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| 3 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?This. I'm an introvert, albeit a social one, but I still enjoy being around people even if we're not actively engaging with each other all the time. Until I move in with a partner I plan on still living with roommates in the meantime for that reason, not just to help with rent. And if I do get a place all to myself I'm getting a dog! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work?a woman who is nerdier or more introverted, enjoys going to the movies or trivia or maybe occasionally a brunch with the girls, and doesn’t look like a porn actress Speaking for myself this sounds pretty much ideal for where I'm at right now. I've never liked the overly plastic look on anyone. And socially speaking I already have a solid crew of friends so somebody who is down to do cozy introvert shit with me when I'm not going out and is down for low-key but fun dates and also the join occasio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.fledging ska band Sounds like he never knocked on wood but should have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 02:45 PM |
| 9 | Even “body positive” women have conventional standards when it comes to a man’s looks"fatphobia is racism" was/is a common SJW talking point, which is one hell of a thing to say given that obesity among Black American women is largely due to food deserts and the prevalence of fast food and processed snacks in much of the urban US and the American diet in general. Traditional African men and women from almost any part of the continent following their native diet are rarely obese the way Americans of all races are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Pure (and deficient) gaslighting: "It's not about him being an evil man. The key is his self-confidence."Did you? You're throwing out that they're "low quality" without citing any anecdotal or empirical evidence yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a “one that got away”?I think you said it yourself; you miss the life and not so much how perfect he was. Anyone who cheats didn't "get away" they showed you who they are and you did the right thing by ending that relationship. The only thing that "got away" was the chance for that guy to live up to his potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVWould you say they're attractive aside from their height? I've seen a lot of dudes who are not short but unconfident or not good looking who have fat girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVIn the eyes of most people (especially blackpillers) if you are a short man, you can never win. If you’re short, you can say goodbye to ever getting a girlfriend. If you manage by some stroke of luck to get a girlfriend, she’s probably fat and ugly. If she isn’t fat and ugly, then she’s probably cheating on you with a taller guy. If she isn’t cheating on you, then she’s just settling for you until a taller guy comes along, and on and on, etc. This. It's a terminally online opinion. Go to at leas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menWhen autistic guys ask “how do I get a girlfriend?” an algorithm is being requested. I love this. It's lot more accurate than "they're just looking for a list of rules." Even most ND guys seem to grasp that randomness will always be a factor in dating you can't just hit your bullet points on the list to have success, but that maximizing certain attributes and playing the game in a certain way will statistically lead to the most optimal outcomes the most amount of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worseStop judging your sister as egotistical for rejecting a few professional athletes. The point is that the average or above average dude comparable to OP's sister probably wouldn't even register on a female professional athlete or model's radar, let alone have the chance to curve one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’People here really underestimate how much more powerful emotional investment can be as a factor in putting up with a partner's bullshit for way too long, vs just physical attraction. Not saying you can't be emotionally invested in someone bc you also find them hot, but whenever I hear stories like yours it's always some guy who looks like a thumb but she's known him for years and they used to be friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:36 PM |
| 9 | Today I learned RooshV got his second virginity!I don't doubt that Roosh believes his conversation is legitimate, but I can't help but notice it came right around the time that he and RoK were getting socially and financially blacklisted. By his own admission in that post he feels like his content was getting stale. Even if he had stayed his original course I can't imagine him being relevant in 2023. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allThere are indeed some very fast shit boxes out there. Safe? Questionable. Comfortable? Fuck no. Fast? Hell yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:16 PM |
| 2 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allBased and I just want to vroom pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 2 | The endless self-improovement treadmill, and the futility of it allHaving better physical fitness, more fulfilling hobbies and social life, and a better paying and more fulfilling career are all worthwhile for reasons other than attracting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:05 PM |
| – | Women, how much did your relationship with your father affect that with men?Thank you for sharing this. I think there's a whole lot of men just like your dad, especially in older generations. They have good jobs (usually blue collar work that they could still support a family off of), earn the respect of their male peers, and take no shit. When it comes to negotiating a deal or standing their ground in a fight they can hold their own. But when it comes to women they got virtually no useful advice from their own dads or any other mentor figure in their life. They all bou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 03:34 PM |
| 5 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesI got the ick with my current boyfriend Context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsHow did you progress from friendship to relationship? What kinds of conversations and actions did you take? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Intelligence and attractivenessVery well put. Sociopaths aren't necessarily rewarded because they are "bad." Sociopaths by nature understand emotions and social cues well by definition, they just put that intuition towards antisocial ends. The autistic people I know who actually go out, make some effort to understand social cues, and present themselves in as much of a pro social way as they humanly can generally do have social circles and go on dates. Obviously this depends on the severity of the autism, as well as the suppor… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?Because there's a lot of men who this resonates with. There's a lot of truth to the notion that society doesn't really care or do much for guys who are down and out. You alone have to dig yourself out and hope for the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:46 PM |
| 2 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"social conditioning of women to be afraid to take up space. Don't you think that grown adults have an obligation to consider their own agency vs social conditioning? You can't force yourself to be attracted to what you're not attracted to, but if you are attracted to someone but you're hung up on how society might perceive you, that's on you. I don't want to interpret your comments in bad faith but this reads like "women refuse to date men they might be attracted to themselves and it's somehow m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itCorporations and communists: two things that famously get along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Most people agree that there are not enough high value men for all women, but we don't agree what causes itcommunists and corporate interests 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the best way to deal with shit tests that are coming from women?"And I STILL won't sleep with you." She understood the assignment. That's a hilarious and brutal takedown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Rejection Therapy - A Brilliant Idea Or A Complete Waste Of Time?I was holding my breath until the very end there. Glad you made it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 03:27 PM |
| 8 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himThis. 6'3" isn't necessarily some silver bullet but it's definitely your saving grace and your foot in the door here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 06:15 PM |
| 20 | Do women care about the type of job you have?And you can lay pipe! I'll see myself out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 07:19 PM |
| 15 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?This. Reddit (and most of the internet tbh) will have you believe that being anything less than a 6'2" Chad, let alone having any "downsides" (being short, introverted, neurodivergent) is an automatic forever alone. Ironically, this probably has something to do with the rigid, black and white thinking a lot of autistic people have. Yes, being on the spectrum will probably make dating harder, but it is nowhere near impossible. I have friends on the spectrum who have had several girlfriends, and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?That sounds heartbreaking more than anything, but I don't know your dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 17 | Is it common for women to have been "Alpha widowed"? Do women have trouble "falling for" new men that havent met the standards of better looking or higher status men of thier past. Do these men have to "work harder" to make up for the failed comparison?like my dad who is still in love with my mother 40-odd years after their divorce. That's rough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 3 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingI do wonder if there is a link with autism and men who join these movements. I've wondered the same thing. This honestly deserves its own post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:56 PM |
| 4 | The Reason I Think Most RPers are Unsuccesful in DatingI do wonder if there is a link with autism and men who join these movements. I've wondered the same thing. This honestly deserves its own post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Is the height preference mostly societal?Height preference in women regarding men is almost certainly biological. Needing a man to be 6'+ tall however is cultural and arbitrary, and seems to be an especially American thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: what kind of tattoos do you like on men?TIL PPD really hates tattoos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | is making a woman laugh one of the most important qualities for a man ?I've seen it too, but in fairness, what would it look like if you admitted "yeah, my current SO isn't good looking but I love him/her anyways?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?maybe they’re just so care deprived In all likelihood they barely get any compliments or help or noticed at all. PPD has a skewed idea of the "average" man, but it is true that the average guy can go for months on end at times without so much as a compliment, and outside of family and a small circle of friends basically feel invisible until needed. That doesn't justify the behavior of some of these dudes, but chances are for at least a few of them, you have shown them as much kindness or acknowl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:52 PM |
| 18 | The problem of RP menSome of those guys were pathological. It was like watching a supervillain backstory. Any standout stories about any of these guys you'd care to share? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | What would a below average man/woman be?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 02:45 PM |
| 40 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenThe way I see it, even if it doesn't translate to more romantic success, nobody is worse off for improving their physical health, physical appearance, and cultivating an interesting life full of hobbies and passions. It will make you feel more confident and better about yourself, and that in and of itself can be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 13 | In my experience, less conventionally attractve women tend to be more interesting and funny than the more attractive ones. What about yours?I've always wondered if people in this situation ever have the self awareness to realize that their ugly personalities were only tolerated on the basis of their looks, or if they just sit there changing nothing and wondering why people don't treat them as generously as they used to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 17 | Most dating problems can be solved by a looksmax or putting oneself out there more.I do know a guy who is a male model who has autism, and he has woman throwing themselves at him for sex despite his terrible social skills (the guy cant even maintain eye contact etc), yet he doesnt have any troubles dating or getting hookups despite the fact that he never initiates them. We've finally found him. The autistic Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of people ever find out their partners cheated?I have mixed feelings on this. On the one hand, I'd like to think I would confess to cheating because that's just the right thing to do and accept the consequences of being dumped. I'd certainly like to know if it happened to me. I think most people would want to know. That's a huge thing to keep hidden from your partner. As a matter of fact, it did with my first GF, and she broke up with me out of guilt, but at the time all I knew was that she wanted to break up with me. Didn't learn about the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 06:08 PM |
| 8 | What is there more of; people with great looks or people with great personalities?I was on both sides, so I know personally Do tell You are running into the same issue as rich people saying “poor people are lazy and that is why they are poor” do. They look at the correlation, the end result and not the cause. Exactly this. Not to mention it serves society, especially the individuals at the top of any hierarchy, to believe that those at the bottom are bitter losers who are rightfully placed instead of largely decent people who just drew a bad hand in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Gaming companies are the newest frontier for Bluepill ideologues.Couldn't have said this any better myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areThe ones who aren’t like this have girlfriends already. I've seen plenty of perfectly kind men and women struggle to find relationships because they just aren't attractive. Conversely, plenty of shitheads never struggled for romance. Pretending like it's just shitty character that holds some people back is a cope. you’re not oppressed because you’re 5’2 Who's saying this? No one is saying they're "oppressed", but plenty of short dudes can say they've experienced bullying, rejection, and even rec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areThis is the sole reason most women don't date them There are cheaters, abusers, criminals, even downright rapists and murderers who have never wanted for love. Yes, an unattractive personality on an already physically unattractive person is a turn-off, but if personality were the be all-end all, there's a lot of people with tremendous romantic success who objectively should be forever alone on the basis of awful personality and character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:04 PM |
| 10 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men aremen also prefer women to be shorter than them. Statistically men don't care about their partners being shorter than them as much as women care about their partners being taller. Obviously there are exceptions. But the reason short men don’t get women isn’t because they’re short. It’s because all they fucking do is complain about being short. They're all like this? You know this? Nobody is saying bitterness and complaining are attractive traits, but it's always "short dudes are so bitter" and not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Music/Art is the only acceptable method for men to express emotion without sacrificing masculinityPassionate, emotional guys do just fine with the ladies. You can't be witty, charismatic and fun to be around without some level of emotional intelligence, and that means being at least somewhat in touch with your own emotions. Unless you're insanely hot, you gotta have a personality, and that means having some emotional depth. Not everyone is drawn to flat personalities that can only express anger or elation, end even then only at certain times. Music and art can be a healthy way for men to exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Unattractive: A GuideIn my experience definitely not. One of my owners I used to work for would act all tough on our scheduling app and bitch at us over instant messaging or have the managers do his dirtywork. Never could do it in person. Like I said, these are weaklings who have been allowed to be big fish in small ponds and think the rules just don't apply them and throw a tantrum when they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 4 | How To Be Unattractive: A GuideThere are some amazing dudes you'll meet at the gym and there are a lot of kind-hearted business owners who got into what they do for all the right reasons. But if you don't realize a lot of them are just wannabe sociopaths who are willing to step on anyone to get ahead you're in denial. If you want to be like the latter, you do you, but as a regular gym-goer and having worked for several small business owners I can tell you a lot of those people are objectively pieces of work who are allowed to… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | How To Be Unattractive: A GuideExactly. There are at least as many whiny losers on the right and anyone willing to dispute that is just in denial. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 28 | female destroys male confidenceDoesn't that smell like pity? Exactly. Dude needs to go full monk mode and hit the gym hard. Cold approach has it's use but this guy needs an internal form of validation before he goes out again | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 11 | Why do women seem to love damaged men? It doesn’t line up with any “pill”.The woman is just gonna be grossed out by the bullying victim, he's pathetic, unwilling to stick up for himself and showing himself to be inferior to the man bullying him. All extremely unattractive traits to your average woman. However, the bully is exactly the type of "damaged" that piques a woman's interest. Why does he act this way? Is he angry, or hurting in some way? Can she be the one to get him to open up and coax out his soft side? There's an air of mystery and danger to the bully that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 55 | Female prison officer jailed. Dark triad inmate seduction"Best crimes to commit for minimum time in prison but still getting maximum security prison experience?” This whole thing is comedy gold. Wayyy too real. Just glad most of us grow out of the sperg phase. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 40 | The Red Pill Finance ThreadJeff Bezos' ex wife got of 35.6 billion worth of his Amazon shares in their divorce. Granted, Jeff Bezos' still has more fuck you money than God, but a little bit of game might have saved him a whole lot. That said, as someone who only recently got into investing, finances absolutely should be a larger topic of discussion around here. OP brings a lot of good ideas to the table. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/19 09:06 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about youNormal people don't read books about some kind of philosophical framework for living in reality. They just...live in reality. Most of the people on TRP aren't normal. "Natural" alphas don't need to be told to go to the gym and stop being a sperg from their special subreddit. Some will say TRP was never meant to be a home for the incels, autists, and genuinely ugly men who are just fucked, but for relatively average or slightly below average dudes who just need to get their heads out of their ass… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 12:38 AM |
| 26 | In an article unsurprising to anyone, bullies get laid more.Getting fucked with or clowned around with by the guys growing up but having support structures nested builds character, but is so different than actually having your identity and self esteem sabotaged and picked away during your most crucial and formative years. Exactly. Male social groups will always fuck with each other to sort out hierarchies and keep each other sharp. Hell, there always will be honest to God bullies who take things too far, and they don't go away after high school. It's cri… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 1 | The masculinization of women and the "Pitbull mommy" trendI mean I used to ride motorcycles and beat up greasers and corn pops all the time so I don't know what you're talking about... To be fair I have known multiple pit moms who date guys who drive motorcycles. Not bikers per se. So maybe my perspective is skewed. I don't personally associate bikes with being a bad boy per se. Most of my buddies that ride are closer to the tech bro stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The masculinization of women and the "Pitbull mommy" trendI can see being a woman living alone and wanting a bigger scary looking dog for protection. I live in a large metropolitan area but if I was out in the countryside I would almost certainly own at least one large dog and several guns, to be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The masculinization of women and the "Pitbull mommy" trendI was originally going to say "working class white women" but I think it's not just limited to them. Although no doubt it's common with that group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Every girl I dated in high school has turned into thisOr tattoos clearly designed to cover up scars | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Every girl I dated in high school has turned into thisThe underboob tattoo and the arm feather are going to be the new tramp stamp and tribal tattoo we all cringe at in 10-15 years. FFS if you're gonna get ink, don't get a fad tattoo that'll look dated a decade on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 7 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsYou're totally misrepresenting my argument here, that men SIGNIFICANTLY LIE about their height on dating apps because they CAN because they have not met the woman IRL Reread my comment again. I acknowledged some do lie significantly about their height. Guess's what? You're on OLD. People lie about stuff. You're going to risk having your time wasted. This isn't the world conspiring against YOU, nor are you put upon for dealing with this very first-world peoblem. Men deal with the same. In fact, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 18 | men under 6ft constantly lie about their height on dating appsMen lie about their height because it usually works. Maybe not if you're exaggerating a 5-6 inch deficit but you a lot of people won't notice a 1-2 inch exaggeration. And you know what? Good on them. 6 foot plus men have become a brand. You're not the only woman to make that that cutoff. Being 6 feet or taller doesn't make a guy not a loser, but it does seem to be one indisputable positive. I get it's annoying, but Myspace angles, good filters, makeup, and using old photos from when they were yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 04:42 AM |
| 7 | Men push their friends so they know who will and won’t bitch out on them.IDK if it's necessarily an income thing, but it's definitely a blue collar thing. People in the trades, restaurant industry, military, etc are often like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 6 | boundaries, ultimatums and ltrsIt's penis envy. They're trying to imitate the things they think men do: be loud and obnoxious and profane, party and drink copiously, and act like they're promiscuous players who can shrug off any hookup or breakup afterwords. They're trying to send a message of "LOOK HOW STRONG I AM! SEE, SEE?" Maybe they're even lying to themselves. But we recognize it for the desperate plea for attention that it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 11 | boundaries, ultimatums and ltrsOne of the best things about this age of female "empowerment" and social media is how it's laid bare the obvious for any man still doubting women's contempt for men who break frame or show weakness. I recently saw an article on the apparent trend of Gen Z girls posting TikToks of them dancing to voicemails and texts from their cheating/"toxic" exes. https://junkee.com/dancing-to-voicemails-tiktok/225720 As far as the cheaters go, I'm not here to defend them. However there was one example where t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/19 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Where do foreveralone men come from?So true. I was a late bloomer romantically, but always had a close circle of guy friends I could banter with no problem. There's definitely a lot of dudes that are friendly and have a good social life but struggle with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 03:44 AM |
| 14 | Where do foreveralone men come from?Not to mention they often have years of substituting real social interaction with video games and the internet, going back to childhood. A lot of forever alone/incel types have few if any friends, and most of their friends are people they met online that they may have never seen in real life. I'm convinced a lack of healthy social skills or a decent social life is a far more likely predictor of being forever alone than looks by themselves. It's been said before, but Elliot Rodger was not ugly by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Man, I'm no Jordan Peterson fanatic, and I even agree with a lot of the criticism of him, but he really seems make some of the ECs go nuts. You hit the nail on the head. Just because you're not preaching enjoy the decline/dark triad doesn't mean you can't have a strong grasp of social and sexual dynamics. It's almost like the ECs are mate-guarding their audience and becoming more dogmatic. Yeah, Peterson definitely pulls some punches when you know he knows better, but as far as I'm concerned he'… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Extended Hypergamy means women are never happy no matter how much life improves.Being a rule follower and unquestioning enforcer of rules is a defining beta trait. That's not to say a leader or alpha male doesn't submit to or respect authority. But betas are slaves to the rules. I've always found lots or priests and pastors to be somewhat beta and effeminate. Even the "conservative" evangelical pastors. Especially the "conservative" evangelical pastors. Obviously not all clergymen are like that, but many of the ones I've come across seem intent on either just enforcing chur… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 06:00 PM |
| 6 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillI'm not disputing anything about bans or GLO's right to say what he pleases here. I mean he's no joke, man!He's clearly worked his way up the dominance hierarchy here at TPP and has cleaned his room and read and conquered chaos like the Jungian archetype and become an alpha lobster. In all seriousness, if he wants to have a laugh once in a while at the expense of the clueless bloops that absolutely are infesting this sub and sell alpha T-shirts it makes no difference to me. All I'm saying is I a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillYeah, when a poster literally uses the word "dogma" in a non negative way my ears perk up. Read the sidebar. Respect the ECs. But don't check your critically at the door. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 07:36 PM |
| 24 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillI respect any EC as having paid their dues and being worth listening to, and there absolutely has been a flood of newbies and spergs lowering the quality of posts here but people act like the EC flair means "this person's words are gospel truth and you don't have to read them critically." GLO has done more than almost anyone here to pull men out of their rut but it seems like he's reached the cynical phase of celebrity where he openly looks down on a sizeable chunk of his fans and wants to sell … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 07:34 PM |
| 10 | 31yo woman rejects 30yo man because he was bullied in high school. r/OkCupid still thinks she's probably rightOkay, this might not be the most popular theory, but I suspect the "I had a good time in high school" was just an excuse to reject him for other things. Lots or fairly well adjusted people were miserable in middle and high school for all sorts of reasons. To me, that just sounds like a more creative version of "it's not you, it's me." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/18 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Feminism is not a shit test. Feminism is a macro level compliance test, and we're all failing it.This post was very insightful but this was a blind spot in OP's argument for me too. I've dealt with men I probably view on some subconscious level as "weaker" or less far along as me, but I've never had the urge to bully someone I perceive as being weaker, less popular than me just to get a rush. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 06:36 AM |
