| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 64 | Almost Got Killed Last Night | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 01:36 AM | |
| 54 | It’s done | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 05:49 PM |
| 43 | Just miss her. | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/25 08:32 PM |
| 25 | Got INSANE job offer. Can’t be happy. | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 02:02 PM | |
| 21 | It gets better. | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 03:43 AM |
| 14 | Another week. | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 04:30 AM | |
| 13 | Better days ahead | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 04:00 AM | |
| 11 | How do I get my damn mind off her | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/24 05:08 AM |
| 10 | How long | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 04:55 PM | |
| 5 | There’s hope | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | I want her more than I want to live | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/24 04:10 AM | |
| 2 | Help please | Rant | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Just sad | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 01:07 AM | |
| 1 | Want your opinions on my burning world | raginggear57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 03:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Is cheating during a separation a thingShe’s using your paycheck to support her while she lets other men practice breeding her. Run. Man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Is cheating during a separation a thingGet out now put as much stuff as you can into a trust. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 08:53 PM |
| 3 | I put inheritance in joint bank account. Am I fucked?Always put inheritance into a trust. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/25 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Just got "divorced" two hours ago. Anything I can do?Shit sucks for a while. Hit the gym. Make more money. Find one in 8 years when you’re jacked and rich. There’s always better out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/25 10:57 PM |
| 10 | Wife had 2 affairsWhat the actual fuck is this OP’s profile history? You post your actual picture on here, have kids, and make these posts? Yikes man | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 07:51 PM |
| 10 | Seriously? Just go away!Should have fought at the beginning. Give and give and they’ll take and take. You’ve made it clear to her you’ll roll over and don’t want to fight. Now she’s going to come after you forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Mediation is over…Get the alimony too. Get it all. Roles reversed she’d go after it all. Obviously. Quit thinking like a husband and start thinking like you’re in a fight for your future cause ya are. Oh and get the bonus? Tf. Take everything you can shed do it to yiu | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Almost Got Killed Last NightYea I know I’m just saying I’ve got absolutely nothing other than it being a black suv on a back road interstate exit. I didn’t see anything on it. There’s 0 chance they can find em if I don’t even know what it looks like or what kind it was. Had their lights off, didn’t see them until they slapped the brights on 5 feet in front of me. Then I was sitting with a sign post in the front of my car. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Almost Got Killed Last NightI talked to my insurance agent. Injuries aren’t too bad just sore. It was probably an illegal immigrant on drugs with no insurance. I live in west Texas and it’s the Wild West out here. Police would tell me “that sucks we’ll look for em”. Not look for them and they’ll never be found lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsMy ex wife went from loving me and wanting me to fold and sexless after going off of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Pictures of the ex.Keep them so I can look at them and make myself miss her more. Still love that woman more than I love breathing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Well the affair partner just called me.Start socking away cash | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | LinkedIn request from exAdd her then start achieving shit and posting about it so she knows she missed out. Level up. You achieving, getting ripped, pulling hotter younger girls. This. This is the ONLY way she will regret her actions. Read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Once you learn Hypergamy you’ll never be in a “why on earth would woman do this” state again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Just miss her.I don’t hide anything from her and she knows how I feel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Just miss her.I’m open with her she knows how I feel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/25 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Just miss her.Thanks. It sucks. Life’s going well, just wish I still had her to do it with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Just miss her.Nah. It’s was more so on my end. But not to the point it was worth throwing away almost 7 years. And I think she knows deep down she shouldn’t have. Is what it is. I just miss her | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Just miss her.Oh no, there were. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.It’s not that simple. That’s why there’s law firms there that specialize in it. It costs money and you have to pay an attorney. But if we’re talking millions of dollars it’s worth it.. instead of just losing it lol. If it’s 50k then yea fuck it. But 2 mil? Pay an expert, set up the trusts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.Or put it in trusts in South Dakota. Billionaire divorced his wife and she’s getting nothing because he set up his stuff in trusts and technically they’re penniless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 04:05 AM |
| 3 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.Yea or just use trusts in SD like the billionaires do. It works. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 04:05 AM |
