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Red Pill Exampleshould_/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:01 PM
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Men's Rightsshould_/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:06 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleshould_/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:50 PM
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Red Pill Theoryshould_/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:41 AM
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I don't think I have sleep apnea, but I use mouth tape from Amazon to not snore at night and not have a dry throat. I think it helps me sleep deeper, and when I don't use it I now feel the gross difference.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 06:42 AM
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The way he talks about morality is particular and it’s worth addressing, especially in these parts of the internet where sperginess can occasionally override humanity and common sense. In the book Prometheus Rising by Robert Anton Wilson, he says morality is regulations a society develops purely to promote a promising birth rate. Not an insignificant feat. This is the morality I think he’s talking about. I contrast it with the morality we might be familiar with, where we feel innately it’s wrong…
/r/RedPillBooks19/12/22 02:20 AM
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Interesting stuff!
/r/altTRP24/11/22 03:24 PM
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Whoa love this perspective. Very empowering. Gonna incorporate it
/r/altTRP23/11/22 10:18 PM
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Does that mean straight men might like feminine gay guys? I like the sound of that
/r/altTRP23/11/22 10:06 PM
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My moral code is I don’t deceive. Other than that I assert myself. If someone says you’re an asshole because you’re being deceitful then I’d reevaluate
/r/TheRedPill24/06/22 01:17 AM
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Maybe it's a USA thing but I would not consider universities a breeding ground for morality. I'm not romantically/sexually into women but the most thoughtless manipulative evil women I've known were all college-educated
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:16 PM
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Sounds like you know what you want and you’re going for it so you don’t need to worry about fitting into “red pill”. If anything it gives good ideas on how to know you’re not being taken advantage of but it should just be a tool for your happiness like anything.
/r/altTRP08/11/19 11:43 PM
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We here. Read that book a while ago. Could be useful to act on if you’re trying to have a lot of sex and maybe attention but not be in a committed relationship. It talks about having a lot of partners like it’s a novel thing which it might be for straight guys, but we are used to it. The book demands emotional distance and says that having lots of partners gives you that and keeps you from falling for someone. I haven’t seen this work in practice for gays but maybe it’s different with tops vs bo…
/r/altTRP19/10/19 02:20 PM
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Talk about things that are interesting to you. You'll want to work with Segway-ing into those topics gradually from the intro, but wouldn't it be fun if he also was as eager to talk about them as you? Then it can just flow and it's fun.
/r/altTRP02/02/18 03:40 AM
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People are conflating "altering their reality" as two different things: making changes in their external environment seeing the external environment differently from a mental perspective
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:06 AM
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I think sexual preferences (or fetishes) are often indications of power issues like that. They stem from infancy/childhood, and the pattern continues in adulthood because you're subconsciously trying to revisit that relationship and come out the winner this time. I couldn't tell you a straightforward healing process but it helps to be aware of it for starters, so if you find yourself behaving codependently you can catch yourself in the act.
/r/altTRP04/06/17 04:48 PM
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Some straight guys have feminine traits and hold frame very well. For some reason I'm thinking of the My Chemical Romance guy. I don't personally know how he holds frame but to be the face of a franchise like that, could he be that bad at it? The mannerisms on the surface aren't always reflecting what's going on underneath or with one's actions. Your penultimate paragraph - particularly the part inside parenthesis - makes me wonder if you're dealing with codependency, power issues, and anxiety a…
/r/altTRP04/06/17 04:52 AM
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I think it's the same as a straight version except it fucks boys. What could be different is how it's perceived by other gay men. To guys who lean 'bottom' Chad is the guy they want; to guys leaning 'top' Chad is the guy they want to be. (But bottoms would like to be him too. And tops probably want to be with him too honestly.)
/r/altTRP04/06/17 04:44 AM
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We should organize meet-ups! It would still be mixed masc/feminine but would make a difference.
/r/altTRP29/05/17 04:51 PM
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But there are relationship patterns with the mother that we repeat. For example if one's mother was very narcissistic and unloving, causing the gay boy to be providing for his mother's needs and feeling unloved, he will likely seek that kind of partner later in life.
/r/altTRP23/05/17 02:39 AM
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I'm very into spirituality and used to be very into art; kind of am now. I think what both have in common is having neuroses, and having enough awareness of them that you are reaching for something more beautiful to become (spirituality, wanting to be like or become God) or you just like seeing something that is your Other (art, for example nerds who like superheroes), or you are simply expressing the pain (art) via an artistic medium, whether performing or viewing/listening/experiencing. Sporty…
/r/altTRP08/05/17 10:48 PM
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I agree and I understand Kill Bill contains social engineering, but man is it a funny movie.
/r/altTRP26/04/17 04:20 AM
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I mostly agree but people also care how much you are with 'the group' or society's wavelength, not just sexiness. My male and female feminazi roommates have reverse-gender hairstyles (not the most sexually attractive) and have people over more often than me; I am a good looking guy, they see me go to the gym every night and I have results, but they know I'm kind of a shitlord so treat me as lesser and I think see me that way.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 05:54 AM
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You like what you like, but: I get shit for that This is because you are openly telling people your controversial preferences; big mistake. Instead learn how to let people down easy or don't go around saying you only date white guys. Even if it feels like your time is being wasted by getting hit on by someone non-white, give signs you aren't interested or tell them outright if you must, but gently, because that rapport can be useful.
/r/altTRP21/01/17 07:31 AM
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I think experience will tell you ultimately, and then you'll see the advice that makes the most sense and go "mhmm" and it sticks more.
/r/altTRP15/01/17 03:47 AM
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Hot. What're CDs?
/r/altTRP14/01/17 08:59 AM
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I think it has to do with not threatening men's masculinity and less to do with being offended at men's horniness. Otherwise a group of guys chilling watching sports and hot lady commercials would be as 'bad' as gayness, when that's just an eye roll to most wives and girlfriends. Doesn't make a difference but, gay here
/r/MensRights30/11/16 07:39 PM
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This is wise, and in politics I think my problem is I see everyone around me as assets or liabilities in voting for the right thing because if not it'll be nukes/rapefugees/entitlements/war. I've learned the hard way to stfu, and many times. I was really stubborn.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:27 AM
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Thanks for contributing this info; I was aware there was a lot of silence re: black-on-white murder in South Africa but only peripherally. May I ask what news sources you usually read, assuming that's where you got info this specific?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 03:09 AM
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The sexist/racist/misogynist etc stuff started probably naturally, when a lot of milquetoast people in the country saw the segment CNN cut from Donald's announcement of his run for presidency, where he said bad things about bad people coming from Mexico - so it was an "in" the media saw to assure that many, many Americans would hate him off the bat. Americans are socially conditioned from a young age to be incredibly sensitive about race issues so it was an easy pull. I saw through it because I …
/r/altTRP29/09/16 12:35 AM
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The left has been busy reliving the civil rights movement since the moment the world moved on. Right on. The first time I saw this perspective was when I read Ann Coulter's "Mugged"; curious how you came to that conclusion yourself? Did you grow up Republican or do your own research etc?
/r/altTRP29/09/16 12:32 AM
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And the gays that act or are masculine are part of the problem in their eyes.
/r/altTRP28/09/16 09:34 PM
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It's again left to the viewer to decide they don't like the looks of things, and therefore everything involved must be a part of the problem. Exactly. As I suspected before viewing, the video relies on the resentment of everybody who resented these kids in school, and who were so upset that they didn't match up, that they're willing to see these modes of behaviors and preferences as a disease instead of another lifestyle. Sound familiar?? People with hatred and pain are so easy to manipulate to …
/r/altTRP28/09/16 08:00 PM
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Work it off!! I believe in you :)
/r/altTRP17/09/16 06:54 PM
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Is the law of power "think what you like but behave like others" an exception to #4?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:10 PM
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This is a great post, seeing life as input/output and quantifiable for maximum results. Only thing I would say is that, apart from the essentials you're mentioning (income/health), happiness is usually determined ultimately by quality of relationships and having a somewhat subjective view of the world as being a friendly/good place. Gotta have some Tyler RSD in there.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:09 PM
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The rows are each guy. At the top are the hottest and as you go down they are less hot. They're ordered subjectively. The features in the chart are descriptors as to why they might be there, but it's just me guessing why. Imagine making a chart of guys you think are hottest from top to bottom. Then after you do that, adding descriptions to see if you find patterns. That's what I did. One of my last paragraphs in my post goes over each column and what it means.
/r/altTRP18/07/16 08:20 AM
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Haha you would think. They act as an indicator that it's a good time to virtue-signal your gold-medal self-prescribed victim status. But ultimately I understand that they warn that the author will go deeper into detail.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 12:00 AM
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This is also the essence of trigger warning origins. If you look at the scary past, you might get a sad feeling and have a list of things to reconsider, which to the feminine mind is in of itself a liability.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:46 PM
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When this propaganda machine tells you not to do something...already a good sign you should be adamantly doing it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:54 PM
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Thanks for your input; I ordered people hierarchically and then took notes on them to see how they differed to see why they might be where they are.
/r/altTRP30/05/16 01:58 PM
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Nice, PMing now re: I) and II) and stuff
/r/altTRP28/05/16 02:55 AM
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Hi there, I really liked these links. I finally got through the entire God Principle online book. I'm really into spirituality and combining self-ascendence -- something we can all agree is important on TRP on an earthly level at least -- with the quintessence/ethereal/spirit. I want to ask you, what's the gist of what you believe in? Maybe more appropriate for PM but I'm very interested nonetheless.
/r/altTRP22/05/16 08:13 PM
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michael 3 lol
/r/MGTOW22/05/16 08:08 PM
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Welcome! Will PM with meaning of those last adjectives
/r/altTRP20/05/16 04:57 PM
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IOI #1! Nah more like, you're interested enough in each other that you pick them up like they're a log, they laugh and try to pry you off, you put them down, go watch a movie with him at your house, and don't even kiss them goodbye on their way out. Imagine the person being carried is a girl and the guy carrying is a chad and it's easier to picture.
/r/altTRP12/05/16 12:49 PM
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PMing you meaning of color/animal adjective choices
/r/altTRP06/05/16 08:27 PM
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0. You are a... x) gay man 1. What's your relationship style? Consistently seeing the same guys who fly in and are here for a little while for weekends/vacation/business / Short term relationships. Bang and goodbye, always. Haven't been official with someone in nine years but cute, handsome guys are interested in me, and I have sex with them or 'hang out' with them. I don't think I do it for the attention; I think I'm genuinely disinterested in being needed and like spending time by myself. Bein…
/r/altTRP30/04/16 03:04 AM
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I got Way of Men in '14 and should give it another read. He describes the need for male-to-male 'validation' and guys just being men with each other, but he didn't mention an internal, intuitive power that was the essence of masculinity. I was just kind of balancing the different signs of it he was mentioning, while he also said, "it's not an act, the way gay men often do it." It's power! Or, a knowledge of an internal power and not needing attention and sweet-nothings from others. Like how you …
/r/altTRP13/04/16 10:19 PM
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Thats because by their very nature they are weak. They have very little direct power and thats by design. Thats the way it's supposed to be. Men only find this matter disconcerting because we are so used to judging one another based on direct power. We value other men by this standard. In the deep recesses of our brains we are looking for brothers who can stand by our side in war. When we see the apparent weakness of gay men and women and still try to judge them by the same standard there is a c…
/r/altTRP13/04/16 12:31 AM
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Victimhood indeed seems to be the default narrative imposed to put the population in its place in regards to protected classes. It's interesting because what it relies on is, in this instance, gays feeling victimized (or being aware, manipulative assholes), and others feeling guilty or afraid or like they're doing the right thing by opposing this bill. Basically, only somehow sick, distorted, ignorant, afraid people fall for it or go with it while informed, internally strong people don't. The el…
/r/altTRP09/04/16 09:00 PM
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I'll watch the video, but some points Ann brings up are: The first to disagree with Darwin weren't evangelical Christians; they were paleontologists. The transitional fossils haven't been found in 150 years of desperate looking. Instead we have animals that look similar to one another and that look like continuations of each other, the same way a glance at the different iPods show they are continuations of one another. For three billion years the earth was essentially microcellular organisms and…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:56 AM
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Yeah scientists have to subscribe to groupthink too. I'm familiar with The Bell Curve's controversy and I know "the blank slate theory" to refer to the faulty theory that race/gender are only skin deep but I forgot/didn't know there was a book; I have to check it out. I'm ok with demonizing libertarians about being open border, but that's about it. I read a good portion of The Selfish Gene; people consider(ed) that book controversial? I saw it as basically a long, fairly interesting footnote on …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:42 AM
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OP here, I'm obviously conservative too, but also a performer. It's tough talking about it, and if you have to perform some ultra-progressive crap it can take the fun out of it, but I've begun writing, and here and there I'll have a little shitlord joke or situation. The material is from my heart and I think they'll eat it up, with a little red pill powder in there too. Ann Coulter said on her first Reddit AMA that if you have dumb kids, send them to law school, and your smart kids should go to …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:16 AM
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I might be taking on a more DarkEnlightenment angle, but at least in our world today, the number one thing a child can wish for for the sake of their own development is to be born to parents that are and stay married. 70% of criminals, store robbers, juvenile delinquents, murderers, etc come from single mother homes. Society needs to stop giving women the right to a man's bank account if they're not married and cut out goodie bags from divorce settlements -- basically, anything to make marriage …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:10 PM
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Maybe like My problem is not that I'm lazy, it's figuring out when the break/rest part of my schedule is going to be today. Came to the comments to find a good way to frame "lazy" too. I have three simple actions I want to take up the absolute majority of my time/day/life, but most of it is still reading, which I love but want to reduce exponentially.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:07 AM
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And that's supposed to be a well-paid job too.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:34 PM
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True, best not to bring it up. I think at this point it's also important to learn how to respond when someone else brings up politics at all. This election has caused me to legit make up a candidate I like and why because everyone thinks they're an expert now and talks to you like you're also a left-winger. Research and intellect aren't rewarded; conformity is.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:25 AM
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Do you love knowledge, but rely on passively absorbing it from others? What would be a more productive way? I always read things others have written, to the detriment of my other goals, but I'm not sure how else to learn unless you mean go outside and discover with my hands. Is that what you mean?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 11:58 PM
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The only exception I guess is omega types whose commitment-count is zero for obvious reasons. No one finds out he hasn't been with anyone and goes "wow he must be breaking some hearts." Whereas anyone who finds out any girl has been with a hundred guys is already passing judgment. I figure this kind of commitment-standard applies to guys who are already doing all right with women, or rather this is one way a woman involved with you measures your status.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:37 AM
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Good comment but you shouldn't be going to McDonalds daily. Not saying that like an elitist suburbanite but in an eat-clean-and-lift-bro way.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 12:32 AM
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I've worked with her once! She's great.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:23 PM
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home for psychotic children hmm? can you say more? something to do with 70% of murderers/rapists/criminals being from single mom homes?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:23 PM
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You're right that she lets readers continue in their blue pill mentality unabated in the end, but she's saying what you quote because she doesn't want to be responsible for being anti-feminist; she wants to use plausible deniability if it threatens to bite her in the ass. Not saying that's noble or a good thing. But I do think she wrote the entire article thinking "man, I am sick of women saying all shitiness comes from men," and then wrote about her true experiences.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:54 AM
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It's stories like this that makes me want to distance myself from using the word "beta" on these desperate people. He's got to be lower than that. If I tell myself this guy is merely beta, then I assume I'm the only higher tier available, which I'm not. This is some omega material.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 11:14 AM
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Yeah I see what you're saying. I'm curious what you think about this: that ego relies heavily on the opinion of others, men and women. Status, etc.
/r/altTRP28/01/16 05:18 AM
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Does "everything stems from pleasure and pain" refer to what stimulated him to change?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 11:30 PM
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Their thought process / philosophy is, "But why would you break the heart of someone you barely know because maybe it would work out and you would be together and you're just being snooty about having to take PrEP every day and taking other measures to protect yourself," basically. Their sympathy is with the victim. (And the HIV-negative ones who may catch it are not the victim in this case, slightly ironically.)
/r/altTRP03/12/15 02:02 AM
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So that's what happens after successful meditation, that's what that enlightening feeling is, when all is calm and you are actually obeying your self-commands instead of what you feel like doing. It's oxytocin signaling that you have, for now, overcome dopamine. Structure, intention, and presence have defeated the itch. Nice.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:34 AM
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I think every relationship and interaction has a power dynamic, so those value assignments can be handy as to what's most useful for you in that moment, for the next few years, or in life. Saying "I have to cull my birthday list by 2 people since it'll be at a smaller bar than I originally thought, so therefore the 2 most fem ones have to go" doesn't make sense.
/r/altTRP29/10/15 01:31 AM
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The emails. Bernie was doing his "I talk about the issues, not the drama" thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:03 AM
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At least you didn't say "fuckboy." /s
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 06:31 AM
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I, too, think that self love and seeing all as one is the road to enlightenment. Most people, shockingly, don't achieve it. I'm not zooming into one guy's life when I make these assessments or writing up a how-to guide with this post; I'm zooming out and observing groups as wholes: what motivates straight guys? And is it the same thing that motivates gay guys? I could observe my apathy and say "I will continue to get more and more enlightened and make it all better," or, I can wonder what the st…
/r/altTRP23/10/15 04:14 AM
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There's still competition even when you're with someone. And I'm talking about the pattern in men in general; every man has to prove himself in some way in order to be deemed valuable, whether they are consciously competing or not.
/r/altTRP23/10/15 12:00 AM
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OK, it still might be competitive to get sex, but would you say that gay men achieve, subconsciously, for the best mates? This article also speaks to masculine improvement and competition across all aspects of life; the answer to the question it posits wouldn't bring more sex, it would bring more life achievement because it's talking about "x" (sex or otherwise) as fuel to innovate and achieve.
/r/altTRP19/10/15 06:30 AM
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"Beta" doesn't have to mean "this is what you are in every aspect of your life," but being a bottom is at its best hero-worship, and letting a sensitive part of your body be a fuck-cushion for a hot, worthy guy. When you ask about versatile guys, you're thinking "hierarchy of men in general," but I don't think it works like that. Topping someone for me at its best feels like you own them, or they're an appendage of you, and you're pretty awesome for scoring it. So tops are in touch with that fee…
/r/altTRP19/10/15 06:10 AM
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There's a very cool Hermetic text on mental gender which discusses the "I" (your intentions, your mental side) and the "me" (the emotional side, and the side you want to perfect). I also notice that when I'm by myself and I talk to myself out loud (a nasty habit I realize I should stop) when I talk in the first person I'm often the feminine/me and when I talk in the second person I'm the masculine/I. But it switches too. "This is fucking hard! ... Holy shit, calm down." "Wow, I sure fucked that …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:19 AM
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re first quote: And it literally shows a whale. Ham planets would be calling themselves out by saying "this whale represents me! take it down!"
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:51 PM
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Thank you for this man! I was wondering what kept drawing me back to the book, the aesthetic or the writing, but this book is a man's cruel fantasy come to life. In high school honors english we kept talking about the metaphors and kitschiness of the books' times but nothing like this real shit. Since this is the ultimate blue pill or rather red-pill-gone-wrong death trap, it would be kinda cool to have the Gatsby billboard eyes as the top of the subreddit header. But that would probably be a fe…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:05 PM
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what're DBs? didn't see it in the glossary
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 01:16 AM
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I know what you mean; a lot of the most-upvoted comments are mostly rabble-rousing on TRP but I find that I "save" insightful posts that are useful and not just ones that 'resonate' with me. For instance one recently about how validating a girl you were once with or who LJBF'd you often just energizes her for riding other guys' dicks; you're validating her and thus her decisions...to not be with you. I often think I read the same thing over and over again so I largely agree with you, depending o…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 02:17 PM
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I got how males have to make a lot of decisions for survival/legacy or death, and how many women just had to choose the right guy to get the job done, but I feel like the point as to how "being happy for someone else's loss" was lost.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:52 AM
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Lady Gaga had also said in an interview that a producer/record-deal-person had "raped" her, and "she felt nothing about it at the time" (as is the general feeling among rape victims mid-rape) but that now she was having second thoughts. Thanks for speaking for the best of our generation, gags.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:14 PM
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Look who's talking, Molasar!!1
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:03 AM
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A long time ago I read somewhere that like over 70% of Olympian athletes sleep with other Olympians from other countries when they compete. Honestly makes perfect sense and think about the alpha-god D she was suddenly missing out on.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:48 PM
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Hahahahaha how nuclear are these shit-tests gonna get? I fully understood when I read here that feminism is a shit-test, but this is the shit-test in prototypical dense form. Oh man.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 04:55 AM
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"John! Come over, we're gonna have a threesome!" "Nice bro! With who?" "..Who?" Can't wait for the future lol
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:11 AM
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Then I passed that anger and got to someplace that was pretty fucking scary. It was cold, emotionless, and pitiless towards myself. I took stock of myself in that state and was disgusted by what I had allowed myself to become. I have been in that state ever since the anger phase and hadn't seen it as a problem...oops What's the 'improved' part of this? More fun-loving? I kind of like being very rational and I'm sure no one's arguing against that; it seems like the alternatives are blue pill and …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:36 PM
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Less effort, more males to choose from. Now everyone can be Regina George before she got fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 07:03 PM
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Do you really think that fat women aren't interested in men seeing them as sexy? That they totally understand they are as good as off the market but at least they feel better about themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 06:21 PM
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Nice hyperbole but we're totally not getting fatter or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 06:18 PM
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Everyday women aren't inventing feminism and spreading it around surreptitiously? Wow you sure got me. No one thinks it's middle class wives and girlfriends signing secret petitions for obese women to become pop stars. It is entirely in the interests of the government to grow and have more control by setting up circumstances in which we need to be taken care of, leading to bigger government with dependent citizens. When a population is hugely obese, when both men and women are working and thus p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 06:14 PM
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I think people need to see this less like popular individuals doing their own thing that coincidentally matches a cultural pattern, and seeing the social engineering that is behind this. What a coincidence that our trends and mottos are not "you can do it!" regarding dieting for the tragic obesity epidemic that is almost "old news" it has been going for so long, but rather we hear "you've got it!" when we have people in this country on mini tractors because they are so big. With an obesity epide…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:52 PM
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But by having prominent starts like "All Bout Dat Bass" and Amy Schumer, both whose talents are highly questionable, you don't think that these are efforts by women or otherwise to make their shortcomings more 'sexually forgivable' so they can get top-tier male ass/commitment? Maybe it's to make them feel better in part. But it's not "feel better; at least you tried to lose weight like those skinny hotties." It's "you ARE sexy, grrrl!" Even Nicki Minaj's "Anaconda" has a bridge that is literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:11 PM
3

