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https://np.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qnope/fr_choking_wife_during_sex/
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/16 10:49 AM
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You have my permission to go fuck a woman who is attracted to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 10:41 AM
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yea... them BP trolls love me
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:02 PM
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she uses the account as its linked to PRIME
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:02 PM
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"your Red Pill expectations of women must remain stoically within yourself.Once your expectations of women are out in the open the process has changed. Women love Men who Just Get It, but explaining how you Get It disqualifies you from being the Man who does. Demonstrate, never explicate." this is why relationships can be fixed BY THE MAN ACTING RP with ZERO discussions, conversations, or therapy. Man fixes self, relationship improves
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 11:59 PM
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correct--- IDGAF---I tried the "happily ever after, soulmate nonsense" I got shit on This way felt lonely at first, then I realized I was ALWAYS alone, I just didnt know
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:36 PM
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sorry--its in the first post
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:33 PM
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I think it was an accident because we use only 1 amazon account for PRIME
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:27 PM
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lose your mind=tingles got that baby?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:19 PM
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kids are mine---I was 100% on one. 85% on other but its nice to KNOW
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:07 PM
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Men are not ALLOWED to stand up to women about anything at anytime. "She is welcome to leave" is abusing her.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:30 PM
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If she does then can we go out? Ill make you quiver
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:00 PM
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Correct. You can see the results online very quickly
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:44 PM
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I did. Would have been better had she not known and I just went about my RP life
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:29 PM
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Prenatal test would be brilliant. Even more brilliant is a warning that you are the kind of man that WILL do this test
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:55 PM
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Its on Amazon and its cheek swabs. Very simple and under 100 bucks
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:53 PM
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The shit has been said already with much more clarity. You are reading this guy's first encounter with such material
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/15 12:19 AM
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This makes very little sense, I couldn't possibly show you why. It's just a stream of consciousness. Graphs? Spectrum? This isn't a quantifiable_ Take three parts alpha and one part beta and call it b2a1???? Really?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 03:37 AM
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Yes that Pandora box is open. But it was always open. You just didn't know it. Having bluepill romantic love, It's sort of like bending the spoon in the Matrix. But.. " there is no spoon"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/15 02:55 AM
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That would do it for me...maybe you need more dread
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 07:24 PM
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Does she ever see other women interested in you? A little jealousy goes a long way. Its exciting to a woman. Men and women feel jealousy very differently
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:40 PM
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Shrug shows that you give zero fucks about her displeasure and you didnt have to be snarky about it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:36 PM
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Good post and some funny responses. Its normal for a man who just learned about shit tests to be hyper alert to them. Then he smashes them with his violent wit. After some time the pill is so engrained in your thinking that you will gently brush most of these shit tests off like an annoying fly. The end result will be the same. "I didn't like the way you flirted with the waitress." Instead of.... Yea..she started it. Cant blame her. She's only human. Wink wink Try a shrug with a big smile. Then …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 03:35 PM
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Just smile and say "You may be right. Ill work on that" Then walk off whistling a tune
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:48 PM
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Many men don't know they have the right to judge their own behavior. They are held hostage to others approval. Thus, the need to explain and justify every action. OP. Read When I say no I feel guilty.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 11:50 AM
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Very solid advice here
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:57 AM
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Professor is on to something big. So much of RP implies that you become a wife beating douchebag Hawt body. Try being a "touch" of that mixed with daddy. Women in an LTR want a real man so-so badly What do I say to my three year old daughter when she asks me to stay home from the gym? Nothing! I pick her up and tell her when I return we can play in her room
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:54 AM
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Great responses and spot on analysis. I think OP isnt quite ready to pull this amused mastery/agree and amplify yet. I do think his wife will respond very well to RP and he can look forward to surprise blowjobs and a pleasant wife greeting him at the door with a drink
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:51 AM
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Good post Sir Common sense is not so common. This is why most women want to fuck the same few men
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:39 AM
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This is the right answer. She wasn't being raped. She allowed the attention to continue. You don't act upset and demand apologies for how she wronged you. You don't fight for her. You just calmly inform her that her behavior isn't tolerable.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 11:21 PM
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Women need attention and validation more than men need sex. That says ALOT. Pull the attention when they deprive sex. Train them like dogs
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 11:10 PM
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You have dreaded her quite easily. The key here is to NOT let her emotions change your desires. Tell her that you are making some changes for yourself. That's all.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 10:59 PM
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I prefer " that's sweet" to I dont care. Either way works
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 01:18 AM
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I meant taking care of her emotions with strong unflappable frame. Like her daddy did. OP emotions are unaffected by hers
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 01:17 AM
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You are correct. I guess I meant harder dread like flirting with other women etc In the beginning one should be obsessed with lifting and being less available to wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 01:15 AM
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This isn't about neglect or body image issues. It's about you not being a man in the face of her displeasure. Her moods don't affect you because you are an oak tree right? I get the sense you feel uneasy because SHE is unhappy or not pleased. Betas run around worried when their woman is upset. The blue pill man needs her approval. He needs to make sure her needs are attended to before he can relax and enjoy himself. This supplicating attitude sickens women. Dries up their pussy man. Forget the b…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 10:04 PM
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You are on the right track. It is a long road bro. My advice is to make sure you don't act butthurt and wronged by her turning you down for sex. Keep initiating and keep head held high when she declines. It's too soon for dread but if you hold frame and become a little less available then you are setting the table for some real change. Make sure you are not a complete dick and are there to take care of her emotions while taking 100percent charge of your own. You don't need anything.from her. Any…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 08:07 PM
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I agree with this idea that a sex moratorium is unproductive. I know some in the manosphere have suggested this tactic but I can't see the value here. Telling your wife you are taking a break from sex doesn't get her hamster going. It's just weird. It's like my kid saying he doesn't want to play with the video game after I threatened to take it away. I KNOW he wants to play the game. Saying he doesn't is silly
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 07:59 PM
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You will get there. No more questions seeking appoval Your wife wants what you want..provided you are a decisive man
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 02:27 PM
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Eh....broknighting is beta
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:13 AM
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Find a rec team and play sports once a week. The new friends will energize you. If you aren't athletic then find a club that meets weekly You can and should have a night a week where you get a little less rest or see the kids a bit less....its one night dude. Its a good example to set for your kids
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 03:23 AM
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Bro Your wife is just like the rest of them. She isn't here to make your problems and concerns better. Part of the bitter taste of the pill is that you are ...alone with your issues. There is no solution other than being as strong and at your best for as long as you can
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/15 02:46 AM
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Morally I agree with you. I am just explaining what I believe the legislators intended to do with these laws. They knew a single women without a financial lifeline would be unsuccessful. Society as a whole would suffer
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 12:35 AM
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My marriage improved dramatically when I realized that my wife was not someone forme to count on to behave rationally. I bought into the equality horse shit and then became very frustrated with her incessant complaining about trival matters. Now that its understood she is a mere CHILD then her complaints are met with amused mastery rather than "solutions" which she doesnt want nor have the ability to implement.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:02 PM
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My opinion is that the trolls should go. Men come here in pain and need strong advice from those of us who unplugged. Let these bp trolls argue with us on purplepilldebate
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 05:13 PM
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You are scared of your wife. This is the very first step to resolve
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 02:49 PM
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Yes.....do not be afraid to make her jealous. These feelings are hers. Do not feel bad for it. She will fuck you harder for it
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 01:12 AM
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Agreed. Dont be afraid to make rules for women when it comes to earning your commitment. This is the key lesson of trp....a mans commitment is pure fucking gold Make a women earn it
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:53 AM
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Its called stk I can link tomorrow night
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:49 AM
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Implementation of dread has to start with YOU. Start lifting and dressing sharp. In a few months you can start to show the wife that other women want you
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 02:54 PM
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I like that line Better act like you want to be here.....
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 02:52 PM
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Keep your ego in check and you will go very far
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 12:42 PM
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Tell her a DNA test is in order for paternity and to rule out certain diseases. Who really gives a fuck if they have problem with it? You don't need permission to swab your own kids cheek. Let it be a friendly warning..don't make a big deal.of it
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:59 AM
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It's your kid and you are a new man now. In a new relationship. The old relationship ended when you became alpha. Women are very very good at keeping secrets.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:57 AM
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Beta fantasy is that "she is one bad mood away" from giving me a chance....then she will see I am her true love
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 10:55 AM
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If anyone here has ever gone nuclear and calmly told the wife to pack her shit and leave if she wants....you will understand this post. No bluffing. Truly in your soul believe you can replace your wife...this will make her want to stay forever
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 01:35 AM
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I hope not. Nothing surprises me anymore. This man's handle implies he unplugged so hopefully he has things in control now
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:25 AM
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Nothing will 100 percent prevent a financially devastating divorce if you are married. But the risk is mitigated when your wife sees you as strong and able to attract other women. Why would she leave an alpha? It's a bizarre twist of cruel truth: if you want and need your wife then she will lose all respect for you. She will hate you. If she sees you don't need her then she is likely to maintain attraction.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 01:23 AM
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Any idea why she took it so well?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:28 PM
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Your post is in inspiration. Many newbies (myself at one time) are genuinely afraid to hold frame and say no to their woman. Your story proves that this is the right thing to do for EVERY ONE Women need an oak tree
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 05:56 PM
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I know. Much appreciated. Its nice to have no need to justify shit to anyone huh?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:01 PM
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Not balls bro.....it just happened. She wasnt there for me. Its her fault. I can gas light too
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 03:50 PM
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Ok means I no longer have babies in the house. I have kids so they know me well and I can easily take care of them myself. Ok means I have dropped almost 15 pounds and am getting pretty fucking fit. Heads have turned. Ok means I am sure that I would be having MORE sex not less Ok means I have enough hobbies and work to do that my "free time" is filled
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:53 PM
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Yea well...thats true. All a man can do is be his best. That makes it real hard on betas
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:50 PM
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No. They do know each other. I dont use plate to dread the wife on purpose. I use other women so her hamster is busy chasing down dead ends
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:49 PM
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Men don't want to spend resources raising other men's children. This is also why we care far less about our women having an emotional affair. Fuck bro...let some beta homo listen to my wife yap. Women go bananas if we do the same. They are far more forgiving of a one night stand then a long term "friendship" with an age appropriate woman
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:07 PM
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The laws are to protect the children.......it makes sense when you think about like that. Society cannot have children with no financial lifeline.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 12:03 PM
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One day I will write a full FR. Thanks for expressing interest. I have written a FR titled " too tired for sex" but this was a middle chapter of the story. I can quickly outline my relationship rehab plan as follows: Part one. Hold frame and raise your SMV Part two. Demand frequent sex. The quality will follow if you do part one correctly. Sprinkle in dread. Don't be afraid to make her jealous. I have no idea if this marriage will last but I can tell you there are no more arguments. I hatefuck h…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:58 AM
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The moral I took: You take care of yourself first. And....once you agree to counseling....the fat lady has begun singing
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 01:51 AM
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Im no foldpak111...but I do ok!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 11:53 PM
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You are now saying that other women wouldn't do this type of thing if faced with same situation. That is not the case. Its plugged in thinking to just call these two scheming women bad. All women are bad if you trust them to act within the standards that men define as good and bad. The lesson here is that women will absolutely fuck you over if it benefits them reproductiverly. Act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:47 PM
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I too get LMR. "I haven't showered" "started my period" etc I blow through this almost every time with amused mastery. Just escalate and escalate. If I really hit a forceful no then I am cold to my wife. i am civil and courteous but very withdrawn til she breaks down ( 2 days or so)
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/15 09:41 PM
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This exactly what I thought the majority would feel when I posted this story. Im surprised by the broknighting
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:09 PM
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Then dont! Its your right to avoid marriage...
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:07 PM
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I actually thought of this....it would be so easy
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 01:01 AM
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Then you and I go to hell on same ride. ..seats one and two Cheating for a man gives you outcome independence. The attitude that pussy isn't scarce. ...it saves marriages too
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:50 AM
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No...we are not a group of men in a support group crying in each others beers about how bad women are.... I lovingly encourage you to lurk more
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:17 AM
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The bro knights want me to call a stranger and warn him about potential dangers that I cant prove. That have nothing to do with me. I wanted to share the story with our sub so these men who are actually trying to make sense of i ntergender relationships have another data point to show them how dangerous women CAN be if you let them... Instead they want me to go all team man and hug a brother
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:15 AM
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She is a woman. If you think women are evil and should be beaten..you are right I think they are dangerous animals that need to be watched. Not beaten for being what they are
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:11 AM
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Not all women are seeing the end of the fertility window. ..those who are will do this shit. All of em
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 12:09 AM
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Yea..I have time to bbq for strangers. And give them unsolicited advice. Read the side bar man....I say that with love
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:26 PM
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Dont know his name. It may as well be you should is dating. Consider my post warning to men who want the truth....this guy is not one of them as far as I know....
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:24 PM
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That makes sense. The sub saved my life. Appreciate the effort you mods make
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:21 PM
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Lucky for me I dont give a fuck about downvotes I am here to become a better man. And show others what I have learned
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:53 PM
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Some folks here disagree as they asked their women and were told this behavior is disgusting..... As if a woman would say one thing and DO another....THERE ARE NO SNOWFLAKES
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:10 PM
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Women say and do very different things
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:07 PM
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I'm about your age and SMV I can 100 percent verify that a good number (not all) of the local soccer moms are dtf.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:05 PM
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This post can be a bridge from anger to enlightenment. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:02 PM
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Making a post to all the guys telling me to warn the dude.... No I dont know him. He should know better on his own. I posted this as a warning to YOU. All women are like this
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:45 PM
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When I was bluepill. ...I also never woulda believed this shit
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:44 PM
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Bro...all women think this way
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:41 PM
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This is very true. You cant argue a woman to your way of thinking with logic. When confronted they carry on and go underground.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 03:40 PM
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Great response. These girls are not "evil". They are following their biology. This is post wall woman desperation standard operating procedure. The guys telling me my sister is bad. Or that I need to warn the other dude.....these are bro knights who haven't fully unplugged. Only you can take care of yourself
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:18 PM
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Bingo.... I don't know the guy. It's not my concern. I did share with my sister that her advice was flawed. She only heard me complaining. All women think this way. If she is faced with no kid or a kid under duplicitous methods.....the guy is fucked if he doesn't protect self
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:15 PM
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You are in the anger stage....all women are like this..
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:12 PM
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Yea...showed her the rape example and that she didn't even consider the financial and emotional cost to a man ...bro..She couldn't give a fuck....
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:39 AM
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brian is alpha fucks. She sees nothing wrong here because it all "feels" perfect to her. And if anyone here thinks YOUR LTR isnt capable of same thing.....I say AWALT. You better be holding some serious frame
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 03:06 PM
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I never took meds but once you unplug there is no seeking wife's approval for much of anything. As far as wife flipping out....that shit is her problem now. No more walking on eggshells. Her feelings are hers...not you responsibility. My kids have responded well to me being in charge. They need discipline. A daddy who is firm. They dont need a friend. Dont tell wife you are doing this. Go slow and hold frame. She will sense a change but it will be hard for her to pinpoint. Keep fucking frame.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 12:08 AM
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That was a solid read. Nmmng and wisnifg both really taught me to not give a fuck about other peoples problems
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 11:59 PM
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Most young boys have terrible impulse control. I have seen my son dart across a busy city street between two parked suvs because he saw his soccer coach. I would escort my son for his own safety..not because im raising a soft kid. Having theee daughters ....you dont know the wild reckless energy of an elementary school boy
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 09:10 PM
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Love that you told girl 4 that you are a massive asshole to women. Of course she creamed her pants hearing this... Stealing this line
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:28 PM
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after swallowing the pill I become disappointed with wife more than angry its clear to me now she is a child. why get mad?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/15 01:55 AM
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All women will cheat but some are more likely to do so than others. This one does not seem like a good LTR Demote to plate
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:06 AM
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Zero shot anyone fucked anyone at this party. Was for a nine year old. Yea...plates should be dissed hard for this shit. In the hard mode that is marriage it's inevitable that some dickhead will inspire tingles. This is how you demolish it. You can't ask for it to go away. You just have to be the better man..always
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 04:58 AM
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I usually finally hear "I'm sorry I acted that way (like a cunt) but what you did wasn't nice. It it hurt my feelings" That's when I refused to apologize in turn but will pull her in for a hug. "There there...it's ok. Daddy isn't mad."
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:47 AM
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awesome FR... awesome response from Prof. Dread worked. Enjoy the results. Just remember that she will pounce on the first sign of weakness and you will have to rinse/repeat this whole process
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 01:03 AM
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You should read Rollo's Girls Night Out piece... explains exactly why you don't punish girl for going out by doing same thing at same time. You are right that OP should do something for himself. He should do it every fucking day. All day long. Things for himself. When his wife sees him holding frame and on a permanent self improvement path then she will want to JOIN him. She wont even think about this other guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 12:56 AM
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Yea she went. it was a kid birthday party a block away. nothing was gonna happen THERE no matter what. I just knew I had to extinguish the attraction she felt for the guy to protect myself. It was Sept. so I was about 3 months into RP she didnt look guilty but so what?... women lie like champs. Keep this in mind too --- I am at point where I KNOW I dont need my wife for shit. I can hire a nanny, cleaning lady and be spinning plates in less than a week. I know exactly who I would be fucking. Puss…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 12:45 AM
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Excellent point. Dread is NOT something you do to PUNISH wives. Oh.. it hurts them! But you do it for yourself. Dread is a tool to remind the hypergamous snake that lives with you that you are very attractive. She forgets. She cant help forgetting so dont be mad about it... this is the nature of the feminine.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 09:43 PM
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Getting warmer. Not sure about inviting him over and telling him shit. Seems almost like your appealing to him as a Bro..."please don't fuck my wife..." I heard about a guy a few months ago that CLEARLY gave my wife the tingles. A neighborhood dad (call him XXXX) whose kid had swim lessons with my kid. The second time she mentioned that he was so "funny"...I knew. They must have sat and talked during the lessons. Clearly the kind of shit you need to stomp on right away now that you are AWARE and…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 09:32 PM
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Fair enough. But the end state is worth showing. Look how fast you got there sir
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 05:35 PM
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You will get there. Read no more mr nice guy. Read when I say no I feel guilty. Read top posts on TRP You cant make her feel like a whore. These are her feelings and you should give zero fucks about her feels. Grinning...." you feel like a whore when I mention...xXxX....? I must be the pimp....he should be paying me for time with you" You will get there. Read. Lift hard. New clothes. Talk with people here. There are men here who saved my life
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 05:32 PM
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All solid advice but it's missing the "attitude" When daddy wakes up early and goes out by himself to get coffee and the newspaper he doesn't overthink his second grade daughters questions about where he went....he may even just pick her up and ask her if she had fun playing with her dolls while he was gone
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 03:19 PM
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Pressure flip "Grabbedacoffeeandread....what did you do babe?"
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 03:15 PM
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Seems passive aggressive to "match" her bad behavior. I would actually volunteer to watch the kids while she goes. "I'll watch the kids. No curfew honey..this could be a VERY SPECIAL night" Turning up the dread is a great idea but it shouldn't be seen as tit for tat. That's weak. One thing I have learned from smart men on this sub is that there is no way to lock down pussy. Can't be done ans when you try...you weaken yourself in her eyes. You gotta make her want you. Make her feel that it's the …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 03:12 PM
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Not sure blocking the wife from the event is a great idea. I have been in your shoes and it really doesn't work. You can't watch her 24/7 so all that happens is she goes deep underground AND sees him anyway. And now you look like a pussy because you were threatened by him. What HAS worked is teasing her about her "New boyfriend" Hey...why don't you get a new dress before the event???? Maybe he will propose! You have to act like you are watching her make the biggest mistake of her life and you ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 04:39 AM
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You are on the right track. I consistently punish bad behavior with a removal of my attention. Once you push back and see that ...nothing bad happened ....you start to take control of the relationship. No arguing. No pouting. Just be busy enjoying your awesome life. If she wants to push and push and push.....be stoic...remind her the door to leave is wide open. When she submits..(and she will if you hold frame)...then you carry on like this shit never happened. You are daddy. She is a five year …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/15 04:20 AM
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Dread game works on primal instincts. Shit....I am WELL aware of it AND I try hard to keep my woman off the pedestal and I still have to keep my ego and emotions in check. Very naive to think a bookish smart girl is immune
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/15 04:00 AM
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Read my post from last month..too tired for sex If she withholds sex you withhold attention. You dont get upset or complain. You just train her like a dog that you are not a time whore. You will see that she badly needs your attention and validation. Im six months in and now when my wife so much as senses me withdrawing she literaly flips into sweetness and submission. It will come. Keep reading and lifting. Make your woman a smaller part of your existence
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:54 PM
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"I know that this was a small victory; one battle that I won; but I am fighting a larger war. Yet, I feel it is finally a small event that begins to change the dynamics of this LTR." Its a bigger victory than you realize. You held frame. First few times I said "No" I expected a shitstorm of anger. Well... I was right. So fucking what. She got over it. You will get to the point when she says "'lll just go do this by myself" and you will barely nod and say "ok". Then you will go do some shit for y…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:43 AM
5

