Alcohol and Sarging

Callmeprescott · 2011-01-07T19:42:47+00:00

Style & Mystery always advocated no alcohol and I'm with them on that, I often do get drunk under pressure of friends and I do love being drunk, but it's not making me into romeo, there's this one time I was in a club and Billie Jean started playing so I moonwalked thru the whole club high fiving all the girls from one end to the other, and once I arrived to one of the points, 2 girls came and gave me a hug telling me how awesome I was, being drunk and thinking myself as the life of the party I yelled "FUCK YEAH!!" and that scared them away! stay clean otheracctz, stay clean.

Seddit101 · 2011-01-07T18:33:24+00:00

Best bet is club soda with a lime in it.

jamba_juice · 2011-01-07T17:41:43+00:00

Its all about balance man. A lot of the time it looks weird if you aren't drinking at the bar, and you don't want to give off the creeper vibe. Just have one beer per hour or something.

FailFaster · 2011-01-07T19:24:14+00:00

I've been largely abstaining from the drink for three reasons:

Money
Health (damn winter sore throats)
Game

Relating to #3, I've basically been doing everything I can do to be the life of the party without drinking. I feel like If I can have a blast, exude confidence, and mac on babes like a king... then it will give me a better perspective on WHY i'm drinking booze when I get back into some cash.

As a result, I feel like a super-human. Its been hard, its pulled me out of my comfort zone for sure, but I believe the two side benefits-- the growing ability to have confidence in ANY situation, plus sharpness and snarky wit resulting from sobriety-- far outweigh the costs.

Get out of your comfort zone. The only thing keeping you from attaining super-human game is yourself.

Fail Faster, learn more.

squigs · 2011-01-07T18:28:13+00:00

There's always a non-alcoholic option. Although I will point out that you'll end up getting through drinks a lot more quickly unless someone can suggest something that doesn't lend itself to quick drinking.

Listro · 2011-01-08T00:09:05+00:00

My guess is the reason why alcohol is affecting you is because you're trying to work off of memory instead of being in the moment with what is going on around you.

For example a performer who is trying to recite a script from memory or a student trying to pass a history exam is more likely negatively affected by alcohol than a jazz musician who is improvising or a person writing a creative story.

HSChronic · 2011-01-07T20:30:43+00:00

If they ask why you aren't drinking just tell them you are the DD. Plus some places if you do tell them you are the DD will hook you up with soda or water for free.

If I was a chick and someone told me they were the DD it would be some good PPs because you look responsible for not drinking and driving and it shows you aren't a douche because you are willing to help people out by being the DD.

frogma · 2011-01-07T21:01:28+00:00

I'm usually fine sober and buzzed, buzzed especially. Drunk... depends. Are you actually trying to remember specific lines, or saying to yourself, "ok, now I should probably do 'this' or 'that'"? If that's the case, just try to internalize the things you learn. Natural game is the best game.

Do what Jamba said and just have 1 or 2 beers at a time and space it out. If you're feeling insecure because you're not buzzed enough, make the effort to go around, meet people and interact, with a positive attitude.

anonybus · 2011-01-07T23:41:39+00:00

I think its funny/sad that the biggest problem with being sober at a bar isn't personal temptation but social pressure. With that said, I thinking refusing to drink around drunk people is an excellent exercise in doing what you want instead of doing what others think you should. Unless, of course, you want to get drunk instead of practice game with a sober head.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-07T20:51:22+00:00

Oh there are lots of reasons not to drink so much. For me, it's been money, a night out drinking can run $20 or more. I can't do that night after night, even though I want to sarge night after night.

I just ask for icewater at the bar. I don't care if it looks like I'm not drinking. I sometimes tell people I was drinking but switched to water to help stay level. Oftentimes that's true.

Title	Alcohol and Sarging
Author	otheracctz
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	January 7, 2011 5:32 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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