a certain pill to be universally accepted seems to be something both sides are doing rather than accepting their reality and finding like minded people. It seem to be for more societal gain in today’s society. Both sides a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 01:17 PM
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Reading your approach made my palms sweat. I’ll do my best. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:39 AM
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Took me sometime to realize that not all people are like that. I just feel like because of it , I’m trying at all times to keep everyone happy and at the expense of what I really want. I fear that if I showed any resistance or disagreement then people will leave me. I know it’s unhealthy but I’m working on it. I also realized I’m completely blown away by normal acts of niceness (like if the waiter is being nice) because in my head everyone wants to be dominating etc. Need to recalibrate.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:34 AM
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You just summarized exactly how I feel :’)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:26 AM
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Thanks for the tip. I always try to explain myself when a simple sentence could have done the trick. I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:25 AM
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Interesting. How do you usually make sure it doesn’t get to the point where youb are like how did it get this bad? And where do you draw the line between fun and too much?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:22 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I realized it’s not only men but women too. To be honest I feel like people are testing me to see how far they can take things before I actually say something or that’s me just being paranoid.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 09:37 AM
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Feminism does not advocate to actively give obstacles for others because it is too easy for them. I agree that quotas don't help the cause as it is done at the expense of others hard work. But assistance such as money and access to education can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:13 AM
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Ans you would know this because you are clearly involved in the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:02 AM
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Everyone had help along the way and our success in life isn't strictly our own. By your definition , if needing help makes one weak then everyone is weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:58 AM
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So helping out women in poor countries is not a valid reason for feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:54 AM
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How is being born in a particular environment like the above make a person weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:52 AM
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What about women from lower income environments or those born in brothels? What about those who want to educate themselves but don't have the money or means to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:45 AM
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What about women from lower income enviorments or those born in brothels? What about those who want to educate themselves but don't have the money or means to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:44 AM
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I did give you tips. You can't learn social skills. You need to put yourself out there.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 05:42 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:47 AM
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You seem to not mention any how your best friend was a bad friend , instead you described her superficially and something about her bf. I maybe wrong but this makes me think you are more concerned with how people make you look as opposed to forming deep relationships. Women can sense that. Sure you can make friends that way but then most of them would end up being shallow relationships where you sit around taking selfies all day or bitching about how feminists are evil and how you're so much mor…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 04:28 AM
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What? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:24 PM
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I don't understand what you mean by the pressure to look good. What do you mean that they are not fed the lie because of the complaining of unrealistic beauty std.? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:19 PM
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That empathy can be extended to gold diggers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:11 PM
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Women are attracted to masculine traits whether on a good person or bad person. I don't think most women actively seek out bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:10 PM
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Talked to women and observed that mostly seemed to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:01 PM
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Assume that a significant portion of women are gold diggers because of being burnt in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:57 PM
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Not all gold diggers, because some are genuinely that way but also it is possible that a gold digger can be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:55 PM
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I'm a women, I had a bitter moment when I found out that people were not interested in me because they thought I was funny , smart or an actual interesting person. I realized that guys hung around just purely based on the fact that I am a decent looking female which so far gave me a distorted sense of self. That is very depressing to find out that your worth in society is directly attached to your youth and attractiveness. That everyone was just being polite. All this luxury you have now is temp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:51 PM
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Well obviously not everyone but at least a significant does assume. It's not like all the gold digger are gathering together and talking about this stuff and from the stories I've heard from women, it's not like this isn't a possibility. The Gold Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:41 PM
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How is it condescending?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:38 PM
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Sounds intense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:30 PM
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Are not women also not fed a lie the same way men are too? Im mostly assuming and going off on observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:28 PM
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But I suppose both situations can actually be solved with communicating boundaries and interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:15 PM
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*curtsy*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:01 PM
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Not really. I think both have the capability to be bad. Both lack consideration for the opposite sex in order to gain maximum advantage from a relationship by manipulating the opposite sex via money/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:57 AM