Seriously...you are my hero. Many would fall apart from your experiences. Instead..you became a man to respect.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 10:20 PM
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Think of this Some guy comes and kills their mate and offspring and then they go ahead and mate with him???? If she doesn't mate with the new guy then she decreases her own chance for reproductive success. Females who hold grudges and dont reproduce are selected against. Thus females who forgive and forget end up having more kids Also..if you mate with the guy who killed your baby then you know your offspring have good genes
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:05 PM
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Fuck!!!! That gave me goosebumps. I dont care if my kids look JUST like me...I just bought several paternity test kits online
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:12 PM
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"When she comes home she cant as easily submit to her beta husband because she knows he cant and wont dispose of her so easily, especially if there are children involved" Stings to type this because its so fucking true. Fathers are punished with loss of attraction for their commitment to raising their children. Now I routinely discuss how my divorced friends kids are "fine". I talk about how happy these men seem. How energized. "Yea..they probably miss their kids a bit but its quality time they …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:23 PM
1

Good point. They let you meet at their place? Most married women would never do that.....at least in cities where there are neighbors and doorman etc
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:29 PM
-1

I am not retarded. You are the one who cant spell
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:28 PM
-2

Yea..but IDGAF anymore. Let the world know
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:27 PM
10

No..its hilarious A traumatized bluepill fantasizing about exacting revenge for the p ussy that was "taken" from him
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:14 PM
17

these downvoting knights need to FALL IN LOVE AND KEYLOG THEIR PRINCESSES PHONES........
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:34 AM
8

well... you tried to warn them
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:00 AM
0

I'll check that out Gwen Dewar, Ph.D... pretty hot for a Doc
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:30 AM
1

understood. thanks for clarifying. covert contracts are something I want to avoid and I was pretty sure MY lack of availability did not qualify as such. Im just playing good old "hard to get"
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 05:25 AM
18

I don't think she would feel guilty... the broknight dudes who are hating on you HAVE NO IDEA how women act with their Alpha. Its all a big joke to them. They feel entitled to do what they want. You will attract some haters but the ink you spilled is 100% truth and men can learn from this post .... If they are ready
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:00 AM
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I know this is real. The reason I know is because the girl feels ZERO guilt. She is enjoying herself. Also... EVERY MAN a girl is "friends" with... she is using or fucking
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:33 AM
2

This is good advice but I have a question about: "You didn't call her because you wanted to show who was in charge. You let the call ring for the same reason. This is just more covert contracts- 'if I don't answer her call she will submit' or whatever." I often am slow to return calls and texts, I let voice mail pick up etc...I do this to be less available, soft dread etc... Are you saying this is a bad strategy? I get calls and texts from wife every couple hrs and one of the first things I did …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 02:24 AM
2

All those "experiences" people have when they are "in love"....they did that to themselves
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:39 AM
1

I agree on respect....but what about adoration? I feel that is part of the "feels" when a woman is in love.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:37 AM
1

Good point. I can write cleaner.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:33 AM
4

"Might not go over so well..." In the last six months I have said and done things that I also thought "might not go over so well". Every time I have been rewarded with a sweeter women who is more, not less attracted to me. Boggles the mind
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:31 AM
1

Really good post. I disagree only with your contention that married women only want sex, not an emotional attachment. That is describing some married MEN who have affairs. Women who have affairs looove the emotional charge they no longer get from their "boring" husbands. I started an affair with a woman who told me "I don't want a lot of drama" She really meant "my husband is my best friend and I don't want to leave him but he wants a mommy not a wife. And I'm soooooooo bored"
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:18 PM
7

I also was sick of the game. Was past 30. Thought I met a snowflake. Turns out she was the opposite of my mom..not a snowflake. I have great kids. Love fatherhood. This is the only reason to LTR (imo)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 12:43 PM
3

It's not abuse if she loves it. I would not abuse a woman
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 12:39 PM
6

This is a great point. I am almost half a year in now. When I began the kick start of this relationship I emphasized quantity over quality as far as sex went.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 12:38 PM
1

Worst that happens is I hamster it all as "her fault..i was confused. It just happened". I'll post about the other lady one day. She only knows me as red and there are wonderful anecdotes to share
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:12 AM
3

If he posts a picture I'll have to tag this NSFW
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 02:03 AM
11

Good technical advice. Thanks Yea....they will try and make me out to be some villain. Good thing we all know that women hate bad guys
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 01:39 AM
1

I posted a story two weeks ago about my wife being too tired to fuck TL:DR I withdrew affection and within two days she cried, submitted, and proceeded to fuck my brains out. Over the last 14 days we have had sex every time I wanted. No hoops to jump through. No "tomorrows". A couple times were quick duty sex but the rest was very similar to our dating days. The DREAD is still lingering as she has been curious about my friendship with one of the kids moms from soccer. Nothing really there to rep…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 11:23 PM
1

Pill digests slowly. Don't be hard on self
/r/askTRP28/12/14 08:32 PM
2

Great answer. I won't learn a fucking thing.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 08:22 PM
1

Thanks for sharing. I am much more invested at this point. Your story was good to me to read Edit. I agree the relationship is now from my point of view..open.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 06:48 PM
1

Actually ..the unhappiness that motivated me to find the pill made me start an affair with a prerty hot lady. Also been going on about half a year.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 04:27 PM
0

I think you got it nailed. I feel the same way but can't put into words as well as you.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 01:52 PM
3

I understand throwawayblues feelings. It is tempting to get it off chest etc. I just know the end result will be counterproductive. I'm sitting on it. Perhaps one day I'll need or use the information. Fires the pill in my belly for sure
/r/askTRP28/12/14 01:12 PM
1

That's what I figured.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:35 PM
1

Wife
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:33 PM
6

Ugh. Thanks for that. I was gonna push hard for at least part time work when youngest 5
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 03:38 AM
1

Rollo has a good post on girls night out. I can't find it as I'm on a phone
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:35 AM
2

That's what my instinct says. I appreciate the advice. I do want to hear alternative views if there are any
/r/askTRP28/12/14 03:13 AM
0

Sadder is that I agree with you. Ok...let's say you pulled your shit together in the last 12 months of a ten year marriage. Things now going great. Live sex doll. Obedient. But you put two and two together from 4 to 5 years ago. Girls night out. Hotel in old boyfriends city. You were never told. No proof of anything but come on.... Bring that up now? Seems weak. What to say or do if anything? Of course this is hypothetical
/r/askTRP28/12/14 02:23 AM
2

It's not a gun control sub.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 12:56 AM
1

Arch...I agree but wonder if we can take it further. This "romantic love" you speak of...does it really exist? THERE IS NO SPOON-matrix
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:52 AM
1

Great response. It sure WOULD be easier to not need dread but this is the truth. Women have no memory. They need to see other women want you to maintain their attraction
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:45 AM
1

Hockey. It's great to have teammates.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 12:39 AM
0

Skorch...in your opinion...can you lock pussy down with impeccable game, dread, and generally being better than any realistic option she can pull?
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:32 AM
26

I had fell for a hybrid trap where I believed "I'll go back to work when he is in school." Then second kid came. Same excuse
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 11:38 PM
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Happy wife , happy life is a familiar and incorrect philosophy I hear from BP friends Truly it's happy life, happy wife. Happy holidays Rollo. You have changed my life and I am forever grateful
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 11:07 PM
1

Greybeards know that broknighting is a fools game
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 07:32 PM
0

Im not defending it because its way off topic. The post is about showing a woman your anger. Is that the best bullying you got?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:04 PM
1

The OP can explain better then me
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:59 PM
1

Im raising one. Red pill has made the path clearer. No need to explain anything. Daddy said so is the default answer.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:32 PM
2

This place ain't a support group. The bro knights were all looking for hugs and a pep talk that we were gonna change the world for them. You have to stay on top of your game. Cant rely on some other guys morals to get you what you want
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:27 PM
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Its OPEN for interpretation. Why do you care what I think about the bible and its verses? Need my validation?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 04:21 PM
1

I post from my phone sometimes...spelling mistakes happen.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:16 PM
2

Is anyone here well versed in The Art of War? I seem to remember Machiavellian concepts in this seminal work that may dispute some of OPs points that leadership is always preferable to manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:10 PM
1

I was comfortable in the BP. It's lonely being RP. Still...I now have control and I would never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 03:03 AM
2

I don't see a lot of sex going on....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/14 02:59 AM
8

I'll be honest. Tears used to make me think something IMPORTANT was happening....an inflection point. I used to cave to the tears. Now I know these crocodile tears are shit test 101. if no one died and I don't see blood then now I power through doing whatever the fuck I was doing BEFORE the water works shit test
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 02:17 AM
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Not the B word! Look how agitated you are....insecure huh?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:51 PM
-10

I asked for forgiveness. You didn't forgive me. Look who doesnt know the scriptures
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 11:19 PM
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Whose to say this verse is incorrect support of the post ? You? I also never called the bible or the verse itself bullshit. I said that its good for a man to show his anger and maintain dominance over a woman. Since you reallllllly want to make this about the bible...and I sure want to talk about TRP....will you forgive me?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 10:49 PM
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You are misinterpreting more than a verse from the bible. This entire post is about allowing yourself to be angry at a woman. Take her off pedestal. Treat her like anyone else. This gives her emotions. You saw a bible quote and wanted to "study" it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 10:29 PM
1

Cold steel is a great analogy. Sometimes I have to withdraw affection and cold steel will be in my mind when I am speaking
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:56 PM
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No interest in debating the bible. Ever. At all. Point was to agree with OP. Many men are afraid to be angry with their women and they think its helpful to the LTR It isn't
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:52 PM
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Ephesians 4: 26 "In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry." Or the cliche...dont go to bed angry. This is total bullshit and OP nails it. Let her be angry. NOT caring about her emotional rollercoaster is exactly how to display higher value. All my beta friends are scared to death to get in an argument with their wife. I say bullshit. Embrace her anger. Its foreplay for the makeup sex
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 07:01 PM
1

Please share this anecdotal evidence. Its a debate sub right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/14 12:58 AM
6

Some red pill men have great jobs. Are good fathers. Help in their community. And ....their wives are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:08 PM
1

It's much more productive for a cuckold to be angry with himself. It's also a lot harder which is why we are seeing this "outrage"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:06 PM
1

The anger you see on TRP regarding sluts who cheat is always from new folks who are finally just seeing women as people....not princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/14 10:03 PM
5

Hahaha...hoping to avoid the divorce. The difference is now I don't fear it.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:32 PM
9

Accepting my Bluepill past stung like a bitch. Sooooo much easier to place the responsibility and blame on others. God forbid i had any culpability
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:18 PM
8

I know. I wanna cry. I may have to look Into doing a switcheroo. Tell her im getting it polished
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:08 PM
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It should be clear that noone is being banned for holding on to misguided bluepill thoughts. The pill goes down slowly and we realize the truth when we are ready and when we can. If ever. Dudes get banned for posting BEFORE they have anything worthwhile to add. Lurking and read ing and contemplating is a great use of time. There are other RP subs where one can ask questions and express concerns about internal conflict with the principles
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:07 PM
1

I've learned a lot from that dead bedroom sub. It's great place to see where relationships may go if you allow it. The folks there are not open to advice but their cringeworthy stories help me stay focussed on my path.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:25 PM
20

10k on a ring. Man I really was a beta moron. When I found this place I called my attorney to find out exactly what it would cost me to walk. I digested that number and the pill slowly. Wasn't easy but I'm now at point where if I gotta start over THEN SO BE IT. I knew I arrived last night when I was seeing these "men" call for honor. There is a lot of repressed pain and projection to get upset at GLO s post. They are have not unplugged and should be banned.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:02 PM
4