Well, there goes your "but feminism is about equality among the sexes" card.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 05:07 PM
1

I see where you're coming from but that's not what I mean. I think it's less about "quick do your bucket list you never know when the end will come" and more about going through your fears of today in order to get what you truly want; they're really just your fears of dying. I capture the above intellectually, but in my day to day life I still don't dry hump famous people I recognize on the street; I value my day to day life (not being in jail) more than the moment for its own sake. But golly do…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:19 AM
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I just googled this "whitaker's mantra" you wrote about. I read it. Can you argue against it? I haven't heard an argument against these concepts that made me change my mind, though I did used to think that all people underneath the skin were exactly the same regardless of race. I responded to the person you responded to and noted I'm not white. I'm latino. DE still makes sense to me. Also, I think people should be treated equally and given the opportunity to show their abilities when/if they lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 08:14 AM
1

You sure got me. If by racist you mean "are you a latino who realizes that the blank slate theory is based on hopes and not facts?" then yes. But I do think we should all be treated equally and given equal opportunity. I don't think we should look at each other and say "oh you're Asian? you must be good at ___, won't test you or anything, good day." Not fair for the individual or their society. But when races of high testosterone and second-tier intellect (like mine) fuck up entire countries or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 08:10 AM
1

The vast majority of his campaign money are donations that're under $200, from citizens. I'd rather have someone bought out by the people than someone bought out by corporations. Also while he stepped aside for Hilary Clinton's shill #BlackLivesMatter campaign, he's shown he puts up with no bullshit; he kicks stupid questions out of the way, he says what he wants to when he wants to ("So what do you think of Hilary's hair vs Trump's?" "The American people are being used by the 0.1%, this is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/15 08:05 AM
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It was a snowball. First I found PUA but wasn't satisfied with the gimmickiness, then I found TRP, then I found Dark Enlightenment, then I continued to read really hardcore conservative things, and went from thinking we are all a blank slate to, well, in terms of groups, there are predictive patterns, and consequences when immigration happens. But I'm still voting for Bernie. He actually has similar views to Trump regarding immigration anyway; he just is less, er, colorful about it. EDIT (8 days…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 04:29 AM
13

Realizing you will die makes you realize that you are as good as dead now. So act and live as if it were your last day, because it really is. Call your oneitis today!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 02:59 AM
3

I'm there once in a while!
/r/altTRP09/09/15 05:48 PM
1

Nice, good things to keep in mind. I'm noticing my sex drive is dipping the more I get involved with my work, so, maybe I should stay on that track in general...
/r/altTRP09/09/15 12:00 AM
1

I'm with you, but what do you mean when you say "but PrEP has always been a joke to me because of it"? Is PrEP a joke in this context because it's less effective than a condom, because you can't be sure if your partner is on PrEP, or another reason?
/r/altTRP08/09/15 09:26 PM
1

continued Do you find that bottoms are generally thirsty for LTRs, with you or in general? no but i find that the bottom-y ones in particular that don't come from grindr - at least any more bottom-y than me - they like to play hard to get and like to steal time and delay sex. it's for their status so it doesn't kill me and i don't take it personally, i'll get off some other way, but of course i never go on another outing with them unless it's clearly sex. i should realize though that these same …
/r/altTRP02/09/15 11:33 AM
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male single 24 usa handsome slim putting on muscle, lots of sex partners one official relationship that was short and years ago, more bottom, classic post college poor but educated, i initiate and also get initiated. general thoughts on bottoms. I like the feeling of submitting to a masc guy. I think as I grow muscle I'll appreciate being a top more. I like the feeling of horns growing on my head when I top or am about to top. I have to find guys I'm attracted to who I would top -- that's a para…
/r/altTRP02/09/15 11:33 AM
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You can be a girl's daddy and still impress her by being a (RP!TM) gentleman when her father's around. She'll know who 'wins' in her mind, if you have to think of it that way.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:01 AM
1

But now I'm curious, what's the sneaky fucker theory?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:43 PM
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"UGHHH five men just told me I'm attractive today! What is wrong with the world!"
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:19 AM
2

I've definitely seen a porn that started with that sentence
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:42 AM
5

Sneaky fucker type gay here. Stop oppressing me shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:28 AM
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One time, I put I was bisexual on Tinder, because I was trying some dumb marketing/selling thing for money and I wanted to talk to as many people as possible about the product. So, women showed up on my phone for the first time and I swiped right on absolutely everybody. As a handsome guy with friends and a slim-now-beginning-to-bulk build, holy shit getting a girl to swipe right is so fucking hard. Guys on the other hand, gay or not, have a much wider palate. With false rape charges against str…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:08 AM
2

