Red Pill Rage

learningeveryday7 · 2019-07-02T22:45:56+00:00

Ask yourself this: How would you act if you were one of them, an attractive female, from birth to the present, and had society pandering to you and your feelings all your life?

I know I damn well may be one of them if I was born as an attractive female. And it's nothing to even be mad about. Without females, our species would die. Their evolutionary instincts which greatly influence their thoughts and actions were created by nature for survival, and we all know Darwinism and nature can be ruthless and unfair. As a man, you have many advantages and disadvantages by not being a woman. The red pill is about seeing the advantages, the good you have and know, and continuing to use and improve it. All people are messed up to some degree, and to be mad at one sex without seeing the ruthlessness of the other (male) sexual selection and actions will often cause anger.

indianajonesindiana · 2019-07-03T03:33:02+00:00

In order to understand how you'll get over this I need you to run with me on an idea.

So for example, at 10 years old you believed things about life that weren't true. This was for both big and small stuff. Small stuff being something like I KNOW that candy bar will taste good. I KNOW it will. Well as a ten year old you don't. I remember when I ate a mounds bar for the first time. I found out then I didn't like coconut in my chocolate bars. But as a 10 year old kid, my brain at that point in my life would have straight up believed I was going to love it.

Big stuff is different. You have internal beliefs as a kid about what it means to survive and what you need to do to survive giving the resources you had, i.e. your parents or caregivers. But just as with the small stuff, you had for sure, 100& positive beliefs that turned out to be false. So for example a young child would know when he's hungry, and if he's lucky (an idea he doesn't understand yet, either), all he needs to do is go to the fridge and get food. hungry = equals walk to the fridge and get some food. He doesn't even understand a concept like money yet.

So where am I going with this? As you grow and mature, you WILL learn different realities about life based on new experiences you have. I can guarantee you right now that in 10 years you will think totally differently about life. There are things and events and experiences in the future that will demonstrate for you've had a false belief about how "stuff" works in life, both big and small.

I'm about to turn 30 years old and I used to believe for a 100% fact that a woman, other than my Mom, was capable of loving me completely and totally. I was conditioned to believe that that was what happiness was and consisted of. I just so happened to be born into a time period just on the brink of making a major push in how it was to be thought of and to be viewed as a woman. My false beliefs about woman and my lack of success with them earlier in life wasn't because I was a loser, it wasn't because I wasn't good enough and it wasn't because I was just a poor and unfortunate cursed soul, etc. It was just an unfortunate circumstance of my existence. That's that. Don't take it personally.

But the fact of the matter is that the reality of the situation, as far as relationships between men and women are concerned, it's very important to understand and accept the fact that women love opportunistically. It's also important to understand that woman are very susceptible to other's influences and the latest trends and lifestyle living opinions of the time period they live in. You put all of that into a gigantic truth machine at it spits out the 2019 modern woman.

Does this mean that you can't find, have and sustain and incredibly satisfying relationship with a female? No. What it does mean is that you'll have to learn a different way. You'll have to accept ugly realities that very severely and excruciatingly conflict and contrast with that you've been CONDITITIONED to believe.

And this brings me back to my 'big stuff and small stuff' examples up above. You'll have to realize and understand the fact that you are going to start thinking differently and accepting reality. That's if you choose to do so. You could fall in line and do what 90% of other guys do - things like: going exclusive with a woman who exhibits a ton of red flags only to find yourself with a gun barrel pointed in your own mouth because of a hellacious divorce process you're going through. Or you could take the popular 'opt out' strategy and just give up. Let yourself go, eat whatever you want, spend more money than you make and find it harder and harder to look at yourself in the mirror each day. You could marry some burnout woman on the last leg of her youth and have a kid with her and hate your life.