Why gone for two hours punching walls? Maybe he was sexting some submissive slut on her burner phone.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:30 AM
2

Right...and some of these females already had a mate no? So if I'm married and I want to bang my neighbor cause she is one hot little milf...then isn't that natural and exactly what OP posted?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 02:09 AM
0

Gold. We have a beta in drag here
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:45 AM
1

In nature there does indeed exist an alpha wolf. Or lion etc. That animal fucks whoever he wants. Doesn't matter if its fair or anyone wishes he wouldn't. Why are men different?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:43 AM
10

Time works to do this same thing. I have been married ten years and my SMV is flat to up. Hers headed to the bottom right corner of the graph. Doesn't matter how high she WAS
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:17 AM
8

If it looks like a duck. And it quacks like a duck...then it's a duck. Taking a married chick to poundtown will help one shatter the mirage that women are "good" and need to be pedestaled. It also helps with abundance mentality. And.....it's fun
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:14 AM
22

Taken women require less chasing is the point here.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:08 AM
-2

I'd bet my life you have not read the sidebar. Why are you posting?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:33 PM
1

I've had it with this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 02:20 AM
9

Ah...to go back armed with RP eh?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:44 PM
1

Now I understand. Brilliant. You are definitely right that two days of no alpha validation is suffocating. I bet the old phone is a treasure trove as well
/r/askTRP22/12/14 11:39 PM
1

I should be clearer. This is for me I key logged her computer. As you say the iPhone's are very tricky. If I bust her phone or more likely buy her a new one...how does this help me? New phone will also be locked. Do you mean take the old one and search for info?
/r/askTRP22/12/14 09:35 PM
0

Question. ..what will breaking the phone accomplish? I ask as a man who subscibes to the "trust but verify" philosophy.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 03:50 PM
0

The sub is just getting going...its a pivotal moment and I hope the mods make the right decisions similar to TRP. This isnt a democracy. There should not be room for debate about established principles in which we believe. I am sexist. I dont want to come here for a woman's perspective or her opinion. I can go to many other places for this if I need it. I have already had the pleasure of being told to "listen to her" here. Then I saw who wrote this "advice" and it just confirmed that I never wou…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 01:34 PM
6

I used to "pick my battles". Bad idea. Hold frame ALL the time. You don't have to be a dick. Just gently swat the shit tests away like little flies. And bluepillprofessor is right about sex. Now that you have "committed", she won't fear you getting it elsewhere. Do not let her have that comfort. It's not like you would stop paying the mortgage because "you don't feel like it". Demand regular sex. Whatever regular happens to be for you. And keep lifting. And stay in touch with male friends. Doesn…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 12:00 PM
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You nailed it I cringed for the author when I read that unevolved men prefer simple girls. It's the exact opposite. Beta pussies who need a mommy want a "complicated shrew woman" This woman will die surrounded by dozens of cats
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:29 AM
3

Complicated...Cunt Both c words. Synonyms Men naturally desire sweet and simple women. This article is bullshit. The hamster at work
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:24 AM
1

This should be at the top of this whole thread
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:16 AM
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If your friends wives disapprove...you are doing it right
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:03 AM
1

This should be motivating for people I look forward to FUTURE 2X and /relationship posts from white women who can't seem to get enough of that Asian Alpha clock that is under construction as of right fucking now!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:58 AM
46

Expect EVERYONE to call you immature for not fulfilling some princesses fantasy of making HER dreams come true.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:41 AM
14

The community needs more grammar cops. Thanks for your vigilance.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:00 AM
3

I was fortunate enough to find RP with a buddy. I found a hilarious return of kings post and forwarded it the way we often do with good humor. Somehow we both went deeper into the rabbit hole together. We used to give each other daily updates on "revelations"....what do you mean she isn't a princess????? Funny thing is he didn't have an anger phase. This was all an A HA moment for him. Not me. I lurked here for months. Sulked a bit. And starting lifting til my balls hurt. I have read and posted …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 12:03 AM
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I have a grey beard ( figuratively)which means I have seen so many REALLY hot fucking girls go to pieces when negged. Don't hit them in the looks dept....they quickly recover as they have so much validation here. Hit them for having a lousy personality. They have zero defense in place and will do anything to change your mind...
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:52 PM
1

You have mentioned she is smart. I believe it. My wife could see the books laid out and not make sense of it. I think that is why it's been so effective. She is pure feelz coming from her DNA
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/14 09:51 AM
8

Yea..I would never do this myself. Like a magician showing off how he does the tricks. Depends on the woman. The marriage etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/14 04:13 AM
3

Great for married men having affairs. The breakup can get messy. Better to just "fall in love" in a super duper faggoty way. Every day is a school day
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:07 AM
2

It's the eye of the tiger. Thirsty men have it
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:04 AM
4

Better not to SAY it....dread game
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:33 PM
3

I bet the clingy ones hate a man's clinging more than anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:31 PM
3

Well..if she is totally isolated and you want her gone then I bet this works well. And is funny too. "Babe I can't stop thinking about you" you are so special......
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:30 PM
1

I think you are on the right track but you need light dread. Holding frame is not enough after years of being a beta bitch. I say that as I have been there too. It takes 8 mins to go BP as you said. Going RP is eternal. Are you lifting? You mentioned getting back in shape. Lift hard bro...you can search if you need proof why it's so important. Why is Christianity and dread incompatible? You don't need to bang her best friend. She just needs to see that women find you attractive. Her response is …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 08:02 PM
4

Probably bad for you socially to use failed shit tests and beta game as a way to dump girls. All her friends will be instantly turned off by what a pussy you must be to be dumped by her. Still...I'm SURE it works
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:49 PM
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Good for the texting buddy. ANYTHING that lessens a man's dependence on his wife will increase her attraction to him. For some guys it's a hooker. Others an affair. Others can pull it off with just weekly card game. The only judge of our own behavior should be ourselves
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 07:39 PM
3

I was under impression that T R P was amoral. If you wanna cheat then you sure have the tools to do it. Open to hearing others intepretation
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:53 PM
3

There seem to be men here who grew up blue pill and others whose masculinity w as eroded by their LTR. That's what women do. Its in their nature to convert you to their frame. Then they hate you for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 11:47 PM
-1

No. You rarely write anything worth supporting. You write bitter rambling dissents that bragsplain your "non monogamous" lifestyle. You just aim to be disagreeable whether the thoughts make sense or not.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:33 PM
7

"Cant tell from what OP wrote that he has really read much in RP" Dude...archwinger has FORGOTTEN more RP then you will ever know.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:26 PM
2

Good for you dude Taking over the space "without permission" sounds familiar. I remember very early in that I invited a friend over to the house for a drink before we popped out for dinner. Wife huffed and puffed that it would make kids too excited for bed and that I should just meet him out someplace etc The look on her face when I told her i dont need her permission to invite anyone to the house was priceless.in my beta days I would have tried to avoid making her upset. I literally walked eggs…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 07:38 PM
2

Then why do you feel defeated every day? Why are you frustrated? If you truly self judge and are outcome independent and dont need her validation then you wouldnt give a shit if she is upset that you dont answer texts in a timely fashion or her backseat driver nags "You could move a little faster" No I cant...I have a huge hard on and I can barely concentrate as it is Take out the dog No..I am busy. You can certainly do this safely You are afraid to anger her. Its ok. We all been there. Start sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 07:12 PM
13

There are alot of men here who are quite happy in their LTR. They understand that the man is the prize and these men work hard to be their woman's best alternative.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:54 PM
2

Great stuff here. Can we back up and discuss why you want to unplug and change things? I get the sense that your wife is the center of your life and you want HER to change but you are the one who needs to do the work here. I was saving this for a long F R one day but I was dissatisfied with the marriage and muddling through for the kids and thinking "this is what men do". Something made me keylog the wife's computer and the whole princess image shattered. Never found proof of cheating but man sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 04:59 PM
3

This perfectly explains the fact that EVERYONE in your life freaks out as you begin unplugging. When they see you making strides through your own efforts and when they see your complaining stop as there is no one to blame but yourself....people are afraid of what this means in terms of their own existence
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:50 AM
2

Funny. Let me add some true life comments My husband is my best friend. I don't know why I am doing this. When I got home there was jazz playing and he wanted to have sex but I was jetlaged. Oh...but I'll suck your dick in a car parked behind a warehouse anytime. Men are so needy
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:54 AM
4

Create emotional drama. She is bored. Read up on push pull
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/14 04:38 AM
1

We agree. I meant not to play as there was no salvaging anything with the plate.her behavior was inexcusable
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:29 AM
5

Now there is something you and I can certainly agree on. The man and his time are the true prize. Women and their pussies? Not so much. Commodities.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:23 AM
7

Ugh.... the thought of banging a porker and pretending oneitis....it's just money....I'd rather go make more
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:18 AM
7

My attorney told me to expect to give about 25%of my gross income and half the marital assets up. Said it's pretty much a done deal. Said if I get her back to work full time then I'll fare better
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:16 AM
10

And kids clothing sizes. They will ask
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:12 AM
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Yes...and make sure you attend parent teacher conferences. And have one activity at least a week you do with kid alone. Always take him to soccer or her to ballet etc. These things come up in a deposition. You can fight to say your a joint caretaker
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:12 AM
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I've made the lawyer calls. Told me to know the kids clothing sizes, friends names, teachers names. Said get the wife working a full time job before filing. Add that to your thread. I eagerly await more advice
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:17 AM
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Can I ask a question? If there are no kids then why endure this shit? Money? You can always make more. Why have a complaint filled sexless life?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:14 AM
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Rollo discusses mateguarding well. The more beta the man then the more his proclivity to mateguarding will be.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:54 PM
2

Said nothing. Let it hang in the air for a few mins Then talked about how much fun we woudl have when we arrived. Pretended it never happened. Same way I discipline my kids. I kinda expect to have to do it. No grudges. No arguing. I dont explain to my eight year old that he has a busy day and that he needs his rest and that he was tired that morning etc..I just tell him to go to bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 08:22 PM
7

There is nothing attractive about mate guarding.. doing this will make one look weak.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:12 PM
2

Great advice to ease into things. Start with yourself. Lifting and your appearance and reading top trp posts. And the books. Two weeks ago my wife kept playing with the wipers while I drove. She wanted me to use the sensor. I prefer to turn off and on as needed as it was drizzling and im kinda adhd I turned to her after the second time and dead eyed her. If you play with the controls one more time im turning the car around. No fighting. No arguing. Just frame control and a display of dominance. …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 07:39 PM
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Correct. Its gonna happen that your wife will start talking about some new guy at work or some other kids dad is kinda "funny". The wrong approach is to ask a million questions and start mate guarding. Instead you tease her about her new boyfriend. Ask if he sent any love letters today etc. Make sure you are treating this like its hysterical and it doesnt phase you a bit. Also run some dread and pull back on the comfort. Be a little busier than normal.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:33 PM
20

Only way for OP "to win"..is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:08 PM
11

They should force the members of the European Court of Justice to fuck a few of these fatties in the interest of equality.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:50 PM
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Agreed. Note the many downvoted comments that OP acted whiny and ran away.or fucked up by playing the game. They dont realize that: She definitely invited the guy to show up and neither she or he were "joking" The only reason the girl is chasing OP and didn't get with the guy is that OP showed much more value than him. Her desire for OP shot through the roof and she no longer has interest in the other guy. This is not just a strategy for plates. When your LTR shows signs of attraction to another…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:47 PM
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Ok then tell her how you feel. Buy her flowers. Do some extra housework this weekend and buy her a surprise present
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:34 AM
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Even in my worst beta bitch days I knew the divorce card was a chance to heartily agree. EVERY MOTHERFUCKING time the fight ended within an hour.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:26 AM
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Sure seems like a troll post...oh no..trp ruined my marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:21 AM
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Of course you are free to travel with him sweetie. I would never keep anyone from doing what they want. Now if you DO go then I want you to never contact me again. Free will honey. Can't beat it with a stick
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:17 AM
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Redpill for two years and this is your first post?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 12:55 AM
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If I were trolling at least I'd be funny. Not writing some sad sack shit about kisses and celibacy
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:23 AM
1

It might be a troll. Who makes big time dough in NYC and can't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 11:49 PM
1

She wants your attention. Not your cock. Don't give her the attention. It will make her want your cock. Maybe in six months you can plate her
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:44 PM
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Why not a married woman who doesn't want to leave husband? You don't seem to just want a fuck buddy so if you want to connect with a new woman you can't hide that you are married. Plenty of married ladies who don't leave husbands because of kids, or that husband is a pussy etc. Seek someone in same boat as yourself
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:41 PM
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New York City has Tons and Tons of post wall women dying for a rich guy. I am not suggesting you go all beta bucks here. If I were you I'd be at soulcycle on the weekends. Then hit brunches with a few single friends or acquaintances. No better place in the world to spin plates than NYC
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 11:24 PM
2

I mark my wifes period in my calendar in outlook PRECISELY so I can get laid a couple more times a month. My sex drive is high. No apologies here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 09:21 PM
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I have a "pretty" serious boyfriend. We are "planning" on buying a house. Im not really looking for anything at all. Bitch is gonna fuck the beta who bought the ticket and at least ten other guys. Then she will tell the boyfriend at home that it "just happened"
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:44 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. There was a point when RP was like going uphill and then after a couple episodes it was like downhill. Still need to be vigilant. Note the week you were ill and she took the opportunity to take back your night off. /u/skorchgang talks about the war weary pimp who knows bitches ain't worth shit. I think like that pimp now
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 06:43 PM
0

Perfect quote for this exact situation AWALT Women need a strong man who doesnt NEED their validation more than they need the bonus.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 06:34 PM
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Thats great. This thread is just starting and it will be great to have you. You cant really go home tonight and start leading if you dont understand frame, shit tests, and RP theory. I can now go home and tell my wife that her disregard for the children's behavior is unacceptable. If she tries to start a fight then ill react with amused mastery. If it continues then ill walk away and withold attention if its really important enough to do the chart. If you try this cold then it could backfire if …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 06:12 PM
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Why dont you finish reading and if its still not clear THEN ask. I lurked for months before asking basic questions. No one here is your gopher
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 04:39 PM
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It's harder to give money advice as its less generic than wanting more sex or tempering nagging. My wife is home and not working because my kids need her there presently. When they dont need her at home then she goes back to work. Maybe its a different job with less responsibility and pay but should goes back
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 04:35 PM
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Was this a major inflection point in the relationship? If yes then was it possible you held frame better than you think ans she sensed you need the marriage less than she thought?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 04:04 PM
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My wife worked for ten years in sales at a large media company. She did well but I always made more. She is a bit frugal so l let her save her money and she only paid for home improvements and vacations and smaller bills. She drew down her savings as she saw fit the last 3 years as SAHW. I am ready for her to go back to work but am not pushing hard..yet. my kids are young and aee benefitting from her presence. In 18 months my youngest is in kindergarten so she knows its coming. When she asks for…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 03:56 PM
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This is why they call it a bitter pill. You shouldn't expect the praise or appreciation from your wife for your achievements. You are doing this for YOU now.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 03:04 PM
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You handled it very well. Always err on the side of "being a dick"
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:47 PM
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Oh man...your wife is really testing the new paradigm. Its a shit test. She wanted to see if you would comply with her request to carry bags and you didnt.... PASS! Handled like a boss She made it about respecting elders and being appreciative but that isnt the REAL issue. She doesn't like that you are not her bitch slave. Keep holding frame. She cracked last time and will do so again quickly. Do not discuss the mother in law or bags as that is what she wants.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:19 PM
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I almost divorced my wife for being an incessant complainer. Every night was a bitch fest about nonsense. We would bicker and then I wouldn't even want sex. I was sure that married the wrong woman and wanted out. THEN I learned to hold frame. These were her problems. Not mine. Id agree that things sounded so bad. Then smile and keep doing whatever I wanted. The shit was instant. Once i left ownership of the problems to her...didnt try to solve or minimize etc "Oh stop complaining ..its just a te…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:08 PM
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Good recovery. Lessons learned. As /u/ archwinger noted one does not have to be "perfect" in an LTR. I stopped sharing all compensation information with my SAHW. I also stopped giving her a lump some check for groceries, gas and other expenditures. Now i give her a weekly allowance .Before any white knights go bananas you should know she craves this discipline. She has zero pressure of "wasting" money now. There is a passage in Rollo the rational male where he talks of men one day being apprecia…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 01:58 PM
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Yes. Lifting reading and dread are the first steps. It is the starting point, not the solution by itself. It's a long process and you will have the weight room to take out your frustration. New muscles excite women. They will energize you. Read posts on TRP. Your situation is hardly unique and other men likely have been in your shoes. See how they regained control. And lift
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 12:12 PM
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We all been there to some degree. Own it . Change it
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 12:09 PM
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Sounds odd but as OP builds himself up and cares less about the marriage ...the marriage will improve
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 03:01 AM
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Her. When I had a disc issue that was so Damnpainful for two months my wife was annoyed. It bothered me. I thought she was my soul mate princess ....truth is women's biology dictates that your weakness is bad for her wellbeing. Men here generally agree that it's not wise to share ANY weakness with the wife. It kills attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:28 AM
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Lift weights. Dread game. Rinse. Repeat
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:22 AM
2

