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Give an answer for all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:10 AM
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This is probably the most mature and realistic answer I've read so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:01 AM
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Was he paralyzed from the neck down?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:52 AM
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Would you mind if he had a side piece for sexual needs, but was still with you and took care of you, and spent time with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:51 AM
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If you asked if you could leave, and he asked you not to, but you still wanted to. Like if this happened today. Would you leave or stay? There's no wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:21 PM
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This was very informative!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:53 PM
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Thnx 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:50 PM
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What, then your equal wouldn't be... WHATTTT? 🤔😭🤨🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:41 AM
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She explored and obviously didn't like what she tried. Why would trying it with him change that she didn't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:37 PM
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You're right, so many mean and shitty people. Anyone that tells a guy or girl that though (unwarranted as in the other person didn't say something mean first) is insecure about themselves in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:46 PM
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To tell them is body shaming, to have the preference isn't tho. Like dudes shouldn't go around telling girls the reason they don't want to date them is their flat chest. Just say I'm not feeling it Same with women, they should never tell a guy the reason they don't like them is because they're too short. That's body shaming, having the preference and choosing not to isn't tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:42 PM
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I don't think someone not liking small boobs is body shaming tho... Just like someone not liking shorter guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:35 PM
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Interesting 🤔 That's fair tho, we like what we like and people shouldn't judge that. Like if a guy was a boobs guy, and a girl was flat chested and he just wasn't attracted to her because of that. It's not his fault and he's not a jerk, same with girls who would only date a certain height. We all like what we like at the end of the day, no one should force anyone to do otherwise. Sidenote: idc if a girl is flat chested, I'd still date them that was just an example lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:16 PM
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Interesting, what's the shortest you'll go? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:08 PM
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I think that is an extremely toxic pov. I mean just my opinion. You might be right idk, but people don't end up in relationships for tons of reasons, not all are negative lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:18 PM
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Niceeee
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:10 AM
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Damn 💀 The female version of me would probably be asking a bunch of random questions, and thinking too deeply about shit, and I'd join her and probably click with her pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:26 AM
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Wide hips woman, would translate to normal hips man with broad shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:24 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:23 AM
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I'd date a bald girl, idgaf personally lolol If she was into hair pulling before going bald, I'll buy a brand new unused toilet plunger, and plunge that scalp 😎🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:23 AM
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What's the attributes that influences you to date someone or not then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:21 AM
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Yeah, consider if people consider looksmatch, financial standing, and personality. Really wish I could see a reply that digs deep and gets critical about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:18 AM
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I got it lol 🤣 That's also fair 🤷🏽‍♂️💯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:14 AM
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Fair 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:12 AM
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Would you date a 5'8 male animator?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:07 AM
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Love, support, intimacy, and I want to build a future with someone. I want to work on myself more first before I enter a relationship, then I want to choose someone I vibe with, who are secure in themselves, stable, and I'm able to have a healthy relationship with to set an example for kids I may or may not have in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:50 PM
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Wait, what did you being white have to do with anything? 🤣 I'm not one of those super sensitive ass niggas that cries everything is racist, nor am I in the slightest trying to say anything you said was bad. Genuinely curious what does being white have to do with attractiveness? 🤣🤔🤨🤔🤨 I'm gonna wait for your reply before I assume anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:49 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:04 AM
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Damn, that's kinda toxic bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:59 PM
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Yeahhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:46 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:41 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:03 PM
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Ooo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:24 PM
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This sub is full of shallow opinions. But it's beneficial for me to ask questions to shallow peeps and hear the extreme side if things before returning to reality every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:47 PM
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My nigga, you're nearly there. Also, idk why you're here on reddit, or this subreddit lmfao. This comment makes me think of someone being 20 and thinking "oh no, is alcohol bad for me, I'm not 21 yet" lmfao Besides this post isn't nsfw, it's just talking about dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:43 PM
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You're talking to the wrong type of women. My female friends (and love interests) don't do this, but tbh I call them out, I straight up roasts them, and they accept the roast. Same with me whenever I'm wrong about something. But since I was 12 I'd always only argue stuff I fact checked first, that way I'd rarely be wrong. Otherwise I'd say idk. This probably pissed my parents off because whenever I'd argue with them, I'd say google it. Sometimes they'd still deny it, but most girls never do. Any…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:01 AM
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Lmfao, you no nothing about weight loss. You ever hear about water weight? You sound extremely ignorant rn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:15 AM
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Oof lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:40 AM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:36 AM
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WTF, 5'11 and only 150 pounds??? That must have been a site to see xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:34 AM
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Fuck Actually I've lost 30 pounds in a month so nvm, that's not too crazy. However, you must be hella short to only weight 150 pounds How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:28 AM
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What about skinny?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:00 AM
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Just be careful 💯🙏❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:59 AM
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Fair enough, I guess there are different levels to buffness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:45 AM