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I'm not sure how being oneself is repulsive to someone else. Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:54 AM
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I agree with both your statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:53 AM
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I'm not getting the point you are trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:50 AM
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Idealist turned narcissist to be more precise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:48 AM
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Observation mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:45 AM
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Being apart of mainstream dose not automatically mean it's a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:41 AM
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Actual being someone of worth is always good advice, manipulating people into liking you isn't. I think the foundation of RP is relevant but I also think NAWALT and NAMALT. Being yourself is never a bad advice according to me. But being yourself doesn't mean you shouldn't improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 11:34 AM
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Okay but why the emotional manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:39 AM
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Kim Kardashian is mainstream media too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:32 AM
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But no one is concerned with this section of people since it is a mutual interaction by both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:17 AM
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In a way you are a trying to make her feel insecure to make her want you more. I just don't see a healthy relation coming out of that. I understand that a lot of women respond to that but I don't understand why you would want to be with someone who you are not truly yourself around. It must seem exhaustive putting on a front like that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:14 AM
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Unless you pull up actual stats of the views of an average RP user is, let's assume we both don't know. Like I mentioned in another comment. " But I've noticed that the advice given out by TRP are usually stuff that works on very insecure people. Like negging and trying to make your girl jealous. There's a reason why women's advice don't work since asking a man to be himself and finding someone who genuinely like him for him is a better advice is hard but any day better than faking who you are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:02 AM
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic. I think women do do that but only after they realize they're illusion that men truly love them for who they are and not that men are opportunistic lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:51 AM
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I'm assuming. In a civilized society it's frowned upon since everyone pedestalizes love and feels over being with someone for economic opportunities. Unless you're from a place with poverty and it's taught to young girls by the older generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:44 AM
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But I've noticed that the advice given out by TRP are usually stuff that works on very insecure people. Like negging and trying to make your girl jealous. There's a reason why women's advice don't work since asking a man to be himself and finding someone who genuinely like him for him is a better advice is hard but any day better than faking who you are so you can sleep with as many girls as possible. Sure your not going to be banging girls left and right but the likelihood of ending up in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:38 AM
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I'm talking about the pre gold digger phase. When people actually consider love and all that jazz. Then they eventually assume that there are no good men out there and decide that the only thing a man is good for is his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:29 AM
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Well you are referring to these women post them becoming gold diggers. I think a better way to put it is when these women realize that a lot of men (who they like) only value them for they're looks and that no amount of genuine niceness will make him want to be with her (he has options) and she just as valuable as her youthfulness and looks. I think that this mentality leads these women to end up grabbing as much as possible and giving little. I'm generalizing the average RP user who thinks AWAL…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:22 AM
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They were not always gold diggers. Everyone had this idealized view on what it meant to be in love until people get burnt and then they go "there are no good people out there, might as well enjoy the decline" and decide that to go gold digger mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:14 AM
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Who broke you?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/18 03:44 AM
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I'm 22. I actually don't have spend much time with friends as I'm extremely busy. But when I am around them I start acting different. I literally just morph into the person they want me to be. If I'm with a guy and I know his type is innocent quite girls, I literally just morph into that person. This goes to anyone I'm trying to impress. Recently it's gotten better but I feel this behavior sometimes gives me an identity crisis.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/18 03:32 AM
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I see. Is it possible to be a friend and a lover?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 09:57 AM
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But what happens when we get severely ill and can't be there for our men?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:06 AM
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You're breaking my heart ='( But I understand.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:04 AM
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For we are all merely human in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:00 AM
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I apologize if I came across as complaining or dictate to people ways to love. That was not my intention. I was asking if there anything more than the baseline attraction. I've seen realtionships with baseline attractions being met and they are great for the people involved. I've also seen certain relationships that have a bit more and I ideally I'd want to be in one of those. Were they relationships with people admitting their flaws and making a conscious decision to still love each other or a …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:58 AM
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Your relationship with your fiance sounds lovely. I hope I find the kind of relationship you found with your fiance. Thank you for your reply. How did you meet your fiance?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:48 AM
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This makes sense. I genuinely believe from a health and mental health standpoint, less sex would be good.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:41 AM