| 2 | If a guy has difficulty attracting sociable guys as friends, do we agree/disagree he’ll have difficulty attracting women?The "nice guy" role in the friend group is a real thing, but I don't think it's necessarily a pity thing. I've got a friend who's like that. Just a super sweet guy and really confident in himself. He's not awkward but I'd never say he's the funny man of the group per se. He just makes everyone feel good about themselves and brings them up with him. He's just got that X factor that brightens a room or makes any night out better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 02:28 AM |
| 10 | If a guy has difficulty attracting sociable guys as friends, do we agree/disagree he’ll have difficulty attracting women?desire to be accepted as one of the guys As someone suspected of having Asperger's this is accurate. Most of the guys I know who are similar often had small groups of friends that mainly consisted of dudes like them, which is to say introverted, awkward, and probably on the spectrum too. They often have few or no female friends and don't really have a lot of experience talking to girls period. But dealing with extroverted "normie" dudes is often even harder. I'm not saying being good with neurot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/18 01:30 AM |
| 6 | How can a modern society incentivize monogamy?I've heard of so many children of hippies ending up as very conventional, career-driven people who often go to church and just want to have a family. I guess if your parents were doing it, it can't be that cool, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 06:11 PM |
| 4 | The Vast Majority of Men Are Probably Not Worth a Woman’s Commitment, let alone Deference or SubmissionThis would confirm TRP's take on hypergamy and women dating up. You need to be taller and bigger and stronger than her, have as many options as her or more, as well as have a career that is just as lucrative as hers if not moreso, and when you get home from your job be just as on the ball with housework as she is for her to take you as an "equal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | You're not her top optionI hear you. I'm in the same boat. I enjoy casual sex but I've never had an interest in getting a new lay every week and racking up a huge N count if it means putting other goals of mine on hold. And I agree on needing to click with someone. Every FWB or fling I've ever had was someone I could at least have a solid conversation with. And I've definitely been there with catching feelings. In my experience girls fuckzone guys too, and almost expect you to be an uncaring fuckboy and get weird when y… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 3 | You're not her top optionI second this. I've managed to hook up with a couple tinder girls I hadn't talked to in months due to a perceived loss of interest but just out of the blue decided to text. OP is right though that you can only do that from a position of IDGAF and abundance. I'd already written them off but I was cleaning out my contacts and figured what the hell. The difference is I had nothing to lose. OP's advice is sound for anyone that has a habit of getting oneitis or needs to constantly text someone. You'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“That's because no matter what they do, they'll always find someone desperate enough that is desperate enough to wife them up when they finally change their minds and want to settle down | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Are Men who have success with women IRL a bit "misogynistic"?Exactly. If you're a star quarterback at a big university or a rock star, you're not just going to have groupies who flaunt their promiscuity trying to get with you; you're undoubtedly going to be exposed to seemingly "good girls" who can call their boyfriends and husbands and say they love them right after they're done wiping your cum off their faces. Not to mention you'll be so surrounded by so much abundance that you're naturally going to be indifferent to women and see how it only makes them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 19 | I think that modern feminist views about sexual past crumble as soon as your own brother is at a disadvantageA "lucky guy" who may or may not be someone other than that woman's actual boyfriend/husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 09:43 PM |
| 57 | I think that modern feminist views about sexual past crumble as soon as your own brother is at a disadvantageIt's the same reason why many women with high n counts will tell you it doesn't matter and then get all defensive and refuse to divulge their n count or past escapades precisely because it "doesn't matter." If that were true there'd be no reason to hide it. Deep down we all know that sexual pasts matter, especially for women. Since other women are usually far more privy to the small talk their girlfriends and fellow women make and spend far more time around women, they're aware of the games wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Why don't feminists address the role of women in causing toxic masculinity and ask them to radically change their preferences in men?He's not talking about being capable of toxic masculinity. He's talking about people who actually do extremely toxic things and who often come from cultures with retrograde views on women. And he's right. There's a disproportionate amount of feminist anger directed at middle/upper class white guys who have no criminal records compared to say, conservative Islam or inner city culture, or even Latin machismo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | If you are Beta, then you get to be my friend. If you are Alpha, then you get to do all the dirty things the Beta wants to do.r/ihavesex | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/06/18 04:34 AM |
| 18 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManA lot of the short guys I knew in high school that were good with girls fit into the skater/burnout category. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 06:48 PM |
| 12 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManDo tell about your romantic life. Are you very extroverted? Do you have any hobbies or play any sports? The guys that short that I see pulling are usually very outgoing and athletic, if not ripped, or they're in a band or a DJ or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Scarcity Mentality is Not an Issue. It's an Indicator.Fantastic. I've always been pretty cold and logical about analyzing my strengths and weaknesses. My parents and friends would often tell me I was being too hard on myself. In truth, I knew that whether or not I was depressed or overly critical of myself, my brain was giving me a subconscious assessment of myself I could ignore at my own peril. I was diagnosed with depression and I don't doubt I have it, but I've become a lot less depressed every time I am honest with myself and fix an area of my… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/18 02:48 AM |
| 4 | A median SMV male will have a higher number of unique partners if he is "abusive."Absolutely. It's an ugly truth, but most women have no problem dropping a man who is too boring or clingy. The same ones will often come crawling back to aloof, abusive, and unfaithful SOs time and time again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | MBTI theory: Fi/Te men are more attractive to women than Fe/Ti menSpot on. I don't put too much stock in MBTI but I've always come out as an INTP, and I was an awkward teen who had a hard time faking abundance mentality when much of my formative years were spent without much female attention (granted, I was pretty clueless and I later learned a few girls who were introverted like me had crushes on me). Even now, with some notches under my belt and years of romantic experience, I still struggle assuming attraction, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The threat of violence creates social hierarchySuccessful bullies always always get the extra pleasure to have the real victims of their bullying socio-culturally labeled as the real bullies Absolutely. You can't help but see all these feminist-penned articles ripping on male nerds and nerd culture in general as toxic, or whenever some coastal elite opens his or her mouth about the voters in Trump country, who often are struggling socioeconomically and come from hard-hit parts of the U.S. Notice how when there's a mass shooting committed by … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 04:21 PM |
| 6 | Just A Bit Too Close ... An Introduction To Body Language.This is excellent. You're not some creep who thinks he's entitled to anyone's body. You are entitled to knowing if someone is attracted to you, and there's absolutely nothing anyone can hold it against you for wanting to know. If they aren't interested in you, then they miss out and somebody else gains. Yeah, TRP gets a lot of guys who come here because they're awkward, but there isn't anyone reading this that is so clueless they can't figure out when a girl really isn't feeling it and cut losse… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Less than 7% of people in their 20's have sex 2-5 times a week, 49% of them haven't had sex in the past year.Absolutely. I think it has to do with the preponderance of dudes on Reddit who were hyper introverted in their formative years and put off/intimidated by hard partying and drug use, and now are trying to figure out how to have casual sex while keeping a largely introverted lifestyle. In my experience/those that have the most casual sex have one thing in common. It's not necessarily looks. It's being super extroverted and constantly surrounded by liquor, drugs, and the opposite sex. This hardly s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the new Netflix documentary Liberated: The New Sexual Revolution?Clearly you've never had a group of friends with the fat guy (occasionally a woman) who's super outgoing and funny and is the life of the party. Almost every group has one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Found this gem about frame controlIt's so funny, I used to hang out with people like that a lot. People talk about how jocks carry themselves like they're better than the puny nerds, but nerds are the same way. There's definitely a rationalization among that sportsball is boring and simple and pointless, therefore why have any athletic prowess at all? Nerd culture can be incredibly pretentious. Lots of looking down at "normies" for liking popular music or sports or mainstream TV shows and movies and going out and partying. I kne… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Found this gem about frame controlEvery Russian I've met has been naturally red pilled. I guess coming from a country with a harsh climate and a history of wars and unbelievable hardship will do that to you. It's funny you mention cultivating a "dangerous side" because that's what I've been doing for 2-3 years. Those exact words. Mixing with a "rougher" crowd, going to bigger parties, socializing more. Do it right and you don't look like a try hard. Been hitting the gym like it's my church. Definitely seen some results but there… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Found this gem about frame controlhumans are more likely to survive in the jungle if we follow the warrior rather than the scholar This was a tough pill to swallow, since I was a naturally nerdy kid growing up. Knowing lots of stuff, even things that one day may be useful, isn't as valuable as physical prowess and the ability to defend yourself and others in the eyes of women and society. beta males are terrified of chaos and crave order I think you're touching on something here. Betas are often mommy's boys, the kids teachers c… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 05:36 PM |
| 11 | Found this gem about frame controlTrump is a thin skinned baby with no frame and an idiot. He says whatever he thinks he needs to get his base riled up. The idea that he has strong frame is hilarious. Have you seen the way he treats even the slightest personal insult? I know that might make me a minority here. Inb4 downvotes from butthurt Trump fanboys | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Examples of Alpha males in today's world that aren't insanely rich?"Alpha" is situational, and while there are shared characteristics (social dominance, IDGAF), different women favor different times of alpha. The first example that comes to mind is the classic starving artist/musician type some women like to go for. Any guy with a job that involves an active lifestyle, such as a gym trainer, ski instructor, firefighter, construction worker, etc. These jobs might pay decently, but they're not known as the kind of work that will make you a millionaire. Gang membe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/18 01:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsTRP tells nerds to stop being themselves and be...Chad. That's because "just be yourself" is terrible advice, but is the standard advice given to men struggling with dating. And to be fair, many redpillers do the opposite of this and try to adopt a persona that just isn't them. A more nuanced version of TRP's advice is "be the best version of yourself." If you weren't a jock growing up, you're probably not gonna fake being one as an adult. Being a "nerd" in the sense of being an introverted, vid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/18 11:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsNot traumatized in the sense of a war veteran or a victim of physical abuse, but the experience of being bullied or spending your formative years as a heterosexual male without experiencing any female affection can leave lasting emotional scars. most redpillers don't have fantasies of "chads" in their heads I would disagree. Plenty seem to go beyond simply seeing Chad as "here's an archetype I can model myself off of." I've seen plenty of people there talk about Chad like he's the be all end all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/18 12:33 AM |
| 2 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsI've made it clear in the comments what I'm basing my assertion off of. You just disagree with my definition of alpha widow for the sake of this discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsYou're the one getting into semantics here. What I'm saying is that trpers also often can't get over the memory of Chad. Maybe it's a specific person that traumatized then. Maybe it's just the idea of Chad. But they spend quite a lot of time thinking about Chad. Maybe not because they wanna fuck him, but because they wanna be him. Either way, Chad casts a large shadow over their lives and they think a lot about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/18 12:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsAlpha widows aren't widows either, in the sense that they're pining over someone who is usually still very much alive. And yes, it's been said before, but some of the descriptions of Chad on TRP border on homoerotic. I'm not insinuating they literally wanna fuck Chad, but there definitely is a sort of sexual reverence for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 11:45 PM |
| 4 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsFor clarity, I'm not saying the type of obsession is identical, just that the level of obsession with Chad is equal or greater to that of an alpha widow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsThat they obsess over Chad just as much, if not more than any actual alpha widow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsMy point is that the level of obsession some redpillers have with Chad, who often may have been a specific person from their youth, is equal to the obsession alpha widows have with a specific "alpha" guy who wouldn't commit to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: redpillers are the real alpha/Chad widowsWe're talking about guys are brought to TRP because they were directly or indirectly traumatized by a particular "alpha" and are now obsessed with emulating those behaviors, often with a side of bitterness over the fact they can never get those formative years back. In that sense, it's not unlike the woman who is practically traumatized by her experiences sleeping with an alpha who wouldn't commit, and is now obsessed with him and bitter over being dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/18 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: In the dating world, the majority of women have it a lot easier than the majority of menhe could have argued against it himself Maybe he hasn't logged onto Reddit since then or just doesn't find it worth responding to. Women are exactly as picky as they need to be in order to be happy r/whereareallthegoodmen would like to have a word with you. Never before in the history of the world have men had an easier time getting NSA sex or giga-anal. That's because you don't see the majority of men that don't get that. They're invisible. Yes, the vast majority of men can have sex within a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: In the dating world, the majority of women have it a lot easier than the majority of menit's a fairly common sentiment from the men around here You're still putting words in a specific person's mouth. Not to mention you're doing the exact thing you're accusing him of by making a sweeping negative generalization. And you didn't even say "the redpillers around here." You said men. I remember something about living in a glass house and throwing rocks... Women use online dating. So what? There is no issue with this. Online dating will be skewed in favor of women in general and the top … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: In the dating world, the majority of women have it a lot easier than the majority of menNope. Women are smarter about it. Men in general could stand to be more careful with what they decide is a good profile photo. The point is, a woman who's average in looks and below average in personality and intelligence can still punch way above her weight by uploading some carefully selected photos of herself to Tinder. Yes, can dudes make themselves look more awesome online than they are? Of course, and they do. But not nearly with the same level of success as women. It's how it is, and I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: In the dating world, the majority of women have it a lot easier than the majority of menI thought women were too dumb to invent things u/oneprettycoolcat never said that. were women the ones that created online dating? Maybe not, but the way women use online dating, especially more casual apps like Tinder, leads to a small minority of men getting most of the matches, and by extension, dates and sex. I've seen my female friends' tinders. An average early twentysomething woman can post 4 or 5 flattering photos of herself on Tinder, a bio that only consists of her Snapchat handle, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/18 10:18 PM |
| 13 | Don’t forget AMALTAbout a year or two ago, there were a lot of poorly structured, low-quality posts here, so the mods implemented the rule about summary-body-conclusion. People grumbled but it did make for more coherent writing. I don't know if they still enforce that rule as strictly now. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Which genders imperative is harder to fulfill?No apologies necessary! This was informative. Med school I'll be honest, I'm getting the vibe that you're very smart and career minded, but perhaps a bit difficult to deal with in person? And yes, for what it's worth I'll admit I wouldn't be shocked to find out you're not attractive. But I wouldn't be totally surprised if you were decent looking either. As far as height goes, my sympathy is a bit limited there. All those guys sound like they were close enough in height to you that kissing, etc s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Which genders imperative is harder to fulfill?I could only find boyfriends who were sexually unattractive, lazy, short, unambitious, fat, unintelligent, poor, uninteresting, had nothing going on for them. Even then, many men, expecially at that age, don't have that kind of choosing power. Yes, they might be able to single out a characteristic or two, but not like that. Even below average women post things like "must be at least 6' tall and make $ __k a year no drug use, no kids, must message me first, etc" on their dating profiles. Guys who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do most men, cross culturally, who have the most casual sex, embody the values, behaviors and attitudes towards women that the red pill advocates?What kind of women does he mainly attract? I believe he can get an N count that high, but anyone with a partner count like his, especially the way you describe him, probably slept with a lot of fat, ugly, or emotionally damaged girls to get where he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Best body type for the short man to be as attractive as possibleJust like tall people don't have one body type, I think it depends on the guy. I'm short and fairly broad shouldered, so I can get away with being buff. Some short dudes are naturally leaner and it makes them look taller. In general you don't want to be too wide, either because of fat or muscle bulk, as it will make you look even shorter, and you want to have a v shape that draws people's eyes upward. But there is no universal level of muscularity all short guys should strive for, any more than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/18 11:45 PM |
| 9 | On Physical AttractionIf men respect you, women will sleep with you This deserves to be its own post. Male preselection is a thing as much as female preselection, albeit with some differences. Men are very logical in the way they structure their hierarchies. We choose our leaders (alphas) based on who can earn the most respect from the most men. That's why no amount of "game" will save a pasty, fat, video game-playing, Cheeto-munching neckbeard shut-in. There's simply no men who look up to those types of people, even… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 08:21 AM |
| 9 | Highly recommend this article on #metooIt's better to be strong, brutish, and self assured, even if you're wrong and a jerk, to be thoughtful and considerate and inhibited. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 12:37 AM |
| 16 | Highly recommend this article on #metooI agree but OP's point stands. The accusations against Moore and Trump are ironically more credible and serious than some of the accusations that have brought down apologetic liberal types, such as Franken. But this is a place about accepting human nature as it is, warts and all. And in this case, an apology is seen as a sign of weakness and guilt. Whereas enough people saw Moore and Trump double down and thought it made them look strong. That's how it's always been. Being strong and brutish is … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 12:36 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women don't actually want equality to men, as evidenced by preferring dominant men.Maybe not dominant in terms of being loud and hyper aggressive per se, but someone who dominates in the areas of attractiveness and social status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Placing kids, but especially boys, in team sports is healthy for their social development and will likely benefit them in many facets of life.I was a spergy klutz who, aside from a brief stint in little league baseball and soccer, never really got into team sports until middle school. Then, on my on volition, I joined the wrestling team. I was never amazing at it. Probably below average. But I did more push ups and sit ups than anyone on the team, and got super jacked. I didn't end up doing wrestling in high school, which I regret, because I was involved in other activities. But people looked at me differently once I was on the wrestl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 06:34 PM |
| 3 | The tradeoff between "being yourself" and being sexually/romantically attractiveIf literally the only value you can see in learning the guitar is getting laid, then yes, learning the guitar isn't worth it. But if you wish to learn the guitar so as to pick up a new skill and meet interesting, then it's totally worth it. I've played the guitar for 12 years now. I'm not a famous musician, but I play in a couple bands now, used to play at my church and my community college's jazz band. Through playing the guitar, I've made a bunch of new friends, which has led indirectly to me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/17 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Consequences of Modern Feminism for WomenNo doubt there are some short guys with serious game who do just fine, but they had to work for it in a way tall folks simply don't have to do. No, the world isn't fair, but there's no denying certain people have to put in a lot more effort to get the same results. IRL, being short isn't the death sentence some make it out to be. But the commenter in question was talking about IVF/sperm donors. And sperm banks/women being very selective in that regard is well documented. http://www.mensjournal.c… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/17 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitWell well, look what high-quality bait we have here! You're exactly right, dude! Good job | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitThis isn't a sub for people clearly talking out their ass. The rest of reddit isn't in the wrong for calling us out for that kind of thing, even if they ignore a lot of the substance of this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 12:05 AM |
| 23 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitI lol'ed pretty hard when I read that comment. This is exactly the kind of stuff TBP and the rest of reddit makes fun of us for. It come across as something someone inexperienced or insecure would say. Laying good pipe is essential, but being skilled with your tongue and fingers adds to your repertoire and only increases your reputation as a good lay. I had an ex tell me I ate her out better than anyone she'd ever had. This was years after we'd broken up too, and she was pretty experienced. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 07:56 PM |
