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i know my friends. i'd stay the fuck out of this request. because i would tell them the kind of man they NEED and they'd get offended. no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:37 PM
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its not even that men don't know. its they they DON'T WANT TO KNOW. if a man every finds out how much work a beautiful woman puts in to be beautiful, its like the illusion is gone. THey just have to fucking get over it. Do you want a fat slob? Do you want a woman with acne all over? Then let her go to the gym. Let her eat like a starving rabbit. Let her spend her money (ITS NOT FRIVOLOUS SPENDING) on beauty and skincare and hair stuff. So she can stay HOT FOR YOU. Any man that gives a woman shit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:01 PM
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actually, anyone saying "i went to university" is a foriegner tell, because in a lot of other countries, university and college are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 04:42 PM
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i don't understand. why would she disclose this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:02 PM
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all of that just to get decent grades. insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 06:17 PM
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All i care about is an untouched pussy which will wrap itself around my cock. Be molded and possssed by my cock. And be happily enslaved by my cock. The fucked out high N count pussy does not retain this ability, at least in my solipsistic male mind (I recognize that women say that they easily become enslaved by new cock despite a massive history of cock-taking, but my caveman side does not believe them). LOL you sound like a wannabe EL James.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 08:15 PM
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you ain't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:31 PM
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what gives you this impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 06:55 PM
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This mentality doesn't get you laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 05:30 PM
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wait what's rape???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:20 PM
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did it help you with dating or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:15 PM
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yes and then the guys immediately didn't care and bragged about their own. adults don't care about sexual history cuz everyone has it by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 09:06 PM
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do people think this is how you change legislation? by not fucking your anonymous men? this is why no one takes women seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:59 PM
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TL;DR - Lucy and Ethel are both healthy, and both are staying intact those names are amazing. My breasts will be named Patsy and Edina.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:58 PM
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not being who you WANT to be, doesn't mean you aren't your TRUE self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 01:59 PM
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hahaha yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 06:28 PM
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what do oyu mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 06:17 PM
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My Socially Acceptable and Productive Hobbies what are your socially unacceptable hobbies? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 03:21 PM
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this is something a friend of mine told me and it just opened the whole world to me. basically, there is no 'authentic self'. that's an excuse people make to ignore who they are. its them trying to reconcile why they don't ACT in accordance with their values, or towards their goals, etc. if i'm someone who wants to succeed based on x,y,z and i don't because i'm too lazy to just do it, its not me denying my supposed authentic self or 'true self' who is a hard working person. in that situation, i'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:52 PM
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ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:24 PM
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I lift heavy weights and do calisthenics and lots of LISS cardio like walking. This is my #1 priority in life. To have a great body and enjoy the endorphins that come from exercise. I watch beauty and fashion videos. I research policy, primarily around financial inclusion and community development. I LOVE going out and dancing with friends and hitting bars and stuff. I go out about 2-3x a week with friends. I really enjoy shopping. Its almost an addiction but oh well. I enjoy trying on clothes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:19 PM
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this is blasphemy as an INFJ but: there is no 'authentic' self. you are exactly who you are at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:13 PM
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I think the counterpoint is that shedding adolescence is harder now. well i think that's cuz you think adolescence is a thing. literally, once you're 18, you're an adult. anything you do 18+ is an adult decision. you don't have to be rich or well off to be an adult. you don't have to have a 401k and a full time job to be an adult. you don't have to be secure to have an adult relationship. none of that matters if youre legally and physically already an adult. ​ idk why people frame things this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:35 PM
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just befriend a same sex INTJ and you get the same effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 04:07 PM
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that's literally how my relationship started. i was Amy. very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:24 PM
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I have a list of people I would totally sleep with knowing htey are married or dating someone else. I don't care. They're all famous though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 07:35 PM
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women already do this. men don't want to marry them until late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:00 PM
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macro sense yes, micro sense no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 07:21 PM
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I think you can be 'friends' with your SO, but not friends like you would same sex friendships. I would never treat my bf like one of my female friends. It would kill all attraction and frankly, he'd find it offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:14 PM
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#introlife that would be my ideal. my current bf literally talks at me nonstop. I guess we keep the mystery that way cuz he has no idea what i'm doing all day cuz he never asks. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 06:09 PM
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it was everyone you think it was. You did suggest you put a gun in my mouth to cure my depression and suicidal idealizations LOL but that was it. And we got to know each other so I understand what you were saying then. Idk why the others said what they said. It was just mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:03 PM
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haha yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:37 PM
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what year did you join RPW? i feel like it was only that cunty until 2016.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:32 PM
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what were the rates of single motherhood when 1964-68 welfare programs and child support for single mothers did not exist? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:22 PM
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i agree but i got past it. as i got to know them more, a lot of them were worse off than my worse day in RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:21 PM
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yes. LOL. my first day in the RPW chatroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:13 PM
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A mod called me ugly and a 4.5 because I was black. Another mod said I should shoot myself in the face for discussing my depression with an ex. Another mod said that I couldn't keep a man and the last mod said that I was slutty. 1/4 of them were actually nice enough to get to know me and through that, she's cool now. But when I first discovered it, I thought it was a bunch of self hating pick mes who wanted to stand out from normal dating women by acting as if they're submissive 1950s housewives…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:41 PM
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be masculine. lay down the pipe. let me exist. ​ that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 03:20 PM
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how am i a hypocrite? ​ her coming onto him doesn't stop it from being an unwanted sexual advance. it also didn't occur in the workplace so it wasn' workplace sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 05:11 PM
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poor girl was coming onto you and you didn't pick up on it. this isn't workplace sexual harassment btw
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:54 PM
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She got fired lol. but was she fired for the comment? This isn't even sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:34 PM
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Yes. Owners sister would grab our asses, our groins, peek on us showering, and constantly make inappropriate comments and offers. what job was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:34 PM
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At this point I'm getting a "cut the brake lines" and/or "bullshit metoo claim" revenge vibe and tell my boss and HR. Luckily the HR took my side after I showed them the notes and did exactly what I wanted them to, tell her to fuck off without causing a big office wide stink. so she didn't get away with it because you reported it. Good to know! I'm glad the harassment to you stopped, btw :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:17 PM
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. A few times I have had some of superiors comment on my looks nothing outrageous but enough to make me feel uncomfortable. I have always brushed it off. do you feel like you were able to brush it off because you didn't feel threatened or intimidated by their unwanted advances?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:14 PM
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could you describe your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:13 PM
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Just didn't offend me too much as a man. Do you think is this because their sexual advances weren't threatening to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:12 PM
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did the actions offend you? Why didn't you report it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:58 PM
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a few things: could you define what EEO means for your workplace? Why didn't you report the sexual harassment? In what way did it affect your work, if at all? Did you feel it created an intimidating workplace environment? EDIT: I looked up SHARP to make sure I was informed. Was your sexual harassment experience in the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:52 PM
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hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 03:40 PM
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he's an idiot ENTP
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 07:10 PM
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of course. and i was still smarter than all of them. education only means you graduated from some institution of higher learning and got a piece of paper proving you did. ​ unless he was a doctor or scientist, i usually knew more than they did. HELL, i once dated a guy who had a masters and was working for the space team for the US Navy and he literally didn't believe in sources. he told me that uncooked food is easier to digest (this is flat out wrong) and he demanded sources. so when i showed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 03:01 PM
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If your husband asked you to perform a sexual dealbreaker for you or he's leaving you, would you do it to make him stay or tell him to kick rocks? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 12:07 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 09:23 PM
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no i'm saying when i was younger, because my identity was awkward and nerdy, there were traits i was looking for in guys, despite not really being attracted to those traits. since dropping that identity and just being whoever I wanted to be, which was a much cooler version of myself, i don't preselect for traits beyond chemistry and attraction now and i'm way happier. it was a learning experience, my 20s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:51 PM
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no but i made excuses about the kind of men i wanted to date cuz my identity was too tied to being awkward and nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:44 PM
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a few things: I was awkward and nerdy as a younger woman. Dark skinned black woman (this is no longer an issue cuz i'm cool) I wasn't culturally a stereotype so I didn't fit in most places i didn't dress attractively ​ since deal with all of that, i haven't had a problem with dating since i was 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:38 PM
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This is one of my worst exchanges lol. I'm never discussing this again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:55 PM
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the worst cum i've ever tasted was like crisco and mashed potatoes with no salt. almost the same consistency too. it was horrible. ​ the best was like a lemon vinaigrette
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:51 PM
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if you replace ice cream with lemon juice, i'd be down. maybe even with ACV!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:41 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:45 AM
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i'm a sexy 'cool girl' and cater to the male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:53 PM
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I'm an INFJ I always say I love you after a few weeks. I'm neurotic about weight loss. I'm a clean freak. I hate animals. I am a career woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:36 PM
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Lets say by some stroke of luck, Andrew Yang gets elected for 2020. ​ LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:46 PM
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i was a gross anime nerd black girl in high school and half of college. i wanted boy attention so i dropped pursuing dorky interests. through that goal, i made a shit ton of friends. i also got a job as a lobbyist at 21 so i naturally learned how to make friends and influence people quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:34 PM
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speak on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:28 AM
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I am still technically still an English kid of Nigerian descent more than anything (and I have been treated as English throughout my whole life interestingly enough). ayyyyy #naija i'm American, of Igbo and Ibibio descent! Hello there! I think I'm western ENOUGH, in that i'm a first gen american and born in the states and lived here my whole life, so i think i'm pretty assimilated but its not like 400 years of westernization that the descendants of black american slaves have gone through.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:47 PM
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i'm gonna break this down to race. ​ all the white liberal men i've dated didn't believe in egalitarian relationships personally and were hyper dominating. all the black liberal men i dated kept calling me 'queen' and were supplicating betas. ​ all the white conservative men i've dated were extremely giving partners and lovers and were very open minded. all the black conservative men i've dated were insanely misogynist and felt my job was to be secondary to him in ALL things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:38 PM
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i'd just let him do it cuz he's my husband and the bastard would have a most unfortunate accident later that ended his life abruptly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 03:19 PM
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i don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:58 PM
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These are two very different types of men, and I have the feeling she was referring to men more like my dad. And she's right that that type of man surpasses the "masculinity" trigger and flips the "terrifying and dangerous" trigger for most women. yes. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:39 PM
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describe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:39 PM
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ew why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:38 PM
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i think most women who know their man is capable of killing someone (by his behavior, his demeanor, his temperament, what he says and when) would be scared to live with him. men have sheltered women from all that by being more domesticated. i think most women wouldn't want to live with an undomesticated man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:38 PM
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idk. most women wouldnt be comfortable with their man going out and possibly killing someone. sure, they want a strong man. but a man who can kill others may possibly turn that on you at any time. it would scare most women i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:32 PM
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beer bellies. just round masses on top of legs, no hips. it makes for amazing warm cuddles at night :3 ​ another 'unattractive' trait that i really like in men is the desire to murder his enemies and the CAPACITY to do so. if the guy i'm with can't physically kill a person on his own, i have zero interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:12 PM
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how many? let me think about this really. AznChad alpha ex current bf.... ​ so three. ​ and when will you stop? #cantstopwontstop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:09 PM
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my god its like a fuckign movie! lucky you on your awesome relationship :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:01 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:17 PM
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True love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:22 PM
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So you pursued him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:18 PM
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My feeler heart just sighed. So romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:17 PM
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If as a man you're told 24/7 that men being super-selfish lovers who suck at sex is somehow the norm (a narrative which I suspect is stronglymotivated by the desire to shift the blame for a woman's lack of sexual response to a guy onto the sap himself), of course you start to be fixated on a female orgasm happening. if men overall would think of sex as something both partners want to enjoy vs something HE has to GET, then yes, they would be seen as less selfish. half the guys who demand orgasms …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:58 PM
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He drunkenly told me about 2 months later he wanted to help get my shit together and then marry me lol. aww how romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 04:35 PM
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nice! what type is your partner? My bf is ENTJ and I'm INFJ. it was pretty quick for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:58 PM
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omg i had the same feeling. question. what's your mbti?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:54 PM
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men want a show. women don't need a show to get off. i can enjoy sex without needing to orgasm personally, but if i tell ANY BOYFRIEND that i didn't orgasm. omg its the biggest deal. men will come to all sorts of conclusions: she's damaged. its because she's thinking of another dude maybe i am a bad lay maybe she has a bad history with sex. so forth. they won't take "i'm fine" for an answer. so women, to massage a male ego, fake it so he'll get over having to have some stupid sex show, and she c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:01 PM
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there's a diff between failing to launch and falling from grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:08 PM
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no. i buy into 'failed' alphas, but not fallen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:09 PM
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i would argue all alphas are naturals. To learn RP stuff, at best, you can rise to High Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:44 PM
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who thinks like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:21 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:16 AM
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what do you think is the reason you were head over heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:07 PM
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So you're a romantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:53 PM
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huh. ​ what happened in those 8-11 months that you realized it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:31 PM
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I'm just going from your commentary here at PPD. You have very masculine tastes. Preferences that are not widely distributed into the male population. i'm not atlas obviously. but i'm lost. should women NOT select for masculinity? most men in the US are pretty masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 04:08 PM
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Disclaimer: i'm 30 years old and meh on kids. I think when I was younger, my view was 2-3 years and we should either be married or engaged. I think it doesn't take that long to know if you want to marry someone when you spend every day with them. But in hindsight, I'm GLAD i didn't marry ANY of my bfs in my 20s. I was so anxious and unstable I really wanted to just rush the dating process because it stressed me out. I know for a fact I would have divorced every person I seriously considered in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:53 PM
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i agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:49 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 02:28 PM
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your flair is fucking amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 05:08 PM
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Why the fuck are you arguing with me about scrabble i adore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 04:39 PM
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rebounds are fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 05:15 PM
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lawl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:48 PM
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its a way of MEETING people sure. its not a way of securing a partner, which has better rates among those who meet offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 05:31 PM
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Ain't no shame, ladies do your thing, Just make sure you ahead of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 06:36 PM
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#teamwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 02:45 PM
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gosh. so red pill vs blue pill.....its kind of like a purple pill debate. now if only we had a sub just for that purpose....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:28 AM
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they need new members that aren't losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:50 PM
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this is dumb as hell. why not just do an ama with trp mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 09:33 PM
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lol its a long story. if you're talking about being approached in a non social setting, then yeah. that's where most of 'dates' are asked for. like the grocery store, the train station, the bus stop, walking to work, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:44 PM
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if they're attractive, 90% of the time. ​ i have better rates of getting dates with guys i am attracted to offline than online. when you rely on online dating you go on A LOT of first dates. if you rely on offline methods, your long term options are better. my current bf, he straight up demanded a date, i said yes...and tht was it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:18 PM
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i don't have an ideal. that's why i have a dating life. people with all these ideals for who they want to end up with, just end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:55 PM
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I eat food not to fuel myself but to protect my physical looks, primarily. My eating is completely divorced from hunger. I think men are more frugal, because they could legit eat the same thing daily until they die and not care. I think women use think of food as an expression, a way to share, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:04 PM
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this is just sad to me ​
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:31 PM
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amen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 09:02 PM
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No one is a liar until they are. You can't vet for that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:40 PM
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really? i thought you were just giving your unique opinion on a topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:39 PM
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you could wait 2-3 months for sex, have sex, and then break up in 2-3 months. there's no way to know until you're trying and you only try if YOU care enough to get to know them. its a joint effort. there is nothing i can do on my end alone to make a person want to stay with me. i can just hope they want to while I also want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:32 PM
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she is haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:29 PM
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i don't complain. most of the men i've fucked on the first date it was ME who ended it early, not them. i'm not some passive weak meek bish who can't make my own dating choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:28 PM
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lol why bleh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:27 PM
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exactly. happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:27 PM
1

nope. he's muslim, but he's had sex before with an ex. idk what's goin on lol. i've stopped asking her about it cuz we'd have fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:26 PM
6

you can do all that with a guy while fucking him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:21 PM
2

yes. you read correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:20 PM
1

I know two variations of this, one christian woman who married her husband with no sex and have been struggling since they got married a few years ago with zero sexual chemistry and zero sex life this is closer to my friend. she really wants to marry him despite all these struggles. i don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:08 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:07 PM
4

i have a friend who believes OP, except she's going on year 3 of no sex with her bf. and she always ends up with questionable men cuz the truth is a red blooded straight man CAN'T wait months and months for sex. he won't most likely. not in 2019. She cannot make the connection between why her bfs are all zero libido and selecting for men who don't push for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:56 PM
22