This right here
/r/altTRP25/08/15 01:55 PM
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Yeah from the last commenter it seems there is a lot I didn't know, so these campaigns I've been calling "PC" make more sense to me now. But I'm not entirely sure I would trust someone to be on the meds unless I knew them well enough. There was a guy recently on the news who was arrested for infecting a lot of guys with the virus; he may even have told them he was HIV+ but medicated.
/r/altTRP25/08/15 12:39 AM
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There aren't exactly academic statistics going over the rate at which social media is whipping out the "you better not be saying no to people with HIV," but it has been pervasive enough for me to notice, and the word "protection" seemed like another symptom of this. Regarding this one guy, sexual health clinics are very often echo chambers of political correctness, even with procedures as simple as word usage, so it seemed unlikely to me that my monitor was the only one spouting off on not offen…
/r/altTRP24/08/15 04:16 AM
1

I explained the second paragraph in my previous reply to you, and regarding the first paragraph you are quoting, I am talking specifically about the health guy's attitude that is being spread around. "Never decide to not have sex with someone because they have HIV. And don't say offensive words like 'prevention' or 'protection' because HIV is nothing that we need to protect ourselves from except sometimes."
/r/altTRP24/08/15 02:11 AM
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OK, so if you are right, most people with AIDS today die of old age or an unrelated illness such as cancer. I'm not questioning it; I'm just seeking clarification. Is this what you mean? your whole thing about protection being stigma... what? i can't even, just can't... we've been screaming for decades CONDOMS!! I wasn't saying protection is stigma. One time, I was talking about protection in the form of condoms and the health guy basically said "wow, don't say 'protection,' that's offensive!" i…
/r/altTRP24/08/15 01:49 AM
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Yeah I have a lot to learn but I think I'm still making a good point regarding the mainstream trying to override common sense choices. Feel free to fill me in since I'm still interested in learning more bro.
/r/altTRP24/08/15 01:15 AM
2

I'm hearing stories about straight guys who aren't out who identify as bi who find that male-to-female trans are their dream. I can't imagine this is every straight-but-curious guy's thing but I've heard some variation of this story at least twice. EDIT: strikeout
/r/altTRP23/08/15 11:59 PM
2

One-itis and you didn't give commitment? Sounds like willpower. Not to say that oneitis is a good reason to commit, but was there anything about her or your life that made you decide not to commit?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:08 PM
2

Of course, I love PMing about gay-terper stuff. My only rule is tits or gtfo, naturally
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:05 PM
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I've written on the matter. I feel like all gay men seek alphas, and alphas naturally win at getting other alphas, but there is still a dominance game and one who usually takes the cake of the two due to slightly better looks, less neediness, etc. And there might not be game if you're looking for a ONS at a club but outside of that it's more complicated, for example if you want to plate a particularly hot guy you've banged without seeming desperate and without suggesting you want an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:55 PM
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No strategy required really, but if you want an LTR, it's as easy as getting Chad in an LTR, even if Chad is an Arnold, because even Arnold can get some in gay world.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:37 PM
2

Cool man! Happy to hear, stay in touch!
/r/altTRP12/08/15 05:18 PM
2

Thank you for the high compliments! I had been on and off writing something like a book, but my drafts have a lot of PUA blunder from my earlier days. I'll have to revisit and see what angle I want to put on -- more RP than PUA for starters. Anything you'd like to see in particular if I were to get back to it?
/r/altTRP12/08/15 04:25 PM
2

I understand what you mean, and looking again at what I wrote, it does come off as haughty and status-signaling, even though everyone has been chased by a hamburglar at one time or another. It wasn't my intention to come off that way. I posted here because I think I wrote him something valuable and although I have little doubt he saw what I wrote as no more than an elongated insult, I think it is some straightforward and frank advice he isn't going to get anywhere else and might never hear again…
/r/altTRP11/08/15 02:32 PM
2

If you're comfortable with your RP lenses you should be able to see this as the equivalent of a kids-are-smarter-than-the-parents kind of movie. It's full of shit and makes the little ones feel special. It's dumb, but it won't ruin your life. Yes, the parents-being-dumber-than-kids is a relatively new theme that gives kids the wrong idea if their parents aren't assertive enough, and it came after the Leave it to Beaver and Brady Bunch family-friendly TV shows back when television had values; the…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:11 AM
1

Wow wow wow, saving is white knight behavior
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 12:28 AM
2

I also am not into social justice as much as 'traditional justice' (I'm shamelessly quoting from /darkenlightenment sidebar). But you don't like these movements because... it demands men and women disfigure their basic essence in order to fit in with some artificial, manufactured ideal propagated through mass media everywhere. I agree with you in terms of how they're putting it down our throats and the changes they actually want to happen ("men/women aren't different!"). This version of equality…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:56 PM
1

Adds up. Also something something Rothschilds funded both sides of every war.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:54 PM
1

I can definitely see women pulling back the slutiness in the near future, especially with info moving so fast now and thus movements changing how they think because they see the effects of their actions more quickly; the confederate flag "problem: offended; solution: banned" thing was literally in a day. On another recent TRP article, someone commented that the women-against-feminism campaign is often/actually women using the sexual strategy of "I'm not like those man-hating feminists" even thou…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:31 PM
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The red pill is only the start of this shift in all human life being equally disposable and the women and children first becoming nonsense. While TRP has shown me a lot of inequality that males deal with, it's also taught me the importance of treating a spade like a spade. I think disposability in general sucks. But I wonder if trying to make women and children also disposable, or even just women, would be anything like feminists trying to go against biology for the sake of equality. (Although t…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:36 PM
1

8/1: 9 hours. Saturday night went to sleep at 3am woke up at 12pm. 8/2: 4.25 hours. Sunday night couldn't sleep until 2:45am and woke up at 7am. Lemme know if I should be putting Friday night for 8/1 instead of Saturday night, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:08 PM
1

should_ will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:06 PM
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just had my ex suggest suggest ... instead of staying in a relationship Props for the speedy nexting
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:00 PM
3

What's interesting to me is how the feminine gay guy in the making thinks or imagines, especially at a young age, that he can use proxy-power to get what he wants, i.e., use his looks, innocence, and baby talk, much like a girl does in order to get mens' help, pity, love and protection. I think gays' exposition to that type of behavior from females might have played a part, but I think that something about the world scares them too (lack of father figure etc), so they see and use that behavior a…
/r/altTRP03/08/15 04:04 AM
1

Now I understand why sidebar-treasure "The Manipulated Man" was #3 most bought/read book in Spain for some time.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:05 PM
3

Even if you're convinced a guy is heading for disaster, never deprive him of the learning opportunity. good note for RP evangelists who ignore the don't-talk-about-TRP rule
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:03 PM
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I don't see how the unveiling is going to be effective. Are they going to put all the names on a .txt file for the world to see? I guess there is some risk if the list is alphabetized which I would assume it would have to be, but only a few vindictive (or reasonably suspicious) spouses would even check. But wouldn't they have to CTRL+F that shit? That's asking a lot for most people.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:45 AM
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banging women who hate you, can be done yup just watch out for those pesky rape claims etc etc
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 07:23 PM
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Good stuff, looking forward to the series, particularly Leaving the Gay Matrix and the War Against Fraternities (raaaage porn). What song is playing in the background? You should consider posting this as its own entry on AltTRP so it gets more visibility. Though doing that for your actual first episode may be more appropriate.
/r/altTRP16/07/15 06:36 PM
2

"I love power. But it is as an artist that I love it. I love it as a musician loves his violin, to draw out its sounds and chords and harmonies." I wonder what on earth he meant by this.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:30 PM
1

That's really cool that you 'came from', so to speak, the conservative and reactionary ideologies before you got here. I went PUA>TRP>here>DarkEnlightenment and found my liberalism dissipated quite abruptly, and became really interested in reactionary and libertarian political thought. Thomas Sowell and Julie Borowski are my Gs. Interesting how these connect. This would probably be a preaching-to-the-choir book for you, but you might find "Androphilia" by Jack Donovan interesting since it's abou…
/r/altTRP14/07/15 01:15 AM
1

Secondly, misery loves company. Ever notice how the people at the top have a lot of detractors? It's because they are envious. You want to have people criticizing you and attempting to take you down to their level, because that's how you establish the hierarchy. So in the future, if anyone aggressively tries to make it clear to me that they're higher status, or they give me a dig, I should see it as them measuring up to me, instead of them asserting their obvious superiority to my obvious inferi…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 12:01 AM
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I saw on another comment on this sub something about women wanting to have your power, take your power, crush your power, and if that doesn't work, get fucked by your power, thus achieving it by association. Makes more and more sense to me. What would be a more masculine performance art than stand up? Stand up takes guts and is very witty and intellect-based; comics are mostly men since men tend to be funnier than women. Even improv is largely throwing yourself to the dogs.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:34 PM
1

Hey feel free to PM me for whatever. Here's my blog if you're looking for general gay-dating-gay-sex musings and you're feeling anti-social.
/r/altTRP13/07/15 12:46 AM
1

Means "men going their own way"; check out the glossary link on the sidebar for an in-depth description I don't have off the top of my head right now. But basically men who have decided to stop seeking dating/relationships/marriages and often even sex because society/hypergamy/self-improvement.
/r/altTRP04/07/15 02:19 AM
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A guy who has feelings and comes forward with them and they're not reciprocated?! Ehrmegerd, Nice Guy detected!!1
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:25 PM
2

There's something here I felt that the article touched a little bit on but not completely, and it's that for a woman, a guy cheating, for example, or banging around doesn't mean much to her, even if she's seeing him and she's interested. A woman prefers sharing a high-quality man than being a loser's one and only (~Rollo Tomassi). Whereas it's unforgivable to a man for his woman to go astray. That's because a girl's value is basically genetic and he is providing the value, whereas a guy's value …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:19 AM
1

They weren't exactly friends but I get you. Saying playful stuff like "faaancy" if they start mounting a high horse and buying their own praise.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:51 AM
1

I needed to read this. Twice I had conversations with pretty high-status guys who, during pleasantries of how have you been, went off on a list of recent accomplishments, which I thought this sub was telling me to not do, but it didn't really lower their status. I post my slightly-glamorous career stuff on Facebook, so I just told them "oh you know just work and acting" since I know they know, but I sounded like a soft trying-to-not-be-offensive-or-feeling-insecure fucking beta each time. This m…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:24 PM
3

Lead the men, and the women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:02 PM
1

Read your last paragraph in the tune of the bridge and still not sure if that was intentional
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 09:24 PM
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this comment came in like a wrecking ball
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 01:38 PM
2

There are gay men like this too. I don't know why they white knight since they can't get sex they want from girls. I think it's a combination of holding onto old beliefs (b-b-but it's always harder to be a woman than a man) and typical beta mother-dearest complex.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 06:56 AM
1

Wars are rich people's games, and the more people that are realizing this, the less of a rite of passage that war or its cousins seem like. I think the new frontier is the inner landscape, as cliche and blue pill as that might sound. In terms of reaching family elder status, you can be the cool uncle/dad/granddad if you want, and if you do RP enough you will probably fall in line with that. But in our daily 'battles' in the office, at school, in the bedroom, the ones that endure and the ones tha…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:32 PM
1

I'll be back...to see what he posts.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:03 AM
3

Look good, use HD camera, turn on ads for profit. If you want to be anonymous, use sunglasses, like Liberal Revolution. By advice do you mean video ideas? I'd be curious about thoughts on whether having a hook-up app kind of life is considered MGTOW, your or gays' experience with whether that's burned out quick for them, how they coped or whether that's sustainable, etc. And how MGTOW is legitimate for gay men and not just a tool to escape their approach anxiety, since I've always seen MGTOW as …
/r/altTRP15/06/15 04:38 AM
2

The only acceptable version of this I know about is this friendly great awesome guy who has a father with a cringe-worthy emasculating last name. Can't say it here but pretend it was "Purse" or "Breast" or something. So they went with the mom's more respectable-sounding last name. Good move and a definite step up from parents who name their kids "Crayon."
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:32 PM
2

You inhale a lot of pure crap that your body doesn't clean from the atmosphere if you breathe through your mouth. Your nose has dem filters. Follow the magic school bus, men.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:20 PM
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I think he means that he doesn't use his victim card for extra stuff that society has to offer, doesn't demand reparations from people who are abusive due to existing such as cis white heterocheetos -- he has been raped, it was severe enough for him to remember it, we don't know whether or not he's suffered repercussions and if he is whether he's taking appropriate measures to counter any damage, but he's moving on with his life and not making it everyone else's problem.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 05:58 PM
5

She's showing female-America how easy it is to become a rape victim - has anyone ever watched YOU doing something sexy without your consent, such as a beta looking in the direction of a hot guy's phone after you sent him a nude Snapchat? YOU can be a rape victim, too!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 01:29 AM
1

mind blown.............it definitely would catch a guy who was ok with getting trampled all over. dang. thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 03:49 AM
1

Complete hypothetical here: what if you completely changed as a man for the better? Would you still "next" it even if you were viscerally interested, and if you had a feeling you had bested the other guy, even though you hadn't quite made the cut before?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 05:37 PM
1

Hehe. What was your experience with "The Rules" like? Do you have a better recommendation?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:09 PM
1