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The investment makes a lot of sense. That people are willing to invest in people who are willing to invest in them. That makes sense. I can understand if a man is willing to invest time in me, I would choose to respect his investment and reciprocate. Do you think that to make a decision to be there with someone through thick and thin would be a closer definition of love for most men at least and that is the reason why they have less of a standard for women in general?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:35 AM
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Which means that the only thing a woman can offer for a man is the qualities that are specific to her gender. Isn't brining a friendship also a valuable component aswell?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:24 AM
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Won't my default baseline attract someone and same for the man? Isn't there certain things about ourselves that is separate from our gender that attracts people?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:20 AM
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I see. Wouldn't it be more ideal to work on who we are and find someone who likes us than change what we are to get other's to like us?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:21 PM
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Do you think it's just subjective value and if your parents had all their needs met, they wouldn't really have any use for each other and the only source of value that your mom had will be gone?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:18 PM
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I'm not saying attraction isn't important but is there more to solidify relationships? Can't we be honest about our SMV from the start and build on other things?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:14 PM
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So any women can have your love if she gives you the right kind of attention?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:10 PM
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I don't want to be with a man who loves women. I want to be with a man who loves me. That way, I know no matter how many women come along, he will still love me. At least that should be the main theme. And hopefully, I feel satisfied with life enough to love a man the same way. I'm just having a hard time grasping the concept that love could be so finite.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:02 PM
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But we don't know if they're being lazy and stubborn. Isn't that just our subjective view of someone else? Do you think there are certain personality types that are more suited to RP lifestyle than others?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:55 PM
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Society, us, men, our elders, religious institutions. Do these women really need to justify their actions? Other than from a religious or moral standpoint, I don't understand why they should have any incentive to change? Why would they need to give if they could just keep taking?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:50 PM
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I agree. I feel like there's more to a relationship than just being a woman. I mean being a woman is important lol! but there has to be more of me than more of my womanhood for me to feel like this relationship is important and not just another guy and another relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:41 PM
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I assume not. But shouldn't we try to look for more in our partners than just how alpha and beta he is and shouldn't we expect men to perceive us more than our gender? Not just play up our feminine qualities in order to attract a high-value man? Shouldn't we just be true to ourselves and be who we are than morph into someone men want or even society wants us to be?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:31 PM
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But it works. Do you think society is to blame to say that a women's most valuable aspect is her body and then society get's hissy about her using her one advantage in society? I don't know if that came across right.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:22 PM
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I don't understand how. I'm just posing a question.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:16 PM
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I don't mean to disrespect men as I know this swings both ways (myself included). If I truly found someone who cared for me irrespective of my external factors and wanted to share a life, make memories together and live the best life we possibly could , that would be amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:15 PM
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But those are things that don't make us who we are, so you mean to say that men only love us for what we offer to them as opposed to who we are?. Plus that's something anyone can pretend to offer too. Meaning that the more number of women come offering the same services or better and if it's the only thing that your partner valued in you, what would make him not leave? I assume The kind of men you describe who value those things alone are usually men who are scarce on female attention and usuall…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:11 PM
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I understand what you're saying but I don't understand the need to paint these women as loosers and somehow being RP is superior to these women. In the end we were all there at one point. What i'd like to see is someone try to genuinely help women like this. I don't know if we're silently building this weird superiority complex just because other women don't ascribe to our ideals and morals. Like we rant about SJWs and fatties just to feel good about ourselves as opposed to actually wanting to h…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 03:26 AM
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Swimming almost everyday in the summer vacation. I purposely live a bit far away from my school so I have to either cycle or run (if I'm late to school). That gives me a decent workout everyday :). Otherwise I jog and occasionally lift.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 07:36 AM
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Start small, then big. Easy then hard. One step at a time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 02:39 AM
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If this us just a temporary thing then do whatever you want but if this is a relationship you want to pursue then remember this is going to be your entire life. A life of constant jealousy and sadness. I doubt you're going to be able to deal with the emotions because women are naturally possessive of their men. You're doing yourself disservice by convincing yourself that he loves when clearly he doesn't. Even random strangers on the street would be worried if they saw a girl sad and that's not a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:50 AM
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I've met a seen some men who are able to convince all their plates that their his '#1'. Even if she is, its probably because she's the only girl who sticks around even after knowing his plan.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 09:43 AM
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Men sigh so confusing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:59 PM
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I think it's nice to see her understand the argument from an alternative perspective and hopefully a lot more women realise and make an attempt to understand other peoples perspective. I don't think it should matter too much that she is doing it for money or views. I wouldn't mind paying or subscribing to a channel that promotes an honest conversation between people on beliefs and such, which is something rare in our time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:09 AM
