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No such thing as a 10/10 in any real relationship. My relationship is a hell of a lot better than it used to be and probably better than most but it is not a 10. I still have to improve and strive and so does she. But the large majority of the time she makes my life better and we have minimal internal drama. MRP was key to getting here
/r/askMRP20/03/18 02:28 AM
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The simple answer is be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. You can not be upset at a woman’s biology. Evolution got us here if women were receptive to disgusting unhealthy sperm our species would end. Focus on being the best you can be. I can guarantee you that Tom Brady could walk around the office in a jock strap and every woman would be happy and there would not be a single complaint to HR. Oh wait there is even an SNL skit like that
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/17 01:07 AM
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Initially when I was in the anger phase the anger motivated me to work out. Nothing like moving something heavy to help feel less frustrated. Now I genuinely enjoy working out. Still need to do more weights but do at least cardio daily and weights 3 to 5 times per week depending on travel. My mistress joins me for the cardio so that keeps us motivated plus she does yoga while I lift at home. Love seeing that ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/17 02:27 AM
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I have actually been open about it. Got my girl a sexy nurse outfit to give me the shot. A woman would never be embarrassed to use makeup to look and feel better. Why should a man be embarrassed about testosterone?
/r/askMRP07/07/17 07:40 PM
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You have no frame. I doubt you understand mrp. So just a few questions Is your wife hot? What country? Can I have her number so I can bang her also while visiting. I promise it will be meaningless and nasty. So you can forgive her and take her back when I am done
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 04:40 PM
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Congratulations on the start of the journey. It is year 1 of the rest of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/17 11:58 PM
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You do realize it is a scripted show? My best guess is that it is part of the script to give betas like you hope while jerking off. But I have not watched wrestling since high school and that is a very long time ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/17 02:34 PM
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Response comes from conditioning. If your wife is not sexually interested in you the only text that will turn her on is an invitation to go fuck someone else. However if you are lifting and have frame you can gradually amp up the flirting and anticipation. Women love to be told to wear something sexy tonight. I think texting is much less effective then giving her a ten second kiss before you leave in the morning and telling her to wear something fun and easily removed when she meets you. Or even…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/17 06:08 PM
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have been good. I have been successful with RP in my relationship and a complete failure trying to have my son see the RP way. He is LTRing a fat feminist harpy and has oneitis for her. gave him the rational male to read, but he read it and ignored it saying it does not apply to him. Maybe after she divorce rapes him he will listen. I have not posted but still read, mostly have not posted because I do not think there is anything remarkable about my journey. I am amazed reading some of the newbie…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 11:19 PM
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Fun post. I think there should be an exception to the text for logistics only rule for ridiculous corny lines. I sometimes purposely will throw down a line you might hear from Brian Fontana (anchorman) in a text to my wife. Usually establishes the idea that things should be silly and sexy. If she ever objects I just remind her that my other girlfriends find them funny
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 09:37 PM
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I just stopped she followed when I refused to wear them
/r/askMRP11/03/17 01:52 AM
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I have personally reached the conclusion that only by having the wife feel that she his now downgraded to a plate but still the primary plate can you maintain this sexual attraction. I do not think women are as attracted to you without constant reminders of the new status. I stopped wearing my ring and asked her to do the same, refer to her publicly as my girlfriend and flirt with other women in front of her. The result is that she is more turned on than ever and talks about dreaming of my cock.…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 10:04 PM
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Part of the structure off a marriage is that it is the husband that becomes the dominant and most respected man in a woman's life not the dad. That is why the father "gives his daughter" away. Your wife must shut down that disrespect. You handled that fine, now your wife must back you up. You deserve that respect.
/r/askMRP28/02/17 08:15 PM
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Pin her against the wall with her arms above her and crossed. Kiss her for 15 seconds without saying a word the undo her pants and literally rip her granny panties off. Trust me she will dying to give you anything you want
/r/askMRP11/12/16 09:50 PM
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Not initiating is the same to a women as showing her that you have no dick. Any women would gladly be the slut to an alpha. Read MMSLP, or don't. If you want me to pity you forget it, I would rather fuck my slutty wife doggy style why holding on to her slave collar.
/r/askMRP10/12/16 05:51 PM
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I had my wife write a promissory note after she slipped in her addictive behavior laying out the exact consequences of another slip. She keeps in her desk as a reminder. Unfortunately I learned that a main event will require repeated reminders of consequences, be prepared for it and do not waver from the path you chose. It will get better but it is never perfect
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 11:28 PM
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what you are missing is that if you are sexually attractive to a woman you do not have to ask for a blow job. When you are Chad your cock is worshipped and she feels privileged to have it in her. But you are not worth having your dick sucked at this point. Stop focusing on the blow job and focus on the man in the mirror.