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What made you get skinny? Also, if it's something changeable, why not put on weight? If it's something unchangeable like health condition, then sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:43 AM
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Interesting, ik some girls that agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:41 AM
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Ohhh interesting. What about skinny vs buff?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:40 AM
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Idk if cutting meat was healthy though lmfao. Also if you cut meat and still eat sugar and other unhealthy stuff you won't lose weight as fast. Calories is the biggest thing with weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:39 AM
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When you say western, Do you mean American and Europe? Like all of the west including those two continents are overweight, and other bad qualities? Also, when you say eastern, are you exclusively talking about asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:15 PM
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Interesting, I'm sure you'll find your match 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:59 AM
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Lmfao, same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:54 AM
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Got it, but to be fair they started it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:56 PM
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Ahhh, no worries lol I can see how that could make you frustrated 💯 Anyways, take care 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:31 PM
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My brother would have to fight for his life. He's gay, but I doubt there wouldn't be some crazy people trying to rape the last 10% I saw a video of a lady trying to do it to a much smaller man in public, luckily some other guy stepped in and helped him. She seemed to have mental health issues though. I felt bad for the guy, cuz his pants got pulled down, plus it was recorded, and just seemed hella embarrassing. link to the incident
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:21 PM
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The guys? XD Sheesh if they aren't murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:10 PM
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I'm sorry 😔 Frfr I think her ex being an ace literally fucked up my whole thing, and confused me lol I remember her saying that her ex probably wouldn't ever want to have sex with her, but somewhere along the line I forgot it was because she was an Ace 🤣 They dated for like almost a year, from like 2021 April, to January 2022. Apparently during that time I also forgot what Demi meant too, and confused it with pan lol I'm straight, so outside of my gay friends, this terminology never comes up, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:08 PM
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I got demi confused with pan or something lmfao, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:36 PM
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My guy, all I know if my lesbian friend dated an Ace. Shit is confusing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:35 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:27 PM
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Oh shit, I got it mixed up. I was thinking ace. So many sexualities man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:27 PM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:27 AM
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That's true, but this is a dating sub xD So I wanted to ask a question about the dating aspect of this calamity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:01 AM
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Lmfaooo Blame dbz, code geass, and deathnote 😎 They started me down this path 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:53 AM
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I guess to be fair, out of billions of single people, some might find someone desperate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:41 AM
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Fair enough Also if ur demi, that means you like women too right? You could get a sperm donor and a wife xD Anyways, I respect you in every way. You're a beautiful person with a beautiful soul to not be as shallow as some of these other people ❤️❤️❤️ Edit: I think I confused demi with pan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:40 AM
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I think shit would fall apart for a week- 6 months tops. Humans are made to adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:38 AM
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That's a shame, I'd definitely watch it if there was a dub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:36 AM
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Is that an anime? If so is it dubbed? I only watch dubs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:31 AM
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I think you're the first female to say yes on this post so far lol Most said they rather die alone than settle for someone average xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:30 AM
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Bet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:29 AM
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Something tells me the incels still wouldn't get laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:26 AM
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I did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:19 AM
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That'd be tough lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:47 AM
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Even the bottom of the top 10% would have a chance with women society people considers "average" right? I genuinely don't know which is why I'm asking lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:35 AM
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Interesting, but the thing is that lets say there are 15 million men left in a random country, and there are 150 million women. Do you think that some of those men would still be unable to find someone? I mean if their personality is shit than yeah lmfao. If that's the case, that's funny as hell. Imagine surviving only to still be rejected 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:33 AM
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I feel you, but I don't think society would collapse. There would be hella bodies to burry, but women can do any job a man can do. Powerplants would still run, same with everything else. Women would have to fill more traditionally male jobs. I say a short period of chaos, but I doubt there would be a power outage nation wide. The usa runs on 4 major power grids, east, west, north, texas (yes texas has it's own lmfao) there are women that work there. The world will keep spinning, atleast in 1st w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:26 AM
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Spermbanks my guy If a woman got with a man if 90% of the male population disappeared, it'd simply be because she's straight, and wants love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:12 AM
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Lmfao got it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:07 AM
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Lmfao, ight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:06 AM
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There are still tons of women, billions. Women can do any job a man can do, literally if all the men disappeared, society wouldn't collapse. Some women simply would have to take jobs men normally would.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:01 AM
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Fair enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:58 AM
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No my guy. That's just a random example smh. I'm saying if 90% of the world population of men died. Every city wouldn't reflect the earths population exactly, but there would be less men in general, so a city could easily have a 0.5 population of men, if there is only 10% men left. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:49 AM
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TRUE These ghetto stories all happened in the 90's-early2000's Before I was born or when I was an infant lol. You can see it on maury of jerryspringer lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:47 AM
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Idk about the statistics. I'm sure a woman can be happy and single for life, same as a man. But was curious if some would change their objective and compete for what they use to consider "less valuable" Edit: I have seen some women compete for men that weren't worth it imo "older, broke, cheater" but that's some ghetto stories I am choosing not to disclose for now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:42 AM
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By that logic, I should tell you the truth... You're dumb 😔🙏 You're welcome ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:29 AM