Sorry bro. AWALT. I have also looked behind the curtain and felt this way. No matter what you decide you likely are in for the journey of unplugging. No bitch will be able to do this to you again.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:19 AM
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Hang in there brother. RP theory predicts women are frustrated when their man is ill. Zero empathy
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/14 02:11 AM
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Disconnecting with my innate need for female validation has been a struggle but every day I become more self reliant For me..this is the RP
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:05 AM
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I am no expert but was under the impression that the "salary man" of the booming Japanese 80s economy used to turn over his check to the wife and get an allowance. Beta beta beta. As their economy suffered many young men rejected this lifestyle of grueling work and opted to live for themselves. It's not clear to me why they chose a lifestyle of makeup hair products and sex toys instead of women
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:57 PM
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I predict solo weddings and herbivore men who dont like sex. They prefer hanging out at home doing arts and crafts...oh snap..that's JAPAN 2014
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 08:29 PM
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Go away with your year old post ...troll
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:09 PM
2

Boys..Everyone now clear that Indian girls want white cock? Feels like this is same story every day
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:53 PM
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Save your breath. This guy thinks I should be a man and tell her the truth with my alpha words. I strongly suspect he is lacking in the finer nuances of communication.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:02 PM
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I could write for hours but will summarize that After we got married I got soft. Worked out less, trusted her 100perxent, didnt game other women, didnt recognize shit tests and would fail them by fighting and arguing. Thus..I didnt even want much sex from her. Young kids compounded all the above Once I recognized shit tests. I met all crying nagging attention seeking and most importantly in my marriage...complaining with amused mastery and agreeing and amplifying. We literally have not had an ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:00 PM
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In my case wife didn't know I cracked her email. I found lunches with a friend who probably Is old friend from work. Orbiter. But who knows. Been going on for years every few months. I spent five months lifting and getting self in order before mentioning the smart buddy who.left his wife. She heard me. I have been trying to learn if there is more to the story but I haven't uncovered much more. Best thing that happened to me. I found this place and am in sick shape. I also am not afraid to be on …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/14 11:46 AM
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Only seems pouty to you as I told you story. She saw me being real busy. You new here right?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:35 AM
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Early in relationship like dating?I'd see her a few times a week and we would always fuck
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:34 AM
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I did same. That's what led me here
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/14 03:33 AM
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I hope so. I was in same situation and did same exact thing I described. So far so good.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/14 03:32 AM
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Oh man...a drug using sex worker who cheated on an LTR by fucking me in the park with no condom isn't suitable for marriage? Sadly the homos at /r/relationship don't know this
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:53 AM
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I work my ASS off and kick butt with the kids. There are women who would be thrilled to have me. Somehow I lost sight of the importance of advertising this to ms newlifeasredpill. She was reminded. Things are good for everyone
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:47 AM
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And this is why I did what I did.... To take back control of the commitment. At least throw some doubt on its permanence
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:44 AM
1

Better to admit it and fix it then wallow and cry what a cunt she is. I have kids she need me
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:43 AM
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Odd she didn't give me the number huh?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:35 AM
2

Reread this . BETA with frame could be a nice post one day
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:34 AM
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Thanks..it really is the exact opposite of what I used to think
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:32 AM
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Agree. I can't wait til I'm broke and watch some other guy raise my kids....Hey I have my MORALS! MORALS that no one gives a fuck about
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:31 AM
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/u/independent male I just reread your post. You were right about everything. Including the BP brigade calling me mean and manipulating etc. The stories we share rhyme huh?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:29 AM
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Im done with you ciao sperg
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:13 PM
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All of this is going well over your head. Its ok. Marriage advice from a divorced guy who had a dead bedroom....no thanks
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:11 PM
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RP is great for men who are a bit autistic. Keep it up
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:09 PM
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The battery was a comment not a story. She went on for five mins how the phone was off and how it made her FEEL. I shrugged and said battery died. She knows Damn well that I turned it off on purpose. Its called covert communication and women excel here. Not sure why you think this is a short term outcome. Its all part of the long battle of a successful marriage.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:03 PM
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She is a great mother to my kids. When I am on top of my game she adores me. You are too young to worry about this. Go have fun and break some hearts
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:59 PM
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She is much happier since I found RP. Its almost like when we were dating as she had ro work very hard to lock me down
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:57 PM
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I was responding to the above post about why to use dread. You are talking about the story I wrote
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:54 PM
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No. If she were sick or dead fucking tired at 3am she may not fuck channng. If she forgets how great I am as familiarity dulls things then she just may " not be in mood". Then its on me to inspire desire....thus dread
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:52 PM
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She is still pretty sexy. Getting soft but in all the right places. she started at size 0 when we met 15 yrs ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:39 PM
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Noted and a fair point. Still. I am reclaiming this relationship and we are going to fuck when I say so. She is rapidly learning that saying no has consequences.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:33 PM
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I didnt say anything. Yea...that would be bad if I did
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:58 PM
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Since you need a happy ending: She just went to gym after spending the morning preparing kids dinner and yelling at school bus company for screwing up the route for the neighborhood kids. She asked me permission for a.gf to visit and she got us a sitter for thursday night. She is from the south and is being very syrupy sweet thr last few days. She really doesn't want to be in control and its unconscious shit testing. She wants to feel my strength. She has all fucking day to rest while kids in sc…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:56 PM
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Dread game your wife to temper her hypergamy. Reminds her that you are a quality man. They forget. I wish they didnt but im done "wishing".
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:35 PM
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Maybe I shouldn't have married her. Maybe she isnt the best type of girl I could have married. Maybe if my aunt had balls she could be my uncle. This is the situation I am already in. Should I walk? See my kids on weekends and give her half my loot? Or do I build the life I want and she can join me if she wants. Or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:10 PM
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Women talk. And attraction cannot be negotiated. Your mindset is same as mine when i got married. ..now I can relax and talk to my best friend about whats troubling me... It doesn't work. The games that "work" on plates continue to work on wives. Your mature "evolved" attitude will get you crushed in a live in LTR with kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:45 PM
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Good job boss Almost ANY woman can get guys to "meet" at the drop of a hat. Getting them to stay is another story and she knows this. Your job is to be the BEST of the men she could likely convince to stay. You can only show this . Holding frame and dread are the way to illustrate your value to a disrespectful woman. Its not manipulation when she WANTS to please you
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:09 PM
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Excellent outcome. Be vigilant for the "echo shit tests". Women have short memories. /u/Skorchzang said it very well. You can never relax, never let your guard down, you have a snake in your house that you have charmed. Always act accordingly
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/14 04:41 PM
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She worked a bit harder this day. She received zero attention from me. The covert message is life is harder without newlifeasredpill. I certainly didnt tell her a word of this. I also didnt act upset or angry at all. Obviously your point is wrong. She went wild fucking the shit out me for four straight nights
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:08 PM
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There is a misunderstanding here. The kids were not late. I just didnt make them breakfast as I drank coffee on the toilet and looked up spin class schedules and bars nesr the studio. I had my evening to plan Im not running around the kitchen before work while she sleeps in and then she has no kids to watch from 9 to 3. Im especially not doing this for someone im not fucking. Sometimes I do it as I miss alot of nights when im working. As far as establishing roles..thats exactly what I am doing. …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:00 PM
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God forbid a stay at home wife should get kids ready for school. I should have done it and let her sleep in? Maybe she will appreciate that and fuck me ?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:28 PM
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Haha...transparent to us! last year I would have apologized and showed her I am still nice. Fwiw I have been pretty nice this weekend...I whispered to her at kids basketball game that she is my good girl and I love sucking her tits while I finger her.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:26 PM
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I never threatened to leave. I went spinning
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:50 PM
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She should be afraid. I didnt agree to forsake other women to not have sex and be bitched at for stupid shit al day long. She should bring her a game just like when we were dating. I bring mine every fucking day
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:49 PM
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Not sure I acted like a child. Never got upset. Just did my own thing for 24 hours.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:45 PM
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Good point. Frame was key here. She tried to drag me into an argument several times. Between the midnight comment, not caring about children in a potential emergency, telling me to find a new wife etc. As far as beta frame far I tried to keep the mindset that my four year old daughter m isbehaved and I took her blankie. Now I have to give it back
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 12:39 PM
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dont feel bad for her-- she has not been as sweet and feminine and good as she can be for years. thats my fault, not hers
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:56 AM
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much of this I learned from you sir- thanks
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:53 AM
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I don't blame wife for losing some attraction -- that's on me I lost 10 pounds and and am regaining my muscles. I bought new clothes and flirt hard with wife's acquaintances. At the end of the day its not cruel because she WANTS to be proud of what she "has"
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:53 AM
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this s sidebar material at married red pill. I use the Channing Tatum test: Would you "wake up" and "find the energy" to fuck him? Oh you would? Then why not the man who SUPPORTS you and makes your life possible? The answer is that you are taking me for granted and now I have the solution to that particular problem
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:50 AM
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That's interesting-- I found RP too late to make that decision. Now I am playing damage control. I have no idea if I would have married if I knew this back in 2003. I wrote the post as a sort of "victory lap". Not a victory defined in getting laid a few times but in the fact that I can now very quickly turn off my attention/affection. Its easy to soft next a girl you met three weeks ago. It takes a 180 degree turn in your thinking to do this with your kid's mom who lives with you.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:45 AM
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A threesome with her friend who likes jerks!!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:12 AM
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I am 40. Married ten years and have been reading and lifting hard since the summer. There is no other way to have an LTR then RP
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:08 AM
5

Exactly this. You didn't talk to a couple of "friends" about the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:30 PM
0

Well..I say go for it. Helps with abundance mentality
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 03:50 AM
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Nothing may be "happening" but you are not dominating or being the alpha that keeps her hypergamy in check. She certainly knows what she is doing is wrong and she isn't afraid of losing you. Lift. Get new clothes. Hold frame and run hard dread game. After a few months of this drop hints about a friend from work who ditched his wife for emotional cheating. Make it scary for her
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 03:36 AM
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Next post on ask trp from u/kenyanswordswallower on dealing with LMR
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:23 PM
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This is great. I can only add that while you are building yourself you may KNOW what to do, fake it til you make it, then vent here or to a close buddy. I am married and have to hold frame constantly. If I get the "feels" I just leave for the gym and run. Or lift. Then come home and read. The Wife doesn't know I'm pouting inside that she is a bitch, un appreciative,and unreasonable. All she sees is the oak tree who she can't move
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:13 PM
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Things are going well....no conflict...get along great...affairs???? Care to tell us more about that?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/14 02:10 AM
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I was sure someone would have said Listen to her compromise see a therapist talk about your feelings help out with housework dont push for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/14 12:16 AM
2

Ok. I would not study photography if I dont own a camera but thats just me
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 12:10 AM
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Thanks Rollo Your last couple articles have hardened my resolve to not raise a son who is a grass eating she man. When do japanese feminists realize they fucked themselves by creating a generation of passive boys who like to putter around the house. They have zero drive to achieve anything. They like to go shopping and buy cosmetics. Like a whole demographic of bronies
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:47 PM
1

Fair enough but how will this guy who doesn't have sex or a relationship for that matter be manipulated by a woman?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:40 PM
4

Haha...I thought same thing. Was thinking some poor sap is deep in the anger stage and took it out on fido
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:19 PM
1

I am curious why one would study sexual strategy if they had no interest in using it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:17 PM
1

I dont think the dish should ever be spoken about again. If she brings it up then grin and say "REALLY? ?? The bowl? ....lol"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 10:48 PM
1

Talking dilutes the power of the hamster
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 10:46 PM
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Lol..its not alpha to rub it in! I also regularly tell her about acquaintances who are divorcing. The stories involve men who are so busy golfing and dating young women on their "off" weekends from the kids " I was concerned but he is doing REALLY well ya know?"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 10:44 PM
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This is what I meant to show you earlier but I was travelling and using my phone--it REALLY helped me earlier this summer when the multiday shit tests seemed like they would NEVER end Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passe…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 08:17 PM
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Fall in love somehow became NEEDS I love my children but they don't dictate my happiness or behavior. I have a job to do....raise them to live without me Same with my woman. My job is to lead her. She isn't my best friend. She isn't here to coddle me. I can't fully trust her (not her fault, it's her biology) Still....I love.fucking her . Love watching her take care of my children. But the second I need her..I'm in trouble
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 08:08 PM
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Make it seem like wife ALSO is a loser if you divorced. She is not afraid of this scenario because she KNOWS you are too scared to let that happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 07:32 PM
2

Once my SAHW told me she would " take kids from me". I let her know in very calm tone that she would also see very little of them as she would be working full time.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 07:11 PM
1