| 22 | Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening.This is an issue that seems to befall a lot of "naturals." These guys were naturally good looking and charismatic, so they probably never understood why they were so successful with women. They just were. And then they marry a high school sweetheart and get old and fat and lazy and wonder what went wrong. That's why TRP is such an invaluable resource. By teaching you the "why" and not just the "how," even a non-natural can up his game and avoid the same pitfalls. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesYeah? Do elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesI met British exchange students when I was a University student myself. They all mentioned how huge cocaine was over there. Not that it's exactly uncommon here in the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesThat's fascinating. If you don't mind my asking, do you and your husband come from a heavily Mormon area, or some other super-religious background? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/17 05:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesNo, I've been to a lot of "nerd parties" with my nerdier friends from college, and they get pretty rowdy too. It's awesome, I'm so out of my depth sometimes when video games or literature are discussed. I learn a lot. And yeah, girl next door types have fun too, but in my experience they would sooner be with a guy who really likes to party, or even fits the stereotypical "Chad" mold, than a man who is basically the male version of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/17 02:23 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesI know it definitely happens, but I've never been explicitly asked by a chick to take them to a party, let alone to score drugs. I've invited girls to do social stuff with me. Obviously girls make nice with guys they think can get them free stuff, be it drugs, alcohol, VIP access at a club, etc. I stand by my point about the standard of boringness being lower for women than men. Yes, boring girls struggle with long term relationships, but they at east get good sex with hot guys. In fact, the fac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesWell, I guess I do have hookups for most if not any of the drugs I want, but I've never had anyone ask me if they could hook them up for anything while on a date. I personally know several boring girls. They're all pretty, but they can't hold a conversation to save their lives aside from vapid pop culture or fashion or gossip. And they all have boy troubles. But the standard for "boring" is much lower doesn't women. If you're sweet, pleasant, and at least have some knowledge about world events a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesdrugs lower your inhibitions. But I've had conversations dead sober about my lifestyle when girls ask about it, and it doesn't seem to bother them, even the "good ones." I'm not talking at all about just being under the influence. It's more about how women react when it becomes known I do certain things. and guys who stay in and barely drink (which is cool but is usually code for "barely socialize") and play videogames are boring This is probably the most accurate thing I've read so far. Social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesAlmost no one gives a shit about someone doing alcohol and weed, or even psychedelics, but I'd say coke still has a certain stigma. Lots of people have friends or relatives who ruined their lives from it, or have had bad experiences themselves. I don't broadcast my drug use like Dr. Rockso, but if people ask I'll be honest, and I would have thought it would be more off-putting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesExcept I never give out free drugs and rarely even have weed on me anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesThe best way to describe my "scene" as mainly "people who like to throw underground concerts at their places and hit up camping music festivals," and a lot of musicians who just like to jam. I got into it because I play guitar and bass and wanted some cool people to play with, and ended up reconnecting with a couple old friends and acquaintances who introduced me to this group. I don't ever talk about myself as being "in the party scene" precisely for the reasons you stated. Not to mention, I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesThat's valid. But why is it that straight-laced girls seem to light up on dates when they ask about my social life/drug use? I'm not saying it's like, "oh, you party, let's fuck," but it's definitely not "eww gross this date is over." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesAbsolutely. I worked at a big call center for the sales arm of a major company after graduating. Very white collar, office-y environment, but also very high energy and extroverted. A lot of the coworkers I knew went to the same music festivals I do. And a lot of the older guys had a lot of stories to tell. Even some of the ones I didn't talk to, you just knew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesI second that. I think a guy's mileage in a lot of aspects in life depends on how well he sells his confidence about his knowledge of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 10:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesThanks for sharing that! Would you say she still respected you in general or did she give you a lot of grief about your lack of street knowledge compared to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesAnd I want to make it clear I don't think I'm cool at all because I party. More outgoing and equipped with some funny stories to tell about past party experiences that some people might find interesting/entertaining? Sure. But on the contrary, I'm almost a little self-conscious about it, since most of the people I interact with on a daily basis are straight laced white, middle class types. If anything, I'd be more paranoid people would find me to be moderately degenerate if they knew how I live … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesGot me there. I'm speaking from my experiences as a formerly sheltered person. I've never had coke on me though. Don't do it nearly enough to make it worth the trouble. Like I said, I've never been a "woo drugs" type of guy. In very low key about it, partially because I don't want to be known as "that guy." But when girls ask, it never seems to hurt, even with ones you'd be convinced would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesI'd probably go easier on you if I hadn't seen you do that before, which is why I mention reading comprehension. In fairness to you, I suppose the title should have been the converse: even good girls tend to be more interested in guys who are hard partiers/drug users than inexperienced and timid guys. In the OP, I briefly mention that during my "catch up" phase, there were cases where girls would lose interest in me, be less interested in me when it was clear I really didn't have as much experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesIt's not an accomplishment for naturally outgoing people, yes. But I'm not ashamed to admit I struggled with social anxiety so getting into that scene did help me come out of my shell a bit. It's not an accomplishment the way getting a PHD or running a marathon is, but for some folks it does take work to get out of your head, feel comfortable in big crowds, and stop worrying about what others think about you. I've never had cocaine on me. At any rate, I'm not interested in why it works that way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesAt this point, I'd be repeating myself. Reread my post. Reading comprehension is your friend. But if that's too much to ask of you, here it is, in the most basic terms: In my experience, girls who I would expect to do X do X. But girls who by all means shouldn't do X still do X. Why is this so? More importantly, do you have any evidence to the contrary, anecdotal or otherwise? ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesMore like "Females I've met who you'd think should be doing anything but X behavior still behave in X way." At any rate, don't you think it's a little silly to pick at my argument for going off anecdotal experience when I made it clear I'm going off my own experiences and not necessarily empirical evidence? I can't speak for women I've never interacted with, although I've talked to people, seen posters here who have reached the same conclusions I have. Reading comprehension goes a long way. I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesTinder dates, strangers, coworkers, and people in my more nerdy, video game loving friend circles who have nothing to do with my party people friends do this. That's why I made this post. Reread my OP. I explicitly mention that I am not surprised when this has a positive effect on party girls. It's the fact that lots of girls who are in no way connected to that scene still react the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 09:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, even "good girls," look down upon guys they perceive as being sheltered/less experienced with the world than themselvesThis is the opposite of what I'm saying. In my experience, girls who are definitely not in my "scene" and would seemingly want nothing to do with me often become more interested in me when my lifestyle comes up in discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Women] Who were some of the creepy guys you knew?Absolutely. Even the guys who figure it out in adulthood and manage to develop solid social skills are still paying for it. What happens in your formative years can have lasting damage, even if you completely make up for it in adulthood. Creepy guys of a certain age know they are creepy and enjoy it. I second this, although I think part of it is just that we tend to give these guys the "old man pass." But you're right, some old men just embrace being a dog. I guess they figure it's not as creepy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Questions concerning rejection, development and the nature of coolnessWhat drugs did you take, OP? Based on your description of it sounds like LSD. At least, that's been my experience. Everything just makes sense, you "just get it" and can vibe with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/17 04:04 AM |
| 35 | Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP?Bullshit. I've seen Asians, Indians, guys on the autism spectrum, short guys, and short Asian/Indian guys who are probably on the spectrum with girlfriends/picking up chicks. The trick is that most of these guys put themselves out there, don't make excuses, generally try to stay physically fit, practice good hygiene, are well-dressed, and have interesting hobbies. Barring physical deformities or severe autism, I don't think anyone is doomed to die alone. Is that to say everyone will be Chad, or … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 09:00 PM |
| 102 | Incels got banned. What does that mean for TRP?This. Even if you don't wish to preserve the incels sub out of the goodness of your heart, it makes sense to at least give them a safe space/ghetto where they can vent to keep them docile. Afterwords, most of them will return to their hentai, Cheetos and video games. That being said, incels was basically a giant toxic crab bucket with everyone feeling sorry for each other and pulling themselves down. Most weren't going there to get help, but to feel validated. It's still better than the alternat… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How to get out of the omega mindset?As another fellow short dude I second this. Confidence comes from feeling good in your body and putting yourself out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The assertion that men can easily live without sex and romance is not validOk. Now you're honestly going to tell me that it's as generally socially acceptable to judge lonely women as it is to judge lonely men? Because I see countless online journal articles and Facebook posts written by female authors complaining about how men need to "step up" and date women who happen to be just like the author. Not to mention I've heard women say the same things IRL to their friends. And they get applause from women and even men for this. Almost any time a man complains about his l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The assertion that men can easily live without sex and romance is not validAre people allowed to judge fat girls, sluts, and women who complain about "where have all the good men gone?" Of course people can judge all they want. No one's stopping you. No prizes for guessing whether or not it's more socially acceptable to judge lonely men vs lonely women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 04:37 PM |
| 4 | The assertion that men can easily live without sex and romance is not validI'd be ok with this if it wasn't for the fact that the same people that tell lonely men nobody has to listen to their problems and people are free to judge them get all up in arms when dudes say they're not attracted to fat girls or sluts because those reflect poor life decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The assertion that men can easily live without sex and romance is not validThis isn't a good comparison at all. Sex and intimacy are much more basic and intrinsic human needs than getting into the college or university of your choice. Humans' biggest goal has always been to reproduce. There are plenty of people who have been successful in many areas of life who do not have any higher education, let alone a degree from a prestigious university. Someone who struggles with sex and relationships is generally seen as having failed at a very basic and integral part of being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 04:16 PM |
| 219 | The Sad, Sordid Cautionary Tale of Harvey Weinstein: Why Money Isn’t EnoughI find it hilarious that Weinstein's wife is only leaving him now. Harvey being a creep was one of the biggest open secrets in Hollywood. People have been joking about it for years. There's no way in hell she didn't know. He was rich and powerful, so he was still of value to her. Now that he's just a another ugly, fat guy with no job who's been outed as a perv to the whole world, he's only a liability to her. She dropped him like a hot potato | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Height Vs Weight The ShowdownYeah, I've seen a lot of dudes who otherwise have a lot going for them sabotage a relationship because of something silly. Being insecure about their height when their SO clearly doesn't give a shit is one. The other one I see a lot is guys who have the sweetest, most loyal girlfriends get paranoid about their gf of cheating. That one's always hard to watch because usually the dude's previous girlfriend was a stone cold cheater who totally broke his heart, and then he gets a great girl but assum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Height Vs Weight The ShowdownI love how salty everyone is getting about this comment Probably because you all you said in your initial comment was "short guys have dick personalities," implying you meant that in general. We can't read your mind. But if I had a dollar for every time someone has made a comment like that and then accused everyone who responded of being "salty," I could buy my own salt mine, start a business and live like a king. I won't defend short dudes insisting on no heels. Personally, I think it's fun to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 05:49 PM |
| 4 | Height Vs Weight The ShowdownSometimes short guys have dick personalities. Said nobody ever who would have dated a shorter guy even if he did have a great personality. You're just rationalizing by projecting unattractive traits onto a group of men you already find physically unattractive. Tall guys can have dick personalities too. Doesn't seem to penalize them or scare off the women interested in them nearly as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 32 | [Red Pill Theory] Use uncomfortable social gatherings as opportunities to test your mettleYou make a great point about positive and negative feedback loops and social anxiety. I'm loving that there's been more and more posts on social interaction and overcoming anxiety lately. Before any of this, I had a revelation that I needed to push myself out of my comfort zone, especially when it came to social gatherings. So I hit up some old friends and acquaintances, some of who were way more social than me and went to parties I never would have attended when I was still BP. This required ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 05:28 PM |
| 4 | The main lessons I've learned after 3 years of implementing TRPWomen mature faster than men. I think this is why you see so many women in their 20s or even their late teens with guys 3-5 years older, or more. And the guys that do have the most success with girls their age in high school tend to be the ones that were partying hard before anyone else, like you said. I think a lot of TRP is made up of dudes who were introverted in their teens and early 20s. Girls in general are much more social, and thus get exposed to a lot more at an early age. Not to mentio… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Do female dominated societies lead to more masculine men or more feminine men?differences between low ranking and high ranking men being more apparent due to the liberalized sexual marketplace You answered your own question. I'd posit that it doesn't just create a widening gap beteen the "haves" and "have-nots" but the men who "just get it" and those who don't. There isn't nearly as much of a need for men who fill traditional provider/father/husband roles for young women. This is obviously an effect of the liberalized smp, but I'd also argue it's a symptom of modern capit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 5 | AWALT - Asian EditionIf all Asian women care about are bigger muscle and bigger dick, you would see lots of Asian chicks prefer black guys. I think there's still a lot more anti-black racism and stigma about bringing home a black boyfriend in the East Asian community in general than with white people. That, and as OP said, white men do have a softer touch and are stereotyped as being rich, yet bigger and stronger than Asian men. It's a happy medium I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Some men can never be alphas. Their SMV will always be relatively low no matter what.I've known guys like Ajay in the festival scene, they were cool as shit and they had hot short girls. they played up their differences in a fun and lighthearted way, and it worked for them. I second this. Festivals tend to bring out the "freaks." Lots of unconventional looking people. At Riot Fest this year I saw more guys 5'3" and shorter than I could count (for reference, I'm 5'4" so seeing guys shorter than me is uncommon). Many of them were Indian or Pakistani looking. Many had girls around … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Intelligence plays no role in sexual attraction.My whole point is that social skills and IQ are not necessarily related, and you're repeating my point, again. However, I do believe that there is such a thing as social intelligence, same as physical intelligence. The problem is that calling someone "intelligent" carries connotations of being academically gifted or well-read, and there are multiple forms of intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/16 03:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Intelligence plays no role in sexual attraction.Right. And people with higher EQs are generally seen as more competent, even if they aren't as knowledgeable as a STEM nerd. Not to mention, women generally have higher EQs, and pick up on social cues more intuitively, so a guy with a low EQ is going to come across as retarded, even if he's quite "book smart." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 11:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Intelligence plays no role in sexual attraction.Kanye West is not necessarily "book smart" but from an emotional intelligence (EQ) standpoint, he's far more intelligent than your average autistic STEM nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Intelligence plays no role in sexual attraction.I think those qualities are attractive to women that are big philosophy or political buffs themselves, but again, only if found on a man who they are already physically attracted to and has decent social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Intelligence plays no role in sexual attraction.I'll CYV. Intelligence does play a major part in female attraction. But what is meant by intelligence is a man with strong wit who knows how to work a conversation, not some autistic loner who is a math savant but doesn't know how to just vibe with people. Not to mention if you look completely dumpy people aren't going to want to talk to you, no matter how "interesting" you may be. Chad may not be very book smart, but he spends his time socializing with a lot of high energy people and thus has f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 07:07 PM |
| 22 | Meet PoisonousIvy, a woman who tricks betas into livestreaming a series of self degrading acts such as self mutilation and sexual degadation in the hopes of one day maybe living happily ever after with her. Her ultimate goal? That they eventually commit suicide for her. Sounds like a real peach!Based off the footage in the video of her "victims" I can't help but think this is some sort of elaborate prank or that some of the guys humiliating themselves are at least in on the joke. The first guy sounds way too self aware and not serious and "I'm so sorry I cheated you" guy in particular looks like he is far from a lonely video game nerd. At any rate, I'm all for posts confirming AWALT and although this girl certainly looks like a psychopath she's a far outlier. Many women might take adva… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 06:42 AM |
| 13 | "The Dickonomics of Tinder" An Article - Example of Female Hypergamy?"Some will read my gleeful rejections on the many faces I encounter on Tinder as evidence of a disturbing uptick in malevolent, anti-male sentiments among single straight women. It is not. It is evidence of us arriving nearer to gender equilibrium where men can no longer happily judge the clear and abundant photos and carefully crafted profiles of women but become incensed when they take the opportunity to do the same." The author isn't the first to hamster that Tinder just events the playing fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 02:20 AM |
| 3 | The Beta Experience: One of the reasons BBs don't realise that they have been AFBBed.It probably just didn't look like that at the time. Hit the nail on the head. My biggest regret wasn't anything I did while we were dating, it's that I spent so much time being torn up after we broke up. So much wasted energy. The beauty of TRP is that with time and experience, contrary to what people say, you become less bitter and learn to appreciate things for what they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 02:34 PM |
| 2 | The Beta Experience: One of the reasons BBs don't realise that they have been AFBBed.Damn. This hit closer to home than anything I've read here so far. This was my first relationship almost to a T. My first girlfriend had a very promiscuous past. She wasn't the party slut type, more of the former insecure shy girl with social anxiety who found validation in sex. This is something that sometimes gets neglected here. She was the one to ask me out. She was sweet and funny and played in my school's jazz band with me. She was cute too. Imagine that manic pixie type inexperienced guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 09:46 PM |
| 8 | The Beta Experience: One of the reasons BBs don't realise that they have been AFBBed.Damn. This hit closer to home than anything I've read here so far. This was my first relationship almost to a T. My first girlfriend had a very promiscuous past. She wasn't the party slut type, more of the former insecure shy girl with social anxiety who found validation in sex. This is something that sometimes gets neglected here. She was the one to ask me out. She was sweet and funny and played in my school's jazz band with me. She was cute too. Imagine that manic pixie type inexperienced guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Men's virginity? Should losing it be special?In other words, they want the charm, status, and good looks of the regular Chad without the drawbacks (promiscuity, likely substance abuse). But when it comes to a non-virgin, hell even a non-Christian Chad versus a beta virgin Christian guy, most modern Christian women I've met go for the former, often thinking they'll be the ones to "change hid ways." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/16 02:40 AM |
| 4 | When life becomes difficult, you become overburdened, or you lose track of what's important, you should take a glance at your list of priorties... but first, you've got to make a list.This is a seriously underrated thread. Similar to you, I've set up some "reminders" on my Google Calendar app that repeat daily, such as "read for at least 30 minutes," and "gym." Everything on the list is something that legitimately helps me towards furthering my goals. Whenever something is on my mind, such as a Tinder date not texting me back, I look at my reminders for the day to see if I've done everything I need to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 04:30 PM |
| 4 | ForeverAlone and personalityWell, most of the FA-types I've known in real life have seemed very immature compared to the average person. Like if a guy is 22, but his personality seems more like a 16 year old. Part of that comes across as entitlement and feeling like other people should accommodate them. But it goes beyond just that. The ones I've known tended to have many traits I'd associate with teenagers, like insecurity, lack of self-awareness, poor emotional control, black-and-white thinking, and using immature defens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"I could sum all that argy bargy up as "give me a woman. Don't make me put in any work to get one. Oh and make me a man. But don't make me put in any work there either.". Oh dear where do we even start? First thing, you clearly didn't read my post. To recap my whole argument was that men were more masculine in the past largely due to hardship and a lack of being coddled by their parents. Their environment cultivated masculinity. Hell, I even threw myself into the category of millennial men who ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Women want men to self-rejectExactly. It's a fantasy for a reason. The same way a lot of action novels (basically romance for men) feature guys in their 30s and 40s taking no shit, killing scores of baddies, and sleeping with lots of smoking hot young women. Most people will never experience either of those but women and men respectively devour these types of stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Women want men to self-rejectWomen see the kind of men they can get the way most men view their jobs: it's a major indicator of your status. Having a man way below your league approach you is sort of like having a master's degree and someone offering you a position at McDonald's as a fry cook. It's an affront to your status and value that someone so lowly and unattractive would think he had a chance. Losers need to be aware that they're losers and know their place. The flipside is that stories like 50 Shades of Grey exist a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/16 05:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: feminism and the sexual revolution are largely responsible for the rise of "toxic masculinity"One can be open, sensitive, exciting, masculine, and sexual simultaneously without being abrasive or "toxic". Those traits are not mutually exclusive. You absolutely can, and you're correct. However when it comes to casual sex, being open and sensitive is largely irrelevant. Even in dating keeping your emotions to yourself will penalize a man less than being overly emotional. Feminists wholeheartedly believe that there are many great, healthy ways to be masculine, and that masculinity as a whole… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 10:28 PM |
| 16 | Traditional masculine behaviour is overtly punished and covertly rewarded in North America.Sure. For the sake of my post I am generalizing. A number of my friends fall into this boat. A lot of times they started dating someone in college who wasn't as interested in hooking up. TRP does get tunnel vision about the fact that not everyone gives a shit about getting laid as much as possible. The trick is that both people in these "successful" relationships have to think that the other one is a real catch, and even then, a lot of luck is involved. More often than not when these relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 03:37 PM |
| 28 | Traditional masculine behaviour is overtly punished and covertly rewarded in North America.If anything, modernity/feminism has done a lot to foment "toxic masculinity." In the old, patriarchal monogamous order (for sake or argument, let's focus on the first half of the 20th century), there was a clear distinction between men and women. Even the most excessively "alpha" men were expected to have some beta traits towards women, while the average "beta" male still possessed certain alpha qualities missing in modern betas today, while also benefitting from the societal treatment of the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/16 01:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Sluts Can, And Do, Land Quality MenThis is the best response. I've known plenty of sluts dating attractive guys, but these guys are often manwhores themselves, with n-counts that make their girlfriends' own numbers pale in comparison. Usually, both members of the couple are high-energy parties and drugs types. The other pairing I've seen of this is the free-spirited "alternative" hippy/music festival/artsy type slut dating some artist/musician type. A lot of times these guys are beta and introverted but if they're in a fairly suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/16 09:45 PM |
| 24 | Cartoonist reveals dynamics of online dating; A male's SMV will be perceived as lower than in real life.Could you imagine how creepy and misogynistic it would be if some Chad drew cartoons of desperate fat women or thirtysomething single mothers desperately trying to get hsi attention on Tinder? I can already see the angry Jezebel article now. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Discuss. What up with this height obsession lately?Well keep on looking and take the best care of yourself as possible. Another option is to look abroad. I did a semester in Mexico and not only was I basically average height there with a good pair of boots, but the girls there don't care as much about height even given that they're shorter. Not to mention a lot of them are really sweet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Discuss. What up with this height obsession lately?My first girlfriend asked me out because she liked short men. It was one of the first things she told me. (she was about 5'2" and I'm 5'4".) She also liked my build and my sense of humor. I remember introducing her to my 6'2" best friend and she said "I could never date someone that tall." I was a bit taken aback and I think he was too. I'm not saying it's not harder as a short man, especially one under 5'5". Believe me, I know. There's no doubt you gotta work harder, or that the preference amon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/16 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Are intelligence and a sense of humor actually attractive, or are people just saying that to sound like good peopleThere will always be a need for tech-savvy nerds to design and maintain technology. If automation was going to punish intelligent humans, calculators and computers would have already done that. If by "nerds" you mean the omegas who live at home and can barely hold down an unskilled, low-pay hourly job, I'd agree. Chad will likely be fine because he'll be in some high-powered career he likely acquired through connections he fostered through his superior people skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Are intelligence and a sense of humor actually attractive, or are people just saying that to sound like good peopleWomen are into intelligence, but the great irony is that in women's terms, Chad is more intelligent than a borderline autistic STEM nerd, Chad is cool, social, able to negotiate the world around him effectively and generally gets shit done. STEM nerd is clumsy, awkward, incompetent and the only thing he has are his grades and extracurricular programming languages he self-taught. This is the most insightful comment o this thread and needs to be upvoted more. Women are generally more socially inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 03:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Male height matters the same amount as a woman's cup size.I go through long dry spells with the occasional fling, one night stand or short term relationship. 16 notches on my belt. A couple BJ's and countless nights of heavy petting on nights out. If by "16 notches" you mean 16 lays, you're doing just fine for yourself regardless of height, considering the average for men is 9 (and this is based off self-reported n counts so in reality it may be lower). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/16 02:32 PM |