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It's funny, because who's dumber. The person that made a "dumb post." Or The person that thinks the post is dumb, but still took the time to comment. 🤔🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:18 AM
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Lmfaoo fair enough. So are you straight, bi or gay? If you're straight, would you choose to be single for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:44 AM
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How they gonna get men they desire from sperm banks? Kids they birth will be their sons, and they'd be literal babies...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:44 AM
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Interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:37 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:36 AM
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Yes, I do it all the time. I love making new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:41 AM
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Yeahhh 9 year olds are just smart enough to be annoying, but still too dumb to fully grasp their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:38 PM
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That's fair, but tbh kids 7 and younger sort of automatically love you. When they turn 8 they usually start to be judgemental, and harder to build a connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:25 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:26 PM
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I see this is your first day on reddit, welcome! Also, your comment was a rollercoaster lol 🎢 Anyways, try not to be too down on yourself, I'm sure you're not ugly, and you'll find someone who appreciates you some day! 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:32 PM
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Interesting, ngl I wasn't thinking that deep into it, like marriage or kids lol. I just meant more in a casual way, or at most a relationship. That's probably because I'm just 22 though lol xD Also, most men don't see prostitutes, or even go to strip clubs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:22 PM
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That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:01 PM
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So when you find someone that's good in bed, do you usually stick with them more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:35 PM
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When you actually lose it, you'll be happy you waited trust me. Even if you and the person you lose it to don't work out. I had the opportunity for sex at 18, the girl wasn't bad looking or anything but she wasn't for me, she was more out there than I was. I ended up losing mines last year at 21, a month before I turned 22.(I'm turning 23 next month 🤪) Anyways, I don't really regret waiting, I lost it to a girl I became friends with, even though me and her ended up falling off and not talking an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:42 PM
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🙏💯
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:40 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:51 AM
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Ahhh I getchu. Also, don't take ideas from me my guy, I'm terrible at dates lol. I did go on a date last year, I took a girl to a park, got coffee, and a smoothie. We ended up banging on the first date, but she told me she only wanted it to be casual. I started catching the feels ngl, and I think she picked up on that so she straight up ghosted me 💀☠️💀☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:31 AM
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Kids do have a tendency to do that lol, glad things with your husband is going well though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:23 AM
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But that's your problem. All people that look for casual sex is not like that. Someone can look for casual sex, and be okay with hearing no for an answer, and go about their life. What you're describing is a person that pressures people into sex, or manipulate others. That's not everyone that is looking for casual sex, you're making a very wrong generalization on a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:21 AM
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Guy here, but wanted to chime in, so I'll reply here. Isn't the point of a date to see if she's interested? She shouldn't have to know 100% that she wants a relationship because she accepts the date. Also, she's allowed to change her mind bro lol. Now if she only accepted the date for free food, and was genuinely leading a guy on, yes that's disgusting. But you'll never know if that's the case, or if she just changed her mind about you; unless she admits to free food being her motive. Either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:13 AM
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She's saying if people (feels like she mainly means men) think about having casual sex, then they are "rapey creeps" and I find that mentality disgusting, offensive, problematic, and extremely toxic. I don't use these terms lightly, but honestly that's the type of emotion this sort of idea evokes from me. If someone ever wants sex with no strings attached, they're a predator??? They are only a predator if they don't accept the first no for an answer. But even thinking if casual sex, makes you "r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:01 AM
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I think you have a very conservative viewpoint on sex, and that's okay. However, I think it's extremely problematic, and toxic to judge people that view sex more openly, and freely. I don't know if you're religious or not, but that's like a trope of religion, is sexual repression that's engrained on us. It says "if you don't have sex under these circumstances, you're bad" I think all that matters is that it's two consenting adults that want to do it. I don't think a one night stand is dehumanizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:32 AM
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Idc if a girl is overweight personally. My weight goes from overweight to underweight at a drop of a dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:18 AM
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Try to teach him to please u
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:56 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:55 AM
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Yeahhh, I don't blame women for not exploring every option either. Some men do, and are all like "I like you, how are you still single???" Well Bill, she doesn't like you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:27 AM
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Wait, so you're in a relationship right? You said if the opportunity for good sex arose you'd take it right? So does that mean you'd cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:24 AM
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Fair, also being toothless and obese isn't the worst a girl can be tbh lol. Morbidly obese is where I draw the line personally, since obese is 30 pounds over. If she didn't have teeth, it'd depend on why she lost them. If they got knocked out, it's cool. If she lost them cuz she didn't brush them, I'm out lmfao But I get what you mean, some guy might go around saying he can't get laid, when there are options, just not options he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:10 AM
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Fair. So since sex is always horrible for you, do you just abstain from it now? If not, why? Why bother having sex if it sucks xD. Also, sorry none of your partners could please you, that not cool :/ Lastly, if you do abstain from sex now, how long has it been? If that question isn't too personal for you haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:07 AM
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What's wrong if sex is the goal for some men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:54 AM
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That's fair, so you're a bisexual woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:24 AM
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I'm a pretty open minded person, but wtf is this post 🤣 It's honestly extremely short sided, and completely inaccurate. Sometimes women benefits more from a marriage, sometimes men benefits more. It's a couple to couple thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:18 AM
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I don't understand this comment, it's clearly sarcasm but it seems to make some hard assumptions. Some women need a relationship, and security for sex. Some women don't, and enjoy casual sex. What's so hard for people to understand about that, it seems like everyone believes one extreme or the other, no balance or middle ground like what's reflected in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:45 AM
1