For anyone reading the above comment and loving it as much as I am, read Jack Donovan's "The Way of Men," or for something specifically gay, "Androphilia." Edit: I wrote that before reading that you mentioned me and my blog. Didn't mean to look like I was going off of your recommendation of my writing and saying "whoa anyone else think this comment is the donkey kong's bananas?"
/r/altTRP04/06/15 03:32 AM
1

I agree as a whole with you that alpha butch gays have way more options since their market value as basically "the football player" is so, so high, but playing feminine games on alphas like "hard to get" if you're a feminine type or rather stick with being a feminine type, can get you a lot of attention from Those Guys. I personally am transitioning from the wannabe-alpha-handbag to masculine but for guys who look like male Cate Blanchettes, do okay with men, and wanna maintain that status and i…
/r/altTRP04/06/15 03:30 AM
1

We could use more /r/redpillwomen type threads for gay men who take the feminine side of a relationship. Reading "The Rules" helped me secure some pretty good alpha dick in the past, back when I was interested in alpha commitment (lol). When we say beta we often mean loser; but you can be a feminine, slightly clingy gay man and be hot and sexually/romantically/socially successful. So gay men who are interested in TRP but have found success being feminine instead of alpha can have their own niche…
/r/altTRP04/06/15 03:27 AM
1

if you aren't going around life fucking whoever you want to fuck and getting what you want, who you want, when you want it, then you've simply not swallowed the pill well enough. nope, mgtow is an option I think it's fine to be interested in a relationship. What someone would tell you here is, what are you looking for in a relationship? Amazing feelings? To grow? To be 'good' at maintaining one? For the experience? Once you lose the "why," or so it goes, then you're lost in a morass of feeling, …
/r/altTRP03/06/15 08:43 PM
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I guess you're right if he was seriously setting up a date, but small chatter that goes nowhere is completely normal I find, at least where I live. I've found it's most efficient to text three hot guys at once to meet that night and if I'm lucky they won't all flake out, and it'll be just one guy I see. Ridiculous and against my own ideas of courtesy but that's how it works. I've never left someone hanging from having done that.
/r/altTRP03/06/15 08:19 PM
2

Hate to pull out the "as a gay man" faux-expertise card but the kind of dating your roommate does is red pill, not just gay. Gay guys are still often blue pill, clingy, and when oneitis is happening and the other side starts losing interest, or both parties are intensely interested, head games abound. The difference is that since gay men have more sex because of the low-inhibition, non-LMR male sex drive, the price of sex is fairly low (except more muscle required for hotter guys) and after gett…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:53 PM
4

He probably said "human" because "woman" would have been considered offensive in that context.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:01 AM
3

Kind of. Tingles are also dread, if not mostly dread. A girl seeing someone hot obviously has the "oh my, how attractive" hormones flowing, but more importantly there's also the "how unattainable, hard-to-hold-down" adrenaline, which is the real tingle. For guys, someone hot is someone hot, though dread has an important part in terms of oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 10:03 PM
1

if you have a mission and live to fulfill that then are you a slave to your mission? I believe that your mission is the physical expression of your true self so it is impossible to be a slave to your truest desires, that is the definition of freedom. I think something we have to come to grips with is that following your true mission often will feel like being a slave to it, at least at first. Doing stuff you have to do because you know you ultimately want that result often doesn't feel great at …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 08:47 PM
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When we read stories like these we have contempt for these ladies for their shitty behavior, but this is the first time I'm reading one of these and wondering if women need the red pill as much as men. If there was a skinny sweet guy who you loved like a teddy bear and a big gorilla made you moist, nervous, and you decided to get a pounding, wouldn't you be curious too? This story frames her like she's lying or craving for attention by asking, but maybe she's genuinely curious. I can see it as a…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:08 PM
1

I think one of the best ways to face worthy battles is to answer the question, What do you want? And will doing this help you get it? That way you aren't "putting on the gauntlet" for adversity's sake and actually striving to better your life and circumstances in the process.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 10:46 AM
3

Just posted this in the "learn to shut up" post; seems relevant: I understand very well the importance of and power behind not saying what you think when it's an unpopular opinion. But it's gotten to this point where not saying anything in response to something blatantly man-hating feels like self-denial, or like not applying my will to my reality. Everyone close to me and even in my secondary circle knows I sport controversial views at this point, but the way I spout them is always tasteful, an…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:07 PM
1

I understand very well the importance of and power behind not saying what you think when it's an unpopular opinion. But it's gotten to this point where not saying anything in response to something blatantly man-hating feels like self-denial, or like not applying my will to my reality. Everyone close to me and even in my secondary circle knows I sport controversial views at this point, but the way I spout them is always tasteful, and I am always open to saying things like "yeah I see what you mea…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:02 PM
1