If he wants to date you, he will put off sex until 2-3 months or whatever in. There's nothing stopping men from waiting 2-3 months to fuck you while he's fucking his fwb on the side, and then DUMPING YOU ANYWAY after he gets what he wants. all dating is a risk. get over it. try your best. Here's the real truth: if he likes you, it won't fucking matter when you have sex. within minutes or within months, cuz he already decided he wants to be with you. so as long as you find a guy who you connect w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:53 PM
1

lol what a jump
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:13 PM
3

if she graduates, she has to wait a year for you. women don't want to wait on men, they want men to wait on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:51 PM
4

not only do i make eye contact with men, but i SMILE at them too :D its why i never am short of male attention or offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:50 PM
3

ignore them. go for the hot seniors in high school and make them jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:48 PM
1

how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 03:12 AM
2

do you live in the United States?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:58 AM
3

that's insanity. most people start dating in high school, and then have 1-2 actual relationships before pairing off with the person that will eventually be their spouse around the ages of 22-25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:53 AM
1

I'm a bisexual man. oh my bad. sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:03 PM
1

i didn't know you were a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 02:49 PM
1

The hotter person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:52 PM
1

I don't care. I'll be 60 years old and hopefully married by then. If i'm 60 and single I'd just give up and enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:52 PM
10

I'm flattered by all male attention. I don't care. Means I still got it. I don't really care their inner world unless I'm into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:50 PM
3

Everything except: Ability to stay skinny. I'm vain Coffee The ability to use Ni in peace. Sexual pleasure with my partner monogamously ​ ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:45 PM
0

Fix it, Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:22 PM
5

for context, i'm a woman. Don't get fat. don't let yourself go. its harder to lose weight in your 30s. I'm still a size 0 and it helps with dating. Vetting is worthless. you could vet until the cows come home but people change overtime. and no amount of vetting can tell you what someone is gonna be like in 5, 10 or 15 years. if its not a dealbreaker, let it go. you can't negotiate attraction. if you have it, or you don't. don't settle for lack of attraction for anything else. if you don't want c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:11 PM
2

congrats bae!! (text me on how it goes!)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:20 PM
1

god, i have so many irrational deal breakers: likes romantic comedies talks about feminist theory while eating me out has a thicc booty -- i don't care if he can deadlift 1000 lbs, i think its gross has a 'happy wife, happy life' mentality. cannot pick me up over his head can't fuck me from behind cuz his dick cannot get past my thick booty has millennial soy boy face. y'all know what i'm talking about. likes mayo. it will not work out if he's spreading that shit on all his sandwiches says yummy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 11:37 PM
7

so then all of yall should stfu then and stop complaining. women are out there every day pounding the streets for change to make their lives easier. and yall can't even step outside your homes cuz its a losing battle. so why are you fighting it? its all stupid. MRAs are pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:18 PM
5

If men bring it up, they are not taken seriously. Only women can bring those ideas to the light without having their lives ruined. Very few men can bring those ideas to the light and keep being able to work. Those men are not taken seriously by the media. Men are not the right tool to use for that task. cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:06 PM
7

so you're waiting on women to bring this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:38 PM
3

i agree with you mostly. I'm also Female, 30, purple. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:30 PM
7

i don't like cheaters either. but you're insane if you think some divorce will RUIN the richest man on earth ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:28 PM
2

Lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:51 PM
3

Like anyone in this sub ever cared about same sex relationship dynamics... c'mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:08 PM
3

Thx babe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:03 PM
2

Agreed. And if he doesn't claim you after a period of time, just leave
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:02 PM
1

Thanks. That's what I meant to say. It was a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:00 PM
2

Exactly. Pressuring someone into being with you rarely produces good results
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:50 PM
5

If a girl is dating a man for months and HE is behaving in a way where she can't tell where she stands, isn't that HIM gaming her? If y'all are doing great, he should claim you publicly. If she has to make him do it, or want it, or initiate the convo, she'll never be fulfilled from it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:46 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:45 PM
3

So women should be aggressively pushing the men they date to commit to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:39 PM
2

You DON'T know each other. Why not take a while to see if the person is worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:36 PM
3

No, it's an reason to stay feminine and not be neurotic. If you like him, let him initiate it. If you like him and after months of dating he's not progressing the relationship, then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:36 PM
2

Not really, you can date him until you decide to bounce. But you shouldn't ever start the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:35 PM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:34 PM
4

Well he's not fucking around on ME, cuz he's single and so am I. Why can't he date more than one person while gauging his options?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:34 PM
1

That foundation is lovely but women still can mention their feelings and desires without bringing up exclusivity or demanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:29 PM
0

So you're saying women should initiate?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:28 PM
4

So women should fight for a man's commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:26 PM
3

Hurr hurr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:25 PM
0

The what are we talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:24 PM
1

Idk if we had a "exclusivity talk", so much as I learned he stopped seeing other people. Since I wasn't seeing anyone else, that was it kind of.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:20 PM
1

Yeah that's a nice feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:19 PM
1

why would a nonreligious woman care about ncount at all? its irrelevant in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:08 PM
2

i missed you and your posts!! welcome back :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:22 PM
1

what curse? our generation KNOWS nothing else really. idk why anyone under 40 would complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:11 PM
1

Honestly watch queer eye or ask a gay friend for grooming tips. dressing like a gay man will just make me think he's gay. how is this helpful? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 06:17 PM
1

i <3 you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:06 PM
1

i think where people trip up is the 'good enough'. what does good enough mean? what if there is something better out there? i think people who aren't satisfied with what's in front of them are the ones who FEEL like they settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:59 PM
3

hilarious. i'll never get over this. women are out there in the front lines pushing for equal access and inclusion, reproductive rights, victim rights, etc....cuz they want ACTION not just talk. ​ men act like their entire futures hang in the balance sometimes in these pillsphere convos and all they did is complain about it on the internet. ​ i just find that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:57 PM
2

I would agree that ESTP is Chad too. But Chad is a normie. He cannot be an N type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 11:28 PM
0

Chad is an ESTJ. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:45 PM
9

Or maybe nothing is wrong with them. They just enjoy having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 06:02 AM
1

this is relevant. what is your MBTI? click this link: https://personalityhacker.com/personality-type-ask-love/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 10:51 PM
1

idk what the issue is. i would think men on ppd would be like "FINALLY, a profile of a respectable woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 07:21 PM
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women put up with so much shit with men, how can anyone say women don't love them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 03:15 AM
2

Haha right???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 09:45 PM
2

They about to ruin the orgasm. Somebody stop them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:15 AM
3

where do you live? where i am, everyone still looks good into their 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:31 AM
1

I don't know if I'm wrong but I associate transexual with cross-dressers or drag queens cross dressers and drag kings/queens don't have a gender identity issue. they just like dressing up like the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:20 AM
1

agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:04 AM
1

I've never dated anyone since I was 19. Overweight, socially awkward and the face of a russian peasant. I'm also genetic garbage AND a computer geek. No woman wants that. ​ How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:31 PM
1

that's lovely. but have you dated an Ni-dom woman before? If i don't want to do something, I cannot be swayed. its horrifically stubborn. my INTJ friend been with her fiance for 8 years. they will have huge fights cuz she doesn't clean. he will yell, they break in windows. he's always getting louder and louder. She doesn't give a fuck. she can't be forced to clean. he just has to accept that about her haha. she's amazing in every other way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:20 PM
2

Thanks for confirming the vantapill. If a man has high enough SMV a woman will do almost anything for him. Conversely if a man has low SMV, absolutely nothing he does will matter. what the fuck is the vantapill? one of my exes was by far one of the hottest men i ever came across. his father is semi famous. girls threw themselves at him. i still didnt' do a lot of what he requested, because i didn't want to. you clearly have no idea how INFJs operate. if i don't want to do something, i will not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:09 PM
5

this is hella S thinking and its disgusting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:00 PM
1

yay headphones!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:58 PM
5

yall are missing the point and its annoying me. if i am listening to a song while i happen to be cooking, then sure. i may bop to it. whatever. its the MANDATE of it because 'that's what women do' that is stupid to me. its like gender theater. i'm not a puppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:53 PM
4

okie doke. i guess this whole post is dumb then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:49 PM
6

shallow. incompatible. i don't totally care about the words used. i found it dumb and unnecessary. but i find most social expectations and obligations done for the sake of it dumb and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:43 PM
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its not about it being a fantasy. its micromanaging my entire life. that was just ONE example. let's say i did do it. then he would mandate what KIND of music, how long i played it, what the specific meals would be. its too much. why can he just enjoy his woman making him a meal he'd enjoy and be done with it? and that's not even what bothered me. what did he mean 'this is how women act'? that's not a given. it was this immediate red flag. i'm a very feminine woman. anyone who meets me knows thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:39 PM
1

why would he ban you??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:36 PM
3

i think its utterly ridiculous to MANDATE how i should act cuz of this misconception of 'how women act". i know TONS of women. none of us specifically play music while cooking to 'feel more feminine'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:27 PM
9

I am not.... this is just one of many examples of how silly the standards of my ex were
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:12 PM
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shallow is a shaming word. who gives a fuck? I spend hundreds a month on how I look, i love bragging about my amazing body and proportions. I enjoy male attention and I will easily change my demeanor and interests to fit my boy of choice -- when necessary. i've dropped entire friend circles for a man's company. even if i knew him for a few days. friends and family have called me shallow, insecure, codependent...i don't care. the only time i'm bothered is if the man i'm interested in thinks i'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:05 PM
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i had a man tell me i should play music and dance in the kitchen when making him a sandwich cuz 'that's what women do'. i found that shallow as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:09 PM
1

Offline meets allow for facial attractiveness, sense of humor, etc to serve as alternate advantages to above average height. this is key i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:43 PM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:42 PM
11

its not that he has to be tall, he just can't be shorter than the girl. so if a man is under the average height for women, that's where he will struggle. i think in the US its 5'7? so a man is considered 'short' at 5'7 or under.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:52 PM
2

seriously. the goal to stay attractive as you age is simply avoiding fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:35 PM
11

by 30, in most parts of hte US, the best options were snatched up already. either in a LTR for years that will result in marriage, or they are already married. meaning that everyone who is single at 30+ has baggage. thus, your screening choices COMPLETELY change. don't want a man who has kids? well guess what? most men over 30 who had LTRs or marraiges before have kids. don't want a woman who has a high ncount? well guess what? by 30, she's had a few partners. cuz she's still single. you don't j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 05:05 AM
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women could fuck men daily and be his personal slut and he could still cheat. your statement is ignoring male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:43 AM
1

I cannot imagine a person caring about this. It's like you don't know what the world of adults is like. No adult over 25 cares about this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 08:59 PM
8

> Can you imagine giving your entire youth to a guy while being one of the hottest women in the world, bearing him 2 children and having him cheat on you? She kind of did everything right: she dated the guy for 10 years before getting engaged and then pregnant. how is this her doing it right? She had two of his kids before marriage. So of course he could bail like she was just a gf cuz she was. it HURTS, cuz you're under this illusion that time together = legitimacy in the eyes of your partner, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 07:54 PM
2

poor local choices. when i realized that all my choices locally were meh, and those online were also meh, it was a sign I had to move to a different SMP. Living in philly, i don't think i'd even CONSIDER online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:04 PM
1

we've had this discussion but could you elaborate for the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:13 PM
5

Jack and Rose from Titanic. WITHIN 3 DAYS, she cheated on her fiance Kal with this guy who helped save her life, was willing to throw away everything to be with him, he ends up dying anyway, she remarries a few years later, and apparently loved him more than her current husband DECADES later. all from a dick she rode in 1912. amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:19 PM
3

Coach and Tami Taylor from Friday Night Lights. Best example of a leadership beta on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:18 PM
7

Cuz men are addicted to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:13 PM
1

i am single but the guy i'm currently seeing i met during a roommate search.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 04:42 AM
5

i had a fight with my now ex bf. and i told him in the most stern INFJ ready to doorslam way: "I will never have this argument with you again". He didn't listen. so i doorslammed the fuck out of him. moved out and never spoke to him again. his entire family even was stunned. my friends and family were stunned. i was stunned. but oh well. i hate repeating myself. ​ in general though, if i say "i won't speak of this again" to a person, then i'm very serious. Just because I love talking. If I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:22 PM
1

I'm a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:08 PM
2

interesting. so knowing this, how did you eventually graduate to 'serious' with these girls if romantic/nonromantic acts were the same to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:23 AM
1

i don't buy this narrative that women are freezing up during rape or sexual assault. i think the narrative is manufactured to argue that women are helpless during such encounters and they had no role in what happened to them or how. ***** DISCLAIMER: RAPE IS HORRIBLE AND TRAUMATIC AND NEVER EXCUSABLE. ***** i think most women, throughout history, in a situation where they either risk fighting off their attacker, losing, getting beat up and gets raped anyway, OR risk running away, their attacker …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:03 AM
6

until you reach director, then its almost entirely men. in most professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:08 AM
-1

this is the only answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:19 PM
1

vulnerable = Fi in top 4 stack needy = Fe in top 4 stack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 11:35 PM
5

eh, no, i dont think that's mateguarding in any way. between women, we communicate nonverbally a lot. if i see a woman that i think could snatch my nigga, i check HER. i don't check my man. he didn't do anything. he's a man. of COURSE he's gonna look. that's not hte issue. i make sure to let any bitch know that this is MINE, you can't have him. you can try, but i'll cut a ho. If you felt like you couldn't directly or passively check this bitch who was rolling up on your man, then i feel like SHE…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 06:46 PM
1

I am worthy of that, but thank you. I don't think people are so polarized. You think the assholes are that all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:42 PM
1

a year. from around september of 2007 until around october? of 2008. i was in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 04:55 AM
1

yeah :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:05 PM
10

how many of yall are black? i heard this ALL THIS TIME
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 02:46 PM
1

why do you think she's psycho?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 01:07 AM
4

I'm not a proud sociopath and I have the same strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:33 PM
14

I see nothing wrong with any of this. Means he's an attractive man with options and probably has a real job. In the adult world, most people with careers can't just hang out every day for hours whether they like you or not. And people date and fool around. Who cares? If a "player" falls for you, none of this matters. So you either endure the possible risk of hurt to meet a hot man who knows himself and has a life, or you avoid it like the plague, miss out on the best options, then settle for una…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:23 PM
16

Your strategy hurts a lot and most women aren't built for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:15 PM
1

how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 10:26 PM
1

i agree with you. i think the guy is crazy for legally changing it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 11:43 PM
3

It doesn’t suck if (for whatever reason and by whatever metric) you get better results online than irl let me rephrase this. when you get better results online, i think its cuz people are bored and just swiping. its not about YOU, tis about you being one of tons. and you 'pass' its a pass/fail app.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 10:24 PM
3

i am in full agreement. plus, online dating may hit all of your boxes, but you'll never be able to gauge chemistry through it. if anything, if you meet up, you'll fake chemistry cuz you've overcommitted to the person on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 10:21 PM
1

exactly. we're in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:48 PM
2

i agree. but she'll likely eventually break up with him for it. but sexual strategy is amoral so the bitch can kick rocks. he got what his dick wanted, so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:35 PM
2

holy shit are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:24 PM
1

but think about it. on paper you could be 16 and REALLY get those prime aged girls you want :V
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:23 PM
6

Step six. Every time you have sex start asking for the thing you want. Say you just want to try it one time. If she refuses say "Don't you want me to be happy?" or "This is really important to me" or "I can't help but be disappointed." Keep asking and pushing and guilting her. How sexy. All you're doing is acting rapey and whiney cuz you want to fuck her ass so badly. Yeah, that's gonna make you just LIKE HER EX in short order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:14 PM
1

what end does your supposed observation serve you? i'm just curious OP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 02:44 PM
1

personally, i love a very career driven ambitious man. knowing that someone is out using most of their time to their own goals, and then squeezes you into their list of priorities is super appealing. ​ that said, its draining, and you are never going to be top priority so you have to learn how to manage your time and preoccupy yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 02:24 PM
-1

