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Don’t women attempt suicide much more than men, despite 20 percent of them being on happy pills? No study can really capture who’s relationship is closer, because self reported data is near useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:20 PM
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Reason why women are "fatter" is because women look slim even at 20% bf while men look like sacks of potatoes at that number. They accounted for that in the study
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:09 AM
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Brought to you by the No Fucking Shit Sherlock Institute of Research. Maybe no previous formal study existed before, but it's been well known since at least the 70s that, at the same body weight, women store more fat than men. Did you read the study? They accounted for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:08 AM
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I mean... I think that girl is pretty cute, lol, if I were single and she was flirty and fun at a party I'd bring her home. Jesus, seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:03 AM
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Normie men with average looks are getting normal girlfriends who actually care about them, so clearly there are other metrics in play when it comes to what attracts (and keeps!) someone. And there were millions of people successfully employed during the Great Recession. I guess that means we should have ignored the 10% unemployment rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:01 AM
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The American Society of Bariatric Physicians considers 30% obese for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:58 AM
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Have you actually dated since dating apps like Tinder have taken off? I don't get all these old people on this sub who think their opinion of a dating market that hasn't been in for years is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:47 AM
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A study done on attraction and money found that for a woman to add 2 points onto a male attraction he would need to make 10x her salary. That means on average a man would to be in top 1% for his financial powers to sway female attraction. Such BS. There's no such thing as "points".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:41 AM
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BMI is bullshit, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:39 AM
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How many of the dudes that cry about it have actually started exercising, dressing better and picked up an interesting hobby (not just to make themselves more date-able but to first change their negative outlook)? Alot? None of those things except maybe lifting weights helps that much with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:37 AM
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That alone guarantees there are no black American incels. They're fewer than whites, but definitely not none.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:14 AM
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Men will focus on whatever they believe gets them laid. A boring stable STEM job doesn't. Big muscles and social skills does. Because there's a big
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:10 AM
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The second point is pointless, every 18 year old girl has "the ability to spin" multiple men. No experience required.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:03 AM
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I've never heard of sororities hosting parties at their house, and I've partied at many major US universities. What you're describing is definitely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:39 AM
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What age of women would you suggest to wife up if you're a 30 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:28 AM
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Why not chase young skirts when you're in your mid 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:17 AM
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Yeah, he's kinda proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:12 AM
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I would never marry one who isn’t a virgin. Yeah bro this doesn't seem reasonable. You can't verify it, so even if she says she is, she's likely lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:09 AM
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So you mean don't have a girlfriend until you're 30? You don't know what you're worth until you are thirty and witnessing the first round of wall slamming and divorce. I don't see what this means? I wouldn't want to start an LTR with 30 women ever. If I was 30 I'd be going for girls 22-28. If you start a relationship with a woman who's in her thirties you're signing up for alot of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:05 AM
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Yeah, I'd rather not get an incurable disease if I don't have to but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:03 AM
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Rollo advises not to get into an LTR until you're in your 30s. That's from the Rational Male, the bible of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:46 AM
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Getting some sores you'll feel em coming don't shove your pelvis into anyone keep your pants on for a week whoopity do. Until you're dating a quality girl, and you guys wanna start going raw(which is wayyyy better than condoms) but she wants both of you to get tested first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:43 AM
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It's very low. 10% for guys who are really good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:01 AM
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I think many of those bars are actually tinder/bumble date, if you read up on the study you can list multiple things, which is why it adds up to more than 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:56 AM
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I entered this thread ready to shit on a college guy for lecturing us, but this is actually surprisingly good. The only thing I'd have to say is you should never necessarily believe what women tell you about their experience. Yeah go ahead and ask if you really want to know, many sluts will out themselves, but many girls are great liars. I think your last point is important, people need to stop demanding perfection because it doesn't exist. Everything is about tradeoff, you need to decide which …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:55 AM
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I'm a 25 year old with 5 figures in the bank, who's lived abroad. While what you're saying is technically correct, doing any of those things except taking 2 weeks vacation abroad would likely hamper my ability to make money in the long term, and I have one of the more mobile careers. If you're trying to be a lawyer, accountant, doctor, or any other kind of professional that requires actual certification to work, you can't really just up and leave to another country without missing a massive amou…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:43 AM
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You seem to think the government will try to change the men, but I think it's much more likely the men will be the ones changing the government. 30% of American males between 18-30 are virgins, and then all can vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:31 PM
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There's a contingent I'm not seeing on stats but am hearing about in other groups that's marrying younger and younger so I think you're going to see a split in subcultures over the next 5-10 years as some people stay casual for most or all of their lives while the counterculture is committing right away and putting a ring on it at a young age. I think we're going to see more and more people burnt out from the hookup game look at people who got locked up earlier with envy. It'll be too late for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:28 PM
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Less Western men going into STEM fields, more focusing on lifting, personal appearance, and social skills. More extreme xenophobic alt-right political parties being elected. More alt-right terrorism Marriage will be the domain of either the very religious or very successful. An increase in artistic and creative expression, mainly caused by men taking high risk, high reward option. More people aiming at fame. More startups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:25 PM
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You must date really lazy women or are in an area women don’t do any planning (which seems backwards af given that it’s 2019) Please, virtually all first few dates are initiated by men, I live in one of the largest cities in America. None of my female friends just sit back and do no date planning. It’s a cooperative effort. Women pay Dutch or have even paid for the date or asked guys out. This seems out of touch A decent amount of women will go dutch if asked, some will even insist. Almost no wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:31 PM
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Was it at the guys house? Yes, it's been at my house. Especially at my school the parties were at frats, not sororities, so the logistics of sleep at the guys place were far simpler. Even in the real world, its way more awkard to invite yourself to a girls house then to invite a women to your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:18 PM
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I don't see any proof of that at all, automation is slowing down if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:12 PM
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Easy not to get caught when you have the police on your side. Every fraternity in every major college commits crimes every weekend by serving alcohol to minors, the cops know they're committing crimes, but the frats are establishment with connections and thus get special treatment that underprivileged minorities wouldn't get. And if you do get caught committing a crime, like many of my friends in college did, their upper middle class parents could buy a lawyer that makes it all go away. Whereas …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:32 PM
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I think he's referring to the two that sleep around alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:23 PM
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Anything could happen, the fact is we're not even close to being able to automate the job of a janitor, maid, or babysitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:11 PM
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Sounds like pseudo scientific BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:09 PM
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But why do so many men among the manosphere like red pillers/MGTOW types believe that this will spell the end of western civilisation when arguably progressive societies facing this problem are those that will eventually have the technology to replace these men such as automation/AI and an expanding welfare system to ameliorate some of the social problems that may emerge from the breakdown of trad monogamy? The welfare system is largely financed by foreign debt which is unsustainable. I work in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:08 PM
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Robotics engineers here, this is all completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:03 PM
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Completely ignoring that the stereotypical nuclear family is a very American invention and a very recent one at that. What? Do you just like making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:03 PM
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Why do you need to know what your roommates in more detail than she/he gave?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:01 PM
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Yeah, why don't you mansplain to me why women do what they do. "I'm one woman with a few female friends so I know everything about how women think!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:59 PM
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I would say whenever I've hooked up with a woman, we go to my place 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:55 PM
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Most of the sex I've had with sorority was not at their house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:53 PM
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Don't do anything illegal and you won't end up in prison. lmao. I don't know one person who hasn't done something illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:49 PM
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Uhh, these people rely on their social image to make a living. Celebrity now doesn't mean you'll be celebrity tomorrow, and there's a constant fight to keep in the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:53 PM
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This might be the first post I've read from you that I actually agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 11:42 PM
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This is what’s called the survivor fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:59 PM
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How do I know what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:58 PM
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That show was largely faked. What's the male to female ratio of people paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:09 PM
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So .0001% of the male population can get the attention of any mildly attractive young women. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:20 PM
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There’s just as many young and attractive guys that benefit greatly from thirsty women. How many women pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:58 PM
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This is actually the best descriptor I think I've seen. Not all doom and gloom but definitely difficult. I think alot of the angst from the manosphere come not from incels, but from upper middles who feel like their women are being fucked by Chads. In response, they have casual sex with a lot of lower-middle women, instead of relationships with women their tier that they seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:24 PM
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Why are mass shootings not happening more among young black men? They are. Black men are far more likely to part of a mass shooting than white men. What you're asking is why aren't a school shooting done by black man. And the likely answer is that that disaffected young men already have outlets in their communities in the forms of gangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:20 PM
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Women who are actively sport fucking men are the tiniest % that they're not even worth talking about. How could you possibly know this? There are a large % of women who do not know how to get commitment from modern men. They fuck men on dates 1-5 and are ghosted. From the outside, it LOOKS like women are "on the CC" when they are actually (naively), unsuccessfully on the RMP trying to get a BF. I think most men have experienced a women he's sleeping with who didn't want anything more than sex. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:10 PM
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Unless you have antisocial personality disorder, being manipulative and dishonest is unsustainable and will likely have a negative effect on your overall sense of happiness and well-being. Just world fallacy. How could you possibly even know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:05 PM
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I think you're way overestimating how much women care about college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:01 PM
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I don't really think any man who isn't famous or extremely high status has a "magnetic effect" on women, that attractive women have on men. The point of the post isn't to say it's impossible to attract women, it's that women have a much lower bar than men to gain the benefits of their sexual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:59 PM
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I've slept with probably 15+ women casually, more if you count blowjobs and other non-PIV acts. Almost none of them were party-type women. I'm not extraverted. Not low inhibition. I don't party much either. There are many more women out there who enjoy casual sex than women who don't enjoy casual sex think. Mainly because women tend to have a hard time considering that there are other women out there that think differently from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:54 PM
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I don’t know why some men feel like it’s so good to have sex with someone that feels meh about them. Because women do it all the time? Different women have different preferences, some aren't bothered that much at all by sleeping around. Many of the female posters on here has said as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:47 PM
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I think you're vastly understating how much women enjoy sexual attention and even casual sex. Yeah, you can't get your ideal LTR easily. Neither can men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:44 PM
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How do you know which guys are red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:36 PM
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It's much better to put in the work to actually become an attractive man, rather than learning how to pretend to be an attractive man. An attractive man is by definition one that attracts women: If enacting a certain set of behaviors makes you attract more women, you have become more attractive, even if it doesn't mean becoming more moral, successive, physically attractive. If you're being direct, upfront, and genuine/honest, you also have a massive upper-hand against women who are trying to man…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:35 PM
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I can believe that 1 in 4 women get sexually harassed. Depending on your definition of sexual harassed I would think it's much higher. Is having someone grab your ass sexual harassment if so I wouldn't be surprised if 1 in 4 men had been sexually harassed, and nearly all women. I agree with you on the rape figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:19 PM
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What makes you think women aren't doing lots? They're plenty of women doing "lots", just like they're plenty of men who aren't losers. However, if we're generalizing men, I'm going to generalize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:17 PM
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And men often don’t put in as much emotional labor in a relationship. There's no way to know this because emotions are something that goes on in someone's brain, and we can't read minds. The term emotional labor just reeks of BS. No, it isn’t. You forget that women have to invest both time and money in dating these days. Yes, it is. You wait around for offers and decide if they're good enough. Showing up for a date that someone else approaches you for, sets up all the planning for, and will like…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:16 PM
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I'm a pretty typical INTP female Why do people use this unscientific bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:57 PM
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Take too seriously: None. Men aren't terribly picky with women. And very rarely should ignore something if they think its a red flag. Don't take seriously enough: Cheating, if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. High N count. You'll never actually know if she has a high N count or not, because she very well may lie. But if she doesn't even bother to hide it, that's a red flag. A tendency to describe events differently than they actually happened. If you notice a girl exaggerate stories…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:51 PM
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In general, the women should be talking way more during the date. My guess is that you talked too much, it's a common mistake for newbies.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:42 PM
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That hasn't been my experience as a black guy. I probably don't do as well an equally attractive white guy, but I honestly don't find it that difficult to get white girls. The bucket list thing sounds like bullshit to me, I kinda doubt that many people actually do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:57 PM
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There is far less variance in muscle mass between women than between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:40 PM
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I don't think this is really possible to know. BMI doesn't really capture obesity in the proper sense, because muscle can easily throw things off for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:24 PM
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How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:20 PM
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That's not hard work, that's waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:14 AM
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If every bar you go to is a sausage fest, you're going to the wrong places. Where did I say every bad I've been to is a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 10:13 AM
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You don't need to spend hours getting ready as a woman. Anyone who's had a girlfriend or sisters knows most women only spend hours getting ready for very special occasions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:21 AM
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Or more men that don't have partners and sleep around with multiple people at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:40 AM
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Self-reported data on socially unacceptable behavior is beyond suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:39 AM
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I've been to all of those. I've probably been to almost a hundred dance classes at this point and actually have taught someone myself. The ratios typically have more men than women in North America. If there's more women it's almost always a slight edge and most of the women in the group are 35+. You almost will almost never see a large surplus of young women in a dance class. speed dating Almost all older women. Although I've only been to a few of these. single's pub crawls Meh, kinda. I've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:29 AM
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I don't think I've ever been a bar where there's "way more women" than men. Best I've ever seen is slightly more women than men. And I've probably visited close to 100 different bars in several different countries(and continents) in my life by this point. BS like this is why I can't take this sub serious. It's so obvious that people are here are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:17 AM
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There’s nothing absurd about 81 percent of men being below average. Average doesn’t mean median.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 10:07 PM
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It's funny that the better looking you are the more women just happen to be in a hoe phase. Weird how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:22 AM
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I mean having casual sex doesn’t really count as dating. No, but being sexually attractive is the biggest barrier to entry for men who wants a relationship but can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:21 AM
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And women would have done much more if they hadn't been expected to be homemakers in past decades and centuries. Maybe, but they're not really doing much right now even though they have tons of rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:04 AM
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Women attempt suicide far more often than men, and 20 percent of them are on antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:53 AM
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Relationships don't come as easy as sex, but they still come relatively easily for women compared to men. None of the women I've ever dated did any "work" to get into a relationship with me other than show up for dates and other shit that I arranged. At most, they split the bill sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:52 AM
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Probably by objectively looking at himself Men aren't good at judging male beauty, and no ones good at judging themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:31 AM
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no they absolutely do not Yeah, they absolutely do. Of course you didn't answer my question about how many women actually go to schools were Google recruits in droves. nothing you say is rooted in real life or reality at all. lmao the funny things about the women on this subreddit is that they can't imagine other women acting differently from them or their friends. It's actually kinda funny. When you're a man and you've talked to hundreds of women, you begin to appreciate the variances in prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:22 PM
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no, thats not why, unless you're dating women over 30. How do you know? How much experience do you have sleeping with heterosexual women? they're less interested in you because engineering is a boner killer. You do know women don't get boners right? because it literally has a reputation as a career for losers, indians, nerds. Yeah, among people who have never actually practiced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:36 PM
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your experience is that girls brag about their boyfriends working at google or facebook? to whomst? I don't know what you'd call bragging, but I say they tend to mention it alot. Kind of like girls who bfs went to Harvard tend to name drop it alot. girls don't brag to OTHER GIRLS about their man working at a place that recruits from their graduating class How many women have gone to schools were Google recruits from their graduating class "in droves"? You do know most American women don't have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:26 PM
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Women are less open to having quick casual sex yes, they're more open to long term dating. The same would be the case for a doctor or lawyer. A job that has money triggers the (good girl beta bucks act), but if I'm in a bar I'm not looking for a gf or a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:13 PM
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You're a "man" if you're an adult human with a dick. Being a man isn't behavioral-based. Adult humans with dicks have always been mainly motivated by their ability to get sexual access to adult humans with vaginas. Civilization has thrived by making those men do productive things to access to said vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:06 PM
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My job certainly is. And engineering as a field is probably more prestigious than most professions except maybe lawyers and doctors. But I'd like to see your idea of a "prestigious job".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:58 PM
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Because it's general and everyone knows what it means. I bet most people would have no idea what INTJ means. It's a quick and dirty grouping. So is astrology doesn't mean it's not BS. Plus they make you do those tests anyway so your mangers can figure you out. If your manager makes you do those test, that's a clue that you work for an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:51 PM
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um, no? they don't? They certainly do in my experience who brags about their boyfriend working at fucking google or facebook If you're a software engineer at those companies you're almost certainly in the top 3-1% of income in the US. lmao they're basically job mills for a certain set Not sure what this is supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:47 PM
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So, you're saying men are basically children? Seeing as children don't have sex, and aren't motivated by sex, I don't know how you got that out of my post. women still tend to be productive citizens who work in caring professions They may be productive in some sense, but they still can't replace men. Men built civilization. They invented and built the computer you're typing on, the software running on the computer you're typing on, the network we're communicating on, the building you're sitting …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 03:40 PM
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You're a 29 year old women whos been to college and has no sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:04 AM
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I believe the Ivy League is the college athletic conference with the largest amount of male virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:46 AM
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Divorce rates are highest among couples in their early 20s and I thought divorces was an awful thing to occur? There's a ton of confounding variables, like education.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:11 AM
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First of all, it's nearly pointless to try to generalize a generation based on your personal social circle. But if men are mainly motivated by their desire to get laid, and getting laid no longer requires being a productive citizen(and being a productive citizen doesn't guarantee getting laid), then fewer men are going to become a productive citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:09 AM
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your little dig about my age wasnt necessary It's honestly no dig. A lot has changed in terms of how tech is perceived even in the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:02 AM
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If you climb the ranks to Partner at Law Firms or Management Consulting Companies, or even Managing Director at Banks, you still have to do a lot of the revenue generating work How is what Zuckerburg does not revenue-generating work? Most people at the top of tech companies, be they CTOs or lead engineers got there because they were great at there job at some point. The difference with Zuck, Gates, Elon etc is that they're not doing any engineering work. They were or are CEOs. Zuck and Gates sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:42 AM
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thats naming companies, not "being an engineer"--so yes probably I think there's alot more prestige in being a software engineer for Google than being an accountant at Google. they wouldnt brag "my h is an Engineer" theyd brag my H works at Google And then they'd asked what "What does he do". And then she'd say "He's a software engineer". I actually work in a "prestigious tech firm", I have colleagues who work in the business department complain to me about women are less excited when they hear …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:31 AM
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Saying women are attracted to dark triad traits sometimes is not the same as saying "women only want sociopaths".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:15 AM
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Meh, terrible is hyperbole. They're just not surrounded by women much, and hence don't get as much experience. Are the gender ratios skewed in Russia as bad as they are in American?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:14 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily classify those who start their own businesses as engineers. They're entrepreneurs. Why can't they be both? Mark Zuckerberg would not have been able to make facebook work if he wasn't a good software engineer. That's like saying Senior Partners in law firms aren't lawyers because they have all of their associates do all the work. When my dad was solely a Civil Engineer he didn't really get paid that fairly compared to what he brought in. There's alot of lawyers who make shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:11 AM
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Yes, American women are known for hating cult-like misogyny organizations that objectify women, which is fraternities never took off on American campuses....oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:04 AM
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You don't think girls will tell their friends that their boyfriend/husband works at Google, SpaceX, Facebook or NASA?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 01:02 AM
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The better performers in law, banking, medicine, consulting will earn multiples of that. The very best in those fields will make millions. The best in engineering make billions before they're 30. Most lawyers don't work for big law. And most engineers don't have the monstrous student loans that lawyers and doctor almost all have to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:58 AM
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If an engineer works as hard as a lawyer in Big Law, or your typical doctor, they will make a very comparable salary, with much less student debt, and a much higher ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:56 AM
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If you are going to get into generalist language most women are xSFx. Most people in STEM are xNTx. Usually INTJ dudes. This is not a good match for extro normie girls. I say this as an INTP woman. If you work in STEM why are you using BS like Myers Briggs which has no empirical basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:49 AM
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Russian men are overall better looking than American men due to healthier lifestyle, less photoaging from the sunlight, less amount of feminized men, etc. Is this some kind of joke? The average lifespan for a Russian male in 10 years less than an American male. A quarter of them die before age 55.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:47 AM
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Most of these people have never studied STEM, and it's obvious they're going off of caricatures from the Big Bang theory and other tv shows, rather than first-hand experience with the field. The typical STEM guy is not physically unattractive. They're probably not as attractive as a typical party school kid, but certainly, pass the looks threshold for most women. Their game, however, is typically terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:43 AM
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You don't sound like you've worked in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:39 AM
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I think you'd be surprised at how attractive the people in engineering can be, a little below average sure, but I went to a top ten engineering school and meet more engineering Chads then engineering neckbeards, atleast among the American students. I don't think looks are the typical engineer's problem looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:37 AM
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I think you're overreacting, no one is gonna turn down an attractive nerdy engineer. Yeah, no. I rarely talk about my engineering job in detail when I gaming women, and I've noticed better results when I "hide it", or even straight-up lie and say I have a less prestigious job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:36 AM
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New York City isn't representative of the Western World, although it is representative of the media personalities that write these articles. I'm not convinced women care that much about how much a man earns, because when they're at their prettiest they don't seem to select for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:32 AM
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Because it's healthy for society if men are rewarded for being productive and decent. And there's only one reward men really care about: female sexual validation. Now, men can't necessarily be reward solely on decency, because there are way more decent men than beautiful women, but they can certainly be punished for indecency. Men, in general, will typically do whatever do it necessary to get sex, nothing more, nothing less. If men need to become upstanding productive citizens to get laid, then …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:21 AM
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And it isn’t “women only want sociopaths.” What a dull and lazy strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:12 AM
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I don't think he was implying "divorce rape", I think he was implying a beta bucks marriage in which you don't get much respect, and not much sex, and alot fo responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 12:11 AM
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How do you know this? Have you been a very attractive girl who's asked alot of random men for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:09 PM
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Women have no problem dating younger men as long as they moved to living adult lives. Yeah this is not my experience, I've heard women complain about dating men the same age. I've seen women shut men down the second they hear about his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:57 AM
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Going on a date is literally dating. To me, dating implies more than just a date. I wouldn't say I was "dating" a tinder girl I banged once. Or even a few times. And are you kidding? Most men will happily take things from a woman, especially if they don't have to watch her buy them. Maybe that's the case, I don't know since I don't date men. I think alot of the men I know would find it emasculating unless it was a serious girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:09 AM
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In my 40s yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 12:04 AM
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A lot of wrong answers in this thread from both sides: 1) Looks are what go with age, and male attractiveness is not nearly as based on looks, particularly youthfulness, as female attractiveness. 2) Behavior is the most important part of attractiveness for most men. Learning the right behavior takes experience, which is gained over time. 3) Alot of women have a preference for guys that are older than them. 4) Social status, skills, money, and muscle are all things that are developed over time an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:59 PM
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Elon Musk's looks pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:54 PM
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Neither looks nor money are the biggest factor in male sexual success. Behavior is. And behavior gets better with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:51 PM
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By the time they are 25 the most attractive men have their career secured and that's when their total desirability peaks. Male desirability isn't really that based on career success, I speak as a man that's 25 and earning more than 97% of my peers, with a very prestigious job title. And I definitely don't think being a medical student that's living off of students loans, or even a resident that's working 80 hrs a week and making shit pay is particuarlly attractive. Furthermore there are alot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:47 PM
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Sure, and then I'll bang you afterward if I don't have anything else going on. It doesn't mean I'll make you my girlfriend. Honestly, I doubt I'd take the tickets, most men don't like to be in a position of taking something from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:38 PM
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No statistic can show such a thing. It can show who they date, but that's as much a product of proximity as preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:34 PM
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I don’t know one man that does that, I don’t think I know a man that makes less than 80k, or one that lives with his parents. If all the guys around you suck, than you probably suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:38 PM
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So most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:08 PM
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I don’t think taking a man out on a sailboat is likely to make him want to date you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:07 PM
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This is true, because no man that’s ever been close to a women has ever lied to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:03 AM
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lmao, can anyone be this naive? I can copy and paste my post from earlier in the thread too ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 01:02 AM
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Seems like I've touched a nerve. I don't know why your flair is red if you can't conceive of your husband hiding something from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:29 AM
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Meh, most of the incel-types on here probably never get a chance to turn down a woman because (I'm guessing) they're not attractive enough to be approached by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:26 AM
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And why would my husband lie to me about the depth of his friendships? lmao, can anyone be this naive? What makes you think you know more about my husband than I do? We don't. All we know is that it's impossible for you or anyone to be sure of what their spouse talks about with their best friends. Maybe you're right. Maybe you're wrong. You'll never know, and neither will we.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:08 AM
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Taller people consume more calories, being pregnant also consumes more calories. Tall pregnant women may not be able to contribute as many nutrients to their offspring as a shorter one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:01 AM
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But also, Men historically favored much more ROBUST women than we generally like now Based off of what? Some paintings?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:55 PM
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Alot of the guys on here are so thirsty that they can't imagine being a position to turn down women. It's truly incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:53 PM
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Sure this is summarization : https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/attachment-theory-wrong-science-really-010535747.html
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 10:36 PM
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The whole attachment style thing reaks of psychological bullshit. That whole field is filled with garbage studies that don't replicate, terrible methodology that relies on self reported data, and over-generalized constructs.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 09:44 PM
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However, if a man is not a certain way, women will not want to have sex with him or be involved romantically with him. Men and women will not want to be his friend. And employers will not want to hire or promote him. I agree with the sex part but disagree with the rest. In fact, the reason so many man fall into the billy beta nice guy trap is because it lets them be successful in every area of life except for sleeping with women. People have no problem befreinding and hiring betas, it's called t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 09:41 PM
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I don't know how many times I need to explain but "the wall" has never been about an inability to gets matches, dates, or casual sex. It's about a decreasing ability to get serious commitment(like marriage and children commitment) from quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:40 PM
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it’s not up to you to decide. Did I ever say it was? It's not required to live in the same house, it is required to pay the bills, and many people can't do that if they're paying for child-related expenses and a mortgage without any help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:37 PM
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Given how often you post here, and how you dodged the question. I'm going to assume that you like hearing incels complain. Which is kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 09:34 PM
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Raising a child is expensive enough without pay to maintain two households.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 05:39 PM
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A woman will have more available to her and her children if she's married than if she's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:22 PM
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Nice argument. Tell me, under what conditions does the weak law of large numbers apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:21 PM
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Then using it and actually making an effort to find men you are into (and women always need more than just looks). You have no idea what you're talking about Here a screenshot from a tinder chat I had with a girl I banged a while back, did she look like she needed more than looks? https://imgur.com/a/3Rqtm6r Just because you're too ugly to fuck girls from the internet, doesn't mean all of us are. 100 college party girls vs. 100 online dating girls is like "holy shit what happened here(OLD)" ?? R…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:20 PM
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You know this how? I know what? That married couples tend to poll their resources together for household expenses? The proof they do more work is in the studies that show women work full time and do the majority of child care and housework. Yeah, I'd like to those studies, I don't buy self reported data, especially since women are shown to have a tendency to exaggerate working hours[https://www.bls.gov/opub/mlr/1994/08/art2full.pdf]. And working full time doesn't mean the jobs are equivalent in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:14 PM
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No, it was based on their employment status in the census survey. Nothing about working "outside" the home in the actual survey. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2018/09/24/stay-at-home-moms-and-dads-account-for-about-one-in-five-u-s-parents/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:09 PM
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Single men make less than married men also.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:03 PM
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The pill is what allows women to be equal. All the laws in the world won't help you if you're constantly pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:02 PM
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Don’t have to be married to experience and observe married couples broski Uh, yes you do. Unless you're living in their house, everything you hear about married couples is hearsay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:01 PM
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How many times have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:54 PM
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Then shouldn't you leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:53 PM
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Hard to say, almost certainly above average based off the following: I get random girls at bars calling me handsome/cute although not that often.(Maybe 20-40 times my entire life and I've going to bars for 4 years) Girls I hookup with almost always call me handsome, cute or assume I'm a player. People seem surprised when I don't have a girlfriend and assume I'm a player. My male and sometimes even female friends tell me I'm good looking. Girls don't tend to mention their boyfriend around me. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:49 PM
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And I answered that, married men make more than any other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:15 PM
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Possibly, I'm sure as women continue to earn more we will see some fluctuation in the SAHP stats and maybe Not likely, numbers haven't budged much on stay at home parents since 1989, despite women making massive gains in income over that time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:58 PM
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Yes, married men make more money than any other groups, including single men and women. And men make more money than their wives in most marriages. And even if he didn't, she still has more access to money because she's married then if she wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:56 PM
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Women of course factor looks aswell (on Tinder obviously more than in real life), but to a lesser degree than men who almost exclusively factor looks (especially on Tinder), instead they also factor other aspects of his profile. I've been constantly surprised at how many women clearly haven't read my profile, when I meet them in person on an app. While it's true you can amplify your attractiveness by taking better pictures and more interesting pictures, guys who are attractive can take some pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:51 PM
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They make less than married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:33 PM
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Less so, there's more women make zero income, and men's income tends to have higher variance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:33 PM
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What does this thread have to do with incels? It's a correction on another thread, which didn't have anything to do with incels either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:29 PM
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Woman do twice the amount of childcare (15-20hours) and about 10 more hours a week in house care. Can I see the study behind this? If it's self-reported I'm highly skeptical of its validity. And if it includes stay at home moms, that's a moot point. Obvious if you're bringing in no income you should do more of the childcare and housework. Assuming this was monitary women would be earning a full time and part time salary. 1) Women would be doing some of that work themselves regardless. 2) Women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:18 PM
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They also get someone to support them while they raise their children. In a married household the money is pooled anyways so it's not like she can't use her husband's money just because she didn't earn it. And in most marriages that money her husband brings in will be higher than what she would have made alone. And I don't see any proof that they do more "work", if the husbands making more, it's likely that she either works less, or her job is less demanding. It's only fair that she makes up for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:11 PM
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Then why do you come here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:46 AM
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Looks like around 30 percent of women are stay at home moms. Numbers around 8 for dads
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:42 AM
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Kinda, that’s only if you count household where both couples are earning an income, but they’re obviously a lot of household with SAHM so that doesn’t really tell the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:25 AM
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How does this point towards it being a bigger sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:20 AM
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How are PPD men not “men” in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 11:19 AM
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Or, woman help men earn more by taking care of things that would otherwise cost them in their career like, family obligations, stress and childcare. Sure that's called specialization. Bruh it's pretty commonly accepted that woman do way more domestic work and still work full time at the benefit of men. Why should they though? I don't know how you can quantify that. There are certain housework things that men do much better with i.e handyman work. I doubt the difference in domestic duties comes c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 10:22 AM
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Yeah, that study doesn't mean what you think it does. Look at this article from PoltiFact which references it: https://www.politifact.com/punditfact/statements/2014/apr/09/genevieve-wood/what-pay-gap-young-women-out-earn-men-cities-gop-p/ Here's the slightly deflating caveat: this reverse gender gap, as it's known, applies only to unmarried, childless women under 30 who live in cities. The "unmarried" part is a massively confounding variable, the more money a man makes the more like he is to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:53 AM
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I don't know about online dating, I've been doing the whole nuclear family thing for 15 years so not on there. But it's so fucking easy getting female attention when I go out. Stopped reading right there. If you're not actually fucking those girls, you don't know the value of that attention. I see this all the time with guys in LTR who constantly overestimate how much women are into him because he never has to actually convert.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:12 AM
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Women can't judge men based on just images. They obviously can, because men regularly get laid with just their looks on tinder. When I said get laid, I mean have girls come over straight to their apartment. But of course they ignore anything that suggests that meeting women in person has a higher success rate because they would have actually approach strange women which they fear doing. It's not fear, it's time. If you're working 45+ a week, plus commute you don't have time to go out and approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:06 AM
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That was not a study, that was an unsourced blog post. I see no evidence anywhere that women at any age range out earn man You just keep making shit up. https://www.financialsamurai.com/median-income-by-age-and-sex-in-america/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:52 AM
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yea no i know alot of guys with messy rooms and cute girls, and you prob have a way stricter definition of messy than me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 07:43 AM
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Girls don't date guys with gross rooms for a reason. lmao this girl is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:57 AM
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Anyone who thinks you can predict a medical advancement in 10 years is an idiot. Plenty of idiots work for Yale. Or liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:53 AM
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Like I initially thought, you’re STILL talking about hundreds of thousands of years here. Uh, no you're not. African Americans have higher salt retention than native Africans due to the transatlantic crossing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:48 AM
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Link to a study of men and women in their 20 and 30s not to a study that includes Boomers. You cannot point to your grandfather's life as the reality you live in. Did you actually read the study? It includes all age ranges and it was taken in 2016. I swear people on this subreddit don't know how to read. https://research.stlouisfed.org/publications/economic-synopses/2018/09/14/married-men-sit-atop-the-wage-ladder And the gap is actually higher than the chart shows because women tend to marry old…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:45 AM
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Dr Carlo Bulletti, associate professor at Yale University’s obstetrics, gynecology, and reproductive science department, thinks that a fully functioning artificial womb could be a real thing within the next 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:30 AM
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What kind of evolution are we talking here? Just different skin tones and eye color? Whatever features make you more likely to have children. Poor reaction to birth control. Lower impulse control. Higher parental drive. Religiosity. Anything that can be based on genes and is linked to have more children may become more common. Sex drive used to be enough, which is why so many peoples are so high, not anymore though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 03:28 AM
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This Then, post-2008/2009, RP went to shit. Enter the Incel community. Implies that RP existed pre 2008.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:55 AM
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Human evolution takes hundreds of thousands of years, if not millions. This isn't true at all, Europeans didn't have white skin or blue eyes until 12000 or so years ago. Women are already evolving to have menopuase later https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2868295/ The article doesn't have anything except some guesses made by some researchers, none backed with actual evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:54 AM
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Ok. How does that contradict what I said? You're claiming the TRP was around pre 2008. That sounds like bullshit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:34 AM
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In what world does evolution outpace technological development? In a world where the sickle cell trait emerged before a cure for malaria. We put a man on a the moon like 65 years after we first flew a plane. This a fallacy commonly used by people who don't understand engineering or technology. Just because we did something relatively quickly in one area of technology does not mean we can something relatively quickly in another unrelated area. We’ve already grown sheep in artificial wombs. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:31 AM
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I already acknowledged that I probably don't know everything that went down and they may occasionally lie. I guess our quibble is with how frequently those things happen and whether women have enough info to make a reasonable guess as to how frequently other women are getting pumped and dumped. In my opinion, we very much do. Agreed that at this point we're arguing over semantics, all I'm saying is that you don't know what you don't. And even if you're right about your friends, your friends are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:26 AM
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I think this is going to lead to more xenophobia and political extremes. Studies show a correlation between men being unhappy with their sex life and xenophobic attitudes towards immigrants. In general, the higher the variance you see in outcomes in a population, the more extreme strategies you'll see people employ. But honestly, no one knows. Income inequality can be fixed by redistribution, but social status is zero-sum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:19 AM
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I think evolution will take of it before we get to artificial wombs. Plus the fewer kids there are, the less expensive housing, childcare and education will become.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:12 AM
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Apparently MIT and Stanford are "netflix".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:08 AM
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to do it themselves. Men are earning just 50-60% of the household income, less then that prechildren and doing less then 30% of the housework and child care. This is complete bullshit, not only do husbands make more than wives(and single women) at every stage of marriage, the gap continues to increase throughout life. https://www.marketwatch.com/story/married-men-earn-more-than-single-or-married-women-and-single-men-2018-09-19 Until men start realizing the value they now need to be bringing isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:02 AM
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And I heard plenty of stories about hookups I didn't witness too. I don't doubt it. And there's plenty of stories you probably didn't hear, or heard widely inaccurate versions of. You said women don't know about all the men pumping and dumping their friends and that their friends lie about it. I disagree So you think women tell their friends all the casual sex they're having and never lie about it? Look, my point is this thread is clear: Tinder is an app primary used for hookups. One of the bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:47 AM
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I LIVED with my female friends. I heard their hookups through shared walls and saw them stumble home at 10am in the same clothes they wore out the night before. I saw them disappear with dudes at parties and reemerge 45 minutes later with disheveled hair and smeared lipstick. I heard their stories and told my own, because they were funny, and not a big deal. So you're telling me your friends told you about the hookups that you pretty much witnessed? Shockers This idea that modern western women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:28 AM
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I’m going to go on a whim and say I know more than you. My suprise.. I’ve had friends who’ve lied and then had a wine and ice cream confession session with the girls couple months later. And surely you've never had friends that didn't confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:04 AM
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They might not "brag" but they definitely talk about it. Unless you can read mind you have no idea how often they talk about it. Some do no doubt, some don't. One thing that separates women from this subreddit from women in real life is that women on here seem to have a very hard time comprehending that women, especially women who are their friends, lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:02 AM
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Well, I've literally sat in bed with girls and watch her text lies to her friends about how our date ended. But you're right, I don't really know exactly how honest the average woman is with her friend, my point is you don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:56 AM
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I don't understand the point of the post. Obviously they're alot of things that are a part of male attraction that can't be put into a tinder profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:50 AM
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This is what we call Survivorship bias. Hint: Your friends aren't going to brag to you about all the guys who pumped and dumped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:44 AM
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Men naturally do need female validation. The forms of validation are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah this is majorly off, atleast past the first two paragraphs. MGTOW might have technically started in the 2000s, but it didn't really take off until much much more recently, I'd say after PUA. Secondly, PUA while it was started by bookselling(kinda), it wasn't "dating advice" it was sex advice. Because of this it was a lot more straight forward than your typical dating book and targetted by alot of feminists as sexist. The TRP was an attempt to figure out why PUA worked, because PUA was mainl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:35 AM
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you really think men allowed us anything Well, men did invent the pill, which is probably the greatest force of women's equality in Western history. Men did invent pretty much all of the technology you use, including the computer you're typing on. But that's not really the point, "men" and "women" aren't teams, they're genders, who typically compete within, more than they compete outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:06 AM
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So why isn't men's clothes like that, do men not care about comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:01 AM
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It's not more convenient to do EXTRA work of OLD. What extra work? Swiping for right in your PJs is more work? Real life dating is literally something that just happens to those who aren't total shut ins... you just meet people every day. Yeah you meet people everyday, many are men, many more are unattractive women, women who are taken, or women who aren't into you. Dating doesn't happen to men. Men make relationships or hookups happen by approaching women. Doing so in workplace(where people spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 12:00 AM
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They're multiple that have been posted here all looking at the GSS data, which is worthless because of the variance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:54 PM
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Who says the women can't have the same men? You don't think there are any guys who fuck multiple girls at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:53 PM
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You're just proving his point, he's saying the value of the accent is linked to the prestige of the people who it comes from. That doesn't mean a Chinese man can't use an Oxford accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:50 PM
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Reddit is the only place that I've found a significant amount of people that think accents from the American south are attractive. It's kinda hilarious. For me, on women, I'd say a posh British, French, East African/Arabic, followed by the rest of the romance languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:47 PM
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I take no issue with it as long as it's not aimed at young boys(or atleast any young boys in my family or that I care about). I know most women, even extreme feminist don't actually hate, even when they say they do. The only thing I disagree with you in is that women are "raised to depend on male validation", I think it's just in their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:45 PM
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i dont believe women should be allowed to vote Do you have a post where you explain this? I'm actually really interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:39 PM
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People who don't have any stressors or challenges in life tend to have that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:35 PM
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Reputation is more important the smaller the group of people. The middle class is too large for anyone to keep track of family reputation and honor. The same can't be said for the ultra wealthy, or a poor village in India for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 11:34 PM
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This is an obvious strawmen, because there's a huge difference between finding a perfect man if you settle down young and finding a better man than would have if you settled down later. But this is PPD so 90% percent of the arguments are made in obvious bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:50 PM
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No, I love seeing (attractive) women in swimsuits. Where do you see me complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:38 PM
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Yeah man, the half a second it takes me to notice what someones wearing clearly means I'm half assing my gym session for the day. If I was actually working out hard, I would go completely blind during my rest periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:38 PM
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I don't think women go to the gym every morning hoping to pickup dudes(although some certainly do it for the attention), I do think that women's clothing, not just gym wear, have obviously diverse to incredibly more revealing then men's. And I find it funny that the same feminist who complain about objectification, don't discuss this because doing so would make it obvious that alot of female sexual objection is self-inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:36 PM
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Obviously, but people respond to incentives. If spending more time in the gym than the lab gets you the hottest girls(aka the ones in their twenties), then that's what more men will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:57 AM
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Histories riddled with stories of couples sad about their inability to conceive children. I don't buy it. Obvious there are some women who don't need children to be happy but I think they're outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:53 AM
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Holy shit, I've been noticing this trend and I thought I was crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:49 AM
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again for white people with college degrees, men still comfortably out earn women Are white people without college degrees not white people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:48 AM
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No, but being a software engineer at Uber, or the next Uber certainly will. Tell me who designed the computer your typing on? Who wrote the software you're using? Who built and maintains the telecom infrasture your house uses to connect to the internet. Mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:11 AM
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Uhh, have you ever been to silicon valley? A majority of innovation in this country still comes from men. Have you ever look at who builds and maintains our infrastructure? Still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:00 AM
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Your genes aren't indifferent. Women who could happy without having children didn't tend to pass on their genes, we're all the descendants of women who cared to bear children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:55 AM
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Yes because Elon Musk has never underestimated how long something would take.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:53 AM
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With robots, AI and of-course UBI and I playing bigger roles in our lives, we will approach utopia in a few decades. As a robotics engineer, this is completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:18 AM
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They're still wearing something a lot skimpier than men. Which is my point that you seem to be willfully misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:15 AM
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How is that a raw deal? What's the point of life's work? To have a lot of money to spend on worthless things? To get the validation of others for being "smart"? No wonder 1 in 5 women are on happy pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:13 AM
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And are almost exclusively worn by men in cross country teams and running clubs. Even when I ran the cross country the men's team typically only wore those for races. I've almost never seen a man wear them too them gym unless they're obviously showing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:08 AM
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In my experience, women don't seem to care that much about how much a man makes. Maybe it's because I'm in my mid-twenties, but when you read these articles you'd think that all of the men I know that makes 6 figures would have pussy raining down on them and that's just not true. Women prefer looks, charisma, and "fun" over a guy who has to spend 60 hours at the office. As long as the guy's not a complete broke ass I don't see what an 8% income difference is going to make. I'm very skeptical of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:00 AM
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Who cares about their 20's its the 30's and 40's that matter for most people. Anyone who can do the math and understands what compound interest is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:52 AM
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I have a hard time believing any study can control for enough variables to know if it's the exact same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:51 AM
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Humans didn't evolve to pair-bond with handbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:49 AM
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Isn't the stereotype of a clothes designer being female or gay male?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:46 AM
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I don't call what the average girl wears to the gym "slutwear", it is more revealing than what the average man wears.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:45 AM
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Men know it's not ok to harass people. They justify doing it to women by saying that because of X, she must've wanted it. It's all just excuses. What does any of this have to be this topic we're discussing? A person with low self esteem wouldn't believe anyone telling them they're beautiful. Ok...not all women have low self esteem. There's a difference between narcissism and malignant narcissism. Healthy narcissism is normal. lol that's like saying healthy sociopathy is normal. If you spend hour…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:42 AM
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I thought it was obvious that "exercise clothes" refers to what you'd find in your local clothing stores' athletic wear department and what 90% of women wear when they work out, not specialized outfits for dancers(which aren't revealing skin for practical purposes btw, that's also more of a style choice).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:35 AM
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We're not talking about specific equipment for specialized sports that less than 1% of the population does, we're talking about the difference between the average girl and guy at the college gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:27 AM
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Men tend to believe that a woman that dresses up is doing it specifically to get their attention. No, we believe sometimes it's to get male attention, not necessarily ours. Or they use that as a way to blame women for him bothering complete strangers that were just minding their own business. This sentence makes no sense. Is English your first language? Looking good makes one feel good. Because you receive positive attention from others when you look good. Even if no one else sees it she can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:19 AM
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I don't see how that's relevant. I'm talking about clothes you'd see your typical girl wear in LA fitness, not specialized clothed for specific athletic or dance competitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:12 AM
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These are short shorts women wear to the gym: https://images.app.goo.gl/hRBeDLwfb8tZMGCc9 https://images.app.goo.gl/LdW4qtjJ3eeUXKBg8 Now tell me, go to local gym. How many men are wearing shorts like that? Do the shorts in the picture of guy doing yoga look even half as short?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:09 AM
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I’ll try a third time. How are yoga pants not functional for working out? Then why don't men wear them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:07 AM
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My shirt doesn't hang down my face, didn't you look at the picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:02 AM
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Depends on what you mean by loose clothing, but I’ve worn clothes very similar to the picture I’ve posted in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:15 PM
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Yes, anything that requires precision of movement and precision of body placement will necessarily be performed in form fitting clothing. There's a difference between form-fitting and revealing a lot of skin. I've dance salsa for years. Salsa requires many quick precise movements, yet it's not uncommon to see men go social dancing in a suit, or atleast a blazer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:15 PM
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I’ve never seen a man wear a shirt in hot yoga. I think you're really pushing on how much "hot yoga" drives female athletic clothes. Seriously have you ever down downward dog in loose clothing? How did you tolerate it?? Like this guy: https://images.app.goo.gl/DueQVPTDfJxgMdRL9
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:10 PM
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If she's a woman some asshole is going to want to fuck her no matter where she is or what she's wearing. Really, there's no difference in male attention a woman receives based on what's she's wearing? Is that why they spend so much on clothes, make up, and take so long to get ready? Women go to women-only gyms specifically to avoid male attention. Which women? Most women just go to LA fitness, or whatever local gym, like the rest of us, in university they opened up a women's only section in our …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:05 PM
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I've been to Yoga classes and the guys clothes really weren't that much different for normal male workout attire, a little less restricting maybe. I've never done hot yoga though And I think the difference showed up way before yoga became a thing, in cross country, for example, other than the shorts we wore during the race, the girl's shorts were almost always shorter than the men. None of those girls did yoga, they were just running like the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 08:59 PM
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Because they want to reveal themselves and people want to see them like that. Why is that even a question? Even when working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 08:23 PM
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I don't think this is really knowable. More women take antidepressants and attempt to kill themselves, but incel forums have exploded in the last few years, and look at all of the mass shooters popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 06:29 PM
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I honestly don't blame her. Would you blame a man from wanting to dump his women if she got fat, or stop fucking him? And that "I'm going to kill myself shit" just proved her right that he was weak as fuck.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:08 AM
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Care to explain that? Are you saying they'd be intimated by the Chadfish model, or suspicious of the account?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:00 AM
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Meh, I'm way less attractive than the average Chadfish model, and I've been able to get girls to come over directly to my apartment 4 or 5 times. What they're posting is completely believable to me, based off my experiences and the experiences of men I know who are more attractive. I think too many women make the mistake of thinking because they'd never do something, no other women would. But as far as this thread goes I agree with you that female thirst is not nearly as prevalent as male thirst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:56 AM
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I mean I replied in a thread on here somewhere a while back, not directly PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:46 AM
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I've literally sent you screenshots showing tinders girls coming straight over to my place, all the way up to the "im here" message.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:41 AM
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I already gave you examples of female thirst. Do you know what the word "prevelant" means? I can give you examples of women committing violent crimes, does that mean female violence is as prevalent as male violence? Restraining orders? Wtf are you talking about? An example of male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:37 AM
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If one person is thirsty and in the middle of a desert and the other person is thirsty in the middle of a grocery store, the fact that one can see liquids and the other can’t doesn’t change the fact that they’re both thirsty does it? Thirsty in terms of literally thirsty? No. Thirsty in terms of desperate? Absolutely the person in the desert is way more "thirsty". But none of that is relevant because, once again, you completely miss the point. OP is talking about groups. He says women, as a grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:59 PM
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The point is women are just as capable of being thirsty as men even if their end goal is not the same. No, it's not. His post said, "Female thirst is just as prevalent as male thirst". That's very different from saying women are capable of being thirsty as men. Sure some women might be extremely thirsty for famous people or athletes. But how many celebrities or athletes are there? Men, on the other hand, get thirsty for slightly above average girls all of the time. Male thirst is way more preval…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:34 PM
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That doesn't address the cases of blatant objectification. Like showing a picture of Chris Hemsworth shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:46 PM
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That’s now how our sexuality should work According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 04:31 AM
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He's not wealthy, and he never will be. He'll likely never be able to get a decent job, decent education and he'll probably have trouble just renting an apartment. You should really look up the sex offender list, its completely devasting, especially to a young person who will be on it for the rest of their life. It's caused people to commit suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:40 AM
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You clearly have no idea what you're talking about if you're thinking being on the sex offender list is just an annoyance. It kills any career and romantic ambitions. And Brock wasn't rich, he went to Stanford on a swimming scholarship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:45 PM
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No, they are not, because non OLD women do not have access to OLD options, in practice. They do, but only in theory (which is irrelevant), as they are not actually accessing those options. That's the key point. You're completely missing the point. The girls that are using online dating are all clustering around a relatively few hyper attractive men. So when the men that aren't doing online go back to real life, the gender ratios are in the women's favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 08:31 PM
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As for Brock Turner he's an outlier, he got a slap on the wrist because of rich privilege. He really didn't. He got put on sex offender list for life, which alone is worse than 5 years in prison. And there wasn't even "physical evidence", just one pair of eyewitnesses. If Brock shut up and didn't talk to the police, he'd probably never would have been convicted of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 05:26 PM
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Google "hookup culture overblown" ... I told you. There are papers written on this topic. That paper is complete mathematical garbage. That author misuses basic statistical terms(assumes number of sexual partners is gaussian, when its extremely fat tailed. )
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 12:10 AM
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Well if you're not dumb, how did you miss this: explain to us on the other hand why ANYONE would use OLD or download apps if they can JUST MEET PEOPLE IRL - every day. You to go class, work, outside, a party, a bar. "Why would anyone buy a car when they can just take the bus" Because it's much more convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:58 PM
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And they're not captured by MBTI
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:14 PM
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That still produces wild variances in mating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:40 AM
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If she had the option to have a top tier guy at 21 most women would try to keep him. And they do. Say you're a 22-year-old girl who's a 6, you can seriously date a 6 , or casually date/sleep around with an 8. When girls are young they tend to pick the 8. They can do this because hot guys will sleep with anything that's easy and girl date up in age so the numbers are in their favor. They're not looking to start a family anytime soon so what if the guy doesn't have his shit together, he's hot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:20 AM
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We called them “booty calls” in my day. Dialing the phone was actually less effort than swiping. Wow, you really don't get how this works huh? "Booty call" is for someone you're already having sex with. Tinder is for meeting new strangers to have sex with. And we were all young and arrogant once too and thought we pioneered everything too. Aren't you the lady who didn't know how DNA works?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:49 AM
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It’s the combination. Dating changed rapidly, and due to poor parenting, these young men never learned how to be resourceful and adapt to a rapid change in environment or expectations. I agree that we're doing a shitty job of raising young men, but it's also probably become harder to raise a successful young man. Can you imagine these video game playing incels getting drafted into war? They wouldn’t even make it through a week of basic. Dealing with war is not the same as dealing with women. I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:37 AM
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Are you seriously telling me that NSA sex didn’t exist or wasn’t common before tinder? No, and only someone completely incompetent in reading comprehension would have gotten that from my post. Could I sit in my pajamas at home and match with a girl on an app and have her in my bed 2 hours later before tinder was big? You're completely missing the point. It's like you're saying: "Well, there were people reading books before the printing press was invented, therefore the printing press was no big …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:33 AM
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Well, you're correct that guys on a train probably are not a representative sample of the population, I've never been on a train other than as a tourist visiting a city, and I'm sure most American men would say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:05 AM
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There's no way anecdotal evidence could ever come close to proving 60 percent of all men sexually assault. And depending on how you define sexual assault some of it's quite tame. I'm a dude and I've had girls randomly grab my ass and kiss me before. Not to deny that girls get it way worse, both in frequency and severity, but some of these numbers are quite odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:58 AM
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I think this learned helplessness is becoming more prevalent due to poor parenting and lack of discipline. I kinda doubt that poor parenting just happened to start having an effect the same time social media and dating apps go popular? Why would parents suddenly start sucking so badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:53 AM
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OLD is hardly comparable to the internet or cars. GMAB. In that's it's a socially disruptive technology, absolutely. It’s simply mirroring what has always existed in real life and the socially anxious people who thought OLD would be a godsend found out that it’s the same old same old and they’re mad. It's not mirroring what existed prior to its inventions. I've had 4 girls come straight to my apartment to have sex via OLD. There's no way I would have slept with them if those apps didn't exist. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:50 AM
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Islam is not explicitly monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:31 AM
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It's my experience most high tier guys prefer to commit to younger women. If you do the casual thing too long you risk being in the situation where a lot of the men are 1) fuckboys 2) unattractive or 3) looking to settle down with a younger girl. Just a trend I've noticed with my female friends complaining about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:27 AM
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There have always been men who had more sex than others. There have always been women who had their pick among tons of thirsty men. OLD didn’t create that dynamic and I get tired of OLD being just one more excuse for men who don’t want to engage in the game. This is like saying the invention of the internet wasn't a big deal because people always communicated before. Cars weren't a big deal because people have always traveled. People read books before the invention of the printing press. Scale m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:22 AM
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It's a form of learned helplessness. Most people are not very good at putting effort into things without seeing some positive feedback. At a certain point, a lot of people will just quit, or drastically reduce their efforts. This isn't just for dating, it's for anything in that has a steep learning curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:15 AM
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Generally, if a woman is a virgin or the answer really is 1 or 2, a woman will tell you the real number. Usually. Some sick women will outright lie. But most women won't say 1 when the answer is 10. She'll say something from 3-5. How could you possibly know any of this other having the ability to read minds? This whole post is just baseless guesswork being passed off as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:11 AM
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And you know what? Nerdy introverted guys who can't get laid and end up with engineering degrees ALSO sometimes end up with shitty dead-end jobs. I didn't dispute that. The idea that Chad the player who gets girls is going to get beat in the end because he's going to be a loser while Billy Beta the engineer is going to be rich is just internet rage. Also never said that. What I did say, is that guys who tended to be the best with women when they were young rarely grow up to be top tier engineers…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 12:07 AM
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He went to college, got an engineering degree, and because he has social skills and networking connections, he manages guys like you who studied hard and work in the same engineering firm Really? I don't know one super cool jock in my school that got an engineering degree. Most of them are doing alright, but they're not doctors, lawyers, or engineers, and I doubt many will make 6 figures before they're 30, if ever. In my university, which is a top ten engineering, but also a lot of majors and a …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 02:25 AM
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You think they’re views aren’t real to the people who got shot by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:34 PM
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Tell that to the people who got shot by 8chaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:21 PM
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While a lot people look at SJW at nut jobs, a lot of their ideas have been accepted by the mainstream. This is the how activist operate by moving the Overton window.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:19 PM
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You have to deal with the reality of online dating in real life too. If that cute girl at the bar is already fucking/dating Chad she meet online, she's going to be alot less likely to be open to your approach. That's assuming she even goes out to the bars in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 08:43 PM
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And you know all of this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 08:47 PM
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An incredibly small percentage of incels will, yes. But it doesn't take much to cause a big impact. Call all men entitled demons, is just as pointless as calling all muslims terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 07:39 PM
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Yes, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 12:25 PM
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You don't really have any good insight into how well those relationships are going. Most men won't tell you their relationship problems unless you're extremely close with them, and most couples put up an appearance of happiness even when they're not. That's not to say none of them happy, but 60 friends? I doubt even your brother can accurately gauge how well their love life is going. I've been shocked at how many times a relationship I thought was picturesque were revealed to rotten underneath u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:51 AM