Damn, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:50 PM
3

Well when you said you have a 6th sense, I thought you was referring to being able to distinguish between the guys that are trying to date/just trying to fuck when they approach you. That's what I was asking when you mentioned the 6th sense, so I assumed that's what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:03 PM
5

Eh, I mean I don't think it's fair to say that women have never misjudged a guy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:00 PM
1

Fair enough, have you come across guys that wanted to date you, but you just weren't interested in dating them? If so why? Like what were things that put you off to dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:51 PM
1

Ahhhh got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:48 PM
4

I'll try not to be too offended by you calling me desperate since you're 17, however that was mean :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:47 PM
6

Honestly I think you're in the minority of specifically wanting married sex. Maybe girls in this sub do, but a lot of girls irl won't even fuck a virgin. A lot of girls have been dtf until I mentioned being a virgin at the time lol. But luckily eventually one was okay with it, and took my virginity from me, a little over a year ago. I was 21 almost 22. Now I'm 22 almost 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:45 PM
3

To be fair, that's the same thing. If for you, you want a girl you're attracted to, but can't find one to screw. For her, she wants a relationship, but can't find one, so she can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:40 PM
4

Interesting, I never really looked at it that way tbh. Most of the time when I approach a woman to talk to them tho, my mind isn't 100% on "sex" I mean it's definitely in the top 10 of my thoughts probably, but isn't that on the mind whenever you're talking to someone you're attracted to? I can understand if a guy brings up sex in the first conversation, like wtfff But it feels like you're assuming guys are only trying to fuck even when they first approach you, even if they don't explicitly say …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:24 PM
3

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:17 PM
5

I don't see casual sex as predatory. Basically it feels like you're saying if a women seeks casual sex it's fine. But if a guy is seeking casual sex it's predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:17 PM
3

🤗🤗🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:19 PM
2

Hey pal, funny to run into you in a comment section lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:26 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:40 AM
2

Tbh idk, guess it depends on where I was raised and what my culture is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:29 AM
1

Damn, well when you say it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:41 PM
2

Lol fair enough is a phrase, wasn't referring to your situation being fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:48 PM
1

Lady you're lying, I didn't take anything like that out of the post, you're just delusional. You looked back and can clearly see that you're wrong so now you just can't admit it so you have to go and lie and say I deleted it??? I'm done
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:34 AM
2

Ayo Gimp girl, nice shoot. Ngl I don't ever agree with any of the things you say, but it's always interesting to run into you on this sub. Hope you're doing well!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:16 AM
1