No, there's no woman on earth who likes dick picks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 01:41 AM
1

Explain fetlife to me. What is its appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 01:19 PM
0

truelove
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 05:13 AM
0

truelove
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 05:13 AM
5

aww i'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:57 AM
2

my friends would immediately ban me from the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:35 AM
1

and now look at yall. beautiful :V
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:33 AM
1

sounds like a great start!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:29 AM
1

do you prefer formal dates like online dating, where everything is clear cut and decided in advance or informal dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:51 AM
3

idk. i'm asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:51 AM
2

It was all odd and sweet, and even though he was high n count Chad back in his drinking days, he’s actually very shy. Said alcohol was always his liquid courage. take notes boys. Told him I would make him dinner, he said let‘s go out. Took me out on a Friday night, dinner and movie and he insisted on paying. Yep this time it was a “date”. Once we were sure the feels were on the same page, we never looked back. We’ve Been inseparable ever since. So basically this was a dude you were friends with …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:51 AM
1

was there a second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:20 AM
1

did you know him personally or randomly on facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:17 AM
1

yay! so the dates were pretty casual, in your opinion? or did you go into it like "i hope i marry this person"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:16 AM
2

oh sorry!! are you against marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:16 AM
0

update us on when she says yes after your hiking proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:08 AM
1

you're a fetus, sorry. call me in 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 12:59 PM
1

No, i'd be jumping for joy. we could swing by planned parenthood hand in hand. i do not want children and while most men seem to be like "oh i don't want kids" they are LIARS. it is VERY DIFFICULT to find a man anywhere who does not want children of his own over the age of 30. it seems like if the condom breaks, half the time he's trying to force kids on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 11:49 PM
2

i'll be packing cuz i'm moving
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:51 PM
1

A woman attempted to give her bf one she drafted and it caused a national conversation among single women in the black community lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 05:55 AM
3

Models and wrestlers aren't even comparable. Racism is very real in this country. I'm a black African first generation woman. But nyc?? C'mon now. It's literally one of the most diverse racially inclusive cities on earth. You aren't having problems dating cuz you're a Korean in NYC. Be honest. What's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:39 AM
3

Are you fat? Ugly? Rude? Creepy? It's not cuz you're Korean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:34 AM
5

There's no way your being rejected for being one of the most successful and assimilated ethnicities in the United states
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:32 AM
2

What's your race? NYC is one of the most diverse cities in the United states. If not the world
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:29 AM
1

30F Red Pill Everyone fucking loves me. I'm an excellent friend, I can turn up and be a shoulder to cry on, IN THE SAME NIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:29 PM
0

I'm an excellent second wife option. I don't want kids. I make my own cash. I have a fucking boss career. I'm not really looking for comfort. I provide companionship and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:28 PM
1

beat me to it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:27 AM
1

*insert laugh track*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 06:52 PM
1

This is the best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 01:26 AM
12

i didn't see that scene at all as her dominating him in ANY WAY. its fucking Khal Drogo. The point is that he actually considered what his woman said to him vs ignoring her entirely except for sex. I think it was a show of intimacy vs power. That said, I think 'ordinary' sex having to be explained means that porn has officially ruined everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 03:44 PM
1

Any woman my age without children likely has a higher ncount
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 01:57 PM
9

Why the quotations?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 04:23 AM
6

pretty much how i feel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:32 AM
14

why is he TELLING me hes a virgin? this is a bigger question than i think the post realizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 12:14 AM
1

imo if you lose attraction from their behavior, you were never really genuinely attracted to them. you were accepting what they brought to hte table. ​ in all of my breakups except one, i never LOST ATTRACTION. i just decided it had to end. whereas, with the one ex where i lost all attraction, i realized that i never was attracted to him. i was 'making it work'. When it no longer was working, there was nothing else there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:58 PM
1

aww happy cake day :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:25 PM
5

if i'm honest, probably a pothead. i've lived with alcoholics and it was INCREDIBLY taxing. you never know what their drunk self is gonna be like. you exist on eggshells all the time. I did Al-Anon for months. Idk if I could live with an alcoholic again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:29 AM
1

<3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:24 AM
1

Ive walked through the hood in mini bodycon dresses at 3am with no gun or mace in some of the rougher parts of Washington DC in the middle of summer. I never feel unsafe unless someone actually comes out and is threatening. there has to be enough reason to think I'm in danger. I feel more unsafe if i'm intoxicated or if there are men on the corner than just walking anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:34 PM
2

you're not wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:49 PM
1

are you white? white boys don't look grown until at least 33
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:54 PM
3

Are you done or are you finished my fav quote from you. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:17 PM
4

TRP has gone to shit Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:55 PM
1

If a guy hates his mom, he'll probably marry someone just like her. If he loves his mom he'll marry someone different. Same goes for women and their dads. what's the basis for this? I'm curious cuz it sounds interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:54 PM
2

if that's the case then I guess I could extend this question to the rest of you how do you guys act in real life? How AM I in real life? Exactly how I am online. I sip sparkling water and lattes in bougie coffee shops and obsess over the machinations of human interactions. I'm super social. I have melancholy INFJ face when I'm not engaged. I'm kind of vain and uptight. I like boys :3 Idk. Are people not normally themselves online?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:47 AM
5

idk. i think she's a great person. very kind and patient. she's been a pillar of wisdom, perspective and insights, and laughs for many people who have gotten to know her over the years. she has personally helped a few people out of really tough and emotionally taxing situations. she is always there for her friends, giving them courage and advice when they need it. she's sometimes abrasive but she truly means well. i personally adore her and I think she's an intelligent, empathetic and lovely wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:36 AM
3

I believe that love is real. I know people in the pillsphere almost never talk about it. But I've experienced it before and I'm convinced its the only thing that makes romantic relationships 1) real and 2) last.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:28 AM
-2

lol this is pretty hilarious. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:29 AM
4

does no one remember PPG?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:27 AM
13

I read this in Mojo Jojo's voice and it really makes the post hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 11:00 PM
9

My husband is so awesome, when our daughter was kidnapped during her short vacay in Paris, my husband personally hunted down the men who took her, killed them all, and saved her life. Within days. It was incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 10:29 PM
0

its a game. no one really intends to kill or marry or fuck anyone mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:00 PM
0

with that woman? those women, you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:50 PM
1

what a stupid question. LOL i think he's made it clear to everyone and God that he loves beer :V
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:50 PM
2

sure :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:43 PM
21

it could also be that they're losers and being single isn't the end of the world. perhaps work on making friends and finding value in your life instead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:34 PM
0

Also Atlas, just because she's a basic bitch how is she basic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:33 PM
3

one guy went down on me without me asking. That was fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:30 PM
1

Kill: Everyone else i'm hurt :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:28 PM
4

I come from from my amazingly fulfilling job to my nice 1br apartment in the city. I kick off my heels, take off my bra and clean my face of makeup. I grab a cold crisp sparkling water from the fridge and snack on chips. i sit on my loveseat next to my hot and weird bf who also lives with me. we talk about our days and we start having amazing foreplay that leads to sex. its about 20 mins tops. We share a laugh or two and smooch. He goes about the rest of his day and we don't really speak for ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:28 PM
1

its bound to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:53 AM
11

TRP is a gen x/late millennial thing. /r/JordanPeterson is the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 07:39 PM
1

It turns out that the real path is to meet, start having casual sex and hanging out in some kind of amorphous dating/sex phase, and break up before either of you start to like each other, repeat this a lot, and when you hit 27.5 years old, marry whoever you happen to be with at the time. Then maybe get divorced 2-10 years later. this is what i've seen with my own friends so this is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:38 PM
1

If you're asking yourself that, then in your mind two things have already happened: The best of your options have already moved beyond you. You've hit the wall. I'm 30 and not once did I tell myself. I need a beta bux. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:37 PM
1

i misread. sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:56 PM
2

Not just fired. Disciplined. At least 50. so in your 25 years, you've never seen a single man get fired for sexual harassment. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:41 PM
3

so by your count, how many men have you seen in your 25 years of working get fired for sexual harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:33 PM
3

okay but this rarely ever happens like that. you know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:31 PM
5

Doesn't kiss me or let me kiss him. how are you in a relationship without any kissing??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:55 PM
10

has a weird sock issue that causes fights when i shop for socks okay. you have to explain this!! XD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:25 PM
1

if most men today are feminine, then women all over will prefer the best of the feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:27 PM
1

women prefer the men available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 03:08 PM
2

i have never cared in my life what a man's ncount is so i don't even think about it. ever. i don't care about the internal machinations of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:46 PM
1

Cause I know if I said it I would be saying crapbaskets seconds later. idk what this means. could you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:24 PM
1

It doesn't matter who says it first. Flowery words are fun to play with, but they don't really have a lot of relationship mileage to them. personally, and maybe this is the just the Romantic in me, but i don't think a relationship is even real until the man says I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:23 PM
1

lol how long does it take you to catch feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:45 AM
1

okay seriously. how do people date multiple people at once? this is not easy or fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:35 AM
2

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 12:20 AM
1

It's exactly the same as asking for exclusivity: if a man freaks out because you say "I love you" one week "too early" then he wasn't that into you anyway. interesting haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:03 PM
1

interesting. could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:57 PM
13

dude what are you talking about and why are you so hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:54 PM
5

their mothers, female literature, dating practices, rites of passage, tradition, culture, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:50 PM
3

that's IN THE OFFICE. she did work when she got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:55 PM
10

because no one will shame an ambitious man that devotes most of his wake hours to his work and career goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:30 PM
4

so women can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 03:39 PM
21

i think career women are only mocked by professionally unsuccessful or less successful men who are jealous that a woman ascended to higher levels of the career ladder than they could and are furious that she does not care for or need their validation once getting there. she's not considering them as options and never did. they think she's missing out but he was never going to be on the short list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 03:31 PM
7

TRP 101 shows that these are women who value their masculine traits but fail to secure a top tier guy. yeah and that's a myth. career women usually have access to the best men and marry their counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:56 PM
3

i'm sure some of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:51 PM
1

yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:50 PM
3

yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:10 PM
3

seriously. your friend is a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:05 PM
13

yeah. most 'career women' are a small portion of the population. if you aren't in the major cities, you will most likely not be around one either. They're typically sociopathic women or career cunts who are truly very successful in their own right, but its as a RESULT, of not having a life, not investing in their relationships, etc. I've seen some career women who have families and stuff, but they have maids. Their husbands are also workaholics and are never home. Its almost like a political pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 01:28 PM
2

stawwwwwwp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:38 AM
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so let's jump backward for a moment. most career women will go on to have kids. when TRP talks about 'career women' they are specifically talking about women in the boswash corridor and California who put their careers before their husbands and families. they're the ones complaining about not having enough time to see their husbands WHILE voluntarily working 60+ hours a week. They whine about wanting to spend more time with the kids while putting in extra time in the office on weekends. some nur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:36 AM
2

it doesn't matter how you meet the chick, once you're in person, women really like men who can read IOIs and take initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:49 AM
5

this is one of the worst posts ever posted on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 01:45 AM
1

should is irrelevant. i don't think its possible to be alive and have a risk-free existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 08:17 PM
5

maybe...don't control her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:00 PM
1

god you sound like one of those gross women on OLD who have salary requirements for the men they are willing to message.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:41 PM
1

++
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 08:10 PM
2

so in your mind, the woman should follow the man? miles away. even if he doesn't propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:20 PM
15

wanting to be equals with your partner. in theory, why wouldn't you want that? in practice, it makes me feel like we're siblings and not romantic partners. i want someone i look up to, and to look up to a person, we can't be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 01:24 AM
1

care to elaborate? how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:58 PM
3

I think weight lifting is a measure of control for woman who aren't naturally lithe or petite. i never thought of it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 05:57 PM
1

i'm at work!! procrastinating and eating lunch :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:50 PM
1

haha, you're alright in my book. Yes, that's a good thing to do, and thanks for the sweet words, they have meaning to me, they made me smile. then my job today is complete :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:49 PM
1

when i'm having days where i'm beating myself up, i try to be nicer to myself. more patient. you don't have to like every aspect of yourself all the time, but if there are things you don't favor or bad habits you want to break, what works for me is making a list of 2-3 things I know I have control over and can change, and work on improving them :D it makes me feel way better seeing my progress on paper :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:40 PM
2

you sound mad af bro. OP aside, how are you today? is everything okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:39 PM
1

yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:34 PM
2

Ehhhhhh.. PPD's endless bleakness never fails to surprise me, but can you really expect much from the most bitter people on reddit. this sounds personal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 03:32 PM
2

I’d still take that any day over tying my life down to a chat app. you really just explained LDRs to me in a visceral way haha. i wonder if women lean more supportive of LDRs than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:50 PM
1

But even then i would never say someone who is really good at Skype is necessarily able to emotionally bond better than someone who can share a bed and maybe a bathroom with someone. well that's one benefit of LDRs. I would never want to have to share a bathroom with a man to gauge compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:45 PM
2

religious people who don't believe in premarital sex i would think religious people don't apply here. they think that sex is MORE important than the general population, which is why they forego sex until after they're married, cuz they hold it in such high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:30 PM
2

:V
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:23 PM
1

Perhaps the idea that sex is the most important part of a romantic relationship is....for at least a significant number of people....wrong? do you really believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:22 PM
1

care to elaborate? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:21 PM
1

I do not tend to feel strong emotional connections with people I cannot see in person regularly. huh. see, i'm the opposite. i easily could feel such connections but if i can't act on that connection when i can, its almost torture. why endure that for someone you can't spend time with when you're free? i don't think its for everyone. i do think it requires a hell of a lot of patience, more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:19 PM
1

weight lifting is making women have weird bodies. is lithe and petite no longer attractive to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:17 PM
1

By "rules", do you mean rules of attraction? attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:14 PM
1

a business attitude with a five year plan >_>;; This sounds so unsexy haha. Hm, I guess that's pretty formal. I can see the appeal though. Modern dating is kind of a gamble. Whereas if you treat it like a business decision, you can better manage risks and investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:13 PM
1

do you think the same rules apply regarding regular relationships to LDRs? or more so? or less? I would think, in LDRs, for example, that women would be more likely to engage in an LDR if the man is top of the pack. Or like a woman would forego more things to be in LDR with a top rated guy. or someone could argue that because LDRs are not in person, many of the rules of SMP would not apply cuz the relationship is hardly tangible. For instance, you think sex is a cornerstone of any modern relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 02:00 PM
1

thankers :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:53 PM
2

could you elaborate, plz? thanks for elaborating. How do you think LDRs fit in the SMP? because more and more people are going that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:52 PM
0

okay. awful why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:51 PM
1

lol interesting. my friend who did LDR for 4 years, they just saw each other via summer breaks hwen she was out of school. he'd stay the summer then go back. i thought it made sense. they married in 2013. my other friend whose bf is in chicago, they've been together over a year now, and he has skymiles from work so she travels weekly to see him for practically no cost. i think she's super lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:50 PM
1

what if you're LDR and not having sex? :V
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:47 PM
2

what in god's name? i ain't reading all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 12:26 AM
2

you've been married before and are in a serious LTR and you still don't know why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:02 PM
13

Sharing a bathroom. Don't subject your relationships intimacy to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 01:06 PM
2

I’m ambivalent to sex, in and of itself. I’m not anti-sexual, in that I don’t dislike or am opposed to it. I just don’t prioritize it. I nothing it. So you experience sexual attraction, and you engage in sexual behaviors for physical pleasure. How are you asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 03:09 PM
1

i'm not red pill. i'm Crimson Pill. Crimson is a strong, bright, deep red color combined with some blue or violet), resulting in a small degree of purple. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:43 PM
1

What surgery did you get
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:04 AM
11

Go to college out of state. The whitest hippest college you can afford. Major in illustration like you always wanted to. Move to Philadelphia after you graduate. Only date white boys over 30yo. Don't talk to your Indian bestie anymore. She's garbage. Go hiking. Drink more water. Don't ever start caring about fitting in. You never will, and that's totally okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 01:02 PM
3

hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:00 AM
2

i'm gonna start taking dating advice from you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 12:58 AM
1

lol i'm so not a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 12:57 AM
1

this made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 06:28 PM
2

she doesn't have sex 4-5 times a day. she wants sex 4-5 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 06:16 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:17 PM
3