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I wonder if the French or American Revolution would have been possible without the invention of the printing press.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:35 PM
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I believe what we're seeing is an increase in variance in dating success, just like we've started to see an increase in variance in income. Increases in variances of outcome are usually caused by technology, in this case, social media and the internet which have been incredibly disruptive. No one can say with any real certainty what the result will be, if I had to guess from history I would say: Increased mass shootings and domestic terrorism. Increased in the number of young men turning to extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:32 PM
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The open borders thing would be interesting, the literature shows the female immigrants receive less ire than male immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:22 PM
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The fact remains is that women are more fine with being single than men are. Women dont need men, but men believe they need women. I don't know how there's any way to prove this one way or another, but 20% of women in the US report taking antidepresseants, and they attempt suicide at a higher rate than men. So I don't know if I'd say they're doing fine. This is reflected in that more divorced men remarry than divorced women. It could easily be the case that divorced women have a harder time rema…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:21 PM
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Or maybe go shoot up a walmart. Or elect xenophobic alt-right politicians to office.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:16 PM
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Personal anecdotes are not stats, and observations can often be more misleading than useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:16 PM
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There’s no such thing as the “typical women” so what does that matter? Your friends are very bias sample, and that’s assuming they’re being honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:06 PM
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Would you recommend marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:55 AM
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Then why are you red?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:50 AM
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people are very predictable. Prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:48 AM
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"Never get married" isn't just an example, it's the mantra of the majority of the ECs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:46 AM
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you’re collecting data from a representative sample, so that the results can be generalized to the population that you sampled from. Not even that, if there's high variance in the thing you're measuring, even a general sample won't tell you much about the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:45 AM
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You are kinda missing the forest for the trees. We have been saying this over and over in this sub. AWALT is like saying, treat all guns like they are loaded. Of course, not all guns are loaded, but you don't point it at people and randomly pull the trigger. This is dumb analogy. It cost nothing to treat guns as loaded. Treating all women like they're so untrustworthy that you don't marry any of them can cost you an opportunity to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 01:15 AM
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They're not stated facts, but strategies that may or may not be practical. Like when a parent tells their teenage daughter "all boys are just interested in sex". No, it's not literally true, but it serves as an effective caution for vulnerable girls. Except it's not, it might make her so neurotic she misses on an opportunity with a good guy. My point is there is a substantial part of TRP that recommend avoiding marriage entirely because of AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:40 AM
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Statistics tell us the for things with high variance monstrous sample sizes are required to get an accurate picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:39 AM
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1) You have no idea if outliers are outliers when you have a small amount of data. 2) You never ignore outliers, they're often the most important part of a dataset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:38 AM
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Sure, but my point is most of TRP wouldn't recommend getting a wife in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:34 AM
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Even if the risk of "bad thing happening" (divorce, cuckoldry, whatever) is low, so long as it's nonzero, and we don't have a scientific basis for identifying what factors can be used to determine where a given prospective partner falls in terms of risk profile, the fact of the nonzero risk standing alone is sufficient for many men to not pursue a given arrangement (be that LTR, marriage, whatever) because their distaste for the bad thing happening is SO HIGH. Sure but you can say about any vent…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:24 AM
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That's not why you think you'll never win the lottery(by that logic you wouldn't believe anything is possible if you didn't know someone who had experienced it). You think you'll never win the lottery because the statistics are easy to google, and the mechanisms behind them are easy to understand and verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:20 AM
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Succeed with what? Common RP doctrine is to not get married. Many men want to have kids, and that means getting married if they want the kids to grow up in a good environment. If you assume all women are manipulative whores, and that getting married is the dumbest thing you can ever do because its doomed for failure, then you succeed in mitigating risk, but you haven't succeeded in your objective of starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:18 AM
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And how's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:12 AM
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No, because all women(minus some birth defects maybe) have vaginas by definition. Behavior is more complex with much more variance, and thus harder to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:10 AM
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And you know this because you've slept with all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:01 AM
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Exaggerations that arrive at the conclusion that the risk is one not worth taking under current societal conditions. Sure, but based on what? Divorce stats, personal ancedotes posted on reddit, their own experiences? All of those are biased and give an incomplete model of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 12:00 AM
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But it's almost ALL men There's no way you could possibly know this because you had most men hit on you, and never will. Even if you've had hundreds of men hitting on you those men are not a representative sample of the population, and when you have something with high variance(like human behavior), it's impossible to get an idea of what the actual distribution looks like without a ton of information, more than one person will get in any lifetime. So if almost ALL men that talk you come across a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:50 PM
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This question is marked as a Question for men, and thus, all top level comments should be by men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:34 PM
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You probably don’t even know that word correlation means, it refers to a particular linear relationship between two random variables. Just because correlation does not appear does not mean that there is not a causative relation Consider a random variable X which is a normal distribution. Consider a variable Y which is equal to X2. Obviously there is a causative relationship between X and X2, but there is no correlation. Of course it is possible for there to be a linear causative relationship tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:19 PM
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No, non correlation does not mean non-causation. Who taught you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:20 PM
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It seems like you answered your own questions, it's not the virginity itself, it's what the virginity may be a sign of that you're of low social status, or that you're gay. The reason why they're mocking you is that they're insecure in some sense about their own status and they find beating down on you as an easy way to feel better about themselves. Truly high-status people don't even think about low-status people. Jocks in my schools never had the time to bully nerds. Now the fact that you're s…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:57 PM
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And 20% is still 1 in 5 No, it's not really. Even within that 20 percent, there's massive variance. And of course, 20 percent is likely wrong, probably an overestimate based on most of the criminal justice literature available on the subject, although that has its own bias It's like us saying to a group of 5 men "that guy did this to me" and then the other 4 going "you're making it up. I didnt see it happen. Why are you afraid, why don't you trust us? We wouldnt do that. You're so entitled". In …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:07 PM
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What I think you're getting at is would it be a good idea for a woman to go home with a guy after a date if she's not at least willing to get him off. And I'd say no. Granted I've taken women home and nothing's happened. But I wouldn't take that risk if I was a girl. Letting men into the house thing is a completely different thing, are we talking about house inspectors, friends? There's a risk there too, but I think it's much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:29 PM
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Alone at home? Not really, I don't even do that with male friends much unless we're meeting up before heading out to bars. Besides female roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:22 PM
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None of that surprises me, but that still doesn't mean the typical man will rape. I wouldn't be surprised if its something like a Pareto distribution, with 20 percent of men be responsible for 80 percent of those experiences, and seeing as most women will interact with hundreds of guys in their lifetime, they're almost all going to run in someone in that 20 percent. It's like if a white dude in a suit went into the most dangerous areas of Chicago at night, most of the people wouldn't want the mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 07:14 PM
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I created a profile of an average looking black girl and she got more likes than i have in the entirety of the 5 years I've used dating app-most of the men were white Bro, a dating app isn't real life. How many of those men would do anything more than pump and dump that girl.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:04 AM
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I'm black, and I agree race is a factor(I'm guessing everyone here would agree), but the question is how much of a factor it is. You say 8/10 black girls are down but only 6/10 white girls, statistically that a meaningless difference when you consider all of the other variables that go into an approach. And you claim 6/10 whites girls are into you but only 10% will date you? Once again, no way of knowing that. There's also way more men attracted to white girls then blacks girls, so your differen…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:30 PM
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Why do people base so much off of dating sites, which are a small self-selected part of the population?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:22 PM
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I believe, I gotta say tho, women put themselves in very vulnerable positions if they think you're attractive. Like when I think about the number of women who have come into my home after only knowing me for a few hours is kinda shocking. Some(not many) have come to my apartment after just matching with me on the internet. Obviously, I've never done anything bad to a girl, but if I was a woman I wouldn't go to a guys within hours of meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 01:28 AM
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Same way 98 percent of people make below average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:59 PM
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Comparing strength, something which has low variance, to personality something that has extremely high variance, is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:58 PM
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Psychologically is largely a junk science, and those questionnaires aren’t measuring anything other than how people answer questions to some test. I don’t men and women are different but don’t try and qualify with bullshit measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:55 PM
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They need some ethos. No woman will go by just looks alone. I've had 4 tinder dates come directly to my house. Slept with all of them within 20 minutes of their arrival. And I'm not even really that good looking. They're plenty of women that will pick a man just for looks. PLENTLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:26 PM
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Of course everyone has their issues, but I can say with confidence that the man was never an incel. There's a large gulf between being incel and successful. I don't even necessarily disagree with you that 5'7 isn't the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:22 PM
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I’m black, if you’re going to resort to name calling after being out-argued, you can at least get the right name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:34 AM
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First of all you seem to believe that these high wage jobs are finite, which is not true. This is the classic lump of labour fallacy, immigrant consumption drives up demands for goods and services, thus increasing jobs and employment. With high skill immigrants especially this has been shown to be the case time and time again by economic studies. Underemployment is not an issue for doctors and tech workers, or really anyone competing with an H1B. For lower skilled Americans, I can see a better a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 09:52 PM
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Most immigrants groups from 3rd world countries have higher incomes and/or educational attainments than native borns. While it’s true that the refugees from Latin America might not fall into this group, they’re not so large a group that they’d seriously have an impact on native wages. As for the automation point, I’m a robotics engineers and I’d say the vast majority of services that you’re talking about not even close to being fully automated. The general public doesn’t understand how or why th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 06:56 PM
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The title of the OP is literally: let women chase you. And it definitely matters what you say, because what you is say is how you communicate confidence and assertiveness.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:25 PM
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Being a celebrity effects how women react to you an order of magnitude more than all of the traits you mentioned. And when taking dating advice from someone you should always looks for the subtext. Is Freeman saying this because he actually thinks this is good advice? I mean he’s been caught on tape shamelessly chasing women, so he doesn’t seem to take his own advice to seriously. I think the reason people say stuff like this is 1) it’s feel good, evens if it’s bullshit 2) they want to signal to…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:21 PM
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This is such bullshit, I know numerous guys who are fit, above average looking, and have good job and social circle and do terribly with women. Because they have bad game, and don’t go out and chase. Just having your shit together is not going to get girls to chase you, that’s not how they work unless you’re a celebrity(and even Morgan Freeman’s been caught shamelessly flirting with interviewers on tap, so he does a fair bit of chasing himself). Making yourself a good product, isn’t enough, to g…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:14 PM
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Google Senait Gidey. You can tell yourself your husband wouldn’t trade you in for her in a second if he could, but it just shows you’re more blue than your flair lets on. And white people can keep thinking black people look like monkeys, as long as they keep sleeping with and dating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:51 AM
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Why should we stop taking immigrants from shithole countries. Indian Americans average salaries more than double the native born, and most people would call India a shithole country. In fact, we should be actively stealing all the smart people from shit hole countries. I feel like the only people who blame immigrants for a bad economy are native borns who are too dumb to compete in the modern economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:45 AM
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Yeah I’m sure your husband wouldn’t prefer a girl that looks like this https://images.app.goo.gl/oxA1vTKqj4DLrWQd8 over you just because you’re white and she’s black.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:39 AM
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If you’re a British black guy in North American you’ll absolutely kill it.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:38 PM
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I’m trying to be the best in the world in a very competitive technical field, so it’s pretty hard to take off time. I don’t actually have problems getting laid, N count of over 20, but that’s entirely due to the gift of above average looks + learning game from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 05:31 AM
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Expecting someone to clean up after you is being a slob. I’ve heard people complain, but when people complain to the level that OP is talking about they either have anal requirements, got into a relationship with a slob knowingly, or they’ve lost attraction to the person they’ve been dating and need to complain about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 01:15 AM
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lol bullshit, most couples end up moving in together because they were spending the night with each other more often than not. There’s no way someone can hide being a slob after you spend that much time with them. Have you ever seriously dated someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:29 AM
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I don’t give a shit about children and neither do most men in their 20s, but and to be successful at anything is a sacrifice, engineering not nearly as bad as law and medicine. It’s just that women don’t really care that much about how much money a man makes unless she’s planning on using that money, usually to create a family that she’s also not interested in having in her twenties. So for fucking and dating women in their twenties(aka the hottest) making big bucks really isn’t the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:25 AM
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Why would you move in with someone who’s a slob? I mean I don’t doubt that women are annoyed by the sloppiness of their hot boyfriends, but I can hardly feel sorry for someone who willingly walks into that situation and then complains about it. There’s no way you get to the point in relationship where you’d move in, without knowing how sloppy he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:14 AM
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It’ll definitely start calming down once their demographics age such that they have a large retired population being supported by a younger population who not only will have to pay higher taxes to support their retirement but have worse romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:05 AM
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By the time you’re ready to move in with someone how do you not know how sloppy they are? If it’s such a big deal why did you move in?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:01 AM
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The booming economy controls the people, let’s see what happens when it cools down and the men realize there aren’t enough women to go around. Especially since the corrupt party officials and their business friends are taking more then their fair share.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:42 PM
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Complete BS, I’ve made six figures as an engineer since age 24, I don’t think it helps that much with women at all. Sometimes I hide my job. I’ve seen so many engineers with the same story, despite being relatively responsible people that make good money at a young age, they do incredibly poorly with women until age 30+ they magically happen upon a wife, who treat them well until she gets a ring and a few kids, afterwards she remembers how unattractive he is. No one wants to someone’s paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:40 PM
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Russian culture is in the decline, as is their population. China is a completely different beast, but has worst demographics then the US, and has an oppressive political system that will likely lead to violent revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:32 PM
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Because white girls would never flake
/r/askTRP09/08/19 11:24 AM
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I don’t understand comments like this, you say a women might divorce you as if that proves some point. Obviously a women could possibly divorce you, although the chances are relatively low consider OP is college educated. No ones asking if it’s possible for a marriage to go bad, they’re asking if the possibility of a marriage going well is high enough to be worth the risk or divorce or a low quality marriage. With your logic no one would ever start a business because it’ll probably go bankrupt a…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:33 PM
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Poor societies tend to be more masculine because wealth is scare, and men are better at making wealth then women, not because of a difference in mental abilities, but because women are weaker and get pregnant. As societies become richer and wealth isn’t as rare, men see a relative decline in value. Unlike goods and services you can’t manufacture more young women, so young women see a realative increase in power. You could argue the pill let women generate wealth in greater numbers making society…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:09 PM
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I bet they all voted for Hillary too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:05 PM
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This is silly a lot of men have standards, and there’s a lot of PoS men with decent girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:59 PM
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The distribution of number of sexual partner is fat tailed i.e the real mean is highly effected by variance and outliers. The sample sizes they used are not useful or meaningful for predicting the true mean of a fat tailed distribution. This is a common problem in the social sciences. To give you intuition behind what this means, imagine your trying to get the average income in America. You ask 1000 people, or even 10000 and you average their results. You’d get a number that’s much lower than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 05:34 PM
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Depends what you mean by historically, I'm no historian, but in the hunter gather times exhibiting alpha behavior had a much higher risk versus today. And I think Alpha's weren't necessarily anti-cooperative, I think they got in their position as a mix of usefulness and social skills. No one can rules a group of men without their consent in a time where spears are the most advanced weapons, and no one is specialized in violence. Democracy is actually a man's natural state. I do think alphas were…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:46 AM
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Red Pill states Alpha and Beta are two types are behaviors. All men are programmed to possibly exhibit either of those two behaviors, depending on their environment. Alpha behaviors are exhibited when a man believes he is in a dominant position, in order to spread his genes Beta behaviors are exhibited when a man believes he is a weak position, this is pro cooperative behavior is designed to keep him from getting his teeth kicked in by an alpha until he can achieve a more dominant position. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:37 AM
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A study comparing the sexual behaviour of American 18-25-year-olds in 2004-2012 and 1988-1996. Only around half had more than 2 sexual partners since age 18, and only around a quarter had more than 5. Less than a third had more than one partner in the past year. What immediately jumps out at you in this study is that women's reported amount of sexual partners is almost half those of men, so either someone's having sex with someone outside the sample range, or someone's lying. While it's possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:18 AM
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Guys who did not pick up how things actually work by interacting with their peers are usually socially stunted guys. Why are they socially stunted? Do they just have bad genes? Or did their parents not socialize them properly when they were younger? Maybe they didn't involve them in enough activities, maybe they let them spend too much time playing video games and surfing the internet. Maybe they didn't emphasis how important social skills were when they were younger. A lot of white dudes on her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 12:46 AM
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I’m sure that’s true, but the problem is the asymmetry because the min partner count is zero, and the max is hundreds. Therefore the max outliers have a higher effect on the average then the min outlier. ( a slut brings the average up more than a virgin brings the average down)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:01 PM
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Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you stop adding new partners, most of those early marriages don’t last very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:59 PM
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Does anyone seriously claim 100 as the average N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 03:40 PM
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Studies have shown women report drastically different numbers of sexual partners when they’re hooked up to what they’re told is a lie detector machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:34 PM
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If the female average doesn’t match the male average the data is garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:33 PM
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Why would you believe women tell the truth on survey, studies also show when you hook a women up to a fake lie detector machine and ask them their N count it doubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:29 PM
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why is this important? Why did you ask for screenshots?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:41 AM
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Alright then, pray tell, in what way does she not talk like any girl you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:30 AM
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its insane to me that youve taken this long ass detour just because i basically said "this person doesn't talk like most young american women" Well, it depends on what you mean by "talk like most young American women", you mean her word usage and grammar is reflected in Australian English more so than American English. If you mean, "American women wouldn't be that slutty and forward", then you're completely wrong, and the reason I'm taking this "long-ass detour" is because it's become apparent t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 12:19 AM
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If you're not autistic, you'd know: 1) People talk much differently when they're sexually aroused than when they're not. 2) People talk much differently when they're don't have to fear the judgement of society than when they do. 3) People are capable of deception to maintain their social image, therefore you never really know what someone's like unless you follow them 24/7 and/or bug their phone. You know how some young people talk, in certain situations. Everything else is hearsay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:57 PM
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i know how women talk when theyre alone with a man becuz this is 2019 and "private conversations" dont exist when friends send screenshots of every conversation they have to their friends. So you're saying you know how women speak when they're alone with men based on a selective few screenshots your friends(an extremely small sample of American women) have decided to share with you of some of their conversations. Do you think women share every detail of every hookup with all of their girlfriends…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:30 PM
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Aren't you a woman? How would you know how any American woman, besides yourself, talks when they're alone with a man? The girl in the screenshot above was unusually forward and explicit(which is one of the reasons why I picked it), but they're plenty of women in America who will talk like that with the right guy, Australian culture isn't that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:10 PM
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Australia, why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:01 PM
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Alpha and beta are classifications of behaviors, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:34 PM
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well, I would assume that they'd just find a good-looking guy to be their sperm donor and then just raise the kid alone? Why would they want to do that? Does raising a kid alone seem like fun to you? Why would they procreate with a guy they find unattractive?? Because he supports her both from a financial and child-rearing perspective. Because single parenthood is still looked down on in large parts of the country. Because get inseminated by a sperm bank is expensive and dehumanizing, and no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:32 PM
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Here's one, I've blocked out her face to protect her privacy, also the ignore the weird timestamp, this happened when I was living on the other side of the world so the first message was at night not in the morning. https://imgur.com/a/3Rqtm6r Why is it so hard to believe that girls will sleep with guys just for their looks? I'm not even that good looking, I'm sure guys who are male model tier get this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 10:21 PM
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. Dancing especially will help as you need a girl to dance with and close contact with a girl while you demonstrate high quality dance moves can get a guy with poor communication skills laid. This is bullshit. I've been dancing salsa for 3 years now, I'm at an advanced level now, I've gone to atleast one social a week for almost as long as I can remember. Guess what? It doesn't get me any pussy I couldn't get otherwise. It will get you compliments, it will get you friends, but it won't get you l…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 12:22 PM
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Like gay men are known for? Did you read the post I responded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 11:25 AM
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I've slept with 5 women who have met me up for sex at my place after matching on tinder, no "game" was applied, how do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:03 AM
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Rich kids stop doing the activities their parents forced them to do once they're on their own working 40+ hours a week. Well young off women, and men, are well off because they have good jobs, good jobs take a lot of time and energy. Like others have said, look at Pinterest and Etsy and see all the crafty shit these girls are making. Go to a yoga class. A pottery class. Just because they're not out in your dance class doesn't mean they're not doing anything. I didn't say they're not doing anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:01 AM
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When you said "women don't have hobbies", did you really mean to say "young, poor women don't have hobbies"? Young maybe, poor no. It's not a wealth thing. It just seems like younger women don't get out as much. All of my dance classes have a major dearth of young women, my French group that meets up weekly is almost all men, and the women are all older. I don't think wealth has anything to do with it, these same groups are filled with young men relative to women, and it's not like young men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:25 AM
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Well, the implication was that the women aren't physically attractive, not that they're defiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 12:10 AM
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Black man here, largely agree, I see a lot of white guys are telling us that no decent white women will have us, but my reality and the reality of other black men on here haven't reflected that. I'm sure it'd be much easier to be white, but being black isn't that bad, especially if you have a high-income professional job which removes some of the worse stereotypes. What do you think of Indians and Asians who grow up in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:58 PM
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We're talking about Indian immigrants. They're not poor, in fact, their median income almost doubles that of white Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:50 PM
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Curious where you feel black men fall into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:48 PM
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Women are more neurotic, weaker, have to deal with pregnancy and the biological clock that comes with it. They age much worse than men. Their metabolism is too efficient for their own good. They get STD more easily. They have to deal with sexual assault and harassment. They have to spend more time and money getting ready for any sort of formal event. In a safe first world country, the only downside about being a man is having to put more effort into dating, and a legal system that's biased again…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:45 PM
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Being interesting in an online forum is not the same as being interesting in person. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:36 PM
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Instead of an interview date, go to a movie or museum or show first, then have dinner and talk about what you just saw. Make something else the center of attention and don’t put each other on the spot. This is a terrible idea in my experience, movies + something after is way too long for a first date, and talking about the movie you just saw is a great way to bore a woman to death. Women love talking about themselves on dates, but not in a boring interview style. Learning how to get her talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:35 PM
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It's a bad bet. A coin toss says you'll end up divorced, even if you do everything right. No, it's not. I and most people on Reddit are college-educated and have never been married. The divorce rate for that group is around 20 percent, once you factor in being well-employed and not getting married young it's closer to 15%. The vast majority of college-educated people will spend the rest of their life with the person they marry. Just because it -could- possibly work doesn't mean you ought to bet …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 11:19 PM
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I don't understand why you guys have to make everything so black and white. Yeah the tradcon fairy tale you were taught was mostly a lie, that doesn't mean it's not possible to have a worthwhile marriage, it just mean it's much harder than you were lead to believe. If marriage and a family is what a man really wants he should certainly max his value, get good at screening and take his shot. Yeah it's probably not going to be perfect, neither would being without a family. Everything has risk in l…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 10:40 PM
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Zoning out doesn't literally mean thinking about nothing, it just means your thoughts are so disjoint and wondering that if someone asks you what you're thinking, you say "nothing"; not because you were just brain dead, but because what you were thinking wouldn't be particularly meaningful to them or possible to verbalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:16 AM
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Standards aren't about intelligence or wisdom. Standards are about power. In dating power is being attractive. As women get older they need more from men and have less to offer, therefore their relative power decreases, as does their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:09 AM
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100 % right. The wall is about women losing their ability to find a man who is sexually attractive, financially successful, and willing to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:11 AM
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Is this actually true? I mean do most women really never zone out? I know my sister does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:56 AM
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That is what the wall is. Every few weeks someone comes up with a strawmen like the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 12:09 AM
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most women have kids their early 30s Yes, and when do you think those women who had kids in their early thirties started dating their husbands? Do you think the woman who has her first kid at 31 started her husband searching at 30? Nope, many of these women have been dating their man since their mid-twenties, got married and enjoyed the DINK life for a few years before starting having kids. If you start looking for a husband at 31 however, you're likely in poor luck because most of the guys your…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:53 PM
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Does anyone really watch that type of porn anymore, it seems that more porn is either amateur, or fake amateur nowadays where the positions are somewhat realistic. If when I was a virgin teenager, I always preferred something like casting couch to the comically acted blonde bimbo pornos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 04:08 AM
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PS: we didn’t evolve to be repulsed by verbally transferred information so pls drop the bs that we are biologically inclined to be disgusted by a NUMBER or a WORD, something that humans invented very, very recently. Numbers and words aren't a recent invention, that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Your whole post who is pseduo science BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 05:36 PM
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If your unhappy, break up! That's not really easy if you've merged your life together like most LTR. Your social circles are merged, your accommodation may be merged, and your families and finances will be merged. The emotional attachment will still be there. It almost like by being in a LTR realtionship you take out a loan of happiness, without knowing how much you'll have to pay back and when.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:12 PM
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Doesn't everyone? Isn't the definition of socially inept that people find it hard to interact you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:02 PM
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Women aren't all interchangeable, if you have 4 plates and 3 of them are 5-6's and one's an 8+, you're obviously going to care more about the 8. Abundance isn't just about quantity of women, it's about quality.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:36 AM
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No it won't fully substitute but it will help. Getting good at most things in life is a mix of education and practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 12:44 AM
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Physical attractiveness matters more for men then before. Cheating is more common. STDs are on the rise. Social skills are somewhat on the decline. Alot of angry men are resorting to the internet, sometimes leading to a culture of self improvement, sometimes a culture of hatred sometimes both. Honestly I've lived in Australia and it's not too different. Australians in my experience have far worse social skills than Americans, and generally a less cultured people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:39 PM
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This is complete bullshit. Cain is an (relatively)old man, and like most old men he's either dating old women, or young women who have a preference from old men, partly because they appreciate that sort of chivalrous behavior. Most younger women, growing up in a different time have different expectations. Many of them will eagerily split the date as a way of showing a man that they like them, most won't fight hard if you insist but some will out of principle. I've even fucked girls who have paye…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:31 PM
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if TRP is correct, then why are so many men on TRP (or MRP since i'm assuming there's fewer foreigners on there) still struggling with women? Most men struggle with women. Most men get cheated on by a women at some point. Most men get treated like garbage by a women at some point. Most men have serious insecurities about their sexual attractiveness at some point. You might not see it because they don't tell you, but they tell their close guys friends. And there's nothing wrong with struggling be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:14 PM
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There are no butterflies; the relationship lacks passion and intimacy, at least from the female point of view. I think it's because most terpers are IxTJ men (or NTP). Myers Briggs is unscientific rubbish. Weird attitude towards women - they obviously think they're superior. Women can pick up on this even if it's never overtly said. Or women can pickup on men who are obvious about it. I don't trust or particularly like women, none of female friends or prior girlfriends have picked up on it, if a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:11 PM
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I'm of the opinion that more information is never a bad thing. More information can certainly be a bad thing when that information is bad and/or biased. For instance, if you only read /r/politics and most of reddit during the election you'd be lead to believe that no women would ever consider voting for Donald Trump. You'd think that the way he acted was so repulsive that no women would ever want to date a man who supported him. And then you'd be shocked when not only did he win, but he won whit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:23 AM
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I don't see how you could get any contradiction out of my post unless you believe that democracy means no hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:08 AM
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Something has to already exist for us to strive to achieve it? No, but not all things are possible. There are a set of cultural universal behavior that have appeared in every group of humans observed. Hierarchy is one of them. If you've never seen it before it doesn't mean it's impossible, it does mean it's not likely. That is the whole fucking point of progress and innovation. The point of progress and innovation isn't to make everyone equal. In fact, what drives most people to innovate is to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:40 AM
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Alright, if you can show a society where people all have equal social status I'd love to see it. But I don't think that exist, or has ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:01 PM
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As nation isn't the concept of multiple peoples. The point is the modern view of race that's has lead to so many atrocities is actually quite modern, traced back to as recently as the enlightenment period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:02 PM
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Combined with that, that's a lot who use that unfairness/degeneracy claim as reason to never really attempt to understand female motivations or drives. They certainly try to understand, that's pretty much what the whole TRP sub is about. You may not think they're accurate, but they're trying to understand, way more then women try to understand men. We see it on this sub whenever there's a Q4W that gets raided or downvoted into oblivion, and I've no doubt the same dismissive attitude permeates TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:55 PM
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And no analogical concept? People were ok with dividing the humanity into nations. Nation states are a relatively new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:49 PM
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Ethnic differences were more a results of cultural, religious, and linguistically differences then arbitrary physical markers of race.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:48 PM
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Wealth isn't a zero sum game, but social status and prestige is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 09:45 PM
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I'd love to see this literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 06:38 PM
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A find it hilarious how the go to attack on anyone who disagrees with the blue perspective is "angry virgin", as if fucking a few girls gives you some brilliant life perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 11:41 PM
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Yea fam In the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 08:40 PM
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Taller than 95% of men? He's 6'2. Yeah that's 96 percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 06:38 PM
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It's not like any of them ever chased me, lol. Sorry to say this but if no man's ever chased you either you're incredible unapproachable, never putting yourself around men, or you're not close to cute or halfway. Yeah they're likely just approaching you for sex, and I acknowledge that sucks, but have you seriously never been approached you're BSing hard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 06:35 PM
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Looks are not a large part of male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:34 PM
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Yeah, but it does not mean you can't do now, what you did with her all the time before having sex. Let's put it this way let's say your SO told you they were going to be hanging out with one of their opposite sex friends alone. Imagine that you're fine with it. Then you learn that your SO and their friends used to have sex. Would your feelings about them hanging out alone together change at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 11:06 PM
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Oh, of course not. They mostly were raised by single mothers. Mothers count, right? I mean, if you want to keep going with lame ad hominems go ahead, or we can have a discussion like adults. Perhaps. I think if the age gap is big enough, that's not the case. People's best friends rarely have that large of an age gap. What many terps believe, is that even with romantic (sexual?) feelings friendships is impossible. Well obviously once it becomes romantic it's very different then a regular friendsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:51 AM
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I really doubt most men on TRP have been isolated from women their entire lives. Men and women can be friends, sure, but rarely will the friendship come the closeness of a same-sex best friend without romantic feelings getting involved one way, and the time spent hanging out will usually be way less one on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 01:06 AM
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The average white dude is not 6’1 that’s absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:56 PM
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There’s no where on earth where being 6’2 doesn’t put you in the top 20 percent of male height
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 01:28 PM
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Maybe when the kids are young sure, but once they’re old enough to do pre school/ daycare, there’s no need to have someone at home all the time. And a SAHM is exactly how you get divorced raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 09:39 PM
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Single motherhood only comes from the comfort provided by the state and also how society doesn't view single mothers as some kinda abomination. No one cares about it deeply, except perhaps some struggling single mothers and random nerds online who read stats on single motherhood Single motherhood leads to worse outcomes for children in literally every possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:44 PM
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I think alot of the guys that seem that hate the idea of a women having a career are guys that have a pretty shitty career themselves and thus don't think a career women is someone possible to lock down. As a guy who has his shit together I don't think it's possibly for me to commit to a women who doesn't have a decent career. Sure I wouldn't want to date a lawyer aiming for partner because I don't want a wife who works 70 hours a week, but I definitely want someone who can contribute, and has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:41 PM
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The number of women who fuck their way through their 20s, then, OH NO, can't find a man to marry them in their 30s is small. The number of women who will never get married is small in the middle income and above group, the number of women who get married with a guy who far below their level of satisfaction is not, and a surprising amount of them will verbalize it to their girlfriends or even strangers. This leads to unhappy marriages, which will likely stay together as long as the husband is abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 06:25 PM
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Why the hell do you think she knows how to raise her son to be a bad boy?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 05:49 AM
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Human behavior doesn’t work off of logic, that’s red pill 101. The main benefits of an LTR are emotional, if it were just about access to pussy then a man would be able to get over his breakup with a 30 minute trip to the brothel.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:30 PM
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You assume you know who I’ve had intimate relations with or not? No. Sounds like an assumption about my personal life. No. It's an assumption about human nature. Nothing's a done deal. I don't care how doe eyed your orbiters are, you can't know that they'd marry you until they actually marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:46 PM
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Before natural selection allowed the most intelligent and fit men to reproduce. Natural selection hasn't been a large driving factor in humans in a long time, sexual selection is what drove our species to be what it is. Now all it is is the hottest guy with the best game gets laid. I'm not that hot and I've had no problem getting laid. Being hot and having game does not correlate to intelligence or capability. Game is a skill. So having good game is certainly a form of capability. Women like guy…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:41 PM
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I really believe that IQ is plummeting because female hypergamy and control over the market of sex has gone unchecked over the last 60 years. lol wut? Female hypergamy is what took us from chimp cousins to the most intelligent species in the solar system. You think you create a super intelligent species by letting average dudes procreate? lol no. World IQ isn't really plummeting BTW, the test are adjusted such as the average person 60 years would have scored as near retarded on todays IQ test(se…
/r/askTRP03/07/19 09:13 PM
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Women are really, really clear with their signals I disagree with this. Women who are very much attracted will you will sometimes be quite bitchy and coy at first. Women who are neutral about you can be quite cold in the first minute of the interaction but won over with game, or a revelation of your status. Women can seem super into you but they have a bf they're not going to cheat on and those IoI were just to baiting you into hitting on them for validation. In general yes, IoI are good IoDs ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 09:07 PM
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These are assumptions about my sex Life No it's not. It assumptions about the actions of people you know. you thinking you know the ppl in my network more than I do. You know them more than I do. But neither of us know them well enough to say if they'd marry you. They themselves likely don't even know if they'd marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:13 PM
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I think that existence is a profound rarity among men. A staggering minority of men will ever experience this. Experience what? Girls who clearly want to fuck them, but that they find are unattractive? I think the vast majority of men will experience this. The problem is, they're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:20 AM
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Yeah I read it. It's bullshit. If you've never fucked a man you have no idea what he'd be like you to after he's nutted. I don't doubt you have thirsty orbiters who would date you if they had the chance, I seriously doubt you have an accurate handle on who they are, and you likely way over estimate how many would stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 11:18 AM
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I think you’re female equivalent of a man who thinks every women who smiles at him wants to fuck. You can’t tell a man will propose to you unless he actually proposes, you certainly can’t tell anything about a mans a mans feelings towards you until after he’s had sex. Just because a man is seems like he’s in love with doesn’t mean he’d actually propose, or even stick around after a few fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:14 PM
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but I still don't hear many CC stories from the younger women on this sub The women on the sub(assuming they're telling the truth which I wouldn't) are extremely self selected group, which differ from the female population. I bet you won't find a women on this sub that voted for Trump, where in reality he won white women. Reddit isn't reality. I'm inclined to believe the women more because they the way they talk about the current SMV is what I observed when I was younger Most of the SMP takes pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:02 AM
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So you think successful men don't face similar issues? I am a successful man. If you have to clean and do cos every night, you're doing them wrong and wasting your time. Or I'm not a fucking slob and I like to keep my house clean. I get up at 430 for the gym. I leave for work at 7. Yeah I call bullshit. There's no reason that'd you'd need to get up that early every day for gym if you were leaving at 7. This is obvious oneupmanship trying to prove a point, you should be less obvious in your lies …
/r/askTRP02/07/19 12:26 AM
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Black guy here and I echo the sentiment. I'm able to find girls who are extremely into me much more easily. I think OLD helps people with a niche scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:42 PM
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Are you yourself very physically attractive? For the record a believe you, I don't think looks are that large of a part of a male attraction, and I think to some women they barely matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:39 PM
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. Most college educated women are looking to settle down, and a monogamous relationship this is traditionally done. Dude...no. They'll settle down eventually but not before having their fun. You're buying the story they'll tell their future husbands, but the truth is alot of young professional girls under 25 aren't too keen to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:38 PM
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a small minority of women who are interested in putting themselves in the proximity of "high SMV guys" perpetually. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 11:35 PM
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You're burning around 700 calories if you ran on the treadmill for an hour at a moderate pace. 700 calories is definitely enough to put someone in a serious caloric deficit, which will cause significant weight loss over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 08:26 PM
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But people who do that are racist. Or don't understand the base rate fallacy. Comparing blacks stealing, to hispanics(you can't even tell who's hispanic by looking at them) not speaking spanish, to men raping is about the dumbest thing I've read on the internet today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 01:50 AM
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lol you're delusional, looks are not large part of male attractiveness. behaviour is king, and that posters behavior is why women are not attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 12:53 AM
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This post isn't about your actual question, my guess this is white knight game in action. Subconsciously, you hope Single Mom SallyMcSlutFace will see your commitment to "not dating taken girls" and want to fuck you. What? I have no problems fucking girls with boyfriends, I do stop trying to fuck a girl once she tells me she has a boyfriend, because is my experience girls that mention a boyfriend aren't going to sleep with you. Guys who keep trying after a girl drops the I have a boyfriend card …
/r/askTRP28/06/19 12:00 AM
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Except I’m not sitting at home, I actually have a demanding job which I spend around 10 hours at every day, once I get home I have to cook, clean, do chores, do something related to one of my hobbies, and then it’s already time for bed because I have to get up before 6 to go to the gym. I don’t play video games because I’m not a child, and I dick off on the internet for maybe an hour before I go to bed when I’m too tired to do anything else. Having your shit together takes time.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 11:21 AM
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Most of that time is at night during the week where day game isn’t an option.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:15 PM
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Self deception is one of the most human traits there is. Probably because it makes it easier to deceive others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 04:12 PM
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It's sad that they're people who don't understand that the different genders have different methods of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:33 PM
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Say it with me once. Say it with me twice: Looks are not a large part of male attractiveness. Chad's behaviour is what makes him chad, not his face/height. It runs on the false assumption that unattractive men by virtue of being unattractive automatically treat women great and that attractive men automatically treat women bad. People with power tend to use their power to get what they want(sexual variety in the case of men), at the expense of others if need be. Generally men who don't believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 09:41 PM
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No, they arent hiding it, Im talking about what I know and understand You know and understand my coworkers? Tbh NASA doesnt mean intellectualism Depends on how you define intellectualism. The idea that red pill behaviour patterns don't apply to very smart people with advanced degrees, centrist to left wing political beliefs, and middle class backgrounds is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 09:27 PM
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Are you sure you're responding to the right person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:14 PM
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You still didn't answer my question, unless you expect me to go look up this history of Ted Bundy. What specfically does "playing vulnerable" to get women entail?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:13 PM
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I work at NASA, and I've seen red pill truths demonstrated all of times with my coworkers, most of whom have STEM degrees from some of the best universities in the world. I very much doubt your circle is more intellectual then them. They are much better at hiding their dysfunctions though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:05 PM
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Most people are excellent are hiding their realtionship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:02 PM
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playing a vulnerable dude works What does this even look like in practically?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 06:00 PM
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with no attention from strangers Wait, why would she get no attention from strangers? I made out with a married chick a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 02:58 PM
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I think it's a bit fucking early to talk about how it will "never be equal enough for feminism" with the recent shit Alabama pulled. They're plenty of women cheering that on as well, and of course the bill was signed by a women. Funny how feminist deny women political agency whenever it goes against their agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:16 AM
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Calories in, calories out is unscientific bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 10:03 PM
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Christian G is one Old Fashioned away from a dad bod. I don't see how anyone can take anything you have to say about fitness seriously after writing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:41 AM
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most young women are How do you know? How many young women have you fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 01:35 AM
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The definition of status in a game sense, is others peoples positive behavior towards you. If women want to sleep with you and guys want to be your friends you have status in high school.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:50 PM
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Pointing out your contradiction isn't acting like a toddler. Next time read your links before posting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:17 AM
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Overweight is defined as having a Body Mass Index (BMI), or weight-to-height ratio, greater than or equal to 25 and lower than 30, while obesity is defined as having a BMI equal to or greater than 30. Tell me, do you have to know how to read to work in public health?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:48 AM
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My guess is you probably do not have very many male friends either. You couldn't be more wrong. I wasn't always good with women, but I can't remember I time where I've ever had problems making male friends. I'm probably one of the more social people any of my given social circles, my entire life I've had many close male friends, and a decent amount of female ones as well. You're also completely wrong about my curiosity about others. I've always found people to be the most interesting things in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:46 AM
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The reference to BMI was higher up, and it's typically what people refer to when talking about the "rates" of obesity. Your anecdotal evidence is great, but I'd like to see studies about how many men vs women have body fat percentage in the normal range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:34 AM
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BMI in men is a worthless statistic, many athletic men are classified as overweight. I've been overweight with a six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:42 AM
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I mean both of those are the extremes, most men aren't at the extremes. But to be honest, one of the best looking guys I know is dating one of the ugliest girls I know. And the best looking girl I know is the girlfriend of my average looking, somewhat short friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:21 AM
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Posture is, dress is to a lesser extent. Point is, they're very few men from whom you can tell how well they do with women by looking at them. Those men are at the extrema, but most of us aren't and our behaviour aka game is the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:20 AM
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I've been approached by strangers for compliments on my attractiveness my entire life. I don't like flirting because: I don't enjoy conversation with strangers unless it's about a subject a care about. I'm experienced to know that even as a good looking guy with decent game, a given interaction with a women is likely to lead nowhere, infact being attractive makes this worse because girls with boyfriends will flirt with you for 20 minutes without mentioning their man, just for the validation, com…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 12:13 AM
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you can't tell me high value men are flirting and getting nowhere Disagree, even for the most attractive men, the vast majority of approaches lead no where. Now if you enjoy talking to random women for its own sake, I guess that doesn't bother you, but most men don't. I find most people need know a person for quite some time to get genuine enjoyment out of a interaction with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:34 PM
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Like, if you put one group at one end of a hall, and the other at the other end, it wouldn't be instantly obvious to an observer which was which. Most of male attractiveness is behavioural, not physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:13 PM
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women want relationships so OF COURSE men are going to be rejected constantly. lol not in my experience. Most relationships nowadays begin as hookups, and "taking it slow" with a women is a good way to get dropped in favor of a more aggressive guy. Truth is, nowadays the reason I push for sex after a second date or even sooner is because it's the only way to make sure a women stays around nowadays. If she finds that you're an 8, and and 8.05 asks her out, she'll drop you in a second in favor of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 11:09 PM
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Of course it’s alive, it’s just rarer because urbanization plus social media has given everyone a constant temptation to branch swing.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:11 PM
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I knew it was bullshit once I read about him getting groped and catcalled everywhere he goes, that's not how women treat attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 09:29 PM
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"I mean I can send you a sex tape if you want" Doesn't prove anything. They could be hookers. I mean, I can send you the tinder thread where we match leading to her deciding to come over and fuck. But at a certain point this discussion isn't worth having. I'm not going to convince you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:49 AM
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And you have zero proof that you have any experience having sex with young attractive hetereosexual women. I mean I can send you a sex tape if you want. no, it matters BEFORE 25 years old. ​Nah not to most. Money gives you status What type of status does a low six figure salary give you in modern America? Especially seeing as if you're earning that income you're probably living in a metro area surrounded by a bunch of men also earning that income. I can show you a relatively poor DJ, club promot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:36 AM
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I seriously do not believe you. You have zero experience dating or sleeping with young attractive hetreosexual women, so I don't really care what you believe. And to be fair to you, I wouldn't believe most of the things I know about women if I didn't experience it myself. Money/status plays a huge part in a man being able to attract the most beautiful women For LTR after they're 25 sure. The most beautiful women tend to be under 25 though. Money matters at the extrema, if you're so poor that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:24 AM
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First, please learn to use reddit quotation function properly. There's a formatting help button below your text field. Did you miss the part where I said "very attractive women"? No I didn't, hence why I responded to that point. lol Yes we do. You're sadly misinformed And you know this all from your vast experience sleeping with attractive young hetrosexual women no doubt... I have a better job than 99% of men my age, probably 90%+ percent of men in America, not just based off of income, but bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:10 AM
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They're plenty of women in their 20's having casual sex. Very attractive women are hard to have casual sex with, but they're even harder to get into relationships with. Most women pre 25 don't get two shits about a man's provider status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:51 AM
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That doesn't mean they are not the worst. The worst at what? Liars get caught eventually, some sooner than later. Why? Because you said so? Life isn't a Disney movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:48 AM
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Don't envy the vast majority of people in relationships, I don't like the process of dating/pickup, just because I'm lazy, so I'm a little envious that they don't have to do that, but most women just aren't worth the effort of a LTR, and I've never been a very emotionally needy person so flings suit me just fine for now. Plus the amount of cheating/branch swing that I've seen women in their 20's do is absolutely insane, there's multiple times I've learned/seen someone that I thought was a perfec…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:44 AM
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The difficulty of finding a fuck buddy or finding a FWB varies widely depending on your standards and attractiveness. I find it much easier to find casual sex then to find a girlfriend. But that's mostly because my standards for a realtionship are extremely high. Partly this is due to my ability to get casual sex relatively easy with average looking chicks removes any urgency from getting a girlfriend, so my I feel my standards can be higher. My guess with you is that you're not very sexually at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 12:29 AM
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Liars are the worst. Liars get laid all the times. They get in relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 12:03 AM
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I'm talking about today's society, which is of course a lot more humane than it has been in the past in many ways. In many ways yes, and many ways not. there are in laws against hate speech in general. Not in my country. So you're at work and one of your coworkers calls you the N-word, do you think that guy should face no consequences because you "don't care about people's feelings" and "people should have thick skin"? We're arguing about appropriate conduct on a subreddit, not a workplace. I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 11:58 PM
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I've heard that the more successful a woman is, the harder it is for her to find a relationship. This is bullshit. The biggest determinant of a women being able to find a realtionship is how pretty she is. The second biggest is her access to attractive men. Pretty successful women have men throwing themselves at them. It doesn't matter if men in general don't like it when the women is more successful, unless she's the President of the United States, there will be men more successful than her aro…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:45 PM
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I feel the same buddy. They're definitely are successful women our age(I'm 25), but they're surrounded by a ton of successful men and thus are picky, and many time will not even need to resort to dating apps. Or they're unattractive. Why is that you might ask? What you have to understand is that beauty is a distraction. It's hard spending time studying a difficult degree when you have a ton of male attention coming your way just for being young and pretty. Most of the men our age aren't much bet…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 11:21 PM
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Yes. However, women are much more prone to want a man because another women has/wants him. So women in general don't feel the same repulsion. Also, women receive much more temptations to cheat while in a realtionship than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:18 AM
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Because avoiding doing things that unnecessarily harm others is encouraged in every other context and there's no reason why TRP should be any different. No it's not. Have you looked at human history? Being concerned with the welfare of strangers isn't in our nature. It's the golden rule. Common human decency. Humans aren't fundamentally decent. Once again I suggest you open a history book. Interestingly though, the red pill women sub doesn't allow misandry and has a rule against badmouthing TRP.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:08 AM
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I always found people vastly exaggerated physical signs of aging prior to 30. He doesn't look that different to me over the last 5 years or so other then changes in style. Unless you found him more attractive when he was less than 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:37 AM
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He's 6'2, has full head of hair, was quite well built at some point, he's well above average in many physical attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:31 AM
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How's he crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:26 AM
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That's because he's selling a just world fallacy. The idea that honesty and openness is the way to personal fulfillment sits well with many men, but it's ultimately bullshit. What good isn't what work, what works is what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:24 AM
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We're talking about the unbridled misogyny in the red pill community and what impact it has on the outside world, what does this not have to do with the subject at hand? Because TRP discusses male sexual strategy, why should men discussing how male sexual, strategy care about how their discussion affects their hypothetical daughter? The whole point of TRP is for men to think about things in terms of their own interest, versus society which claims men need to act in the interest in women/children…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 10:15 PM
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You're arguing against a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:33 PM
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stance of a king marrying a commoner widow with children; if there were cases of brides getting beaten to death or bu The studies are just them trying to explain why their lizard brain feels the way it does. IMO a high count is symptom of an underlying problem, not a problem itself, mainly because a high n count means either A) She doesn't keep men around after sleeping with them for very long, which shows she has a preference for sexual novelty, which will inevitably lead to cheating or at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:30 PM
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The type of damage a women gets from being sexually assaulted isn't comparable to whatever problems you think men on TRP have. You're a women, and thus have never dated a women who been sexually assaulted and seen how it affects them. It's sad, it really is. I wouldn't wish that on anyone, and it makes it much harder to intimate because you always very careful about how you physically escalate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 05:48 PM
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Men here apparently will, no matter how much of a connection they made with the person. What you don't understand is its harder for many men to feel the connection with a promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 05:39 PM
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What does trashy even mean? Men don't like to commit to promiscuous women, it is known. So it makes sense that if you find out a girl you're dating is sleeping around you wouldn't be interested in pursuing a realtionship. Women don't typically feel the same way about men, they like a guy that other women are fucking, or at least seriously want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:18 PM
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You're too young for a serious relationship and should be having non-exclusive sex and dating multiple women. What do you think the right age for a serious realtionship is?
/r/askTRP01/06/19 07:11 PM
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Women tend to and are encouraged to not dismiss a man’s advances. lol wut? Women reject men all the time, they have no problem being picky and most of society encourages them to be so. No ones good enough for my daughter is more often heard than no ones good enough for my son.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 12:07 AM
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I'm sure that if you had a daughter, you wouldn't want her to have the misfortune to come into contact with anyone that makes her feel like being a woman means she's a worthless nuisance that should feel ashamed of her existence, not at work or at school or any setting, because you would recognize how damaging that could be for her psychologically. What does this have to do with anything? Does TRP advocate telling women they're worthless scum to the face. Even if you're a TRP that feels all of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:53 PM
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If that works for you awesome, but most of my female friends would have a hard time getting a quality man to give them sexual exclusively without being sexual first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:43 AM
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They're plenty of attractive black women, but Western society in general views black women as less attractive than their fairer skin counterparts, and they're more likely to be overweight. My point is that successful and attractive are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:17 AM
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I'm not, and I'll say most as the anti-semitism is intellectually lazy thinking for people who want someone or something to blame for their own life failures. Roosh spent most of his working life banging chicks and writing about it for profit, now he's complaining "where have all the good women gone" like some jaded post wall cat lady. It's possible to settle down and have a family with a decent women, millions have men have done it, but it's almost impossible if your degency and sexual exploits…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 03:52 AM
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Let millions of legal immigrants into your country and you end up being a colony of THEIR country. That's not what colony means. Unless you believe that the US has been a colony of Ireland, German, and Italy.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 03:20 AM
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Most of them ending on welfare or on the streets. Uh I don't know where you live, but I live in America where illegals paint and clean our houses, move our shit, makes us food, work our farms, and a ton of super useful shit. I have no problem if you're against them because you believe in rule of law but I don't see how anyone can honestly say they're not hardworkers.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 03:19 AM
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Because even the best day gamers only have around a 10% lay rate, and it takes a while to get 10 decent approaches in, especially if you're an adult with a real job and shit to do. Don't get me wrong, learning how to chat up the cute girl in the grocery store or coffee shop is a useful skill, but just trolling the street for cold approaches isn't worth the effort, especially since I don't actually walk anywhere except from my car to building I'm going into.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 12:22 AM
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I honestly don't have the time to approach strangers on the street all day. The cold approach skill is useful, but largely overrated IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 12:14 AM
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My obstacle is not wanting to annoy people who are clearly in a rush to work in the morning, while I myself am likely in a rush, for an approach that likely won't lead anywhere. I mean I have plenty experience doing cold approach both at day and night, and I've been rejected by women many many times, so that's not my fear. It's not a mystery to me. And while women do love attention and alot of them will chat and give you their number, and you'll never actually end up on a date with them much les…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 12:03 AM
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The vast majority of which are completely unapproachable and/or taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 11:43 PM
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I'm curious what you consider upper middle class? Is it a race thing? Income thing? Culture? Are two married engineers UMC with combined income of 200-250K UMC? They certainly have a very high household income, but they're likely living in a place with high cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 03:17 PM
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I think there's plenty of men who themselves take part in the casual sex culture, but still don't like the idea of their girlfriend being easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 06:34 PM
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And the statistics show you grown ladies generally prefer to marry men with higher income than yourself. Obviously male teachers get married, and aren't even that rare in high school and beyond. But a man looking to maximize his dating potential would be better looking for a higher earning career.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 06:32 PM
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I'll just say this: I don't know one pretty, but boring women that has trouble getting dates/bf, unless they're so boring they don't leave the house. I do think some guys are drawn to the crazy, but I don't think it's a significant portion of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 04:40 PM
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Black man here, who is a lot more than just sort of successful. Black women are on average more successful than black men, but they’re much much less attractive. And black culture is such that a lot of the successful black guys personalities are unattractive because the bar for alpha has been set so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/19 05:11 AM
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Unemployment is at all time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:30 PM
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So whilst you are right that there are environmental factors that play into height, they are not the main players in the population OP is talking about (US) and they are not what's making the US more height-conscious than the rest of the world (since, again, if the us was genetically homogenous height would usually not be an issue and thus the US wouldn't be height conscious). I don't see proof that the US is particularly height conscious, and I definitely don't see proof that this height consci…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:33 AM
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Yeah it might not be a straight up 8, that’s a bit harder to come by if you’re not an 8 yourself. You're not understand me. An 8 is harder to come by even if you're 8, simply because they're rarer. A 5 is much more like to run into another 5 than and 8 is to run into an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 10:52 AM
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Academic rigor has been replaced with politically-laden classes on right-think. Even engineering, science, and tech programs are more concerned with diversity than education. As someone who just graduated from a top engineering university around 3 years ago, I call bullshit. It might seem that way when your only insight into campus life is Fox News(I'm guessing you haven't been on a college campus as a student in 10 years ), but no one who's actually in these programs believes that they're more …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:12 AM
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"Get a girlfriend" is a meaningless statement. How attractive of a girl are we talking about? Because it'll take longer for an 8 to find another 8, than a 5 to find another 5, simply because 8's are rarer. Yeah it's not that hard to get a girl to commit. One that's young and attractive? That can be quite difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 03:01 AM
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I agree that alot of male sexual attractiveness is behavioural, however your blind spot is that you don't compete with the average man in America, you compete with the average man where you live. Most above average men tend to cluster in a few metropolitan areas, so while being 6' 80k guy with a decent personality might look good on paper, if you're in LA/NY/Chicago that's nothing special at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:52 AM
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You men in relationship are less likely to maintain relationships, the article states it’s the opposite. And I’ll wait for you read the countless articles saying women need to medicate themselves and try and kill themselves are a much higher rate than men, and are generally more nueurotic. It’s not about agreeing it’s about you not even reading to the article you posted and trying BS when yo get called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 11:59 PM
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Did you even read the article you linked to? It says married men are more isoslated than single men, the complete opposite of what you said. The rest of your post is just confirmation bias and anecdotes I can list plently of men that have groups chats. I’ve noticed this bizarre trend where women are convinced that since men’s friendships aren’t like women’s they must be defective. Which is funny because 1/5 of women are on antidepressants and they attempt suicide at a higher rate than man. Clear…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:54 PM
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I don’t see how the second point is something single men do over men in a relationship. Men in a LTR are probably more isolated from their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:35 AM
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Do they? At least in comparison to western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 06:30 AM
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This is complete pseudoscientific nonsense. Genetics are only one component in height variation, probably not that big of one for most of history.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:20 AM
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People split the two because you can have money without status and visa versa. Status is about other people’s behavior towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 06:38 AM
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Looks Behaviour Status(Which is just others behaviour towards you) Money(Least important)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 03:15 PM
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(Also, btw, you should ask yourself WHY this opposing force broke down, who did it, and why? And its clearly worse off for women (as research shows, as every decade since female life satisfaction has fallen) so why do the people in charge keep propagating it? If you answer that question for yourself, you will find some truly fascinating truths) The answer is technology, anyone arguing elsewise is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 02:05 PM
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lol no. Women rarely approach men, even men they think are attractive. And women are much more wary of their friends judgment in bars, than on tinder. I’ve slept with many girls on tinder that I’d never be able to meet in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 11:40 AM
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Finding a relationship as a young man is definitely not easy. Women are picky. They won’t just drastically lower their standards for commitment. And you’re competing with men much older than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 10:58 AM
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You’re right about the problem but totally wrong about the cause. The welfare state has little or nothing to do with the increase in causal sex, high income women sleep around plenty. It’s technology that has enabled the rise these lopsided encounters you’re talking about. Technology has largely removed the risk of pregnancy from women. Technology requires us to spend more time in education before we can start a family, thereby discouraging early commitment. Technology has enabled women to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 10:52 AM
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Robotics engineer here. This is completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 04:15 PM
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I'm no economist Clearly but looking that up it only talks about unemployment not wages. No it refers to wages too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:33 PM
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Being joing an alt right fourm online and complaining about how all your problems are caused by jews is easier. Which seems harmless at first, until a candidates run for president appeals to them and wins. Trump won tech savy young white guys by way more than the typical Republican should, there's a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:25 PM
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That's not adjusted for anything. Women who are poor are more likely to be fat and a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:22 PM
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That's not how economics work at all, you're making the lump of labor fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:19 PM
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Very different from classic liberalism. Feminism is different from classical liberalism. The American revolutionaries sure didn't abandon classical liberalism just because they were getting shot at. Nor did the French revolutionaries that followed them. To say people who are starving or getting shot at don't care about the right the vote is absurd, because a lack of political power is very likely why they're starving and getting shot at. Feminism is definitely a thing in poor countries.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 04:09 PM
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Social media and porn are definitely contributing factors for this kind of thing. Largely nonsense. Increased pornography use is not linked to decreased in sexual frequency https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0953-1
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:59 PM
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I have had female friends basically saying how hard up they were for sex and if any guy had approached them Your female friends are lying or unattractive. Probably lying. Women are picky. There's no women who would take any man who approached to bed. That's not how women work, that's not even how most men work. If I take an attractive girl I'm see out to a bar, and I go to the bathroom, I would suspect that some guy will be talking to her by the time I get back. An attractive girl alone at a bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:45 PM
1