| 9 | The Art of Reinventing Yourself.The blue pill beta dream is to coast, to get the job, get the girl, kick back and go on auto-pilot. FTFY, otherwise bang on the money. Looking back at high school I was often a slacker. That's not to say I wasn't ambitious with extracurricular activities, but when it came to school and work I often did my best yo put in as little effort as possible. Meanwhile, a lot of the kids who couldn't sleep through class in middle school and still get an A like I could had developed a better work ethic and… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.I would understand the "best of him" part if he was taking out other girls to fancy restaurants and telling them sweet things while with you he can barely be bothered to order takeout, pump you snd leave. But what if he is still a caring and romantic guy with you, he just doesn't say any needless words, takes care of himself, is driven, and knows how to stick up for himself? Being redpilled doesn't necessarily mean you're not getting just as much commitment from him | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 08:53 PM |
| 8 | Most women who frequently use the internet have at least a vague idea what TRP is, don't let it leak.. it makes you come off as more pathetic than a beta.Well I find TRP men unattractive for the same reasons why TRP men find reformed sluts unattractive from reading all these angry posts from them. I've always thought the same thing. We shame women who are overly promiscuous and men who can't get laid. A man who couldn't get laid faking it till he makes it is a lot like a born-again virgin. It's hiding someone's true past and putting on a veneer of attractiveness. Still, sexual strategy is amoral and women with promiscuous pasts putting on a good … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/16 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Blue pillers: why would a married woman cheat on her successful dentist husband, for a meth addicted wife beater?He's a boring dentist, she never got over the guy that she loved before even tho he is a total fuck up. Exactly. I fail to see how this has anything to do with RP or BP. You just spelled out why this has to do with RP. Her dentist husband might be more stable and successful but he's fundamentally not exciting (read: no tingles). If she loved the methhead guy before, that's a classic case of alpha widowry. And the reason she still loved him all these years is despite or perhaps even because of hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Expectations of a college-aged girlIdk what it is with Russian Jews man, but I've heard the same story over and over again. One of my exes was a Russian Jew. She'd ridden the CC for a while but this was the height of my BP conditioning. She was a bit neurotic and could go from hot to cold in seconds. Ended up dumping me but messaged me a few days later at night saying she had been crying thinking about me. Being the sucker I was I decided to see her and we ended up fucking for a bit. Ended up blocking her for similar reasons, amo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 06:06 PM |
| 5 | For a philosophy about reasserting masculinity, why is TRP such a big pussy when it comes to dissent?There is dissent on TRP though. The finer points of many trp ideas are discussed and debated every day. Go on to most any thread and you'll see someone disagreeing or trying to refine someone else's point. What TRP is not is a total democracy. There are certain core tenets of the sub that are generally accepted as true for the sake of preserving a good signal to noise ratio. I don't agree with everything every single EC says and no one's pointing a gun at my head forcing me to do so. I'm free to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/16 10:37 PM |
| 11 | Why You Are Self Conscious AKA BetaGood post. I have a theory that being self-conscious is really an admittance that you depend on others more than they depend on you: a classic beta tell. Women have much of a herd mentality because for millennia exclusion from the tribe meant death, so it's in their interest to do whatever all the other women are doing. An alpha male knows he has strength and resources to see him through any disagreement or even exclusion he might face. Not so for the beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 02:33 PM |
| 10 | The ultimate depression guide that got deletedLast time it was removed for being off topic TRP is and always will be subreddit dedicated to male sexual strategy, and I appreciate all the mods do to keep it that way, but we need to take a much more holistic look at sexual strategy than just game and lifting, etc. Yes, absolutely crack down on the "self-improvement for self-improvement's sake" circlejerk, but there's nothing wrong with impressing upon newcomers that being a man with a mission other than women who is constantly improving himse… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Men have as much obligation to date sluts, single mothers and women over 30 as women have to date nice guys, beta losers, short guys and bumsI have met many short guys who insist people date them! Sometimes me! They get really bitter about it quite often, same as fat women. I've never seen this but I'll take your word. It seems like on the internet and IRL body acceptance in dating is much more geared towards overweight women. Sure, but men should also question why they're so drawn to size 0 women with DD cup breasts. See, most men aren't nearly as picky about that kind of thing. Yes, size 0 DD cup may be an ideal, but few men insist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Men have as much obligation to date sluts, single mothers and women over 30 as women have to date nice guys, beta losers, short guys and bumsWell in that case shouldn't you be taking the higher moral ground? I don't demonize fat women. I have no ill will towards them whatsoever. However, I do believe that fatness is generally an indication of poor health and don't find it attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Men have as much obligation to date sluts, single mothers and women over 30 as women have to date nice guys, beta losers, short guys and bumsThey are comparable, though, in that men select heavily for thinness and women for height. And that means fat women and short men feel similarly rejected, regardless of what they can do about that. I was trying to get at the fact that it's normal for people in such groups to lash out a bit. I agree with this. People are shallow. Society no doubt reinforces our preferences, but generally speaking a very short man or an obese woman are just not going to spark physical attraction in much of the opp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Men have as much obligation to date sluts, single mothers and women over 30 as women have to date nice guys, beta losers, short guys and bumsHowever, when you start demonizing them, that's where the problem starts. TBP and people in general are far more quiet about the demonization of short men, fat men, "nerds," and well intentioned but clueless guys looking for love who have the nerve to ever voice their frustration. It's always been open season on low value men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Men have as much obligation to date sluts, single mothers and women over 30 as women have to date nice guys, beta losers, short guys and bumson reddit Reddit has always been notorious as a watering hole for males far from the pinnacle of attractiveness: nerds, autists, and yes, short men. (Not that your stereotypical female redditor is much better.) It's not surprising that they'd be more critical of female height requirements especially when they can do so anonymously without reprisal. As with much of reddit culture, you don't see it nearly as much in the wild, if at all. the pressure not to date a fat woman and the pressure not to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/16 03:30 PM |
| 20 | To all you college kids: Here's a list of things I would do differently if I could be a student againI second all this. My biggest regret of undergrad was not rushing a frat when I transferred as a sophomore. I had bought into the myth of frat bros being losers who are paying for their friends. Couldn't be further from the truth. I would add that you should study abroad if you can swing it. I did a semester in Mexico right after a rough breakup and it did wonders for my confidence and I came back with much sharper Spanish skills. Not to mention that knowing you're only there for 5 months does w… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/16 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?Not having kids is a choice. Being overweight is a choice. Barring disease or childhood malnutrition (unlikely in most cases), being short is not a choice. And there are legitimate reasons to reject someone om the basis of being overweight or not wanting kids. And i don't fault someone for rejecting a short man on the basis thst they simply don't find him attractive. Attraction can't be negotiated. But it's not a good comparison because both those are choices that can be changed. Wanting kids in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/16 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Are short men automatically placed in the beta provider zone?I won't date overweight men or men that want kids. We all have priorities. Both of those are choices, not permanent features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/16 01:25 PM |
| 3 | TRP isn't a good community for happy successful guysThis needs to be upvoted more. If you want help with something because you struggle, you don't go to someone who's never had a problem with it ever in their life. You go to someone who started off like you but became successful because they can explain the way things really are and why. Not to mention they are capable of empathizing with you in a way the always successful cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 02:41 AM |
| 3 | ELI5: Women having it 'easier' when it comes to dating and sex.You are the ones who chose who to date. We're merely supposedly to look pretty enough to get your attention I'll agree that men generally hold the cards when it comes to choosing when to start a relationship, but not every man has such an availability of women that he can have no strings attached sex as long as he wants until he wishes to settle down with one of them. On average, men get less attention from the opposite sex compared to women, unless they're exceptionally good looking. For a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/16 05:09 PM |
| 36 | The Authentic Alpha: Find Your IdentityOne of the hardest things for me after taking TRP was rebuilding my sense of self. This was around the same time I had left the church, which had been a bedrock of my moral identity for years. As I became more self-aware and tried to change myself, I became more and more depressed. I convinced myself I was hopelessly beta and rebelling against my own nature, my own DNA. In reality, I was simply trying to force myself to be someone else's brand of awesome instead of my own. Dylan grew up poor wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | IOI CONTROL THEORYYou're half right. If you don't pass the initial split-second attraction test, no amount of "game" is going to get you anywhere. But you can definitely kill that initial attraction if you sperg out and done know how to take it to the next level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/16 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Three happy truths that'll make you smile!Guys with immutable characteristics like being short or non-white psyche themselves out and have, in my view, objectively worse conduct that fucks with them worse than their immutable characteristics. No doubt about it. Half of it is definitely mental. But I think for a lot of guys those behaviors aren't something they just developed in a vacuum. They are the way they are because women generally don't see ethnic and short men, among others, as sexual beings by default. Again, this can definitely… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 06:26 PM |
| 23 | Three happy truths that'll make you smile!Women assume you're alpha as fuck until proven otherwise Not to be that guy, but I think this defnintely doesn't apply to everyone. If you're very "ethnic" looking (Indian, Pakistani, etc) exceptionally short, or not athletic looking at all the default response is to put such men in the "invisible" pile until proven otherwise. This can definitely be overcome, but let's not kid ourselves, some men are just not going to inspire any sort of Alpha tingles at first glance, and perhaps even signal the… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 06:03 PM |
| 15 | Why dads need to #ShareTheLoad according to Sheryl Sandberg (cuckification of men everywhere)Remember, their objection is about working and doing all those chores for betas. A normal woman would do her best to keep her alpha. This right here. If a woman is actually attracted to her husband, doing her half of the chores while he works isn't going to be an issue at all. In fact, she'll be going out of her way to show her appreciation for him (cooking breakfast, sex, buying him gifts). Feminism is trying to free women from the "oppression" of having to give anything in return to their beta… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 12:17 AM |
| 3 | The Truth About Height, And How to Game the System.Can confirm on the shoe lifts. I'm 5'4" and wear shoes that give me a 2.5 in lift. It's a subtle but definitely perceptible difference. I'm still often the shortest male in the group if I'm with adults, but at about 5'6.5" I'm almost always taller than most of the girls. I notice that in general the amount of "warmth" and smiles I get goes up with the lifts on. Don't get me wrong, at that height you're still short, but you're close enough to average by then that it doesn't stand out more than sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Being Red Pill is worse than committing violent crimes in women's eyes.Still, watch what they do, not what they say. I despise Donald Trump, but I'll give him credit for this: for all the ridicule, mockery, and Hitler comparisons he's gotten, he's married to a very attractive younger woman, and could easily find other attractive women who'd happily sleep with him. Not to mention he has a reasonable amount of decent-looking to smoking hot female supporters, in the face of all feminist logic. The trick? He doesn't give a fuck, and his social status is such that he do… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 12:30 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The reason why many young modern women don't like to date commitment minded betas is not only does it imply they are better than these betas, but it makes it harder to branch swing/cheat without feeling guilt about it.Women are not trophies handed out to men as a reward for the best manning. Pray show me where I said anything remotely close to that. What I said is that women generally are attracted to masculine traits. I'm far from angry about it. Most of us aren't anymore. But it was my dissapoinent and anger that fueled my drive to improve myself, and in the process make myself a stronger, smarter, all around more well rounded individual who became more attractive to women. I'm happier than ever and able to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/16 05:04 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The reason why many young modern women don't like to date commitment minded betas is not only does it imply they are better than these betas, but it makes it harder to branch swing/cheat without feeling guilt about it.The problem is society (and most women) are telling men that being sensitive and caring and egalitarian are the most important things a man can be to attract women. And a lot of well-intentioned men who aren't misogynist in the least and are just looking for a loving relstionahip eat this advice up and are left wondering what's wrong with them, leading to confusion, depression, and anger. It's not just that women generally like guys who are confident, handsome, athletic, and tall. No matter how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/16 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Against the Odds: Life as an OutlierVery timely post OP. Nothing wrong with the 6'+ white guys sharing stories about how they held frame and fucked their umpteenth plate, or how they decided not to act like a sperg for a change and suddenly the girls took a liking to them, but these kinds of posts are far more useful for those of us who weren't born with the genetic equivalent of a royal flush. Lesson learned: social proof, IDGAF, abundance mentality. and frame are king. No matter your race or height or your history with women, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 10:31 PM |
| 5 | My Experience With Intentional Extreme AbstinenceBut why would an alpha want to maintain safeguards against hyper-gamy? You're assuming "alpha: out for yourself." Secondly, they may not have had a choice. Betas are far more numerous. Also, innocent minded women are an act, bad boys don't corrupt good girls, they simply realize they never existed. I'm not saying NAWALT, but for women the ideal is usually commitment from high-value male. No one's saying the old monogamous regime was perfect, but it generally meant that few women went without com… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 02:23 AM |
| 11 | My Experience With Intentional Extreme AbstinenceOf course female nature was the same. I'm not idealizing the past, just saying that it had certain safeguards on the SMP in place that no longer exist today. Christianity today is such that it just now looks the other way or even tacitly condones female hypergamy while still holding men to the same antiquated standard. Honestly, it was one of the biggest reasons I left the Church after discovering TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 42 | My Experience With Intentional Extreme AbstinenceReligious shaming of promiscuity worked in the past, but that was because women held up their end of the deal. This was also before feminism, career women, the sexual revolution, online dating, etc. The dating pool was smaller, people married younger, and women were more dependent on men for protection and financial support. Modern abstinence-only Christianity is a joke for this reason. I've found that deeply religious young men more oftrn often will remain virgins till marriage, but end up stun… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 06:53 PM |
| 10 | MGTOW Doesn't Get The Respect It DeservesMGTOW doesn't need good public perception, it needs numbers. It needs more and better men saying "fuck this, I'm out of here" until the cries of "where have all the good men gone" and the sound of a billion yowling cats is deafening. That's when something will get done. This is the most poetic thing I've seen on reddit, and you got a hearty chuckle out of me. Not to mention you're also spot on. As of right now, MGTOW gets a bad rap because relatively few men identify as such and the ones that do… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 08:37 PM |
| 0 | "All those other guys are like garbage"Ayyyy you completely missed my point. Yes, OP's report is about male thirst. However, he felt it necessary and relevant to mention his height and looks, and I'm glad he did. The commenter to whom I replied spoke my mind: it seems that a lot of the guys writing these successful field reports where they're grabbing female attention left and right and spinning like 27 plates are gifted with tallness. Never once did I complain about shortness, just acknowledged the reality that the game is a bit dif… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 18 | "All those other guys are like garbage"I'm 5'6", 17% BF and also handsome. I'm sure I'll get the manlet hater/jealous label for saying it but what am I supposed to learn from this? And are there any field reports of someone my size that has had success? It's clear that his build helped him achieve the success he did, could he have done it with my physical frame? That's what I want to learn. This post needs to be more upvoted. Of course OP's field report is still useful to guys of any height because it's about how women view betas, bu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: Men's heightsExactly. "Just date shorter girls" isn't bad advice per se, but a lot of the shortest girls (5 foot and under) are the most likely to require their man to be 6'+ to compensate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Women value a task based on its perceived importance, not its difficultyShe will likley forgive infidelity and physical abuse before excusing a man for putting her in the uncomfortable position of responsibility Spot on. I've seen women make all sorts of excuses for why their cheating or abusive piece of shit of a boyfriend is actually a good guy and stay with him. Whereas when they do break up with him, they can't get him out of their heads. Whereas if their boyfriend is too clingy or supplicating or boring, they have no problem dropping him with the utmost contemp… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 2 | What is the point of women hiding their promiscuity?Still doesn't answer u/artietx question. No one's saying anyone is entitled to sex from you; that has and always will be a straw man. But knowing a woman used to sleep with guys on the first or second date does make guys wonder what the hell is wrong with them or was better about her previous partners. Women are usually more choosy physically with who they have casual sex with, so getting sex is a huge validation for the guy. Imagine this: you're dating this handsome guy with an amazing personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Should I tell girls I meet on tinder my height before meeting them?In reality, yeah, you're short, but you're also a person, somebody to interact with, rather than a collection of data to be judged. It gives you a chance to get your foot in the door by being charming, handsome, well dressed, buff, witty, etc. Online you're short, irl you're a person who happens to be short. See the difference? This right here. If she asks you first, then you can decide whether or not you want to be honest. But putting it in your profile or mentioning it right away in conversati… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Women's Heads Explode When A Guy Says It's Okay For Men To Have Skin Color Preferences Since Women Have Height RequirementsThe "woman preferring tall men=man preferring (insert race) women" comparison gets brought up a lot here. The thing is, women get a pass for preferring anything, including men of a specific race. One Latina friend of mine mentioned to me that she'd never date a black guy, and when I asked about Asians, made a face and said "yuck." It seems like a small thing, but if a man said that in front of anyone other than his trusted male friends, he'd be crucified for even that. Virtually any male prefere… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill sets young losers up for failureAnd even if he did, it still would have fuck all to do with the discussion at hand, nor would it make his arguments any less credible nor yours any more so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/15 08:00 PM |
| 29 | What would it take for men to value commitment on the same level women do?Nailed it. The same goes for "where have all the good men gone?" It translates: "where have all the rich tall handsome men with high social status who would commit to me gone?" Usually, when women refer to "men" in any romantic sense, they're referring to the "real" men ie the top 20%. Betas are invisible and don't count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/15 05:26 PM |
| 15 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)This post fills a long-vacant space in TRP advice. I'm not a minority myself but I'd always thought TRP hadn't really come up with a better solution to the very real issue of minorities, especially Indians/Asians having a harder time in the SMP. As you said, TRP at large even our mods and ECs either lack the experience to help or are frankly uninterested in helping. This always bothered me. We're about honest answers and hard truths but no one seemed willing to admit that TRP for a long time did… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Looks are everythingF9R, thank you for a surprisingly constructive post. Usually the "looks matter" type of posts devolve into little more than "if you're not tall, white, and handsome, you should probably kill yourself" circlejerks, but this one handled it beautifully. Looks do matter, and things like facial structure and height are really important, but it's not worth addressing because that can't be changed. What does matter is that if you're a fatass with a bad haircut and bad fashion, you're gonna be treated w… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Mankind is still primal.Yeah, that line about attraction being non-negotiable contradicts the whole rest of the post, which was saying that game>looks. But that last sentence implies that good looks will always trump good game in less attractive guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 04:56 PM |
| 29 | Extreme High Social Value: Living in "Abundance"This is sidebar-quality material. Just when I think I've read all there is to read on this sub, someone like you comes along and offers up some more gold. This is why I love this sub. There is enough to go around. Whatever I choose to look for, I will eventually find. Because the world is abundant, the outcome I desire doesn’t need to come immediately. These three points in particular hit home for me. Much has been said about the need for abundance mentality but little about how to truly develop… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 04:52 AM |
| 0 | If feminism is about equality, why have feminists done NOTHING about the plight of the incel?something tells me you would be extremely overbearing and hostile in a relationship given your views on women and feminism. maybe that's why you cant get laid. Ah, the classic feminist "sexual just world" fallacy in action. It's not that people are bitter and frustrated because they can't get sex, they can't get sex because they're frustrated and bitter and must be assholes! To the vast majority of women, the concept of not knowing if you're ever going to have sex again, not just with someone yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?Unless you're from Scandinavia where most men are 6+ feet tall, 5'10" is entirely average. If your partner being "only" average height is something you have to look past, that's saying something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think?So would you be OK with men rejecting fat women for their "wrong proportions" too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 01:32 AM |
| 146 | Post-wall women tells the truth, that you become invisible after 50.Something similar happens to a degree when you find a boyfriend. Suddenly you are no longer the heart of the party, people don't line up to talk and drink with you and you realise you aren't witty, fun, interesting but people simply want to get with you. It gets you into bitterness at first and many women hop off the relationship looking for that fun again but it's possible to achieve even when you are taken if you are fun. I wish I could upvote this more. We talk about how feminism and the medi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Are there any men who simply can never become "alpha"? What does TRP advise for these men?Thank you for bringing this up, OP. Although most TRPers would admit that genetics do play a big factor in how easily you'll find sexual success, the general consensus is that anybody who reads the sidebar, practices game, and lifts will get laid without much difficulty. I haven't seen many of them openly admit that there might be guys who just are never going to have an easy time getting women. Can't say I blame the TRP Endorsed Contributors for remaining quiet about it. Admitting TRP might not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/15 02:59 AM |
| 38 | Guy finds out that his girlfriend settled for him because Chad wouldn't commit to her, gets RP advice from his (female) cousin, decides to kick his girlfriend to the curb.If you DO get kicked to the curb, don't get angry or frustrated - simply realize that you had your fun with this rental and now it's time to turn it over to someone else. You still got to fuck her brains out - that's all the next guy is going to do too. Regardless as long as YOU get your fun/money's worth out of her, why be frustrated when it's time to turn her over to someone else? That's perhaps the most mature way to look at a woman moving on to someone new that I've ever seen. Yeah, it can s… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 05:51 AM |
| 26 | Peak HypergamySadly, this is by far the most plausible outcome. We're already seeing articles in praise of cuckoldry. How soon will it be till there are feminists at huffpost or slate telling gullible beta losers that it's their feminist duty to remain incel and let all the women fuck Chads, and that they should revel in their position as invisible, disposable beings who are at best the backup plan for a wall-hitting carousel veteran? Right now, the narrative is that "nice guys win in the end." It's getting h… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 12:59 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion]- Which subreddits best illuminate the principles/demographics/ or examples of TRP?Because every man can just become Peter Dinklage by next Tuesday. This made me chuckle. Seriously, even a lot of 6'2" jacked guys with the face of a model aren't gonna achieve Peter fucking Dinklage levels of awesomeness overnight. On that note, there is a grain of valuable truth in that. Being famous and well-liked does seem to make up for just about any physical shortcoming (pun intended) one may have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | [Discussion]- Which subreddits best illuminate the principles/demographics/ or examples of TRP?/r/relationships is an obligatory mention. Most of the examples TRP takes from reddit are from that sub. I'll second /r/short too, aside from the already mentioned tendencies to obsess over isms and changing society. If you ever want to see the "sexual just world fallacy" disproven, look no further. Modern feminists and lots of clueless people in general push this idea that being a good human being is all you really need to be successful in sex and relationships, and only bitter assholes and fak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/15 11:29 PM |