"Friend", put the shoe on the other foot. If your man's sex drive was way higher than yours, would you allow him to have different partners to fulfill his sex needs? knowing this friend, i think she would, 100% Know why her sex drive is so much higher and she wants to fuck other men? Because she's not attracted to her husband, and probably never was. It's not that her sex drive is way higher. It's that he just doesn't rev her up and she's found other men who DO rev her up. Idk how true this is, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:56 PM
4

over time they stopped. now its like 1x a day. she would like 4-5x a day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:54 PM
6

i just wanted to know his reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:46 PM
4

this isn't about me, its about my friend. and most men in that situation would just cheat and justify it. should my friend just cheat than humiliate her husband with such a request?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:45 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:44 PM
5

it was fine at first when they met in college. they're 30 years old now and married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:35 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:35 PM
1

yes, she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:35 PM
1

they are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:32 PM
2

this REAL friend i have: She likes having sex every day. She likes having sex several times a day. She will ask her partner to have sex with her even when he's tired from a 10 hour day and a 1.5 hour gym session. She enjoys the full use of sex toys when her partner is tired or asleep. Its not enough. She is looking for 4-5 times a day, every day, without excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:32 PM
1

sounds ideal :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:31 PM
1

Were your instincts always right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 09:59 PM
2

OMG where the fuck have you been??? We miss you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:53 PM
2

Like you mandated this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:47 PM
2

this actually makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:27 PM
1

I think it came up mostly as a joke after we had been living together for a few months, now that I think about it. how soon after dating did yall cohabitate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 08:26 PM
2

\o/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:48 PM
1

i know. why do you think they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:47 PM
3

how many months we talkin? 2-3 or 5-6?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:46 PM
3

With my husband, he introduced me to some friends as "My girlfriend" one night and I was like, "??????" So that night when we left to go home I said "So I'm your girlfriend now?" and he said "Aren't you?" and I said "Yeah, I guess I am" and that was that. aww that's cute. and preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:46 PM
3

so hold on. you've dated men for months and didn't sleep with them at all? and they waited for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:42 PM
2

on average, how long did it take them to bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:38 PM
3

hmm. so let me ask you. who should bring it up first? i would think whoever brought it up wants a relationship more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:37 PM
5

One of my friends roommates said she "DTRed" the guy she was seeing (defined the relationship). Never heard that before until then. i never heard of that term until just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:37 PM
1

this is so detailed. i'm weeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:35 PM
1

sounds like anothre post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:26 PM
1

I’ve talked to and gone on dates with a bunch of people before narrowing down to one. this is what i meant in my OP. some people think this is still leading folks on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:08 PM
1

oh lovely! i like older guys too. do you get a lot of grief for the age gap or nah? how did yall meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:06 PM
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My partner (who is in his 40's) didn't understand (nor had ever heard of) the point of these 'exclusive' talks like reddit told me existed, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 06:55 PM
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Always been a fan of dating multiple people at once. How can you know your options and how best to decide if you don’t try them? My sex drive isn’t high, so I’m perfectly happy just chilling with a guy and then deciding who I like the most. maybe that's how people are able to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:18 PM
7

maybe disney did teach boys a thing or two :V
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:17 PM
25

Be a man We must be swift as the coursing river Be a man With all the force of a great typhoon Be a man With all the strength of a raging fire Mysterious as the dark side of the moon ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:04 PM
1

And in addition to lack of time/financial cost, the social cost of trying to trade up or lead people on is way lower. Because with online dating, you can essentially separate your social circle from the people you try to hook-up with/date this makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:34 PM
1

smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:23 PM
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I think you're right about the generational difference here. My mom grew up in the '70s and has said many times she thinks the way young people date today is crazy. "They go on one date with someone and act like they're married!" Yes, this is what i'm observing. folks will date a person and commit too soon and then act like breaking up is some mortal sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:22 PM
2

However, with me there was always a good chance that "a date" included sex which I think is an important > distinction. i thought dating/sex was what sloots do! LOL JK. but really, it sounds hard to sleep with multiple guys at once. Definitely don't tell them LOL noted ​
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:21 PM
1

I'm older and this was the advice given to me. You should date multiple people at the same time because unless you are "going steady" you are a free agent and have no obligation to exclusivity to the casual date. then i've been dating wrong lol. i do think now this makes the most sense. and you see this on reddit a lot too. people hook with one person, that person shows that they aren't a good fit, but they don't end it with said person cuz they're already together. people are going exclusive to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:19 PM
1

If I were to date now, I'd treat it like a job interview and line as many dates up as possible as I could, and then throw my personality + values at them and see who could handle it. so you wouldn't unfold slowly over time? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:19 PM
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The gen-xers didn't date around the way millennials do b/c they didn't have online dating. you don't think so? i think they dated around MORE. hence why they have higher ncounts. i think people dated way more in generation x when they were younger, and then settled earlier, hence younger marriage ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:07 PM
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every time i have, i've regretted it. i don't want to build a man up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 04:14 PM
2

you need to write a book and help out the rest of these niggas. you stay winnin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:02 PM
2

thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 02:48 PM
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okay. let's do this. (this will be long). yes i would really think of all these scenarios. BMWW: she finds him abusive. that's just how he talks. BMLW: that's just how they talk. likely some arguments due to cultural differences. BMAW: she must be brown asian. that's just how he talks. no issues. the sex is fiyah. WMBW: he finds her abusive. that's just how she talks. WMLW: he's having a bad day. she's cussin him out in spanish in her brain. WMAW: no idea. perhaps he's really abusive. AMWW: he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 02:35 PM
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black couple: they aren't arguing. that's just how they talk. white couple: maybe he's abusive. maybe she's a nagging esfj harpy. probably having a bad day. latino couple: likely abusive machismo. i'd watch and say nothing. east asian couple: likely a cultural difference i'm not familiar with. stunned to see asians raise their voices in public period. south asian couple: I'm probably gonna think he's abusive. all indian men are super simp betas in the west to me. pacific islander couple: likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 02:14 PM
1

yeah these threads are tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 01:27 PM
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why is she sharing any of this? does she think she gets extra points for being forthcoming? so she's a 25 year old who wants a husband. join the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 01:27 PM
2

what race are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 01:04 PM
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RP acts like fat women can't get married and have happy sex lives with their husbands. or postwall beckys live miserable lives. or once an incel always an incel. all not true. reality proves by 40 virtually everyone gets married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 12:40 AM
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they can't. that's why they're bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 06:58 PM
3

clearly weaker. is this question serious? Men before were taking care of families in periods of war by 13-14 years old. Men today can't handle being ghosted by female strangers after a week of talking at 25-30 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:01 PM
2

ayyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 12:22 PM
1

lol you think that works when the OP is blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:12 PM
6

do you look remotely like a Earth lifeform? Do you have a hole? then men will consider you fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:09 PM
3

perhaps >_>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 03:03 PM
3

i am a legend, boo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 01:45 AM
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i'm stunned people still copy my quote after all this time. its baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 09:21 PM
2

i think they know it matters but its not something people are actively analyzing when they exist and meet people in the world. there is no strict number system, i think its mostly pass/fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:40 PM
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pretty much. and i think it says a lot about a man if he is a gatherer and not a hunter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:41 AM
2

maybe he will fall in love with her, but she will be unsatisfied with the relationship dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:35 AM
3

CMV : Less than 20% (likely 5% or less) of women What methodology did you implement to reach this %?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 06:28 PM
2

thank you for your service. i still don't think your emotional reaction was very straight masculine male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:10 PM
2

why did that provoke such emotion in you? i'd question your ability to lead if some image triggered you that much
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:55 PM
5

this is the gheyest thing you probably have written, i'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:19 PM
3

go ahead and cry about something the same manner your gf/wife does and see how fast she deadbedrooms you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:35 PM
3

If my daughters become westernized, I would emotionally divorce myself from their romantic lives. what??? what race/ethnicity are you? where do you live? A woman getting an education beyond k-12 in most countries is pretty western.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:07 PM
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You can't show emotion like a woman. I can't believe no one has said this yet. In EVERYTHING regarding straight relationships, men should be masculine and women should be feminine. If a man cries, gets angry, wants to fuck, whatever...he should be masculine in expression. When he's feminine, and she's feminine, that's when its all off. and that's where her disgust comes from. Women don't want to enter the masculine role.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 12:46 PM
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i don't think there's anything to 'save' because i don't think any of these women are in real danger or threat. don't act like a ho, and no one cares what the truth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:23 PM
1

I see you girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 03:15 AM
1

in mutually super LL or asexual relationships, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 02:52 AM
5

BOOP. i'm so ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:01 AM
4

Multiculturalism is written right into the Canadian Constitution. is that why Canada is still 80% white?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:14 PM
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i disagree. men are horrible at sex too. i think pump and dumps happen because two horny people had sex without caring what happens, and then one person leaves (because they never were gonna stay) and someone got blind sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 10:29 PM
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"ALPHA, idk what you want from me. you keep playing hot and cold any time we get close. i can't do this anymore" "/u/songofmelancholy, wait" "what do you want from me???" "you're right. I do want you." "why?? Why do you want me?" "because I love you" "....do you mean that? you love me?" "i've been with countless women (alpha) but they don't compare to you (beta)" "<3 <3 <3" "now come here and kiss me." "will Sarah be upset if I took you away?" nah, i'll just fuck her on weekends" (alpha grin) /u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:47 AM
1

that sounds painful. was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 04:41 AM
1

sure. but don't expect me to play Mom. i don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 11:40 PM
2

so you're against public school systems?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 10:29 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:12 PM
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men do not think about nor care about the internal realities of women. at all. never have. never will. almost all female decisions stem from whether or not they want to have children. men will fuck almost anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:24 PM
1

Day to day work/errands/hobbies I almost never come in contact with potential partners then how did people meet partners before online dating???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:49 PM
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All of my Tinder dates ended up being really tiny or full of emotional baggage they wanted to lay on me. When you speak to someone for a few days or weeks via text before meeting them, you build up an idea of who they are in your head and sometimes that is crushed when you actually meet. That can get exhausting. 100% agree with you. this has been my expereince as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:24 PM
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Meetup is literally an app to find groups for activities and such and least in my area there's a lot of social groups on it, including single groups. So I can see people using the app as a hybrid online/IRL dating app. This is a good point. Its not a dating app, but they use it as a dating app, same thing applies. I guess the diff is a hookup app vs a social app.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 01:22 PM
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who cares if she wants to be a doctor's wife? get that money, bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 12:54 PM
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it seems like most people don't meet their partners in bars or clubs either, but through friends or work or through other activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 12:52 PM
5

TBP: Whiteys TRP: Foriegners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 12:45 PM
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sounds like in her mind she ALREADY moved in, and that's why she falsely assumes that she can tell you what to do with YOUR THINGS IN YOUR HOUSE. fuck that noise. correct her ass. if you think this is annoying, imagine marrying her. check your bitch. <3 best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 07:37 PM
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these bloops ain't loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 04:49 PM
2

+1 harm /u/texistentialism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:51 PM
2

Use 3 on /u/texistentialism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:13 PM
2

Heal +3 /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 01:13 AM
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i never lost attraction. i moved away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:30 PM
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Be on my level or higher. That's my rule. I don't care what your past is like, but when I SHOW UP, you better be on your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:13 PM
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For roughly 5 days every month around ovulation. Outside of that, I really don't care like that. Its nice, but so are hugs, omelets, a new pair of Michael Kors, or working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:47 AM
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may i ask....what is your issue around this? it seems like all of your posts are about career women specifically. what are you trying to discover that you didn't learn about in previously submitted posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:46 AM
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lol good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 03:54 PM
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Hurt 1 for /u/LivelyChartreuse Heal 2 for /u/IrrationalIrritation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 03:52 PM
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i get what you're saying. yeah he was nice and you liked him enough, but if the mood/setting didn't make you FEEL like you were down for kissing, because you felt like it was the right time and place, it wouldn't have happened then. i feel the same way. i hate PDA cuz i don't feel comfortable around strangers when with a romantic partner. so if they try to make out with me around strangers, i will lose all sexual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:56 PM
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best man? Hm....Probably Benjamin Netanyahu, for obvious reasons. Best woman would probably be my former TA in college. She's a Gen Xer, 49 now? She lived her best life. Married at 24. Divorced. Slept with all the boys. Met her now husband when she was 27? Married him. Now she has a JD and PhD and lives with her man and her dogs and travels all the time and teaches and runs marathons and she's so happy. She always told me that by the time i'm 30, I'll realize that no one really cares about how y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:13 PM
1

of course. but the moment you stop getting gender based harassment, you're officially beyond the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:08 PM
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calm down swp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:08 PM
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i WANT to be a second wife to a successful finished man. who wants to be there when a man is still getting his shit together? he'll just upgrade once he's where he wants to be in life anyway and THAT'S when you want to snag him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:08 AM
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i'll be on your team :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 09:48 PM
2

$150??? thats pretty cheap!! too bad you didn't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 06:27 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 05:07 PM
1

i am loving your regimen. what's your weight? that's a huge caloric deficit. are you losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 05:02 PM
2

how long does it take to wear off? how much did you pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 04:58 PM
1

You're insane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:11 PM
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beauty =/= self improvement. on an island, you'd need to improve your ability to fish, hunt, stay alive, for survival purposes. that drive is CODED in our dna, or we die. whereas with beauty, it developed from social engagement with other humans. why would you need to be beautiful and improve on THAT, if you're alone on an island, and no one knows what you look like. you have no one to compare your face to. there is no intersexual competition??? shame is also a social response. you don't feel sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:40 PM
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you're married. you aren't really active in the sexual market place because you're off the market. this post doesn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:22 PM
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if you were a human alone on an island, there would be no concept of beauty at all. beauty is a social marker of community standing, health, and sexual attraction for mating. a woman on an island wouldn't give a fuck about beauty for beauty sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:19 PM
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what inner shame are you talking about? just tell me that. there's no shame, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:32 PM
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I'm sorry, all of it sound like quick fix actions that stem from an inner shame. An inner feeling of inferiority that causes a feverish masking up. To me it just screams of insecurity and not confidence. LOL are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:46 PM
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that's all fine. i'm talking about improvement of smv for the smp. i don't care about other forms of self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:32 PM
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Self improvement shouldn't be done because you expect to get external rewards. then why do humans improve? for hte sake of it? there's no point being beautiful except for others to acknowledge it and make your life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:20 PM
1

how is botox? is it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:15 PM
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I'm not unhappy with my place in the SMP, but why does someone need to get something out of improving themselves. forgive me. i'm an infj and i can't even understand what you just said. could you explain plz?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:06 PM
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Probably some nice gay expensive clothes and a gay expensive haircut too. this made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:57 PM
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its making the point that i work hard on my figure and showing it off. a woman's figure and proportions and ratios matters in smv. its like guys talking about their height, or JAWS or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:55 PM
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who is suggesting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:42 PM
2

I'm an unattractive low-SMV beta male Fix it Jesus. but I keep ending up in LTRs Looks like He already has. Praise God. Isn't it likely she's not that attracted to me and is just giving sex to lock me down for commitment for the BB, not because she felt sexual chemistry? Well, a few things. Why don't you work to improve your SMV? There's nothing wrong with being a beta. maybe they actually like you. has this occurred to you at all? Maybe they legit want to have sex with you. I would stop over th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:36 PM
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i am truly lost now. what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:31 PM
5