I completely agree about this being a pussy-filled world that doesn't want to hear/give good, honest feedback. The post seems to suggest asking advice from girls who it's not working out with though. That sounds like a not-so-distant cousin of expecting a relationship partner to explain exactly what they're thinking/feeling. More importantly, if you gain a reputation of making breakups difficult by putting a girl on the spot when she's trying to leave you, that's no good. Of course we all want t…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:26 PM
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I think we're here because we have strong egos and can face reality, since I imagine we have a range of looks here. This coming after being interested in dating advice, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:08 AM
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It's been many days but I find blocking numbers, blocking Facebook very effective. Even if you know him well and it seems unnatural. It does exactly what you ultimately want, to keep him away, and that's what'll happen hopefully. And maybe some bonus respect from him if you bump into him again (almost said "dread" for him but you are not playing to get him back).
/r/altTRP23/04/15 03:15 PM
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People think being offended means being right. "SMH," as they say.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:16 AM
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How do you define "something serious" in this context and why do you want it? One interest level test might be not initiating your next text conversation and seeing if he initiates, especially if you often text him first. It sounds like you don't want to escalate things because you fear rejection. You best be hittin' the gym, brah. Also, if your shit test, should you decide to do it, be taken badly by him, even if he 'submits,' he might be resentful.
/r/altTRP19/04/15 11:43 PM
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I might be going off topic, but this touches on a little philosophy I conjured today, that I'm sure has been thought of before. God, if he exists, is all-powerful and also all-loving, as we are all familiar. But this combination of character traits is a "say what?" to us intuitively because we associate very powerful people being tyrants. I'm going to sound like I'm making a joke and I partly am because I can't phrase it better, but God doesn't exert energy to act like an asshole (as far as we k…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:41 PM
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In this translation it seems like the father had welled up with compassion before the Craig-son had said anything though. And he says to his servants and to his other son that the feast was justified because the Craig-son was dead and is now found, not that he showed humility. Though the humility was indicative of a good character trait. That's an interesting point about God's love etc. Reminds me of the God > Man > Woman > Child love-hierarchy we talk about.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:51 PM
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I know that dick feeling. But I actually have it almost all the time; most of the time I hate getting head except a few magical instances in which I feel nothing there and maybe a little pleasure when getting my dick sucked. Can't find anything online because googling "sensitive dick" turns up pre-ejaculation stuff which isn't something I struggle with. Anyone know what's up or what I can do? EDIT: I'm uncut. I think that's part of it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:20 AM
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Not literally breeding, but the feeling of a bottom of being with a worthy greater guy, and the feeling a top has of being with someone hot that wants to get penetrated by his identity and who he is, I've made a leap to associate with the feeling of breeding just because a man wants a woman with good genetics and a woman wants a worthy greater guy for child-creating purposes. And yeah I guess when I have REALLY good sex it gets a little fetish-y for me, so I'm sorry if that was excessive.
/r/altTRP13/04/15 01:43 PM
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Your battles sound bigger than my little bitch fests. My first impulse is to advise you to stay on track and not let haters, whether you have power over them or the reverse, get in your head. Go do what you set out to do, use people and allies and enemies if you need them. It sounds like a little bit of each. Physical power is psychological power and does trigger fear. And your status as undefeated probably helps get them in a jiffy before/during a fight. You do you. You can't directly how/what …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:22 PM
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This was impactful but I think I absorbed it in a different way. It's not that I'm hard on myself because I see people better than me all the time, e.g. Justin Bieber as mentioned earlier in the thread. It's that I'm easy on myself because I know there are many people better than me, and many people far worse. If my community was 150 people, I'd be on my shit like crazy. So from here on out I'm going to think of a bunch of guys better than me that I actually know, and see what I can do to be bet…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:17 AM
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Haha thanks a lot, it was really fun to write...in many ways :P
/r/altTRP02/04/15 04:54 AM
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This is very, very helpful. You know who actually can have equal relationships like that? Faggots, that's who. Nope. Gays are often as hypergamous as women. And if you're not a faggot, you wouldn't like it much. It would be like dating a dude in drag. Unfortunately yes, dating guys, one will find many have been brainwashed to think that acting like Beyonce is the way to a guy's heart, so you have to find the ones that have learned that's not how it works.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 10:45 PM
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Only thing I have to say is if you are still measuring your value in relation to others you're still fucking up. Self-actualization is attained when you realize, what other people think doesn't really matter. I think you're talking about two different things here, or technically these could be different things. One is becoming better than other people. The other is battling for others' approval. Assigning yourself the goal to become more valuable than others doesn't have to be about getting othe…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:30 PM
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When I do the typical RP shit I'm curious if you could give examples of what exactly you mean by this and perhaps when you execute this. Excuse the incompleteness of my answer; I'm with everyone else so far: more lifting and eating well if it's not happening, not acting codependent.
/r/altTRP08/03/15 08:15 PM
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I meant as opposed to "be controversial and start talking about how one could suppose she was just doing that for attention and how she likely reacts romantically and sexually just like any other girl."
/r/altTRP08/03/15 07:59 PM
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I guess my comment you responded to still applies. Gay guys will generally seek the hottest guy they can get, so it makes sense that some effeminate guys would go for each other. There are some really hot effeminate guys though, and then there are some guys who've adopted effeminacy to the point where it's hard to notice anything else about them. So yes, two effeminate gay guys can have a successful relationship, particularly provided that they are good enough for each other and either isn't get…
/r/altTRP03/03/15 07:33 PM
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Yeah that makes sense; masc/fem is what I meant; I'll be using your syntax from here on out. Except to extrapolate from that, I'd say masc/fem can better be worded dom/sub or captain/1st mate as you say, since a guy can be more on the submissive, you-lead-the-way side without being effeminate.
/r/altTRP03/03/15 05:41 PM
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A guy can be beta-to-his-man while still maintaining his own, having good boundaries, being fairly hard to get, etc. That's different from just "beta," which we throw around in TRP to basically mean weak and clueless romantically. I think it's natural for guys similar in alphaness to seek relationship with one another, provided one hasn't been alpha widowed by some guy he deludedly thinks he's relationship material for, and is therefore not interested romantically in anyone in his 'demographic.'…
/r/altTRP26/02/15 05:53 AM
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meet a girl and say "HEY MAN laughed for longer than I was supposed to. also, I completely agree.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:56 PM
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Goddamn, I wish I could save comments on mobile.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 01:02 PM
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I've been pervading this subreddit for a while but this was a little disappointing. Hear me out. The analysis is on point, but it's important to know what we're analyzing. She's what we're analyzing, but more importantly it's her hamster. These notions of value, control, etc., she is not consciously thinking about. Evolution has done this work for her. Her experience after realizing she was good as dumped -- that is, that her guy doesn't care about her, as far as she is concerned -- was devastat…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:05 AM
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she believes she is upset by this She is, and she would have been upset with either extreme. It's not the upset of "well that dried out my vagina, let's see who's on Tinder," but rather getting-dumped devastation.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:17 AM
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Yeah, but she's experiencing that in a more emotional rather than logical way. When someone dumps you, the first thought out of your mind isn't that you're upset because you can't secure future sex/validation from them, even though that's technically what's up. In reality, someone dumps you, and the feeling is devastation. You aren't thinking words like investment, value, etc. She's definitely not. The hamster is at work to secure future investment from him etc, but it doesn't know that that's w…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:15 AM
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Wait, isn't that what we're trying to accomplish by having plates, not getting oneitis, and having as many options as possible? Not necessarily the dead inside bit -- I don't have this feeling currently -- but losing innocence, the "ability to love," and seeing that they're basically all the same.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:50 PM
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Gay here, and yeah I find this thread useful in terms of oneitis/power/relationship/self-actualization stuff, even with the /r/alttrp subreddit for gay red pill guys (it's a ghost town over there). Good points you're bringing up. Despite being anti-SJW and basically anti-feminist, I used to think that girls saying gay guys were trespass-y was legit. I didn't think most rape claims were legit, but I do see a lot of gay men touching women's breasts, ass, etc. The academia tactic to 'put a stop to …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:41 PM
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My mom was just like this when a kind salesman was explaining to me some features on a pair of shoes I was getting. She literally looked right at me and said "are you kidding? Let's get out of here." It was in another language but it was so obvious what she was saying and I was so shocked and embarrassed. A guy can't get away with talking like that, unless he wants some real shit to go down, or he wants to advertise how he can't contain himself. Needless to say, I don't spend time with her when …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 08:20 AM
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Whoa, seriously before 30? Realizing this is a 'late response,' but I have a friend who's a real estate agent who, when I told her I wanted to buy property in NYC, said that she wants to too, but doing so is a fortune because you always need much more money than you think in terms of sudden expenses, vacancies, etc. What does your brother in law do for work, if I may ask? Or, what was he doing before he got into real estate?
/r/askTRP23/01/15 05:11 AM
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What part of the false rape accusation in Norway was hypothetical? epidemic sizeable problem Even if what you said weren't incredibly un-empathetic and founded on the idea of false rape accusations and not the fact that THEY HAPPEN, you are still saying that something is only a problem when a lot of people are upset. So I guess 41% of rape claims being false isn't enough for you. And if that number were to change since the definition of rape is literally expanding in the public hive mind, and su…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 05:03 AM
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From what you describe, it sounds like you aren't one of the few girls who commit false rape accusations. That's terrific, obviously. I'm not saying all girls do this, but all girls in the US essentially have the power to do so. And because of the holiness attributed to a female's word against a male's (especially if those words are "he raped me"), due process and innocent until proven guilty are often bypassed. Evidence for rape? What are you, a mysoginist?? goes that line of thinking. I can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/15 03:48 AM
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re-examine your approach That's the thing. You're implying it's okay for a guy to be labeled a rapist for how they come off when they talk to a girl, albeit no rape has occurred. A girl will not run into this situation; how a guy feels when aggressively approached by a girl in a sexual capacity is not the biggest concern of either her or society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 03:07 PM
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My/their point was that one group of labels, the ones you mention, are social stigmas that are hurtful and potentially ostracizing, while being labeled a rapist actually expels you from respectable society in every capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/15 12:31 AM
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Sure, but the point /u/wazzup987 was making is that a woman can hit on as many men as she likes, as aggressively as she likes, and not risk being labeled a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/15 10:14 PM
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Yeah. I thought I could get away with mentioning a TRP truth without directly mentioning TRP since there is talk about TRP truths making the front page when TRP isn't explicitly mentioned, but holy crap, I had no idea that people had so many defenses against not paying for EVERYTHING for a romantic partner. Like, wow, how Blue is the world? Scary.
/r/altTRP20/01/15 07:46 AM
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After giving my consolations in the comments, I politely advised he be careful about spending money in dating, especially on what and how much, since someone might stick around just for your money. Downvoted in comments and called a "relationship-ruiner." (Y)
/r/altTRP19/01/15 08:44 PM
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Yeah i agree this is probably a temporary sensation. But I can't help fight it even when I see some other guy with a watch; that cat has something going on.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:03 PM
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Enviable mindset. My concerns are more about how I see myself, but I realize that watches and other paraphernalia are and should be seen as trivial in terms of confidence, since I can rely more on being inside my own skin at every moment than always having a watch on me. But I think it plays with my own psychological mechanisms too, and I see other guys who benefit the same. For instance, every time I hang out with a guy with a great (low) voice, in all cases he loves hearing himself speak, ever…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:30 PM
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Hey just curious, how was she racist? Really surprised to hear this day an' age.
/r/seduction19/01/15 07:03 AM
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Haha cool post. I was eating a lot as a skinny guy trying to get big, and ended up getting a little muscular but also a little fat on what once were my abs and sides. So I cut carbs as of a couple days ago, except from oatmeal and I'm thinking milk, sticking with proteins. Never thought eating a lot would increase my social network, but it sounds like it would, especially in a restaurant! Just gotta raise my income. Thanks for the idea!
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:55 AM
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/u/Red-Zen just commented with the links. I don't know if there are rules against linking within a thread so instead of linking you to the permalink of his comment, here're the links he provided. Article: http://www.businessinsider.com/james-bond-style-guide-2014-12 Watch: http://www.amazon.com/SO-New-York-5001-1-Silver-Tone/dp/B00MH2HUHA/ref=sr_1_1 And thanks for pointing out tanning, that's a very good one.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 03:41 AM
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Good point. I think OP's talking about being bored when you're doing nothing. That shit's unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 05:47 AM
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I feel like those types who "say it by accident" are PhD attention-seekers with a top-notch hamster. OP also describes him as charismatic, so maybe he's not socially retarded.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 06:05 PM
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How would that manipulation work exactly? From the friend's description, he sounds superficially alpha (charismatic, strong build) but that his beta-ness is a little-known secret. Not my first bet as someone to have by my side when approaching.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 05:54 PM
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Thanks. My parents didn't know jack shit about applying to colleges here so it was me, friends, teachers, our-high-school-with-that-college-relationship gossip, and Google leading the way.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 05:38 PM
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I had the grades, scores, and talent for the most part, but I'll never really know if I got into my top choice college with a ton of money off for being a minority, or if the work I put in helped. Not the best feeling.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:32 AM
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This is fascinating, thanks for your input. I read on TRP that 90% of cheating sex is without protection, and it now sounds like Alpha Fucks seed acquisition is the same reason the disease spreads through gays, holy shit.
/r/altTRP15/01/15 04:11 PM
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Interesting for this to crop up here in a demeaning way since there's a lot of well-meaning writing on TRP about the importance of essentially being a narcissist and acting DT/psychopathic. Tyler RSD has even said on his YouTube channel that if you want a really, really hot girl to stick around in an LTR, she has to see you checking yourself out all the time, you thinking/knowing/feeling/saying how you're the shit, so she 'believes' it as the first mate. I understand the importance of not being …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 02:52 PM
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Oneitis also counts as a bad habit/addiction. It's a mind plague. There's also the idea that to get rid of a bad habit, replace it with a better one. I don't think it's always true depending on how disciplined you are, but in this case lifting is a time-consuming activity that can kill opportunities to accrue donuts and porn time.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:36 PM
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I hope he is sent this post.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:38 AM
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This is all true, and I understand you bring this up to emphasize that porn is a sub-fantasy, but I also think it's 'downer' stuff like this that makes dudes go for the hand and hanky instead of the girl to begin with. "Eh, no point to life, so it's ok that I'm gonna spend my life playing WoW instead of 'facing my fears.' Lol. Shoulda made it easier for me. See you in the grave, people who live outside my basement."
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:47 AM
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We 'figure out' our intentions by delving deep into our selves, or feelings. Sometimes intentions are transactional and in the moment like "I have to jump over this ledge" because we already know how we feel about survival (we want), so we just do the jumping when we have to. So once an intention is articulated, sometimes we run into a feeling that goes against that intention. People here seem to propose to fight the feeling, but I think that as long as the feeling doesn't go against logic and i…
/r/AlreadyRed09/01/15 04:10 PM
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Wait I want to add to my comment MAYBE those feels speaks of a deeper intention we have to tap into. I realize this is a case by case basis thing, but that little nugget of wtf just dribbled into my head and I felt like sharing.
/r/AlreadyRed08/01/15 10:35 PM
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Wow, true! Yeah, empathy getting in the way of an 'objective objective' is no good.
/r/AlreadyRed08/01/15 10:34 PM
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Good points about how those labels are thrown around carelessly and to manipulate. I definitely got a good load of brainwashing about how anyone "evil" is automatically "mentally ill," but I was also a bit self-referential with this. I was always very intellectual but had a hard time not being needy in my youth, until I found a self-cure. Empathy for me is gold, and I don't see it as the "beta" consciousness I once had, which was submissive. Empathy/compassion is not submission, empathy/compassi…
/r/AlreadyRed08/01/15 10:15 PM
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I feel this a lot. First I think there needs to be a distinction about "feelz." We act on "feelz" all the time. Even when we are using laser-like reasoning, the platform that reason is assimilated on is emotion. Everything is an emotional motivation. Emotions are instinctual calculators of value, and often operate on scarcity. People have different levels of scarcity. Mentally ill people have high scarcity and desire a lot of control and can only see others as objects. Others have low scarcity a…
/r/AlreadyRed08/01/15 07:52 PM
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Be polite if it comes up in intellectual conversation, that's all you have to do, and keep treating her like a real woman. My guess is that's how she wants to be treated, despite what she might say.
/r/altTRP16/12/14 05:18 AM
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I feel like I lost a lot of my spark by unfriending a oneitis. I think if I saw even one recent picture it might bite hard enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 04:40 AM
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Nice. In terms of gay manosphere stuff, I've been working on this blog. At least we have a pulse.
/r/altTRP12/12/14 10:26 PM
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Oscar Wilde — 'If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.'
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:40 PM
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I can see this making more sense for lesbians than gay men, except from having problems with men. I have an inkling that a lot of lesbian and bisexuality among females doesn't necessarily come from the sex drive. They've done studies that show that women are equally aroused by man/woman and woman/woman sexual activity, so being gay might be a literal matter of choice/preference for them, though I know at least one lesbian who insists she was born this way. If what you're saying was a cause of ga…
/r/altTRP08/12/14 01:35 AM
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In Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man," she points out that men are really the objectified ones, since "masculine" literally means "useful to women." If I wasn't red-pilled by this forum into the reality of gender roles I would've been 100% with her. To be honest, I think the expectations are both due to biology and also our usefulness to "mankind" (women and children).
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:31 PM
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Pulling the plug from someone you were orbiting on Facebook can be incredibly powerful. Did it twice; got a like a month from them like stock dividends ever since. Not that this leads to an LTR or anything beyond a ONS if even that, but still.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 04:00 PM
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I agree that hitting Like can basically be giving attention freely and showing you're one of those guys who'll just 'give it up' and not make a move like an actualized sexual person, but a like in the right place (like with someone who actually returns them, preferably a friend) is a form of social proof. When people see you've liked someone's photos or status, unless you have a reputation of being a complete tool, they'll see you are associated with people they may know. And it can be sexually …
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 03:59 PM
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This was a great story because we can all relate to it at one level or another, but that last sentence was fireworks man. Nice. Women desperately want you to validate them, but they will respect you much more if you don't.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 07:25 PM
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Oh yeah? SHOW ME WITH ACTION NOT ARGUMENT jk I gotchu
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 10:00 PM
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Obligatory RP comment that says yes you're right go your own way but don't see this as an "out" in terms of not pursuing sexual intercourse when you might be an incel due to low SMV. This subreddit has probably realized that I am secretly a magical pet mouse living under author Esther Vilar's desk on a mission to promote her book all the time but the last two paragraphs are literally the book. So much of relationship marrying kids and working for your wife and children all your life is simply a …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 08:14 AM
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And, increases likelihood their resources/money will no longer be available. Kind of point 3 but I thought I'd add this.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 04:52 AM
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"She needs to get fucked" is a good one. That voice exists in the back of my mind that goes "oh, there must be a low interest in sex right now in the target." Uhh, no. It's about who's gonna get the job done. Feeling myself gravitate toward the gym a little earlier today than I was expecting now...
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 10:24 PM
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Irrelevant, but the comments on this video are five-star lol quality.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:08 AM
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Definitely. I'm in a little cognitive dissonance now, because on the one hand I'm peeved that women have been not working for so long, and that's still considered socially acceptable today, despite cries to the contrary. But here on RP people sometimes mention that men should be the ones working because of the relevance of gender roles, and women should stay at home. So the question is, is this [edit: women not working and having their men work] manipulation or nature? I'm honestly for women in …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 03:51 AM
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Wish it could be the way it was before. Esther Vilar writes an outrageous book that slays women and the women's movement. Interview against hostile feminist interviewer considered the head of the movement; interview is in the feminist's domain. The frame is maintained. Turn closed captions on, gentlemen. I guess in Vilar's case it was "I don't believe that women are oppressed, in fact we use men" and Blanc was more like "I'm sorry I said racist things and was slightly violent." But it still feel…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 09:09 PM
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"If you're a Caucasian male who has been incarcerated, there's a 95.1 percent chance that you'll get married by age 40." lol! the female gaze is real
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 08:54 PM
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Actually, I think this is completely RP. We know at RP that we're the prize and shouldn't be too easy to win over; otherwise, we're not demonstrating high value. Also, the whole thing where the intellect thinks it wants one thing (true healthy love!) but the emotions want something else ("he loves me, but loves lacrosse more..." quote from Bob's Burgers heheh) is very RP. This is the case of a girl (Q) realizing why she wants high-value alphas so bad. The only adjustment or footnote I would add,…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:23 PM
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He wasn't super attractive ... and a good financial foundation This may be a case of beta bucks though.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:55 AM
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There's a law that says to say less than you have to. And another one that says to choose your battles. So, those kinda. You released the venom when you needed to. And it does apply to the law in the sense that your friend found it easy to betray your trust. You might wanna check out some codependence stuff online, especially codependent/narcissist, or narcissist/borderline relationships, where you are the one on the left side of the "/" and the asshole is on the other side. Sounds like you've i…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:25 AM
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This kind of 'enemy' or if you'll excuse the term 'frenemy' happens to me quite a bit, but I don't know that it's anything to be proud of; it often comes from coming off as a pushover. People wouldn't disrespect you if they didn't think they could get away with it. If you're gonna get an enemy, I recommend 'getting one' by being Dale Carnegie and hated by envious people who hate you for your social skills and general talent/charisma, not by people who think they can use you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:19 AM
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Not sure if friend turned foe counts, but if it does: One time I made it hugely clear someone wronged me and cut contact for basically a year. They were initially pissed about the way I reacted (typical thing of putting a beta back in his place who thinks he's someone, now). Then it was clear he was really sorry but I was basically silent with him, even with other company. Yeah, the burn was that bad and I was burning back pretty bad. A year after it happened I was in a tough situation with some…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 11:10 PM
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Warning, personal anecdote that pales in comparison to actual political events being posted here that are far more interesting. Might give you tingles though because Red Pill mentorship is involved. Best friend since college; we've graduated a year ago. At one point felt like we were hanging out because we didn't have a big social circle. But we also felt like we could tell each other everything, and be ourselves. No social masks; just talk, some guitar playing and YouTube clip watching. I've al…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 10:45 PM
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How I make enemies: Be nice to people by default One fucker uses me or does something kind of glaring, usually passively or subtly, because I have been nice I decide it was a one-time thing and overlook it They do the shitty thing again I spontaneously make it clear they have crossed a line; people are around and see something's up and that they fucked up enough for me to react that way They want to be in my good graces My work is to do the not-coming-off-as-too-nice bit (edit: as in, I should r…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 10:09 PM
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We kill forests and trees too :'( f*ck us
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:52 AM
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So happy The Manipulated Man is on the list and linked! Thanks to that book I suddenly completely understood what Rollo T meant by the female paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:05 PM
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Honestly, the female selectivity is pretty crazy on Tinder. I don't like girls but I've put that I like both for a marketing venture so I get guys and girls on my selection screen. I sleep with hot guys on a regular basis and have over 1,400 male matches but I think I can count the number of girls I've gotten on two hands. My pictures aren't even faggy. Also, Tinder shows me 20 girls for every guy. Just to give you an idea.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:36 PM
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I'm glad I can now distinguish these types in my mind in the future. Been meaning to but couldn't put my finger on it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:42 AM
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I was agreeing and then having a really good time with an unfortunately relevant song that popped into the ol' head.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 09:22 PM
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Written by a lady, no less. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:39 PM
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This. And now I will try singing. Too bad that you couldn't see! See the MAN that boy could be! There is more than meets the eye... ....I see the s0ul that iz insiDE..... ~ avril lavigne xoxoxoxoxoxooxooxxox
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:02 PM
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But he's saying that kids who delayed gratification "consistently outperformed" the ones who didn't, academically. From what the study shows, yes it is about how they think.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:12 PM
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lol!! this is a five-star intro. and I loved that despite how it's funnily written it still has all the blue pill punches that go into a TRP personality. Fuck yeah.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:12 PM
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has been posted before on TRP at least twice; make way for possible banhammer!
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:46 PM
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Identifying weak points as pointed out by others is hard, so good on you for managing to get that feedback and listen to it. Do you have a link to the PUA thing you read about walking/talking like a man?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:59 PM
2