Is that why tinder is the highest grossing app of all time, and growing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:22 PM
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Trump won by 80,000 votes, 5% is alot. Even 1% is alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:15 PM
1

At least serial monogamy is. Serial monogamy is polygyny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 03:13 PM
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So youre saying men have become pussies and losers? Sure if you want to sound tough you can say it like that. Get off the internet, turn off the porn and burn your anime. Its the youth nerd culture thats ruining their brains Watching porn is positively correlated with frequency of sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 12:14 PM
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I don't see proof that men are getting fatter at a faster rate than women. And I don't think fatness is driving the increase in inceldom because it doesn't correlate across the correct time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:56 AM
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No, it's because men are thirstier than women. Men go for quantity, women go for quality. Very attractive men have no problem having sex with women who are less attractive them for novelty and ease of it. The relatively average women can get laid with really attractive dudes, especially when they're young and just looking for something casual. The only reasons she didn't before, is because those guys didn't approach her or she was scared as being seen as a slut. Now with tinder none of those mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:48 AM
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I don't see what your point is? If anything women are raising their standards, due to online dating giving them more choice and discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 11:42 AM
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This is vast oversimplification of history. Many times liberal policies have arisen in places of relative poverty, see Latin America, Vietnam, Korea, China, and the USSR.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 10:37 AM
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Social media and porn are definitely contributing factors for this kind of thing. Porn use is positively associated with frequency of sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:18 AM
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Men who watched porn report having more sex than those who don't. Both cross-sectionally and longitudinally, evidence has emerged that more frequent pornography use is related to a higher likelihood to have sexual intercourse (Atwood et al., 2012 Atwood, K. A., Zimmerman, R., Cupp, P. K., Fongkaew, W., Miller, B. A., Byrnes, H. F., … Chookhare, W. (2012). Correlates of precoital behaviors, intentions, and sexual initiation among Thai adolescents. Journal of Early Adolescence, 32(3), 364–386. doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:10 AM
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Men aren't getting any fatter than women. Male BMI certainly doesn't correlated with this "incel" statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 10:01 AM
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The heavy stress that all the students laid on the importance of mutually agreeing the basis of any relationship, at every stage of its development, is probably both a cause and effect of this. Dating apps, which around half the students had used, can mitigate it at best. It is likely a response to increased female empowerment, the major change in sexual politics, and therefore further exacerbated by men’s dread of a #MeToo-style harassment charge. In short, young American men with rather poor i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 09:57 AM
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If you're an 8 irl you can expect to match with 5s and under most of the time on tinder, if that. If you're an 8 you'll be get plenty of matches with girls above 8 on tinder. I'm a minority, not an 8(I get 5.5 on truerateme) and I've definitely fucked girls who are above a 5 off dating apps. I've been on a few dates with 8&9s. Hooked up with an 8.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 08:02 AM
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Well this doesn't follow. Why get remarried when you made enough off the last one? Because women like being married for social status reasons. Remarrying would mean losing alimony Something most women never get, and if they do get it will be a few years.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:42 AM
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Something like 40 percent of realtionship started from apps, not all apps are tinder, but you can pretty much copy paste your profile and pics to all of them.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:32 AM
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It’s pretty much anonymous and you can block them and never hear from them again. You can do this via phone too.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:31 AM
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Disagree completely night game is a way bigger time and financial investment, and if someone's not good looking enough in tinder, I don't think they'll have alot of success in a nightclub.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:25 AM
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Yes, as does almost everyone in my social circle. I'm an electrical engineer.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:23 AM
1