.....are people sleeping wiht people they aren't attracted to in large quantity? how else would this work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:29 PM
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lol revenge porn. the hot bitch you wanted to fuck that dropped you for an alpha is likely just fine. and she's probably just fine after being dumped by an alpha too. everyone moves on. and everyone settles at some point. settling isn't bad. its how they treat you when they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:27 PM
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the # of sexual partners that he had with anyone/thing other that a woman would likely end all attraction from me to him. if a man fucked 1, 10, 100, 1000 women, i don't care. what does that have to do with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:26 PM
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i don't treat any man diff when i'm looking for a ONS, STRs/flings, LTRs. if i have sexual chemistry with a person, that's enough reason to decide to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:23 PM
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how do i decide it? i have sex with them. if its bad, i don't fuck them again. chemistry means you have sexual attraction. absent that, i don't fuck dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:18 PM
1

tons of alphas get married. it doesn't mean they're off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:18 PM
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in order: do they look decent? proceed to step 2 can they carry a conversation? proceed to step 3 do we have chemistry? proceed to step 4 would i fuck them more than once? proceed to step 5 do we share the same values/vision for life? proceed to step 6 does he raise any red flags or dealbreakers in the first 12 months? proceed to step 7 can you live with him? proceed to step 8 Step 8. Congratulations. you want to marry this man. consult /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin whenever you feel crazy and keep your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:12 PM
5

imagine living it, child. it was horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 03:14 AM
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Freak out cuz he couldn't tell his mama he didn't want to buy curtains with her and proceeds to have a emotional breakdown
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:19 PM
1

how could it possibly be deception?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:04 PM
1

facts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:04 PM
4

never. if i did, i'd never tell him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:22 PM
4

what is your endgame with this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:13 PM
2

Sex is on tap. I get it when I want it, and the wife initiates far more often than I do. We've had marathon sex; we've had threesomes; we've dated other girls together; she enjoys watching me with other girls; she enjoys picking up girls with me; we've explored our kinks together. We have sex every other day at worst, and multiple times a day at best. My wife actually needs sex from me now, and doesn't like going without. She packs on some PDA here and there, and she likes showing me off. She lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:43 PM
1

yes they already have it. its called a vasectomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:50 PM
3

what was your recovery period?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:19 PM
6

i really like your reply. seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:10 PM
1

its a question for men. sorry. the reddit site was acting up when i was trying to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 03:40 PM
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lol i do not have a tingles problem. we had a great sex life. we hung out and it was chill. i think a lot of that has to do with the fact that i knew him for a whole year before we got together so there was no anxiety or whatever. i could trust him. that helped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:38 PM
2

Low status, low smv awkward nerd being needy towards his oneitis, accepting the Let's Just Be Friends rejection and then managing to prove his worth and attract his oneitis. Oooo okay I see. yeah, that is a wet dream for incels HAHAHAH but i mean, we were also 20. so its not like he was a loser. he just didn't have any life experiences yet. i was his first gf, and so forth. he was a good bf, but i moved to dc for work and he was in school still, so we had to end it. i think of all my bfs, he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:24 PM
2

that username oh my word. That sounds like a Nice GuyTM s wet dream lol in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 12:49 PM
2

yes. in college, we had a huge friend group. one of the boys was nerdy like me and i was super into him. but he was fat and awkward and no one wanted him, so obviously i wasn't gonna want him either. for a whole year this poor fellow asked me out and wanted to talk to me and i'd be like "ew, leave me alone" half the time. eventually he accepted that we'd just be friends, which was fine with me. but upon being frineds with him and spending time with him, i couldn't get over how awesome he was. he…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 12:27 PM
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it only hurts if the guy acted otherwise and then made it CLEAR LATER ON that it was only about sex. if he just says he wants sex from the jump, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 12:23 PM
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extroverted. dominant. college degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 07:42 PM
1

parents can fail at providing, yes. i don't believe its a parent's fault though if their ADULT child chooses to prostitute themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:22 PM
1

what does her choice to prostitute herself as an adult have to do with my parenting? believe it or not, your parents can raise you however they want and you eventually independently come to your own conclusions about life and values separate from whatever you were taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:18 PM
1

you slay me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:08 PM
1

lol how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:05 PM
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none of us are therapists specializing in gender identity. you should go to a therapist. as for aging, there's nothing to adjust to. its gonna happen to literally all of us, unless.....we die young :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 12:34 PM
3

jon snow is one of the gheyest male leads i've ever seen in an ACTION ADVENTURE series since Hercules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:49 PM
0

define fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:49 PM
4

is it really manipulation or just intersexual interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 02:20 PM
1

jealoussss
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:21 PM
2

i'm an INFJ. reality makes me resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:58 AM
2

has anyone ever thought that though??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:55 AM
1

my god, how did you survive????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:55 PM
2

chaotic good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:43 PM
1

whats the longest any of you have been single? I think the longest for me, since my first relationship, was 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:59 PM
1

Lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 03:39 AM
2

a man told me no by pulling a gun on me at 10:30pm. i was over it by 12:30pm. you just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:57 AM
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depends. did you rape her afterwards? if not, then no, its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:04 PM
4

literally never. men are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:47 PM
3

so tell her to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:07 AM
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idk. let her figure it out. i can't imagine being this involved in my sibling's dating life. to your question in the topic, if i walk outside and give even half a fuk about my appearance, maybe....2-3 men will cat call me that day. i am asked out maybe....twice a week, from strangers? its flattering. i'm just shy about being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 12:51 AM
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if i have to withhold sex, i rather just break up. i dont like that sort of controlling behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:22 AM
5

why stop there? why not just end it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:21 AM
2

omg!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:23 PM
1

everything you listed is the baseline. women exist to find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:32 PM
2

I'm a straight woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 12:32 PM
1

Omg real talk.... Most of my friends did the same thing. They just wanted a ring. Now they're married to his they would grave NEVER been with.... and bragging about getting a wife. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:46 AM
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If you have to chase him, he don't want you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:43 AM
1

how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 01:31 AM
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if i want a bf, it takes me about....2 months to get a new one. max. in 2016. i had a breakup on Feb. 14 (yes, valentine's day.) by March 14, i had a new bf. yes, that fast. this year, i had a breakup in march. by mid june, i had a new bf. i do not believe women would struggle to find a relationship unless they are REALLY ugly. not even just ugly -- cuz all my ugly friends are engaged or married now. i mean disfigured
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 10:23 PM
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It looks like /u/lewiscross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 12:24 PM
1

black men are cooler than white men. that's why they can get away with saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:40 PM
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choreplay? jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:22 PM
1

So he doesn't drive, it's 5'2 and makes less than me..... What's the sex like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:58 AM
1

okay but if in her relationship she's a play toy, why is that YOUR CONCERN?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:25 PM
1

It would have been sheer torture to know ur sis had been one of the college party girls why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:12 PM
2

But I'm not white and I think this has alot to do with why my experience is so different from alot of people in this sub. white men love that oral shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:21 PM
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No one gets married anymore. All black men are named Tyrone. People care about high school and college years after graduation. Women die at 30+ years old Inceldom is some widespread pandemic between the sexes People ask about ncount, and if you're ncount is over 5, somehow you're a sloot in the United States. All young white people are fat on the American coasts are fat. Lifting weights for 2 months makes your dick 2 inches longer and 1 inch thicker All women submit to male strangers if they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:20 PM
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I've considered it and I applied. Them niggas are PICKY. AS. FUCK. Got high blood pressure in your history? Out. Uneducated? Girl bye. Smoked weed once in the last 12 months? KTHXBYE. And that's just initial screening. Then they demand photos of you as a baby, toddler and child. You know, to ensure you dont donate eggs and turns out you were an ugly baby. That can't do y'all. The process itself is difficult. Takes months. Several hormonal shots so you're synced up with the lady who wants your eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 02:36 AM
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each smv and rmv is dependent on your unique SMP. i am a black woman approaching 30. smv = 8. I am a 0P, 5'4, 19% body fat, 125 lbs, 32-24-38 rmv = probably a 5-7. i can get a man but keeping him LT is a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 01:16 AM
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Energy, drive, perseverance.... TO WHAT END? If your relationship is even keeled and easy and chill at all times, you don't even understand what I'm talking about. The highs and lows are what BUILD up the energy to be with them, the drive to make it work, the perseverance to see things through. A "boring" relationship requires none of this. Boring means no passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 05:06 PM
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It's not codependency.... it's passion. What do people think passion MEANS?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:53 PM
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Perhaps yes. But it's rarely that the man doesn't love her. He madly loves her as well. Men and women love differently. I think extreme Male love today reads as abusive and extreme female love is now seen as codependent and ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:43 PM
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some of the most loyal committed women are women with men who are 'stressful' for them. their wantin to stay, despite everything, is a show of committment. you never asked a woman why she stays and her only answer is "but i love him!!" ? I think the most passionate relationships are also stressful. i'm not sayin its for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:33 PM
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i can discuss lows. highs: good sex, emotional bonding, googly love eyes, PDA, words of affirmation, etc lows: cold shoulder, fights, storming out, sobbing on the floor of the bathroom, almost breaking up, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:20 PM
2

ive never been hit by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 03:58 PM
1

Flawed how???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:58 PM
1

But.... that's not what it's like at all. You DO know what you want. That's the reason you'd put up with highs and lows. You want the person that much to endure it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:55 PM
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Hmm do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:54 PM
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It may not even be happening on purpose. In my opinion, if CHEMISTRY is required in a relationship, then sometimes chemical explosions happen. That can be messy but man, so fun. Not boring at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:44 PM
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I seeeeee lolololol Yeah that is tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:40 PM
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Is it rude? I'm confused. It's all happening internally. You don't have to extro out these ups and downs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:38 PM
1

How so? Are those women demanding respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:37 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:35 PM
1

What??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:34 PM
3

Lol what?? Paging /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:34 PM
1

Yes, exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:31 PM
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You think it's drama, but actually it's the highs and lows of a passionate connection. Maybe people dont experience that anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:31 PM
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Why do you want to avoid it??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:25 PM
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I agree. But all that fighting and escalation over non foundational stuff for your relationship makes for the most passionate and loving connections, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:24 PM
1

Trust me... life would be easier if this wasn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:10 PM
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How is any of what I said connected to mental illness? You feel insane in a good way... not that you actually become insane. I mean like... y'all have a crazy heated fight. Then he is like.. I'm sorry, I love you. And you get the googly eyes and feel THAT much more love. Then y'all get it in... and you're like, I can't live without him. You never had that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:09 PM
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I mean, it can be jarring even when it's over, but man can it bring forth some intense chemicals. That's what excites me. Thus I wouldn't be bored. Maybe pissed off... or really sad, but euphoric and sexual too. I need all of it to stay interested. I thought I didn't but I shamelessly absolutely need it all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:08 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 02:04 PM
2

The man that makes me feel the most emotional highs and lows is the one that's most exciting to me, thus not boring. Ever. I love feeling kind of insane in a relationship. That's how I gauge love and attraction and commitment. No other metric has worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:32 PM
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I dont care about aging. I care about losing the attention of men before I get married. This is why you date a man 10+ years older then you, so your aging lines up with theirs but they still find you beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:18 PM
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Quality time. Be with me and PRESENT. And I'll love you forever. I guess I give love by doing what my man wants, even if I burn out. Even if it may kill me. Even if I will hate him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:12 PM
1

"You still got it bitch, ayyyyyy"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:09 PM
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I could list a bunch of activities but really.... The man that is least boring has the best ratio of completely upsetting me to delicious emotional aftercare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 01:07 PM
1

I am asked out, when single about 1-2x a month. I have asked out a boy maybe...5 times in my entire 29 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:27 PM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 03:59 AM
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Yes. I'm already in love with them, I know it. It's been 14 days since I first met him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 03:59 AM
1

i guess yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:31 PM
1

or....you can just do what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:21 PM
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male exp of sex is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:00 PM
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But if his pee pee don't cry his happy milk then a man's sexual experience is disappointing at best. that is the most disgusting metaphor for male ejaculate i think i've ever read. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:49 PM
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sure but that's why women feel pressure to pretend to have an orgasm, cuz men are really sensitive to this. but men hear these stories and go "lying bitch". i mean orgasms are GREAT, and i won't speak for all women, but i know many women really truly don't need to have one to ENJOY sex with their partners. having an orgasm adds to it, but i know for myself, its not a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:38 PM
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:D :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:37 PM
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We hung out and she was sending me all the signals to fuck her, but I didn't because of the fears modern feminism has planted in our heads. that's your own damn fault. you had a hot latin bitch down to fuck and your INSTINCT was "but but....feminism told me --- " youz a fool. men typically don't think at all when a woman spreads eagle and says "te quiero, papi"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:32 PM
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or maybe she outright enjoys the sex but the guy is overemphasizing his desire for one to have one, and so to make him feel better, she fakes it. SHE STILL ENJOYS THE SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:27 PM
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what do you mean? people write whatever on their profiles. I've seen men outright say "I'LL DATE ANYONE, BUT BLACK WOMEN AND SINGLE MOTHERS. I DONT HAVE TIME FOR DRAMA." and they black themselves. who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:25 PM
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hm if i'm honest, lack of attraction would be worse. then i failed as a spouse, imo. and then him leaving would be more hurtful but i feel it would be valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:16 PM
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marriage no. some random LTR. sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 08:13 PM
2

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAA omg congratulations!!! what a crazy stressful month. i'm glad you got what you wanted though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 02:46 PM
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Women absolutely love men who disregard their opinions and do what they want when they feel like it. i think men misunderstand this. women don't want a man who completely disregards their feelings. they just dont' want a man to enter their frame and become supplicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 02:39 PM
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A 6'3 girl.... do you live in Sweden?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 01:29 PM
2

only go for the boys that make you crazy in the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 07:37 PM
3

https://www.uscis.gov/policymanual/HTML/PolicyManual-Volume12-PartE-Chapter2.html#S-C English Portion of the Test A naturalization applicant must only demonstrate an ability to read, write, speak, and understand words in ordinary usage. [5] Ordinary usage means comprehensible and pertinent communication through simple vocabulary and grammar, which may include noticeable errors in pronouncing, constructing, spelling, and understanding completely certain words, phrases, and sentences. An applicant…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 04:01 PM
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so the difference between a Nigerian Chad having 15 kids, many of whom die before reproducing themselves, vs an American Chad who has 4 kids, most of whom survive to adulthood, is irrelevant to the incel issue. so i'm nigerian. some context. there are no nigerian chads. this concept of Chad is purely western. the SMP of West Africa isn't comparable to the west at all. finally, haha, Nigerians will have 20 kids, and 18 of them will live and reproduce. Its not 1961
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:55 PM
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Okay so taking that example: Aim: sexual equity Context: men aren't getting laid enough Inputs: gym time, higher earning job, wider network of associates, TRP Processes: get swole, make more money/ invest, meet more people, learn sexual strategy Outputs: increased access to potential female sexual partners, less naivete about women, better smv, higher potential rmv Outcomes: harder to measure. You may get laid more, but you may not. Maybe men in a certain demographic have improved outcomes, othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:28 PM
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Outputs are like products and services provided by processes created by inputs. Take this: the goal is to create housing equity for all Americans Federal funding for HUD (inputs) >> create smaller targeted housing dept, train housing authorities across country, etc (processes) >>> section 8 housing (output) Outcomes are the results of outputs. So i should rephrase. YES, programs can have outcomes. Obviously. But impact is harder to measure. Section 8 (output) >> affordable housing options for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:05 PM
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There are no social service programs that can adequately measure impact. Just outputs and outcomes. That's a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 08:38 PM
2

If we aren't having another sex Drug abuse Affairs Laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 07:49 PM
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what are you even talking about??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 07:44 PM
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I would take a break from dating and just focus on yourself, raising you SMV. this must be ugly people advice. attractive people don't need a break to focus solely on improving their smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 03:12 PM
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how is this a question? LOL should we find unattractive men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:41 PM
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in men I think it happens after sexual attraction when he realizes that he wants to spend time around a woman besides sexual time with her. huh. so the spark is pre-relationship for women, and post-sex for men. fascinating. i think i would agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:53 PM
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I kept dating him because I was like "there's no way you don't feel anything for this guy, it has to come" i think men don't get that women have this internal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:40 PM
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they can weigh the validity. Ooooo girl, you done shook me with this. could you further extrapolate this? i think we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:32 PM
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gracias
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:25 PM
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I couldn't imagine trying to wait it out for 6-10 months. girl it was horrible. i will never date a man without that spark again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:24 PM
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Most of the time giving a reason to the rejected adds more salt to the injury this is why i like ghosting. i'm not gonna twist the knife while rejecting you by DEERing. I don't want you and my silence is evident of that. sometimes being left in the dark is the kind thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:23 PM
2

que quieres decir?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:22 PM
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Looking back at it through an RP lens now, I can tell it's because he never escalated, he talked about a sexual relationship, but he never touched me, or kissed me, I don't even think he moved to hold my hand. aww that sucks. yeah, i've dated guys for a WHILE, like 6-10 months, where they were nice on paper and i kept waiting for that spark and it literally never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:21 PM
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LOL agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:15 PM
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oh? hm. yeah, i think of no spark as no chemistry. they could be attractive but still not be the one i want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:15 PM
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i suppose i could ghost them :V
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:14 PM
3

and red pill version?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:07 PM
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an excuse to reject uglies. a good excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:07 PM
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The spark is real but it can often fade. well yeah. its just a spark. i've had raging infernos that lasted years for guys. all flames start with a spark :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:06 PM
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Not everything a woman does has to do with some evil plot to undermine unattractive males. i know. but i KNEW someone may imply or say that is, so i wanted to get that argument out of the way in the title! XD It is quite possible to find someone attractive but have no need or want to engage in a sexual relationship with them. I agree but it seems like some men get SO OFFENDED when a woman says this. "The sex was fine but there was no spark." This pisses some men off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:04 PM
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in the SMP? are they getting the sex/relationships they WANT?? if yes, then they'd be happy. if not then, they are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:00 PM
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A excuse can be good or not good, it has the same outcome. sorry, i'm working through my first coffee of the day. could you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 01:58 PM
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you think you're entitled to an explanation and you're not. you're putting your feelings over mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:27 PM
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It's shitty and it's entitled. entitled how??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:32 PM
1

do you have the link to your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 01:17 AM
1