What? 1 how is mentioning a false allegation case toxic? So if someone was falsely accused of something and someone dares talks about it, that's toxic? 2 when did I ever say anything about someone's kid being useful to me??? 3 idek what the last part you're talking about, with being challenged about "stuff" and moving through life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:10 AM
2

Btw I 100% agree that it's an irrational fear lol, but I mean I still rather not ever put myself in that situation, however small the chances are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:28 AM
1

Fair enough, but 5% is huge lol 1% of the population of the usa alone is already 3.3 million 3,300,000. So if lets say if 1% of 1% experiences this sort of thing that's still 330,000 cases. Still very rare, but that's still a lot of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:22 AM
3

You need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:14 AM
2

Cool 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:02 AM
3

Ikr, exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:08 AM
2

Ooo interesting, how old are you if you don't mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:08 AM
2

So sorry to hear that, also how old are you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 01:24 AM
3

I don't think I have issues that badly. But my mom is somewhat of a pathological liar, which I think made me instinctively distrust women that I deal with romantically. However, I recognize that and actively try to combat that thought process. I make sure my trust issues remain an internal conflict and not something for them to worry about. Overall I'm just careful, I'm not trusting, but I do give people the benefit of the doubt. As for my mother, idk why she lies so much. Growing up as a child …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:11 AM
1

Why? That's sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:34 PM
7

I don't mind the idea of in-laws. Nothing against orphans, but I'd hate to be my future wife's only support system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:46 PM
3

Thank you ❤️🙏💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:41 PM
1

Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:40 PM
2

Ahhh got it, how old are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:39 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:52 PM
2

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:52 PM
1

Fair enough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:47 PM
1

True, same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:46 PM
1

Ahhh I getcha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:45 PM
2

That's fair, for me it's the number of kids. Like no more than 4 or 5. If she already has more than 3 then nope. Because I want at least 2 biological kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:44 PM
1

Fair haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:43 PM
3

That's fair, babies lowkey are really aware. I've had to deal with babies growing up, and they peep shit. Like they already have personalities as soon as they can really start looking around and seeing. You legit can form a bond with a baby like any other person haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:41 PM
2

Fair, if they can sign a paper like that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:38 PM
1

Ahhh You're willing to be a stepdad, just not willing to admit it to others because you think it makes you look weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:29 PM
2

Bro imagine the kid she has is a sweet heart. Then you have a kid with them, and that kid (biologically yours) ends up being the devil. Happened with my brother lmfaoo His stepdaughter is the sweetest, but his other kids got anger issues like he does lol. They are in therapy though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:27 PM
2

Ohhhh so you only want to be a stepmom? No biological kids? You afraid of pregnancy? Several of my female friends have said the same which is why I ask lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:25 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:24 PM
5

Ahhh got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:23 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:23 PM
1

That's fair 💯 Good thing your not forcing your beliefs on them, make sure your husband doesn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:22 PM
5

Ahhh fair. Also I meant perfect in evey way except that one part lmfao. I thought that was obvious xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:21 PM
2

Fair enough, one day then 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:20 PM
2

Interesting But fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:17 PM
4

Yeah you've got more than a decade before you have to worry lol. But hey check back in with me in the 2030's and lmk how it's going 🤔🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:16 PM
1

Fuck your parents, go to therapy and get help. Make sure you find a good therapist though, because I hear some are whack jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:14 PM
2

That's a good perspective, I'd only be a dad if they wanted me to be their dad. If they just were like "you're my moms husband nothing more", then that's fine. If they were like "No, I want to be close with you!" Then I'm down for that too. Close in the sense of considering each other family, my personal belief is that the point of having kids is to make them as independent as possible, ofc I'd show and teach em stuff. But with any kid I won't be just breathing down their throats or holding thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:13 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:10 PM
13

I'd suggest therapy my guy. Also, your feelings of not wanting to be a stepdad is valid, if you feel that way you definitely shouldn't be one. Don't let an inferiority complex get you down, you're not any less than anyone else. Keep your chin up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:09 PM
2

Interesting 🤔 That's fair though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:00 PM
10

How sweet 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:00 PM
7

That's fair. What if you met the perfect guy, and fell in love, but he had a newborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:59 PM
10

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:58 PM
1

That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:57 PM
1

Interesting 🤔 That's fair tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:56 PM
6

I don't look at it as growing another mans kids cuz it's not biologically mines. I mean everything you teach him will be you and him becoming apart of you. This one football player changed his last name to his stepdads, and even changed his jersey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:56 PM
4