| 35 | Coontown banned in new ambiguous Reddit policy for "existing solely to annoy other redditors."This sub is about facing reality. The reality is that reddit is a company. You can't blame a company for trying to make money, or rather you can but it won't do a damn thing. And that's what I love about this place. Most other subs would bitch and moan about the oncoming wave of censorship. We'll post about it just to alert the other members about our sub, but the collective reaction is largely one of, "alright, this is gonna happen at some point, so we've prepared for it, therefore it shouldn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 12:09 AM |
| 89 | Coontown banned in new ambiguous Reddit policy for "existing solely to annoy other redditors."Today, in addition to applying Quarantines, we are banning a handful of communities that exist solely to annoy other redditors, prevent us from improving Reddit, and generally make Reddit worse for everyone else. As is so often, the real takeaway from anything can be boiled down to one sentence. It's about making reddit more profitable. To get their advertising dollars, the good people reddit can't have all these "hate" subs kicking around. Never mind most of them mind their own fucking business… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | "The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Attraction"I get the points system. What I didn't understand was why tats gets +15 and being overweight is -10. How'd you come up with those values? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | "The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Attraction"Fascinating post. You bring up a point that few have touched on: that every woman has a high and low cutoff for alpha and beta, and beyond that undesirable and unobtainable. There may be objectively more beta or alpha traits, but where each woman places you is relative to her own SMV (or more precisely), her perception of it . Your numbers based rating system seems pretty arbitrary though. Is there any scientific or even anecdotal basis for the values you assign each trait? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 10:56 PM |
| 16 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Yup. From Vice no less. Guess who's side they took. God that place has gone to shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Just ask her if she's hoping to marry a 35 year old virgin and measure her response. Ding ding ding. We have a winner. When a woman hears "35 year old virgin" applied to guy, she's definitely not imagining Tim Tebow. What she does imagine is almost certainly anything but the type of guy who would give her tingles. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Party is OverNone of that surprises me, aside from perhaps the amount of military vets you say there are. White 20 somethings is reddit's demographic overall. As long as we're talking TRP stereotypes, how many of them are virgins/sexually frustrated types? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Don't Talk to Me Like a Bitch.If you're a tiny short dude you kinda have to forget about it and ignore it completely. Pretend your shortness doesn't even exist. Precisely. The most successful "really short" guys I knew seem like they would have been completely unaware anyone noticed, therefore their words, body language and outlook reflected a more confident attitude. I feel it'd be better to not even realize shortness is an issue and assume you have as good an opportunity you have as anyone to succeed. In other words, if yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 05:26 AM |
| 15 | Don't Talk to Me Like a Bitch.It doesn't belong here, unless you're discussing solutions for dealing with height specific shit tests. This right here. If there's one thing TRP has been a bit short on (pun intended), it's real advice for how to maximize your SMV and succeed as an ethnic minority or short dude. I hate the "I'm Indian/Short therefore I'm fucked" posts as much as anyone, but "stop bitching about it" from a chorus of generally white, tall guys isn't terribly constructive either. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 12:19 AM |
| 5 | RP truth hits main page, default sub, gets 2000+ upvotes, 4x gold. There's a catch.Is there a link to the original thread? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 10:10 PM |
| 2 | You might never get your revengeIt wreaks of subjective victim-ness, in that it can lead us to fail to objectively view our status in the grand scheme of the world. Look at the last part of my post. I clearly stated it's not an excuse to not be your best. I agree that there's another end of the spectrum where men look at any deficiency they might have and use it to give up. Still, I feel like some of the newer/less experienced TRPers are selling and buying this narrative of everyone being able to get the exact same results for… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 03:24 AM |
| 173 | You might never get your revengeGreat post. The hardest pill of all to swallow is that life isn't fair. I think a lot of us here start off swallowing this pseudo-redpill that's little more than glorified PUA. A lot of us here still write this fantasy where it all works out in the end. Yeah, learning that almost everyone in our lives lied to us about how women and human sexual dynamics really work can be devastating, but don't you worry, if you work on your Game and boost your SMV, you'll all be the multimillionaire owner of yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Women Hate Betas Who Don't Give Them Resources/AttentionDude, unless you're from Scandinavia, 5'10" is average. Maybe you're really skinny, but going off height alone you're not "small" at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.ASD feels completely different, it's fun, a test that it feels good to pass, LMD feels bad when it occurs, it tells you the girl isn't that into you. Precisely. The type of LMR you're getting is a big indicator of how badly you give her the tingles. But the trick is not to freak out and lose frame, but rather tweak your game accordingly. Before now I'd been burnt pretty badly by that one. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.Pop tarts? A sudden Game-of-Thrones style mass killing? I welcome her into my chamber. "Let the feast begin!" I declare. "Let the pipe be shared and new alliances forged." The servants bring in the poptarts, the traditional dish of my royal house, and the merriment begins. She pulls me closer, gazing into my eyes. She whispers in my ears, "the Lannisters send their regards," and stabs me in the stomach. And as you point out, REALLY not caring if she fucks you, but being the guy should really wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.I think recreational use of drugs might be one of the highest correlating factors to determine how easy a chick is out there. I have never in my entire life met a single female of any race or culture who engaged in drug use who wasn't an overt slut. So true. In fact, one of the reasons I knew she'd put out is because she was into weed. You'll never meet a chaste girl who's into drugs. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.I'll probably get downvoted for this post. You're advice maybe good for some people starting out. But man it's way to general. I wasn't aiming this FR at the guys who already have 25 plates and are bona fide game masters. More at the ones like myself who are working out the rough spots still. On the flip side, I have had it where I was fighting and fighting and then it got to me that I was OVERQUALIFIED. I would then stop to have conversation and get to know a girl and be a little vulnerable and… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.As a rule of thumb I'd agree. But in this case it didn't prevent us from fucking. Like I said, if you're doing it from a place of inferiority or supplication its wrong, but if it's from a position of respect and you hold frame it's different. Besides, it was clear I was in the wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.I agree with all your points. I'd add that being truly outcome independent and not giving a fuck if she fucks you or not is essential too. That was the part I had been missing up until now. I'm convinced they can smell how badly you want something, no matter how strong your frame is. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 04:54 PM |
| 10 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.Good point. Completely agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Anti-Slut Defense isn't about not wanting to be a slut. ASD is their way of making sure you're worth showing her slutty side to.yawn Funny, usually when I find someone else's FR to not contain any useful information for me I simply refrain from commenting and upvoting it. This is how girls act in Mexico. You're not a smooth talking gringo. Ok buddy. Basically what I get out of this is that you don't want to offer anything really constructive, just that you want the internet to know you've fucked girls in Mexico. I actually have fucked a couple other girls from Mexico, and dated a few more. I don't know what your experien… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 04:16 PM |
| 19 | Interesting conversation with my 87 year old grandfather about working women, and why they will never be satisfied.Hate to say it, but I completely agree. I've been working retail for a while. First couple jobs were in smaller stores run by fat useless hags, with most of the sub managers also being women. Finally switched to a large home improvement store where the managers and almost all the department heads are dudes. Really has made a night and day difference and a believer out of me. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 09:09 PM |
| 3 | RE: The new 'Thread Format Requirements*'Seems to me like there's been a noticeable rise in the quality of posts since the new formatting were implemented. Do they make some posts a bit clunky? Sure. But if whatever you have to say is worth reading and you understand basic English spelling and grammar it shouldn't be a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 08:42 PM |
| 22 | A Surprising Look into The Filthy Nature of the Female Sexual psycheYeah, women like being dominated, a lot. It's half the reason for feminism, they're scared, they shouldn't want to be a dominated, but they want it so bad. But only from alpha Chads. The whole point of creep shaming and "we don't owe you sex, pig!" is to scare off the betas/undesirable men. They still love getting railed by the alphas with good looks and game who see through it. Feminism is a shit test. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 08:05 PM |
| 2 | For all men with high standards and little experience, try to date women you don't like.The fucking bravado of this sub is hilarious sometimes. Show me any guy with a notch count well into the double digits, even dudes who are always with beautiful women, and I'll show you someone who probably fucked at at least a few chubbies and butterfaces. In fact, he probably took them whenever possible, in addition to his regular diet of 7 and 8s. Even the best have dry spells they gotta get out of somehow. Yeah, most people will draw the line at 4s and below, but does any man really think ja… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | For all men with high standards and little experience, try to date women you don't like.You beat me to it dude! I was gonna use that analogy. To expand on what you said, 5s and 6s are like the level 1 rats in the dungeon that you kill to gain experience at the start of the game so that you can eventually take on the bigger creatures. Sure, it might be lame, but you know it's just a start. But just like in a videogame, eventually killing the lv1 creatures is pointless because it no longer gives you much experience. You need to start fighting the big monsters to continue leveling up.… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 03:07 PM |
| 5 | For all men with high standards and little experience, try to date women you don't like.You aren't getting an accurate picture portraying alpha, you're just getting an accurate picture of what a 4 will do for an 8. I mean, if any woman you're seeing does things for you, it's because she perceives your SMV to be higher than you. It's the same principle even if she happens to be a model. If she's bending over backwards to keep you, it's because in her mind you have higher value and could walk away easier. I'll admit I plated a chubby girl for a bit during a dry spell. Never gave me s… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Is the Minimum Looks Threshold Higher than Ever Before?Fat cows act like they were hot shit and they even get through with it. And for that, we have no one to blame but ourselves as men. We've happily let ourselves as a whole become thirsty and settle for whatever scraps we're thrown. Small wonder fatties think they're the shit and get guys out of their league. It's because we've shown them it's true. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 09:12 PM |
| 1 | AWALT and the data shows it. Over half of the women on Tinder are in a relationship, 4 out of 10 marriedWell some of the original first-wavers were pro-life and actually pretty reasonable, but I'd agree. There's always someone who will ask themselves "well if I got them to give me that, what else can I get?"\ I think the other part is that once you start a "rights" or "equality" movement, it never goes away, no matter how much has been achieved. As long as there's women who convinced they're oppressed, feminism will exist in some way or form. That's why now it's devolved into little more than a mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 03:18 AM |
| 1 | AWALT and the data shows it. Over half of the women on Tinder are in a relationship, 4 out of 10 marriedHard to say. I'm not a historian. I'd allow that perhaps some farsighted individual first wave feminists had that goal. But I think for the most part it was a sincere movement for equal rights. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 02:48 AM |
| 37 | AWALT and the data shows it. Over half of the women on Tinder are in a relationship, 4 out of 10 marriedThis is the correct response. Modern feminism is at it's core a movement to make the beta male obsolete and eliminate the last vestiges of female dependence on beta bucks, so as to assure all women only mate with the best genetic material. With welfare, alimony and child support laws what they are, the need to remain loyal to a beta provider for survival is gone. Or more to the point, the need to have sex with icky betas to secure their resources is gone. The goal is that all women, the ugly, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 09:59 PM |
| 0 | Game over without good looks?You won't get the top shelf of the top shelf without them Of course. Looks probably limit the quality of women you can get more than the quantity. But I'd argue most men, myself included, would be perfectly content knowing they have the ability to constantly pull girls in the above average department, that is 6-8 range. Under those circumstances, most of us would probably be ok if we still couldn't reach the 9's and 10's all the time. I'd argue that if you dress like a pro, aren't fat, take care… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Game over without good looks?Great post. This is exactly the content we've been missing in the "looks vs game" debate. There's been a slew of recent posts coming down on the side of looks above all else. But they usually go no further than "stop hamstering, of course looks are the most important part!" As if that's supposed to help any of us who aren't 6'+ or blessed with an 8/10 face. Should we just curl up in a ball and give up? This post provides the part that's been missing: the "now what." Yes, looks matter a ton, but … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Game over without good looks?Great post. This is exactly the content we've been missing on the "looks vs game" debate. Most of us will acknowledge that of course it's better to be born with good looks than be average or ugly and have to learn game. Good looking people can always learn game too, they say. That being said, there's been a ton of recent posts here arguing about how looks matter more than game, but they never go deeper than just telling those who think otherwise that they're full of shit. What are those of us wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 12:13 AM |
| 5 | The depth of emasculation on a wedding day.Sure, but his point is that lots of guys "know" they could get some pussy at any time... Until they need to I was referring to the guys who know they could get pussy at any time from experience. That is to say, they could step away from women altogether for months, still come back, and in a few weeks be banging someone new. I agree, this is the ideal to strive for, not the reality most of us live in, certainly not me. Even a lot of guys with a fair amount of experience under their belts will dea… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 06:38 AM |
| 8 | "The Dad Bod" - Don't you fucking dare buy into itThe major problem with the FAM, is the assumption that fat women have better personalities. Honestly, most of the fat girls I've known have shittier than average personalities. They get this "fattitude" where they have to be the loudest, most obnoxious one in the group all the time to compensate. Kind of like the equivalent of the storied Napoleon Complex in short males. And if they're still not attracting men, then they just become coarse and bitter and try to drag down and cockblock their hott… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 06:17 AM |
| 33 | The depth of emasculation on a wedding day.If you aren't getting texted by at least 2 women with "what are you up to right now?" at 1am every week, you're not. I mean, that's a little bit of an arbitrary standard, especially for those guys who aren't trying to be with multiple chicks at once. Are you automatically "beta" because you don't have at least a couple chicks regularly dropping heavy hints they want you D at any given moment? I think the real sign of being alpha in any scenario is being able to get exactly what you want exactly … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Woman suggests to her husband that they get a sperm donor because he's short.Name calling? Nice brah. And please tell me why "manlet" is relevant to him being beta? Don't play stupid. The poster was of the mindset that the husband being short was yet another defect or evidence of his beta-ness. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Woman suggests to her husband that they get a sperm donor because he's short.On the plus side for this whiny beta manlet Really dude? What does him being short have to do with him being beta? Yes, he's beta, but you're associating that with his height, or at least assuming his shortness makes him and even more pathetic. You're almost as dumb as the people upvoting you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Don't use Tinder because you have to, use it because you can.I found it helped get the girl's train of thought moving towards "I'm meeting this guy" and not "I'm sucking up this guys validation". And on that we can completely agree, three message rule or not. One of my biggest problems is that I'd drag things out, or I'd let things drop with girls who had initally responded well because I was already seeing 2 or 3 already. Getting complacent with what you have can be its own trap. The one thing I did right was immediately steer things in a sexual directio… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Don't use Tinder because you have to, use it because you can.Always start setting up the date no later then the third message. I'll absolutely agree about cutting down on time spent in between messages. In fact, if you drag it out you're almost certainly putting in the "validation provider" box of guys she just likes getting messages from. You're right: I've noticed that usually my best successes were with people I kept messaging to a minimum. However, I'm going to beg to differ that the date should always be set up no later than the third message. Not to… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 02:54 PM |
| 10 | Don't use Tinder because you have to, use it because you can.Good post. Tinder definitely has its limitations. I'd argue that sometimes Tinder is a time saver if you're tight on cash, don't live near bars or clubs or other good spots to meet women, or you simply can't be fucked to spend hours and hours out hoping to meet someone. I downloaded Tinder a few months after a breakup to bust my slump. I wasn't expecting the highest quality, and I didn't get it. What I did get was girls to bust my slump and boost my confidence. If you're looking to just rack up … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Stop crying. Stop complaining. Start doing.Precisely. I'm all against tone policing and concern trolling, but if you need to deride anyone as a "little bitch" or "faggot" on an anynymous internet forum, your self-condifence is probably pretty low. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysThanks man. I disagree though. I have introspection and people to talk to. If that's all I needed I wouldn't be here. Maybe I don't need a professional for anything more than getting some better solutions to cope. But as it is I just can't be having these lows. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysShe doesn't need to be comfortable at this stage, she needs to tingle with excitements and uncertainties for months. That "relaxation" into honest Joe-ordinary that you did, it usually backfires, especially when she's testing you to see how big your balls really are. Bingo. And I slipped up there. I had solid frame for the first month or so, but I got complacent. I was just sick of being on my guard all the time. I wanted relief. But I let it down too soon. If I had just played off and said "sur… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysVery bad scarcity mentality. If you feel this way about a chick you haven't slept with, distance yourself immediately. Thank you for the honest feedback. That's why I love this sub. I agree. My default setting has been scarcity, even when there's not. I finally decided I'm going to get help, which is a big step beause I fought a lot of loved ones about it before finally deciding yes. I think what finally clicked is that I have control. Over a lot of things. I've always been an excuse-finder. Thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysHey man, you know how many times I've come back from a dreary day feeling a bit better when I remember I left half a bacon cheddar burger from last night in my fridge for dinner? I'm under no pretense that I am where I aim to be. But I've got a plate who I find at least attractive enough to fuck and does it with enthusiasm and doesn't give me any shit. And I'll be able to leave her in this country knowing I'm not going to get attached to her because I only ever viewed her as temporary at best. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysIf a girl not wanting to sleep with you affects you like this, you need to grow. Hey dude, thanks for some honest feedback. Yes, I'm doing ok. I bounced back quickly, which in itself frightened me. I've decided to get some help, which was a big step for me. I've been stubbornly refusing it for about a year. Right now the plan is use summer as a brief monk mode, not unlike what you're saying. Even before all this blew over I had a whole list of stuff I wanted to do this summer. I could easily occ… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysThe more desirable the girl (relative her SMV to yours), and the further along you make it, the thicker the shit tests will come. Up until an inflection point. Precisely. There's a reason why we say "try to get the hottest girl you can handle." Not only do hot girls bring tougher and more numerous shit tests, but you're more likely to break eventually because you want her more. The chubby 6 I'm seeing may not be a knockout looks wise, but her shit tests are easy to deal with on the rare occasion… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysWasting my money on the public transportation to see her. Not sinking loads of cash into dinners and presents hoping for sex one day. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysEpilogue: I hit up my chubby plate who I haven't seen in a while. Glad I had the brains not to drop her completely. Of course, she was ecstatic that I was talking to her again. She's going out of town for a business trip for a few days, but she's telling her family she'll be gone for "one day more" than she really is, and she'll actually be spending the night with me. We're renting a hotel room, buying a bottle of wine, watching something on TV, fucking, sleeping, waking up, then fucking some mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 10:55 PM |
| -1 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysWhich is why I didn't delete mine. But she's not from the US. Girls are a little more protected in this country, and Tinder's so popular that at this point girls use it for all sorts of things. Many for hookups, some for validation, and some for actual dates. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewI think that when the OP of the original thread said you should be insulted when you get friendzoned, it was aimed at the betas and newbies who have been conditioned that the friendzone is a good thing. It's not to encourage them to be bitter. But it's to wake people up to the fact that getting friendzoned is a girl telling you you're not worth having sex with and she only sees you as a validation machine. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:01 PM |
| 12 | My take on "looks don't matter" statementsI think "looks aren't everything" would be a fairer assessment than "looks don't matter." Yeah, having enough money or status or even genuine confidence and game can make up for a lot. And you'll see plenty of stories of ugly or plain dudes with great game or high status pulling women left and right. But in most situations, it's looks that get you through the door. The status and charm is the icing on the cake. When women say "looks don't matter," it's the same as when they say "muscles don't ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:44 AM |
| 1 | English sucks.I don't know if I'd go as far as what you're saying OP, but I can confirm that language can and does change how you come across and even how you think. Currently studying in a Spanish-speaking country. It's been a huge game-changer for me. Literally. I'll admit perhaps because Spanish isn't my first language that maybe I'm just forced to speak slower, clearer, and less. I can still express myself fine, but I have to choose my words more carefully. In English I can be a chatterbox some times. But… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 01:04 PM |
| 11 | As a short man with a small penis I can tell you just how shallow women areOk first off, if you're American, 5'8" is only an inch or two below the national average. Secondly, 5 inches is maybe half an inch or an inch at most below the average. There are even stories here of guys much shorter than you and/or with much smaller penises getting laid. Hell, I'm 5'4" and I'm not heavily endowed and I'm doing ok at the moment. If this isn't a troll post, you're clearly doing something else wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 03:35 PM |
| 18 | A Cheating Ex Girlfriend Gets Response She Deserves. (6 Photos)The only correct response. Responding to them, no matter how good your frame, is still giving them the drama and attention they so crave. Even if she wasn't getting the answers she wanted, this girl was still getting something out of "Sean" replying to her. | /r/MGTOW | 31/03/15 06:47 PM |
| 0 | How would you prefer women turn you down?Does it really matter whether she sweetens up her rejection or shuts you down hard? The only rejection I can't stand is when they beat around the bush or pretend to be interested and exchange numbers, only to disappear the next day. We're redpillers, dammit. We of all people shouldn't be expecting them to cater their rejections to our feelings. A rejection is information. It tells you your approach or SMV wasn't good enough. And you can use it to improve. Every "I'm sorry," every disgusted look,… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 03:58 AM |
| 9 | This Feminist Article Is One Giant Shit TestWhen is "you're not entitled to sex" ever directed at non-beta males? The dark undertone of it all is "shut up, you beta. We're obviously not physically attracted to you. Be lucky we might consider you as a provider after we're done fucking Chad." | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/15 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Hypocrisy of feminismIf she's not into you, she'll react negatively. If she is, she won't care about the creepy gesture. What exactly do you have in mind? I beg to differ. I think having a beta moment won't kill you if she's already into you, but doing something truly creepy (no quotation marks) might be enough to scare her off. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Sometimes, you learn more from a fuckup than a success. Successes only show what you're doing right. Fuckups reveal what you still need to work on. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:58 AM |