"I'm not interested in where this is going. Goodbye." -And Block. you know how many numbers women would have on their blocklist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:44 AM
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but if you owe no explanation, then you owe them nothing either, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:44 AM
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hahaha i agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:43 AM
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Never speak to them again, without warning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 09:25 PM
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LOL i see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:19 PM
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you're comparing violence against a stranger to not calling someone back ever again. thats not comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:19 PM
0

I get that women are much less confrontational than men, but come on! you really believe women are less confrontational than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:18 PM
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define how its cowardly plz
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:18 PM
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that's the worst way a woman should break up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:17 PM
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hardly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:16 PM
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You don't have to tell them why it's over, but leaving people in a weeks-long limbo as their feelings turned from confusion to hopefulness to concern to despair... that just fucking sucks and officially makes you a bad person. why does it make a person a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:10 PM
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But I can understand why women do it, as they don’t want to get into some back and forth with some guy who doesn’t feel the same way that she does, in which case he is the one being disrespectful. interesting. i see this happening too. i also see this happening when men ghost women. some people can't take "no thanks" as an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:09 PM
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why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:07 PM
1

interesting. why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:07 PM
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yall are entering areas of insanity. why would you even think this stuff? normal people don't have to work this hard to coexist, date and make meaningful romantic or platonic or familial relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:45 PM
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probably yeah. i judged too soon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 02:48 PM
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To speak to your example, yes if there was someone I really liked but who I didn't click with sexually, I would not have a romantic relationship with that person. But likewise, if there was someone I had great sex with but no affection for, I also wouldn't want a relationship with that person. Sex isn't the sole determining factor. AND THE CHURCH SAID AMEN
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 02:39 PM
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they google it to support their worldviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 02:38 PM
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all relationships are placeholders if you date to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:36 PM
1

i'll get back to you :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 01:31 PM
2

yall all crazy. i hate dating men under 35. men arent' even HOT to me until close to 40. the sweet spot is 40 - 50 years old. you guys must live in the boonies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:04 AM
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i used to think so....now i don't think so. as long as i understand that he 1) loves me, 2) expresses it in ways that matter to him, then he doesnt need to be 'available' in that way. i think most women use the term "emotional available" to mean "why doesn't he share my love language????"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:16 PM
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No there is not. You are defined by your works, not your thoughts, feelings or motivations. No man was ever great as a result of his thoughts, but by his works. It's the only part of him that's measurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:56 AM
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college life. i'm almost 30 years old and i' have a REAL career for almost 10 years. i am not living with a man who still lives like hes in college. you can be minimalist and live like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 04:49 PM
1

same :V
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:36 PM
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My policy is that I will turn you down nicely once. If I have to repeat myself, subsequent no's will not be nice. smart policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:23 PM
1

public school?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:23 PM
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nah, i remember in 5th grade, all the girls got boyfriends. by 8th grade, the girls had SERIOUS boyfriends. by freshman year of HS, they were starting to get knocked up. by junior year, several dropped out. My entering hs class was 1000. i graduated with about 300 of my peers form that class. that's how shitty my high school was hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:16 PM
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that's what i did. my friend took me in, rent free, for a month, while I got back on my feet. I sobbed for a few weeks, but the physical space away helped me get some perspective. you can miss him. that's okay. that's normal. but don't settle for a man who sees you as a placeholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:13 PM
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nah these girls were FUCKIN. okay? XD Like by freshman year of high school, some girls dropped out cuz they were pregnant. it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:13 PM
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all the girls in my middle school were dating boys in the local HBCU. like 19-20 year olds. I thought this was common until a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:11 PM
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so when are you gonna end it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:10 PM
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Is he my dream man? Like checks off all the boxes? Loves me? Is loyal? Attractive as hell? Is the sex fiyah? Then I'll *consider* it. otherwise, i am HAPPY being in my swank clean minimalist apartment with two cats and talking to my friends online the REST. OF. MY. LIFE. I'm not gonna sacrifice space and peace for just any dude that wants to fuck me full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:09 PM
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"oh, so you into that kinky shit? hurr hurr, i see you girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:06 PM
8

rape among women who are mentally challenged happen all the time, mate. men dont' care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:04 PM
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i didn't copy and paste anything. i'm a woman who lived in America's Boston-Washington, DC corridor and that's what happens. Saying you're married won't work either. They SEE the ring when they approach you. They don't care. Men who want to fuck you will try anything to keep your attention. Women lie because MEN WON'T TAKE NO FOR A FUCKING ANSWER.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 02:00 PM
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yes. it hardly works. "what, you can't have friends?" "hey, now! hold on! i ain't trying to be your boyfriend. im just trying to talk to you? we can't talk?" "whoa whoa! slow down! maybe I DON'T want you like that? you ever thought about that? i'm just sayin i like your walk." "What? a nigga can't make a compliment? damn." "how long yall been together, tho?" "okay? and? I got a girlfriend. They ain't gotta know"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 01:52 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 08:23 PM
1

stawwwwwwp
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:01 PM
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That said, people can and do change in all sorts of ways for all sorts of reasons over the course of a lifetime, and many of these changes are unpredictable. So I think it's bullshit when a couple hits a rough spot 10-20 years into a marriage and the response is, "Well, you should have vetted better and this wouldn't have happened." this is exactly my reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 06:36 PM
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depends. are we drinking or not? no one should dance sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:39 PM
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i'm off today - tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:58 PM
4

ugh that's my mom. she always works half a day on xmas :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:36 PM
2

Thanks!! I won't be doing any cool American things outside cuz of the rain. Probably working out and watching netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 10:35 PM
1

so over this. the stereotypes of chad and tyrone are not related
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:58 PM
1

Man: Clay Morrow. Happy. Woman: Claire Underwood. Olivia Pope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:02 PM
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is this you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 01:40 AM
1

those are my options? i rather be a catlady.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:49 PM
1

that must be a fancy restuarant!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:14 PM
1

god fed govt is so cozy. you're lucky. are you GS-9?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:57 PM
1

I grew up in a UMC family, which I think had a lot more effect on how I view money than my job. could you explain, please? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:20 PM
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all teh married career women i know have the best partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:33 PM
1

i feel you. best of luck with the career change. i hope it brings you joy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:43 PM
1

what are you studying? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:41 PM
1

you hate being an engineer? why? so many men would kill for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:24 PM
1

that's awesome! is your life really like it is for the boys in Sterling Cooper?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:23 PM
1

hahahah aww. i know you hate work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:23 PM
1

whoa. sorry. i wasn't trying to gossip or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:56 PM
1

GS-14?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:51 PM
1

tha'ts cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:47 PM
4

thanks for the reminder!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:46 PM
3

how is 90k terrible????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:43 PM
1

that's fucking insane!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:39 PM
1

ugh. that sounds amazing!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:39 PM
2

i'm not familiar with this sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:35 PM
4

ugh swp, c'mon. we all know its you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:24 PM
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funny how all the people focused on class tend not to earn that much... shhhh we're still gathering data
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:20 PM
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Yeah, like I've mentioned elsewhere my dad was rich (I guess according to the stats posted earlier he was a 1%er, not even including his stocks/investments/other assets) and left some fat stacks for my mom and I, so I don't really have a drive to earn a bunch of money (or marry a guy with a job for that matter, lol) I'm already sitting on top of a pile of it. sweet! its always great to have such a solid fallback. allows you to really pursue what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:11 PM
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fair enoguh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:03 PM
1

talk to /u/LewisCross so we can figure out what kind of law he does, plz. kthnx
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:02 PM
1

that's a deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:56 PM
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it doesn't matter, i was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:55 PM
1

30k in a small college town sounds doable!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:53 PM
1

I'm a senior copywriter for a Japanese multinational conglomerate US division, power equipment, power sports, marine. I earn $72K in Chicago which is slightly under average for this position. I think I straddle MC/UMC but culturally I'm UMC. that's fucking awesome. I really want to move to Chicago. them winters though???? lawd. If you're UMC, do you think that's why you don't mind earning under average for your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:53 PM
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did it require a BA to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:50 PM
1

what part of the US do you live in??? how do know not know how much you earned last year yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:48 PM
1

LOL that's awesome. I really enjoyed Tampa, and I guess the Jax area. I think Miami would be horrible. I heard no one there will hire you without a fluency in Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:47 PM
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i'm sure her fiance worked in his life too. but tis way easier to work your way through life as a white man in the West than any other group. honestly. and i ain't mad at it. there's no shame to white privilege. white people as a whole set themselves up pretty. i respekt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:46 PM
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you make only $12k a year??? are you part time? working an hour a week? or do you work at nongay clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:45 PM
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so silicon valley?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:45 PM
1

I am not disclosing my annual income. not even a range? why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:45 PM
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nice! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:44 PM
2

For example, I'm more tolerant of guys who are coarse/rough because a lot of the men I was raised around were like that, makes sense. i'm probably the same way. i wish i had the balls for course/rough guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:43 PM
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god i fuckin love that city. if i had any sense, i'd move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:42 PM
1

what woudl you do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:40 PM
1

as long as you aren't in like....ocala or something. i hear its trash in central florida. i'd live in tampa.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:40 PM
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lol how else would i be? everyone here has great jobs so far. we should all be happy for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:39 PM
1

niiiiiice. atlantic beach or gulf?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:38 PM
1

what is niche marketing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:37 PM
1

make decent bank from that but still 150 k in loans left. how long before you have it paid off?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:37 PM
2

but you're starving for your art! its romantic!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:37 PM
1

moving to LA?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:36 PM
1

if you moved to atl or dc, you'd be making double that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:35 PM
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:( so how long do you have to work there to pay off your student debt? if you could do something else, what would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:34 PM
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that sounds very blue collar and masculine oriented. what does your work consists of?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:32 PM
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oooo investment income. you're the first so far to mention this. how much do you get from your investments a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:32 PM
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YEAH AND YOU'RE FRIENDS WITH HER!! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:32 PM
2

holy shit. do you do like association work or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:31 PM
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girl go for it! life is short. I'm stirring over the idea of going back to school to get an MSW, but another part of me is stirring to say fuck it (pure Se right here), forget all jobs with prestige, start my life passion in poetry, and publish books.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:31 PM
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thanks for hte suggestion!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:30 PM
2

stawwwwp. you know i love everything about your resume lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:28 PM
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140k I live in NYC though, sure, its an MC salary there, but dude. YOU LIVE IN NEW YORK. very awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:28 PM
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I work in R&D and earn ~£50k ($65k in 'Murican). oh that's really cool. I wasn't raised with that kind of money though and my upbringing likely affected my views on life and relationships. In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:27 PM
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but you self actualize! very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:27 PM
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oooooo that shit is fancy. how much schooling did that require?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:27 PM
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pays little, you owe a shit ton, but you got a JD! congrats! enjoy your life slaving away over huge dockets for the nation's most deplorable :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:26 PM
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best of luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:19 PM
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aerospace wow. how fancy :V that's great!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:19 PM
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our first stem nerd! yay! jk :D 70k is a great salary. do you enjoy what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:18 PM
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that's quite the gap! is it difficult budgeting for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:18 PM
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There might be something to the idea of white male privilege after all tbh. LOL i ain't mad. get dat white man money, hunty!!! being a student is cool too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:18 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:17 PM
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yay that 40-50k club. whoot whoot!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:15 PM
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my sister and cousin did that. my cousin loves it because she's maternal. my sister hated it...and she is not haha. yay sweet teacher money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:15 PM
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what field of law? and you don't have to share the exact amount. a range is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:14 PM
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yay. dope benefits are awesome. my retirement is my main draw. my health benefits are pretty mediocre, imo. i've had better. do you like your work?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:14 PM
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especially if they want to have one of those sham "commitment ceremonies" and call each other husband and wife as suggested in that other OP. what other OP? I think if you have a commitment ceremony in a common law state, that's still a wedding and the law will recognize it as such, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:16 PM
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But it seems like that only comes up if/when you divorce. yeah. i think some of these twerps and merps should just move to these common law states. but then again, they'd STILL be held to the standards and expectations of marriage, and that's what they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:10 PM
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not in south carolina. http://www.charlestonfamilylawattorney.com/common-law-marriage-south-carolina-family-lawyer/ You have to call each other spouse in public, live together, have names on important docs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:02 PM
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Only in 9 or 10 states, and even then they have to hold themselves out publicly as husband and wife and apply to be common law married. At which point she would become his actual wife. yeah. isn't common law that you call each other husband and wife, you live together, your names are shared on all bills and legal docs, etc? it just means you never went to the courthouse. the courthouse would say "um, we don't curr. if yall act married, yall need a divorce to break up." isnt' that what it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:59 PM
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why are you against divorcing your wife? you obviously can't stand being married to her. your kids only have a few years left in the house anyway. i assume you look decent enough to find someone else you aren't old. and you refuse to cheat even though i'm sure you can. i feel like you'd be happier as a single man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:57 PM
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oh....that's less fun XD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:52 PM
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YOU LIE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:52 PM
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and never did. this is the part i'm questioning. are you saying most men never dumped their old wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:48 PM
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no, but /u/buartha informed me so we're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:47 PM
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okay. i LOVE this movie. and i love that scene. thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:47 PM
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Most men don't do this and never did. are you sure about this???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:45 PM
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WOULD YOU HAVE LEFT IF IT WAS AN ALPHA JOB????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:44 PM
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Sword of Damocles. is this a meme? why do you love this thing right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:42 PM
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LOL. Sounds like John Cena. But if he was attractive enough and made me feel like the universe was made just for us, then absolutely. I would get shit from everyone in my life, especially my DC girlfrands, and I probably would IRC at home until I died alone. I sacrifice a LOT of things I am serious about when I meet a man whose kisses are like heroin to the brain. EDIT; boop. the last part. i would not have his kids, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:35 PM
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stop being so wise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 05:04 AM
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the female equivalent to a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:24 AM
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specifically, its this: Laws are made and agencies develop regulations for implementing the law. The law takes effect. Communities and industries affected by the law exist within the law. Practitioners identity what works and what doesn't. They will have questions for the laws efficacy. Researchers test out these questions with theories. They develop papers on their findings and distribute it to advocates and thought leaders. Advocates develop a policy agenda based on solutions to these question…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:32 PM
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Boswash corridor and California, almost entirely, I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:13 PM
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congratulations of your 4 years of sobriety!!! that's a great accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:42 PM
1

good recommendations!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:54 PM
1