Ahhh, that sucks. Ngl you might have missed out on something great though. How many kids did she have? If it was just one then like bro come on 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:54 PM
8

Do you like his daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:53 PM
3

Wouldn't baby stage be best? They'd love you unconditionally and look at you as their parent. No judgement just curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:53 PM
2

Yee, I'm asking you how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:52 PM
6

Plot twist, his kid is well behaved then you have a kid with him that's a fucking nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:52 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:51 PM
6

If my dad didn't become a "stepdad" (we don't believe in step personally, but I know it does have some gravity since one of my sisters does the whole "you're not my dad" thing to our dad sometimes ) to my older siblings I wouldn't have even been born lol. Anyways I feel you, to each their own, but like I think about stuff like that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:50 PM
9

That's fair, less drama
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:48 PM
2

Thank you so much!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:47 PM
2

Bet thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:36 PM
2

Thanks man! Same to you 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:07 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:50 PM
3

Yeah, girls are most likely to carry on your genes for sure. Less likely to die at work, or in wars, or in accidents. 2.Live longer Every kid she has (not adopted ofc) is 100% her kid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:48 PM
1

I always love seeing your comments on my posts, also nice words of wisdom 💯🔥🕊️🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:42 PM
1

No, but it's sad to think about Edit: it's not most guys, but I've seen some say some really weird creepy shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:35 PM
2

Any breed that is good for, eggs, meat, and can handle the heat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:35 PM
1

Good 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:20 PM
3

I'd tell them no younger than 16 (when they can drive, and be working) But yeah I agree you 💯. Watch me only have sons lol, I mean I won't be mad if I only had sons lol, but then all this hypothetical thinking would have been for no reason lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:20 PM
1

Idk nothing about chickens lol, I wanted them for eggs and meat. Is that possible? I almost got some chickens at the feed store but decided to wait and do more research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:58 PM
1

I'm talking more about people that have older daughters. Also a girl got pregnant between 10-11 at my elementary school. (Not when I attended the school but years prior) The teachers told us about it, it happened at school and because of it the entire 5th grade was separated by gender. When I was in 7th grade a girl I knew had a baby so she got preggos in 6th. So uhh still keep an eye on your kid, hopefully she'll be like my niece (14). Although my niece is a pervert lmfao, she's too socially aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:55 PM
4

Jesus Christ lady
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:50 PM
1

Oooooo yeah that's stuff I'm interested in getting into. I'm going to get some chickens this year, (most likely late spring, or early summer)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:49 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:47 PM
1

I think it's thicc enough, but some girls have called me a pencil dick. I think they were joking (girls that I sexted) I've only slept with one chick so far haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:46 PM
3

House, car, job with benefits, long dick, and a charming smile. I am however not a "catch" I'm socially awkward at times, I have anxiety attacks, and depression. I constantly overthink things, and I feel like I'm always one push away from a break down. I hide it really well tho :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:46 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:32 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:28 AM
1

I know, a girl in my 7th grade class had a baby when we were 13. But at 12-15 it's easier to keep a handle on your kids. It's more avoidable then if you pick them up from school and drop them off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:27 AM
2

Years later you wonder why your grandchild you tried to have aborted doesn't ever want to meet you after you disowned their mother...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:18 AM
2

Wtf, so if she gets pregnant you're going to disown her, cut yourself off from your kid and your grandkid? Sounds like a regret in the making...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:56 AM
0

I agree on this No drug dealers No bullies No abusive assholes No general assholes No guys that pressure women No guys that slut shame/ judge women No guys that disrespect me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:05 AM
1

Same 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:32 AM
1

Smart 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:22 AM
2

Personally I wouldn't care so long as she's safe. Same as I wouldn't care if my son did it, so long as he's safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:15 AM
3

You sound like a very wise person, yeah if I ever have a daughter I should definitely get into specifics like you mentioned. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 07:11 AM
1

Yeah, my cousin almost got 20 years for sleeping with a girl a year younger than him when he was 17. Some of the dudes definitely deserve it, but some of the laws are sorta fucked haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:40 AM
1

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Also yeah I know the whole thing senior guys do, all the guys in my grade when I was seniors were fucking freshmen girls. Some of the freshmen girls were trying to flirt with me, but I shot it down. I always followed the 2 year age gap rule. Didn't ever date anyone in highschool sadly, but at least I didn't do anything immoral either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:02 AM
1

I mean the rules are pretty self explanatory, but I was going to explain them the first time anyways lmfao. Also Daria is a good show, but if I have kids I rather tell them first hand instead of letting the television raise em. Also, what if they dislike Daria and don't want to watch it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:51 AM
2