Is this supposed to help beginners who never had a date in their lives? Or is it meant generally for any guy having the first date with any given girl? Any guy that has problems with first dates. the 20/80 rule or "speak as little as possible". I don't agree with that. If you end up portraying those traits as early as in the first date, she won't feel aroused or impressed by you by any means. She will find you boring. No she won't. If you tell her everything about yourself without her even askin…
/r/seduction04/05/19 02:38 AM
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A noob is going to need more info than « increase comfort ». Overall your strategy sounds solid. But I’m trying to help beginners out.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:09 PM
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Reality is that most men on the planet 30+, including desirable alpha men, will date fuck and marry a high quality woman in her 30s. Most desirable men will not date a divorcee in her 30's, especially one with kids.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:55 AM
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If you think women over 30 aren't getting married then you spend too much time on trp. Getting married at over 30 != Getting in a realtionship that will lead to marriage at 30. Many women do get married in their early 30, to a guy they've been dating since their mid 20's. They secured his commitment a long time ago.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:52 AM
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She gets half of everything, and all the house. And alimony. And child support if there's kids. Legal fees on both sides paid for by the husband. If she's a stay at home mom sure. If she works, she's certainly won't be getting all of that. I live in Texas, and according to my family law friends alimony is extremely rare if both spouses are working, and practically illegal if you've been married for less than 10 years(only exception is if she has to take care of severely mentally disabled child o…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 10:47 AM
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When a woman wants to get into a relationship with you, you don't get to see what she's really like. You get to see the mask she wears for guys she wants to date seriously. Once again, you're being very vague when you say "actually like". In that situation, she will be forward, flirty, dirty, slutty, and sexual in a way she would never act for a relationship prospect. It doesn't take years of spinning plates to learn "good girls" can be sluts. I would hate for a man to go most of his life never …
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:15 PM
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Because as you said, you're looking after your investment. If you're in an LTR women know you're invested in them, and it's natural for a man to be possessive of something he's invested in. If you don't she'll assume it's because you're too scared to. Being aloof regarding other guys possible hitting on your girl makes sense when a realtionship is just taking off, but once you're clearly and obviously invested? You should definitely let her know that's her faithfulness is a requirement for your …
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:26 AM
1