>___________>;;
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:48 PM
2

Other songs about love very relevant to PPD debates: What's Love got to do with it?, by the Acid Queen herself /Bleeding Love, by Leona Lewis (bpd anthem) /What is love?, by Haddaway /Game of Love, by Santana ft Michelle Branch /After the Love is Gone, by Earth Wind Fire (merp anthem) /California Love, by 2pac RIP /All the Lovers, by Kylie (poly life) /As Long as you LOve Me, by BSB /Crazy in Love, by Queen Bey (limerance) /Crew Love, by Drake/Weeknd /I'd Do Anything for Love (but I wont do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:43 PM
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DIVORCE RAPE THAT RUSSIAN NIGGA. WHAT IS A REAL MARRIAGE WITHOUT ICE CREAM? YOU WERE LIEEEEED TOOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:37 AM
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but.....after all these years, the real question is this: did Mr. Oryx give YOU ice cream?? IF NOT HE SETTLED FOR YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:28 AM
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The deli cashier was a feeble looking 5'5" asian guy who barely spoke english. are you implying the cashier could't get with you because he's a non ESL asian manlet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 08:33 PM
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His dick is just too big! child you betta get on your knees.......and thank God. :V
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:08 PM
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Even dumb nitpicky stuff like "born in February." It's pretty crazy. Child that's Jesus' work right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:59 PM
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and men they just laugh behind their fans LOL the imagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:48 PM
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i think the motivation behind this post, /u/LewisCross, is that you're bitter that there are women out there who actually, genuinely, think the world of their husbands. you're projecting your life on other people and its not like that for them. i wish you find happiness and joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:44 PM
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Of course all the men I've dated had flaws. Even if I married them, they'd have flaws. Its human to have flaws. Who cares though? Flaws =/= I can't love them. The guy I'm currently seeing is almost as close to perfect to my INFJ ideals as I could fathom. He's just obese. Oh well. I dont' care. The head game is fiyah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:38 PM
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I just thought of one, he's allergic to cats. Fortunately I like dogs way better and we have the world's cutest puppy. stawp!!!! i can't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:37 PM
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none LOL you funny. You gonna write a list in 60 years when your grandbabies will say "Nana, did granpa have ANY flaws?" "well, he was mortal!" :V The end. Your lineage will think they're demigods with how much you exalt your fiance haahhahaha. We wuz gods
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:36 PM
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> The women of PPD paint their men as ubermenschen. As superheroes with no flaws whatsoever. Life with them is endless bliss, a neverending course of rainbows, unicorns, fantastic sex, and fun fun fun. Because these supermen have no flaws whatsoever. Which woman on ppd has ever said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:32 PM
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I largely attribute this to my personality (I'm kind of shy and meek) and the fact that my look is more "cute" than "hot/sexy." I think this combination inspires a protective instinct in men and causes the douchier ones to pass me over. dat xSFx ness yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:24 AM
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I seem to either attract emotionally inaccessible alpha or alpha-lite type men in demanding jobs, or omega losers who live with their moms and have serious baggage and social issues. idk why. i blame my infjness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:49 AM
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And, if she is chaste, I can be assured that she’s not trying to have sex with Chads to try to get commitment from them but just being used for sex by them instead. the delusion. if she's ugly enough, no one will use her for sex. or any thing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:41 PM
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LOL I can't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:09 PM
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Attitude towards foreplay is what’s important. A guy can lick and kiss all day but if he’s acting like it’s a chore/annoying/something to get over with it’s not going to do anything for me. i bet a good chunk of men do this and then the woman feels even less turned on and then just tells him to stick it in and get it over with. she'll dead bedroom him in due order.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:19 PM
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That sounds really unsexy. it is SUPER unsexy :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:18 PM
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this tells me nothing but okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:15 AM
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this is one of the whitest things you've ever said haha <3 adorable though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:13 AM
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I'm a perfectionist :( And I have a hard time dealing with emotions, so I get anxious while controlling situations to avoid certain feelings and it always blows up in my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:12 AM
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what are butthurt infjs like? When I get 'butthurt', i guess i get really cunty but thats just what people tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:10 AM
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yasss hunty!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 09:30 PM
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you like a white thickkums. Thick but not THICC
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:21 PM
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my soulmate??? i'm an infj. if its my soulmate as i define it. i'd end my current relationship and pursue the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 07:53 PM
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Edit: I was trying to be nice and bring positivity to the community rather than simply be mean to people all the time. I'll be leaving this up for transparencies sake but I regret my actions, as I now realize people just want me to be mean all the time. Sorry for any jimmies I may have rustled. Your edit is trash. No one wants you to be mean. What a gross interpretation of everyone's complaints. Don't show favoritism as a MOD. it shows moderation bias and hurts people's trust in the moderation t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 10:58 PM
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in what universe is that okay to show favoritism publicly as a mod? how about you publish your full list of 'favs' on the sub for all to see? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:30 PM
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ugh they really are. its terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 12:44 AM
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that's him!!! was he swimmin in pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:09 PM
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But yeah I don't think it's unreasonable to say that ~30% (obese and morbidily obese) of the US population isn't getting Chad level sex. Especially considering the weight statistics includes middle aged and older. I didn't say Chad level sex. I said reguarly having sex that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:55 PM
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Biggie was fat, not facially attractive, and always knee deep in vagina. All the while breathing laboriously. this is why i love you girl. exactly!!!! Fat Joe too. Heavy D. Sir Mix a Lot. Tons of them. Who was that fat guy on SNL who died? I bet he was drownin in pussy too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 10:54 PM
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overweight is just being over your weight range as doctors agree to it. Obesity is when you are 20% or more above your ideal weight, and you are not alone according to hte American Heart Association. THat's a LOT of people. That's most people in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:17 PM
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I'll drop the Mr. Manosphere thing when you drop the PPD queen bee HBIC act. LOL yall hilarious. you need your own show. like Hannity and Cromes. Atlas and Cross
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:04 PM
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Anyway, I'm not sure what you mean by fat (overweight, obese, or morbidly obese), but I just don't see obese men getting laid all that much Moobs. LOL. Beer gut. Beer belly. Soft. Morbidily obese guys are definitely not getting laid all the time, since it's highly likely that's they are just physically incapable of it. I think most fatties are having sex. Maybe with overweight or fat girls but they are having sex. It doesn't make sense to presume that 60% of the US population isn't having sex ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:57 PM
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most americans are overweight or obese. TRP isn't exempt from that. that's why they tell guys to lift. are men not supposed to have sex until they're swole?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:51 PM
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let's say he earns 30k a year
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:48 PM
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if this fat man was getting pussy all day all night and was well known and had groupies, would he be Chad? for men who can get laid all the time but are not Chad, what term is there for them? we already know most men are not alphas. Could they just be regular guys???? :V
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:44 PM
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you kill me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:39 PM
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okay. so why is it so hard to convince PPD guys that the women in the subreddit can be with regular guys who have the ability to have sex ALL THE TIME??? most american men are fat. Most american men are getting laid regularly. Are those men Chad? If they aren't, then what are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:38 PM
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so now its not enough that women love you so much they'll put aside their feelings to have sex with you every night to make YOU feel good, but now she has to pretend to be a porn star as well. no wonder women would rather just not have sex after an age if that's the expectation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:35 PM
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I would be interested to see the N count of white people in the Boston Washington Corridor, honestly child, there ain't enough statisticians in the US to count them figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:29 PM
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if i'm getting cuddles and smooches and "i love yous", yes, my emotional needs are being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:18 PM
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oh god, that image D:
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:06 PM
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how is it not meeting his sexual needs if he's having sex with his wife every day??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:02 PM
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"i have sex every day with my wife, but she's Christian and does it out of DUTY, so its not the sameeeeeee. DEAD BEDROOM"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:55 PM
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This gospel truth lawd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:55 PM
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WHERE ARE YOUR STUDIES, ATLAS??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:12 PM
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because there's no way i, or any mod, can possibly account for all scenarios (making this a pointless discussion). we'll probably do a formal post about it soon, but even then, individual questions are best handled via modmail. I'll just wait until the formal post. Because if there's no uniformity, then someone can get banned for something another person could get away with, cuz its at the discretion of the mods and their individual opinion of what "inflammatory" is, within the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 10:05 PM
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i'm aware. i'm asking why can't you just tell me what's allowed via comment so anyone who comes across this exchange can also read it and know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:50 PM
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so you're not just gonna answer the question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:44 PM
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my worst quality??? I have BPD illness when I fall in love. Not all guys can handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:42 PM
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just like we aren’t providing a platform for incels, we’re not providing a platform for racists. they're hardly comparable. but, those discussions are currently still being monitored and moderated carefully to keep it from going to shit again. I just want some clarity on this. Someone saying "ew, I'd never date a black woman because X" may SOUND racist, but for the purposes of discussion on sexual dynamics being influenced by cultural norms in today's world, as well as historical context, this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:35 PM
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why is this post allowed specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:13 PM
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exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:55 PM
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i think unmasculine men have a tougher go of it NOW than in the past cuz there's less outlets specifically for men. i think social media makes it hard for regular men to feel masculine cuz social media is skewing everyone's idea of what a 'default' masculine man may look or how they behave. Look at reddit. you have dudes here thinking the average man is a sub 3smv man who can't get laid. its not reality. go outside. virtually every American will be married at one point or another by 40 years old…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:52 PM
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But the young girls don't care. They just want someone who isn't a shrinking violet 'nu-male' (his words) in bed. The girls are supposedly disgusted by their peers. His generation aren't the gross, oversocialized porn addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:56 PM
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no. all emotions would die and it would be over. i don't feel things for the dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:35 PM
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i take checks or money orders. i ain't about that cash life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:30 PM
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I'm a Christian now, but before I found Jesus? I'd would have EASILY have done it. I think I'm too uptight to ask multiple men for money though. Maybe I'd have been a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:28 PM
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"Could you write it out to me, please? I'll spell my name for you."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:27 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:33 AM
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"Should" makes this answer a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:03 PM
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Black African and Female, and I 100% agree with everyone you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:16 PM
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how can men really think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 01:15 AM
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This is why you confuse me. You said just earlier in the thread this: What is 'objectively' high value? And now you're saying: Objectively low value men also cheat. Are you implying that there is in fact objective definitions of high and low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:47 PM
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perhaps but you used the words yourself as if you were speaking objectively. These are your own words: Oh, and if you think a high value woman would enthusiastically tolerate a man who routinely sticks his thermometer in random holes, you are dreaming. Even if she wouldn’t leave him (because of his provisioning), are you under some RP delusion that their marriage/relationship would be anything other than sub par? That woman would find all sorts of ways to make his life a living hell. Or This I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:46 PM
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tomboys....you mean tomboys? tomboys used to get laid and got masculine bfs and husbands all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 03:30 AM
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I love mbti. Explain their function behavior!! I typed as infp until i was around 26
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:33 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:13 AM
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okay...what edit would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:37 PM
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and I respect that that's how you feel. but i'm saying the term high-value meant high value, objectively. like he's desirable to the majority of women for the majority of reasons a man could be attractive. For transparency, your comment drew my interests so I made a separate topic about it cuz I want to know what others think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:24 PM
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you're right. you don't have to compromise. leave the bastard for cheating. but he's not any lower in value cuz he cheated on you. i dont' think that's what the term "high value man" means in the pillsphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:08 PM
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so lol okay. let me try and understand this. a highly attractive, biologically masculine, professionally successful, financially well-off, and publicly respected man is married to an equally attractive, biologically feminine, professionally successful, financially well-off, and publicly respected woman. Like many men in that scenario, he cheats on his wife. Has an affair. Maintains the affair. Lies to his wife. Is that man suddenly no longer high-value as a potential mate in 2018 cuz he happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:56 PM
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He is trading congruency, self respect (cause now he's a liar) and emotional distancing from his partner (cause now he's going to have to lie to his partner).....for a fun time with a cute woman cause he was horny. I think you're making a lot of assumptions. 1) A person can have plenty of self respect and still cheat. Their morality may not conform to yours, as well. So they may still have self-respect in their minds, based on their values, without any regard for yours. 2) Unless you're a pathol…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:50 PM
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To me, a high value man does not have psychological problems (like validation seeking) that would cause him to cheat on a high value woman. it may have nothing to do with validation. he may just be horny and a cute woman is there. what does cheating have to do with psychological state? I don't think ANY woman ever thought that a something had to be mentally wrong with a man in order for him to feel compelled to cheat. that's alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:30 PM
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A woman who is high value enough will inspire that man to give up the thermometer in hole game. He will simply not fuck other women, even if he gets ‘tingles’ from some hottie walking past him on the sidewalk. He won’t do it not entirely true. it doesn't matter what rmv or smv a woman may have, it has nothing to do with whether or not her man can or chooses to cheat on her. plenty of amazing, beautiful, LOVED women get cheated on for any myriad of reasons that have nothing to do with her. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:16 PM
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xNFJs when not checked by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:00 PM
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I'll protect MY woman. I'm not going to protect "women". I'm not going to protect women I'm not related to. even if she was a smv9 Becky who was 22 and wants you?? :V
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:14 PM
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I've never thought about how it "feels". I guess it would feel unnatural if I wasn't the "protector". It would definitely feel unnatural to let Mrs. Cross take on that role. Yeah this one of those things I'm super rigid about. Men should always be the protector, regardless of their relationship with their woman. I don't think of males as MEN if they cannot and choose not to protect their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:13 PM
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a man who owns his shit. you want be well off financially? own that shit. you want to fuck bitches and fuck them over? own your shit. a man who says one thing and can't live up to his own goals, vision or potential? who doesn't own his character and makes excuses? lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:25 PM
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that this woman's murder is something to celebrate That's literally the point of the scene. it IS something to celebrate cuz that ATF bitch had his wife killed and he was gonna do right by his wife. he's a good guy in this moment in hte context of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:47 PM
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did he leave his wife for a white woman, tho? :V
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:46 PM
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white nationalist > white supremacist. I wouldn't mind the US returning to 1900. I'd just live in NYC and be around wealthy blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:44 AM
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I've always been in love with you (always with you) I guess you've always known it's true (you know it's true) You took my love for granted, why oh why The show is over, say good-bye Say good-bye (bye bye), say good-bye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:55 AM
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dick hunting gets exhausting. sometimes its easier to plant roots on a good plot of dick and declare it your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:59 PM
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horrible idea. all the women will agree to marry alphas. and you'll have an even worse incel culture than we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:12 PM
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maybe pretty ExFJs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 02:58 PM
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Physical attraction is crucial to a relationship, and it's always toxic when it's only one-way and a couple tries to overcome that 100% lethal problem in a relationship and the inescapable death-spiral that lack of attraction causes in a relationship. It's sad to see couples in denial. It's sad to see couples try to fight the inevitable. It always ends badly. Physical attraction is the foundation of a relationship. I have nothing to add. I 100% agree. EDIT: I should say i only agree with this pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 10:53 PM
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they don't approach. they give off IOIs that the man can see and he still approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:50 PM
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either you go either you go She's saying women shouldn't pursue. Women should be work on being attractive letting men in their league approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:41 PM
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yes. but all parties have to forgive and LET GO OF ALL THE RESENTMENT. its not a real chance if you keep holding hte past against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:37 PM
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That is a recipe for women to get pumped and dumped and maltreated by men out of their league or end up with passive betas they come to despise 10/10 comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 01:32 PM
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If someone cared enough about it, they would have asked. we're dealing with intps though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:28 PM
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dances
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 01:28 PM
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so yall are poly and care about ncount???? how does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 11:44 PM
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where to start: mama issues baby mama issues no ambition, lives in a dump tiny dick but he brags about his sex life all the time. requires validation all the time reacts to situations like a woman doesn't eat you out during sex!!!! (hell the fuck no) is over 30 and never had a serious relationship a male feminist/sjw who capes for women too hard asks for a threesome addicted to porn but never has sex never got in a fight with another man drug addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 11:39 PM
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That's why I'm here :V
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:21 PM
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Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sub illuminate the words that you cannot find...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:49 PM
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so true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:34 PM
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Idk. Y'all are overthinking this. Sex isn't that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:23 PM
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pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:54 PM
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i didnt have a "type" so much as a NOT-my-type, i think this is the case for tons of women but men see it as "you don't know what you want"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 04:01 PM
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well there's a flag if a woman has too many needs. i have three basic needs and they must be present in order for me to remain with someone. be loyal. be available. be masculine. if a man can't meet those needs, then i'll find a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:44 PM
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I am skeptical of the long-term happiness of the "Next!" mentality in relationships. There is more value and meaning for me in building a strong marriage over time by facing our issues instead of running at the first sign of potential danger. you misunderstand me. i'm not talking about ISSUES THAT COME UP. i'm talking about your needs. the foundation of what you want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:44 PM
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And yeah, that requires a lot of introspection, because it means stomping down hard on the impulse to feel like it's an injustice when needs aren't being met. if a man isn't meeting my needs, why be with him? This never made any sense to me. you're allowed to be pissed off and want better when your needs, not wants, aren't being met. fuck him then. find someone who meets your needs THEN learn to stfu. you don't find something who doesn't meet your needs and then try to be a soft place to land.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:49 PM
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If high quality men aren't choosing these women then it means that they aren't high quality. We all need to realize that high quality is subjective. Maybe I don't want a stiff loser in a suit who only cares about retirement and getting promoted. Maybe I want a broke artist who is passionate and cuddles me between bong sessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:53 PM
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Have you guys ever tried to see things from an incels point of view instead of immediately ridiculing or mocking them? The view of not getting laid due to loserdom? I tried but can't :V I'm not a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 07:03 PM
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I hate that its totally removed from conversation on SMP. The boswash corridor SMP can be ages from 18 all the way to 50. People in this region make more money, have more job security, procrastinate marriage and look into into their late 40s. The 2nd and even 3rd marriage market is booming here. The southeastern SMP is mostly college aged people through late 20s. After that, its very slim pickings. Most people will marry by 25, so there's added pressure to lock someone down before then, whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 04:21 PM
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this sounds a lot like "regret", which I don't experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 05:06 PM
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sure but you imply that's a bad thing. also its not related to your OP. you said that women prefer the sex of their more attractive partners. maybe they do. nothing is wrong with that either. but just because they may like one or two things about those experiences more DOES NOT TAKE AWAY from the possibility that they are 100% happy and satisfied sexually with their current partners. it doesn't mean that they'll leave their current partners and fuck past ones. sex isn't the end all be all of a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:59 PM
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why? I can buy a house and LOVE that house, even if its not my 'dream house'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:54 PM
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maybe. but it doesn't mean they aren't 100% happy and satisfied with their current SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 04:30 PM
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yes cuz then you're talking about adults with adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:37 PM
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Yeah, really. I love how you're denying it, too, since that mindset only sets in around 25 or so. In middle school a 1 year difference was huge. LOL there is no serious relationship happening in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:22 PM
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who is saying 5 years is too old now? I would say that gap is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:13 PM
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he is? how old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:27 PM
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Let's break this down: Redpill theories like "holding frame" makes a manlet look like an overcompensating tool while making a tall guy look powerful. Likewise, nobody is impressed at a midget who could squat four plates. Its like no one goes outside. All the manlets I know in my life at this point have LTRs or wives. They're fine. Ethnic men who attempt to push through last minute resistance are more likely to get arrested. Ethnic men are probably less likely to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:25 PM
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3) Social skills and life experience do not develop because you're always studying. These guys literally are graduating from school at age 30 and have personalities/confidence of guys 18-22 I remember Callie Torres saying the same thing in Grey's Anatomy. I thought it was for the show but this confirms it. Interesting. That said, I think ALL men behave like college kids until they are given or find a reason to act otherwise. Men grow up when they want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:18 PM
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There's only three married women on this sub who come off as pleasant to be around. The rest come off as awful. But I'm not gonna call out any names. chickeeeeeeeeen. come on, who are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:17 PM
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everywhere? its called walking up to a girl and asking her out. most of my friends met in hte following places: at the metro stop work, like literally coworkers who decide to date happy hours/bars, this is the most common i found clubs, cuz its a good time to gauge physical chemistry and everyone's drunk and relaxed networking groups, like industry associations and stuff graduate school social groups, like hiking clubs, etc church, like Young Adult Ministry referred by a friend "Hey, I know you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:02 PM
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Are there other things you think it's OK to lie to an SO about? Other things it's OK to do surreptitiously and in a clandestine manner? My bf can lie about anything that doesn't do the following to me or the relationship: Hurt my health Fuck with my paycheck Embarrass my family Risk our safety Outside of those things, yeah, he lies pretty much all the time. Literally all the time. But I can TELL when he's lying so LOL. I care less and less the longer we date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:16 PM
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isn't iceland racially homogenous?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:51 PM
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why would we want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:05 PM
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hmmm....maybe 85% sometimes, like three or four times a year i have a real hankering for sex. like i'm legitimately horny? so if i'm single, i found guys to fulfill that. then it was gone. so i went back to being single. with bfs, its like oh yay, i'm really horny now. and i have someone. whoot. otherwise, there's no external difference between when i'm actually physically horny and when i just want to physically enjoy my boyfriend. its like "aw, he wants me! yay!" and i get on my back. I should…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:42 AM
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i can actually say that i don't have sex for myself. i have sex cuz i know its important to my male partners. i get my physical "fix" through daily smooches, cuddles and pats on the bum :3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:37 AM
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no. i think most men nowadays strive to get off in the exact way the porn in their heads are going.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:55 PM
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assuming they don't get fat: White women: 30-35 Black women: 40 Latino women: 33-35 or so Asian women: 45
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 10:13 PM
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i love getting some gospel truths on a Sunday, amen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 05:48 PM
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The “mattress girl” who was raped at Columbia university had sex with the guy consensually a couple times before, and then one day he wigged out and started beating her and slapping her and forcing her to have anal sex. This is a classmate, mind you, not some guy off the street she barely knew. Okay but beating a woman and forcing her to have anal sex is still rape. it doesn't matter that he and her had consensual sex prior. i don't think a woman's sexual history should even FACTOR into whether …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:14 PM
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its an opinion. it doesn't have to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 10:28 PM
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most girls aren't pretty or feminine enough to pull off short hair. so they keep it long to have an edge in the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:13 PM
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LOL what is this fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:52 PM
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PREACH
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:34 PM
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No meeting up with members of the opposite sex one-on-one, no calling/texting/messaging them. It seems utterly normal to me, and more than that, it seems prudent. So I was not necessarily taught this, but as I grew up, it just naturally been my general practice. If I'm not dating you or with you, why would I be in a man's private company anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:03 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:15 AM
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or i can just beat my man's dick and tell myself whatever i want about the patriarchy? why would i get off to a gross sex bot of a gross man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:12 AM
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Hell, i wouldn't sleep with the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:59 AM
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they're all autistic apparently. or oOO oOO, i know. they're all (((DARK TRIAD)))
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:31 PM
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What does female vulnerability mean to you? It means he does something you don't like or withholds all the details from you, like when he'll propose, and you have to remain supportive and feminine while dying inside from the waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:53 PM
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why does there have to be a solution? can't people simply observe phenomena and provide criticisms without having to intervene and fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:52 PM
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do you know who jess fink is? she wrote a comic about this very subject. http://jessfink.com/Chester5000XYV/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 03:44 PM
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how old are yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 12:52 AM
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is the sex fiyah though? :V
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 11:40 PM
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my friend did this to pay off credit card debt. i asked her why and she said this verbatim: "I go on shitty dates all the time. Why not get paid for one more?" I ain't even mad at her :V
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:17 AM
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I know he doesn't love that goat and want to wife it up. you bigot. maybe him and the goat have a genuine connection. i am SICK of the close mindedness of this subreddit :V
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:35 PM
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I like normal vanilla sex and my husband is nice to me and I'm nice to him. As far as I'm concerned anything past that is corny-ass play acting. i love you for this. i'm the same. ill take my boring vanilla sex and leave the weird stuff for posers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 04:42 PM
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ded
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 07:37 PM
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the cohabitation would be the new "marriage" and we'd have formal ceremonies and no legal marriage. just community recognition. marriage is a human thing. its a rite of passage. it will never completely go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 12:09 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 04:17 PM
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she was ENFJ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:05 PM
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well women totally bought into it. and are now enforcing it on boyfriends as a sign of true love. its nutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:03 PM
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well funny enough, i met her hsuband once and i asked him: what is the secret to your long relationship being so successful? I dont' think he totally got the question but his response was this: "She's high maintenance but she cares." LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:59 PM
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not even joking a little. my old boss, who was a csuite exec and married for 5 years (with her husband for 15) informed me that if a man cannot spend 3-4 months of his GROSS income on a ring, he is not truly committed to the relationship or the marriage. period. Yes, she told me that I should have a good enough idea of what he earns in order for him to meet this financial investment. she also believes in 'upgrades', where every 10 years, he should upgrade your ring based on his new 3-4 month gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:15 PM
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so if people don't change in the same way or at the same time, over time, the person who changed tricked them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 12:57 AM
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Is there any correlation between a woman's sexual aggression or dominance in bed and her fitness for a relationship, in your experience? not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 12:31 AM
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whoa whoa. wait. so changing your mind is now "tricking" someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 09:57 PM
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there should be a post on that. vetting is worthless cuz people may change. the best you can hope for is that they're "good enoguh" when you say i do and share values so that even if they change, they won't cease being your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 03:01 PM
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:( Sorry to hear that. yay new marraige ayyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 01:36 PM
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every time we have a purge, i'm reminded why i'm pretty big on deregulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:06 PM
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where? most online communities are largely white MC males in western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:12 PM
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the relationship between men and women ehhhhhhhh depends on which black circles you're in. and the 'progressive' branch of black culture is a super minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:09 PM
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jesus. how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:04 PM
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LOL you think black media isn't misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:03 PM
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why should they? i agree. who curr?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:02 PM
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this lazy ass post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:02 PM
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not really. he's not gonna fuck with blacks like that. only latinos, arabs and trannies should be worried really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:34 PM
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Why don't women care that some men can't get casual sex and mock them for trying? idk. why should we?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:34 PM
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i'm a redpiller and a black african woman and i voted for Trump and I'd do it again :O
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:20 PM
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I finally found balance in my life. Met a great man and we just moved in together!! Idk if I had any lows in 2017.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:38 PM
2

