Greetings! I haven’t posted in a few weeks, but I’ve been studying PUA since January. I absorbed a ton of material and posted a few early field reports.

Since then, I’ve had 3 more #closes, 2 K closes and one F close!

Much of the PUA material focuses on the importance of finding a way to apply the material to your own personality, your own frame. Historically I’ve made very strong connections with women, but for some reason, I always had my sexuality ‘turned off’ during the interactions. It is not that I wasn’t horny as fuck, I just thought having ‘boundaries’ would make girls like me more. I only did this boundary shit with girls I was actually interested in and accordingly, when I did get laid, it was often because some girl had drunkenly chosen me.

It’s not that I formed incredible connections with every women I met, but when there was a connection, it was unusually strong. Unusual because the women told me it was unusual for them and because my friends would constantly remark on the strength of the connections. I never put any effort into making the connections, they just happened. I’ve come to realize over the past weeks that PUA could help me make a connection with most any woman with a little effort and solid understanding of the principles. It sounds so elementary as I sit here writing it, but it was not apparent to me when I first started reading about PUA

Women often tell me that I’m ‘gentle, kind, genuine, and yes even handsome’ I remember being told when I in my twenties that I would be a good guy to marry – which I now understand to mean You are cool, but I’m not sexually attracted to you. Well the boundaries are gone now. I’m not trying to hide my voracious sexual appetite, and the results are starting to show.

Once a month I go out with an old college buddy who is now married and has kids. Just being with him puts me in a state that I’m not yet able to manufacture on my own. He doesn’t even talk to women, we just laugh and have a good time. The last 3 times I’ve gone out with him, HB’s have approached me, started talking, and one even offered her number. I don’t get into this state when I go out with other people and in fact, I go solo about ½ of the time.

HOW do I achieve that state when I’m solo?