Those women aren't necessarily getting "played" they could be splitting up with the fathers of their kids after a completely honest relationship that didn't work out for any number of reasons. Any number of reasons includes the father cheating, leaving, or being abusive. And from my experience living in area were single mothers were prevalent, that was the most common cause. Single parenthood is hard, women don't choose it for trivial reasons. They don't have to wait 5 dates most players drop of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 10:00 AM
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It's about experiencing first-hand what women are actually like. All kinds of women. Even the ones the old you before you started hooking up would have thought were the good girls. What does this even mean? By "actually like" do you mean sexually in bed? I already knew that alot of women like rough degrading sex. I never believed the good girl act, and in age of porn, I doubt many men do. Or do you mean that they will cheat/lie? While I believe this is important to see first hand, you don't need…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:35 AM
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The risk of the divorce is dramatically overstated on TRP, for college educated couples it’s around 16 percent. Most divorces are due to financial reasons, which is why uneducated people struggle, and are starting to not even get married. Anyways, the bigger risk of marriage is a women cheating on you or treating your poorly. The reason that happens is because she gets bored.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 03:21 AM
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A few years? I really don't think you need to spend a few years spinning plates before deciding to have a realtionship. When I got to the point I could spin plates, like really have different girls come straight over to have sex and just sex, I got bored of it within a month. If I don't have an emotional connection to a girl, I have trouble getting myself to sleep with her more than a few times, no matter how pretty she is, and I think many guys are the same.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 02:15 PM
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The mind is part of the body. The lack of testosterone and increase in estrogen, and a lot of other hormonal changes in their new body would change their behaviour quickly. So they have no idea what they do, unless their got transgender hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:52 AM
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Most women actually do come to this opinion. No, they really don't. Most women I know quite like their boyfriends and recieve alot of practical help with things that make their life easier, and addition to social support. Obviously every girl has things she wishes she could change about her boyfriend, but you seem like someone with either incredibly poor taste in men, or a tendency to massively exaggerate things. But on the other hand, most women are only trying to have jobs, not careers, so it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:38 AM
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Single mothers could be a product of poor use of birth control, what kind of stupid argument is that? Sure. Many are also the consequence of making terrible choices of who to have kids with. My point is the world is awash with example of women getting played. Just go over to /r/dating_advice or similar subreddits to see women lament about always getting used and mistreated by men. Don't put out on the first few dates and they disappear. Might sound good in theory but most women are only human to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 10:19 AM
2