/r/askMRP24/11/16 03:07 PM
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You are doing fine. As others said. 3 months are just phase 1. I have been at it for a year and yet I still get pissed of at her instead of myself way to often. With time I learned to sftu And redirect the anger to productive activity. But I am far from perfect.
/r/askMRP13/08/16 06:41 PM
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Yes edited
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 08:36 PM
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Mmslp is a great book and is on Amazon as an e-book. It helped open my eyes and changed my direction. It does work. Women are naturally horny just like men. But unlike men they are actually more turned on by physical appearance and demeanor. No man got a blow job because he was great at doing dishes.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:35 PM
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First the last thing you want now is kids. You need to face the reality that your wife picked you out as the beta bucks just like a child molestor picks out vulnerable kids and grooms them. You can not fix her, but you can fix yourself. If and when you become a worth man by reading and following the sidebar your wife may choose to change her behavior. But start with yourself first.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:14 PM
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I got a simple guide from the Dr. that I am working with on my nutrition and hormones. As a man you should wake up with an erection on most mornings if your testosterone is optimal. For me it has been a great benefit. You can say I am cheating by sticking myself with a needle but the results are worth it and not just the sex drive. I feel much more mentally alert, aggressive in business and overall better attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 07:21 PM
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Not cautious - calculating. There are good risks and bad risks. Good risk -> having a blast driving your wrangler. Bad risk ->driving your wrangler after drinking a fifth of jack. My point is that there are simple things that I wish I did when I was younger to make life even better in my age. They would be: 1. Never stop exercising. 2. Limit junk food and learn how to cook simple but healthy food. 3. Being outside is great, being outside wearing sun screen is better. You will not have to explain…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 05:11 PM
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When I was younger I greatly underestimated my life expectancy and the possible quality of life in middle age. I am all for living life to the fullest, but I would recommend of thinking of your body as something you are going to own for 80 plus years. Basic MRP approaches of staying healthy and positive apply at any age. I can tell you that in my early fifties I am having more sex and higher quality sex than ever, enjoying my life every day. It would have sucked to die in my 30s or 40s and not t…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 04:54 PM
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I think own of the less appreciated tenants of MRP is STFU. I have avoided many an argument just by saying nothing and walking away. Also when I screw up I most often just ignore it when I next have to deal with the wife make a mental note and move on. You are forgetting how easily women are distracted. Instead of apologizing, text your wife and tell her to meet you at your favorite bar after work, wear something nice. Ignore her questions, show up about 20 minutes early and chat up all the othe…
/r/askMRP11/07/16 04:59 PM
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A bit of advice that crosses your relationship and business, I am an entrepreneur and a business owner. One of the most common problems aspiring business owners make is that they become too Beta to their customers and prospective customers. Desperate to land a sale they do not build up their value. Holding frame is just as important in business as it is in a marriage. You must believe in your worth - otherwise prospective customers will not believe in you. Also looking good and dressing well wil…
/r/askMRP06/07/16 11:56 PM
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Very good post. It is only the man in the mirror that is the problem, not the woman. Yes AWALT but it is always the man that allows the crazy to happen and is shocked with the consequence. One of my favorite analogies in the MRP sub is that you do not blame the handgun for blowing off your foot if you choose tho play with it without taking proper precautions. Treat every gun as loaded until you have personally verified that it is safe and realize that in every relationship with a woman that you …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 09:00 PM
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Morally yes, legally ?? The first thing she took from him was his balls. Once a woman takes that from you the rest will wind up hers eventually.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 08:28 PM
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Not sure. He was in "love". So he might have bought it for her when she lost the job with us.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:23 PM
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Took the car, tv, left him with an expensive lease, he bought her a new phone and paid for the plan. The guy does not have a lot, but she took it all. Bottom line the guy needed a cash advance to make the rent. It does not matter how much you have, a woman can and will take it all, for women half of everything you own is just the starting point to negotiation. There is some Russian oligarch being sued by his ex wife for billions in england.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:00 PM
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Here is the question you need to answer. If you were two strangers and met tonight in a bar would she find you sexy interesting and exciting enough to want to fuck you? She is clearly interested in sex. Just not with you.
