otheracctz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
103	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario	otheracctz	/r/seduction	11/01/11 05:38 PM
17	[FR] - First attempt after reading this subreddit for the past few (8) hours	otheracctz	/r/seduction	05/01/11 12:21 AM
15	[FR#2] Holy baby steps	otheracctz	/r/seduction	08/01/11 07:07 AM
13	Alcohol and Sarging	otheracctz	/r/seduction	07/01/11 05:32 PM
3	[FR#3a] progress	otheracctz	/r/seduction	11/01/11 05:13 PM
2	[FR] and question	otheracctz	/r/seduction	02/02/11 06:35 PM
1	General Update and question	otheracctz	/r/seduction	03/04/11 12:14 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Fake it til you make it. Great post! Thank you.	/r/seduction	10/04/11 11:00 PM
1	Need advice on age and possibility In both of these cases, the women already knew my approximate age, and the fact that I had two kids. One was an art teacher for one of my kids, and the other girl was from work. There is no way I would have had that success with my full-blown AFC behavior if I was trying to pick them up and I attribute it to the strong frame that resulted from the circumstances in which we met. Now what I know what a frame is, and that it is possible to have control of it - I'm looking forward to many more great…	/r/seduction	04/02/11 03:18 AM
2	Need advice on age and possibility Recovering AFC and single dad, and late 30's here. I wouldn't think twice about it as long as you are not expecting anything beyond casual. I live in a college town and short-term dated a 21 yr old and then had a serious case of oneitis and AFCism with a 23 year old (HB9 from work) that I dated after I got divorced. Interestingly, those experiences gave me a false confidence in my ability to attract women, because after dating them, I went through a period where I was practically repelling women…	/r/seduction	04/02/11 03:04 AM
1	[FR] and question Great suggestion, thank you. I guess the lesson for me is to just not try to talk about plans on the same night. I'm sure if I had just gone to bed, I would have made better decisions in the morning	/r/seduction	03/02/11 01:50 PM
1	[FR] and question Thank you for the comments. Certainly agree that asking for the next day was a mistake -oh well. As far as leaving early, it just seemed better to leave before her entourage departed. I thought it would be better to leave in the good state that I was in since the place was going to be shutting down soon anyway. Thanks again!	/r/seduction	03/02/11 01:48 PM
1	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario Thanks!	/r/seduction	23/01/11 02:02 PM
3	Book on Inner Game: Intimate Connections I picked up this book after hearing about it on seddit. It is the clearest, most actionable guide to inner game. This book, in combination with all the info on seddit is making a significant difference in all of my relationships.	/r/seduction	15/01/11 03:21 AM
2	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario no one, if that is how you see yourself. Redefine. Profit.	/r/seduction	12/01/11 06:31 AM
2	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario Thank you for the validation. During these early stages, my goal is fail faster, succeed sooner. I truly want to get used to rejection. If sitting down with them worked for 20 seconds, I could learn where I lost them. If it failed at the onset, I'd know that approach was too bold for that coffee shop..	/r/seduction	12/01/11 06:29 AM
2	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario The both was a semi-circle configuration, and could easily accommodate 6 adults, and they were the only two sitting there. I was planning to jokingly inform them that they were sitting in my seat, and that if that if they were regulars, they would know better than to take my seat. (I'm confident that I could have conveyed this in jest)	/r/seduction	12/01/11 06:27 AM
3	When the pain of not-acting becomes greater than the worst possible rejection scenario This is incredibly helpful. Non-Attachment FTW. The auto-correction makes a ton of sense and makes taking action crucial independent of outcome. This over-analyzing AFC will benefit from your comment. Thank you!	/r/seduction	12/01/11 06:24 AM
2	The infamous 'Loverboy Tribute to Sarging' video (uncensored version - NSFW) - if you haven't seen this you need to, especially if getting your heart broken by a girl inspired you to start doing this Thank you for this	/r/seduction	11/01/11 05:45 PM
1	[FR#3a] progress yikes, formatting. I'll get it right next time.	/r/seduction	11/01/11 05:16 PM
5	[FR#2] Holy baby steps Yes, I hired a babysitter so I could go into the field and practice for a few hours and attempt # close. I'd never bring a girl that I'd just met back to my place when the kids are there. I should've clarified.	/r/seduction	08/01/11 12:12 PM
1	FR: He thought I was cute! I'll 2nd that!	/r/seduction	07/01/11 06:12 PM
5	Scarcity vs Abundance: How neediness kills your game. excellent - thank you	/r/seduction	06/01/11 06:17 PM
5	[FR] - First attempt after reading this subreddit for the past few (8) hours update - don't laugh - I opened a...set of...dudes. I'm not gay, but there were only three women at this bar (In this tiny city I call home) and they were HB-1's. I figured it would still be good practice for opening a mixed set someday, which is still something that seems terrifying. It actually worked, they were cool, we chatted for a good part of the night and it sure was better than being out solo. Not what I had imagined for the night, but I chalk it up to poor environment. Thank you everyo…	/r/seduction	05/01/11 05:06 AM
5	[FR] - First attempt after reading this subreddit for the past few (8) hours That's a perfect example. Thanks! (I flat out asked for it)	/r/seduction	05/01/11 12:39 AM