Have to able to walk.Once she senses this she will fall into line
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 04:38 PM
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Not even close OP is gonna fine tune his game and she will be a very happy woman
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 02:45 PM
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Yes. There is no fighting with wives. Just state control. Be an oak tree
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 02:43 PM
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You are correct. Curious how you would give her what she NEEDS. I think OP needs a specific action plan
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 02:41 PM
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If I were you. I would come home and tell her to stay for the weekend and pull her in for a big kiss. "Surprised me last night when I was sleeping..cant keep your hands off me huh? No mention of the fight. Let her vent and vent but there is no apology and no discussion of dishes or sex. Just amused mastery and act like she is a five year old girl who colored crayons on the wall. Escalate into make up sex. If she continues to pull the power play then you rinse repeat the attention withholding. Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 02:38 PM
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Great response. Should be a post on RP.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 11:34 AM
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In ancient times getting dumped meant a woman may DIE. This is a primal fear.dread awakens it
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 11:27 AM
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You are operating out of a mindset of fear. Where she has the power
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 11:23 AM
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Fair enough. It doesn't work optimally in today's society But we are slaves to our genes
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:11 AM
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You don't have kids or ADHD DIAGNOSIS right?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:08 AM
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You have no idea what you are talking about. Google CBT and ADHD If I were an absent father I'd dope him.up and call that the treatment. Instead I make him breakfast and take him to gym before the bus to his gifted program then go to work. Most afternoons are helping him do his homework and shuttling him to soccer practice or basketball etc. I also have a daughter who gets half the attention as her brother. His "stranger" shrink works with him on impulse control and the feelings of shame that he…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:03 AM
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Running around is not even close to the real problems we face
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:57 AM
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You are correct but meds should be tried after many other interventions. My son is messy. Disorganized to the point where he make silly mistakes in math. Yet he is in gifted program. Graph paper really helped. There are practical solutions that should be tried first. Maybe some of these props and supports can temper the amount of meds others need. Anyway..I am sure I also suffer from this. My whole life is based on accommodating and I play to my strengths and avoid my weaknesses Good luck
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:56 AM
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I definitely agree that you match selfish with selfish to achieve a better outcome. Are women really selfish? I used to think so and it caused me a lot of pain. Now I am at peace with the idea that they are just trying to get by like the rest of us and they are following their biology. This is in their DNA. Now that I know no don't need her to be my best friend or even worse..my mommy...I can focus on myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:46 AM
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Agree that women are altruistic to selfish men but it's not a flaw. They see those men as high value and they desire high value sperm
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:28 AM
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Maybe I am rusty on game theory. Or maybe I am a little buzzed from the three glasses of wine I drank. I think you are trying to "prove" TRP. Quantify it. It's real dude. I just drilled the wife for the Second time in 24 hours. The reason cuz she rejected me Monday and I went out Tuesday with my phone off. Anyways...I just read your tinder Ellie post. Brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:25 AM
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I love game theory and all your contributions to this sub so don't take this the wrong way..I want to understand How did you come you with those point values for each scenario?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 01:39 AM
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You will know you "won" when she is flat on her back moaning your name and you DIDN'T make a ridiculous apology We are all rooting for you eco
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 11:31 PM
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This is spot on
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 11:25 PM
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Bingo. Women want to please their alpha. Don't get me wrong. My wife sometimes says no but then she loses my attention til she comes around. It's always within a day or two
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 11:21 PM
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There is no way you will cause permanent harm to your relationship by developing a backbone and improving yourself. You are on the right track and have her attention but you still have work to do. Explain less. Read more. Provide beta comfort when she is "good". Withhold attention when she is "bad" The fact that you are so worried she might be upset speaks to your inability to walk away. She needs to sense (not hear) that you have expectations and they will be met. There should be no arguing or …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 11:19 PM
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Disagree. You may end up in divorce court but it was because it was too late for RP. Not because of RP
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 11:11 PM
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Very interesting discussion. It reminds me of a famous quote by Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart when establishing the threshold test for obscenity. "I know it when I see it" ALPHA seems to be at least partially subjective and it lacks clearly defined parameters. Yet all of use here who have lived life and tasted the pain of THE LIE and swallowed the bitter pill know alpha when we see it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:23 PM
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Ah..sorry..used my cell phone as I cant post on reddit from work. Good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 08:10 PM
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Ah..sorry..used my cell phone as I cant post on reddit from work. Good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 08:10 PM
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Good follow up OP is headed in right direction for sure. Just needs to talk less and act more. This stuff seems like it will land you in divorce court faster than a speeding bullet. In reality the new strong man drives women wild with turbulent passion.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 07:44 PM
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This guy nailed it. I am months in and while things are much better one has to remember that respect is earned and it takes time. Especially after a long beta nap Lift read and go slower
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 07:39 PM
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Two things stand out to me Since this is new to you and you have not internalized enough you are telling her the new paradigm. You need to show her and this takes time. As far as this particular episode. If it were me. Id withhold almost all attention until she submitted. she asked for the apology in order to have morning sex so she still feels to be the one in control. That was your cue to laugh at her and go to work. And go out that night too. Basically be real fucking busy and turn off phone.…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 05:19 PM
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Broken bulimic fat girls Fucking stolen dude! Brilliant
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:32 PM
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Agree. This is troll and total bullshit
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 02:39 PM
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Solid post. Agree with you 100 percent I dont need my four year old daughter to give me a half hearted "sorry!" And I dont need her mother to do either. I am still in charge either way. Also..wives WILL apologize when they feel they have disappointed a man they badly need and respect. If you really want her to apologize for things then lift weights, dress well, hold frame, and show her that other women want to be in her place as your first mate. She WILL apologize if she is afraid of falling out…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 02:26 PM
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I believe it's true. It's just not a disease that women mature faster. It's biology Guests who stops maturing at 16? Stuck there til they die
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:53 AM
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I'll try the ladder drills Appreciate the suggestion!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:51 AM
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I never say never. I agree with you in principle though. If my kid was failing out of school or in trouble with law or having serious issues holding onto friends...I d reconsider. The idea that he won't listen to little house on the prairie during reading rugtime or that he plays tag at recess despite warnings not to do so...? This is a joke. Not a reason to use stimulating drugs
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:49 AM
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No I can't do it. I am not trained in cognitive behavioral therapy. Kids with ADHD (or energetic boys if you prefer) are always "in trouble" for lack of impulse control. When every authority figure...(mom, women teachers, women principals) are always displeased then kids grow up thinking they are "bad". Destroys self confidence and becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. My son doesn't have a positive male role model for the first ten hours of his day til I get home or after school sports. Agree abo…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:45 AM
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Brilliant point. I am no fan of marriage but I also don't have a time machine so RP makes it work as well as it could
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 03:14 AM
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Separate note..I take my little guy to the gym in our building for ten to fifteen mins before school a couple days a week. He loves it I help him do Pull ups, pushups, plank, squats with one pound dumbbells. Any programs for young kids? I really don't know what is safe so I stick to these bodyweight excersizes and I don't really let him do more then 4 to 5 sets as I don't know what is safe
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:04 AM
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Keeping you from recess was the exact opposite of the right thing to do
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:00 AM
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Good advice. Yea. Hold on tightly, let go lightly
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:55 AM
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They were the girls who couldn't possibly have studied finance, science, or engineering. They were in school to have fun and taking care of kids is about all they can do. And not cuz they learned shit in school. Watching kids is in their DNA.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:35 PM
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No questions about diet and excersize and social life and ..here you go bud...Schedule 2 drugs! My little boy is doing very well with tons of soccer,baseball,basketball, and swimming. We feed him real food and limit tv and video games to about 2 hours per week. He sees a psych once a week to talk. We use behavior plans. We monitor his playdates to make sure no one is overstimulated. I think adhd is real. I think drugs can help. I also know feminism redefined normal boy behavior as something that…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:29 PM
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In elementary school the kids behavior deeply influences the kids grades. Self control and organization are areas where boys tend to lag girls and sometimes never catch up. All the teachers and administrators are women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:01 PM
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I dont care about some middle age women who are emotional basket cases as they spent their best years working offices by day and riding cc at night. Its another story when a smart ten year old boy is drugged to the gills and told he is bad because for zero reason. Big pharma has blood on their hands
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:50 PM
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So true. I may return an email if it requires an immediate decision but thats it. When my wife calls and finds out I am out seeing clients its "where did you go" and " who else was there?" Since I work with younger hot women my lack of availability AT WORK has become dread
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:29 PM
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I have an 8 year old boy who would be totally fucked without me around. Its become fashionable and normal to attribute pathology to healthy male children's behavior. Read the War against Boys to see how bad things are. Girls behavior is the gold standard in schools now. Boys are treated like defective girls These defective girls are not succeeding. Books are fiction and poetry while boys prefer comics and non fiction. What do you think the 24 year old hambeast woman teachers are asking classes t…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 08:05 PM
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Two steps forward one step back? I see this too. Then I turn on disinterested asshole game and get back on track within a few days. I'm hoping it just a matter of undoing years of bp behavior. Or....maybe this is just how successful relationships work
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/14 11:48 AM
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Turning her in is just passive aggressively providing validation and attention
/r/askTRP10/12/14 11:43 AM
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I trade options Remember that options have VALUE. Their value is based on how much time they have before expiration and how volatile they are. Key for us is to know that options reduce risk and can provide huge potential payoff
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:35 AM
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"Ok..the chemistry really wasn't there"
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 05:14 AM
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Did you see my name on the list?
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:03 AM
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Haha of course they did. The reasons not to go had nothing to do with the kids But here we all know that!
/r/askTRP10/12/14 05:02 AM
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Yes..nailed it. While these guys cant TAKE a girl they do create problems if you let them. Playing catch up sux
/r/askTRP09/12/14 07:03 PM
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Good point. Her B F F just got out of awful marriage to a loser. Not even an alpha dick..more like a lazy mamas boy beta Anyway she is coming to visit and I can at the very least get drinks in her and let her pour out the feels. Soak it up like a tampon. Ask some innocent questions from a confident frame. Even if i dont learn anything it will be fun to be her friends rented husband
/r/askTRP09/12/14 07:00 PM
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One can only move forward. Forget about the 180 dicks. Cuz if she admitted 60 you know its much more
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:52 PM
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This is exactly how I have been living my life since August. I keep getting stronger and losing weight. Clothes are new and crisp and fit greatI learn more and more about the lies i have been told but i really still dont have proof of anything worthwhile. Really just proof that i was a fucking pussy in my marriage til now. I also am at point where I dont have any idea nor do I care if my marriage lasts 1 more or ten more or 30 more years
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:50 PM
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Better when you dont tell her. Let her see something and let the hamster do the rest. I have a pretty co worker who emailed me about a kids event in my hood. I forwarded it to my wife as I knew she was busy that morning and she wrote me TWO emails why the kids wouldn't like it. Took them anyways. When we got back " did you see anyine you know there?"... Great sex that night
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:46 PM
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Agreed again. But time travel not an option. I am definitely working on attraction game. Weights. New clothes. More socializing. The career is sorted already. Sex frequency on the rise. I picked the wrong woman. While she isnt bare backing dudes in the park she is used to her parents bending over backward to her will. she has obviously kept old orbiters and perhaps old bfs to keep in touch a few times a year. I have learned that nexting is a legit option but with two small kids and lots of dough…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:38 PM
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Love this idea. I have the opportunity soon
/r/askTRP09/12/14 05:58 PM
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16..Rawdog sex in public parks. This made me cringe. If this cant help you swallow the bitter pill than nothing can. Good luck improvy
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:15 PM
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I have a similar situation. Turning marriage around and am about four months ago in now. Wife used my laptop last summer and i was able to swipe passwords. Saw she was meeting an old work friend for lunch every few months. Sometimes would invite him out with her when she went out with gfs. I know the guy. His wife let him for another dude. He is older and captain thirsty. Years ago when I was stupid and beta I threw a tantrum that I dont hang out with girl friends and she should not do same with…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:46 PM
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I agree with alot of what you said but am curious what you would so if you were OP.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 03:34 PM
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A few weeks in to me waking up we had a "fight". I never flinched or lost my calm but she was crying yelling etc. Brought up shit from ten years ago. She actually said I am "hurting our relationship". Code for what you just described as taking back the power. Just know these struggles are inevitable in the beginning as you need to show dominance. Literally..need her less than she needs you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 11:38 AM
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You don't have to respond. Just don't match her anger. Show her that she can't derail your calm good mood.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 11:35 AM
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Great detailed reply. I can't tell you how "scared" I once would have been to just leave and cut off 99percent of contact/communication. It really works
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 11:32 AM
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This is a learning opportunity. In your example you say you will make decisions accordingly. what would you do? I would monitor the situation as best I could without her knowing. I'd tease wife a bit about her "new boyfriend". I'd act like it was funny. I'd also run heavy dread game Do you agree with my course of action or have any additional suggestions?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:15 AM
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Ok. My wife is different. Just lays down a towel.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 02:21 AM
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Can't remember where I "learned" or really a better word...remembered this but at my big east coast state school....all the girls in a particular sorority would fuck the same 3 to 4 guys. A different sorority might pick a different few guys. Listen up my undergraduate brothers. Your goal is to become one of those guys. Pre selection is why it can be you
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:17 AM
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I stopped saying the L word unless we are fucking. I love fucking you. You are my girl. I love you etc Positive reinforcement
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 02:06 AM
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Fwiw...I try and shield wife from the actual numbers as women don't want to think about up years and down years. They just worry.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 02:04 AM
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I also try to track this. Helps with shit tests too
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/14 02:02 AM
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Id say my wife asks for massage as foreplay alot. Especially during the week. Never if we were out and drinking. I do it and just keep escalating until we are fucking
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 11:42 PM
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I plow through shark week. Why blowjob?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 11:40 PM
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I have a friend who beat cancer and he banked his sperm. Can you do that?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:27 PM
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Understood. I am no expert yet and am only relaying what has worked for me. Like most of the knowledge here you need to adapt to your life Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 07:14 PM
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When my wife rejects sex I am barely around the house or returning calls or texts til she changes mind. Ill help a bit with kids as I want to see them but then I go right back out to lift or see clients or play sports or even go to a movie by myself I never explain any of this. She knows. She always initiates and gets very sweet within a day or two. I think its important that you dont act hurt or upset at all. Just be reallllllly busy
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 06:08 PM
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I value my wife enough to keep her for these reasons: She is great with our kids. She fucks me with passion almost every time I ask. She organizes our family's schedule. It should come as no surprise that post RP she does all these things infinitely better than before
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:40 PM
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All little boys have adhd All college age males are rapists All 30+ year olds are here to provide beta bucks or they are assholes
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:56 AM
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I'm afraid this post sucks
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:53 AM
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This type of story used to shock me It's just another day at the RP.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:01 AM
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Its very similar to a man who lost his trust fund. No longer rich and it sucks
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:55 AM
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My response: Hey...8 years ago you would have ignored me or cheated on me. You would have lied all the time so now it's my turn to tell you lies: I think you are really special. Let's hang out and really get to know each other. Then I'm gonna make you audition as my fuck toy. I know you will blow me and let me do whatever I want as much as I want as you are trying to lock me down. In a month when I won't commit you can enjoy haggen daz and tell all your friends what assholes men are and how imma…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:39 AM
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This is all covered in sidebar. Rollo covers in his blog too
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:28 AM
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Unable to solve problems Sidebar material
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/14 05:19 AM
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You are missing the point of constant self improvement. Yea this change in approach was enough for you guys to be very happy... for now. The goal of happiness is a moving target. If you lift you will have more energy to fuck longer and harder. She will like it more as your physique improves to what she is hardwired to truly want. She may even get in better shape to keep up with you which means you have a tighter wife to fuck. Your new shape will turn eyes inspiring dread which pays off big-time.…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/14 10:22 PM
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I too am grateful for fitness tests. They give me the chance to illustrate dominance. Seems my wife's memory is very short and she forgets quickly
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/14 10:13 PM
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Socializing with married friends and acquaintances after RP can be shocking. Mild experience from last night was dinner out with another couple and all the kids. The guy ordered desset and his wife kept eating it and he totally flipped out. " we have talked about this" "order your own etc". Embarrassing loss of frame to say the least. His wife didn't say a word to her credit, just kept eating his tiramasu. I gently told him to just order two desserts from now on, maybe she doesn't want the guilt…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 12:59 PM
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There is a huge effort to make little boys ...girls. They have pathologized typical little boy beahvior
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 09:36 PM
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Good for you on finding your own path. We all do what we are good at, stop doing what we don't do well.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:42 PM
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Hey-- Arch is doing God's work over there. Even the MRP wives are happier. And why shouldn't they be? They are getting pounded like they did when their SMV was skyhigh
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 03:53 AM
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the man is a fucking genius-- Rational Male one of best books I have ever read
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/14 03:45 AM
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I think you need to read alot and go slower at home. plenty of time to get back on track
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/14 03:40 AM
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good work. I really have yet to hear where someone correctly applied RP to their marriage and it failed
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/14 03:39 AM
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Thank you. It is hard work and to be fair my wife does an excellent job in areas that I just couldn't do. She really is very sensitive to their health, diet, and comfort. Kids do need a mother's love. Somehow the world got this idea that mother's can do the whole thing themselves. I can assure you that is not the case. Fathers set the direction. Fathers set the goals. Fathers provide the discipline that matters.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 02:54 AM
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Funny..as a married man who found red pill I have been REVOKING this whole list and we are getting along better then ever
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:57 PM
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Elevators too. Fuck em. I leave first now
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:39 PM
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Yes. And it is SCARY so lets drug the budding alphas til they are laying in bed at night hungry and restless. I am a huge fan of yours Rollo....have you written anything about thr epidemic of adhd (or as i like to say.being an elementary school boy)
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:34 PM
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Fuck yeah Its one thing for some dude to wonder how to text a slut at a bar or stand up to a shrew wife but there are millions of little boys drugged to the gills for nothing. This community needs awareness how dangerous the world can be for our sons I get that some people need help. But ANY little boy who has energy and a bit of spirit is referred to doctors (pharmacy slaves) for a daily dose of stimulants I have my little guy playing tons and tons of sports. And I lay down law where he loses a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 10:47 PM
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My 8 year old boy is always "in trouble". Has a hard time sitting still and forgets to bring homework home frequently. Report cards and parent teacher conferences would make you think he is "average". Was referred and given ADD inattentive diagnosis . But test scores put him in gifted program. Won a grade wide spelling bee. Second in chess tournament. Blows away exams Basically anytime he has a challenge or objective test he crushes it. If there is an opportunity for the 26 year old woman teache…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 10:28 PM
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Break "the date". That will send a better message
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:41 AM
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The black knight in me loves to "steal" cabs from women on rainy days. Most of them are too lazy to walk three feet away from the curb so i just run into the street and jump in before it reaches her. Don't forget to roll down window and wave as you pass
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:34 AM
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Honey...after I finish the laundry can we call your mother and see how her day went? Then ...I am hoping we can make love. I'm sorry I have this need
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:50 AM
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Your girlfriend is not a unicorn. If you are indeed acting beta than after marriage and kids you will be married to a different woman. She will hold all the power and after some time of "working on you" it will be the two of you "working on your relationship". You may not be acting macho alpha right now but you do have the ability to walk away fairly easily. This is keeping her in check and you are seeing the fantasy of "happily ever after". I picked my wife ten years ago b ecause she too was sw…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:40 AM
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He will be a published author soon on one of the few weapons we have Dread game.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:56 AM
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Very true. I meant too late for the marriage that's failing I have not read many stories where RP didn't help LTR s
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:55 AM
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Sorry brother. I guess you found RP too late?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:17 AM
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Wow. After reading this I am 100 percent fucking the shit out of my wife tonight. Not taking no for an answer.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:15 AM
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You don't have to read here......
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:13 AM
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This is the best advice here More importantly. You should use this month to figure out how SHE ran dread game on YOU. You are scared of her DJ friends and free drinks. High status? Please. She should be terrified that her friends are going to hook up with you while she is gone. She should be the one "afraid" of YOU loving the single loo ice where you can do two hour workouts every day. Meet different women and answer to no one. You mentioned getting drunk and losing frame but "recovering" I don'…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 11:45 PM
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Best thing that ever happened to me was a six month period where I had no job and really needed one. I was so bored and frustrated that no matter how shitty a day at work is...I know being unemployed or underemployed sucks much much more. Hang in there
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:56 AM
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Factoid from the retail "analysts" Married men who cheat buy much more expensive gifts for their GFs than their wives.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:30 AM
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Avoiding isn't the right way to put it. Not sulky and hiding from her. Just busy and not paying her any attention. Come home from work and head back out to do a spin class then a drink after with a friend. No explanations. If she asks just remind her how busy you are. You are right that one should appear unbothered. It's not about making her "give in". Or do something she doesn't want to do. It's about showing her that withholding sex isn't a power play. You don't supplicate. You just go on doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 11:56 AM
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Perhaps I am not clear of the exact definition of dread. I thought men in LTR had two "tools from the toolbox" Withdrawal of attention and Dread game...making SO aware a man has options
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 11:38 AM
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Try some dread. Start lightly. I used to work for a really hot lady. I was drunk once (this is years ago) and mentioned to wife how she was tits on a stick. My wife knew her and was always a bit wary but never really said much. That speaks to how I lost my edge when the kids came. Anyways.in Sept. I read a great FR about a guy who told his GF about his old boss calling and how she missed working with him etc... I said the same exact thing ( even though I haven't talked to my boss in 2 years) as …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 03:04 AM
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Once I learned what shit tests WERE...how to spot them...how to respond...ALL ARGUMENTS stopped. My wife is almost incapable of visibly upsetting me now. I just laugh at all the silly bait she tries to upset me with. I've also learned to tell her she is speaking to me inappropriately and I won't stand for it. I'll calmly walk away and completely ignore her. Once you realize that women need attention like men need sex then the power flips to you
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 02:48 AM
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I am only a few months in but I think you are starting strong In the very beginning I did the same as you...withdrew bigtime to my work, lifting,sports,friends etc. Don't be angry with her as you do it, just a bit "distracted" by all the great shit you got going on. Women get way too much attention and you shouldn't overthink your spending a few nights in a row without her. Sex: My wife rarely initiates so I have to deal with possible rejection every time. Pre RP we fucked a couple times a month…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/14 02:41 AM
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I didn't laugh at her because I was fucking scared of her. In an effort to 'get back at me' she started partying with one of my best clients! Looking back in time through the RP lens I can see that my ignoring her escapades with this guy must have made her think I was more alpha than I really was at the time. I only ignored this to not fuck up the relationship with a client who was top of my book of business, I could post a dozen stories about this girl. bisexual. daddy issues. fucked her plasti…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:58 AM
2