I looked in the glossary and couldn't find "AB." What's that?
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 04:13 AM
2

I can tell you listen to Tyler because you used the expression "woo-woo" :]
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:55 AM
1

Well, there are desirable guys and there are desirable girls, and there are undesirable of both. Also when guys are upset after a relationship doesn't happen for them, they're evil and Nice Guys; when it doesn't happen for a girl, he was a player, which is bad. A girl being a "tease" -- well, "tease" isn't very nice -- doesn't count because women get to change how they feel whenever they want and god forbid the guy have a problem with it. I think my intention of pointing out the Nice Guy thing w…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 05:44 AM
5

True, but a woman saying "I wanna marry him!" doesn't carry the stigma of a male openly acknowledging his attraction to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:42 PM
1

This is hilarious because women hate when straight Nice Guys are nice to get something back. And if she thinks a famously discriminated group would be able to identify when another one is facing a similar fate, she is right. They would.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:18 PM
13

Looks like we have a feminist actress with a Nice Guy complex.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:17 PM
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Sigmas are wounded betas who actually want to change.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:52 PM
1

Sounds like a testosterone problem. But could be worse. If you're a young guy and you get your testosterone checked and it's fine, I'd say you're in denial. You're either horny and in denial because you're afraid of approaching or of the implications of the act or whatever you could possibly be afraid of, or, you're suppressing that desire somehow. Maybe fapping too much at home and not letting yourself get too horny when you see a girl in real life. Action needs to be taken. Or inaction if it's…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:11 PM
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Pro rape?? Red Pill isn't pro rape. From what I understand, they aren't in favor of forcing someone to have sex against their will.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/14 09:10 PM
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I'm confused by this comment. Red Pill advocates that the onus of romantic/sexual success is on the individual, not society, and rape isn't advocated.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/14 08:47 PM
1

Whoa. So as a recent college graduate I'm now wondering a few things... 1.) I went to a nice respected college too. Is/was my wealth that apparent at school in terms of hooking up and LTRs? Is it alpha-with-bucks fucks and beta bucks? I arrived with a lot of anxiety that my own lack of dough would be blatant to everyone but it hadn't seem that way. Maybe the campus's hipster thing helps. 2.) After reading (or writing) this story, are you encouraged to or discouraged from being showy in terms of …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:35 PM
2

Polarization always comes down to what you really want; a desire. Since Manson talks about it in such a way that it allures people or repels them (like a magnet), your creative life force will always stem from a desire: to throw everything to the wayside to pursue what you really want, to dress and groom yourself a certain way you love that you thought was reserved for superheroes but you've decided to give yourself permission to do it, etc. In your day to day life, ask how you feel about what y…
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:15 PM
1

I could say no at 15. I had a huge crush on him before we made contact, then we had sex, shortly after we dated. Guy kissing top of my head when I was 9-10 was fucked up. Trust me, I was already gay. Started masturbating to men at the beginning of the third grade (was 8). Conclusion looking at my own life: while I had questionable sexual experiences (questionable due to age and that one weird guy), I was gay before any of those events took place.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:28 PM
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Eh. 12.7 is a small number but that doesn't disqualify older people from abusing clearly gay kids. When I was nine/ten a theater camp counselor gave me a casual kiss on top of my head and I was mortified/disgusted/confused. Was already jacking off to the red power ranger, so I don't think that changes anything. Just like when I was 'abused' at 15, I didn't identify as gay until afterward. They didn't make me gay. Straight boys having later sexual experiences: landing a chick in bed is hard, or s…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:58 PM
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Right. Neither of those sound like sexual abuse to me. It's one thing if she was touching her in the meantime or there was any sign she was looking at her sister while doing that. It's not reported. The beautiful thing about this is that Lena and the feminists' widening definition of rape has swallowed her whole. Taste of her own medicine. But abuse, you've got to be kidding me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:43 PM
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Before 16 is considered pre-pubescent? I first had consensual sex with my boyfriend at 15, well knowing I was gay. These studies also don't consider that maybe the younger kid was already clearly gay so some asshole decided to take advantage. I work for the department of health and it's a stat we know that gay and bi kids/teens have sexual experiences way earlier than straights; it doesn't mean they were a) forced into it and b) altered forever. The 68% stat is the only one that really catches m…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:21 PM
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Made this my homepage. Onwards to lifting and great revenge for my former self.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:15 AM
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This is your #1 guide
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 09:57 PM
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As someone, like most people here, who's had massive lows like you're experiencing and articulating, and also moments of apathy and sloth, the former actually show signs of life. The fact that you're devastated means that there's a fire under you're ass and you're ready to run towards the light and find meaning and bliss, even if it is more painful, because you actually believe it exists. You're devastated because in your mind, there is something great somewhere, and you've 'missed' it, so you h…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 06:58 AM
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Was literally about to post "It's a little BP to have that expectation of Someone Will Change For You, though. If you're a high SMV guy and you're out banging on the weekly, chances are you're gonna be banging sluts, not unicorn virgins." and then I saw this comment. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 08:25 PM
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As a registered Democrat (thinking of unregistering) I'm a little embarrassed with myself that you equated being in favor of not having the right to take someone else's house in a divorce settlement with being such a Republican. Did I misunderstand you?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 07:26 PM
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Also, a gay guy doesn't necessarily know other gay guys like masculine guys until he grows up and is around them at the club. Even then I found myself asking, "Could it be that being effeminate is attractive to more alpha male types?" I still find that arguably, no, that's not usually the case.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:51 AM
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I don't know the reason but I can think of a few. More validated by girls than guys growing up ("no homo" say the guys, or that's what the gays project onto them). Having sex with a masculine guy makes one more feminine or elicits feminine impulses. I wrote a little about this in a blog post I originally posted on TRP, and more in depth here. And it's what's expected of you, since you see it on TV and people associate it with emasculation. Also being feminine is 'easier' than being masculine bec…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:48 AM
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This is good to know, thanks for your response!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:35 AM
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Thank you so much for these leads!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:33 AM
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lol yes I did, lemme edit that
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:44 AM
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I'm a gay terper and this is completely true. People have to stop essentially straight-shaming their kids for not having a more open-minded personality. And you're also right about actual male homosexuality not being something one can change at will.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:23 PM
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Unless the night out was gonna be pretty dumb and this was a known thing, it looks like you shut them out in a more profound way which you might have not intended.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:44 PM
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I think the femininity is perpetuated based on where you are; in groups, I guess gay guys take it to a whole new level. I was fairly feminine in high school, but I was more so for the first half of college, but to be fair I was also more confident. Then, life events that would lead to TRP and being more masculine. Any phases for you, or are you onea dem naturals?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:17 PM
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I find I behave differently, in terms of dom/sub, with different people. I've basically come to terms with the pattern that I always act quite like a submissive beta bitch with my boss, because she can get really furious about nothing and most of my income comes from her whims, which is a scary thought in itself that occurs to me every time she walks in my office. If you find yourself in situations with lower stakes, or tell yourself that the stakes aren't that high, you might find you can break…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:06 PM
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Nice, thank you! This sounds like a particularly useful book for a lot of reasons then. It's really cheap on Amazon too.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:49 PM
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Thank you! I guess I was unclear, he was calling to report the lady the whole time, but his intention was a mystery until the end of the phone call. The guy getting punched wasn't pleased about phone-call-guy mentioning it was the lady's fault until the last half of the call, which he made pretty clear, haha.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:46 PM
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Thanks for the kudos :) /r/pussypassdenied is a great place to find stories and videos of more men as well as women doing this, haha.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:43 PM
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Thanks a lot! Yeah, it's interesting how some gay men unquestioningly absorb a female personality. I used to be one of them, but ironically, gay guys are only interested in masculine guys. Go figure!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:41 PM
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This writer is less about "how to succeed with one" and talks more about how those relationships pan out, suggesting you have to improve your mind and self-image in order to break the pattern and not date them anymore. Even tactics to 'beat' the crazy at their own game shows you're invested, and are hard to do anyway since you're too tied up because of something in your psyche -- it's like telling a Nice Guy, "just be assertive," which is tough for him to do at first. I would read "dealing with …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:02 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. Thanks a lot!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 02:23 PM
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fixed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SgNV3FbottE
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:06 AM
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Yes. I think established users can have a shot at this with lesser potential of being doxxed -- easier to trust, etc. Gah, I want this to work.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:58 AM
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Probably for as long as it's plausible that he's seeing other women, even if it's an unconscious thought of hers. In fact, I think Rollo says that that's the ideal. But I have been pondering the same question. From the way we talk about it, it would seem that LTRs are strictly for those in oneitis world, because why else would it be worth it?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:52 AM
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Good point, thanks! /u/Dathisofegypt and I took it to PM mode and I'm picking his brain there.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:50 AM
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Also I feel like I overstayed in terms of taking value, so if you want a long-winded TRP opinion on anything from an anonymous mind to yours, send me a PM and I'll deliver.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:19 AM
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Yessss, thank you. By investment do you mean retirement / Roth IRA particularly, or do you think a combination of that and a more immediately available-to-withdraw stocks investment is the way to go? "Early Retirement through Badassity" looool I'm already hooked.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:15 AM
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The emotions you're thinking of might be the needy ones. Upbeat, positive, forward-moving emotions are the funnest to act on, and they're only scary if you're shy. Those kinds of emotions are fine. There's also an "I'm dominating you" element to intimacy when you're a man being a man with a woman.
/r/becomeaman28/10/14 03:47 AM
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Nice, thanks for the advice. I'll google those straight away.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:45 AM
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Many thanks. I actually have an IRA account with T Rowe Price, just because their retirement stock is the lowest management fee for my target year, and Vanguard is $20/yr from what I understand. But when one's IRA reaches $10k then Vanguard waves the $20, so my game plan is to sell it and buy into Vanguard when I reach that amount, since they have consistently good funds from what I can tell. Can't max out since I'm barely paying groceries, but I'm putting a lot a month anyway. As you can see, I…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:45 AM
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And we have only ourselves to blame, for not being men and properly leading them. This. This is important to know. Since no one wants to save the world, and most TRPers are way too into sociopathy (myself included) to actually consider doing so and we're aware that we're all after our own selfish interests anyway etc, we should all (and probably all already) have as our own project to be the best men that we can be, such that that best man can lead brats and women to show respect, one new man at…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:10 AM
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Yeah that's what I meant. Not really into stocks as much as real estate and business; more reliable capital.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:51 AM
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Well, it was dependent on his image. His employer fired him.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:50 AM
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I think it's less about doing something and then watching closely hoping it's reciprocated, and more about how fucked up it would be if you stood up for your friend when it was his time, but when it was your time, your friend decided to piss off and not stand up for/with you in a difficult moment.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:49 AM
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Yes, regarding plates though, I support this have-a-lot-at-all-times thing to the extent of maintaining a strong self-image and having a lot of sexual options, but a guy who needs to keep plates in order to retain emotional stability is another party bag entirely. If the need is strong, neediness can possibly seep, but more importantly a guy like that needs to invest more thoroughly in being comfortable being alone. Once there, he won't have to depend on a harem of girls' validation.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:32 AM
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Oof, any leads? I graduated from art school a year ago and thought business people were gross, now I'm a frugal penny-magnet reading every single investment book I can get my hands on.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:26 AM
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Alone is important. Ditching old friends is very important -- especially girl friends. I find the buddies I do stick around with are basically all not red pill or not completely in, so I have to use plausible deniability a lot when I mention stuff or give advice though. Makes me wish there could be some kind of in-person TRP meeting, but that would be dangerous for us. If you want to play the alpha game 24/7, swimming away from reliable comfort and having your friends and family try to bring you…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 09:02 PM
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No, that sounds like a worthy, real desire. If you figure it out let me know.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:55 PM
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No problem! It's my favorite red pill book.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:31 AM
2