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I assume that it would be extremely awkward. My lizard brain would somehow interpret this as "someone who isn't strong enough to lead" and I would loose quite a bit of attraction for him. I wouldn't mind something a bit cheaper or if asked to contribute for half of it but the act of him giving the ring is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:24 PM
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There's no objective way of knowing whether or not someone married for the resources or love, I assume it wasn't accurate of me to say 'most' or even make that statement. Assuming that's how you define love, would it mean that cues of fertility is a part of love since that is a big component of male attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:49 AM
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By resources I mean things such as security, status, money. Sure, love marriages exist. But they it isn't exclusive. As in something about his resource providing skill is what attracts you to him. Like strong may subconsciously mean protection and security or hard working may mean a steady income. Maybe status could be a better social network or community.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 05:37 PM
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True, I think the most important lesson parents could teach their daughter is emotional independence. But I disagree that women expect more due to their own inadequacy but rather her subjective view that she brings more to the table than he does. This could be because she thinks highly of herself because she was told by people around her or slept with a lot of high SMV men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:00 AM
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Women most of the time marry men for resources. So as long the guy is providing she wouldn't care much whereas men need women to enjoy sex and be in a good mood to want to have sex with them hence the saying happy wife = happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:02 AM
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But what does this mean? That men love women more than women love men? I just assume both sexes love the other the way they would want to be loved and unfortunately this doesn't register to the other sex as love. Most men feel to provide is to loving and most women feel doing things for the other like cooking for people, spending time together, talking about feeling and being open is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:13 AM
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Both sexes love conditionally. The only reason men seem to love unconditionally is because they lack options as it's harder to obtain sex in general for them and hence it's harder for them to leave. Resources is easy to obtain from a man once in a relationship because most women use sex as a bargaining chip. And even if he doesn't provide, she has a easier time walking away as there are still other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/17 02:52 PM
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And here I thought that I was the only one who sported a unibrow during exam season :P
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 12:14 PM
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I don't think logic is specific to a particular gender. I've seen a decent amount of illogical men to be convinced that's a guy thing. Sure there are more logical men than women. But I assume that's because women get away with being illogical so many of them are not required to use that part of your brain. Then there are women who pretend to be illogical because it works to their advantage. Women are horrible drivers. Now you get driven around and you can sleep or read a book in the back seat. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 05:37 AM
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Yup, I just assume people are bound to do something dumb and when they don't, I appreciate it. Besides, it's not like I'm perfect in every way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 05:06 AM
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Common sense isn't so common. :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 01:03 AM
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If it isn't too much, I'd be interested to know what your relationship with your parents was like. Especially your mom.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/17 04:19 AM
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Yeaaaaah......I think it's better to stick to yourself on this one. She's seems very much in her own world and sounds obsessed with her own thoughts. Unless you find another reason to stick with, I suggest moving on.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:22 AM
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You can disagree on a lot of things and still be friends. Friends aren't necessarily people who you shared a lot in common with but rather some one you felt comfortable around and generally accepted you for who you are. My friend is an atheist, a liberal,a feminist and extremely social and I'm the exact opposite. I value her honesty and kindness. We accept each other's values and lifestyles. She goes to a lot of parties and I'm don't enjoy such settings very much so we find other things or new t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 10:48 AM
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That sounds like a good system. Being able to move sets definitely keeps the competition in.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:41 PM
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And balance has been restored in the RPW world! Best of luck with your relationship 😃
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:36 PM
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The point I'm trying to make is that competition pushes people to do better and having a high standard with a lot of smart kids in a group also makes hard work a norm and makes children adhere to the standard. If someone needs more attention then after school classes should be available for both smart kids and kids who need help. That's why parents usually try really hard to get their children into schools with a reputation of good grades. As a kid if all your peers are really into to studies, y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:17 AM
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I'm not from where you are, so the word didn't hit me as a racial thing at all. You're projecting your thoughts onto him. If it sounds racists ,it's not because it is racist but because it's being perceived as racist. Don't worry, relax, it wasn't meant to offend you or anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 04:16 AM
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I personally feel segregation based on ability might not be a good idea because I feel children will end up becoming complacent when they realize that the grown up don't expect much of them. They won't necessarily try harder because they feel like they are not expected to.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 03:59 AM
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The thing is, if you let this continue, you'rE going to feel like this for the rest of your relationship. Think about it, everytime you guys fight he's going to go to this lady for comforting. You need to set your boundaries!. This probabaly only continuing because he knows you won't leave. What you are asking isn't clingy or whatever you think it is, it's basic respect for your feelings. You said before that you guys don't have sex so I assumed he used this as a source of release but now you're…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 03:26 AM