Money matters even less than. Girls in college just want to have fun.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:25 PM
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I don't know anyone who doesn't have the basic needs met, so I guess that's what I mean by what I say it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 02:58 PM
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Or the men are low quality. This is what he meant by bad taste in men. If a guy isn't making your life better, a relationship with him is a hassle. It is widely accepted when men do this but now that women are these are your excuses? They're not saying they don't want a realtionship with a particular guy, they're saying they don't want a realtionship with ANY guy. Refusing an LTR isn't a cop out. It's what women want to do He never said it was a cop out, he said blaming on a career is a copout. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:30 PM
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I think you're confusing college chicks with rich dads who will be SAHWs after they graduate with career women. Go out to NY or DC on a Thursday-Sunday night and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:21 PM
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Money is the single most overrated trait in attracting women. Unless you're on the extreme ends, it's a very low factor for most young women. Mostly I'd say the same for status(very few men's status is high or low enough to have a large effect on most women). Game and Looks are king and what you should focus on, if you're not fat or a completely slob, I'd say game is likely more important.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 01:38 PM
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You specifically mentioned how dating new people is exhausting for you, and how you don't have to waste time going on dates when in a relationship. That is why I thought that maybe you don't go on dates in an existing relationship. Sorry about misjudging you on that one. No worries, but let me explain in greater detail. As a man, when I go on a date, I don't know if I'm going to enjoy it. I don't know if it's going to lead to a second date. The same is obviously the same for women, probably even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:20 PM
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This 100% explains your lack of perspective on the issue, you should mention this in your OP. These are 22-25 year olds fresh out of college, almost all of them have never cohabited with a partner. You don't have to cohabit in a serious realtionship, and I personally never will until I get engaged. Cohabitation isn't a requirement for a serious realtionship, and when the girls I'm talking about say "serious realtionship", they mean any realtionship at all. How can you disagree when you refuse to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:39 PM
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They don't do anything in between. If you want quiet companionable flow between people, carefully respecting that others have things they want and plan for, helping out but not in ways that end up taking or endebting, they are garbage. Literal garbage humans. Made of "what the fuck is this garbage" I'm sorry you've had such terrible time with men, but most women don't share the same opinion of you. I suggest you get better at screening people before entering relationships with them. Maybe you'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:05 PM
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How much work do you put into organizing you and your partner's social routine when you're in a relationship? How much work do you do to support her emotionally? I don't really look it as work, typically we just bring up things we want to do together and talk out any conflicts that arise. I certainly wouldn't want my SO do all the planning, because then we wouldn't do any of the cool shit I want to do. How much work do you do to support her emotionally? Once again, don't see it as work. Just lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:00 PM
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Who needs a red wine collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:16 AM
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For men their OWN source of emotional support is they're partner so when single they are missing that out. Women have better support in friends and family. Which doesn't seem to be working so well for them, considering about a 1/5 of them are on antidepressants. I disagree that women can get the same from families and friends that they can get from a good realtionship. For women we have no such drive to search. Maybe for some women, many of my single female friends clearly have a drive to search…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:15 AM
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she would still get all the social punishments for being a "horrible girlfriend" by choosing her career over yours or over the relationship. Who care about social punishments. Being so easily influenced by other people opinions of you is a sign of major weakness. Then, there's this other point that you mentioned about how you put a lot of time and energy into dates, but you magically don't have to put in that time and energy into a relationship. I never said that all. I said I'd rather spend tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 12:06 AM
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I'm not asking why girls say this to me. I can get in realtionship relatively easy for a guy. It's something I tend to hear girls say to no one in particular. I just don't understand why women, the commitment oriented gender, would look so negatively on commitment. These women don't seem particularly happy in my view. Many of them I've learn are on some kind of medication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:20 PM
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How does this not apply to women? Do women not enjoy sex with their boyfriends, do they not enjoy commitment and companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:10 PM
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I make lots of money and play the BF role pretty good so I don't see why I wouldn't be LTR material. alternatively you have lots of money so I'll let you buy me stuff until someone better comes along. lol I don't buy girls much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:54 PM
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A house, a car, a nice red wine collection (if you're a chick) One of the best things about growing up with a relatively wealthy family isn't the material goods it provided, but the realization that material goods ultimately don't bring happiness at all. That's a gift I will always thank my parents for, because it apparently takes some people a lifetime to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:51 PM
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Freedom - no financial stress, ability to afford things I might need or want, and enjoy my free time any way I like. None of these I think are particularly difficult, certainly not to the point to avoid relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:40 PM
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Because if you're serious about the relationship it is detrimental to your career, assuming your career is actually a proper challenging career and not a 9-5 you can leave at the door. I largely disagree. I work in a career where I design hardware that flies in space. If I screw up I can kill people, and cause millions of dollars in damage to critical space hardware. My relationships help me deal with this. I also think people who regularly work longer than 45-50 hour weeks are idiots, so that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:32 PM
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While I understand the concern a small business would have with women who's filling a critical roll leaving for pregnancy, I think it's pretty ridiculous that one night not working late leads to her being dismissed. Not just ridiculous, I'm pretty sure that's criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:21 PM
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Yes. Men are hard work. They make messes, they request validation, they insist on sex, they disrespect how you organise your spaces, they screw over your plans. Seems like you date low quality men. I suggest learning how to screen better. The rest of your post seems like bizzare venting. And if you look at having sex with your guy as a chore, once again I suggest screen better for people you're more attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:18 PM
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You're a guy. What does that have anything to do with anything? Pretty much, yeah, especially if you want to be a good partner and not fail at relationships. Not for me and my SO's, if anything it's opposite. Having someone have your back gives you the energy to push through the hard times. If I'm working 60 hours week chasing an important deadline coming home to a girlfriend who knows what I'm going through feels really good. And when she's going through something similar being there for her em…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:13 PM
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She said "most men", not "they exist"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:09 PM
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To add to the ideas about the need for prioritizing career over relationship, it's not just about picking what makes her happier Career = survival I mean it's really not that hard to maintain a demanding a career in be a realtionship. My career is probably more demanding than 98% of societies, but my relationships have made it easier not harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 03:09 PM
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I guess. But what are you working for in the end? Happiness in life is the sum of positive personal interactions, people who move all over the world the chase their career, leading to unstable social circles and unstable relationships, makes me wonder what the point of it all is? If you really enjoy your work that much, then go ahead I guess, money certainly won't make you happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:55 AM
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I'm not dating people like that. Then how do you know most men are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 11:45 AM
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I've heard this(the first one) from girls I was banging. They genuinely don't want a relationship, but think I'm attractive enough to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:54 AM
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Most men are not great at being supportive partners, they are unreliable, a huge time sink, and most of them cheat. It takes time to find a decent one and you can't even rely on men to make money these days. Imagine being that bad of a judge of character, that you consistently date broke, cheating, unsupportive losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:38 AM
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Even now, I don't work as much as I'd like because I'm constantly concerned with maintaining a good work-life balance so my husband doesn't feel neglected. I guess, personally I want to maintain a good work life balance so I don't go insane. I don't want to spend more than 50 hours a week working, and I certainly don't want to sacrifice a realtionship with someone I like for a company, or more money. In fact, time with a GF energizes me more for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 09:29 AM
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This makes the most sense to me out of any answer here. Realistically, it's very possible to date someone for a long time, before moving over the baby stage, but I understand the fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 08:28 AM
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If work offers you a promotion to another city, will you take it? Probably not, I like where I live and I like my social circle. Would you expect her to follow you if she wants the relationship to continue? If I did leave I would expect her to follow eventually if she wanted to realtionship continue. However, I wouldn't leave unless I absolutely had to. Are you going to uproot your career and follow her to another city which may not offer you the same advancement? No I would not. If she wanted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 08:26 AM
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I can see this, but I'm not talking about engagement, I'm just talking about relationships. Most relationships won't lead to engagements anytime soon. I completely understand why a young women might not want to married until they are actually ready to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 08:17 AM
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Wouldn't birth control be the simple answer? Alot of them are on it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:29 AM
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A lot of the time these women don't mind having casual sex a few times a week. Rarely are they celibate for a long periods of time. reduces your networking flexibility How so? Unless you were planning to use the sexuality to your advantage in some networking situation. I get the social commitment are increased, but my in field work-relationships and networking aren't that big time commitments outside work hours, so maybe I'm missing out on something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 07:26 AM
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Sounds like the just world fallacy. Women are terrible are reading players, because players have a lot of pratice bullshiting women. Women's "intuition" gets tricked all the time. Look at all the single mother, women are abused by their SO, and women who are generally jaded by being mistreated by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 02:12 AM
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Interesting, I don't think I've ever been with a girl, for casual sex or otherwise, who quite as aloof as you're presenting. They certainly become more honest post-sex, but even the sluttiest one that had no chance of seeing me again liked to cuddle a little post sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 05:33 AM
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About to go on a year. That's not nothing, but it's not much We’ve lived together for 5 months, long enough for the honeymoon phase to wear off. We know everything about each other lol. 1 year is not even close to know everything about each other. Personally, I don't think you really ever know everything about your SO, and I don't even think that's desirable, but a realtionship of 1 year is still in the honeymoon phase. Don't get me wrong, I believe long term relationships can work, but they bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 05:29 AM
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So how does work if you start off just casual, and then transition into a romantic realtionship? What happens if the first few times you have sex, you're just the "sex guy", and then you become the "realtionship guy" because you start realize you might actually want to connect to her? Will she put on the "mask" and stop fucking you and being honest with you the same way she was a month ago when things were just causal?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 02:21 AM
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In your experience what's the difference between the guy they sleep with and want a realtionship from, and a guy they sleep with and just want casual sex from?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 12:14 AM
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I've heard some similar from female friends too, but I think a lot of it is just rationalizations. Guys who become too emotionally available to early, come across as the male version of sluts: Too easy. Women like to feel like they've worked to gain access to men's emotions and they give it up to quickly, they'll get bored and and their subconscious will tell them they can do better. TLDR: "Emotionally availability" too early is unattractive, especially to a lot of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:52 PM
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How long have I been with her? Considering she's in college, I doubt you've been with here that long. Maybe I'm wrong though, maybe this is year 4 of the realtionship and she's still banging your brains out and treating you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 11:30 PM
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with the exception of extremely insecure, validation-seeking women...whom I’m referring to as dumb party girls Most young women are dumb party girls by your standards. TRPs biggest flaw is the inability to acknowledge comfort building. Does it? Comfort building is an import part of game. But comfort, or connection you call it, is easily to build for most guys, which is why most guys get friendzoned a lot. Attraction is what's hard, and thus its what TRP focuses on. My girlfriend is gorgeous. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:08 PM
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On the whole, married between older people last longer than marriages between younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:54 PM
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Sleep with dumb party girls who are the only people dumb enough to fall for that shit. lol The idea that only dumb party girls fall for Game/TRP tactics is the biggest BS I've seen perpetrated on this sub. Maybe she didn’t feel a connection. Why didn't she feel the connection? Was it random? Or was it because you failed to exhibit behaviour that leads women to feeling a connection to men? Or was it that she found someone with bigger arms/taller/nice face than you. Nothing is truly random in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:52 PM
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You
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:41 PM
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Got into hot water over on that autistic sub when I pointed out to the TRPers that there is only a small subset of girls in any community who would actually open to the whole plating shit Only a small portion of girls are willingly to regularly have sex with a guy without exclusivity? Yeah I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:41 PM
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There's no question you can ask that will let you know whether a man is sleeping around or not. Studies show people are terrible lie detectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:40 PM
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Good luck building your relationships on a pile of lies, deceit and bullshit lol welcome to humanity, hope you enjoy your stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:34 PM
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You'd have to be delusional to think hookup culture does not exist. You're just not attractive enought to be part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 04:31 PM
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I'm sub 80% and tinder is how I get most of my dates/lays. None of them are fat, some have been straight dimes(although that's rare).
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 11:42 AM
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I disagree with this, different types of profile will lead to different types of messages from girls. Take an attractive guy. Make him one profile with a fuckboy image. Make him another with a clean cut boyfriend image. You're going to match with different types of girls, and you're going to get different kinds of first messages.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 11:41 AM
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I agree to a point, only thing is, women become less attracted to a man the longer it takes him to get her into bed, especially if she's been with other guys who got her into bed more quickly. Of course they're other sexual things she can do. Overall I'd agree this is a good strategy, but if you wait to long it can backfire tremendously, in an age of tinder attractive men will likely be seeing other women, and if you wait too long he may be locked into a realtionship with someone else by the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 03:33 AM
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I don’t care what I’ve heard a girl say, I care what I’ve seen a girl do, and I’ve had girl come over and fuck me after matching on tinder. Women are definitely capable of want to fuck someone solely because of physical attributes, if you haven’t experienced this you’re either not trying or not attractive enough. I agree that learning game is important because you never want to really on one app for all your dating opportunities.
/r/seduction22/04/19 09:59 AM
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Nah I’m black and I’ve hooked up with a lot of white girls, blonde hair blue eyed girls are by far my most successful demographic. Black guys with looks who are upper middle class do extremely well with white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:30 AM
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I have no reason to believe any of this is true, I think tinder put out these pictures to make tinder seem approachable for average dudes. The idea that the most swiped on profiles would go on those few dates in a year is hilarious. That was probably put in there to make tinder seem less of a hookup app to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 04:18 PM
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Not that I think this is what's happening here, but girls will definitely cheat with guys who are less physically attractive then their boyfriend, especially if he's still good looking. In my social circle I'm one of the few bachelors left, and word gets around that I'm a player(I'm not really), I legit see her getting bored of the pretty boy she's managed to lock down for years. This is especially interesting considering she cheated on her last boyfriend with her current one, so she has a histo…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 03:44 PM
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My social circle though, which includes coworkers. And since when is feeling up arms consider a shit test?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:42 PM
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Why do these hookups tend to be with men are attractive, couldn’t one commit self harm on anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 12:25 AM
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Or men don’t stick around mentally unsound women, and thus they tend to go through more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 11:58 PM
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This is laughable. 5’11 is not considered short in America. And 5’9 is not invisible, or anything close it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:16 AM
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Aren’t there more women in medical school than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:11 AM
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I'm more talking about the average dude who has multiple casual relationships with attractive women It's because it doesn't happen. The only way to have frequent casual sex with multiple women is to have high SMV + tight game. Good looks alone won't do it, being smooth alone won't do it. Guys who have just one(game or SMV) can have casual sex with average women, and relationships with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:16 PM
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"People are attractive, except when they aren't!" Yeah no shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:36 PM
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Everyone is caught up in this idea that you can get a really attractive partner when you bring nothing to the table. Men bring a lot more to the table than their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 12:38 PM
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Saying I’m a child rapist in your profile is unattractive yes. Most women would certainly be repelled by Nazism. There’s no moralizing premise. It’s simply an example that extremely good looks can overcome pretty much any other negative trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:36 AM
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Which as you know is pointless, because it's impossible to prove online. It's impossible to prove "game" works as well. All the theory is based on anecdotes, so take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:04 PM
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You think only fat chicks want to have sex with Calvin Klein models?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:55 PM
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Yeah keep telling yourself that, hot girls especially if they're drunk, will definitely approach hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:50 PM
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I mean, these aren't just text messages, these girls are sending their personal information with a clear intent of coming over for sex. When a girl messages you saying "What are you doing tonight?" or "Can you take my virginity?" I think it's pretty obvious what's about to happen. I've never gotten a message like that and not gotten laid. Have you ever even dated in the tinder era?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:49 PM
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In my experience this is correct, but I'd also like to add girls will get bored of a shy guy with no game who's a 9 quickly if they enter a realtionship. Game is most important in a realtionship. For casual sex, maximize your looks and approach, online or real life. You don't have to be smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:45 PM
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It's 2019. The only thing a guy with a model looks needs to approach is his smartphone, open up tinder/bumble/whatever and ask girls to come over. I've done it and I'm probably slightly above average at best, model-like guys can probably order pussy to their door Uber Eats style. If you don't believe me, watch guys with fake male model profiles where they claim to be Nazi's or pedos get laid. https://thechive.com/2017/08/10/guy-poses-as-pedophile-on-tinder-and-it-doesnt-deter-women-one-ounce-13-…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:40 PM
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Girls will definitely approach top tier guys, it may not be the best girls, and the guy may fuck it up, but I have no doubt a Sean O'Pry look alike could just wallflower and get approached regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:31 PM
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What do you mean by "barely doing anything" Get on tinder, and ask his matches to come over and have a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 03:30 PM
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All those things apply to approaches in broad daylight or nightgame, IF she doesn't have a boyfriend IF her friends don't cockblock IF she doesn't excuse herself within minutes IF she's gives her number IF she replies to message IF she accepts a date offer IF she shows up Most girls aren't going to like you, online or in real life. And many are going to screen you out before you can spit game. The only way to counteract this reality is by approaching alot, which is effectively what tinder does.
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:22 PM
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With tinder, it's basically only gonna work for the male model looking dudes. it's a contest of who has the best looking face This is BS, tinder works is you're slightly above average young guy. Think top 30-40%(of young men). If you're a male model, tinder becomes an app where you can order hot cute girls to your place like a pizza. But if you're just "cute", you can still get laid, you're just going to have to go on dates, and wait a while for quality.
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:31 AM
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What's up with these nigh-autistic post "Which 3 checkboxes does X need to tick off to obtain Y". No one is entitled to anything. The more beautiful a women is the higher than chances she has with any guy who is straight and not blind. There is no such thing as a beauty threshold because beauty isn't a measure(as oppose to height and weight which can have threshold)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:12 AM
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but rather that it's not enough to generate any kind of attraction no matter how it's brought to light. RP doesn't claim that either. In fact many RP recommending hiding your wealth if you have it, as it triggers women's "Beta Bux routine".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:10 PM
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Find me one post, just one on TRP, that advocates for bragging about your six figure income on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:58 PM
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I don't understand the point of this post. It is that a man can be fit and make 100k and still turn off an extremely attractive women(so say you atleast) with his poor personality? Is that a surprise to anyone? With all of this talk on Red Pill about how important fitness and money are, they clearly are not nearly enough. Bragging about your money is the complete opposite of what standard RP theory would recommend in this case. I think even most blue pillers would agree on that. Red pill constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:53 PM
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if you are good looking, like ACTUALLY good looking, you dont need game of any kind. Meh I disagree with this. Extremely good looking guys will always get something, but will always underperform without game. Whenever I go out on the weekends I'll usually get 1-2 random women telling me I'm hot/handsome/whatever out of nowhere per night. I'm probably not the level of hot you're talking about but I think it's safe to say I'm above average. Guess what? If my game isn't tight, it's extremely easy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:14 AM
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That cute girl in your college class already knew that three quarters of the guys in the room would fuck her if she wanted, and maybe half of them would date her seriously if she wanted. Not really(especially the date part), you really overestimate how confident women are in themselves. Yeah the 9's and 10's knew they were the shit, but not 6's. I have a female friend who's maybe a 5 and matched with an NFL player on a online dating app. There's no way she would have met him in a pre smartphone …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:18 AM
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I agree, contrary to the "whiny incel" stereotype, most of the guys I know IRL who are saying "wow this online dating thing is kinda fucked up" are the good looking guys who are cleaning up. They know if it wasn't for tinder they would never fuck 4 different girls in a week. It's almost too easy for them. Yeah girls used to get approached in bars before, no one's arguing that. However they'd have their friends cockblocking and judging them, they'd have difficult logistics, and they'd have fewer …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:06 AM
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What? My point is human being have finite amount of energy that they can spend pursing their desires. If you're working on a career that makes you 6 figures, you're going to have less time and energy to socialize. There's just a finite amount of time in a day. So if getting attractive women is your priority you're probably not going to be a super successful dude, unless your career is already established. This is one of the reason older guy are usually better with women, once you establish yours…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 09:58 AM
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That falls under logistics.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 09:07 AM
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What do you mean by status? Is having a prestigious engineering/law/doctor job with a 6 figure salary "status"?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 07:02 AM
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Agreed, I'm an engineer that works, and alot of my social circle are also engineers that make 100k +. I know friends with half as much money that do much better with girls with them. Why? Because they have more experience. The biggest lie men are told is that women care about your money, outside of marriage and sugar daddy arrangements, things that most young men aren't interested in anyways, money doesn't matter beyond its ability to create better logistics.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 06:59 AM
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So there's no risk, no rejection. There certainly is a risk of rejection. It's just not overt and to your face. After a speed dating all event you get a list of all the women who'd welcome calls back from you, most guys get an empty list. Which gets to my point, it's not that men can't handle that a given girl might not be into them that scares them out of the cold approach, or else they'd be just as scared of online and speed dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:40 AM
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Yeah how many hetreosexual women have dated? Had sex with? Women's standards for boyfriend are not "be vaguely connected to their social circle".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 05:56 AM
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it’s sooo hard not to pick shitty men. Honestly it seems to me the more attractive a man is the more options he has, and the more likely he is to use you. I've have female friends complain about a guy using them and then show me a picture of the guy and I think "Uhhh, no shit he's way out of your league"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:30 AM
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a woman who makes it clear she's looking for A BOYFRIEND, who will call himself that, and be exclusive, and go to the Christmas party with her, has a much, much harder time than a man in the same position. The thing is, there's no women on the planet who's standards is just "a guy who will be exclusive with me", there's much more she requires, if he doesn't have a certain look, or his personality doesn't turn her on enough, or he doesn't have enough status, he's out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:00 AM
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An average guy who makes it clear he wants a girlfriend--not a date, not sex, but an actual girlfriend--will get one, quicker than his female counterpart explicitly looking for a boyfriend. Not really. I get why'd you think this to be the case. But most women, especially younger ones, are repulsed by a guy who shows too much eagerness to enter into an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 02:54 AM
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I noticed how you ignored the speed dating example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:16 PM
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I think is partly right but largely an oversimplification. Yes, men don't like to feel rejected, but most guys are much more terrified of asking a stranger for her number, than going to a speed dating event or going on tinder. It can't just be rejection they're scared off, because rejection can happen in speed dating and in online dating. They're also scared of being seen as weirdo/creep, yeah they probably won't get thrown in jail or kicked out of a store, but they very likely might have a girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:37 AM
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Every time you see a millenial male over the course of the next week, "How many women within 20 miles of me would ever fuck that dude under literally any circumstances?" Where do you guys lives that all the men suck? I walk past guys who look like they belong in Calvin Klein ads every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 09:15 AM
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Contrary to popular a lot of young women actually have quite poor social skills. They quite a bit of social power, because of their beauty, but social power and social skills are not always correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:03 PM
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lol they learn about Aristotle and Plato everywhere, and most Americans probably don’t even know much about them. Western religion, Western language, Western customs, but not Western. Give me a break. You clearly haven’t spent any time in Latin America, nor do you speak of their languages, or understand their customs. Being poor and corrupt has nothing to do with being Western. Argentina was as rich as the US at one point, and Greece the home of Western philosophy, is closer to Mexico in income …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 05:18 AM
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What makes a nation Western?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 12:24 AM
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Most Hispanics are descendants of native americans living in mexico and elsewhere in the south american continent. Most Hispanics are heavily mixed with Europeans. Pure white Hispanics are more common in Latin American than pure native Americans. They inherited the language, that's about it. So were the Aztecs practicing Catholicism before the Spanish arrived? Do you even speak Spanish? Have to talked to Spaniards who have moved to Latin America and observed the difference? Most of them will tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:32 PM
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OK. How old are you? 25 Are you honestly saying most men wouldn't be happier if their wife were prettier? Are you going to tell me next most women wouldn't be happier if their husbands were richer? Are you aware that rating of cheating in men is correlated with the age of their wife? Men who deal drugs, cycle in and out of prison, get in fights, produce kids theyre not taking care of -- this is all OK because women exist who will reward this behavior? Who cares if it's "ok"? All I'm saying it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:26 AM
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In the US we're being replaced by Hispanics. Wait, if American culture is Western why isn't Hispanic? Why is Spanish colonial culture less Western than British colonial culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:15 AM
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People keep bringing up Tinder. It has a really trashy reputation and plenty of people would t be caught dead with it on their phone. lol BS Most young professional women in an urban environment have used tinder. I don't think I have a single female friends that I haven't seen on some dating app. And bumble, hinge, and coffee meets bagle have the same effect. Majority of couples I know, that have met post college have meet through college dating. OKCupid is for trash. Most women who have a Bumbl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:13 AM
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Where are the youth? Probably not at the bars that you go to? I really doubt you know all the bars in your town, and bar popularity varies wildly from night to night. I see plenty of young people when I go out to the bars. It's mostly young men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:08 AM
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I disagree with the post with responding to, but from what I've seen a surprising amount of young women, "don't want anything serious right now", especially young professional women. I've seen multiple times where it's guys that are the ones that "want more" only to be dropped by the girl who just wanted to keep it casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 10:05 AM
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Where has it ever been said that women are not just as guilty of reinforcing societal narratives and culture? The Gillette commercial didn't say "Hey Women, we can do better, stop fucking this douchey assholes, it encourages toxic masculine behaviour" The ironic thing is that a lot of things considered toxic masculinity could be reduced by women's checking men's behaviour way more than men checking men's behaviour. Does that mean men who are married to women who are neither and say they still lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:44 PM
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At this point I think most women report scary or unpleasant interactions when they've tried to initiate communication, or more specifically, when they've participated but now wish to withdraw from further interaction. That would be a reason not interact with men at all, not a reason not to approach them. I'm sure men can be just as "scary" when they've been brushed off after approaching versus being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:02 AM
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The first step to getting into a realtionship is getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:20 AM
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The supply of really attractive guys went down. Really? Based off of what? Any woman who can get cool good looking guys on tinder who wanted to fuck her, could have easily got such a guy once a week in 1995 because there were more cool guys, and they approached chicks much more often, and we're pretty damn good at it. Top tier men can only talk to one girl at a time in a bar. But tinder is like a virtual bar where a top tier men can talk to all girls at once. Women who go out also have to deal w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 04:11 AM
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Women throw themselves at attractive men Women don't really throw themselves at anyone that much, the exception maybe being famous men. Even if you're really good looking you still have to approach, escalate, and close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:59 AM
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to the point where they've been disincentivized from learning how to improve their dating/relationships skills. If this is case why is there a bigger market than ever for learning dating realtionship skills? PUA youtube channel and fourms are now bigger than ever. Bars are more of a sausage fest then they've ever been. And porn has been around for a long time, way before this trend started.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:57 AM
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Have you ever been to a bar recently? It's a sausage fest. Mostly dudes who are clearly looking to approach girls. Have you been to a gym? Mostly dudes lifting weights so they can get more girls Look out how big the PUA industry has gotten, men are studying how to get women like it's a science. Day gaming is becoming common in some part of the world to the point that some cities have made laws against it. I don't see how anyone can say men aren't trying. And the porn theory fall incredibly flat …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:39 AM
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had many cute guys approaching her all the time before the internet was a thing, and had every opportunity to be perfectly hypergamic then. Really? At that scale? Pickup wasn't even a thing until the 2000's, and until the internet took off it was relatively rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:25 PM
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I really doubt the problem is men not trying. Look how many subscribers are on /r/seduction Look how well pickup books sell, and how many pickup channels have taken off on youtube. Look how many men are on dating apps, and how many them are paying for subscriptions. Go into any gym, look at the ratio of men to women. The idea that men are just not trying doesn't match up with anything I've seen in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:16 PM
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I have no doubt my "idea" would fall flat on its face. It'd be interesting though. The result is a standard bell curve. My supposition is men are rating for "type" and their actual ratings tended to be 1s and 5s and it averaged out that way The actual blog post that contains the study seems to have been scrubbed from the internet, so until I find it I can't comment on its methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 11:04 AM
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You seem to have trouble distinguishing "burden of proof" and "standard of proof". The party with the burden of proof does not get to set the standard of proof. There's not really thing called "standard of proof" in science, at least not how you're thinking of it. That's a legal term. The term "proof" doesn't really have much meaning in a science like medicine. There is evidence which points towards various theories and models being likely correct. And then there is evidence that show certain mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 10:58 AM
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If you can explain how a person with low testosterone levels will have high levels of testosterone derivatives, you will have my strict attention. 1) Define "low". 2) "High levels"(for a male) of DHT are not required to grow a beard, so I don't know why you think that's relevant. 3) High levels of DHT do not necessary ensure beards. You'll notice old men have thicker beards than younger men, despite having lower T. I inject myself with testosterone enanthate twice a week. You ever pin, brah? Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 03:38 PM
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It would give them feedback to improve their profile. It would also just be interesting to see how people react.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:45 AM
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Is it too late to get a refund on your tuition? I didn't pay for school. Because you autistically argued that facial hair is correlated to testosterone derivatives rather than testosterone, as if that were a practical distinction. Is this a joke? There's a massive practical distinction. They're different hormones which do different things to the male body. DHT is responsible for facial hair growth. Testosterone is responsible for masculine facial development, deep voices, and other things. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:30 AM
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I've never heard men IRL rating girls as 7s or whatever, they're either hot or not or the guy's type or w/e. I've heard it ever since puberty, in life, in movies, online. Even the president used it and he's old. They way I read the OKC thing is male preferences averaging out for mostly average women You read it incorrectly. Men's rating for women follows a standard bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:45 AM
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Why hide it from the user?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:17 PM
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It also sorta explains the infamous OKC study. It really doesn't, the OKC study showed a Gaussian distribution for female attractiveness as rated by men. People don't think in linear terms like this like manosphere spergs Please, the whole 1-10 scale is extremely common amongst normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:13 PM
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I would be embarassed to take your advice about a scientific perspective. I'm an electrical engineer who's designed spaceflight hardware, and been published in academic journals. Going by your profile, you're a lawyer. Unless you're in patent law, I very much doubt you have much training in scientific rigor. No testosterone derivatives, no facial hair. Do you understand? The only thing I don't understand is why you think repeating this is relevant to the discussion. As if anyone was arguing it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 03:47 PM
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High value men who need OLD for LTR are rare enough that they make up an exception AND NOT the rule. It's not about, "I'm using this app because of I didn't I'd be single forever". It's about "I'm using this app because it exposes me to way more options then if I just limited myself to my social circle". I repeat, even if you're an male 8, who desires a female 8. How many single female 8's do you know in your social circle? Especially if you're in a male dominated field like engineering, probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:07 PM
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I would have each user rate the profiles in front of them on a scale of 1-10, user's would be able to set a range for what would be the equivalent of a "swipe right". For example, I can set my "acceptable" range to be 7 and up, thus any girl I rate more than a 7 effectively gets "swiped right on". HOWEVER! I would limit the users ability to set the range based on their own score. Let's say I'm a rated a 5. Being the picky guy I am, I say "fuck that I only want 8s and up! But the program has a ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:39 PM
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I'm talking about looking for a long term partner, not a hookup. One of the most physically attractive men I know(also a very successful engineer) married a girl he met on CMB. I know many attractive intelligent professionals who are in relationships with people they met online. Online dating can work, it can certainly work for women who want boyfriends, you just have to bring enough to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:15 PM
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Highly desirable men don't need personals ads or apps. This is largely nonsense repeated by people with either little experience in online dating, or are themselves quite unattractive. Online dating has taken off for a simple reason: There are many potentially good pairing(be that for hookups or relationships) that never happen because the two people are never in the same room, or if they are none of them have the courage approach one another. Online dating fixes these problems by effectively pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 01:07 PM
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Hey man it's alright, I'm sure a girl will swipe right on you one day, no need to lash out at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:49 PM
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Nah, I screwed 8's + from online dating. And it's not only a one time thing, they come back for more. And while I've never gotten in a LTR from an online, I know many people, including attractive girls who have. But I am a physically attractive man with a high status job, you're not and you're coping. I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:39 PM
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Some random women fucking some random guy shows what exactly? It shows that what you wrote : They may as well not exist. It's like offering a dude shit. He's not interested. Is bullshit. Girl meeting me up at bar, coming and then coming back to my place to fuck shows that they are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:21 PM
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Anyone who has ever worked at a big law firm (I have) knows this all to well. Big firm attorney's are just servants to the rich -- only they clean up more expensive messes. Everyone's servants to someone, even Jeff Bezos is a servant to his shareholders and customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:17 AM
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I hear plenty of men bitching about women Do you know that most suicides in the marines aren’t actually related to PTSD, but their wife cheating on them? Most men have women problem. Most plumbers aren’t surrounded by hot chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:00 AM
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That study doesn’t validate what you said, or even really come close. It simply states there’s a correlation between testosterone measured in an umbilical cord and certain facial features considered masculine. You seem to using the word testosterone to refer to prenatal testestrone in one instance, and testosterone in your blood stream as an adult in another. That’s not only extremely unclear and sloppy writing from a scientific perspective, that’s simply not how testosterone works. Testosterone…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:19 AM
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Please tone it down on the pseudoscience. That’s not how facial hair growth or facial structure works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:46 PM
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Then why have so many of them slept with me? Honestly people who say women don’t value guys they meet online either haven’t used it, or aren’t attractive. Most modern women have probably fucked a guy they meet online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:44 PM
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Women prefer to date up in age so as they get older they naturally have a smaller dating pool available. Men are the opposite. Men’s looks don’t matter as much so aging doesn’t effect their attractiveness as much. I’d also argue they age mire gracefully than women if they’re not going bald. What women care about in men tends to grow over time. Money, social skills, social status, muscles, all take time to grow and thus most men will be attractive when they’re older. Older women are in a hurry to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:36 PM
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You probably misread her initial interest. You don't know a girl is actually into unless she's doing something sexual with you. Talking/smiling/giving their number/even agreeing to a date doesn't cost them anything and doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:05 PM
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Maybe with my job factored in, but I don't think physically I'm top 20 percent for young men, especially with being a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:37 PM
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Edit: Deleted link, thought I sent that via PM lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 02:19 PM
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I don't know what's funnier about this post. The fact that a white girl thinks she can generalize the most culturally diverse continent on the planet, a place where she can't even speak most of the languages. The fact that a white girl is calling African American men unambitious despite the fact that an African American men became the first president of the United States, African American men dominate US(and now world culture) media and culture for decades. The fact that she says black women do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:39 AM
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They're so simple they designed the machine, software, and system that you're using to type this message.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:29 AM
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If you send me a PM, I'll send you pics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:10 AM
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That's nice. But I wasn't addressing what you give a shit about. Nothing in my comment or the comment I replied to mentioned anything about what you personally care about. Your comment bragged about your wife's IQ. IQ can only be determine by professionals, not by some non-profit filled with score-obessed losers. But realistically, no one with an IQ near 100 is going to get a near perfect score on any of the big standardized tests. Why? Because you said so? And there's a huge gap between 100 and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:06 AM
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They shouldn’t. But high standards have their price.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:00 PM
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Getting along with guys doesn’t mean they have good game, usually the opposite. Nerdy guys usually have weak game. Looks matter, obviously, but there’s a reason it’s women that usually are the ones that don’t want a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:57 PM
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I don’t know where you live but every time I go to the gym I see more men then women, and most young professional men know how to dress well enough for a date. The primary problem with these men isn’t their looks, it’s their game. Game is the single most important thing for attracting women, and a lot guys don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:32 AM
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I don’t give shit about Mensa, I care about what professional psychologists say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:52 PM
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No they certainly don’t, IQ test are administered by a professional licensed psychologist and have an oral component. There are obviously some correlation between IQ scores and GRÉ/SAT scores, but you cannot infer an IQ of 145 from a high standardized test score. Anyone who’s done 20 minutes of research on IQ would know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 01:12 PM
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Why did your wife take an IQ test? They’re typically only administered if there’s something potentially wrong with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:02 AM
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Yeah, no. In English, if you don’t care about something, that means you don’t have a preference for it. By your confusion with this and the earlier phrasing, I’m guessing English isn’t your first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:19 PM
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Yeah, the average girl much prefers to sleep with a guy who has a six pack to one that doesn’t, take it from a man who has has been both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:37 PM
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A lot of men will certainly care if a women tits aren’t big enough to his liking. You can literally go read thread with women who got breast implants describe how people treat them better afterwards. Of course there’s variation in preference within a gender, I prefer smaller tits actually, but I realize my preferences are outside the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:02 PM
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The average women certainly does prefer a guy with a sixpack, your own link said so. It’s possible of course that all the men that noticed when they got a six pack and more muscles they were able to get laid easier are delusional It’s possible that women post guys with six pack abs on ladyboners for no reason. It’s possible that your study that says women prefer muscular men with low body fat, which produces a six pack. Anything is possible I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:39 PM
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I’m not sure if English is your native language, but the phrasing in the original post implies women don’t desire guys with bodybuilding physiques or six pack abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:21 PM
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I don’t think money creates much sexual attraction by itself. I does create practical attraction. The thing done to get the money, can infer status and thus sexual attraction. I think a guy who makes 300k by being a doctor is getting more pussy than a guy who makes 750k owning a successful chain of dry cleaners. Because to certain women, being a doctor is high status and being high status is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 12:23 PM
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Probably, my social circle consist of upper middle class young professionals. Honestly though, I can describe what most mild acquaintances I have do for a living, so I find it very hard to believe your boyfriend doesn’t know what you do. Anyways, most men probably don’t care what their causal sex partner or STR does for a living. But I don’t think most men want the future mother of their child being a cashier, mainly because 1) People with cashier tier jobs tend to have traits that would make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 12:14 PM
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I’ve never meet a couple where the man couldn’t describe what his girlfriend did/studied in pretty reasonable detail. Then again my friends group is more educated than most. But it’s not really about caring about how much many she makes, it’s about making sure she’s there because she’s interested in you, and not just your money or attention. Girls who are attracted to you aren’t going to feel they need to be paid to dress up, they’ll want to dress up to impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 11:54 AM
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because I have found that to be true. How many hetrosexual women have you slept with? Comparing six pack abs to be emicated is absurd. Do you believe the average mans response to an emanciated women is even remotely similar to the average women’s reaction to a six pack on a man. lean men with low bodyfat, So guys with six packs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:48 PM
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You said women don’t really care about a six pack, which is absurd to anyone who’s every had one. What exactly a bodybuilder physique is depends on the what bodybuilder you have in mind, but most men don’t think women are obsessed with Arnold Schwarzenegger’s bod. They do think in general that the more muscle they have the more attractive they will be to women, and that getting too big is virtually impossible without injecting yourself with drugs and having a intense workout routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:18 PM
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Mostl relationships outside of religious communities and extremely young people start of a sexual and move into romantic. Most sexual encounters don’t lead to relationships, no matter how they happen. The fact is there are girls are tinder who wants boyfriends and won’t sleep with a man in the first date. Not many, but they exist plenty.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:09 PM
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That’s the point, hot muscled man are fun. Fun to look at, fun to ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:05 PM
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Look, you’re arguing with the experience of thousands men who have gained muscles and saw a notably increase in female attention, plus scientific literature on the subject. Go make a fake tinder profile with an skinny get and Calvin Klein bod guy, even with an average face if you want to see the difference yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 03:05 PM
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Because they’re typically a person of a low socioeconomic class marrying someone else from a low socioeconomic class.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:19 AM
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Plenty of people find SO from tinder.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:16 AM
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They why do finically independent women living in safe neighborhoods date?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:17 AM
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So was it men who went to see Magic Mike? Are you denying that women vastly prefer a muscular physique to a scrawny one? I agree women don’t care about looks as much as men but the idea most don’t care a bit is beyond absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 10:11 AM
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Women don’t fuck men they find replusive. A lot of women don’t really get that much money out their LTR nowadays anyways. It’s like you guys have never met a women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:21 PM
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Young women certainly do care about status, see how much action captain of football team and men in frats get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:18 PM
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The study is silly because it draws conclusions that can’t be inferred by the evidence it presents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:31 PM
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I have a doctor tier job and I don’t feel like it helps that much tbh. If you’re a cashier at Walmart just leave out your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 02:30 PM
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I’m not going to buy the study but just from reading that it sounds it was talking about men exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:12 PM
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Most peoples looks don’t decline in any significant amount in their 20s. Younger women favor looks more simply because men haven’t had enough time to gain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 01:01 PM
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I think alpha is more about behavior than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:58 PM
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Women aren’t stupid. They know that Chads don’t commit easily, and a lot are willing to trade looks for commitment. And those who don’t will have to suffer the consequences of being a sex toy for Chad. Something that most women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 12:16 PM
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I mean it’s forced in the sense that if they had access to more information then looks they’d select their matches differently, especially those looking for a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:57 AM
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Yeah no. Women simply aren’t as concerned about looks as men. It varies from women to women. But I’ve seen too many attractive women fall for the average looking boyfriends who have game/status to believe looks is it. And I’ve seen too many pretty boys do médiocre with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:54 AM
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This study and studies like it are silly because it assumes that what women find attractive is just as visual as what men find attractive. All this study shows is that very few men have looks that are good enough on their own to make women interested in him, on a website that notorious for causal sexual encounters. However the worrying aspect about this, is that there has been an enormous shift towards online dating, especially in urban environments, so female preferences have almost been forced…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 11:04 AM
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I really doubt I’m in the top 20 percent and I can get causal sex relatively easy with dating apps. The way I see it, each year that goes by I do better and better with women, I’m 25, so as I approach my late twenties Ill start looking for a LTR, preferably with a girl in her early to mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:29 AM
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People who say you can’t meet high quality people through tinder are delusional. Most young professionals in urban cities have been on at least one tinder date, if you’re not getting good results it’s probably because you yourself aren’t high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 04:09 AM
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Women both like an older mans for what they’ve gained over the years, and instinctively dislike the idea of dating a man younger than themselves. I’ve seen women go cold on men they’d previously been keen on upon hearing he’s younger then them and surveys of women reflect this preference. Female imperative is not feminism. Looks realistic bases off of wht? A month of celibacy isn’t anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:46 AM
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To address a few things... TRP never suggested that age alone makes you hotter, what I’ve seen them suggest is two things: 1) Most of what creates male attractiveness takes time to obtain, muscles, money, talents, social skills all generally are something that men have the least of when they’re young. On the other hand, women’s beauty is at its peak when they’re young. 2) Because women prefer older men, and men prefer younger women, an older men’s dating options are larger than older women’s by …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 11:06 AM
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What’s your typical behavior like post sex? Are you good in bed? The type of thing you’re talking about is probably a mix of random noise(some girls are just going to have things going on that are out of your control) and too much perceived emotional neediness post sex. A lot of guys think after they slept with a girl they’ve got it in the bag and they can relax their game, but most women are extremely sensitive to neediness.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:48 AM
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Agreed, never text a girl the phrase “let me know”
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:43 AM
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This almost always happens because of emotional neediness. If she just wanted a ONS she would have ghosted.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:38 AM
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Unless you want to be a cheater your skills in picking up women with invariably worsen while you’re in an LTR, it’s the nature of the beast. The best way to keep as attractive as possible is by having hobbies unrelated to your girlfriend, particularly social ones that occasionally put you around attractive women. Other than that keep in shape, and don’t act needy and emotionally weak. Flirting can keep someone of your social skills sharpish, but the type of flirting you’ll probably be doing skip…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:35 AM
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That was probably the case for NY, London is known as a tough city for men though, and I don’t think I mentioned I was a traveler there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:59 PM
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I very much doubt I’m below average, I’ve used tinder with a lot of success in other cities. Both as a traveler and as a resident. For New York I probably wasn’t there long enough and that was back when I was new to tinder so I probably didn’t know what I was doing. But London was definitely unusually hard, and I know that because on that same Euro trip I did much better on the mainland with the same profile and same lines. If you doubt me I guess I could send you a profle pic though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:57 PM
1