There should be a link to this PDF from the wiki
/r/RedPillBooks26/10/14 02:36 AM
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You should read No More Mr. Nice Guy if you haven't already. I understand you're liking what you're reading here, but this is pretty boundary specific and thus might be useful.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:42 AM
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I will tell you about a co-worker who rose higher than me in life because he was much better than me at showcasing his skillset and communication than I was. WHAAAAATTT!! Story tiiiiiiimmee!!!!! What'dhedowhat'dhedo
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:23 AM
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I'm a decent looking guy, have and have had a lot of sex, but my two biggest crushes didn't work out, even though they wanted to bang me. Have broken a lot of hearts, just not the ones I wanted. With the first guy, early to mid college, I was the stereotypical Nice Guy with hearts for eyes, and with the second guy I took a female hard to get approach that worked wonders until I slipped and accidentally called our rendez-vous, that he requested, a "date." He was a player anyway. But yeah, heartbr…
/r/altTRP26/10/14 12:01 AM
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That's cool but I don't think suggesting bringing a friend on the first date was the way to go. It's borderline Nice Guy, and I'm frankly surprised he continued the conversation, though I guess it was a friendly gesture and I don't have the conversation written in front of me. It can friend zone you really easily since you're with a friend; at best you would have high sexual tension and your friend would be third-wheeled. Don't bring it up again unless he does.
/r/altTRP25/10/14 11:50 PM
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Gay sex is one thing, but getting an LTR for most gays is really hard because, with all the sex available, you have to really be something special to be relationship material. Gays are also so superficial that if you're a gay guy dating another, your boyfriend better be cool and hot as shit, because whether you care or not, you're projecting to the world that this is your main source of sex and companionship, in a world when you could theoretically be banging whoever you wanted, and other gays w…
/r/altTRP25/10/14 11:40 PM
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Society, at least stereotypically, asks that women hold back their goods while encouraging men to give theirs freely. So if a guy likes you or thinks you're hot, he's more down to get down to it right away than a girl, who needs to proceed with caution and will be more likely to play hard to get.
/r/altTRP25/10/14 11:31 PM
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Quote from Friends (yeah, yeah) Female: Male, how long have you been planning your wedding with Female 2? Male: Uh, two weeks? Female: Ok, she has bee nplanning this day her entire life! Audience: Aww.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 10:01 PM
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Depends on who's covering the dress
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 09:58 PM
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"[It] is simply a place where she can indulge in her inane orgies, where she and other women can take part in their grotesque masquerades, with the extras, the men, suitably costumed in black." ~ "The Manipulated Man," Esther Vilar
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 09:57 PM
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I could understand this from a slightly different perspective. Maybe this stat is thrown around because they're "asking for it" in terms of "asking for someone to put them in their place." Example from my own life: I've never had a phone get lost or stolen before, or broken, UNTIL NOW, except one time when it got rained on in my backpack but I coincidentally was going to get one the next day. A couple days ago I got banned from a dating/hook-up app because I decided to use it for business instea…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 09:22 PM
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This is gonna sound beta as fuck, but listen closely: you're actually looking for self-love, commonly understood around here as self-actualization. Your mind can't find in your self the support it needs, so it looks for that thing in other places -- girls you fuck or would fuck. Whatever is missing in terms of your own validation for yourself, your subconscious supposes can be provided by another. You can't completely validate your own existence, so let's get help from another sentient being. Th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 08:48 PM
2

I recall that Democrats were actually not crazy about voting for Hillary during the primaries because they knew that Republicans hated her, so Hillary versus anyone who was a Republican would have been a mistake. Democrats wanted a Democrat as President no matter what and no one was banking on Hillary. If Democrats perceive less hate from Republicans toward her, maybe they'll let her win it this round.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 08:22 PM
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I agree with you on the physically attractive part being the most important above all else, but PUA calls a girl who doesn't give you a hard time "fool's mate" and teaches all kinds of ways to but down "bitch shields." That's not just a PUA thing; I think that's indicative of what we're interested in. No one likes an easy catch. We subconsciously hold a lot of value in getting the hard-to-get girl, and it's the same for girls regarding guys.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:11 PM
1

At /r/AskTRP you can make a post with the same question and expect a number of responses.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:24 AM
1

Why would you talk to her again to begin with? Is this someone you see regularly in your life? If not, she's history. No reason to show interest; if you overtly did, it'd be creepy since she missed out. You can have your hard dick inside someone and say "it's pretty chilly in here, I'm gonna turn off the AC" without communicating interest (vocally/facially), so I think you can have a conversation with someone random and not show interest. If your eyes are going to be pulsating with desire every …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 07:19 AM
1

Another appropriate analogy would be, "a really hot girl who doesn't treat you so great." Girls like bad boys, but guys like bad girls too, since aloofness / not treating you like a million bucks signals high status, whether the signaler is male or female.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 06:07 AM
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I don't think there's any reason you should talk to her ever again. Abundance mentality. Next.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:29 PM
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This is the first comment that makes me actually buy that feminism is any kind of 'conspiracy' beyond random women's and their orbiters' musings. Why wouldn't corporations be in favor of this -- everyone's drinking the kool-aid, more employee options for them, more money for them, higher bottom line for them. But considering how men die 7 years on average before women do, I am ok with this aspect of feminism: women working alongside their husbands who've been widely regarded as breadwinners aka …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:22 PM
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Fantastic advice and succinctly put at that. For the readers of the thread, particularly new ones, I'd suggest to temper this attitude of building the mind with doing. I for one am completely guilty of mind-building and then not planning how I'll put my self-domination plans together. You can have it all in your brain, and learning can definitely be scary if it's red pill thus making it challenging and worthy, but the doing is usually also cockblocked by some serious fear that needs reckoning. K…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:36 PM
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They used the 23 cents thing as their first cause. This has been so heavily disproven.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:24 AM
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Maybe /u/Master2u is a female talking about all feminists, including male ones. so.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:22 AM
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You could replace this idiot with any penis-owner Something I love about the Red Pill is that we're objective enough to call ourselves something like this. A feminist would never call herself a vagina-wielder. That would be too degrading and oppressive for their empowered selves.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 04:16 AM
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Maybe they actually connect and can have conversations when they're not pounding. And she's probably a porn star in bed.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:43 PM
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Women in our society learn at an early age how to trade on their femininity to get things out of men. It's an enforcement tool of the pussy cartel to try to gain compliance from those women who undersell their pussy Commented on a TRP post once that was about why women hate prostitutes. I cited Esther Vilar's The Manipulated Man because she points out that women don't hate prostitutes because they're dirty, but because prostitutes give something for cheap that normal women try to sell for a high…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:53 PM
1

Intelligence is sculpted by competition and survival. Coming to TRP means the world presented itself to you in such a way that your prescription didn't meet expectations, so you had to think and reevaluate long-held beliefs. Pain brings us all here -- heartbreak, heartbreak from being short...whatever the source, it's the same idea.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:48 PM
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I used to be so nice it was hard to watch; my dad had shamed me so much about the idea of being an asshole. For him, anything vaguely asshole-ish or "proud" was bad. He loved shy people because he thought they were humble and good. It took a lot to get that out of me. This comment really struck home.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:25 PM
1

Nice response. How does it keep all options open to say they hate it though?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:20 PM
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I'd venture to say it's not exactly the equivalent. Women don't say it in order to maintain status and not seem like they're too thirsty, and men don't say it in order to not be ostracized.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:13 PM
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The Ideal is to maximize the SMV of your proscriptive partner Hmm curious what you mean by this. Do you mean seek out the partner with the highest SMV? I guess TRP is all about maximizing yourself first, so that's why this phrase caught my attention.
/r/altTRP21/10/14 08:54 PM
1

Dang, that's a nice motive.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:52 PM
1

Your version is a little too simple because what I'm saying is that a gay man by nature will want to bottom with a more masculine guy. It's a stereotype that more masculine guys are "total tops" and feminine ones are bottoms, but that's still in line with both of them essentially seeking someone more masculine -- the feminine guys with more success, and the masculine guys with less success (thus they top and top only). Even if a "top" were to find a more masculine guy than him, he's probably not…
/r/altTRP21/10/14 08:51 PM
1

I want to try this. I've been pretty clunky with bringing it up ever. After having done that I would, though, be wondering what is the ulterior motive in disseminating that info or bringing up that question. Painting the town 'red' / making people see it our way? Venting? Having people there to back you up the next time it comes up since they would have agreed by now and they could support you if a fiery feminist was spouting nonsense? Connecting better with people in your life since you'd agree…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:27 PM
1

would you rather be blind and happy or honest and fulfilled bold added Honestly if they're still completely on the BP at a certain point in life, they can't be too happy, though they might hamster away as to why things didn't work out. More importantly, I think we should still figure out how to get the RP out there. I find people will step in and say "yes I agree" when one person has the guts to do it. I resent not knowing about it before, and I think a lot of us are butthurt for the same reason…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:19 PM
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While I learned a lot from this comment, I think a poor kid who might have access to free food and assistance should still have access to free birth control if they want to get out of their situation and not continue living that kind of existence. the damaging effects of all these god damn freebies What're the damaging effects? Though I sympathize with the fact that free birth control doesn't translate to free health care, free other stuff that people also need, and that we're letting women ride…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:57 PM
1

Exactly. If within a country Group A gets easy access to water and Group B doesn't, but Group B also has low access to education, Group B shouldn't have less of a right to vote for more water access for themselves because they are 'dumb.' Also, how would intelligence be measured? ("Sally is a feminist and Natalie isn't. Who is the best match for 'bigot'? Please use your scantron to submit your answer.") If not with biased terms, would it be with math? Then rich kids who go to universities, who l…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:41 PM
1

Sounds like this can be taken a lot more seriously than death threats and doxxing. Edit: and I don't mean that sarcastically. Threats and doxxing might get easy attention but the point of view behind them doesn't come across.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:33 PM
1

And actually I blue-balled at least once, I think it was when I just started doing it last night.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:14 PM
1

How should I signal OP? I made a new comment with a link to this thread but Reddit rejected it on the grounds you can't cross-link. Would it work if I uttered /u/TRPatriot in this comment? Is that the equivalent of doing this?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:11 PM
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Well I'm glad I read this, because reading OP's posts and trying it out, I find my PC muscle is for whatever reason quite developed and I'm good at distinguishing ejaculation and orgasm and doing the multi-orgasm thing -- pretty cool experience, not sure where it's going but guess I'll keep doing it and see where it goes -- but I don't wanna fuck my balls up either, as this comment suggests may happen. Does OP have a mileage limit, i.e., "ok, it's been three days, I think I'll let the juice out …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:09 AM
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Uhh is this TheRedPill you guys? Anyone from any other continent wouldn't give a flying flag who their president is screwing; only in the US does something like this become a tabloid scandal which has to leak into politics and mess with politicans' PR. French don't care, Italians don't care, Americans should take some more red in their diet and care less too.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:30 AM
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What're your thoughts on socialized healthcare making healthcare more accessible in Canada and Europe, and private health insurance companies in the US profiting by giving the least amount of money possible to the sickest patients?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:02 PM
2

Yeah, anal is a pain, but that doesn't mean there's not a more masculine person and more feminine person without it -- I find it's always that way. There still is even without anal. When a guy grabs your waist and you grab his upper back and reach for his shoulder blades as you kiss, you're likely the more feminine one. If you slam a guy into the wall and ravish him, anal or not, you're the more masculine one. Sometimes these roles exchange in seconds depending on their chemistry. One is full of…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 04:34 AM
3

Increasing social circle is always a good thing, but this thought popped into my head when I read it: make sure that whatever you would have been looking for in women, you aren't replacing with validation from people who aren't women, if that makes sense. If it feels like an entirely different goal then it's probably fine.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:34 AM
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Of course...taking advantage of his adolescence to tell him all the new cool things to vouch for.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:42 AM
2

Having just graduated from college and having an asshole 'best friend' who is lazy, mean, and often a child (we haven't spoken in over a month, so, not speaking to him again is going well), I'm finding that I find solace with reading stuff like Rollo, watching YouTube videos of inspirational people who actually do shit with their life and don't go halfway or meander in 'gratitude' for a job half done, reading the work of the thinkers of TRP here -- I don't know where these people are in my 'real…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 07:41 AM
2

Dumb. "I'm going to do this because it's empowering, even though I might die a terrible death and let others do so in the process as I infect them too." Want to say "this should be illegal" but that would be hard. Suicide and killing other people on your way out. Not a fan.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:35 PM
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If been in PUA = lurked on forums and YouTube and approached a bunch of guys at clubs, then yeah. Uhhhhh, actually being beta is not useful for anyone. Even if a gay is gonna be a feminine flower he still has to hold his own, and avoid clinginess, desperation, and being very available when possible. That's a really good point though, that lifting can differentiate itself from an alpha mentality, so you're just a beta monster with muscles.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:33 PM
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romantic love is not real, and therefore the very foundation of our ideas about LTRs is flawed Whoa, yeah. However, with a flawed assumption that LTRs must be based on romantic attraction, What would they be based off of if not romantic attraction? Surely not just sexual attraction. A mixture of sexual attraction, convenience, and similar socioeconomic background? it follows that an allowance for same-sex marriage (or whatever) is just, since only same-sex romantic attraction is available to som…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:38 PM
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The status thing, at least for gay men, feels similar to 'dread' and is therefore useful for LTR game. Horniness I feel would only occur if it was a fetish. And for the example you made, turning it into the gay version, yeah, I'd go for the hot one too.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:11 PM
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It's honestly cured a lot of the social anxiety I had, and I find it interlinks with science in a lot of ways, particularly the chakras, which are mirrored with endocrines. Can you say more, or have a link for reference? (I realize it's ridiculous to say, 'Can you prove that not-science isn't scientific?' but I'm curious about what you particularly know, have experienced, or have read.)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:06 PM
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I don't think the male archetype is to prefer lower status Well, girls always marry up, so guys always marry down per se, except the chick has to be hot. So I'm not sure if this sentence stands, unless I misunderstood it. Status just isn't part of what the male reptile brain finds attractive. Right -- the male reptile brain. The feminine part of a guy's brain does like that shit. There's basically an agreement with courting and flirting on who's the guy and who's the girl. Not sure if this comme…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:02 PM
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I guess the same way RP guys encourage each other not to see any women as unicorns, it translated for me too. The "nice" girl who is a 7-8 who you think is your soulmate because she is nice, pretty but not super hot -- yeah, there's a gay guy version of that.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:58 PM
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Jack Donovan, a homosexual, says in his RP book "Androphilia" that anal sex is basically something gay guys made up in order to penetrate each other; it is a learned thing, it's not necessarily 'natural.' He also says that most gay sex is a mutual wank, and my own experience (NYC fag here) agrees with this. Anal sex means a condom, fucking in a hole that doesn't lubricate itself like a vagina, lubing your own asshole (or him lubing yours), and a lot more sweat, mess, and bodily logistics. Ain't …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:52 PM
1