But I can tell OP is a fighter, a dude who's willingly to do whatever it takes to get it right and find out how to live a beautiful life in no matter what circumstance you're place in by the cosmic fate of who knows what. And I can tell you from experience, that all it takes to get on that path is to keep moving forward. Keep trying. Keep getting it wrong until you figure it out. Trust yourself and trust your gut. Back in my early 20s when I was still a virgin I believed that getting laid and having a girl want to be my girlfriend was the ultimate state of happiness and contentment. Now, as a 30 year old man I realize those things are meaningless if not done with an emotionally healthy woman. I know that any fool can go out and talk some game and get laid. It's not something that defines my self worth. A woman accepting and loving me unconditionally is not natural. It's not how women were designed or what they're meant to do! Is a deep and satisfying love capable with a woman? I believe it is, but that belief required me to get experience in things that I didn't yet understand. My future experiences will require me to get experience in things I currently do not understand. But I do know that the key to getting there is by simply continuing to move forward. That's the answer to it all and to be able to TRUST yourself in the process, your perceptions and confirmed & evolving beliefs.

So OP my advice to you would be the following:

- Commit yourself to going out and meeting women during the day, i.e. the dreaded cold approach. Go after women who physically excite you, the beautiful ones. Don't deny yourself that. And when you go up to talk to them, truly focus on what they're saying. Ask yourself if what you're hearing is something you respect and admire. What can you tell of her character and upbringing while talking to her? Pursue, without shame, women who have their act together!

- Accept and understand that a-lot of women, and men, are truly lost. In layman's terms, understand that there are a SH*T ton broken, unsaveable women. Realize that you cannot change them. Realize that your self worth doesn't depend on a who*re staying loyal to you. It depends on NO woman staying loyal to you if they so choose. What your self worth does depend on is you being able to, over time, believe in and experience a new reality of life and how you deal with women. It's very hard to get there and even harder to accept what women truly are in this new reality. But, once you accept it, in this new reality you can cultivate a lifestyle and screening process to give yourself the best possible chance of securing a naturally satisfying relationship with a woman. Realize that life and future experiences gives you perspective and that new perspective gives you truth, wisdom and, ultimately, contentment.

To sum it up, here's my reality that I personally live:

I know and accept women for what they are. I know that there are some bad women out there and there are some good. I know that NONE of them are capable of loving me in the bluepill belief system I was conditioned to believe. I can still have wholly satisfying and deeply powerful connections with them. However, in this new system, my masculine energy will coexist and complement her feminine energy. I will do this with her for as long as it is beneficial to my life and my life purpose. If she leaves I will mourn the loss of the relationship. But I will never need a woman's acceptance or approval to live a fully healthy, happy and productive life. I am fully capable of cultivating that with or without a woman by my side.

CainPrice · 2019-07-03T02:19:03+00:00

You still don't understand women.

Read some of the older Red Pill material and you'll eventually come across the point of it all: Women are for fucking.

You're expecting women to be logical, rational, decent, non-selfish human beings that you can respect. And when women don't meet your unreasonable expectations that women can never meet, you get pissed off.

Women are for fucking. You need to look hot, talk to them about fun, light, small-talk bullshit - nothing deep or serious - banter, flirt, touch, be sexually assertive in a way that gets them horny, and take them home. When you do that, you demonstrate that you get it. You understand women. Deep down inside of their instinctive brains, women know that they're for fucking, and if you tap into that part of their instinct, their bodies will respond to you and their brains will make up stupid excuses to fuck you.

That's pretty much how women work. Their instincts want something, so their brains make up some random illogical stupid reason why it's a good idea.

Stop looking for a respectable life partner. Stop expecting unreasonable things from women. Women are for fucking.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-07-03T00:32:41+00:00

Have/do you have anger from the "red pill" and how did you deal with it?

No, because I knew the type of guy women were attracted to before I even read the sidebar.

Granite_Pill · 2019-07-03T04:04:01+00:00

I'm not angry at women because women are only being women. I feel angry towards myself for not knowing all this shit earlier in life. I also feel anger for the (((those))) that made things this way or had a strong hand influencing it. But mostly I feel angry at myself.

Title	Red Pill Rage
Author	OverEasyFetus
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	July 2, 2019 10:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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