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I don't think it's arranged marriage or marriage that is the problem. It's the people. Usually in an arranged marriage you have to be honest and realise that marriage is not the solution to your problems. The reason alot of arranged marriages don't work out is because there is usually a sense of compulsion by parents due the many aspects such as money, status to marry someone. People are very rp aware so they usually lie about salary, virginity. Then there the aspect of Indian culture where you'…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 10:55 AM
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Same here. I feel bragging about sleeping with a lot of chicks sounds as cringey as a chick who brags about being a virgin. It feels like that's all they have to offer in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:29 AM
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I'm assuming you're old or naive to think nothing too crazy happens in college. I'm not talking about people who frequent the TRP.N count isnt the only thing that determines how much a high quality man is willing to invest in a relationship, it's a minimum. Same way if you met a guy who had a great personality and worked at McDonald's and played video games all day, you would less likely invest in him than someone who had a stable job and was interesting to be around only because minimum require…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 07:15 AM
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Even if she could change, no one owes her a second chance. No one is punishing her, it's just that people can decide whether or not they want to be with her after learning the truth. The analogy with the fat person isn't the same because you can adopt a healthy lifestyle and loose the weight whereas no matter how much you change, your n count remains the same. Your brain and body has been conditioned to what sex is, your initial sexual interactions determines alot of your preferences and kinks a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 06:25 AM
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Medical student here , the other disease that causes weight gain is Cushing's syndrome, caused by excess cortisol. They does screw up your metabolism but it doesn't mean it becomes impossible to loose weight. Just harder than your average, as in you'll have to be more watchful of what you eat. With the help of a doctor for your normal prescription and nutritionist to plan out a balanced diet so you don't deprive yourself of by starving to death and lot of exercise. It is possible. Your can voice…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 06:00 AM
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I've always assumed that plastic surgery even if it increases your SMV would decrease your RMV in the sense that the kids aren't exactly going to get that pointy nose and high cheekbones and the offspring end up looking extremely different from the parents. What would your opinion be on this matter?
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 05:30 AM
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The emotional support outside and alone crying is a good idea. Um very emotional when it comes to seeing people I care about suffer, I either get annoyed at them or start crying and the times I do try to comfort them, I'm crying myself. I guess that's why I'm might be indifferent to lots of people's feelings and come across as cold. I would like to know how to be strong in those times.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 01:05 AM
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Thank you for your reply. What about the situations that he may not have control over. Like an illness?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 12:58 AM
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Curious, Why do you think religious people are not high value?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 09:50 AM
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Religious ones?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 05:28 AM
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What if he's interested but shy or not aggressive?
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 11:44 AM
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I just saved this. The who I am is something I'm still trying to find out. Thank you so much for this reply. It really helped explain alot. Merry Christmas to you too!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 05:03 AM
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Thank you for replying. I like the idea of being a complimenting piece to a SO. I'll keep this in mind .
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 04:55 AM
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This is something I haven't heard. You place your self worth on your life experiences, am I correct? Good or bad both shaped you into the person you are today.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 04:51 AM
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Do you know anyway fast way to come to terms with the fact that life's unfair? Or do I have to wait for it to just go away?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 04:46 AM
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Your last paragraph is a great idea. Hopefully I can get comfortable with myself enough that I no longer feel threatened when I see someone more competent or prettier.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:48 AM
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Don't you feel insecure when you meet someone who is better than you on the things you find self worth in?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:42 AM
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I think I'm on the same train. I guess it's quite common when we are young.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:41 AM
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I feel the way you felt before. I look and am quite plain and I feel overlooked quite a lot. I subconsciously am comparing myself looks and personality wise to other girls and I really don't want to. I want to be happy with me but I've been trying to be someone that's other people expect me to be that I don't really know who I am as a person. I would like to be as comfortable as you are with just being myself and not really caring about other women. Any tips?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:09 AM
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I love caring too but sometimes I put others before me too much or I'm completely selfish. How do you usually strike a balance? I don't have an SO, but I'd like to apply the concept with my siblings. Does the same principle apply here as well?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 04:58 AM
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Thank you for your reply. What are the personal goals you've set for yourself if you don't mind asking?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 04:53 AM
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Thank you for your reply. This is something im going through myself. I think I over think things and I'm am definitely going through an identity crisis coupled that with how people expect me to be. I've always tried to be someone I want to be and neglected who I am now. Can you emphasise on the finding your values, I struggle with what I expect of myself since I kinda used to adapting to what other people expect? How do you find oneself? Any practical steps I can take to learn more about myself?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 04:48 AM
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I feel the same about my siblings. I have this weird sense of pride being a part of of my group. Like being a part of something bigger. I'm a student so I feel I'm not making much of a difference as if now. Are there any characteristics about yourself that you like that makes you you?