Yeah, there might be something to say about fertility re: a woman's legs. Or the fact that that's where you fuck. Breasts are for babies indeed, so maybe that's your brain thinking, Well, I won't have to worry about kids 'cause I'm peacing after tonight.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:50 PM
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Haha, I think straight women are much more likely to be interested in a guy for his value rather than his muscles. At the same time, women's magazines have buff guys, alongside the thin vampire types. I was at a party a few weeks ago where I was talking with this really chill guy who had a slightly-funny white t-shirt, pretty big teeth, but he was cool as fuck, fun to talk to, way laid back, not pushy, and overall a good guy, pretty fratty without the shitty parts -- he was talking to a homo, af…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:44 PM
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Haha. That was a portrayal of solipsistic gay thinking right there, the "yet" thing: "I was born this way, but that guy who bangs girls, ugh, when will he notice me!" "Gay by May" is also heard at colleges, but it doesn't mean they aren't gay yet, just that people are waiting for him to come out of the closet.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:33 PM
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Damn. I guess he can learn the value of learning it on his own, and if anything, at least he has an older brother for optional help. It's great that you're at least concerned to that level; I slightly resent my dad/mom for not warning me a heartbreak can put your life on such a hold, the ways to avoid it, the importance of dressing like a beast instead of as if you didn't have a mirror, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:28 PM
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The fundamental "problem" with gay behavior while seeking masculinity is that the "bottom" is always being feminized. If you think in the "big picture" you are always "leaking" masculinity doing that. So I'm skeptical of gay behavior as an avenue that benefits our condition facing Feminist slavery. yes. Any link to some gay bottom Nazi lit? You caught my interest.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:05 PM
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Thanks. You probably know this but it's not a choice of lifestyle; we just figured out at one point we'll never get horny for women, we only get horny for men, and the only lifestyle choice is whether we go public with it or not :)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:00 PM
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Sure, for getting laid it doesn't take a rocket scientist (just piecing together that you have to lift), but for LTRs being gay is actually fucking hard. With so much ass everywhere, a relationship is difficult to nab.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:59 PM
1

That would make a lot of sense if liking guys was a decision for me, but it was not, I was wired that way, and any attempt I made to change that was futile.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:58 PM
1

Damn, yeah. Your first paragraph makes me think of "don't mistake my kindness for my weakness." May I ask how you may be edging your kids towards a more RP, not-white-knight stance in life, at least your son(s), with school doing the opposite? Or do you think you'll let the school have its way and then your son(s) will figure it out later in life :)
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:47 PM
1

True, and gay men have the onus of also not being beta. Being hopelessly in love, saying "sorry" all the time, supplicating, isn't a good look for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:44 PM
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For sure; someone's gotta settle. The one settling finds someone close in their SMV range. Even in RomComs, they get it right when they say in (straight) coupling, one person is always slightly pining while the other is settling.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:43 PM
1

Whoa, thanks! Re: point 6, what I mean is that woman can often be 'the oldest child in the house.' The woman doesn't work and the man does, the woman gets alimony even if working, the woman takes 30 minutes to say goodbye to everyone at the party because she wants to keep talking to people while the husband waits as if she were seventeen, she can leave the relationship on a whim and this would make him look like a cruel sociopath if he were to do the same, etc. Only reason I feel I'm gay is my s…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:41 PM
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Definitely. It's almost like being loving or open is automatically supposed to be dependent or needy behavior: gently or loving is beta and motivated behavior; tough and uncaring is good and whole. Also, our society makes it very difficult for men to fully realize the second transition because fathers are now always at risk of having their children taken away My primary interest in TRP (and MRM) is this very issue: without stable fatherhood, we can't have stable individuals who are able to fully…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:26 AM
1

I don't know how RP my dad is, honestly. He married young but he has a sense of what being a man means to him and I see him stick by it when he's making decisions or telling me what the world's like -- it is him, I guess. He did get his kids basically taken away by my mom on a whim, and all the way to another continent at that. He respectfully disagreed when I showed him Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man," which I admit was a much more RP stance/reaction than the what-is-this! blue pill bitchi…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:11 AM
2

Even after posting all this about being masculine, I actually needed to hear that in fact, yes, external femininity has got to go. And the differentiation between the external and internal was important for me to read too. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:03 AM
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I mean, I don't have a gay dad telling me the ways of the world, and my straight one wasn't about to tell me that one about the father figure, so whoa, yeah, that was a very welcome comment. Nice. I think the father figure thing I still subconsciously see as posturing; I see alpha father-like guys my age having success in relationships, so I'm still 'at risk' of thinking that lessening my feminine tics is the answer to getting any guy I want. Have to find a better definition for "father figure";…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:51 AM
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Yeah. The key in my experience was that I didn't avoid oneitis when I saw these false cues, which was often emotionally fatal. Now I know better.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:42 AM
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Just saved this. If I was plugged in and also my mom, I would say, wow, a guardian angel possessed /u/OsoFeo and spoke to me from gawd himself. But I was fortunate for a smart guy to say this. Thank you. What's "on the CC"? Googled it but didn't find anything
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:40 AM
2

Oof that is a good catch. Here's what I think. Godhead for all men, gay or straight: finding the masculine and powerful in oneself. Women (or twinks) are ornaments in your life. I would also venture to say, quite if not very dark triad. (Not sure how empathy plays a part yet.) A guy who is considered more masculine just because he has a motorcycle, a lower voice, or what have you, but who hasn't completely integrated his masculinity, might see more feminine guys around him, so he'll be their alp…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:19 AM
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Thanks for this, I'll head over
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 06:09 AM
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The only way I could take this offensively is if suppository, or taking it in the ass, is seen as an emasculation of myself or what I wrote, which it could be. Goes to show how important having a sense of masculinity is for a person's self-respect.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 05:33 AM
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Hopefully this thought taking over your mind will become a habitual footnote in the arena of dating and relationships. If anyone who is female makes you think this and takes your attention away from something you're doing, then that's a little excessive, and hopefully it'll subside.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:30 PM
2

Unpopular opinion, but still devil's advocate, which is what brought us here in the first place: That story is the equivalent of a girl texting a guy "hey! wanna help me move to my new place?" and the guy saying "sorry, can't, but wanna come to my graduation party tonight?" and her saying "pass." In this example she's using him for resources. Shitty, right? Fuck her. In the example with your friend it sounds like maybe this chick thought this guy was legitimately cool and maybe she wasn't string…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:16 PM
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/u/Larugoni said crime, not sex crime. I definitely agree that "sex crime" is pushing it way too hard. Crime -- I don't see how that's even disputable.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:28 PM
1

create more consumers and shit on society definitely break up the family unit how's that? by saying gender is a lie and effectively breaking down the mother/father thing? or in another way?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:33 PM
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for a man who looks to "reason with" feminists on their terms is a man who also "bargains" for female attention/sex. whoa this struck me. will be on the lookout for this for sure.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:37 PM
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If a guy has multiple partners, does that show he would be a poor father? Not rhetorical; red piller actually asking. I don't think I'll ask "if a guy cheats a lot... = bad partner/father?" because that's obvious.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 05:51 PM
1

You're right on about it being strange on a hotness level re: fitness, but regarding money, that doesn't make pussy juice run. It's a huge convenience and means the lady gets free dinner, and with a ring, a free life. But it doesn't make her horny. Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Source: I'm into men.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 05:18 AM
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they blame men for slut shaming, even though women are the ones who do it. This. Also, not to beat a dead horse, but in the book, Esther Vilar says that feminism has made enemies of men when in fact it is other women who have caused their predicament. Separate point: even an employer's reluctance to bet on a temporary-working women for a position versus a man who has to provide for his family is considered misogyny, but whose fault is it really?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:42 PM
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Done.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:24 AM
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Do you mean that my analysis should come in the body of each future post? Here I surmise: Feminist celebrity 'helps' in broadening definition of "rape," endangering men to the legislative claw of any female that has basically had any sexual encounter where consent wasn't explicitly given. In fact, dirty talk doesn't even count as consent as we see in Dunham's claim that she was still raped despite her obvious arousal during intercourse. Not only does this view of rape endanger men sexually activ…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:15 AM
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PDF linked if you're looking to save money.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:12 AM
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This comment. An alternative I suggest for the outlaw portion of what you said: we could make girls/feminists stick to their claims that Men And Women Are Equal and say, "Hey guys, now you have to learn how to have BOUNDARIES. That means when you don't like it, say something! You are no longer a 5 year old that 'doesn't know what's going on' when you are heavily making out on a bed with a guy you've been chasing at a party for fifteen minutes, and when he takes a condom and puts it on his dick."
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:08 AM
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If the guy wasn't even around, that means she has no problem broadcasting her sexual involvement with him and also tarnishing his life forever, ergo, he probably played her and she's trying to get back at him.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:37 PM
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Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man" says that women don't look down at prostitutes for being unclean, but because they see prostitutes as selling for cheap something that they price higher as to-be brides.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:30 PM
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Not the best way to go about it, because she won't have any way of knowing if future potential-alpha-or-beta traits she comes to learn about (your job, money made, net worth, number of friends) are legit, as well as what she needs to know to satisfy her hypergamy (commitment factor, wants from a girlfriend). EDIT (continuation): If you lied once, why would she believe you in the future? Better to be assertive and dark triad in other realms.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:31 PM
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This is such a valid question because RPers like myself find the media to be particarly blue pill (finding a soul mate is a realistic consequence of being alive long enough, nice desperate guy gets the girl).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 11:57 AM
1

I've been meaning to delve into psychedelic drugs, but I wouldn't rely solely on them for "insights." Intellect is a good thing too, even if intuition is great. Especially if you'd only do it once a month. Imagine having new ideas and perspectives only 12 times a year!
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:22 AM
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making sex the least important thing in my life But HAVE you been getting laid? Sex is easy to cut once it comes in a steady stream, but otherwise it's just self-depriving. Gotta lift (more) in that case.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:17 AM
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It's pretty great that she messaged you at all after accepting your friend request -- that's not necessarily common protocol -- and too bad you didn't put forward a harmless how's-things question, since this looks like you're politely trying to end the conversation. I get you were trying to not seem eager. Hard to start back up after this though; I would find a natural way to get back into a conversation, preferably both happening to be at a party if you're in school. If not, it's type-type send…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:13 AM
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I see: 1) Wanting to conquer yourself 2) Wanting to conquer girls romantically/sexually Both worthy endeavors. I can see how getting women is a test of character regarding overcoming certain emotions and being a rock. Just realize they aren't the same thing, and that hooking a girl doesn't make you the uber-man. That is: don't measure your success directly to a female's whims. Measure yourself to your own standards.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:48 PM
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This. Curious why hypothetical-guy has to pay 50%; is it because the guy should've used a condom too, or just for him to get out of paying 100%?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:58 PM
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I think regardless of sex or sexual orientation, neediness is an unattractive trait; gay men don't like it in other men, just like a woman wouldn't like it in a man. Game-playing is useful. Gay men like alpha men and not betas. Players win, pedestal-people lose. One-itis happens to anyone with high expectations and who thinks they've found 'the one.' Lemme know if I'm missing any points; I like putting this together in my head.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:57 PM
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I don't know if it's as much a certain type or just "the strongest." Gay Red Piller here. High school boyfriend was skinny and I had thought he was the hottest thing alive; in college, I copulated profusely with very jacked men and wouldn't look twice at a figure like my boyfriend's. Hypergamy is the name of the game. EDIT: High school was in small town; college in NYC, to give you an idea.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:52 PM
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I agree but careful with having this mentality if you're dating a guy who might be a narcissist, sociopath, psycopath, etc. That might sound like I said "if you date really creepy guys" but what I really mean is "if you date incredibly good-looking, well-dressed, too-good-to-be-true" guys, since with this philosophy you might go down a slippery slope of thinking, "Well, I DO care more about the relationship than my sacrifice, so, it's okay he's texting me at 11pm asking what's up instead of a no…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 07:19 PM
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I'm having trouble understanding some of your lexicon or grammar, until my friends denied drinking iced out that day but the shower thing is incredibly shitty. You could've been sitting there waiting for him to text you back. Would've been douchey of you to go do something else instead after he didn't respond after 5 minutes. Really lame of him. "you probably just wanted to see what we were doing, you're not gonna go hang out with them and then come gang out with us" --> so bitchy of this guy
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:04 PM
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