you definitely escaped alot of the pain I shared in my story by abandoning ship way earlier than I did
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:52 AM
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Great idea. I always did this and ramped up after learning RP My wife doesn't flinch when I call her my little girl. Babe, Goldilocks etc.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 12:30 PM
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Bingo. I am almost four months in and EVERY day learning important insights into my past, present, and future life. This knowledge is also kind of isolating. If you speak of it then folks out there think you have sprung a leak. Yet they DO notice the weight I've dropped and the way the new clothes fit. At work they notice I get shit done. It's almost like I am not ready to NOT come back here every day for fear of reverting back to the way I was
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:51 AM
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I have read single sentences related to RP and spent days reliving my entire life as if there were subtitles that finally made the story clear My mother cheating on my dad and him "forgiving it" Girlfriends who disappeared and reappeared 24 hours later with a story that in retrospect was utter bullshit. I chose to ignore Wife's constant and clear manipulations that bent my will to "avoid tension" My username was chosen carefully
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:33 AM
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This is an excellent post. Many years ago I made the mistake of turning a hooters waitress/ex stripper plate into a live in GF. The shit tests were next level and I drowned. She cheated. She lost all respect for me. I stupidly went from treating her as fuck toy to my mommy. She moved out and tried to make me her back up plan but even then I knew enough to cut all ties to regain my self respect. Predictably she kept in touch. I would take calls but that's it. Never reached out on my own. As my ca…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 01:20 AM
1

What are you doing to help your younger son?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/14 02:53 AM
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I have always suspected that Patrice faked his death and is posting on reddit as SKORCHZANG
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:43 AM
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I don't know. My relationship with my bratty sister got better after internalizing RP. Once I realized she really never grew up and truly is a 30 year old teenager I stopped arguing with her. I just laugh at her and ignore her and she comes around like OP s sister did. RP taught me NOT to treat women as equals and now that I don't.... I get along with ALL of them much much better.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:39 AM
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I look forward to reading this upcoming article. Thanks for spending your time hunting down that old post
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 02:33 AM
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Totally agree. She needs to make sure you are not a beta who would have flinched at mention of boyfriend. A beta could fuck things up by getting attached.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:59 PM
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Over the last few months I turned monthly sex to 2-3 Times per week. When my wife said no on Friday I said nothing, went down stairs and read a book for two hours. Came back to: Why did you read down there? Shrugged. Went to sleep. Next morning I took son real early to play hoops, swim at club etc. Came home and barely acknowledged wife. Then laid down in basement for a noon nap. She came down, kissed me while I was a sleeping and told me she feels better. No more head cold. I knew this was subt…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 11:56 PM
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Have not read this book. I did read NMMNG. I honestly enjoy saying no to ridiculous requests now. Gives me a chance to flex muscles in that I need this relationship less than her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/14 11:48 PM
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They down vote and remove any advice that doesn't feeeeeeeel good
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:17 PM
2

Swallow the RP with Viagra to keep up with all the sex that's coming
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 12:02 AM
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Hmm....I let it go as long as he not disrespectful. I told him is not nice to call mommy annoying but I didn't correct him! The other day she shut the blind as he was daydreaming and lingering over dinner and homework and he said " thanks mom. It's much more interesting now" I laughed so hard I had to leave the room. I was proud. He won't have to learn the hard way like I did
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/14 11:58 PM
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I think back to when I acted against my own wishes because I "didn't want to upset her" It only took a handful of times for my wife to see me not give a shit about her "being upset" for her to ACTUALLY not get upset anymore
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/14 11:48 PM
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There are men here who found RP after being divorce raped and they see their kids on weekends. You are still quite young. Your 30s will be fantastic if you can absorb the advice offered here. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 11:42 PM
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Nothing about TRP says you have to spend time with women. If you choose to do so then you now have tools to forge successful relationships on your terms. Good luck. You may become less bitter with time
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 10:01 PM
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It's natural. He tells her she is annoying. She punishes him and he laughs at her etc
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/14 01:43 PM
0

Even better!! What should I ask her specifically?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 04:04 AM
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My 8 year old already games his mom. It is hilarious to watch
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/14 04:01 AM
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I think if you are worried about your wife finding about you reading a book then you are in the right place here. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/14 03:59 AM
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Yea but he was always busy with work and didn't spend enough time with her. It's his fault too!!!
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 03:53 AM
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You have just given me a great idea for dread. Gonna tell the wife I asked a female work friend for advice.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 03:42 AM
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Tremendous comment. Running game should never stop. It keeps your SMV high and it keeps your woman from getting comfortable. Too many men (myself included) stop lifting, flirting, and generally lose their edge when they marry as they think they don't need to anymore. It also upsets the new wife so they stop. Next thing you know your married to a cunt and its really YOU that changed. My wife fell in love with a douchebag who was seeing multiple women. Used to disappear on her for weeks. Good news…
/r/askTRP29/11/14 12:18 AM
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Subtext games and double meanings. Once I learned to abandon logic and reason in favor of implying things....I started to get what I want
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:16 PM
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You should listen more and talk less. The endorsed posters here have incredible insight to share
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:01 PM
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Raven....what about turning your wife into a plate? Obviously don't tell her. Then spend time fucking other women, getting assets in safe places, living with your kids til they are more mature and can handle it? Have you ever seen something like that work?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 09:59 PM
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I believe you. Still....they are dumb as fuck to ask these matters
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 08:33 PM
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I disagree that everything there is useless. I wasn't sure if I was fully unplugged until I threw up after reading this "advice" "I read my wife's texts and she mentioned how wet she gets when thinking about her workmate ....Bill. I don't know what to do." Just explain to her how you saw the phone Buzz and happened to glance at it. Tell her how incredibly hurt you feel. Talk it though to make sure you are not taking something out of context"
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 08:31 PM
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If you have any doubts how far along you have come in RP internalization....go browse these subs like r relationships and dead bedrooms. You will be blown away
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:17 PM
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I interview on campus for my bank. This question would never be asked. Never. Not because it's not important. Because of fear of lawsuits
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:14 PM
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I posted and suggested to the guy whose wife drools over the colleague that he should lift too. I got downvoted to hell
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:09 PM
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This is exactly the problem I see on wall street. Women want to take six months off for each kid, work from home on Fridays,not travel to see clients but still be considered for promotions against men who run circles around them.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 12:53 PM
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I had no idea how far I have come in the last few months til I lurked in dead bedrooms or r relationships. "My wife told her friend she likes my co workers physique...boo hoo..don't tell me to lift because I don't want to" "My wife won't have sex with me so I started to leave work early twice a week to help with the laundry and cooking. I also told her how incredibly painful this is for me." Although I was never THIS much of a pussy I don't think I would have seen exactly how lost these folks ar…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 12:49 PM
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Can't wait to meet you on the book tour. I wonder if the joy of paleo sex would sell better. More sizzle?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 12:40 PM
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Same here. Was actually affair advice I was googling for. Keys for me turning it around : pass shit tests instead of argue and Demand sex no asking for it. That's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/14 02:43 AM
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Years ago I would take girls shopping. Buy them an outfit and fuck them in the dressing room. They all loved it. I didn't know RP then but it makes sense why they liked it so much. Perfect display of AF/BB. Every girl and I mean EVERY girls eyes lit up when I suggested this.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:04 AM
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She means " a girl NEVER knows what she really wants"
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 12:29 AM
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Except for your sons. Making them independent is your primary goal as a father
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:09 PM
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This "prize mentality" post was fucking great. I have re read it three times. True sidebar material
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 04:48 PM
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Definitely not. Im sensitive to how harmful "fake dread" can be
/r/askTRP25/11/14 08:44 PM
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Thanks for this. Still. .ill try some new stuff based on feedback. If it works.. ill keep it up
/r/askTRP25/11/14 02:08 PM
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Eh....sometimes I answer them. I just dont think "seeing a client for a drink" has any effect. Looking for witty smart response like skorchgangs suggestion. We are compatible when she lets me lead which is now the case again. i wont ever be compatible (compliant..) with anyone again. Still thanks for chiming in.made me think a bit which is what I wanted
/r/askTRP25/11/14 02:07 PM
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She could be cheating. She definitely has lied about spending time with guy friends that years ago I had trouble with as I was beta. Spending time I mean lunch. Drinks with larger groups etc. Who knows? She is highly unlikely to do better than me. Im not hamstring. Its true. While she is still pretty cute she is 40 with two kids. I have the kick ass job and life that she wants to hold on to and ride. This is not a story of a lifelong beta coming out of shell. I simply lost my edge when kids came…
/r/askTRP25/11/14 02:03 PM
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This was what I originally thought. When in doubt. Be a dick about it. The questions don't bother me. In fact I enjoy seeing her twist. Just wondering if there is more effective response and some good advice here. Yea...I have a good job and make all the money. I actually think she much less likely to cheat now as her mind stuck my growing power in the relationship. Some differences of opinion here but I appreciate the different views. At the end of the day this stuff isn't one size fits all.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:15 PM
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Lot of helpful advice here. I can certainly tone down the teasing and try some non answers rock star style. I think I have enjoyed watching her squirm too much. Revenge for the time I spent in the beta penalty box which was really MY fault not hers. The surprise affection has been happening anyways. I have been pushing and pulling on her emotions by "being very busy" and quiet for a few days then out of blue getting a sitter and taking her out for drinks and snacks and fucking etc. Then a day la…
/r/askTRP25/11/14 11:58 AM
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Thanks for that perspective. I'll answer questions more honestly and see what happens. But..i am beyond worrying about her cheating. Spent enough time thinking about that shit. Been there done that and it sure sucks.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 02:42 AM
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"surprise her with a box of chocolates, but when she opens the box, instead of chocolates there's a gym membership card inside with a bow on it." imagine the 2X comments if that story got posted
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:58 AM
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Good work Boss. I do believe I can learn from you
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:54 AM
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why do you intentionally go for fatties? and never speak to girls in real life? this reeks of bullshit
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 12:56 AM
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this sound exactly like something my wife would say
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:25 PM
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I think this post is the BEGINNING of a really really good conversation rather the the final word. I would like to ask a question: if there is no free will then how does one DECIDE to swallow RP?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 09:12 PM
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You dont want to share all your anxieties, concerns, and problems with your wife. She will lose all attraction. Go separately if you need to talk
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/14 11:21 PM
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I mentioned this before but it's important not to take our eyes off the ball. At my bank there are young girls out of college who come in to the analyst program and get tons of attention and they follow one of two multi year paths: Find a managing director and get engaged. Or become a managing director and "have it all". The have it all girls are bitter cunts and married to stay at home husbands. These guys even have nannies to help them. Cleaning ladies etc. They do nothing all day but smoke we…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 02:57 AM
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This is core reading. I had no idea what a shit test was last summer. I failed almost all of them. First few times I held frame I saw fear in my wife's eyes. Confusion too. She still tries to unnerve me and its pure evil fun for me to blow through them with a smirk or condescending comment. We NEVER fight anymore because I am too busy laughing at the 14 year old girl that she really is.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:03 AM
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I'm here about three months and have woken up with cold sweats at some of my beta moments that happened ten years ago. Im also becoming very happy as I am becoming ground zero of the source of my happiness. Skorchzang....its so clear how you transcended to RP truth. Thanks for your frequent posts
/r/askTRP21/11/14 11:55 PM
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OK.. update...The 2-3 times per week usually happens if we go out that night or I sext from work that we should drink some wine and fool around etc. Nightly sex or 100% unplanned sex really has not been in the cards. Last night I had to go out for a work dinner ad was to meet a friend for a drink afterwards. I blew off the friend and got home by 9. At Ten my wife changes into panties to sleep and I just went for it. Was hit with shit test. "lets jut cuddle" I cuddled for 5 mins while I ripped of…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/14 12:02 PM
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I kind of think TALKING about a affair isnt so "terrible". You made it plain that your needs are not met and calmly discussed the POSSIBILITY of it happening. How long ago was this? Do you need to reinforce?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/14 11:49 AM
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First time I said no my phone blew up. Now I never get asked .
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/14 02:13 AM
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I am partial to blondes so you can discount my observation accordingly: Asian women hit the wall later. Also less hang ups about sex as they have no Judeo Christian guilt
/r/askTRP20/11/14 11:41 PM
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But it won't download
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/14 09:15 PM
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If we enforced this rule than all the managing directors at Morgan Stanley and the internet start up CEOs would get shut out. No woman would marry them because they are ASSHOLES.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:09 PM
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Definitely not literally. Communication has gotten so much better since I shut the fuck up. Now I just communicate with actions
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/14 06:46 PM
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Im gonna do exactly that. This sounds like sex god method which I am having trouble downloading for free. It seems very expensive. ...anyone have a link or the ability to send it to me?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/14 06:45 PM
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Glad you enjoyed my post I am getting points because everyone realizes my inner beauty is what truly counts.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 05:57 PM
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y enough last week she took my cock in her mouth when we were switch ing positions. First time in years cuz " she doesn't like to do that" I took that a a sign im on right track
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/14 04:01 PM
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I think this is a great idea Also....nightclubs should require men to wear hats so women don't see my thinning hair. Also..women are forbidden to know my occupation or salary until they agree to marriage. This way women get to know the real me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 01:52 PM
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I'm guessing we keep seeing these Indian beta man stories due to the incredible pressure in this culture to not marry outside their community. Interesting to me is that Jewish communities feel the same way but you never read about the Jewish princess riding Christian cock and settling for her Jewish beta bucks at the wall. I have no explanation. Just an observation
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 01:42 PM
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If you asked a 37 year old milf with two small kids this same question you would never get this honesty That's because she is unconsciously still looking for the upgrade. Disney should make a movie about that
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:24 PM
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Next time I catch wife lying about ANYTHING...I am using this line: Ok..I am going to lie about how committed I am to you. Game over
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:47 AM
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Lift hard. Get into the best college you can. Get good grades in a major that actually matters to employers (think engineering,finance not English). Play team sports if you like them, or join clubs where you are learning (chess, astronomy etc). You will be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:44 AM
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Talk to your buddies about this stuff. This realization you are having hurts but will get better Good luck
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:12 AM
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Even physical pain turns women off. I had a disc issue last year and was in excruciating pain for two months. My wife was annoyed with me. I was so angry that she could be so insensitive but now that I unplugged it makes sense. She was following her biology...I was weak and that's not attractive. Now....I don't tell her when anything hurts. Emotionally or physically. She isn't my momma
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:54 AM
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My dad put up with a couple of my mother's affairs. He was afraid of losing touch with his kids. Giving away dough etc He set such a bad example for me.....until red pill I honestly never thought to be the stronger one in the relationship. I didn't know how to say no. But to answer your question....he was married to my mom for more than 20 years until she died.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:45 AM
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No ..he means something critical and useless like what he posted. Even though the mods asked for it to stop
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:59 PM
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Welcome to the Redpill gents
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 11:44 PM
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Did she know you were going to med school when you went no contact?
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:35 PM
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You can meet with a doctor and find out. Neuropsyche exam. That way you can get best treatment
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:33 PM
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should read: Men, what are the "little things" you DID for your SO that caused her to walk all over you?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:03 AM
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I grill because I am awesome at it AND I prefer cooking and drinking beers outside while wife cleans, bathes kids, does laundry, etc etc etc
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:00 AM
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This is a really good post that would have frightened me off in my BP days My family life is so much better now that I come home and laugh at my wife's complaining. I used to get so annoyed and upset and angry etc. Now I just tell her to knock it off. Or smirk at her. Basically I am a dick about any non specific "problems". I don't try to fix it. I don't let my mood change. Funny thing is....she very quickly now adapt to MY mood.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:27 PM
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People ? Yes....low people only good for one thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:38 PM
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What the fuck? This isn't a movie...what if she has a head on and kills three kids before she gets pulled over?
/r/askTRP17/11/14 11:58 AM
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I can see that working. Ty
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:13 PM
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Don't go back unless you have to. Many of you will see later in life that many companies refuse give fair raises UNTIL you have another job offer. They tend to counter quick but this is only because they would prefer to get rid of you on their timetable not yours. Once you show them you are not a pushover they hamster and call you "disloyal". Your time is limited until they can replace you with a pussy that won't balk at mistreatment.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 05:40 PM
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If I were a billionaire there is about zero shot I would marry
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 05:28 PM
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This is great. I have heard a variation...keep your friends close and your enemies closer I assumed this meant to keep a close watch on the enemy. Law #2 implies enemies can serve YOUR purpose. Does anyone have good examples of one's enemies HELPING your cause?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 05:25 PM
1