Educational attainment is an enormous confonding variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 03:38 PM
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This is nonsense, getting a liberal arts degree from an Ivy League school doesn’t make you set for life. Sure the name of the school will help, but they’re plenty of Ivy League grads managing to leaving mediocre middle class careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:44 PM
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And I know some 5’6 guys that get laid, that doesn’t mean women in general don’t prefer tall men. The plural of ancedote is not date. The data for sociology tells us the the relative wages of men to women are predicative of marriage rates in a community and strength of individual marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:35 PM
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I’ve used tinder all over the world and found those two cities some of hardest, especially the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:29 PM
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The only real reason to have an LTR are for the emotional connection. No practical list of green flags can make it worth it. If your subconscious isn’t telling you a girl is worth it, forcing yourself is pointless especially if you’ve been through it and seen how demanding it can be. If you decide to enter one, you should do so from a position of strength, that means having her ask for exclusivity, and making your particular standards for a realtionshio clear BEFORE you accept. If you don’t like…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:17 PM
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I think the hard part about being a women at 30 isn’t so much the decline in looks, conscientious women who take of themselves still haven’t lost that much of their looks by age 30, and can still probably get sex just as much as their younger counterpart. What has to be hard is that men are less likely to commit to you, because commitment to an older women has much higher cost. When comparing a 30 year old to a 25 year old even if she has her looks, their decline are just around the corner, and …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:06 PM
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I'm not sure the point of your reply, I'm agreeing with you in the first sentence of my post, I'm just explaining to you why men think it's in their best interest to sleep with a women. Both genders want proof that the other is actually into them and not just using them. Men want the proof in the form of sex, women want the proof in the form on attention and courtship prior to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:58 PM
1

im looking for an excuse not to practice game. im an extreme introvert that generally does not like talking to people. You don't have to like it, but if you don't practice game you won't get better, especially if you're naturally introverted. Looksmax all you want, I know a lot of Chads that underperform their looks, especially when it comes to relationships. And BTW they are guys that are extremely attractive and act extremely beta. I still don't understand the point, do you want to know if you…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:47 PM
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You've given us literally no information except one shitty picture. It's like someone asked me what's wrong with their car and sent me a picture of under the hood.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:04 PM
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Your question is perfectly reasonable: You only have a certain amount of time and energy for self improvement so what do you to maximize return on investment. The answer depends where you live, who you are, and want you want. If you're living in a Western country and want to have alot of casual sex with as many hot chicks as possible, I'd skew hard towards SMV, particularly looks. Obviously you need some game, but looks scale, that is, once you improve them they increase your chances with all wo…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:59 PM
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I largely agree with OP. What many men here are in denial about is that men will typically be less likely to commit to women the easier/quicker it was to get her into bed. They say, "I don't think a women's a slut just because she put out on the second date". Yeah, no shit. You don't consciously think it, it happens in the male subconscious. Sure sometimes good relationships come out of ONS, but that's typically when the girl was of extremely high quality. Most guys aren't eager to commit to a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:18 AM
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Women make the men they care about wait to see if they actually care too. I understand why women would make a man they see as realtionship material wait longer than a guy who's just for fun, I sincerely do. What a lot of men are worried about is a lot of women have no problem ghosting a guy if that they've never been sexually involved with. Once a women has sex with a guy, most of them begin to become more emotionally attached. So the period between the start of the first date and the first time…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:51 AM
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This could be a possible explanation, but it could also be she's just trying to display loyalty by telling him what's up. There's really no way to tell, but if she was seriously considering the coworker in anyways she would not be telling her bf, so it can only be a good thing.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:57 AM
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I've lived a few places as well, I don't really see how anyone could have enough experiences to make an accurate assessment on something like that without data to backup it up. And the plural of anecdote is not data.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:53 AM
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It's true that a lot of the couples that seem happy on surface aren't so when you look closer. It's also true that they are genuinely happy couples, humans wouldn't evolve the capacity to pair bond if it was doomed to end in disaster. Some RPer deny this reality because they're in the anger phase, or they've been hurt before. I've always thought the objective of game was to enter a quality realtionship with an attractive women, and manage that realtionship successfully. However when I look aroun…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:47 AM
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How much time do you spend with these girls before you have sex with them? Men have a very hard time pair bonding with women they have sex with quickly after meeting. Our mind puts them in the "slut box" and wants to move onto the next one. If you really want to be able to keep a girl around I'd recommend spending at least 7 hours one on one with her without having sex, maybe even longer. You need to create an emotional bond prior to fucking or else you'll just lose interest after sex. Honestly …
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:35 AM
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Dude you're not making any sense, why didn't you mention the bruises in the OP? How'd she get them? Why don't you post the exact contents of the texts instead of paraphrasing it? Apologizing isn't something girls typically do if they feel wronged, quite the opposite. How drunk were you? Are you sure she didn't do something like puke afterwards, scratch you, or something that would require an apology? How's your memory of the event. That text alone means you have a near zero percent chance of bei…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:23 AM
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mainly in the US lmao What's so special about the US? I've seen cheating all over the West. Hell it's practically part of the culture in France.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 05:11 AM
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her reluctance to jump right into bed with him isn't necessarily because she's trying to hide the fact that she's slutty from him, trick him, or make him "earn" sex. It's about her. Because she likes him, it would hurt her if he fucked her then didn't want a second date. I agree with most of the post up until here. I don't think it's about women getting their feelings hurt by a realtionship material guy pump and dumping anymore than a Chad pumping and dumping. I think what women know both throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 09:31 AM
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I think most men today know that almost all women are sluts All women are certainly not sluts, unless your definition of slut is broad as to be meaningless. And most men are not super cynical red pill types who think all women are sluts, if anything it's the opposite.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 09:18 AM
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Because no one wants to commit to a slut.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:54 AM
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They can stay attracted to their husbands and men of their own age, but the most visually and sexually attractive man will remain the man who is 25. I call BS on this. Unless a man is balding, you don't really see any real visual signs of aging in males until at least 30, even later if they're not white. Even women don't see that big of a decline in their physical beauty at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:18 AM
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Girls, especially sober ones, are very unlikely to say "Get lost, creep". They're much more likely to make up a boyfriend, or give you their number and then block you after the first text. Straight up insults from non inebriated women in broad daylight are rare, and I've personally never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 04:44 AM
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If you and your future wife have college degrees and have never been married your chance of divorce is around 16 percent. Sure if you’re uneducated trash marrying uneducated trash, I’d definitely stay away, but two successful high IQ people have a decent chance of making things work. As for the benefits, many people want children and many people find the institution of marriage is the only acceptable way to raise them right.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:20 PM
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You don’t need a women to be several time your incomes to avoid alimony payments. Honestly some people on here have standards so ridiculous they might as well be women. You won’t get to marry Giselle without being Tom Brady. You can marry a cute girl who keeps herself and shape and is intelligent enough to have a decent professional career. No you’re not guaranteed to have a happy married filled with sex and respect, but the chances of things going mind blowingly bad are relatively low.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 12:17 PM
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Yea if you can marry a women who has a decent socioeconomic class, you really don’t have to worry that much about being “divorced raped”. Both because the chance of two college educated people earning a decent income getting divorced is extremely low, and if her income is around yours you won’t get hit with alimony. If you have any large assets like an inheritance or business you might want consult a lawyer about how things would be divided in the state you live in. Despite what people say on he…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 10:51 AM
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You’re a man, taste vary within the gender. I’ve personally always found large breast to be a turn off, I much prefer perky b cups and I know many men who agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:31 AM
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There are no hard rules with women. I hooked up with plently of girls I didn’t kclose the first date, if fact some guys recommend not going for the kclose until you’re in a place where you can have sex. While I don’t agree with that in all cases, forces a kclose too soon will lead to you getting ghosted.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 07:24 PM
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This has to be a joke. Girls will make out with anyone. They will go on a date with a guy, make out with him and ghost him like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:17 AM
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Red pill is filled with guys who clearly are just giving the most edgy and alpha as advice as possible. Red pill is irrationally against marriages and vastly overestimates the chance of a college educated who marries another college educated person getting divorced. Redpill has gotten mixed with racism, and general alt rightism which it really has no reason to be. Blue pill just tends to give absurdly idealistic advice. Blue pill also exagreete how rare red pill thinking is by men and women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:04 AM
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I don't know why everyone thinks TRP tactics are someone incredibly rare mysterious thing, because they're not. Seeing multiple women at the same time, and rating their attractiveness on a scale of 1-10 isn't something they invented. If I had a close female friend the only advice I'd give them, and I have had to give this advice is: Look, as a woman they're alot of guys out there that will be willingly to fuck you but won't date you. If you're fine with casual sex that's cool, but most women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:04 AM
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Literally everyone in my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 04:31 AM
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You have successfully proven my argument wrong and you are the official winner of purple pull debate. Thanks, it's good to see someone able to admit it when they're wrong. I know it's hard, but it will make you a better person in the long run. Oh and it's spelled "pill", not "pull".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:41 PM
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Cool story bro why don't you go to a street shitter country and apply all of this knowledge? Because they already are themselves, China's and India's growth is a prime example. Is it because we tried that already and when colonialism ended the standard of living plunged back to what it was before colonialism? I don't know where you're referring to, but that's certainly not true of all countries full of black people. Grenada and Barbados are both former colonies full of black people that have hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:05 AM
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When a person has the intelligence of a 6th grader he can't be reliably counted on to maintain a sanitation system. I don't understand why you think that maintaining a sanitation system and shitting in the street have to do with one another. Only a few people in a given society need to be capable of maintaining a sanitation system for most people to have access to toilets, that's how specialized economies work. What's more important is that the people have access to the resources necessary to cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:07 AM
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What does shitting in the street and IQ have to do with one another? And no, just because IQ can be used to develop mentally deficient people, does not mean you can use it judge a group? Do you know what an average is? Fat tails? Variance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:40 PM
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This is complete nonsense and utter nonsense. There’s no way of knowing the causal effect of IQ to a countries GDP. There’s certainly no proof that the leaderships IQ is linked to the countries GDP. IQ becomes less and less predictive of performance once you get above the mean. It’s a test that good at detecting mentally deficient people but becomes increasing less important the higher you get. The funny thing is anyone who’s practiced or a scientist or engineer should immediately understand thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:12 PM
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Basics of bachata are much easier than the basics of salsa but once you get more advance I agree it becomes hard, although I wouldn’t say much harder than salsa
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:49 PM
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I mainly do salsa on1, which is probably one of the more difficult types of dances you can learn, bachata is more sensual and easier so you might want to try that. If you just want to learn how to look good in a club I’d take a hip hop dance class.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:34 AM
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As someone who dances quite regularly, I think it’s a fun, and it’s helps with meeting women but I wouldn’t do it just for girls if you don’t enjoy because it’s too hard.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:23 PM
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Obviously, but a guy who looks fit/skinny might be considered overweight because of the muscle he carrries. Especially a young man with a lanky build.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:07 PM
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I dunno, but I doubt you can tell if someone lifts by just looking at them. Most men I know have seriously lifted at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:48 PM
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I think there’s a lot of men who clock in as overweight on the BMI scale but are fit in actually solely due to their muscle mass. It really doesn’t take that much muscle to make you overweight, a year of lifting easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:42 AM
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Dregs? I’ve meet MIT grads, medical students, law students and all sorts of extremely successful women off Bumble, probably more successful than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 12:25 AM
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I don't experience that from women much. My suspicion is that there are a lot of other feelings that men are confusing with companionship. Or maybe I just have a problem connecting with women. Well you're in the vast minority of males. Are you sure it's camaraderie? It seems to me that as men we simply tolerate the presence of women because we are so motivated to secure sex. You've never had a women cook for you? Clean for you? Buy things for you? Go on vacations with you? If all you get out of …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:24 AM
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and most of my friends are upper middle class US suburbanites married to former college sluts. Most got married and started having kids in the 25-28 range, and like clockwork, by the time the first kid turned 7 or so, most of them are getting handed divorce papers and telling me that they haven't had sex in over a year. You must have an odd friend circle because statistically(assuming you're American)only around 25 percent of marriages between two people with a bachelor's degree end in divorce, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:13 AM
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Women are more than twice as likely as men to be taking an antidepressant https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/astounding-increase-in-antidepressant-use-by-americans-201110203624
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:36 PM
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If the girl you're banging is your best option and you want to make her your girlfriend, you shouldn't be the one proposing it. In my experience girls are so hyper-sensitive to male neediness now a days that men expressing desire for exclusively sometimes turns them off. There's no risk in waiting for them to ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:23 AM
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So when you read a blue piller on here who say their marriage is great, do you think they're just in the calm before the storm? In denial? Lying? I don't ask that jestingly, it's serious hard for me to understand how the two sides live in such different worlds. Unfortunately my experience with dating as a man in his mid twenties seem to have fit TRP much more closely than the TBP description, so I have no reason to think that will change when I get older, I'll be watching my friends closely as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:18 AM
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So what's the difference between those marriages that end up like the ones described above and the ones that don't? It is just the personality of the wife? Wife's upbringing? Environment that the couple live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:44 PM
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But why wouldn't it be an uniform distribution? Because most things aren't uniform distributions and there's no evidence that this is a uniform distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:59 PM
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You seem mad about something, did your parent's divorce really bother you that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:53 PM
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3) He's of above average intelligence. 10 points lower than me isn't low considering my IQ is around 117-120. I estimate his to be around 107ish, so no, he's not retarded. You can't "estimate" IQ. That's not how that works at all. Even a licensed clinical psychologist wouldn't claim to be able to know someone's IQ by just personally knowing them and their accomplishments. A 20 year women who doesn't have experience in the field of psychology guessing the IQ of someone she's personally involved w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:03 PM
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Damn we should force men to marry them if children are in the picture. I'm not even sure why "happiness" that you brought in the OP is even a factor here. Because kids bring many people happiness. That's far more than "some" that is required from men here. If that was only that, that thread would not even exist and we would not even have this exchange. "Some" isn't a specific amount, so I'm not sure how you claim something to be far more than it. back to square one, not being married makes that …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:02 AM
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How happy would those guys be if they weren't married? I don't know a lot of happy 35+ old unmarried men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:37 AM
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I don't know a single one. I'm guessing you either don't know many divorcees or you have a hyperbolic definition of "completely destroyed". ... hum... it is the same to say that if your life goal is to have a house you should buy it regardless if you can pay it or not, or if you are happy with it or not. Or if it is gonna fall in your head or not... Comparing financial investments to personal investments is silly. I would say that the first have a chance of happening of one in a hundred You thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:48 PM
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Based on what. Every statistic about life outcomes for children born within wedlocks vs children born outside of it. Even if it is important for men to raise children, not at the expense of their own well being and interests that marriage really jeopardizes. Everything good in life requires some risk and sacrifice. So you invalidate my point with your anecdotal testimony? Your point that "modern women can't cook" is itself anecdotal. Alright, I hold onto that BS. Does that vetting also prevents …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:40 PM
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Isn't that just... general advice for dealing with people, though? I mean, some perfectly nice human being I've known for decades could develop a brain tumour and murder his wife and kids, or develop post-partum psychosis and stick a baby in the oven. I mean, it's a lot less rare than that. It's less the heuristic itself that bugs me, and more that the same guys who believe in literal "AWALT" are the ones who will react, let's say, poorly if a woman uses the same logic: "assume all men are viole…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:30 PM
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It seems what modern marriage has done is encourage assortative mating. I'm an engineer who will soon make six figures, because of how divorce laws work I'm much more likely to marry a women who makes a similar amount because I'm a lot less likely to get screwed over in a divorce court if things do go bad. Previously a lot of women probably traded their beauty and youth for a man's resource in marriage. But the Doctor/Nurse, Lawyer/Paralegal, Businessman/Secretary seems to be getting alot rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:20 PM
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70% of not being completely destroyed by law. I know many people who were divorced who weren't completely destroyed by the law. Many could be right now thinking that they should never have done it, and should have been alone from the get go. But now it is too late/expensive to leave. Sure, you can say that about alot of things. Now consider, lets say you have the chance of investing in a company, it asks for a good part of your revenue and it has a 70% chance of not being a catastrophic debt in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:01 PM
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Since we know the 70th percentile is the "breaking point" at which the marriage becomes unbearable, and from there it's a gradient towards the perfectly happy marriage at 0, that puts the middle at 35th percentile point. This is laughably bad statistics. You have no idea what the distribution of marital happiness is, you're assuming a uniform distribution with zero evidence. You're also assuming marital satisfaction is the only factor which influences if a divorce will happen, which we don't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:55 PM
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I'll play devil's advocate for a bit here. The phrase AWALT, is like the phrase "Assume all guns are loaded". Obviously not all guns are loaded, but the fact is you can't tell which are and aren't by just looking at them, so from a safety perspective, gun safety instructors will ask you to assume all guns are loaded. Similarly I don't believe TRP thinks all women will screw you over, but they all have the potential to, and you keep that in mind when dealing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:45 PM
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And far lower to nil if you don't marry at all. Close to nil is also your chances of raising successful well adjusted children. That may not be important to you, but it is to many men. They outright refuse or cannot longer even cook and do other houses tasks. I've literally never dated a women who wouldn't cook for me or clean her house. If you're marrying women who can't do basic housekeeping you must be incredible bad at screening. What's worthwhile in that exactly for men? Raising children in…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:38 PM
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I'm curious, how does something like that usually happen? Do you approach them at a bar? Know them through a social circle? Are they usually ongoing affairs or just one time things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:25 PM
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You don't really need to bring class into it, although I accept that it makes some difference. It makes a huge difference. That's what Charles Murray's Coming Apart was about. Stable marriages are pretty much extinct among much of America's white working class, while the college educated class actually has pretty decent family stability. It's like two different types of people entirely. I agree with the second part of your post as well. As a engineer I work with very highly educated people, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:18 PM
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I said MC/UMC. Just having a bachelors degrees does wonders for your marriage prospects statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 09:51 PM
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There's nothing natural about the legal construct of marriage, which hasn't existed in its current form for most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 05:17 PM
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I don't get this viewpoint, sure being happy married with kids is much harder then guys have been taught to believe, but are you saying it's not possible? I have a hard time believing there are no happy married man with kids, even the risk of it going wrong is not worth it for you.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:09 AM
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The comparison of sex to marriage is bizarre. If you look at sex as something you give your partner in order to procure a desired behaviour, and not something you to to fulfil your own desire for intimacy, you're probably not very attracted to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 03:04 AM
1

If you got everyone from the 28 states with the most population. You automatically win the election. What completely pointless hypothetical, what was the last time a politician got 80 percent of 1 state, much less 100 percent of 28.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 11:45 PM
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That's not true at all, but thanks for showing you don't know how to do math.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:43 PM
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Not from me. But youtube channel Coltaine.. So no. But doesn't it seem logical that people who are net contributors to tax system are also those not likely to vote for welfare party? No. People vote for many reasons other than their direct financial interest. An example is silicon valley and austin, both wealthy tech hubs that vote Democrat. I can definatelly source a Swiss analysis Not America. Not relevant. Women who are single, unemployed and college educated are the leftist tip of the spear …
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:41 PM
0

Care to have a source for that?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:52 PM
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He is literally the most powerful man on the planet elected by taxpaying majority What? Trump received 3 millions votes than Clinton, the only reason he's president is because America has an incredibly stupid electoral system.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:47 PM
1

son in fifty is on the spectrum and engineering concentrates like five or ten times as many autists as the genera I dont think 10 percent are autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:55 PM
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I dunno about this, they maybe be somewhat lacking but I wouldn't saying extremely lacking. I say this as someone who went to a top 10 engineering school, and got a degree in electrical engineering. The actually autistic dude is more rare then you think in those programs. Plenty of frat bros were in engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:00 AM
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Nowhere did I call RPers sociopathic losers. You literally said they want to make men scared of women so they can be a miserable as they are. You’re confusing leadership with taking initiative in one aspect of the relationship. Taking the initiative a key part in leadership. As for the part of the realtionship were women do so, sure they exist, but are men necessarily attracted to it the same way women are attracted to are? Not really. Most guys are fine if a women doesn't do any of the things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:10 PM
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A post isn’t automatically qualified as “not in good faith” just because it doesn’t buttress and suck up to RP talking No but when you say the red pill exist solely to because it creators are trying to get other men to scared of women so they can miserable as they are, you clearly aren't arguing in good faith. Arguing in good faith requires arguing against the most reasonable interption of your opponents arguments, you've done the opposite. They're ways to arguing against people you disagree wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 05:36 AM
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Not that I agree with society being in decline, but I think those that do would argue it's the bad environment for raising children that we should judge the state of society of.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 07:50 PM
1