| 6 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.Get it separate and look into Trusts in South Dakota I believe? Some multi billionaire divorced his wife and she’s getting nothing because on paper he doesn’t own a thing. Thinks to trusts. Again I believe the state is South Dakota quick Google search, there are plenty of firms there that specialize in this and will take care of you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Social media during divorceI wish we could bring the good parts of Muslim culture over here lol. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really.I’m 27. Me dating is asking them to come watch a movie with me at my house. I set the bar low from the start and it’s great. Some don’t want to do that, I stop talking to them. If they’re lucky I’ll pick up food or drinks they like on my way home from work for us or something. We lay on my bed and watch a movie and talk. Sometimes it goes somewhere, others I never talk to them again. But it’s worked well to weed out the high maintenance ones. I’m in shape, make pretty good money, and I don’t tal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Is this legal?Illegal. Fuck her up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/24 03:20 AM |
| 1 | New girlfriendThe he won’t leave you alone thing seems a little off putting. Not on his part. Don’t know the situation, could be he really likes you a lot and it’s sweet. But it’s the fact you put it like you did. That, and This whole post come across like you are doing something here that you don’t want to do, and you seem kind of annoyed by it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I (31F) being unreasonable/unfair towards my husband (33M)?Kinda the whole point has always been to reproduce. And you are getting to the age range where it can become somewhat dangerous and irresponsible to conceive. As your eggs are going to start losing their ability to correct issues if it’s fertilized by a sperm cell that has a problem. Not trying to be a Debbie downer but yea, if you want kids(with a high probability of them being healthy) you really need to get on it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/24 08:21 PM |
| 18 | I’m thinking of making a dating profile, brutally honest like how the women do.You will get no poon going this route. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | There’s hopeTo each their own. I grew up Protestant and vehemently anti Catholic. God called me home last year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Want to break stuff... What to break?Gym. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/24 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Another week.That’s the thing. I’m 27 in great shape, do well. Women usually treat me like that. Flirting with me in stores, etc. but then I’d go home and nothin. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 06:27 AM |
| 13 | Checked her social mediaGym. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Still mentally fucked upI feel the same. No kids but nothings ever brought me closer to suicide I fucked up my marriage with my amazing wife and I’ve been fucked since. I make good money. In shape. Young. Plenty of hot girls to hangout with. All I want is her and our dog laying next to me and I’ll never have that again as long as I live. Makes me not thrilled to live. Yes it’s been like 3 months. I know time will heal. Still sucks right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 14 | My Wife Is In A ComaI can’t imagine. She’s still your wife and you seem to be a good man. Take care of that woman(I’m sure you already are). Sending prayers to both of you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/10/24 01:32 AM |
| 2 | It gets better.Get a hot younger girlfriend. Mines very excited for me 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 2 | It gets better.Appreciate it I will. Ex texted me tonight out of nowhere asking me to send her some gift cards. Which I agreed to, if she sends me pictures of our dog. Then she sent me some weird ass text about how I “wouldn’t fool her again or something”. So bizarre. Like okay I’ll keep them then. Kinda almost ruined my night. But I still had an awesome night and day today. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | It gets better.It’ll take a few years before I get to that but it will become apparent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 01:49 AM |
| 2 | It gets better.Oh 0 chance brotha. She shot out the door 3 months in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/24 01:48 AM |
| 2 | It gets better.Thank you man. I’m literally in shock right now. I feel like I can’t catch my breath. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 2 | It gets better.I know man. Did some hypnotherapy that helped bring me out of the worst of it. Restructure the trauma of losing her to where my subconscious sees it different so I don’t just immediately get thrown into fight or flight anytime it crosses my mind. But it still comes and goes. I miss her so much man. She was amazing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/24 04:52 AM |
| 4 | DisrespectI’d say most of them. It goes deep into how womens brains have evolutionarily developed. Hypergamy etc. Answers a lottt of questions. For instance we all know of some woman who’s married to a rich surgeon or something with kids and has the perfect life. Then throws it all away to have an affair with a pool boy or something. Used to be a mystery why that happens. After reading the book it’s not a mystery anymore. It helped me a lot understanding the shift in my ex and her turning into an unrecogn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | DisrespectRead the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It will answer this and many other seemingly unanswerable questions about the way they act. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Got INSANE job offer. Can’t be happy.She left me. I gave her the reason but I don’t think it was a big enough reason. She wanted different things. And I’m not celebrating yet. I also already do very well for my age. Very blessed. I started looking for remote stuff so I’d be able to give her what she wanted. And move closer to her family. So it’s still exciting but kind of suck because my reasoning for seeking it out in the first place was to be able to better give her what she wanted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/24 03:48 PM |