Fair enough, my dad, me, my mom, and one of my sisters talked about stuff like that casually. My brother and his kids are weird about even talking about stuff like crushes and dating. If I ever do have kids (who knows I might get hit by a bus tomorrow) I think I'll tell them the general 3 rules a few times, and whatever happens is on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:40 AM
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I mean curiosity is my whole reason for being on reddit. I have certain views so I decided to question people on here's about theirs because I know some guys are super weird when it comes to their daughters and boys but not their son and boys. My brother is aggressive when it comes to his daughter talking to boys despite her entering high school soon, but my dad wasn't. I don't think planning for the future, and being interested in how the lives of potential children will go is weird. Some peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:30 AM
3

How is telling them 3 basic rules weird? Should I not tell them to only sleep with people their age, use protection, and not deal with toxic people? How is any of that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:15 AM
3

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:07 AM
1

Tbh if I had a kid, boy or girl after their 16-18 idc if they do it so long as 1 it's with someone near their own age 2 they use protection 3 it's with someone that isn't dangerous or toxic That's all I can think of If they can follow those simple rules, then idgaf because they'll be safe and happy and that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:34 AM
1

Oooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:35 PM
1

You sound like a lot of fun 💯 feel free to dm me if you wanna be friends 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 11:12 PM
2

Ayyyye that's awesome 😎 Some guys here seem to think if they have a daughter they can't go fishing, hunting, or play video games with them. 🤔 Idk people think this though 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:52 PM
1

Ahhhh, well good luck bro 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:36 PM
1

You gonna have kids? Also being bald isn't a negative, I have hair (although I think it may be starting to recede, idk I'm 22) but I shaved my head, and that's when I lost my virginity lol. The small penis part sucks, I have a big one but it still hasn't helped me get girls. If yours is small you could use ur tongue, fingers, vibrators, and dildos. I have a female friend that is straight and hella hot, and her bf doesn't even have a dick (trans) and she's satisfied. The short part is tough, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:12 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:08 PM
1

my bad here's the right post Check the comments, I'm pretty sure this is the right post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 08:07 PM
1

Fair enough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:54 PM
3

Shit I don't take things easy on my niece. I sorta feel like I raised that girl even though she's more of a little sister than anything (9 years younger) I'm the only one that does digital art, animations, and comics. I babysat her since she was 2 and told her about all the things I love, and played video games with her etc. She ended up being exactly like me (she's adopted but she doesn't know that) So just with spending time with her I literally created another me lol, she's just as nerdy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:54 PM
1

For me it's about genes, but I feel you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:48 PM
2

That's fair but you could do the same with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:47 PM
5

Yep, I straight up am hoping to have at least one or two daughters. If I have all daughters I won't be mad at it haha. I'll raise em to be smart, tough, and give them money so they'd be set up for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:46 PM
1

Plus if you give your daughter money and a headstart, your family line will be secured financially
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:45 PM
2

Get rekt ex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:23 PM
6

If I have a daughter I'm taking her fishing idc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:21 PM
2

The part about kids passing on genes no matter their gender What if your son gets cheated on and his kids aren't his?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:20 PM
1

Ahhh did you want a son before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:17 PM
0

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:42 PM
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Yeah I used to care about that because I was conditioned to care about it. But tbh fuck my last name, one of my coworkers was this old man in his 70's, really cool dude. He was like 5'3 but he had a daughter who had this really smart, really tall husband. His grandkids I believe are taking after their father. Sure you give up your last name in the family tree, but you pass your genes on, along with money, and knowledge and experience. If I have a daughter with the main girl I'm interested in ( b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:33 PM
2

Bet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:25 PM
5

I feel you, me and my dad both had struggles with dating, so I feel if I have a son it will just continue the trend. I just want to end the suffering lmfao 🤣. If I have a daughter she will not have the same struggles in the dating world as I did. I'm not ugly, and I'm not short (just about average height so not tall either) but I'm just lame tbh lol. Like people tell me I'm funny asf, but I mean outside of that I think I'm just not a ladies man, and I'm okay with that. I'm 5'8 and all the girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:24 PM
2

I agree lmfao, want me to link that creepy post for you lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:19 PM
4

If you have a daughter no matter what if she has kids the father will be in that 40% as you say. I don't think that's true, but having a daughter who has kids pretty much guarantees your grandkids father will fall in that 40%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 06:17 PM
4