| 9 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.What's the shame in an escort? Just because they're paid doesn't mean they don't necessarily want to do it with you. You'll be sleeping with someone who's job it is to please you. I'm not trying to push you here, I think if anything you'd actually feel better. Losing your virginity to an escort is still losing your virginity. You'll learn sex isn't scary, it's not a big deal, and when someone you want to be with comes along, you can now truthfully say you're not a virgin. No shame in it. If anyt… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 05:50 AM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Yeah I gotcha man! Absolutely right. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 01:03 AM |
| 4 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Early 20s. I'd rather not give my age over the internet. I'm sure you understand. At least not on such a doxxable target as TRP. Are you actually still a virgin? I'd honestly just see an escort and get it over with. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 01:02 AM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Seriously. Don't understand why everyone thinks this sub is full of bitter misogynists. Yeah, we might not consider women to be princesses, and our ways of showing other men this might be considered harsh, but that's because it's the only way to get it through. TRP is just the radical notion that women are human beings. But contrary to that EMSK post, I don't feel dead inside since swallowing TRP. I feel more alive than ever. Four years ago, I was convinced that as a man, you were either one of … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:44 PM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Good for you man. That's the kind of thing that either completely destroys you or makes you into the man you are today... after you've been completely destroyed. My breakup wasn't as bad as that but it still ripped my heart out. For a while I was depressed, even bitter about it. Today I look back and thank my ex for what she did. If it weren't for her, I wouldn't have found the strength to reach for something better than what I had. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Yep and I was monk mode for 2 years after my first girlfriend dumped me as my father was dying. Damn. I've accepted that you can't show weakness in front of a woman, but that's especially cold. I think a lot of women would make an exception for that situation, or at the very least have the tact to put up with your weakness in silence while you mourn. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it."after I get this car, after I get my six pack, after I have a house, then I'll feel worthy enough to date". And all that stuff is good and definitely helps you. And there are some guys who would probably benefit from taking some time in monk mode to get their shit together, but those are mostly the perpetually unemployed guys still living in their mom's basement in their late 20s and 30s playing League of Legends. It's for the incels who have truly been at the bottom of the totem pole for years… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:16 PM |
| 17 | Hypocrisy of feminismMen should compliment women article: "You probably thought you’d meet a guy at a bar and that he’d ask for your number." "They’ll make eye contact with you in the bar, but never come over." "They’ll say a girl is hot, but never hit on her." That's because feminists are not and never have been against all men complimenting her, just the low-status ones. That's really what all the calling men or certain behaviors "creepy" is about. Sure, it's possible to cross a line, but a lot of what is "creepy"… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 10:10 PM |
| 3 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Good luck, my friend! That's awesome. I think a lot of my neediness came from her being my first girlfriend and being a bit late to the dating game. I had a bad inferiority complex and though and I wouldn't find anyone else if we broke up because no one else would want me. Not to mention the oneitis you get when it's your first girlfriend and think she'll be "the one" for sure. This year, I finally decided to deal with all that by getting a network of plates up and spinning. Kinda hard to be ins… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 09:51 PM |
| 4 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.She was really surprised and didn't believe me at first lol. She said "But that was great, you mean it's going to get better?" With a huge smile on her face. Yep. Not fucking her like a typical virgin probably saved your ass there. That's what I and /u/knitro were talking about: that my ex probably didn't believe me deep down cuz I faked it good enough and because she really wanted to believe I was Mr. Smooth. The hamster is powerful. They might know what you're saying is true but that doesn't m… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 09:30 PM |
| 4 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Yep, and she probably swung back extra hard because despite you being honest, you deceived her by not being what she thought you were. You're right. When she turned, she turned hard. Within a month it was like a night and day difference from what she had been like during the summer. If there's one thing women hate, it's feeling deceived. Makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint; better to take real alpha sperm than be inseminated by someone only appearing to be one. Your children would have a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 09:01 PM |
| 4 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.After I fucked her for about 30 minutes (no lie, I always thought I'd bust fast) and just rolled over and said "Well, I "was" a virgin". Look on her face was priceless lol. She didn't bail. If you're already pre-selected or had many opportunities, they won't care. You're high value regardless of notch count. That's pretty funny! The "well, I 'was' a virgin" part is perfect. The fact you didn't bust your nut in the first few minutes like many do their first time probably helped you a ton. I'm act… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 08:56 PM |
| 3 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.My guess is it was a combination of her not really believing you/her wanting to hook up with you, so even if you gave her pause it wasn't enough to change her mind. Girls don't want to sleep with a guy no one else does, and it makes sense. The same way trp says to says things like tattoos, brightly-dyed hair or lots of travelling as slut tells, for girls an inexperienced or awkward guy sets off danger alarms in her head (fairly or not), as something is 'not right' with you that to this point you… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 08:48 PM |
| 10 | FR: for those without a lot of sex/dating experience, solipsism can help you create dread game and imply status. Always fake it till you make it.Well-put. Conversely, I can understand why women have so little sympathy for incels and betas when it comes to their sexual struggles, and why they find them repulsive. Look at how easy I can get sex from dudes! Surely it must not be that hard to get sex as a man either! Any guy who can't get sex must be a true fuckup or a complete creep. Ewww! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Couples Reveal How Many People They've Had Sex With To Each Other (video)Thanks! That means a lot to me. I wouldn't usually do this, just made a thread expanding upon this topic, because I thought it deserved a more in-depth discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 07:04 PM |
| 8 | Couples Reveal How Many People They've Had Sex With To Each Other (video)This is entirely true. However, this can actually work in your favor by creating dread. When I met my first GF, I was still a kissless virgin. But because I unintentionally came across as really smooth and high-status, she told me that she was amazed I had still been a virgin up till that point, and that I probably could have gotten sex if I wanted. Her words. It turned out she had quite the sexual past, but because that had been her experience as a girl, she assumed that for someone she conside… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Couples Reveal How Many People They've Had Sex With To Each Other (video)Right. They only see the "real" men (the top 20%), who are actually pretty successful with woman due to their high status, and assume all men are players and can get sex like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 04:17 PM |
| 6 | This thread makes me so sick. Sexless marriage, cheating, hamstering, rape, threatening suicide, AF/BB...this story has it all.So true. Today's culture makes it seem that if you're a woman, it's mandatory for you to have as much sex in college and high school as humanly possible. Gotta "get to know yourself" and "not take life too seriously" before finally settling down with "Mr. Right." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Is being "good at sex" overrated?I mean, I think good sex is good sex. In my last LTR I became pretty beta, but I never hesitated to fuck her well, and she said as much. The one thing I consistently did right in that relationship was be alpha in the sheets, and up until our breakup we were having good sex. Obviously it wasn't enough to save the relationship, but it might have kept it from falling apart earlier. That being said, I agree that if you're generally alpha, you have a better chance of getting away with mediocre sex. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Making Up For Missing OutI agree. I'm now a reluctant member of the opposed to marriage crowd, not a full-blown partisan. I still think marriage is the building block of society and we will be fucked as it collapses, but... the institution of marriage has been turned into something that no longer benefits men. And that's just it: I know our society needs marriage. But humans are selfish creatures. It's hart to conceive of the good of something abstract like society. But I can easily think of what's good for me. It's sel… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 09:58 PM |
| 21 | Making Up For Missing OutMan, I can't be the only one who read that title and thought it was gonna be another post by that one user (and his 10 alts) about making up for not having had a super awesome sex life in high school and college. What a relief! Great read. Wasn't fully aware of this "reverse carousel" phenomenon where women who were good girls and married their nice guy early suddenly freak out and decide they need to experience Alpha cock before their looks are so faded they can't get even a scrap of it. Gotta … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Is being "good at sex" overrated?OP mentioned the study that says women's orgasms are better with higher-status men. I'm sure there's something to it; status and good looks probably produce a halo effect on how she remembers your sex, even if you were an objectively mediocre lay. Micro FR: I recently broke a slump and even though it seemed obvious to me I was a bit rusty and was even phoning it in a bit; the girl seemed to genuinely eat it up. Maybe had something to do with me being a foreigner (read: status and "excitement") a… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Is it me, or is there too much system-building in TheRedPill/manosphere?The fanboyish/cult of personality around some posters is really troubling. Nailed it. It seems like every week, at least 2-3 of the top posts are by endorsed contributors or mods. Often useful and insightful, but I've seen some of these guys just post absolute drivel and still get upvoted to the top based of the badge by their username. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?Sure. And I think the sympathy women used to get when they complained about where the "good men" are has dried up. But do you honestly don't think the feminists won't do all they can to make this illegal? It would be too much of a good thing to let betas freely enjoy it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?There are millions of incel betas out there that will never convince a woman to fuck them because they want to. Try and fail, try and fail. So, faced with the choice of VR sex or incel, they're gonna choose the former. Sure. VR sex might not be "real," but it would ultimately be less expensive and "safer" than the real thing. And that's the appeal of military shooter, racing, and flight simulator video games. You can be a Navy SEAL, racecar driver, or pilot for a few hours and still get back to … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Simulated Sex - Will It Spell The End of Beta Bux for Post Wall Women?I don't think it will spell the end of anything. First, even if you could make a robot or computer simulation that was just like a real woman in every way, it's still not a living being that decided to have sex with you because it wants to. It's the same reason some of us won't consider prostitution. There's just nothing like convincing a real woman to have sex with you just because she's attracted to you. Even the thirstiest betas know it deep down. Secondly, even if this weren't true, look at … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma with seeing multiple peopleLike I said, I haven't said much more than "I like you" or "you're cute" to them. And I'm prepared to let them fall. I'll be severing contact with all of them, no matter what, when I return home. But still, I guess even now after having been unplugged for a year, I get pangs of guilt because I already know I'm probably at least going to break a heart or two. Second girl is pretty in to me. I guess the way I look at it is that women spin plates all the time in the form of beta orbiters, extractin… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma with seeing multiple peopleThanks. I'm a foreigner, which probably automatically puts me into their "guy I seek for good times" category. And good times I'll provide as long as they want. If they're assuming exclusivity, then is that really my fault? I haven't said anything to them. It's not like I've written them love letters or anything to suggest it. Plus, I'm kinda curious to see how they'd react if I hold my ground on not being exclusive. If I present myself as nothing more than the "good times guy" then maybe they'l… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 06:22 PM |
| 12 | Ten ways to make yourself more physically attractiveExcellent post. Great motivation to all of us (myself included) to STFU about any perceived physical disadvantages we were born with and get off our asses. Makes you realize just how much of your appearance is under your control (and how so many average chumps don't give a fuck about it). The best part is that this applies to anyone. Short, balding, ugly, "ethnic." All 10 points are things you can completely control. Unless you're a clinical dwarf or deformed or something, you have no excuses. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 9 | Be socialI think this is good advice for people coming out of their shells and people who are lazy and make excuses for not going out. But I'd say if you just had a long week at work or you've got a lot of studying ahead, you're not doing yourself any favors by going out all the time. Sometimes you might just need a push, but other times you might genuinely be busy, tired, or just in a foul mood, and unlike the gym, where even a halfassed workout can still produce some gains, having a shitty night out is… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Was actually unaware that Indian guys had it so rough.Now for clarification, it sounds like you're a more Americanized Indian guy, having played football and growing up in a white neighborhood. I'm not Indian or east Asian, but my guess is that in the US, those who are more "American" and less fresh off the boat have an easier time with women, all else being equal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingIf you're looking to lose weight, gym and lifting alone aren't going to do it. I see fat guys who go to the gym to become more fit. Usually, they transform from fat guys to slightly less but still fat guys with big muscles. I'd get into running or cycling or some cardiovascular activity if I were you. I took up running in my teens when I was a bit on the chubby side. Within a year I was lean and fit looking. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:34 PM |
| 2 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingYeah OP kinda lost me there too when he calls him a "beta" and then immediately proceeds to describe J's physical appearance, as if that's the main reason why he's beta. Yeah, the guy is beta for sure, but not because of looks, or at least not just because of them. Better hygiene and clothes and some gym time would probably solve most of his physical deficiencies. 5'7" isn't that short. A set of 2" lifts would make him average height. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Is Islamism Red Pill or Blue Pill?Irritation is different from being angrily defensive. No one said it was unique to Islam or Islamism. What is unique or especial to Islamism is the degree to which they desire to control human sexual behavior and the degree to which they'll go to get it. It's not a semantic trick to say there is a very specific violent and influential strain of Islam that exists right now. And before you talk of pedophile priests or whatever, that is not to say violence is unique to Islam. What I don't understan… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 01:27 AM |
| -1 | Is Islamism Red Pill or Blue Pill?I'm not cherrypicking. I'm talking about Islamism, not the whole fucking religion. I made this clear in my first post. I don't think I could possibly be more clear. A large moderate muslim country has 2 female presidents. What does that have to do with ISLAMISM? It would be like trying to derail a conversation about the IRA by talking about how not all Catholics are like that. We know, and it's not relevant to the discussion. Again, quit being butthurt over this. I wasn't critiquing Islam as a w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 12:20 AM |
| 0 | Is Islamism Red Pill or Blue Pill?It's not. Are all the features I described not a part of Islamism? I'm not referring to tribalism. That's a vaguer, different animal. Tribalism is, most specifically, advocating for a tribe. Islam is not a tribe. Even when taken less literally, it still does not necessarily entail strict punishments for the breaking of established rules or the forcing of outsiders to become part of the tribe. I take it you're Muslim? I'm not critiquing Islam specifically, but if you're on this sub, don't expect … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 12:12 AM |
| -1 | Is Islamism Red Pill or Blue Pill?I'm speaking of Islamism, not so much mainstream Islam. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 12:03 AM |
| -2 | Is Islamism Red Pill or Blue Pill?There are definitely some RP elements in Islam, especially the fundamentalist variety (not saying I admire it at all). But I'm going to go with Islamism as being more BP than RP as a whole. Mate-guarding through religiously sanctioned punishment (including execution) of men and women who break the rules? Check. Threatening death upon anyone who challenges or mocks the faith, and trying to stifle any information that might contradict the dogma? Check. The desire to forcibly convert those who don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 11:32 PM |
| 2 | [PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = BanhammerReally? That's fascinating. I'm assuming you're military yourself? Any idea why this might be? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | [PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = BanhammerAbsolutely. And I figured you didn't mean any topic discussing the difficulties of being "ethnic," short, ugly, etc would be banned on sight. Just wanted to make sure. I think it's a tough line to follow because on the one hand, TRP is about uncomfortable truth, and the uncomfortable truth is that things like height, race, etc. do affect your SMV. And we'd basically be seddit on steroids if all we did is tell guys "cheer up, looks don't matter, just be confident!" At the same time, there definit… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | [PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = BanhammerBeing short is objectively worse; there are no scenarios where you wouldn't be better off being 6'2". I mean, there's always the classic "airplanes amirite?" Also, short men are said to live longer. But as far as dating goes, yeah. There are some short girls that don't want a super tall guy, but "at least taller than me" is the norm. One objective advantage I can think of short guys having is being able to develop muscle faster if they work out. It's easier to be short and ripped. Otherwise I ag… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 09:07 PM |
| 5 | [PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = BanhammerI'm going to play devil's advocate and say I get the short thing. Yeah, being nonwhite, and especially east asian or Indian, might make things harder, but small men are pretty universally seen as less attractive. A tall minority guy might still give off a naturally "dominant" vibe just given his size. And while many girls may unconsciously prefer whiter guys, many will weed out guys shorter than them or even not sufficiently tall without a second thought. Before anyone shits on me, I'm not sayin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 07:25 PM |
| 2 | On living abroad and the experiences you'll haveWell I took 8 or 9 years worth of Spanish classes, but obviously speaking with a bunch of other gringo students and a professor is a lot different than speaking it every day with native speakers. I'd say I'm pretty decent actually. The only hard time is with certain local expressions and figures of speech. Also, some of my more abstract and theoretical classes are a bit difficult, but I'm managing. I've only been here a month and a half and already I'm speaking a lot more confidently and fluidly… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 04:55 PM |
| 6 | On living abroad and the experiences you'll haveI'd say the Mexican women are for the most part more pleasant, attractive, and feminine than the American ones. Even though Mexico is ahead of the US in obesity, I've seen nary a landwhale, tatooed, strangely pierced, short haired, or dyed hair uggo here. Now I'm studying at a private university here, where a lot of middle class and richer students attend. Apparently it is also famous among locals for having lot of beautiful women, which I can attest to. And as with all high-status, attractive w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 04:15 PM |
| 18 | On living abroad and the experiences you'll haveOne of the most RP things you can do is learn another language and put it into practice in a new country. It's one thing to take Spanish or Italian in high school, it's another thing entirely to speak it with real native speakers. I'm currently studying abroad in Mexico City, and while I haven't had OP's crazy adventures (partially due to being busy taking all classes in my major and in Spanish), I can attest to the power of going to a new country for an extended period of time. Let me explain: … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 03:44 PM |
| 3 | An Open Letter to Those “Forever Alone”Humans are still social animals at our core, and we want to avoid being ostracized by society. That's why there are so many natural betas. If you're not the alpha, it often seems to be in our benefit to be peaceful and agreeable. In our animal days, doing something that caused the pack or tribe to isolate you could be fatal. You needed their food and protection. If a guy drops out of the SMP after years of rejection and shunning, he's just doing what he can to protect his interests. In his mind,… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Being short is a good thingYeah, no doubt there's plenty of examples of women being merciless branch swingers. All I'm saying is you're not automatically fucked the moment some Chad shows up. Of course, as a shorter guy, you do have to run airtight game if you want to hold down a high SMV woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Being short is a good thingNow now. I've had the same gripe with TRP for a while. Too much feel good PUA bullshit and not enough truth. And if you ever mention that maybe your genes work against you pretty heavily to the point where you're probably never going to be a master plate-spinner, it's "man up, read the sidebar and don't talk to me again till you're fucking at least 3 bitches at once," as if that's something just any of us could do right away simply by not being a pussy. Truth is, not everyone here is going to be… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Being short is a good thingTrue, but it just so happens that we tend to equate height with status. There's plenty of studies showing taller men make more money than their shorter counterparts. Yeah, a short millionaire celebrity or CEO is going to probably be more successful with women than a tall nobody though. EDIT: why is he getting downvoted? Are we all aboard the "looks are all that matters train today?" Looks matter, but it's debatable whether they outweigh status. This has been said many times here. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Being short is a good thingHamstering would be saying "I actually think being short gives me an advantage in the long run." Never said being short was a positive, simply that short guys tend to work harder to compensate. Yes, compensate. Having a perceived deficiency does motivate one to work harder in other areas. Yes, it's no secret that the handsome, tall, big dicked men of the world have it easier. What the fuck are you going to do if you don't fit in that category? Decide to sit life out because you weren't dealt the… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Being short is a good thingWouldn't say women don't place a premium on looks either. Tall, good looking guys definitely play the game on easy mode when it comes to women. It's not that looks don't factor into maleSMV, it's just that they're only a part. That being said, shortness does detract from one key factor of SMV: dominance. A tall ugly guy can still appear physically "intimidating" and dominant. That's harder for short guys, even handsome, muscular ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Being short is a good thingAll else being equal, the taller man will obviously come out on top in a comparison of SMV Key words "all else being equal." You're right, many tall guys take that extra step and lift and eat right, and the ones that do tend to do very well with women, but many more don't bother with those things. Yeah, if every tall or even average guy decided to learn game, have good hygiene, dress well, and lift, then short guys would be SOL. As it is though, speaking as a short man myself, I definitely notic… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | "10 Women that Christian Men Should Not Marry" - Reads like something straight out of TRPCompletely disagree. We're talking about ancient, pre-scientific cultures here. They might have used myths, but they explained how they got there and made sense of their world. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 01:39 PM |
| 0 | "10 Women that Christian Men Should Not Marry" - Reads like something straight out of TRPYeah, should have clarified I meant the Evangelicals there. Catholics have some... interesting ideas on Mary and the saints though. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 05:59 AM |
| 0 | "10 Women that Christian Men Should Not Marry" - Reads like something straight out of TRPI'm aware. I was referring more to the Evangelicals there. Should have clarified. I guess for the Catholic Church it would be "their views on contraception." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 05:58 AM |
| 10 | "10 Women that Christian Men Should Not Marry" - Reads like something straight out of TRPThe same is probably true for Christians. The vocal minority who are dead-set against gay marriage and evolution grab the most attention. Whether more beneficial or not to society, there's no denying religion has done harm. But what the more hardcore atheists seem to forget is that religion exists for a purpose. At its most basic, to explain the universe and provide a code of morals. But these morals mostly weren't just based off the arbitrary opinions of raving madmen, but rather on the needs o… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 02:00 AM |
| 24 | "10 Women that Christian Men Should Not Marry" - Reads like something straight out of TRPThough I've become more and more distanced from my Catholic background the past 2 years, I feel exactly the same. Yes, religion requires you to accept things your head knows probably aren't true. Yes, it is a tool to restrain Alpha promiscuity. Yes, when feminized, it turns into little more than a force to churn out beta men and validate the feminine imperative. But as many flaws as the church and the Christian faith have, I've grown to respect the sincere evangelical Protestants and Catholics. … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/15 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Looks and height with regards to ONSing and plating decently attractive women.What's your idea of a male 1 or 2? Also, I disagree that "red pill advice won't help guys who are extremely ugly and or short." Even if it can't help them get women, at the very least it will at least give them the knowledge to avoid being a beta provider, so that they can better spend their time and resources on themselves and not get sucked dry by some post wall hag who resents them and only needs them for their money and protection. IMHO that's what makes being a man so great in the end. Yes,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 03:56 AM |