/r/askMRP22/06/16 10:43 PM
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In mrp we always say that a wife is a reflection of the husband. I 1000% agree that our goal and desire should be to have a wife that sexy and attractive. If a man does not feel confident enough to handle a sexy wife he will not have to worry about that problem for long. She will and should find someone. AWALT does not mean all women are bad or evil. They are just reflecting nature. I have no problem telling my wife that I expect her to be attractive and sexy for me. Just like she is right to ex…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 07:30 PM
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I would suggest that you own up to the truth. As a high SMV value man you would use a two week break from wife and kids to extensively practice your game and the validation from the multiple women that you would be able to meet and flirt with would eliminate any anxiety. looking at your post history i do not see anything that suggests that you lift or understand MRP. Good luck figuring out how to get c# to print "Hello World"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 02:07 PM
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You do not have high SMV, if you did you would have confidence. You have none, you are scared. I personally enjoy the increasing SMV of my wife. It is much more fun to fuck a sexy and confidant woman. especially it is more of a turn on to dominate a confidant woman. Last time I checked even for the weak sauce men who are obsessed with porn there is not much of a market for porn featuring ugly low SMV women.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 01:51 PM
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if your SMV is really high why are you worried? There are plenty of women for a high quality man so mate guarding is pointless. If you are not a troll, then enjoy fucking a higher SMV woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 01:41 PM
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Be worthy of having your dick sucked
/r/askMRP26/05/16 05:39 PM
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I have told some close friends but the success rate is terrible. I have tried simply telling about my experience and success. Telling them about the changes in my life. People that have listened to my bitching for 20 years about the previous problems, they simply adopt a blank stare when I tell them that things are great now that I have swallowed the pill. Recommended they read MMSLP but still only a couple have even bothered to do that. I think /u/BluepillProfessor is right as usual they are so…
/r/askMRP13/05/16 04:02 PM
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Not entirely true, most companies have rules against harassment in their employment manual (that long boring thing you signed on your first day at work without reading). That is legally your warning, if you violate the policies in the employee rule book you can be fired. And good luck winning a wrongful termination suit against an employer as a male for harassing a woman given that juries are overwhelmingly post wall females. I am not saying any part of this is a good thing, it is just the reali…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 10:27 PM
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Plastic surgery? I know it sounds vain but women feel better when they look good and I am sure you would not mind. But wait until you are done with kids. Just like you need to look good to keep her interested she needs to look good to keep you motivated. Attraction can not be negotiated.
/r/askMRP03/05/16 11:33 PM
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I am not sure I buy into the concept. Are using it as an excuse for not working on yourself. I see my wife all the time as my previous posts indicate, we work together. Since I have implemented MAP we fuck all the time (10 to 12 times a week). Yes I have to work to make sure there is variety to keep things unpredictable, but it is fun. I am always reminding my wife of her inner sexual nature, that means not just flirting but asking her for sexts. slapping her ass, pulling her away from laundry f…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/16 05:49 PM
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Simple answer to question 3 - initiate on the couch. The whole point is every room of the house is available for sex. Not just the bedroom. keep reading and lifting and you will see that you can initiate I the laundry room and the garage also. as far as a good answer to being dirty after yard work take off your clothes slap her on the ass and tell her to join you in the shower to help you get clean and dirty at the same time
/r/askMRP20/04/16 03:51 AM
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Unfortunately both are tru I was always dominant in business settings but was to brainwashed to bring it to the bedroom. Not something to be proud of just a fact. Thanks to RP I have changed
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 08:56 PM
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Very good point about how to properly interpret a woman's response. I have been married a long time but only in the last year have followed RP. The idea of spanking my wife's sexy ass would have been outrageous and I did not even try. I worked up to it as part of improving myself by first gently slapping it playfully now she loves it when I spank her ass hard. I am naturally dominant so it is exciting and gets me off to spank her even with a belt (do not use the full length that will hurt just t…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 02:10 PM
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I guess i gave the benefit of the doubt, sometimes being a drunk captain will forever change the wife's perception of you to the point that desire can not be rebuilt. At that point it is easier to move on and start fresh with someone else instead of wasting the rest of your life on a specific woman (oneitis). I guess from my business experience the value of something is what someone else is willing to pay for it. In the same way your sexual market value is most easily measured by the sexual mark…
/r/askMRP08/04/16 04:07 PM
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Ok then implement dread. If you are in good shape and have your act together there are plenty of women that will want to fuck you. When you introduce your wife to your girlfriend she will get the message or not. There is no marriage without good sex. She will be the mother of your kid even while you are banging a 27 year old and her twin.
/r/askMRP08/04/16 03:04 PM
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Can you explain why anyone would want to fuck you? Are you lifting have you read the sidebar. Or a re you a fat looser begging for sex?