| -1 | Got INSANE job offer. Can’t be happy.Yea I’m a little under qualified. But it’s life changing and yea I’ve been looking at a few of those places. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Got INSANE job offer. Can’t be happy.Thank you. I am excited. It’s just weird because I originally started looking for stuff like this to be able to give her what she wanted. But it’s still awesome. It’s nice knowing now if I get it I can just move to Italy if I want! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Better days aheadYea I mean don’t get me wrong. I’ve got a Rolodex of women already. I’m living in a new city and they’re everywhereeeee also some from back home, college etc. I just don’t have much interest. It would just make me sad because they’re not her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Better days aheadUnfortunately no. I don’t really listen to rap, I’m an white former accountant and now work in sales management. 😂😂. I’m more yacht rock, 70s, Rock, country, But I’ll definitely check it out! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Better days aheadI’ll be back on New Year’s Eve to update. Just excited to finally find a woman who will actually make me feel as though I’m wanted. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Better days aheadHell yea. I’m 27 in shape and make more money than most people. I’m also in a new city where I know no one. Going to start painting a new picture of my life. Since she decided to make me burn the last one | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Ran into my ex and her partner todayI hope you’re in better shape than the partner | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/24 12:19 AM |
| 17 | My ex-wife unblocked me on social media after 8 months of no contact. What does this mean?They guy she cheated with dumped her. And hopefully you’ve spent the last 8 months getting jacked and building your life up. Get a new girlfriend that’s prettier and start making her regret leaving. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Saw my ex-wife on a dating app.Safety and security. (Hypergamy) rational male will explain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 02:18 AM |
| 10 | Saw my ex-wife on a dating app.Also read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. It fully explains hypergamy. Why women behave the way they do. It’s a real eye opener. Will probably answer all the questions you and every other straight fucking guy does about why they can be so damn cruel, cold, just evil to you when a month ago they were your own Angel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Saw my ex-wife on a dating app.My man. Make you’re account. Get in the gym. Make more money. Level yourself up get on the dating app and find someone awesome. You deleting it is her winning. Don’t let her win. She shouldn’t have any control over you anymore. Create a life that if she looks at in 2 years she’s sad she’s no longer a part of. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.This will explain how their brain works. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 03:10 PM |
| 10 | “The spark is gone” is a poor reason to leave a marriage.You need to read the rational male by Rollo Tomassi. It’ll have the answers You’re seeking she didn’t leave over spark. There’s something more. The book will probably help you realize what it is so this isn’t a repeated event in your life. Sending prayers your way. From one heartbroken guy to another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/24 02:19 AM |
| 2 | It’s doneShe found out about a stint of time I was addicted to pills and hid it from her. Was also buying them from an ex, here we are ages later and I’m clean. But said ex gets involved with schizo guy. Schizo guy messages my wife. OFF MY EXS Facebook saying we’ve been hooking up. I thought it was my ex ar first but she reached out to me to apologize last week saying the guy hacked into her phone and sent it. Either way., huge deal but she was one foot out the door to begin with. Wanted to live closer t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | It’s doneYea I’m going to go to a hypnotherapist and program myself to not think about her anymore. LOL. But yea I understand. It just sucks right now. And will for a while. But I’ll find someone else, that’ll actually show me the affection and attention I need. Ill be fine. Just blows donkey dick right now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:54 PM |
| -3 | Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one?Throw her a better one. Buy her better gifts. Be sure she knows who’s the most fun. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:30 PM |
| 5 | It’s doneThank you. I’ve been trying to work on this. I gave her the reason to go. But I was suffering too. No intimacy on her end, beat me down for wanting to love on her all the time etc. But I still love her. It’s painful knowing she’s gone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/24 06:26 PM |
| 4 | How longThis is true. I’m in shape and make a lot of money for my age. I get attention from other women everywhere I go. And it was for the best. She hasn’t wanted to have sex in like 2 years. She was obviously checked out | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How longYea. The stuff she said to me broke me. I couldn’t believe how she was talking to me. She had every right to be mad but the things she said. Just killed me. I’ll be praying for ya man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How longYea Forsure. I gave her a big reason. Don’t think it was reason enough for divorce. I would have done anything to make it work. But on the bright side, no kids and I’m only 27. Dark side, I can’t see myself having kids with anyone else. She’s all I ever wanted. It sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/08/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Want your opinions on my burning worldThat’s fair as hell thank you. I could always tell deep down she didn’t want me. She’s going to end up with some hick farmer that does well in her small town. That’s what she’s always wanted, and always compared me to. It just sucks how much time I invested thinking it meant I would get to be with her forever. I appreciate the response. I’m so sad and frustrated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Want your opinions on my burning worldNot a flex. Just a me thinking back on my decisions and how much time I wasted and opportunities that I passed up with amazing women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Want your opinions on my burning worldI know. It’s just hard right now. It’s so fucking awful man. No kids, I make good money, I’m jacked, I’m 27, I’m in a new city. I literally have women lined up and all I can think about is her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Want your opinions on my burning worldIt just sucks. 6 years of my life. I get attention from women everywhere. I had so many opportunities, chances, I had a girl in Naples Florida who was a billionaire and wanted to pick me up in a get from my BFE town in MO and fly me to Martha’s Vineyard I turned down because I wanted nothing but this girl. And it was all for fucking nothing. I stayed loyal and ended up getting fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Help pleaseI hope so. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/24 05:15 PM |
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