| 58 | The following comment was upvoted to 1000+ in mainstream reddit, gilded x3. Can you spot the subtle redpill?Hell, not all males even deserve anyone in their minds. That's why the "you're not entitled to sex" meme is so prevalent among feminists. It is of course almost exclusively said to low-value betas. In other words, it's a way of saying "shut up while we get railed by alphas and accept that most women don't want to fuck you, creep!" The thing is, they're right. As a man, you're not owed anything. You have to work for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?What I meant to say in the second part wasn't "even though I don't know anyone here yet," but "even if I don't meet any girls here, I love this city and country and know I'm going to have lots of fun." I don't know your level of Spanish so not sure if it really is my grammar or a misunderstanding on your part. Not going to point fingers. Thank you anyways. "Tio" would actually probably be stranger, since that's a Spanish thing for sure. They use "güey" here. I've actually picked up quite a few c… | /r/GEOTRP | 30/01/15 08:00 PM |
| 1 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?Muchas gracias amigo. Te envié un mensaje privado. Aun si yo no conozca a ninguna chica durante mi tiempo aquí, ya me encanta esta cuidad y país y se que voy a divertirme mucho. | /r/GEOTRP | 21/01/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?Hmm, I've never been one for club game. I'm not particularly tall and I don't love the huge crowds. I at least know my game in those settings sucks and the fact that I'm not tall doesn't help, so I usually don't bother. We're not all going to be Casanovas in every setting. What I have heard is that the more European-looking girls and the richer girls are harder to game, regardless of their appearance. I won't say the name of where I'm studying on this thread (we could PM instead), but let's say … | /r/GEOTRP | 21/01/15 05:26 AM |
| 2 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?Thanks, amigo! I have noticed that people are much more sexually forward here than in the states. I've also gotten a lot of "tu acento es chistoso" from girls, but in an endearing way. It seems like lots of people here speak at least some English. Though I actually prefer to speak in Spanish to practice, there's usually at least one person I can talk to in English if need be. I won't write a lot here. I'll just PM you about my more specific questions. But thank you! | /r/GEOTRP | 21/01/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?From my few days here it seems like the women are not only friendlier, but care about their appearance more. You don't see as many short-haired, tattooed, pierced, fat women here. They all seem to be feminine and pretty. I've heard that university dorms don't exist in Mexico the way they do in the US. Most people here seem to commute from home or live in an apartment. Also, I'm living with a family, so I'm worried that hooking up will be difficult logistically. Any tips on how to find somewhere … | /r/GEOTRP | 21/01/15 05:04 AM |
| 1 | [Mexico, DF, Mexico]Mexico City?I'm from the US. I speak pretty decent Spanish, though I don't know if I could hold a deep intellectual conversation in it yet. White? Check. Tall? Not so much. But the average female height here is something like 5'2" so I'm still taller than most of the women here, which is nice for a change. | /r/GEOTRP | 20/01/15 10:09 PM |
| 2 | The Useful LieMany shorter men go to other countries where the average height is not so tall, e.g. The Philippines where the average woman's height is 4'11" or Mexico where the average woman's height is just over 5'. Can confirm; am actually writing this from Mexico (doing a semester abroad) and already the attention from girls seems to be different. It's weird living in a country where the over half the girls are shorter than me for the first time. However, I think perhaps I was doing a bit of self-rejection… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 05:05 AM |
| 11 | The Useful LieAs a 5'4" man, I've always chuckled at the "height doesn't matter" posts. They almost always come from people who aren't short themselves. I am also frustrated/amused by all the "I know this one guy who is like 5'2"-5'5" who always gets laid" comments which are more often than not probably bullshit and the fucker doesn't even exist. And even if he does, how do we know he isn't just scraping the bottom of the barrel and picking out the easiest, ugliest girls to fuck because he knows he can't do b… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 07:47 PM |
| 5 | The best answer to the Slut/Stud debacle.When girls say "it's not as easy as you think to get laid as an average girl" what they really mean is "it's not as easy for me to get laid with the kinds of dudes I'd really want to get laid with as an average girl." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 01:02 AM |
| 6 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesAgreed. I have absolutely no problem with people choosing to sleep with taken women and even defending their actions. Just so long as they take responsibility and don't hamster it. The biggest concern I have is that any challenge or dissent from the status quo of "sleeping with women with SO's is totally fine" will be viewed as bro knighting and be censored. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 07:47 PM |
| 8 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesNothing to debate; you're just bragging about having a plate with a fiancee. If you're happy, good on you. I don't agree with you choice but you're an adult. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 07:38 PM |
| 16 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesPrecisely. I think there are plenty of us here who accepted that sexual strategy is amoral and that TRP takes no moral positions on sex (so long as it is between consenting adults) yet personally disagree. We accept that we cannot "convert" everyone here to our views and aren't interested in doing so, and respect those who live their lives differently. We just want to be part of the discussion. TRP has never pretended to be a democracy, nor should it be, but that shouldn't mean banning anyone wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 06:07 PM |
| 8 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesI made a similar post to yours but deleted it because you summed it up much better. Bro knighting, man shaming, and concern trolling are one thing. But you can accept the basic tenets of TRP and that it doesn't exist to "change the world," and still want there to be thoughtful and serious discussion and disagreement on certain topics among members. For example, the realistic implications of a society where morality is completely divorced from sex should be considered and discussed. Also, it is o… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 10 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)By not advocating for a "traditional society" where hypergamy is punished, you are as much of an enabler as the guys women cheat with. You don't want stricter standards on women but you want men to not take advantage of the relaxed ones that are in place. False on your charges against me and false on your understanding of my position. I do not advocate for a return to female hypergamy being punished by pain of death, but just because I do not take an extreme doesn't mean I don't see the value in… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 06:26 AM |
| 16 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)Robbing a bank is breaking an actual law. You can't moralize following the law. There's no law saying "you can't fuck another man's wife". Any ethics or morals you ascribe to fucking a cheating woman is your own. You don't fall under "adultery" because you're not the committed one, she is. The point isn't that one is a law, and one isn't. Even if it were clear to you that the bank would inevitably be robbed, if you choose to be the one to do it, you must take the responsibility. In that case, be… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:21 AM |
| 11 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)Instead of "policing" her, just have the kind of value and frame that would make her never even think of, let alone want to leave you. Make sure she knows you have options at any time. And barring that, just be prepared to leave immediately if she acts up. If you're policing her, due to fear of cuckoldry real or imagined, then you've already lost. Mate guarding is a sign you're insecure and will only make her more likely to cheat, if she wasn't already. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 04:08 AM |
| 96 | Sexual Strategy Is Amoral/Everything is Permitted (RE: GayLubeOil's cuckolding post)I have no issue with adult men choosing to sleep with married/LTR women. It's your choice and if you're prepared to deal with the potential consequences, fine. What I can't stand is how they'll hamster it away by saying things like "if I didn't fuck her, someone else would have." This may be true. But if you robbed a bank with no guards and the safes were lying open in plain sight, practically begging to be pillaged, see how well "if I didn't, someone else would have robbed it for sure!" would h… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up when there's no obvious place to take her back to?About what? Girls? Sure. My priorities are to better understand Mexican culture and the Spanish language and enjoy a once in a lifetime experience. Not to get laid. But I am curious about what logistical difficulties I might face in that area and how to deal with them. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up when there's no obvious place to take her back to?Fair enough. I've never experienced this before so I'm curious how badly this will tie my hands back. I'll lack a car there, but I'd be down for vehicles and outside if I had 100% confidence I wouldn't get caught or face consequences. EDIT: I obviously have bigger priorities in studying down there than getting laid, which as I stated I'm not willing to jeopardize through any sex that might get me in trouble with my host family, my real family back home, or the law. Or compromise my own physical … | /r/askTRP | 21/12/14 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Tinder GameI don't disagree at all, I guess I'm just wondering how many in person rejections or even just awkward dates where she sizes you up and gets a look on her face that would result in. I can shrug off rejection easily when it's a case of approaching someone random and striking out, but I'll admit I'm not practiced in the art of the "if I'd known how short you were I wouldn't have swiped left" shit test or the art of redeeming a date that starts off on the wrong foot due to false expectations. I'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Tinder GameDuly noted. Thanks for a thoughtful response, OP. So then don't be honest about your height (or better yet, don't disclose that information at all). Let them judge you after meeting you in person. I've thought about doing such. But given that I am noticably short, even with my heel inserts, I'm not sure how well it would work for someone like me. I'd completely agree with you if I were like 5'8" and maybe just in the "not tall" range, but that's not quite the case. Again, no online dating experi… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Tinder GameBut OP!! Then that would mean: If you're a low-value man who uses a kickass Tinder strategy, then you'll get laid. And if you're a high-value Man with no strategy at all, you won't get laid. Yes! Exactly! You need a proven Game strategy in order to reap the benefits of your SMV! OP, I don't disagree with the "looks don't matter if you have no game" part, but every other analysis of Tinder (and basically every dating site/app) I've heard says you need to have pretty decent looks to even get notic… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 06:17 AM |
| 2 | [48 Days of Power] Day 23 - "Concentrate your forces."Well, I just bought off-the-shelf New Balances at a shoe store, but they're fairly wide and tall shoes and fit the 2-2.5 inch adjustable inserts I had bought. The inserts were made in Korea. Not sure what brand. Got them off of Amazon for about $15. The only issue with the inserts, as opposed to elevator shoes, is that I couldn't wear shorts while wearing them in my shoes, as it would be obvious my heels are starting to peek out! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 07:18 PM |
| 5 | [48 Days of Power] Day 23 - "Concentrate your forces."I think this could also apply to playing to your strengths. Of course you should fix your weaknesses, but you'll never be #1 at everything. For example. I'm not tall (5'4"), and while I do add 2 inch heels to raise my height a couple inches, I know it would be futile to waste too much energy and time on fixing it. I'll always be short. But I'm well-built, so I focus on working out and being in great shape. This law could apply to anything. Academically, I sometimes have extremely difficult class… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 05:08 PM |
| 13 | Even the mainstream media is starting to see through the "rape culture" hysteria in wake of the UVA story. ("Should We Always Believe the Victim?" Mark Randazza, CNN.com)Fascinating analysis. I don't disagree with you here. Even the feminists need to maintain credibility sometimes, despite all the free passes they get. And to be fair, many groups tend to not deal with obvious problems in their midst till they have no choice. That's hardly exclusive to feminism. Nevertheless, the fact that they now have to start self-policing and eating their own regarding false rape allegations is a step in the right direction. Again, I won't be overly optimistic, but if even th… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 5 | The exaggerated character of Alpha and Beta stereotypes on here lead many men to believe they are not the beta."All models are wrong. Some are useful." Without a doubt, the whole "alpha/beta" sexual dimorphism discussed on TRP is a drastic oversimplification of human sexual dynamics. I agree with the OP, you can still be "beta" even if you don't do any of the cringeworthy stuff from our "Blue Pill Examples." Furthermore, being a ripped, handsome, confident, rich, 6'2" dudebro doesn't mean you're necessarily "alpha." In fact, I've seen plenty of guys who seem to have all the qualities on paper needed to b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 04:43 AM |
| 2 | The fear of rejection: how do I overcome itI don't know how much of a confidence boost this will be, but seriously dude, you're making $90k a year at age 20. You're probably ahead of 99% of people your age financially. Not to mention college kids your age. I'm not saying that should be your primary or only selling point to others, especially women, but seriously, that's damn impressive. Confidence can be developed, but I'd say you're more than just on the right track. Use the confidence boost this should give you when approaching women. … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Clickbait to AvoidI'd add r/offmychest and r/subredditdrama as well. Clickbaity subs that took me way too long to realize were owned or taken over by the SRS network. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Even the nicest and most innocent seeming girls have a history, don't trust anything they say.Can confirm. Source: dated a Jewish girl of Russian ancestry. Non-religious but family was Reformed I think. Learned after breakup that she had about 50 or so sexual partners prior to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Getting over the Crush a.k.a OneitisI completely agree. That's why I'm here. "Go fuck 10 bitches" isn't bad advice, just lazy. The guys who knew how to do that and could do so easily aren't the ones suffering from oneitis. If this advice is given, it should at least be given out with some direction on how to set about achieving that goal. If people phrased it like you, with the emphasis on pushing yourself to be the guy that can fuck 10 bitches, then I'd wholeheartedly agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/14 09:00 AM |
| 5 | Getting over the Crush a.k.a OneitisExactly. If any guy could just fuck 10 girls after a breakup then I'd go as far as to say that r/theredpill wouldn't exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 03:09 AM |
| 10 | Getting over the Crush a.k.a OneitisYou know, I saw another thread saying that if you were the kind of guy who could just fuck 10 bitches with ease, then you wouldn't have oneitis in the first place. I'm not disagreeing at all, I'm just saying that it's not that simple for the average guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?I think the fact that you're muscular probably helps, but that would be true earrings or not. I'll admit that IMHO I've seen some pierced guys who looked a bit gay, but usually that was because 1) they actually were or 2) some other combination of things. Not just the earring alone. If I were to just get one type of earring to start what would you recommend? Also, may I ask how you usually dress? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?Oh I agree, and have totally taken that into consideration. What if I told you the most I would consider getting just some studs? Something I could easily remove for scenarios that demand it? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?So is that a "don't bother?" I was thinking of just getting studs. Something I could remove in a more formal setting without much trouble if need be. I'd say my "audience" varies, but I'm not around extremely formal people nor heavily tattooed and pierced people most of the time. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?Yeah, I don't want to do gauges. I'd prefer to do something where I could remove my earrings as necessary and no one would notice I had pierced ears unless they looked close. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?Me? Caucasian, 21 years old, brown hair and eyes, muscular. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Ear piercings: yea or nay?Caucasian. And I was thinking just diamond studs. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/14 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Girl Code (s01E07), MTV show where the women tell all RP truth. (watch from 6 min mark for "bad boy" truth)It's because women have spun it so that it looks like the nice guys "win" in the end. Sure, the bad boys get more attention and sex from women in their 20's, but the nice guy marries the girl in the end. I remember believing that just a few years ago because it didn't actually seem like a terrible deal. What they fail to mention is just how many dicks the girl has ridden before Mr. Nice Guy (women rarely disclose their full partner count, especially to prospective BB's), and that women, unlike m… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Guide to Social Circle Game"Cure your oneitis, bro. Go sleep with 10 girls" Seriously? You have oneitis exactly because you have no one to sleep with. The above piece of advice is useless to anyone who isn't already successful. "Cure approach anxiety. Take four girls to the club. Bitches love pre-selection. You'll be drowning in pussy" Again, useless advice. If you already are able to take four girls, you are not looking to cure your approach anxiety. This. I think there's very few guys who can sleep with 10 women in a sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 01:26 AM |
| 0 | Question about a Halloween party...I'm gonna disagree with that. I think TRP can condition men to assume every girl's assault story is a lie. Either way, it doesn't matter. Even assuming that's true it's not worth the risk knowing she'd view sex she regretted as assault. At any rate, I view her as a friend and value the friendship. Plenty of other girls out there. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Question about a Halloween party...She was sexually assaulted by a "friend." I believe her, but even if she made it up all the more reason not to hit it. Either way, I honestly just want her as a friend. Besides, I don't have patience for the "we're not having sex, right?" Shit test. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/14 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Question about a Halloween party...Other than she's my friend and just wants to go to a fun party with me? I think she's over her "fuck for revenge" phase. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/14 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Question about a Halloween party...I don't think she's attracted to me like that. I stressed platonic because I don't see her being FWB and that's OK. Would be fun though because she's a former friend of my ex and we both kinda hate her now. :p | /r/askTRP | 25/10/14 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Question about a Halloween party...I don't think she looks at me as a sexual interest. She actually wanted to make sure I wouldn't try to sleep with her if she stayed. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Question about a Halloween party...In all fairness, I'd probably be a bit upset if she brought one to my place. Mostly because I just wouldn't want guests bringing other guests I didn't invite back to my place to fuck, and neither would my roommates. But if she hooks up with one at the party and gets a room there then none of my business. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/14 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Gym game and dealing situations where she has a friend?Yeah. I like it. That actually reminds me of another post in the TRP main sub that was a parable from LaidNYC. There were different guys in a contest to see who was the most alpha, and one had riches, another intelligence, another muscle, etc. But a guy who had none of those things was the only one to approach the girl. Even though he was rejected, he still won because he had the guts to do that. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/14 04:07 AM |
| 2 | A true test of character is how a man responds to other men's success - with women, careers, and life in generalConversely, there will always be men who are better looking, richer, more successful with women, drive a nicer car, etc than you, albeit not necessarily in the same person. The more you improve, the less there will be, but they never cease to exist. No one "has it all." Nothing tests a man's character like being in the presence of a superior man. Even if you know you don't have what they have, the trick is to hold frame and not let it show. Just conduct yourself as you would around anyone else. … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/14 05:50 AM |
| 17 | "I love my Husband, but here's why I want to cheat" - Shocker, it's a HuffPost articleIn fairness, I think the natural response of a lot of people finding out she had been trolling for dick on Tinder a day before saying "I love you" would be to kick her out. If it stings too much, it's just not worth plating them. I believe she actually meant every word she said. Female love is emotional, in the moment. I have no doubt that, despite having been on Tinder a day before, she truly did love him, or think she did, after they had met up and had sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 03:59 PM |
| 20 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”Oh, by "don't call people fat," she almost certainly was just thinking of women. Fat men are still gross and creeeeeepy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 07:31 PM |
| 3 | To those men who are getting over an Ex. You are a drug addict.Thanks, u/MightyFox. This post could not have been any more timely for me. Broke up with my girlfriend of 14 months a month ago and was pretty down in the dumps about it. Even though I'm less stressed now than I was near the end of our relationship, God knows I still get pangs of nostalgia. This is a perfect analogy. Thanks for reminding me that what I really missed wasn't her so much as it was the feeling of being with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 07:21 PM |
| 10 | You shouldn't post if you are new. You should STFU and get learning.I agree. I do sympathize with the general sentiment of the mods here. TRP has grown significantly in recent months and that usually does correlate with a decline in quality. I completely understand them wanting to do something to keep content quality at a certain level. Perhaps this is the best fix they could think of. That being said, in my humble opinion, the "newbies are ruining this sub" thing just feels like a bit of a circlejerk here. It's one thing to delete low-effort or banal threads an… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.I wouldn't be asking if I should next her if I was that needy. My time is valuable so if it seems like she's not into me I'd rather not waste my time. You'd be surprised. I was pretty laid back with her. I just mentioned a couple things here because I knew I'd be picked apart on them, like asking her via Facebook. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.To her credit she responded to my Facebook messages as soon as she saw them. It was only one Olivia I contacted because she was the one I was interested in asking out. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 06:31 AM |
| 3 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Yeah I guess "find out" is he only answer. If she digs me or is trying to set me up with other Olivia then it's a win. If it turns out she truly is just trying to acquire an orbiter I'll next her faster than an SR-71 breaking the sound barrier. I'm newly single and as I'm rediscovering, there's plenty of other beautiful women on this campus, so it's no loss to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 05:42 AM |
| 2 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Solid advice through and through. Really. Strict game is mostly focused on getting laid fast with the hottest chicks possible, but it doesn't mean that if you fuck up a little you're screwed. Just don't oneitis her, don't let her manipulate you, don't let her trod on your game, etc. Couldn't have said it better myself. And I'm certainly not looking to just get laid fast. Honestly thought she'd be fun to date. I'm not too worried about oneitising her. Ever since becoming single after 14-month LTR… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Lol. I met her in church. I've certainly met plenty of slutty "church girls" but I dunno man. In all seriousness I plan on flirting with both. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:49 AM |
| 1 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.I'm actually ok with groups of women. I've got a pretty decent sense of humor and can work a crowd. I'm debating whether or not to bring a friend of mine as a wing. Just trying to think of a friend who would make me look good without overshadowing me and would also be willing to distract other Olivia if need be. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:47 AM |
| 1 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Would it be worth getting back to her and saying "hey, actually I wanted to see you one-on one?" and see how she reacts? Honestly I'm not so much worried about my frame. I should have come on a bit more strong in the beginning I think but my intentions will be clear. My biggest concern is that she'll end up trying to turn me into a third wheel. I guess that would just be all the reason I need to next her though. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:40 AM |
| 2 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Trust me, the church isn't that strict. It's on a college campus in a big city for crying out loud. Something tells me her friend isn't there as a chaperone. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:08 AM |
| 3 | "Other Olivia can come too!" Is this a shit test or a rejection? Criticism welcome.Hey no problem, I wanted bluntness. Obviously I'm not able to think clearly on all this now otherwise I wouldn't be asking. I already said I can go. I was thinking of bringing one of my friends to run interference. Should I renege and next her or proceed anyways? It's worth mentioning that both of them apparently met last week, but I've only ever seen them together. Seems like they've become fast friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The rest of reddit really hates this subHey fuck you, Hammett rules! /s Good point though. Also glad to see there's another metalhead redpiller here! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/14 06:24 PM |
| 2 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.This. So much of how people perceive you is how you portray yourself. There are videos on YouTube of guys pretending to be famous and people believing them. (I'm lazy but one example was posted here a while ago) Obviously looks are very important, but if you act like you're the shit, people will start to treat you like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/14 03:01 AM |
| 26 | On looks and maximizing sexual opportunity.For the conventionally unattractive and excessively short men, prostitutes exist and Hollywood exists. Wealth and fame will have women throwing themselves at you no matter how tall you are or what you look like. Ultimately, I can't tell you how you should feel about this, perhaps MGTOW, but TRP is the right place to discuss it if you wish. I agree and disagree here. I 100% agree with the fact that being short or unattractive makes it much harder to gain female attention. I am 5'4" and I've notic… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 05:23 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill of "The Game of Thrones" books/show. [spoilers]Nice start. Here's a few more I thought of: Robert Baratheon: excellent example of super-alpha turned into a beta. Started off as an extremely handsome and muscular lord who didn't find any problem he couldn't solve with his hammer. Pulled girls left and right. He did get oneitis for Lyanna Stark, who was captured and "raped" by Prince Rhaegar (it is implied that she may have actually willingly went with Rheagar. If so, this is an example of hypergamy. Why sleep with a lord when you can have the… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 03:42 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill of "The Game of Thrones" books/show. [spoilers]Jorah is the most literal example of a white knight I can think of, albeit a fictional one. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 03:18 AM |