Is the divorce rate for two college educated UMC people who have never been married before really 50%?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 06:48 PM
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which group of pillers is more likely to believe in the leadership/follower (or ugh captain/first mate) dynamic and shun the egalitarianism model or claim it doesn’t work? Which pill group is less likely to be open to considering someone else’s point of view than repeating the now tired old tropes of a has-been echo chamber? I think both sides are closed to opinions that disagree with their worldview, and open to those who agree. That's why they identify with their ideology. If anything more TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 12:49 AM
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Why the hell would you answer that question honestly? Like what did you hope to get out of telling her that you think girls who put out early aren't good for anything more then fuck buddies? Were you trying to activate her anti-slut defense? Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:19 AM
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It's so funny how often Redpillers criticize sluts, but then if you ever find a girl who doesn't put out immediately, you're supposed to just ditch them immediately. Makes absolutely no sense. Yeah I don't get this either. Does it cost that much to wait for a few dates before you start banging? It's not like you're exclusive with her.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:17 AM
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I suppose just because you have experiences, doesn't mean that you learn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:43 PM
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1) A DUI is a DIRECT relation to how somebody handles driving a car. No it's not actually. There's a lot of factors that go into someone getting a DUI, other then drinking and driving. Luck, local laws, lawyers, judges, etc. A lot of people will drink and drive and just be lucky enough to never get pulled over. Some people get pulled over and not stopped because the cops don't want to do the paperwork or ruin their life. I think on average you have to drink and drive 80 some odd times before you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:07 PM
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Yes but women would have you believe they're doing it for themselves and not for others. Or maybe women's brain have evolved to release dopamine whenever they make themselves look pretty, this adaptation likely could have evolved because it's helps them attract a mate. Men underestimate how much of women's sexual strategy takes place in her subconscious/emotional mind. So yes, they literally are feeling better whenever they're wearing revealing clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:57 PM
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If you can't size someone up pretty accurately over that timescale, you're not making much effort to get to know them. If you think you can size a women up within a week of dating them, you must not have much experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:47 PM
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You should be able to assess these qualities with high confidence inside of a week, though. What qualities? You don't know shit about someone a week into a dating them. You certainly don't know if they'll be faithful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 09:25 PM
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This has no bearing on monogamous relationships in the future. Only if you don't agree that past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. I wonder why insurance companies and credit scoring agencies don't run off that model of human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:23 PM
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All of it speculation. No it's not. Literally the only possible way for a person to acquire a large amount of sexual partners is that if after they have sex with someone: 1) Their partner doesn't want to stick around. 2) They don't want to stick around. 3) They're sleeping with multiple people at once. or some mix. Those are literally the only possibly ways one can sleep with a large amount of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:18 PM
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It is what's being discussed here, high n count being detrimental to a relationship. High n-count itself isn't the problem itself, it's what caused the n count to be high that's the problem. If a women's slept with 100 guys that means a few things might be happening: 1) For some reason, guys don't stick around after they have sex with her. 2) She has a preference for sexual novelty and variety and finds it hard to stick with one guy. Neither of those things are good for relationships. Option 1 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 07:55 PM
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You can abandon the relationship with no cost at any time up to marriage Have you ever been in a LTR? Most men wouldn't called breaking up with a girl they've been with more than 6 months "no cost". I've seen men driven to depression by their LTR's cheating on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 07:44 PM
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I can only imagine if I started posting in here as womn that I know better than men about what gets them off. There would be a bounty on my head. I'm sure you know a lot more about dating men then me or many of the other men on here. The TRPers don't really concern themselves with seduction of men though, so I'm not sure how that's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:54 AM
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But what do women have to gain about lying to men in an anonymous forum about what's gets us off sexually? You haven't answered the question. Did you even read my post? They don't have to anything to gain, people lie on the internet all the time when they have nothing to gain. Let me ask you again, do you believe every guy online when he brags about his sexual conquest? I mean why not? He has nothing to gain from lying on an anonymous internet form.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:52 AM
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This is anonymous forum. Do you believe every dick swinging field report that's posted on TRP? People lie online ALL THE TIME. People lie when they don't have anything to gain ALL THE TIME. Hell people lie when it will hurt them ALL THE TIME, just ask doctors about how truthful their patients are. Hell people may lie online even more then they do in person. The fact that you don't think a person would have a reason to lie on an anonymous online form makes me doubt your understanding of people in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:28 AM
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What woman wants a man to take care of her that can't take care of himself. Many. Attractive women dating drug user, alcoholics, and skinny fat men all the time. And lifting constantly != taking care of yourself Women aren't men, they are mostly attracted to male behaviour and status not the male body. Projecting onto them a method of attraction that is as visual as yours is incorrect. When I think of all the attractive women I know, the thing their boyfriends all have in common isn't that they …
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:24 PM
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The biggest problem with the incel crowd is that they don't approach, not that they don't lift. This title of this post should be "People who don't approach girls constantly, why are you here?". I honestly think alot of the members of this forum overestimate what a decent body can do for you.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:11 PM
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That's all I'm saying. Marriage is a man giving up his ability to leave for free, in exchange for nothing in return from the woman. Isn't that the same reversed? The man can do whatever and women can't walk away without a painful divorce. It seems when red pillers talk about divorce they talk about it with the implicit assumption that you're going to make way more than your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 11:03 PM
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Because I lifted in the past, and my body still maintains a good enough shape from that that I'm not as motivated to lift as I once was. Because I work alot more at a mentally draining and intensive full time job, and I find cardio helps me perform at work better then weight lifting.(Studies show cardio has a much more benefits for mental performance versus lifting) Because whenever I lift my daily caloric requirements go through the roof and I don't have enough time to make the food that would …
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:56 PM
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What's the causality here? Do women who are mentally ill have a harder time not getting into a realtionship, or does not being in a committed realtionship put a toll on women psyche past a certain age.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 02:01 AM
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Lawyers only exist because crime exists, their livelihood depends on the chaos created amongst humans. Really? All lawyers are criminal lawyers? They aren't contract lawyers, patent lawyers, divorce lawyer, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:03 AM
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He's not complaining about his n-count, he's warning you that casual sex is alot of effort for not alot of reward. It'll boost your ego, and make you better with women but it's emotionally empty.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:58 PM
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Cringey anti-semitism abside, why do you think they're no women making good money in their twenties. One of the hottest girls I've dated was a dental student who I meet when she was 23.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/18 10:21 PM
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Is the solution simply to find a high earning wife?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 12:59 AM
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A "normal", "average" guy can talk to a girl at Starbucks, a bar, or match a girl on Tinder, go on a date, have a good time, and have sex. Not all the time. Maybe not even most of the time. But enough of the time that he isn't perplexed why this sex and relationships thing is so impossible for him when it seems so easy for everybody else. Yeah, I disagree with this. Get in the occasional realtionship sure? Match on tinder? Maybe if their decent looking. Talk to a girl at a bar, meh, maybe they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 12:53 AM
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High status men can have more kids then high status women. But low status men tend to have no kids. For a low status family, they invest in the girl because she's the safe bet. For the high status family they invest more in the boy because because raising a Chad can be their evolutionary "home run". Of course nowadays low status men are probably more like to be promiscuous and father many kids then higher status men, but that's because of modern inventions like birth control and education, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 05:05 AM
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1) Who gives a shit about perpetuating your genetic line? If you want to do that, go to a third world country and raw dawg as many girls you can find. Evolution is a game played by genes not people. 2) Studies show high status families wait longer to have another kid after having a son, where as lower status families wait longer after having a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:42 AM
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White girls don't change their colour all the time, especially once they're older. A lot of guys like blondes so because they're more in demand, so they may be harder to get. I don't like blondes that much, but end up getting them. I love dark haired(brunette white girls and black haired latinos are my thing) women but manage to do worse with them. And I'm a black man. The thing is the sample size on these things are so low, it's almost impossible to separate the signal from the noise.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 04:36 AM
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Ok. The fact is, you can't tell who that is by looking at them. Just because that girl seems traditional doesn't mean she hasn't had casual sex in the past, especially when tinder makes it so easy for that to happen without anyone knowing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:26 AM
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What does that have to do with the post you responded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 05:36 AM
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If you want to look up the definition of the word "many", I'd suggest looking at a dictionary. The word you were probably looking for was "imprecise", and just because I can't give the exact percentage of men that are unhappy doesn't render my argument moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 05:34 AM
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I actually really don't think the lifting thing matters that much for getting women, as long as your not fat or insanely skinny. Women, in my experience, are more attracted to behavioural cues and RP teaches the theory behind why. While other PUA and dating sites have sometimes gone over some of the points, memorizing lines or flow charts like the mystery method might help you get laid if you practice it enough, but without understanding why they work, you'll probably end up losing the girl or y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:29 AM
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How'd so many guys (that's basically everyone) without PUA or TRP figure it out one way or another? Uh, alot of them don't. Many go years with any intimacy from the opposite sex, many have relationships with women who are way below them in value. Many of them have been cheated on. Many get friendzoned. Many end up with dead bedrooms. A good relationship with an attractive women is the exception not the norm, the guys who do figure it out with looking it up in a book/online either did so through …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 12:21 AM
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Quality according to who? You? Why would anyone care what you think. Quality women don't go after the loudest and rudest men in the room. Women that do (and this includes women that fall for PUA bullshit on Tinder) have low self-esteem and are socially retarded. Speaking of emotionally immature, what's a good phrase to describes someone who called someone with differing preferences from them "socially retarded".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:03 AM
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When I say stable, I don't mean it is in "not crazy". I mean it as in high agreeableness, high conscientious, low openness to new experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:47 AM
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thank you. shut him up already! Too late Its apparent hes an idiot and has the emotional iq of a 10 year old. 8 year old actually. Dude newsflash...the reason you are single is because women do not find a man who plays like this. lmao Nothing is based on 100 percent visual attributes and women (bc thats what u want to marry not the unstable party girl) realize a man that values her is far worth more his weight in gold then someone who is a meat head and doesnt meet the bare minimum qualities of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:44 AM
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Do you think men tend to marry the hottest woman they've ever slept with? I think that if you look at who men hookup with, compare to who men commit to, the later tends to be more attractive. With women it's the opposite. Same deal with engineers. It's not that girls suddenly want an engineer once they're ready to settle, it's that engineers (and many nerd type men) spend their youths studying and don't become hot until they've grown up a bit and learnt to be hot Hardly, the men I'm talking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:36 AM
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When you are a college sophomore did you know fun, stable 20 year old guys? Yes, many of them. They tended to have terrible sex lives. Funny thing was is that I was an engineering major, but I was also in a high status fraternity, so I really got to see both worlds in those two seperate social spheres. If guys were smart, their selection process would also become more selective. Why? And more selective on what traits? Terpers love to spout off about only caring if a girl is hot and not a bitch. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:12 AM
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Sure ok, and I like small tits over large ones, doesn't mean we represent the typical preference of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:06 AM
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In the age of tinder how do you know the "nice girl" hasn't banged a chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:04 AM
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Once again, if you reduce the definition of religion to "anything that motivates you", then sure. But it seizes to become a useful definition
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:31 AM
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i wasn't fucking the handsome doctor when i was 19 because i was hanging out with other 19 year olds. handsome med student though? sure. though his degree didn't make him any hotter that the cute punk i'd skip school to see. their job/degree/earning power meant zero to me at 19, so i ended up hanging out with all types. Sure, where I disagree is 1) That you seem to view the stability as a neutral factor to young girls, I think it's a negative. I think the stable med student comes across as borin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 02:26 AM
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What bores me about the "incel debate" is everybody is right, and everything one is saying the same thing. None of it is new or interesting. Of course incels are mentally deranged loser who need to get the head of out of the ass and fix themselves. But the question is: What causes incels? Because shouting at incels to stop being lame might work at some, but I think the vast majority won't change because you told them they should, after all, they are already self loathing. The interesting questio…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:07 AM
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That's an absurdly broad definition of religion.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 01:55 AM
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Young women aren't looking for a husband. They don't care if he has a job or if he's a slob or if he's a dick a lot of the time, they're having some fun and aren't imagining what a lifetime with him is going to look like. The question is why can't they have fun with a stable guy in their twenties? I know in my case that the men I dated with a view to marriage were just as attractive as the guys I slept with when I was much younger, only they were also emotionally stable, had a job, had the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:43 AM
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The burden on proof is on you to prove that living at home is a a disproportionately male thing. You certainly haven't provided any. I would think men would me more motivated to move out of the house compared to women, because a man living with his parents is a turn off to women, whereas most men don't give a shit where a women lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 03:45 AM
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Meh, I don't think I've explained what's causing me pause well, so I can see why you'd say that. But I've tried escalating at little and I'm just not getting the vibes back that I typically get from girls I end up sleeping with. I'll take her out again, and try and pull her back to my place for drinks afterwards, I'll even report back to let you guys know what happened.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:32 AM
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Just treat like any other girl, escalate physically etc and you'll soon figure out if she's got you pegged as an orbiter or not. I mean dancing is already so physical I don't feel like that's a problem, but how should I go beyond that? Ask if her she wants to hangout at my place after the next time we go dancing?
/r/askTRP30/10/18 01:27 AM
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Don't be too surprised, this is normal behavior in most women. Posting videos of themselves doing drugs in a thong on social media is normal behaviour for most women in monogamous relationships?
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:20 AM
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To not post seductive pictures on social media isn't exactly a big ask for most girls. I don't see the point of being monogamous with someone who's already showing signs of attention whoring the first time she's away from you. Some people have pointed out it may just be for attention, but if your attention already isn't enough for her 2 months into the realtionship, you think it'll be enough for her in a year, in two? Because she's only going to have more and more opportunities to cheat and you'…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 12:18 AM
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this is bs, there is no link between breast size and any reprouductive ability. the male attraction to breast size is likely a product of runaway sexual selection.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 09:04 AM
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The ratio thing isn’t true in my experience, I’ve been dancing salsa for over a year. Salsa’s fun, but it’s hard on a beginner, especially a man. It’ll be hard for you to get AMOGd because what they’ll be teaching you is so basic, but at a salsa social, I wouldn’t bring a girl unless I was in the top 30 percent of dancers.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 05:24 PM
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It's a mix, alot of male attraction mostly isn't looks, and even looks are very subjective, I get this alot as a black guy. There are alot of hot girls who think im hot, but an average girl who isn't into black guys won't consider me. That being said there is definitely a thing as a league, and I do notice attractive people tend to have attractive partners.This is more true the younger the couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:38 AM
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Why are you approaching women that are beneath you men? Presumely because they only feel like they're beneath them for a lay, not for sex. In reality, I don't think a man truly knows if he wants commitment until after he sleeps with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:33 AM
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Oh I'm sure you know the average girl but I have no idea. I mean, how many straight girls have you dated? Being friends with someone and dating them are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:00 AM
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Sure most men can find a women, just like most people can find a job. Doesn't mean the guy with a PhD is going to happy if that "job" is working at McD for 12 bucks an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:56 AM
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Yeah, no. Red pillers are generally incorrect about female attraction. And you know this how? How many women have you dated? I've been thinking about my own attraction for longer than you have, so the whole "you don't really know" thing is bullshit. Sure, maybe you are different, but that doesn't mean the average girl is. I don't like big breast, doesn't mean the statement "men like big breast" is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:54 AM
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I don't consider myself an anything piller, I kinda consider the concept silly. I do think that in general many of the ideas the red pill sub have about female attraction are correct, they are sometimes exaggerated and usually discount the general variation that occurs in human nature, but they're mostly in the right direction. The way blue pillers talk about female attraction is how I'd expect it to work, and how I'd like it work, but it doesn't work that way in my experience especially on attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:46 AM
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And as a man who dates women, I think women are more attracted to men who seem unsure about them. But once again to each their own, I don’t think we’re going to gain anything by arguing against the validity each other experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:14 AM
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Yeah, I don’t think guys know if they really like a woman until after they’ve had sex with her. And when was your heyday? Dating’s changed a lot in the last decade with the advent of dating apps and smartphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:04 AM
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Sure you may like those things if they happen after you’ve been banging for a bit especially if you’ve give him some signals that you want more, but acting like that before you’re start fucking regularly is usually a huge turn off to most attractive girls in my experience and the experience of a lot guys I know. To each their own, I wouldn’t have believed it if I didn’t see it myself and you may be different, but I’m convinced that women don’t like guys who seem like that seem too eager to enter…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:56 AM
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What type of signals are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:48 AM
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Make it clear that you're interested in more than a ons or fuck buddy, and you'll gather more interest from women in your league. In my experience nothing makes a women run more than a man who gives off a vibe that he wants a realtionship with her. Every successful realtionship I've seen from myself or my friends has started with fuckbuddies until the women decides that's not enough for her and she wants more. If the man is the first one to try to lock the women down, they run. My experience is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 12:23 AM
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Complete nonsense, I'm 5'11 around 180 and I'm between skinny and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 02:36 PM
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how is women sleeping (or not) at their will a problem? It of itself is not a problem, the problem is residual effects on society. it implies men are being denied something (they are not) and that leads to bigger problems. It honestly not just men, look at female depression rates and how many are on anti depressants. Children also suffer from being in a fatherless home, something that has dramatically become more common since the sexual revolution. adaptation is a crucial survivial strategy that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 11:25 PM
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I pointed out a problem, I didn't suggest any solution, and I sure as hell didn't suggest a solution that involved forcing anyone to have sex with anyone. Previous societies solved this problem by only allowing people to pair off with one other person, in which case almost everyone gets somebody. However, because of changes in technology, which then lead to changes in culture, this isn't practical anymore. If you ask me there really isn't a "solution", you'll likely see more and more polarized p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:43 PM
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we dont need to force the other half of the population to copulate with men. Who suggested this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:29 PM
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we need more draconic anti-men laws then. men , weaker or not, arent owed sex. Nobodies owed anything. Men aren't owed sex by society, but society isn't owed a productive citizen from men. This is why monogamous societies tended to be so much more successful, because all of its men are invested in it. If men aren't invested, they tend to lean towards extremism which is destabilizing, especially in a democracy when a demagogue can easily take advantage of their frustrations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 10:19 PM
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The usual dance is that it's time to go, I ask the bartender to close the tab, she offers to pay for her drinks, I tell her don't worry about it I've got it, and at that point, it's up to her to be ultra-feminist and insist strongly that she pay, meekly say "okay, are you sure?" while it's clear she's going to let me pay anyway, or just agree and let me pay. Your initial post I responded to mentioned food, I agree paying for drinks is a good strategy for a first date because it's cheap, and it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:46 PM
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You need to go on some actual dates with actual women instead of basing what you think usually happens with women on theories you read on internet manosphere sites. I've been on plenty of dates, enough to realize that western women aren't attracted to a man who spends a lot of money on them. Not offering to pay for a girl's drinks is 1000% a mood-killer. Maybe if the mood was "let's see how much free stuff I can get this guy to pay for". There is of course variations in expectations among differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:28 PM
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If she's already signaled she's into you spending a bit more is warranted (likely a good investment). The only way you know a women's actually interested in you is if she's slept with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:24 PM
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If a guy doesn't offer to pay for the date, that is his way of indirectly sending the message "I'm not feeling it and don't want to see you again", without saying it out loud. If that's how the guy feels, that's fine. But if a guy doesn't offer to pay, he shouldn't be surprised if the woman assumes he's not into her and doesn't want a second date and doesn't go home with him That's not how female attraction actually works. Giving off signs that he might not actually be that invested into her inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:19 PM
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I don’t see this at all, I know plently of guys who are successful and terrible with women. Fact of the matter is, attractive women don’t approach men that much, so you’re going to have to learn to initialize things if you want to get attractive women.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:09 AM
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My problem isn’t the flake rate once I have a date, it’s them not responding to my intial text. I should say I think the root of the problem is that there are very few women who are truly available in a given bar. In the age of the smartphone very few women don’t have a man that they’re fucking if they’ve been living in a city more than a month. And while you can pull a women away from her fuckbuddy/bf it takes a lot of more game then pulling one that isn’t talking to anyone. Dating apps work we…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 07:55 PM
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I never said getting laid is a myth, I said regularly getting laid is.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 03:15 AM
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What are rose and gold?
/r/seduction01/10/18 11:29 PM
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Houston’s night life isn’t really that great in my experience, where are your spots?
/r/seduction28/09/18 04:50 PM
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Social circle game is mainly about being the highest value guy in the context of the social circle, waiting for girls to show you IOIs, isoslating and then following through. What I mean by being high value is that if your social circle is group of friends, be the guy hosting the party, if it’s a group of salsa dancers, be one of the better dancers and provide lessons. Social circle game can be difficult because it can be hard to fake value, such as being good at a hobby or having resources but …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:49 PM
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Because beta and alpha are behaviors, not personality types. Human males are programmed to exhibit alpha behavior when they feel they are in a position of power and abundance, so they can spread their seed as far as possible. When they’re in a position of scarity or weakness they display beta traits, which have upside of making it less likely to get your teeth kicked in by an alpha, but the downside of women being less attractive to you. This is why I assume most high status males in a realtonsh…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:26 PM
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Because they’re too busy to chase pussy.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:47 PM
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By that logic having sex a lot is bad for me as well? Porn is the real problem
/r/askTRP20/09/18 11:41 PM
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That guy is an idiot. He’s pretty much advocating running solely social circle game, which isn’t pratical and will lead to scarcity mentality because they’re only some many single attractive girls in a given guys social circle. The cold approach is inefficient and brutal, but it leads to you seeing opportunity everywhere, which lets you spin plates, which is the only way to be in a state of true abundance.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 02:33 AM
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Bar scene isn’t good in every city, I do quite well online so I doubt my looks are a problem, but in my city everyone is really clicky groups that are hard to break into and the ratios are horrendous.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 12:42 AM
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Qualify her, not yourself. You want to make it seem as if you’re interested in her but not sold, and that you assume she’s interested so you don’t bother to sell yourself.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:56 AM
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2nd date is at her place and usually where we end up fucking. How do you regularly setup dates are her place?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:12 AM
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I actually agree with this, I don't think "self esteem" from school is the problem, kids are perceptive and they know their place in the hierarchy from a young age, regardless of what adults tell them. I think the problem with technology is that it tricks the brain into thinking it can achieve something with minimum effort, which leads into avoiding going through the hard part of the learning curve which is required to learn everything that's worth learn. To become good at anything hard in life …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 11:45 PM
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Everyone loses it with age after like 25 Uh what? If you're showing signs of aging at 25, especially as man, you have serious lifestyle problems. Male aging shouldn't affect physically attractiveness until well after 30 if you're keeping in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 11:26 PM
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I've butted into "involved conversations" before, it's impossible to tell how much the girls will actually care about being interrupted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 12:38 PM
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It should be obvious to a normal person that what he did would have been awkward and therefore likely to be off-putting and fail. I mean, I didn't see the approach in person, but it doesn't sound that terrible based off how your describe it. I've gotten numbers from pretty girls with lines just as bad. I'm guessing his body language was off, he's probably not as physically attractive as me, and he couldn't make a conversation flow after his first line. You get better at all of that with experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 12:03 AM
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I don't think red pill's out group is beta men, I think if anything its feminist. If I had to the distill the useful part of red pill it would be this: There are several features of female sexual attraction that are EXTREMELY unintuitive to men, and even in some cases to women. Here's an example of a study that shows women, especially young women, tend to find men less attractive when they smile: https://www.cbc.ca/news/technology/smiling-men-less-attractive-to-women-study-1.1066058 Many men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 11:51 PM
1

When trp turn into stormfront?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:16 AM
1

The importance of Tinder and dating apps is commonly blown out of proportion. Only a small percentage of Americans use them and many don’t even use them “all the way. This is largely nonsense. Most of the of young single Americans living in big cities have used some sort of dating app. Look at tinder revenues which are projected to approach 1 billion dollars and have been growing exponentially. Other dating apps keep popping up as well. All it does is facilitate what those men and women would ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 02:56 PM
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If he's stupid enough to believe that someone would do take a old screenshot of his girlfriends tinder and send it to him, he deserves to be cheated on.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:02 AM
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Just send it to him anonymously. Especially since you took a screenshot, he’ll instantly know what’s up.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:00 AM
1

My guess is either: 1) They're not actually as good with women as you think. or 2) In those period between their LTR they put in way more effort then they let on. or 3)They're extremely conventionally attractive Maybe some mix of all three. I used to have the same question as you, and yes, you maybe be behind the curve compared to many men who started earlier. However, I notice most single men fall into two categories. 1) Either they pretty much give up unless something falls into their lap thro…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:51 PM
3

Ahh poor thing, what's wrong? You have no game and can't compete with black guys? Or maybe you're just too ugly to be on tinder? lmao i love hearing your whining, nothing gives me more pleasure.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:56 PM
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High SMV women do not use online dating. They simply do not need to. They already have enough attention from orbiters or otherwise in real life. If you see an attractive woman on a dating site, you can pretty much guarantee that there is a reason she is there. She is also banging at least 3 different dudes a week. If you don't use protection, you will catch an STD from these hoes. This is even true for sites like christianmingle where the women claim to be "good girls" etc. This is complete nons…
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:38 AM
2

PM me your profile pics and I can give you some feedback, I'll even send you successful number closes of my own.(not the number obviously, just the opener and conversation.)
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:54 PM
8

And that's enough internet for today.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 09:05 PM
1

thats for first dates, because women are flaky and there's no point wasting a weekend night plans, one someone that might not show up.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:47 PM
2

how soon?
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:20 PM
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You could have corrected yourself when she started with the excuses. "I meant let's get out of here to a different bar." give her a little time to process the situation, by going to the toilet for example. I actually did correct myself. I didn't do the whole, go to bathroom thing though.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 04:40 PM
3

She paid for our drinks at the second place and offered to at the first
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:38 PM
1

My point is, it's better to stay being alone (losing nothing) than stay being alone with an added accusation of harassment thrown in there for some men. It's a high risk high reward system for men. You're making it sound dramatic. Almost no women is going to accuse you harassment for going in for the kiss. Some will be put if you're too pushy. Some will be into it. The chances of carrying any real hit to your reputation are nigh zero. What there is a big risk of is that you will take a hit to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:10 PM
1

The way the above poster told the story about her fiance certainly seems to imply he was pushy about getting a goodnight kiss, and some women certainly would call that an example of men feeling entitled to female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:07 PM
1

And since you are the one supporting this behaviour, I assume that you are similarly on the lookout for victims. The neuroticism on display here is impressive, I don't think there's much to gain from this discussion so I think I'll end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 11:01 PM
1

I do really like books, that's why I'm reading one. And I completely loathe people who interrupt me when I'm reading. They why do you read it in a public place where you are so likely to be interrupted? Not only do you seem nasty, but you don't seem very bright. If I'm doing something that desires absolute focus, I tend to make sure I'm doing in a place with little to no distractions. Maybe you actually do like the attention, and like the feeling of power you have when you shoot people down. I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:41 PM
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I know that physically I cannot compete with most men, as I am only an 5/10, and that's why I worked hard on developing masculine personality traits to make up for my lack of physical aesthetics. I think it's laughable that you think looks are so important to male attractiveness. If your description of yourself is true, I'd probably be considered less attractive then you, but I'm certainly doing better than a 5/10. You probably have poor game, and you fixation of your looks aren't helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:32 PM
1

So women should stop pursuing higher education? Only if you're only reason for pursuing higher education is to get laid. Also, the casualty arrow might be flipped backward. It's very possible that women who are unattractive may pursue higher education as a way as compensating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:29 AM
1

Maintain eye contact but don't elaborate. They have ruined your book immersion and need to be made to feel awkward. You don't seem like someone who talks to people much. If you wanted a guy to go away or feel awkward, your response is pretty terrible. Maintaining strong eye contact is typically seen by most people as an indicator or interest, and dropping information about the book "It's excellent" or "it's at a really critical point in the final battle" just gives him more conversational hooks …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:11 AM
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*Not enough approaching. *Standards are too high. *Not enough escalation on dates. *Wrong race, in the wrong place. And honestly finding a quality girlfriend is hard, it's much easier to find hookups with meh girls than a realtionship with a solid pretty one with a good personality. I think people underestimate the difficulty of a man finding an attractive women. Social skills matter, but at the end of the day it still requires a decent amount of luck, even for attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:38 AM
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Another variable is : Isn't around women often. You can a good guy and not austic, but if you spend a ton of your time working in a male dominated field and male dominated hobby, it's going to be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:24 AM
1

So rude people are keeping me confined to my house now? No I don't believe I ever said that. What I did say is that if you want to reduce the chance of being be chatted up by people while reading book, I would suggest doing it in a place where they are no people(your house/office), or doing in a place that is generally not considered a social spot(i.e not a coffee shop, park). You can of course do whatever you want, but so can the people who interrupt you. No, reading a book is a signal that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:05 AM
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Maybe you’re not desirable, don’t project your insecurities onto all men. If you only approach women who throw out blantant signs of interest, you’ll be missing out on a lot of quality women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:57 PM
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Were you going to go on a date with them if they didn’t go up to you? Obviously not. If a man doesn’t approach women his chances of getting into a relationship are nigh zero. Every girl he approaches there’s a chance he’ll be annoying her by approaching her, so I don’t why he should let that stop him. It’s not like he can read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 10:55 PM
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If you really are so devastated by being interrupted, I suggest you keep to a library or your house. But if you’re in a coffee shop or sitting in a park, part of life is that people might come up and talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:00 PM
2

I feel really bad for us as a society that men are scared to go up to women and ask them what they’re reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:45 PM
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If you're attractive. Most of my lays come from online dating, it's just absurdly more efficient. Honestly I'd go get some professional pictures and you'd still probably come out ahead. Going to bars and daygame requires alot more time to get a lead. On tinder, especially if you use boost and tinder plus, you can get one cute girls number a night from 15 minutes of swiping. And trust me you'd spend way more money in drinks/uber not to mention time if you went out to a bar.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:21 AM
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She can't quit or scale back the career once she has children, and then start again once they're old enough to go to school, if you have five kids you'll need the extra money.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:30 AM
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That is because she's exotic. How is a blonde chick exoctic in America? And no I don't like blondes or big tits, for white girls I much prefer brunettes. Women want "Mr. Perfect" aka just 1 guy. While we want pretty much everything that is a fuckable female. What does this have to do with anything? You were trying to explain why men were wary of interracial dating because they are scared of diseases and the "other", when they themselves have no problem impregnating "the other".
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:05 PM
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It doesn't work that way. Most men would pick a poor, uneducated woman with a pleasant demeanor and feminine personality over a high income, educated woman who's a ball-buster and acts like a man. I actually disagree with this quite a bit. Maybe you're right for a hookup, but for a long term realtionship most high status men certainly do consider women's status and education and they'd be fools not too, especially if they ever are consider getting married and having kid. All things being equal, …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:29 PM
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Men were the ones who kind of had to prevent it, so they gave more shit about it than the other sex. Men typically have no problem fucking/dating women of other races. This is just the laziness and insecurity of not wanting to have to compete with more men. This is where a fit black man comes into play because to him, scoring a white chick is an achievement. Meh, I think is more because: 1)Beauty standards in certain black communities are different and 2)Sometimes that man has lower socioeconomi…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:19 PM
14

As a black male I will never understand why some white guys are so bothered by women sleeping/dating with us. White men still have dating easier then anyone else, stop worrying about what what you can’t control(skin color or anything else about guys who have fucked women) and start worrying about something you can aka improving your SMV and doing more approaches. Why are you even talking to girls about their past hookups at all?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:29 PM
2

I think this is silly and unlikely to work unless you're extremely attractive or the girl is extremely unattractive, even then...
/r/askTRP05/08/18 11:29 PM
3

Interesting, what sort of responses do you usually get to this?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:24 PM
5

Uhh, it might get him some preselection, but he's not going to be able to use it very well because he's already with a girl. If you want to pay for pussy, pay for pussy, don't lie to yourself about improving you SMV. If you pay you're not learning game, if you're not learning game you're lowering your SMV from could be.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:34 PM
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Most people on this or the main trp sub probably have terrible or nonexistent game. They post on here as a way of venting their frustration about their low smv, and the advice they give out is usually bullshit, mainly just blatant attempts to sound as alpha possible. In conclusion, too many men on this sub blame their weaknesses on women, minorities, majorities, immigrants, government, corporations, their parents and their enough on themselves. You call it the anger phase, I call it pathetic
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:42 PM
1

I’ve salsa dance dancing for over a year now and I’d say salsa dancing classes are definitely not mostly girls. Certainly not young attractive single girls looking to meet men. Not saying it’s a bad idea, I love dancing but I don’t think it’d be worth it for the girls alone
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:11 AM
4

What’s the question other than the blantant humble brag?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:03 PM
2

I don’t see evidence for any of this in science or history. Most outlaws are men, I don’t know if I believe we’re more “pro rules”. As for groups, I think women actually the more social gender then men, I do think how men and women tend to organize their groups tend to be different, but I wouldn’t say men are more group oriented, maybe more hierarchical. The whole meritocracy thing just seems like mental masturbation to me. We need less post lementing how much superior men are to women, and more…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 01:22 AM
0

That is unscientific rubbish.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 03:14 PM
0

Because libertarian societies explore many different possibilities to find what works, and become stronger. And authoritarian societies stay weak because they murder their best thinkers for failing to beat drums at the rising of Nomo, as their ancestors did. lol wut? The rest of the post makes good point, but I don't know anyone who'd describe Europe as libertarian. The reason Europe was able to conquer so many places is because it was almost in a constant state of war for hundreds of years, dur…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 02:54 PM
1

Successful men are nice because they are "above" the competition, they know they can always rely back to their money so why stress yourself? Really? Does money impress any girl nowadays
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:12 AM
1

How would you describe the change?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:47 PM
9

So you know guys that regularly go out and leave with attractive girls every weekend? I've honestly never seen that outside of college, even there that was pretty rare outside of frats. I have some decently successful and good looking friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 01:41 AM
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my friend group of pretty mixed attractiveness goes out every weekend and for the most part, at least some of the guys meet a girl. Wait a minute, what do you mean by meet a girl? Chat her up? Get her number? Bring her home and have sex? Because let me tell you something, most numbers don't lead to dates, and most dates don't lead to sex. I've noticed that a lot of women seem to underestimate how often a man "meeting a girl" doesn't lead anywhere. I'll be chatting up a girl for 15 minutes at a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 12:53 AM
1

You went to a bar where you proceeded to drink in-front of a non-drinker. I met her at a bar where she was hanging with friends who were drinking, so I doubt she has a problem being at a bar. Being sober may just not be fun for you. Nope, I rarely drink more then a beer or two when I go out. Your post seem to be going the direction of "You might be an alcoholic", but that's really not the case. The reason why I like bars for dates is its easy to escalate.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 01:08 PM
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No I actually have tons of outside hobbies, such as latin dancing, language clubs, photography etc. The problem with them is: Dancing: Most girls are usually terrible, salsa is hard and you can't become competent in one night, plus classes aren't easy to find for time slots of dates, and even if they were they tend to lend to you girl rotating around to alot of other dudes. Plus is that its easy to kino, but it's difficult to hold a conversation in a dance club. Language club: Most of the girls …
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:40 AM
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Most girls who travel are not trying to bumblefuck their way to influencer status, anyone with any experience traveling would know this.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 02:54 AM
1

How? By going out and talking to people. You're in Denmark, where quite a few people speak English it shouldn't be hard. Here I'll even spot it out for you: 1) Instead of coding/redditing at home, go to a local coffee shop. 2) Wait until you see a cute Danish girl by herself reading/studying/on her laptop. 3) Go up to her and asking her about her book/laptop/study material 4) Make conversation out, her answer but keep away from asking her personal question. If body language is positive and shes …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 11:21 PM
1

Dude have you actually ever travelled? Traveling is the easiest time to get laid ever. Just go to a hostel with a good bar crawl + pipeline on tinder as a backup. When I land in cities, I have multiple locals who I've already been gaming for a week online who have plans to "show me around". If you can't get laid traveling, you probably need to reevaluate your social skills.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:59 PM
1

These girls talk about how shitty our culture is in America 1) Many parts of America do have shitty culture 2) If you had traveled much, you'd realize that there are young people in every country are cynical(sometimes justified, sometimes not) about their culture, that's part of youth. McDonalds in Hong Kong What's wrong with this? Not everyone travels for cuisine, nor does every meal eaten in foreign country has to be native cuisine. is a wanderlust girl n-count = 100 ? I sincerely hope this is…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:50 PM
2

Those that actually travel don't really brag about it, you won't even know they disappeared for a week. Says who? Honestly the autism on this sub sometimes blows my mind. "If you post pictures of your vacation to Europe you're just a poser" is some of the most childish borderline hipster shit I've heard on here yet. There is no thing as "actually traveling". People travel for all kinds of reason, weather, cuisine, architecture, language, to meet up with friends, to meet new people, appreciation …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:40 PM
1

I don't really hugely disagree with anything in that post, except maybe the recommendation of "Models". Not sure how it's relevant. The fact is different personalities have different desires. No doubt everyman would learn a lot from spending a decade spinning plates. However, that requires a tremendous amount of energy/natural talent and many men don't find the reward worth it.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 05:19 PM
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There's nothing more bluepill then thinking everyone's needs and desires are the same. Maybe you don't like LTR, many men do though.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:32 PM
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I wouldn't even do it due to STD risk
/r/askTRP08/07/18 02:22 AM
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I wouldn't do a dinner date until after I've fucked her. Ideally you walk to a second venue this is a good time to initiate kino by walking with linked arms. Two place you should be sitting next to her not across from her.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 11:39 AM
2

Don't stay in one spot for too long. After an hour move from one place to another. This creates an illusion that you've known each other for longer then you have, and keeps the momentum building. You're doing this in the day, which I wouldn't recommend because it isn't natural to sexualize/escalate during the day, but hey to each his own. Make sure you kino. Biggest mistake I had on dates when I was starting out is not starting physical escalation. Honestly, if you haven't dated in a while I wou…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:58 AM
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No. What I'm guessing you're just scared of rejection and you're using MeToo as a excuse to not approach women. Nobodies lost a job, or been put in jail because they hit on some chick. MeToo is about dudes in position of power using it force women to have sex. Since that's not a endorsed sexual strategy on this, or any other subreddit, I'm not sure how that's relevant. If you want to LTR a girl that's fine, there's plenty of good reasons to want to settle with one for a bit, just don't make Harv…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:10 AM
1

Im also not interested in casual sex, so they defffffinitely do nothing for me. I mean, if you've really never had causal sex, you're already quite the outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 11:51 PM
1

You've realized that populations with guns are a threat that cannot be magicked away with military force if they are unified and determined in their desire to resist. Populations are almost never unified and determined in their desire to resist rule, the only exception being maybe genocidal foreign invasion, such as the Nazi invasion of the USSR. There's never been a time in a history where a majority of the population has taken up arms against its domestic government. The vast majority of peopl…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:42 PM
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This is an extremely self selecting group happily married people don't tend to get on fourms dedicated to discussing sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:49 PM
1

Same, I'm black, which is certainly not the ideal of most women I approach yet I'm surprised by how receptive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 03:14 AM
3

They just tell themselves this to make themselves feel better for not trying. "The reason I don't approach women isn't because I'm scared of rejections, it's because women absolutely hate being approached by anyone who's not a male model." Women's physically standards are not particularly high. The reason most rejections happen is because the girl is already spoken for(most attractive women are going to have a guy they're talking to, duh)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 02:53 AM
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BUT when every random pedestrian could have a Glock in their waistband and every random homeowner an AR-15 all of that goes out the fucking window because the police are out numbered and face the reality of bullets coming back at them. What you ignore is that the vast majority of Americans would never even think about shooting a police officer, even if they had an entire armory in their house. It's not the lack of weapons that hold them back, it's the potential consequences. To undertake a viole…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 12:57 AM
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