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 04:26 AM
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When I started dressing up I couldn't help feeling that people were judging me more especially other girls. But I was shocked to see as I started working on my looks, other women close to me also started taking their appearance into consideration. Your doing a favour for the girls in your community. I did get a good amount of "who does she think she is with those skirts, ugh!". Haters gonna hate. I know I'm not snobby and people who know me don't think so too. So why bother what other people thi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 06:24 AM
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I think this is how women naturally vet men. They use their father as a minimum standard. I guess this is why women with absent fathers or no strong father figures tend to go for not so great men.
/r/RedPillWives11/08/16 05:12 AM
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I've been dressing more feminine and grew out my hair and I'm completely shocked at how more nice people treat you. I used to be very tomboyish and had a boy cut and wore baggy clothes and used to get mistaken for a feminine dude sometimes. But now after growing my hair out and dressing a bit more nice people seem to be more helpful and nicer. My sisters still sport the short hair and guy clothes and get mistaken for guys and it sucks to see how mean people are. People seem to be more forgiving …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 11:36 AM
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Thank you writing this. This is so informative. Realised that high SMV does not equal to high RMV.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:39 PM
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I didn't realise that there was so much to it. Looking forward to the thread :)
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 05:32 PM
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True, I realise I can only raise my RMV/SMV so much then I have to adjust my standards.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:21 PM
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I see your point and the uncertainty would drive me crazy. I'd rather not get in a relationship with such as well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 04:14 PM
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I realise I really need to do that girl game challenge. I don't exactly have a specific one, just a very vague one. Thanks for pointing out the list. I mean SMV but what exactly constitutes RMV. I know its the value that helps keep a good relationship. But what exactly adds to RMV?
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 04:11 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. I know what a RMV is but what exactly are the traits that increase RMV.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 04:04 PM
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Thank you for your reply. I probably have adjust my expectation. Hopefully I feel the way you felt about your husband when I meet the right one.
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 03:55 PM
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I realise that I'm not very specific because I'm not able to articulate properly what exactly the trait is and the closest I can come to it are those words. And when I see someone bring up the traits I like they don't exactly match since its probably their definition of that word. I'm going to read the article. Thank you for the reply.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 03:38 PM
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That's a good way to think about it. But if pursued by someone of that kind, are you more reserved off since you have that thing in the back of your head that it might work out or do you put in your normal girl game?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 03:22 PM
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Thank you for the example. How were you able distinguish what you wanted from your needs. Does your husband tick off all your must haves?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 03:10 PM
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Hard working as in he made the most of what situation he is in and is looking to learn more and improve himself in some way.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 12:13 PM
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My hair is slight curvy and long and it didn't look very appealing in any way. Recently I've layered my hair and it seems very attractive. I guess the layers gave it more texture, curviness. So length might not be the problem. If you have dead straight hair, this might not be a good idea though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 06:16 PM
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Are you able to respect your boyfriend enough and see a future with him. If he's just someone you have sex with then breakup or else you'll resent being with him later on in life and it'll ruin the relationship. If you do decide that your boyfriend is the one you want to be with then you need to take responsibility. If you know there is a chance you might cheat in a particular situation then leave that place at once. In the end of the day you have self control and can overcome those urges and no…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/16 01:00 AM
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So would you say that a women should appeal to which ever class she wants to date within or appear attractive to all classes on general?