Take up an old team sport from childhood. Basketball, soccer , hockey whatever. Find a rec league and make some new friends
/r/askTRP16/11/14 01:45 PM
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I can see why it's s continuous struggle
/r/askTRP16/11/14 01:43 PM
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That would make it easier. Don't offer advice unless asked It's hard to see a good bud drown though. Like I said before I never offer to fix my woman's problems anymore so I could see applying this to friends. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/11/14 01:41 PM
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A great piece of advice I received in Sales Training is to NEVER CONFIRM MEETINGS. Just gives em another chance to say No.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 10:41 PM
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Hard to say what you mean exactly as you wrote very little but it SOUNDS like you are saying: I want women to adore me but I don't want to do any of the work or feel any of the pain that is required.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 10:36 PM
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Yes. I have been so focussed on myself that I forgot this. Thanks
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:57 PM
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I think I need to ask these guys if they want my advice. I guess I wrongly assumed that someone distressed about a problem and telling me about it would be open to some kind of counsel. I've spent so much time here lately where men are so keen to hear the truth even when it hurts. I've changed so much and forgot the rest of the world didnt
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:56 PM
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Perhaps I have been too quick to offer a fix. I need to treat these friends as I do my wife. I never offer her advice anymore and that's working
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:55 PM
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I think this is my point...my tolerance for pure whining is thin now
/r/askTRP15/11/14 08:54 PM
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I hope this thread blows up as I am hungry for advice. Have a boy and girl . Both under ten. The relationship with my girl is fantastic. The knowledge I acquired here has really driven home how important I am to her. It's really clarified what she needs from me.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:43 AM
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I have seen that look. Women talking about their "3 kids" when they really have two. They look physically ill when describing their husbands following them around telling them their anxieties. I used to just think they were complaining as women often do. BUT. That look on their face confirms everything I learned here
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 11:38 AM
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That's you using her. Hardly a friend
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:01 AM
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There is never the RIGHT time to have kids. Always more money to make, women to fuck, places to see etc. If you want kids you really should do it in a marriage. At least start that way and fight hard to maintain it. It sounds like you met a woman who enjoys her place in your life. Hope that helps
/r/askTRP14/11/14 03:49 AM
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Who really wants to be friends with a woman? And not fuck them? Why?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:38 PM
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One of the first things I did when swallowing pill was say no to these errand requests that wife could easily do herself. The first few times she blew up my phone telling me how selfish I was. Now she knows I am way to busy and important to be bothered and she never asks. The only thing about my schedule that changed is my unwillingness to be a manservant
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:36 PM
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I think my wife could find a guy. He would be megabeta. Probably a guy whose wife left him already about mid 40s. It makes it easier for her if she has most of my dough
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:09 PM
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Ha Well I did find out after the fact that in my state it is hard but not impossible to move kids away from an active father. Gents..know your kids teachers and friends names. Clothing sizes too. Find a weekly activity that is just you and the kid. Make the hurdle as high for her as you can
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:06 PM
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You make solid points. I didn't mention that this happened years ago before I found red pill. Yes we would fight because I would lose frame and let her moods infect mine. Still... I was never a complete pussy and knew enough to create disincentives to leaving me. Now we rarely fight but it has much more to do with the fact that I actually believe (and am) the best my wife can do. I forgot to tell her it's all downhill from here and had to remind her there was no exit package.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:02 PM
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New York...they just take half. You are fucked
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:40 AM
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I have done this. It's financial dread game I live in an expensive city and my stay at home wife can't afford our apartment on half my salary. Once in a fight she mentioned "taking the kids away from me". I very calmly told her that I would fight any relocation to the death and she would be forced to move out of our luxurious apartment and work full-time to stay within 50 miles of here. I told her the state would never allow her to separate kids from an involved parent. No idea if it's true but …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:34 AM
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A kid needs more from his father than someone be "being a part of his life". I'm not thinking about FWB or you when I say this: The kid deserves more. Don't be a part of this bad decision.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 03:37 AM
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Now that I unplugged and look around my kids classrooms and soccer practices I see a lot of unhappy bitchy shrews who are forced into a leadership role they don't want. The few perky milfs all have a man leading the way.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 10:42 PM
1

Don't ask. She will just lie anyway. Asking will make you look weak. Instead run dread game. Then when she leaves town she is busy wondering what you are up to
/r/askTRP12/11/14 03:01 AM
1

That's a minor change in wording with major implications. Yes ...much better
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:44 AM
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DREAD works but it's like ibuprofen. Wears off. Then you need more. Women have short memories
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:29 PM
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I banged lots of hookers when I was young. I did it because it was fun!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:52 AM
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That's a good reminder. Next time my wife tells me about some friend that got cheated on or separated...I'm going to actively side with the guy who dumped her. "Two sides to every story babe...maybe their sex life sucked"
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 11:50 AM
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Well said. Women are great for so many reasons. Fucking, child raising, the adoration they give you when your frame is correct. There is a place for them in my life. BUT... Making a woman the source of your happiness is a bad idea that somehow got sold to today's man. Enjoy the femininity but keep your eyes wide open. You would not turn your back on a wild animal would you?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:49 AM
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The old me would never mention the coworker because it would be "mean". You just skillfully proved that this dread made your LTR happy. She forgot what a catch you are. Women need to be reminded constantly.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:21 AM
1

I have two kids and learned that there is no "getting through to her" about matters like this. Have the relationship with your son that you want. Handle her bitching about it the same way we handle everything else. Tell her once and only once that this is your son and you will be the father that he needs. When she complains you treat it like the shit test that it is. What the fuck does your wife know about raising a boy? Also...your MILs opinion means almost nothing. I often remind my wife that …
/r/askTRP10/11/14 11:54 PM
2

This is a woman in her 30s who will stay in touch with her exes, who will "have a crush" on her boss, and will actively compare her husband to every man doing better than him. Total attention whore
/r/askTRP10/11/14 06:05 AM
2

Seems you hold frame well with your wit. I am trying to do same but sometimes I have to fall back on being an asshole. Hopefully I can commit some of these quips to memory.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:59 AM
6

I work in sales at a bank. I have regularly seen hot late 20s women do a great job IF they are managed by an older salty sales veteran. The kind of guy who truly manages the client relationship THROUGH the hot chick. She becomes the face of the firm but NEVER has a difficult conversation with a client. She brings her boss in for that! She is truly the sexy voice every day and does dinners and lunches.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:54 AM
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In this case I think it's not a lie but a very gradual case of the badass mama slowly "falling out of love" with her underachieving husband. Remember....she is surrounded by guys who get shit done all day. When she comes home and the husband is actively managing his fantasy football team and not sending out resumes...her pussy dries up.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:40 AM
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It is important to have SOMEONE around for "read with your child day class visits", sick days, early dismissals, etc. School ends at two thirtyish. If mom is a kick ass I banker than her kids need chess and soccer and swim lessons right? The problem is that when DAD is the one handling all this stuff then MOM has zero attraction to him. Knowing what we know here...how the fuck could she?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:35 AM
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Good Question. Based on what I have seen they meet in college or when she was a rising analyst or VP. At my bank one isn't considered for MD til they have 10 to 15 years in. At this point they have hit the wall (many times they hit it earlier than normal due to stress) and already married and have a kid or two. So she is fucking busy and the nanny costs like 3 to 4 k a month cuz mom works 75 hours a week AND travels so they CONCLUDE that dad isn't going anywhere with his career and is always und…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 05:28 AM
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I work at a top bank and can tell you that almost every female managing director is either divorced or married to a stay at home dad. The married ones have zero respect for their pot smoking husbands. They treat them like the employees they order around. No difference.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:53 PM
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And I thought divorce rates shot up for 50+ women cause the kids were grown and their SMV dropped 90 percent. This brain rewiring is strike fucking 3.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 01:05 PM
2

I am not surprised that you guys are happy. I am surprised that she thought any part of red pill was a good idea. Even though all of us now know it is the only idea
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 02:33 AM
1

The second you told her to file was the instant she doubted her life without you. In that second she knew she would be better off with you than leaving
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 02:31 AM
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Sadly it doesn't always "work". Mine didn't til I recently learned to regularly pass shit tests and liberally use dread. Now it's almost as good as when we were dating. When you fail your wife's shit tests you argue a lot. Then you would rather jerk off to porn. Next thing you know a couple weeks gone by. So many guys I know been married 10 or 15 years and fuck their wives once a month at best. Until you unplug you think this is normal. You get kinda mad but you have no idea that it's your own f…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 12:03 AM
1

and custody? I could give a rats ass about the dough
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:37 AM
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Its painfully obvious that many people here are quite young and here strictly for the PUA. An endorsed user is told to look at the bright side of having his daughter taken from his house... EASY PUSSY!!! I have a son. All I want is for him to turn out just like me (maybe a little better). The kid would do ANYTHING to make me happy but hey... if his mom moves him across the country then its cool... weekends are free for banging sluts.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:34 AM
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There is gonna be a bull market for Red Pill lawyers and accountants. Thank you feminism!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:09 PM
1

It happens. Now get back to the gym since you're patched up. Look for a new job. Don't stress if it takes time to find one. Just focus on the search. Keep that shitty car spotless. Find new girls. Be fucking excited about it.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:13 PM
2

You are probably better than you think. Work on your confidence
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:26 AM
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I agree 100 percent. This is not about race. It's af/bb. Just so happens that many of these girls have a red carpet leading to unlimited beta bucks of their own race
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:17 AM
1

Especially when she settled for the Indian provider
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:14 AM
3

The race card almost irrelevant. Tons of pain from beta bucks who can't get pussy til they find a post wall woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:12 AM
1

You could tell her that she is great but there isn't enough chemistry to start a relationship. Wish her good luck then no more contact
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:21 AM
2

Messenger always gets shot. Don't tell him
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:19 AM
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This is good advice. So many little "mistakes" should just not be mentioned. Forget them. Never happened
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:14 AM
1

Tell her to bring the other guy along
/r/askTRP06/11/14 12:11 AM
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Many many many of the participants here are still young and building their lives. Having a healthy distrust of marriage/LTD will serve them well as they move forward in their careers and hobbies. I hope many of them achieve great things and THEN some may decide to do exactly what you suggest. Have a family because you want one. Not because the girl you are dating is 27 and feels "it's time". These men will also know that "settling down" is bullshit. Starting a family is no excuse to "relax and b…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 12:04 AM
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Let's be realistic. Most men whose wives cheat don't threaten the other guys life. If the neighbor seems violent then yes this should be part of the decision. I would not do the wife. My reason would be to avoid seeing her after I was tired of the slit. You can't next the neighbor. I'm guessing some of you think this neighbors marriage is on firmer ground now that OP decides to pass? Because I am sure this whore won't just fuck some other guy now...
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:56 AM
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I never said he needed this pussy. He asked if he should take it because he wants it. I said the fact that she is married has no bearing on the decision. Her proximity is meaningful. That's all
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:50 AM
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I never said he needed this pussy. He asked if he should take it because he wants it. I said the fact that she is married has no bearing on the decision. Her proximity is meaningful. That's all
/r/askTRP05/11/14 11:50 AM
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You are generalizing. Men leave wives less often but it does happen. Divorce rape is the main reason men are more loyal. The second reason is that kids need their mother more than their father the first 15years of their lives. I do agree that women and men bond differently. Men truly can love more than one woman at a time. Woman love themselves. They bond for their present and future perceived survival
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:43 AM
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I can understand why some folks advise OP not to do this because he owns his home and may want to avoid a messy situation should the affair go public. I can't understand the people here advising not to do it because neighbor is married. Read the sidebar and leave your personal feelings about commitment and relationships at the door. This is a sub about sexual strategy. If you got cheated on its not your job to prevent it from happening to someone else. It IS your job to understand why it happens
/r/askTRP05/11/14 01:38 AM
1

Can you give some examples of "just enough dread"?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:24 AM
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True but the main reason is the laws PAY the woman to end her marriage and severely penalize the man for the same exact thing. I would fuck the shit out of a woman 15 years and 3 notches of SMV above my wife but then I get to give away half my shit and see my kids once every 14 days
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:17 AM
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Once I got to level 4ish the sex came roaring back. From monthly maintenance sex to really hot fucking 3 times a week. Oral came back. So did slutty lingerie. Dread is effective. PERIOD. Remind your woman you don't need her and she will NEED you. She shows you she needs you by fucking your brains out.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:09 PM
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Most of us won't get to 10. Dread so powerful it works well before these draconian levels. I think this is the outline of the book OP is writing more than a flowchart of what to do and when
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:03 PM
5