Are you south Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:14 PM
1

But the gift scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 03:21 AM
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Hai
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 03:19 AM
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i don't see men being out of character and rapey for ugly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 02:27 AM
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higher likelihood to be raped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:26 PM
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it will never cease amusing me how men online think women can't tell what a big dick is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 05:32 PM
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you must feel so safe haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 12:46 AM
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trust. he made up for those inches elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 12:45 AM
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i'd fuck tyrion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:40 PM
2

dwarfism is 4'9 and under
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:30 PM
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his profile said he was 5'9. in person, he was around 5'2. i didn't care. the sex was fiyah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:28 PM
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"engineering attraction" you PPDers can make the most basic of human interaction completely devoid of anything human.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 06:40 PM
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my bf is handsome but doesn't.....recognize his handsomeness? so less dread \o/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 05:13 AM
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I'm sure they've all done it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:35 AM
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Alphas ARE abusive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:47 AM
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lol sure. how old are these "single at heart" people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:30 AM
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Look at Elon Musk. Crying to a reporter because he can't get sexual validation. He's a fucking billionaire yet is deeply depressed that women don't validate him for his being. lol what? i need video of this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:43 AM
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min yahtama?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:05 AM
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Who curr??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 12:02 AM
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amen to all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 06:45 PM
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Me and Liam Neeson have an understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:21 AM
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'hookercel' really??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:41 PM
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Before we got together when we were just hanging out, he was holding his cool and he was lying a bit to make himself appear like a sweet guy. everyone lies in the beginning. that's why you should date for a bit before "calling him your Captain"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:23 PM
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What's hilarious is when people on here tell me I'm entitled for taking none of this and bailing immediately on someone like this who will easily make my life worse, not better who called you entitled and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:38 PM
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yeah the word choice is a weird one. but i think they're saying people who aren't relationship material because they hurt their partners are 'losers' in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:55 PM
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haha. i thought it was more NPD but yeah, i can see that. they are all Cluster B traits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:40 PM
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hold on. 4.--Killing Your Self-Confidence "The Loser" repeatedly puts you down. They constantly correct your slight mistakes, making you feel "on guard", unintelligent, and leaving you with the feeling that you are always doing something wrong. They tell you that you're too fat, too unattractive, or don't talk correctly or look well. This gradual chipping away at your confidence and self-esteem allows them to later treat you badly - as though you deserved it. In public, you will be "walking on e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:36 PM
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A loser is a guy/ girl who has a dead end job and doesn’t try to improve their life. Someone who isn’t independent. yes. that definition could also apply to loser. but i think the website is describing a loser as someone who is not relationship material. which interests me. some PPDers have commented that 'alphas' are social outcasts because they aren't good partners and hurt the overall community. that would make them losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:29 PM
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see but i don't know if it is. it just sounds like negative alpha behavior. like to me, if a guy does even 2-3 of those listed things, does that make him abusive? Does it make him an alpha? I guess i'm trying to see how betas view the list and what about the list makes them uncomfortable, if at all. I thought it was a good breakdown of the cause and effect of a lot of what TRP preaches men should do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:28 PM
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lol yay a reasonable response
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:58 PM
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there's that pesky should again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 01:56 PM
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He submits to God
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:10 PM
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LOL omg. ded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 03:51 AM
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eh, i don't think so. if your thoughts and emotions are so chaotic that you can't properly function, i can understand the appeal in someone wanting to "just stop everything" aka kill themselves to "feel better". it makes no sense outside of that state of mind. but i don't blame them for feeling that way. that said, CBT is super helpful in combating BPD or managing it to healthier levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:13 PM
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i'm pretty certain most BPD girls have considered suicide. i think they comfort test to the extreme. "would you loved me if i was on a 72 hour hold?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 06:06 PM
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the flip side of being BPD or mimicking it when in certain relationships, is that you feel insanely loved, even when you're having tantrums and sobbing at the man's feet on the cold floor. the level of emotional highs you feel is like nothing else. i wouldn't knock a BPD woman just cuz she's dramatic. she means it when she tells you "I love you so much I could die!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:40 PM
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a passionate and toxic affair. someone usually dies or attempts to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:34 PM
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i <3 you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:20 PM
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curious. how old were you when you married your first husband vs second?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 08:01 PM
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he didn't know she lost interes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 07:22 PM
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i know several. each one said they strayed cuz they were bored with the relationship. like the guy wasn't giving them attention and they wanted attention from other dudes. sometimes, these dudes kenw they were in a relationship. others didn't. sometimes these guys would sexualize the interactions and sex would happen. but in all the cases, the girl's bf would come around, and she would drop the other guys and go back to her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 06:41 PM
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noooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:12 PM
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Taraji, love her, but she is just so over the top on that show. It's exhausting. I like Ryan Destiny's demeanor as Alex. And Simone's. More low key and measured lol. I believe you. I stopped watching Empire after Season 2. LOL. Power >>>> all them shows. What do you think of Angela? :V I agree. Are you a man? This might get deleted by the mods if you aren't. Girl, no. You know who I am. We're frands on the Book of Faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:06 PM
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Second of all, Star >>>>>>> Empire. GIRL BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. lol i just find these three chicks more fascinating and appealing and performance level entertaining than any of the characters on Empire. OVER QUEEN TARAJI???? YOU ARE CRAZY. GOOD DAY, MA'AM. Could you explain why you never thought that? i feel like its a form of entitlement. just because someone is attractive, and has good chemistry and did nice things for me ---- doesn't mean they DESERVE to have sex with me. It feels like some weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:02 PM
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I was listening to a song from a TV show on FOX called Star. that show is so bad. they should have known better than to make it. Empire >>>> Star. I can't wait for Season 5 of POWER (Not related). i never thought of sex as something I deserved. that icks me out for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 07:54 PM
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It also sounds like you think people don't care of I'm genuinely happy, as long as I act like I am. That's what makes it seem like it's not caring about me. yes. that's the case. if you never told someone that your inner world and outer behaviors weren't aligned, if they appeared to be so, why would any one care to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 05:17 PM
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i don' t think so. they care about who you are in the WORLD, not really how you exist within your consciousness. they can't date your inner life, so why would it be of concern to them or anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:50 PM
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It was a source of pain that I felt they weren't interested in my inner life, which is in a sense me much at all. why would they care about your inner life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:43 PM
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The United States of America.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:18 PM
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i'm INFJ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:18 PM
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example: My bf will ask me a question....not because he cares about my answer is, but because he is asking ME to start a conversation about what HE thinks. my answer is completely irrelevant lol. it took a while to get the hang of this but now its like whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:07 PM
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yeah. its helped me with my dating. i'm most compatible with N types, preferably NT types. My fav relationships ever have been INTPs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:07 PM
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