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 12:16 PM
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Yeah because the girl who works there is the one doing the animal testing. -___-
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 04:05 AM
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Hi everyone! :) I'm Indian and been following the rp principle for almost a year. Looking forward to improving myself and getting to know you ladies.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 11:46 AM
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Okay Im going to copy and paste a post i made a long time ago here: You'll be surprised how common it is to find converted Redpill women here. Was once a hard core feminist who was just generally not happy and wanted stab any guy on the street because "THE PATRIARCHY MUST DIE" (Yep it was that bad). Basically here what I did: 1, Decided I wanted to change. (You've already done this) 2, Read the side bar and acquainted myself better with the RP concept. 3, Worked on outward stuff like looks, make…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 01:18 AM
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Rule no. 1 about film club, you do not TALK about film club women! :P
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 02:29 AM
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So no more posting here?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 06:38 AM
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Its almost like taking your younger sibling to a party. People go to parties to have fun, not to constantly worry about whether or not you're safe or if some guy is hitting on you or if your flirting with someone. He feels responsible for you. It almost seems like you did something at a particular party which made him stop inviting you or that you cant handle yourself and that he needs to protect you. What kind of parties are we talking about? Like small BBQ parties with people you know well? Cl…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 07:43 AM
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I'm getting all warm and fuzzy reading your post, especially the part where he said you were the one! :) Congratulations on the improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 01:58 PM
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When I used to hang out with a guy friend, people somehow assumed that we were either dating or someone is interested in someone. Other guys who might be interested sometimes tend to not make contact out of respect for the guy you're with at that moment, even if you are just friends. I've noticed that I was approached a lot more when I was by myself. Just what I've experienced.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 05:22 AM
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I remember seeing somewhere on the reddit that the key to a good marriage was seperate bathrooms. I could understand why because that's where all the magic happens :P
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 09:50 AM
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This is very true. It helps ease rejection to have things to do so you don't turn out disheartened when things don't work out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 10:17 AM
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But you see the thing is most of the patients are convinced that there is something is wrong with them and it causes this placebo effect. Even if the doctor says that you just need to control your actions and think positive, they'll down their whole system just by thinking about it and make effort to better themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 09:29 PM
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Sunscreen, electrolyte, a BIG hat, tissue paper, wipes. Medicine for fever, allergies, diarrhoea, acidity. You could also download an app with the local language on his phone. A couple of his favorite energy bars or something homemade in case he gets tired of Indian food.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 08:57 AM
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I realise that you just want to get this all off your chest. But just remember only you can decide to be happy with your life. Don't dwell on the past and be more cautious in the future. You only have one life so make the most of it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 11:53 AM
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This is true. She's not in love with this man but the high that comes with him. After a few years the high will die down and the cycle repeats with her trying to find someone to bring back the same high but in the end she's just digging a deeper hole.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 06:11 AM
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The question I would ask myself would be if it wasn't for this mysterious attraction would I still want to be with this guy? Because once the high dies there'll just be him. The reason people take up arranged marriages is because everyone knows their part in the relationship. He probably knows his duty as a husband and you know yours as wife. If your fear is repeating the same mistakes of your parents, then you should realise that not all marriages are the same. Youre not them, everyone has prob…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 03:04 AM
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That was beautiful.... :')
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 11:57 AM
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I remember a saying that a knife is the same, whether in the hands of a surgeon or a killer was what made the difference
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 07:43 AM
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CHAPPATHI! DROOL
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 04:04 AM
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You'll be surprised how common it is to find converted Redpill women here. Was once a hard core feminist who was just generally not happy and wanted stab any guy on the street because "THE PATRIARCHY MUST DIE" (Yep it was that bad). Basically here what I did: 1, Decided I wanted to change. (You've already done this) 2, Read the side bar and acquainted myself better with the RP concept. 3, Worked on outward stuff like looks, makeup, weight etc. just the stuff that I could change immediately 4, I …
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/15 05:56 AM
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Taichi, playing the guitar, cooking - I made out a list of dishes and styles I wanted to learn before this year, taking a dish one week at a time till I can do it without the cook book. Planning on starting yoga and sewing.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 04:42 AM
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Thank you Jesus for cheap perfume!. Can't afford expensive stuff on a regular basis. They smell so girly and sweet! But if I do end up feeling sophisticated at some point I use this this perfume called Amaro or something. Smells of posh people. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 06:38 AM
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I guess if he's hot enough, anything flies.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/15 06:32 AM
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No problem :) I guess I mean that the upbringing overlapped as I just realised TRP also included the opposite gender forum too, My parents weren't aware of the whole TRP thing, it didn't have a name or anything but it was a common thing for parents to raise their daughters like that in our society and I'm Protestant.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/15 07:36 AM
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Been A Christian all my life and just got into the whole spiritual aspect of it. Raised in TPR, a lot of the teaching coincide especially for women.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 08:29 AM
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Aha, I knew you were a dude! Try telling her what it's like from a guys perspective. Caution her. Try to show her the different dynamics and consequences between when a guy does it and when a girl does it. Show her examples of girls like her. Maybe show her to this sub?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 07:40 AM