I like these lines...."we are just friends" and "you are like a sister to me". Do they work as negs on plates?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:03 AM
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Barrister...I think you have abundance mentality down cold. Great story.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 02:00 AM
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Details is the gayest fag mag out there That being said . ./u/breaking_pleb nailed it
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:51 AM
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You always DO pay for the sex you have. Couldn't be more true. Would love to see this topic blow up.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 12:33 PM
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I found this place while on a sure road to divorce. As I improve myself and as my attitude changes..the marriage got better. My marriage needed me to care less not more. Wife senses this and stepped up her game in many ways. Best of all it is on a positive loop now where it continues to improve How long have you been feeling this way and why?
/r/askTRP02/11/14 11:50 AM
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Once I was so unhappy with my bonus I didn't say a word during the meeting where the number was communicated. Didn't want to lose my cool.Later I asked my boss to sit down and he eagerly agreed as he really didn't know what to make of my silence. I told him to try again. That the number was a mistake right? He told me it was set in stone and he hoped that he could do better next year. I called a competitor that had been interested and we worked out something much better for me. Then I called out…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:49 AM
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My wife loves to ask me to do "favors". Now I FUCKING love shooting them down. She gets upset for about ....ten seconds, but now I understand she isn't really upset I didn't do the favor. She is upset that I am strong enough to say no and now she has to raise.her game.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 02:31 AM
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Good for you bro! I am a couple months in with a very similar story. I was failing shit tests and getting angry or upset. Then I wouldn't ask for sex...you can figure out the rest Now I welcome the bad moods or drama. It's an opportunity to show my dominance. Since I am not angry....I am eager telling wife I want to fuck and she does it. The more time that goes by, the hotter the sex. Blowjobs are back etc. Glad to hear others feel same way
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/14 02:14 AM
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I look forward to your book. Raising boys redpill from the beginning is about as Alpha as it gets. Where does all this important knowledge go if we all go MGTOW? Or we all l spin plates til our graves?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 08:44 PM
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preschool moms and the local soccer moms are fantastic for dread. Many of them are hungry for attention and much much more.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:38 PM
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Many of us found RP after we got married. Unplugging does not have to mean giving away half your shit and seeing your kids every other weekend. Unplugging can mean living for yourself, raising your kids YOUR way, dominating your wife, pounding local milfs whose husbands are Beta, etc... There are plenty of endorsed folks here who have a SO and are living life EXACTLY as they want to do so. Your advice is sound for YOUR life and that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 12:25 PM
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Dread works. Every time I read a FR where someone here employs it.... I do SAME EXACT thing as OP and have great sex THAT night. Shit Tests basically disappear for at least 3-4 days too. I look forward to Bluepillprofessors book on this subject. Keep the FR on DREAD coming... they are so useful
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 12:12 PM
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I can relate to the "problem" of wife proving sex but not "enjoying" it like years ago. Who wants a pity fuck right? The other night I rubbed my wife's back when lights went out and she pulled away hard. First time in a couple months she declined me. Not sure why it pissed me off more than normal but the next morning I didn't say goodbye or respond to any emails (8) or phone calls(1). I had planned on doing this for three or four days but she immediately asked me if I was "verybusy" that day. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/14 01:29 AM
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Walking away laughing is my next move. Definitely trying this on my woman's next "performance". Since every night is theatre night in my house I should have some good feedback by the weekend. Great post here thrownaway. Gents....I used to dread coming home and walked on eggshells. Now I eagerly anticipate wife's bullshit. It just gives me another opportunity to show her I am the boss.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:08 AM
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I bet she fucks you by New Years
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:13 AM
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Agreed. saying no is a great SEXUAL strategy. Try that shit with a partner at the firm you work for? Not smart
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:12 AM
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Since you are asking for general hiring/networking/job searching I can add some color. I am a mid level (VP, not MD) salesman for an investment bank. One of the banks the public loooves to hate. I am very active in recruiting for the bank at my alma matter (large Eastern school). Recently I interviewed a dozen candidates for a summer job that is the gateway to a full time offer. The level of competition is insane. There are some RP qualities that are very helpful when you want to standout in thi…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:05 AM
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Access is a key part of marriage and so many of us forget this when "beta". Love reading your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:39 PM
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Stare at her mouth instead. She won't know difference
/r/askTRP27/10/14 01:58 AM
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Open your eyes. Do not be angry at their nature. Learn to handle them Good post because learning the above is actually a PROCESS and not a FACT that can be absorbed by reading a single text. I am sure we dont have 79,000 people here who fully accept that women are not evil and are just trying to get by like the rest of us. I am also sure that I want to enjoy what the Feminine can offer without having my balls ripped off (again and again..). its impossible to go lift and read the sidebar and inst…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 07:46 PM
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How does this answer change if its a wife? Are you going to have hundreds more? Or is the answer exactly the same?
/r/askTRP26/10/14 06:11 PM
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|Once you see that women are manipulative, scheming, disloyal little children, you can play the game to win, with victory being however you define it for yourself. Distrusting them is a great idea. Disliking them is perfectly understandable. this is why women cant be friends with eachother...they know what we had to learn
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 06:04 PM
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you can be damn sure if the opportunity presents itself I am taking the plunge. Can you be clearer about taking the plunge? Some of the LTR advice around here is fantastic and can be universally applied. But... I have seen conflicting messages regarding married MEN having plates, cheating etc... If your not comfortable sharing for very obvious reasons.. I get it
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 11:19 PM
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This contradicts abundance mentality. The best way to keep a woman acting right is fear of being replaced.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:34 AM
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I wonder how my marriage would have been if I knew red pill from the beginning. I am happy I found it....but it's been a tourniquet not a cure. Perhaps more time is needed. Perhaps I found it too late. Like many of married guys here I didn't need red pill when I was single. I kicked ass UNTIL I gave my commitment. Now I know better. My commitment is revocable if I am mistreated
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:12 AM
1

some folks are here to complain. no matter what the post.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 02:16 AM
1

I clicked because I wanted to make sure I dont have the OPPOSITE of any of the 12 traits.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 01:43 AM
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|Then, she's surprised when you buy yourself a drink instead of her, point out the beer stain on her dress, and ask her to introduce you to her ugly friend. This is the funniest thing I have read in weeks. And... I am sure it would work too! Arch -- your posts are treasures
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 01:27 AM
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thank you for asking- I need help shaping my response (if any). I came home unexpectedly at noon thinking she would just be leaving and I could ask casually where she is going. No one home. I called and she had rode bike to the neighborhood where lunch would be. I asked why there so early as I know she is there for school pickup and got some bullshit answer about checking out places for a friends baby shower. Now that is trickle truth as this place is a potential place for the shower but she cle…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 05:36 PM
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There are no unicorns. BUT..... some women certainly are "easier" than others. If she responds well to your leadership and you sense low financial risk than you could consider her. Just make sure you learn from us older guys here that marriage/kids is no time to take foot off gas and "be yourself". That shit will get you divorced. Or worse... doing all the cooking and laundry while SHE is working/out with friends etc I KNEW how to play field and date women BUT... no one told me that I needed to …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:56 AM
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|we receive massive happiness and rewards from growing them and watching them accomplish shit as we get old. well said brother. I want my son to grow up just like me (but a little better). He would do anything to make me happy. My daughter is the love of my life and about as UNcomplicated as any female relationship that have ever had.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:44 AM
1

Even the champs take a beating
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:34 AM
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I cant answer this for you. I always wanted kids and knew this is the right path for me. Its not easy as NEXT is not an easy option for bad behavior. I found this place around the same time I was calling attorneys and starting spinning a plate. Things are much much better since I started taking back control.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:17 AM
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I'd have to get up at 4am to pull that off but it really does sound great
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:02 AM
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Obviously I can do as I please but I am confused why this particular lunch remains undisclosed. Zero shot she has something going on with THIS guy (at least in years). I suspect: She is SAHM and feels guilty of having recreational time (then she cant bitch to me how HARD her day is!) OR She fears I will "do lunch" and she cant moan about it. Still.... I want to know if she will tell me these things truthfully. I am new to RP for a couple months and have been holding frame like a champ. I fear as…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:38 AM
1

good idea. I'll have to ask right before as if I asked NOW... she may just say yes and cxl on the friend. Like I said.. this isnt the guy I'd have questions about. Just puzzling that its a secret.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:25 AM
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Don't rule out the pleasure of having kids. You certainly don't need to get married to do this.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:31 AM
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Best girl ever found = special snowflake. Unicorn. I am married and also agree that it's the best way to raise kids. Kids are fucking great. I also believe AWALT. "Marrying the best girl I found" is male hamstering. You can be married and happy. But not because of soul mate disney bullshit. You stay happy because you put yourself first
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:27 AM
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Is it fair to say that freeze outs create mild anxiety in women as attention and validation vanish? Fair to say that all out panic develops when she sees her SO connecting with a different woman? Call it dread or not. Both strategies have been key to repairing my relationships. Both tactics demonstrate high value. Great post Arch. I look forward to all your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:11 AM
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MODS - your work is much appreciated. This message was very clear.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 02:21 AM
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You make a good point.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:18 AM
1

Maybe I really don't yet know what the fuck I want. Sometimes I think I want to find something when there isn't anything there cuz I'M the one up to no good. I should probably lurk more and write less.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:17 AM
1

Her beauty is a shit test. Not sure I agree but it's certainly thought provoking
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:11 AM
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He made a change. Saw results and shared. What do you think a field report looks like? Maybe it didn't help YOU so it's no good?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:02 AM
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This is why I stay committed. My boy should know the truth from the beginning
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:51 AM
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"but i wasn't getting laid so i decided to use my skills to network" Thought this was exactly the point of FR. OP transformed his body, ditched the LTR with single mom, read about game and continued to focus on self even though womens attention remained elusive. Perhaps title should have been--"Keep raising SMV... it will happen!" Well done. I wish knew as much as OP when I was his age.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 05:32 PM
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True. But how do you tell your kids when they are grown and had to deal with separation and divorce that Dad THOUGHT something wrong...? I am willing to bet ANYTHING you are far younger and have way less responsibility than I do. I appreciate your advice but I think NEXT does not apply to the married and older NEW RPs. Happy to hear your response.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 03:24 AM
1

Old Redder makes good points. Lets discuss Marriage in a no fault state. All cash is mine.. as usual. While you bring up valid points about the end game of the twisted legal system... leverage on my side can force a more equitable settlement. A man can dream no?
/r/askTRP04/10/14 03:19 AM
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did this. Well.. her laptop was left elsewhere for 2 weeks and there is nothing blatant in gmail, FB, YHOO etc. Keylogger is great..! the phone would be final frontier
/r/askTRP04/10/14 03:15 AM
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its iphone 5. no idea on back up. you have thoughts?
/r/askTRP04/10/14 03:12 AM
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I would be interested in hearing from Men who are married AND spinning a plate or two. They must be here
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:24 AM
1

Some of us found RP AFTER we were married. Its not so easy to give away half your loot and see your kids every other weekend. My little boy would do ANYTHING to make me happy. My little girl still doesn't know she cant marry Dad. I don't think I answered your question as much as I explained my internal struggle but I hope that helps.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:20 AM
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I am new to RP in last couple months. Wife noticed right away. Pissy moods stopped and as shit tests were passed... respect came back. Today I was asked where I went to lunch, who am I texting(on subway), and she brought me a pint of ice cream from supermarket when I didnt even eat that shit when I was 10 pounds heavier and kissing her ass to not start a fight. SO is not initially happy with you raising SMV. Period.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:15 AM
1

Read Archwingers post this week about respecting yourself to gain others respect. I'll never forget it
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:02 AM
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Roger that. My dad is Alpha as fuck. Vietnam Vet. Narcissistic beyond belief yet somehow he never showed me to stand up for me first. This will not happen with my son
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 01:57 AM
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I am not bitter with anyone for MAKING me BP. I found this sub and am FIXING my life. I DO think its a whole lot easier for younger single guys to get through the stages than a married 40 year old with kids. Best case is damage control if you wanna see em grow up in your house. THAT is what I am still bitter about
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:11 PM
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correct- I appreciate everyone's post. I should have been clearer. I want in to the phone as I just want to take back maximum leverage in relationship. I have already swallowed pill and put my life first. I think "peeking" is the only solution here. was hoping to hear about some magic invisible dust I could sprinkle on keypad Keylogging ones own computer is genius and a good tip for those who want to do it. I had done that in past and found my way into every email ad social networking site. Its …
/r/askTRP03/10/14 10:52 AM
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I agree. I am married with children and have been taking back this leverage successfully. Thrilled with TRP for giving me the framework to find my best self and achieve happiness. I am still confused on what an "end state" looks like. As others have mentioned:marriage means I failed the biggest shot test and now it's about damage control Thank you all for helping me on this journey
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:11 AM
2

Was googling for relationship advice and found a humorous article called good wife bad wife on return of kings. I was shocked. Seemed like someone was writing about me.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:55 AM
1

Gotta think some men straddle paths...married and banging sluts. This is not a judgement. Just an observation
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 10:45 AM
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This......I am working hard on transferring my past anger to ME. I was the pushover who allowed bad things to happen.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:46 PM
1

Solid advice. I tend to tease my SO about guys that I know give her tingles. Not in a jealous way....but in a way she knows that I know but don't feel threatened. Your way is better
/r/askTRP29/09/14 10:37 PM
1

I actually agree. Damage control is the best way to describe the goal of TRP in a marriage. Thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:31 AM
7

Sounds like you are happy. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:59 AM
2

Especially if the reading taught you something NOT to do
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:57 PM
1

That is an interesting point. Thank you. So far I have found that my shit marriage as BP is actually ok now that I have pushed back. Nagging and complaining has stopped. Sex is back. I do what I want now. Still...it's very early. Time will tell.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:53 PM
2

Should married men have actual plates? Or should they maintain such high SMV and that they don't fear a breakup in LTR?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:47 PM
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I am sure the higher the value the woman then the more likely plan B exists. Since swallowing RP I have not openly let these escape hatch guys get to me at all. I barely acknowledge their existence which seems to lower their value in SO eyes. I wish I was at point when I gave zero fucks but I guess fake it til you make it. It's coming.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:16 AM
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I am married and can promise you that the ONLY reason to stick it out is for the kids. I am ok with splitting assets and starting over. It's just money and you can't that with you. My kids will do much better with me around all the time. RP is giving me the roadmap into making this situation work. It was much easier ten years ago.when I could next a girl. They fall out of line when they think you won't replace them
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:29 PM
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Spot on post. I am new to RP and have seen my wifes nagging bltchy behavior drop dramatically. She also fucks when I tell her to. I am curious if any other married guys were initially asked "why are you being mean" or something to that effect. I am anticipating that shit test and can't really think of anything to deflect
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:23 PM
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I have been thinking about this post all day. As a newbie I am on alert for these tests yet some still go unrecognized til a few hours pass. I HAVE learned to maintain frame at all times. I no longer get visibly upset at these shit tests and this has worked well to temper the unrecognized tests. Passing some and not losing any has been beyond helpful Anyway...I gave some thought tonight on what motivates the shit tests from my wife and had an A-HA moment. When she gets upset about a poor meeting…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:27 AM
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My wife loves to ask for favors.. drive 30 min out of way for something "urgent". For years I would fucking do it thinking it's better to keep the peace and get some alone time. Now I just flat out refuse. No explanation other than I'm busy. Yes...she complains but I ignore the complaint that I don't help out with the family(untrue) Within an hour she is much sweeter. I am still shocked it works so well
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:55 AM
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I will do this. I am actually afraid of my new powers. Effective yes.....dangerous equally so
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:37 AM
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Great story. I keep reading that dread should not be overplayed. Can anyone enlighten me on when it's time to pull back? I have seen my wife's disposition turn so sweet and sexy in the last month but am afraid of overdoing this...
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:41 PM
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good point- makes it clearer---so yes its ok to make her feel that I want to fuck her but dont let her feel that I would be upset if the fucking stopped. "I have other options" kind of attitude
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:57 PM
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Thank you-this is helpful. I have been experimenting with RP for a few weeks (refusing to do favors i.e. shit tests, telling her we going to fuck rather than asking for permission, and instilling dread by mentioning other women) I am blown away by how quickly my marriage improved. Still... I feel I am forcing this a bit.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:50 PM
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Can you go a little deeper how you make her feel desired while simultaneously showing you dont need her? I am new here....
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 11:40 AM
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