| 3 | 5'3" guy5'4" guy here. Completely agree. You wouldn't believe the positive reactions I got once the fruits of my working out started to show. You may never be the 6'2" guy, but you can look like the kind of guy who could snap most 6'2" guys in half, and that counts for something. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 06:46 PM |
| 3 | The Problem With PUA/Seduction Explained Pretty WellI completely agree with this article. Most of the guys I've ever seen who are truly successful with women are very good looking. Now perhaps this gives them extra confidence and an abundance mentality, which helps, but it's those things on top of their looks that get them through the door. My only beef with this article was that it could be boiled down to just "TL;DR: looks matter a LOT." Sure, there are plenty of low-SMV guys who focus too much on game, and this is a good wake up call. But I th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 06:04 PM |
| 15 | How to turn girls I used to orbit into plates?Hate to break it to you, but trying to sleep with women who have you pegged as a beta orbiter is near impossible. There's a saying, "if a friend she sees, a friend you'll be." Once they've put you on their list of people they aren't wanting to fuck, it's hard to jump to the other list. Trust me, I've been there. It's what led to my discovery of TRP. If I were you, I'd work on yourself and pursue other women right now. Best case scenario, you'll generate sufficient social proof to make them want … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/14 01:02 PM |
| 2 | The Redefinition of Marriage.Sure. I'm not certain what percentage of the TRP community holds this view, but they're very vocal. I agree with a lot of what they say, but censorship, which OP is advocating, is wrong on so many levels. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 08:33 PM |
| 11 | Jess Zimmerman's Medium article with male/female pronouns reversed.See, I'd have no problem with the "ironic" misandrists if they weren't almost always the same people who get so butthurt whenever a joke that's sexist against women is made, no matter how sarcastic or tongue-in-cheek it is. Honestly "irony" is becoming a cover for people of basically say what they really think and still be able to accuse the offended of overreacting under the guise of "I wasn't being serious!" | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 03:16 AM |
| 75 | The Redefinition of Marriage.The mods should start banning people who advocate getting married. They clearly don't get it, and we don't need them spreading their stupidity to others who could be hurt by it. I was with you right till this part. A shame because this was a really good post. I might get downvoted for this, but this bit is some feminist level shit. I thought we prided ourselves on not censoring any dissent from the majority, unlike the feminists, SJWs and SRSters. TRP, like any community, revolves around certain… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 02:50 AM |
| 2 | The Return of PatriarchyI'm gonna pose a question here. Obviously, not all redpillers are advocates and practitioners of "traditional" morality, but one thing I constantly hear from a large segment of TRP is "MEN: DON'T MARRIED!" I think this is largely in reaction to divorce law and the nature of western women, the fact that most women have already hit or are rapidly approaching wall by the time they even think about marriage now and are thus a depreciating asset, etc. I have no problem with men choosing not to marry … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/14 04:14 PM |
| 5 | First FR: the amazing results of practicing dominant sex with the girlfriendThis. I completely forgot to mention diet stuff here! I've been taking fish oil pills, which have zinc in them, and cutting back on the greasy food (my girlfriend and I had been going out to eat a lot and often what I ordered wasn't exactly healthy). | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 05:21 PM |
| 5 | First FR: the amazing results of practicing dominant sex with the girlfriendTruth be told I don't think there's anything wrong with mixing it up, as you say. I certainly like to kiss my girlfriend during sex (so does she; it gets her very aroused). And sometimes I slow things down out of necessity. She's getting sore or I'm trying to make it last longer or am getting tired. So to answer your question, yeah I mix it up. IMO there's nothing wrong with more passionate, slower sex per se. In fact it's great to include this in your repertoire. I don't think every woman wants… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 05:10 PM |
| 2 | First FR: the amazing results of practicing dominant sex with the girlfriendObviously I still keep a box of condoms at home and one in my wallet at all times. You never know if she'll forget her pills one day. Plus, sometimes I wear one out of simple paranoia that her birth control won't work this time. It's just nice that I don't always have to wear them. As for the rest of TRP, not just the sex, of course I've been reading up, and the results have been positive as well. I just didn't have any breakthroughs there that I felt were worth posting a FR about. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 03:15 PM |
| 7 | First FR: the amazing results of practicing dominant sex with the girlfriendYeah I feel you man! I have a hard time cumming with a condom on too! Good thing my girlfriend is on birth control! What do your workouts usually consist of and what muscles do you focus on? I was focusing on my core, especially the abs. Lots of push-ups and crunches. Plus kegel exercises. I found the result was increased testosterone levels and more blood flowing to the penis and I was able to "squeeze" and control it better. Another factor was limiting masturbation and porn watching. I found m… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/14 06:13 AM |
| 2 | "I don't get physical until I've known the guy for a while"I'd have absolutely no problem with "I don't have sex until we've dated for ____ long" if it weren't for the fact that often this seems to come from girls who have in fact had hookups and first-date sex, and not just a few. Fortunately, I haven't had to deal with this one too much so far, but as a rule of thumb I'd say if you have good reason to believe she doesn't put out early for anyone, then it's possible she's smart enough to see through the pitfalls of the carousel. At the very least, she … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Re: facial hair and stubbleRelying on a bit of stubble to the extent that you're making threads on it suggests that you may need to think about your circumstances a bit more. It's legit to think about your appearance but sometimes there can be a little over-thinking going on here. Oh, I just made this thread out of curiosity. Facial hair issues aren't a pressing problem of mine. Just wanted to know. The biggest priorities of "Project Raise Squarehead93's SMV" are working out, running, overhauling my wardrobe, working, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 06:30 PM |
| 4 | I Don’t Regret Cheating On My Boyfriend, Here’s WhyUggh that was painful to read. Her hamster hyperdrive is so strong it could power the Millennium Falcon to make the Kessel Run in less than 12 parsecs. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Height shamingAmen. Big muscles and a big wallet can go a long way to make up for a short stature. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 03:06 AM |
| 32 | Height shamingSomeone here made a post discussing how there's no short acceptance, bald acceptance, or fat acceptance movement for men, despite the first two being something men can't really control, as opposed to women who choose to be promiscuous or not take care of their bodies. When this dawned on me, this was the last straw for me and the reason I stopped considering myself a feminist. Feminists are trying to shame men into finding increasingly lower SMV women attractive, in spite of our biological insti… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 07:21 PM |
| 2 | College Guys: Stop thinking PUA, Start Thinking "Social Game" and "Be Extroverted to the Extreme"Great post, as usual. Just one question: any tips on how to find where "the cool parties" are happening and get in? Especially if you're not currently in a frat or many clubs like I am? The advice on joining cool clubs is solid, though with an internship and a busy schedule this fall I just don't know how much time I'll have. I've always had a solid circle of friends who know where parties are at, but for the most part they're smaller, more laid back affairs. I guess the hard part for me is that… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:39 AM |
| 6 | The Turing-Poe test: 4chan successfully pranks twitter by behaving -exactly like- feminists. Media revises history by pretending that nobody was ever fooled. (xpost /r/mensrights)Newly legitimized politicians, academics and media elites ascended to positions of power, and it was for the best that they were successful. Eventually they became victims of their own success; there were no more great enemies to fight. The dark lords that they once drew power from via their own contrast were gone, the black, spikey crowns crushed. And now, dear reader, we witness an existential crisis of revolutionary proportions. Pun intended, since a permanent revolution is what these movemen… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 12:06 AM |
| 4 | The Institution of Marriage is Fucked, Brah – TRP Observations While Stoned at a Wedding.Cannabis is enjoyable, but I can't take people seriously who seriously believe it is doing anything more than making them feel good, let alone "freeing their minds." If you wanna take a few hits to relax on an afternoon, fine. But if you think it's helping you reach these deep-ass epiphanies you wouldn't otherwise reach, that seems like you're saying your mind is defective sober. To each his own. Peace brah. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 09:51 PM |
| 3 | The Institution of Marriage is Fucked, Brah – TRP Observations While Stoned at a Wedding.Yeah I understand OP's points but I could have done without the tangents on religion being soooo awful and cannabis and "freeing my mind." Whatever you say, brah. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Response to being accused of being red pill..Of course some people should be left to their devices. Many people can only learn the hard way. But TRP as a community exists for men who are trying to find a better way, both with regards to their own lives and their interactions with women. Let's be honest, most of the people coming here are not natural alphas. If I see a man going through the same struggles I did, why wouldn't I want to help? Of course, if he rejects my help I won't continue wasting my time. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/14 06:02 AM |
| 37 | Response to being accused of being red pill..As lots of people have noted here, there's no point in trying to outright convert people in real life to the red pill. You'll instantly be labeled a misogynist or worse. It's better not to associate yourself with it in public or use its terms. In fact, among my more internet/reddit-savvy friends, I've actually poked fun at TRP when they started ripping on it. I don't care if they think it's full of awful misogynists and wannabe rapists. What matters is convincing males to stop acting beta, to st… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining frame among friends giving you too much of a hard time?You're expecting me to believe that even now, you never let anyone or anything get to you? Look bud, I appreciate constructive criticism. In my original post, I acknowledged that I broke frame. If I hadn't, I wouldn't be here. No one comes here seeking validation. They come here seeking answers and help. Being brutally honest is one thing, but going about it in a way where you're needlessly ripping a guy just to feel a bit better about yourself is stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining frame among friends giving you too much of a hard time?I appreciate constructive criticism and harsh honesty, but calling me a "pussy" does not qualify as such. Thanks for starting the obligatory "OP is a pussy/little bitch" circlejerk that so many TRP threads have though. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Maintaining frame among friends giving you too much of a hard time?Do not expect mercy or even less ask for it. Never have. Not sure where you got the idea I was. I normally don't deal with this situation except in this particular group. Normally I hold frame fairly well and recognize that it's just in these guys' nature to be this way, and deflect with humor, as I said. Also, judging by this post, you are indeed butthurt. Dont expect to walk into TRP for validation, validation seeking is a weak trait, and you wont find it here. Again, not sure where you got th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 09:52 PM |
| 11 | Married RPs, you need to practice fat acceptanceUggh. I'll be honest, I've always found the fat acceptance movement to be a perfect example of double standards women apply to men. Pop culture loves to sell this fantasy of "good girl turns bad boy/loser good," in movies and TV, where some girl gets a bad boy to leave behind his bad habits for her, or gets some lovable beta loser to man up for her. Men are expected to change for women for the better. And if they change for the worse, then women have every right to dump them. Could you imagine a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/14 08:19 AM |
| 3 | The converse of "Promiscuous women are sluts and promiscuous men are studs."Sexual Market Value. There's a guide to Redpill terms in the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 12:35 AM |
| 2 | The converse of "Promiscuous women are sluts and promiscuous men are studs."Women don't benefit from men being virgin shamed. They don't get shamed for being virgins. Women benefit from the overall double standard of "promiscuous men=studs and promiscuous women=sluts" because all they gotta do is refuse men's advances if they don't wanna have sex. It takes effort for a man to get laid on a consistent basis, and unless you're fairly attractive, no one's gonna believe you're a virgin "by choice" and respect it if you're a dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 09:14 PM |
| 4 | "Sexual strategy is amoral" when defending sleeping with married women/women in LTR's=male hamstering?It means that the rules of sexual attraction have nothing to do with morality whatsoever, just like the laws of physics dont. Now, the laws of physics clearly dictate that if I drop a large boulder on another mans head it will land with signficant force, that is not a moral question. "Am I allowed to do that even though I can?", that is a moral question Precisely. TRP explains sexual attraction the way it is, but it's up to us to act on it. I guess I just think it's a contradiction to complain a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 08:12 PM |
| 5 | "Sexual strategy is amoral" when defending sleeping with married women/women in LTR's=male hamstering?Guy messes up and allows his girl to jump on some strange dick, I'll capitalize on the opportunity with no qualms. So he didn't maintain frame/acted beta/whatever. We might understand why his girl is cheating, but that doesn't mean he "deserves" it. This still sounds like hamstering to me, to be honest. "Hey, he should know how to hold on to his girl. It's not my fault I'm fucking her now." Also, I find it interesting that you immediately blame the guy and say nothing of the girl. I always see r… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 08:02 PM |
| 2 | "Sexual strategy is amoral" when defending sleeping with married women/women in LTR's=male hamstering?How do you know if it’s an open relationship or not? It may be okay to have sex with them, regardless of your knighthood. For sake of argument, let's assume that it's not an open relationship. I think it's still presumed that when people are in a relationship/marriage, they're exclusive. And if they're not, all you gotta do is ask. You're really gonna say it's somehow white knighting to not wish to sleep with women you know are cheating? As you acknowledge, "knowingly having sex with people in r… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/14 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Forget "alpha" and "beta", focus on value.This. Being very naturally good looking is like a cheat code with women. If this is the case, then instead of being put off by your beta behavior, many women will be like "he's so awkward and shy, it's soooo cute!" But we're not all going to be naturally attractive. That's why wearing flattering clothes and lifting are so important. Same with being confident and dominant. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/14 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Why Certain Groups Hate TRPThe second someone expresses a POV they don't agree with, it's war. And THIS is exactly why most of the SJW's on Tumblr and Reddit are women. Logic don't real. Only feels. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/14 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Here's What a Boy-Friendly School Would Look LikeThat's a good start. But I could see that just leading to the athletic kids going "aww man, we're stuck with [unathletic kid]!" In the military, you're dealing with adults who might be willing to help the weakest member and the weakest member is obviously trying to improve. And they're all there because they chose to be. The difference with gym class is that many less athletic kids don't wanna be there but have no choice. And in the black and white world of little boys, if you're not good at spo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Here's What a Boy-Friendly School Would Look LikeRight. And I think team sports are a great thing. I just think that they can be alienating to little boys at an age where the biggest factor determining your social worth is how good you are at sports. There has to be a way to get boys involved in team sports without instilling an inferiority complex in the ones that aren't as naturally gifted athletes as their peers. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Here's What a Boy-Friendly School Would Look LikeI like your idea about more competition-based learning. It would make being smart a more valuable asset among young children, especially boys. However, when it comes to physical competition, I wonder if sometimes gym can actually enforce beta tendencies in some boys? I'm gonna play devil's advocate for a moment here, but I remember in grade school, a lot of the more athletically gifted kids loved gym, while the not-so-gifted kids hated it. Most of the activities we did were competitive games. Wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/14 07:02 PM |
| 2 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."No one's kicking you out. Feel free to comment, man. Just preferably insightful stuff that will actually help other readers. Since you claim to be an experienced RP'er (and I'd truly like to believe you), why don't you actually chime in with your own knowledge to expand the discussion? Also, I truly do not wish to brag, but given the popularity of this thread it seems that a lot of people agree with these observations and find them useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 08:00 AM |
| 1 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."Trust me, I am neither "but hurt" nor butthurt. TRP should be a place of thoughtful discussion, and "hurrr dis shit iz obviousss duhh" just doesn't contribute to the discussion in a meaningful way. Also, please don't assume I'm "just figuring this stuff out." It makes you look patronizing, and you'd be wrong. This was simply something that I'd known inside but was never able to articulate till now. I'd prefer to share any observations I make without puffing my chest up about it. Clearly you fanc… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 07:55 AM |
| 2 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."If it's so "basic" that you don't feel you're gaining anything from this discussion, please feel free to refrain from commenting, ignore this thread, and simply read the threads you feel can enlighten you. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 07:32 AM |
| 2 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."No, the reason for rejecting the friendzone is because you want to have sex with/date her but she won't let you. Duh. But the thing is, many guys might be content with that if they think she at least values them as a "friend." That's why LBJF and the friendzone exist: for women to keep beta orbiters orbiting by making it look like they're still getting something worthwhile from them: their genuine friendship. For a lot of guys, it's only possible to break free once you realize that even their "f… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 07:22 AM |
| 10 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."Well it's true that girls can be more dramatic and catty, where guys tend to throw a few punches and insults and then make up and be done with it. I don't think "I get along better with guys than girls" is a red flag in and of itself, unless the girl in question is known to flirt/sleep around with the guys she hangs out with. If she uses hanging out with guys as an excuse to pick up orbiters or FWB's, then it's an issue, but I don't think that's always the case. That being said, I have noticed t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 04:13 AM |
| 1 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."Hmm... I've never heard that. I know that girls can be devastated when a particularly attractive gay acquaintance or friend comes out of the closet, but I've rarely heard of women having more than a platonic relationship with their known gay friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 03:49 AM |
| 8 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."Aside from being able to go shopping with them, gay friends provide a woman male companionship without the risk of them having or developing feelings for her. Plus, being surrounded by men can help women feel "safe" when they're going out, since they're still dudes and can sometimes scare away unwanted heterosexual male attention. Just my thoughts. I'm sure there's more reasons than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 03:19 AM |
| 19 | She doesn't want to even "just be friends."I think the proper TRP response to being friendzoned is cut contact and move on. You don't even need to tell her so. Chances are she was just saying LJBF to save face anyways, so you probably won't be missed. Either way, staying is just gonna bring you down. You don't need her. You have real friends. Just keep going till you find someone who does reciprocate romantic/sexual feeling for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 03:11 AM |
| 24 | Keep your RP ideas contained to RP-friendly subsAt the very least, try to share your RP ideas without using RP buzzwords like "alpha/beta," "cock carousel," or "hamster." You might be able to get away with that on other sites or in real life, but by this point there's too many people on reddit who are familiar with TRP and its vocabulary. Avoid using TRP vocabulary on other subs at all costs, unless you want to get outed/banned. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 05:12 PM |
| 11 | Women will refuse to tell a guy they don't want a relationship.Great post. Now that I've swallowed TRP, I've stopped complaining about the friendzone and instead worked on making myself the kind of person girls would actually want to date. That being said, this is exactly why many guys hate the friendzone. Whenever guys complain about the friendzone, girls will get all indignant and ask "what's wrong with just wanting a guy as a friend?" but often time guys in the "friendzone" aren't even true friends. If girls want true friends, they have their gay and fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/14 04:34 PM |
| 4 | No one owes you anything.I don't want to sound like NAWALT, but there are women who refuse to cheat while in a relationship, or are at least far less likely to do so. We should all strive to be the best men we can be, but some redpillers seem to think that as soon as they slip up or a "better" man comes along, their woman will be fucking someone else immediately. Hypergamy is real, and it does exist in every woman (and to an extent, every man. Who doesn't hope to get the best woman they can? Humans are programmed to try… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/14 01:18 AM |
| 8 | What is a "high number"? At what point would you say "She's slept around too much for an LTR"?I would say that anything above 10 is starting to push it. 20 is where I draw the line. For me it's not necessarily how many people she's slept with, but the nature of her sexual encounters. If most of her partners were one night stands, threesomes, etc, then I'm probably not interested. However if most of her partners were long-term boyfriends, then I really don't care about sexual history nearly as much. Although people who prefer casual sex tend to rack up higher counts, I'd rather date someo… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/14 04:06 PM |
| 22 | Maintain frame, even when you fuck upBeing red pilled doesn't mean being a dick. It just means don't be such a pussy all the time and learn to combat the irrational emotional nature of women whenever needed. This. Women aren't necessarily attracted to jerks because they're jerks. They dig them because they're confident. But I think what so many people on TRP mistake is that you don't have to be a jerk to be confident. Likewise, even women have their limits with assholes. It's one thing to be unemotional and detached. It's another t… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/14 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Compensating for being short?Thanks. I don't like the term "compensating" either, but let's face it: shortness in males is generally considered an unattractive quality by women, so something must be done to make up for it. I agree that the whole idea that short guys go to the gym are just doing it to "compensate" is ridiculous. But overall, we do have to go the extra distance to attract female attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Compensating for being short?Thanks. Honestly, it's the only realistic attitude. Feeling bad about myself because I'm short is just as bad as pretending like women don't have certain ingrained preferences when it comes to men. Neither is gonna help me get what I want. And my current GF is 5'2", so consider that a check! But since I'm shorter than even the average woman, I don't want to feel like I have to limit myself to women shorter than me if I can help it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Compensating for being short?Props to your friend! One of the reasons I've stopped complaining about being so short is that I've realized there are guys even shorter than me who do just fine. It's a disadvantage but not an excuse. I assume he's a fairly good looking guy. Still, I have to ask, are most of the women he pulls as short or shorter than him? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/14 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The difference between The Red Pill and ShitRedditSays (and all other leftist, feminist garbage)THIS. Basically anything they don't like = misogyny. Combine their mods' very ambiguous view of what constitutes "misogyny" and the threads' strict "no misogyny" policies and you get a recipe for no debate whatsoever. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 08:32 AM |
| 6 | "Ban Bossy! Encourage girls to lead." Another feminist campaign that completely ignores Red Pill realities.Little anecdote about the high school newspaper I was a part of. We were a nationally and statewide recognized publication, and during my senior year, I was promoted to the paper's executive board (the leaders of the paper). For the first time in years, there was only one male on the executive board: me. While feminists and bluepillers might call what I'm about to say sexist, this was just my experience. There was a ridiculous amount of cattiness and oneupmanship between, you guessed it, the fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 02:42 AM |
| 2 | You ever notice how there is no male fat acceptance movement or short acceptance movement it is because women and society do not care about you.Amen to all of this. As a 5' 3" man, I know that some women (maybe even quite a few) will overlook me simply because of my height. And unlike being overweight, which can be fixed, nothing will ever actually make me taller. But have I complained to the world and expected that all women should find me attractive in spite of being short? Before swallowing TRP, yes. But now that I've been unplugged, I've realized that women, like men, are entitled to be attracted to whom they're attracted to and not… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | "Kill all men" is empowering. "Kill all black men" is racist.This blog is a goldmine. Did you see the post about the girl whose boyfriend had misogynistic friends, and she told her to tell her boyfriend to find new friends? | /r/MensRights | 02/02/14 09:27 PM |
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