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Genuinely curious, what if she was a 'saving myself for marriage' type. Would there be any chance of keeping a high quality guy around for that long?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/15 03:49 AM
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You need to find a better captain dear. There are actually men out there who want to take care of you and love you. I know its very hard to move on, but future-you will thank you later on . Leave this guy. Many of these ladies have been there and it has almost always ended bad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/15 02:59 AM
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He's just using you for sex and isn't interested in anything more. He plated you. Get out of the mess as soon as possible before you cause any more emotional damage to yourself. Always first make sure your interested candidate is looking for something more serious and long term and then exclusivity before sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/15 12:45 PM
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O_o
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 07:21 AM
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But have you ever had a moment where you slipped. Back to the old you. How do you usually handle or try not slip. I'm the same age and I'm always in a constant battle with myself. I know that isn't what I want but sometimes my brain tries to rationalize it or I go lukewarm.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 07:18 AM
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Yay!!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 02:38 AM
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Really stupid question but I'm new to the whole podcast thing so where do I download them. I don't have iTunes. Is it from the website or....... ? I have an android phone. Is there an app?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 02:37 AM
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Smile and nod. Got it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 08:41 AM
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Maybe a little I guess. Just want to have an overall pleasantness and didn't know how to deal with this.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 08:40 AM
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The same would apply for people we don't know too?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 08:37 AM
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True, I'm not saying that you shouldn't but it all depends on him. If he's more open minded then it won't be a problem. I don't know much about your guy so I'm only assuming the so for the sake of precaution.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 05:26 AM
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True, I'm not saying that you shouldn't but it all depends on him. If he's more open minded then it won't be a problem. I don't know much about your guy so I'm only assuming the so for the sake of precaution.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 05:06 AM
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As a religious person, I can understand your friend's problem. Religious people are very stubborn with their views. If he's as religious as you say he is then changing him is practically impossible. In the end its how much you're willing to compromise on your behalf. In the beginning everything might seem to be going smoothly, ( honeymoon phase helps overlook all the problems) but in the long run it will become a problem and since he is going to be your future captain, difference in opinion will…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 04:25 AM
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That's not what she was asking. Clearly she likes him but isn't sure if going for him is in her best interest. Obviously it isn't and verbalizing her feelings is going to make it more hard for her to get over him. She isn't playing coy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 01:15 AM
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Not exactly a westerner. I'm south Asian.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 09:25 AM
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China.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 09:24 AM
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Would olive oil do the job as well?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 01:48 PM
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I think it's way cooler when you hear someone say something along the lines of what you've mentioned in the 3rd paragraph when you'd normally expect someone to cuss their brains out. Gives a very regal , professional vibe.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:38 AM
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Would a guy actually leave when he finds out that his SMV has grown and he can pick up younger women? Getting married sound really nice the first couple of years and then all downhill. Marriage sounds really scary. ='(
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:19 AM
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I think you've got the whole RPW thing wrong. The idea wasn't to get with as many guys as possible and use them but find yourself someone you genuinely want to be with and making it work. I cringed on reading your post because you represent everything that RPW is against. Hooking up lowers your SMV. Riding on your looks ALONE isn't a good idea because once you hit the wall, you might have a hard time with your self-worth as you no longer get the external validation that you normally get. Using m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 10:32 AM
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That's a really good idea, I forgot the aspect of weeding out the players. Not just flirting with everyone I find interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 02:40 AM
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It was more of alot of small things that led to this point. A few were like if I am actually doing this for myself (standing up for myself,letting my voice be heard, equality) why wasn't I feeling the sense of satisfaction that I am convinced I should feel if I was liberated. I had to fight a lot of natural instincts to actually be at that level. And then someone recommended RPW. After reading a little I took a step back and tried to make honest and unbiased decision on how I felt about feminism…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 11:25 AM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 07:35 AM
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Thank you for the encouragement and advice. =)
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 07:34 AM
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Mostly dressing and attitude which tends to be more aggressive and critical rather than graceful and supportive.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 07:32 AM
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Feministic qualities as in constantly proving to others if a man can do it so can a women which resulted me in being aggressive and hostile in general to any guy who put out ideas other wise. "You won't lose your power by becoming more feminine. Masculinity gives you power over others through intimidation, but femininity gives you power through likeability. " I'd never thought of it this way though. Relatively new to this idea. This is good. The list of things you mentioned above the aggressive,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 07:05 AM
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Thank you for taking the time write the advice out. The making friends part is because I had always been intimidated by girls who were good at being girls?, I don't know if that makes sense but like pro girls who make you feel like ''If only I were that good at being a girl' kinda thing. Some really deep seated insecurity but I'm working on it. Thank you for the advice again.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 11:08 AM
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