/r/askMRP08/04/16 02:35 PM
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You sound like a troll. What has your wife done to warrant your attention. If you are real then think of yourself as the prize. She needs to provide enough value in your life to warrant you wanting to fuck her.
/r/askMRP05/04/16 02:20 PM
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Thanks for the comments, I am planning on doing a one year update sometime this summer, the short version a woman wants to follow a good leader. And it is up to you to look at the mirror and commit to becoming a better man every day. The ironic thing about becoming more alpha is that your woman will detect and negatively react to beta actions that used to be acceptable.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 04:54 PM
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Outstanding post. To many men are afraid to be a dominant cave man and commanding your wife's desire. I am learning more and more that even if I feel shitty from a cold or a strain I can never look to my wife for comfort. That shows weakness, it is much better to just suck it up and respond with "It has not killed me yet"
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/16 04:08 PM
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Predictability is something that dries the vag. Scheduling sex is fine as long as it is 24/7. It will take a while for the wife to understand that sex is something she wants to offer to you whenever you want it (barring significant physical issues and a "headache" does not qualify). I doubt she would be to tired to fuck Brad Pitt on any given night or at least to give him a good blow job. So why is she to tired to fuck you?
/r/askMRP16/03/16 06:01 PM
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Here is a suggestion, if you are lifting and looking good, sent her a pic and no not a dick pick. How about taking your shirt off flexing and posing. Yep it is douchy but hey a good game has to be a bit arrogant and funny.
/r/askMRP16/03/16 05:04 PM
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Good point. I have also realized that even though I am older it is completely unacceptable to talk to you SO about any aches and pains. I need to come back from working sweaty and smiling even if I am sore. A woman can smell weakness from further away than a shark can smell blood.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 04:45 PM
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I think the main point for you to keep in mind is that you are not willing to have your sex life be limited to only once or twice a month. She can choose to limit hers but you will then also have to make choices. A women can not expect committed monogamy without meeting the man's needs. That is taking your dick hostage. As you are discovering there are lots of women out there that enjoy the attention you could give them. Your wife is lucky that you are willing to give her some of that attention.…
/r/askMRP10/11/15 07:02 PM
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I do love my wife and even more so since i have started being a real man and following MRP. I love her more because she is a better and sexier partner for me. I believe my relationship with her is better than ever and she is happier with the man I am becoming. I think you are missing the point on the blowjobs. I got blowjobs before red pill, but after starting to lift, loosing weight and passing the shit tests they became something my wife wanted to do because it turned her on not just something…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:41 PM
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Be careful since it reduces your testosterone levels
/r/askTRP04/10/15 12:23 AM
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My experience is different I bought lots of "fun and frilly" things for my wife. She chooses what to wear and tries to make it fun. I have also worked a reasonable compromise I think other people should try: Eliminate the stated reason for ugly PJs of being cold, just have sufficient comforters so that you wife can stay warm enough to either wear something skimpy or nothing at all to bed. BTW the whole point of lingerie is that it is never on form more then ten minutes and you get to re-excite h…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 07:54 PM
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I do not think that you understand dread. How can you be at 9 if you also say that she knows that you will never leave. Only if you are Ready to be disappointed if she decides to stop being lazy and do what you want because you will be missing out on the other pussy are you OI. Otherwise it is a bluff and she knows it
/r/askMRP27/09/15 10:32 PM
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Have you seen this http://marriedmansexlife.com/2011/10/the-three-day-rule-for-guests/? It makes a very good point about having a male guest at your house. Even if they do not fuck you are still lowering your SMV comparatively. How would your wife feel about having a 6 year younger and hotter female soldier staying with you and you spraying her with water for an evening wet t-shirt contest?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 04:54 PM
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I find it interesting that a wife would claim to both love her husband and not be interested in providing him with sexual satisfaction. Think about it your post would be completely different if it included the following: "She is breastfeeding so she is not into PIV sex right now but at least every morning she wakes me up with a BJ" There is no excuse for not providing you with any release. Does it really matter how much she is enjoying it, if you are enjoying it and she loves you?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 11:44 PM
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You are absolutely right, I was trying to say that even the traditional BS of this does not apply to smart intelligent women is nonsense. Intelligence level has nothing do with the basic biological needs of a woman to be led and protected my a more powerful male against the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 10:31 PM
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Absolutely, even though she is highly educated and is definitely an alpha female she is loving my leadership. I am following MMSLP and letting her know what time dinner reservations are on Saturday but not where. Driving home together and deciding to stop somewhere along the way for a walk and drink. She has confirmed that seeing me as the leader gives her the "tingles". Bottom line ask less, do more.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 09:54 PM
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