EXACTLY, I see a lot of not so attractive men-women cheat on Maury, Divorce Court, and so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:50 PM
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This is sort of horrifying ngl, you're going to raise someone from an infant and think "Damn She's hot"???? I mean if you wanna be a cuck that's your business, but I don't think you should have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:49 PM
2

Yepp lol There's the women that are grossed out by virgins (Some of this group shame virgins, but not all do) There's the women that want to fuck virgins because they are excited by it There are women that want a virgin/guy with a low body count because they themselves are virgins/have a low body count. (Then there is a sub group of these women that slutshame men, but not all do) Everyone is different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:42 AM

Interesting take on things 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:49 AM
1

Last year I told a girl on tinder I was a virgin and she had sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:34 AM
3

You have a point, actions do speak louder than words. But I got on tinder and told a girl I was a virgin and she decided to help me lose it and fucked me. So I know some girls don't mind virgins for a fact or else I'd still be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:34 AM
0

Thank you, also I fully agree with everything you said 💯🙏🔥 Edit: I'm giving you a silver reward 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:41 PM
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You don't know what you're talking about. I've seen several girls here say they would prefer a virgin. Also not every girl wants the same thing. Just like some don't slut shame men, some do. Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:40 PM
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Yeah I agree hella women on this sub seem to slut shame men, it's not all women though but sadly a hell of a lot of them. But there are the same number of men that slut shame women on this sub, and overall outside of it too. Women on this sub have told me I'm entitled, disgusting, and a horrible person for supporting the decriminalization of prostitution(never used one), ever considering going to a strip club(never been to one), and even just watching porn when the topic is on porn (guilty on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:32 PM
1

Direct Message me if you want to debate the issue further.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:01 PM
1

I never said men were entitled to sex, you're projecting hella hard right now. You seem to have some preconceived biases against men. I'd love to debate an issue, but not with a person that is putting words in my mouth and telling me I believe/said something I didn't. That's not a debate, it's more of an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:38 PM
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Escort: The fuck is this silent bastards problem??? 🤣🤣🤣 Bro they gonna look at you like a weirdo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:59 AM
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Would you just be silent towards the escorts? 🤣🤔🤨🤔🤨🤔🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:51 AM
1

Ahhh got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:56 AM
1

You a male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:41 AM
1

Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:41 AM
1

$100 an hour, that's some good money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:35 PM
2

What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:01 PM
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Exactly, most won't do it, but even if less than 1% of the population does, that's still millions of prostitutes. So there would be plenty of them, just not most people would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:09 PM
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Exactly, most won't do it, but even if less than 1% of the population does, that's still millions of prostitutes. So there would be plenty of them, just not most people would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:08 PM
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Yeye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:05 PM
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Oh well then I take back my comment about you being arrogant, it's just I see some women come on here and say "no one will ever do that or this" because they wouldn't and they're a woman. But ofc most women won't, just like most women/men won't be doctors. It's a profession. If just 1% of the us population did sex work that would be 3,300,000 people aka 3.3 million people. There are already thousands of pornstars, and even more thousands of onlyfans girls. If girls started seeing others make 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:59 PM
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There are plenty that do work for $300 or even more, and plenty that work for $100 You don't and can't speak for all women, it's arrogant to think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:49 PM
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Agreed about the legalization part, I think men play games with women too though. I've seen plenty of dudes dog girls out badly. Before you say "why not pick a nicer guy" she might not be attracted to them for their looks, which is fair. Also the argument can be made, "why not pick a girl that doesn't play mind games" Not a dig at you, just wanted to lyk as a man, I see plenty of us doing women dirty, and plenty of women doing men dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:32 PM
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I feel you, others would probably feel different lol but to each their own. 3 clients a day, is $300 a day and $100k a year. A girl could do it for 5 years and have half a million dollars, probably could invest like half of that on the stock market.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:29 PM
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Interesting 🤔 I've never seen one myself but I wouldn't be against it. There are like a few girls that are interested in sleeping with me for free (or so they say, I mean they rarely ever go through with it and usually are all talk) But I mean so long as I wasn't in a relationship/ had a fwb I'd definitely consider trying it. I thought about it heavily in the past as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:32 PM
2

Interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:27 PM
1

Interesting, for context are you male or female? Straight or gay? And cis or noncis?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:24 PM
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We meet again gimpgirl lol I think in the usa it'd be $400 but then as more people do it because it's less risky, and legal there would be more competition and the price would fall to $100-$200 I would hope it wouldn't fall any lower than $50 because at $50 a girl can still make $50k-$100k per year. The profession wouldn't be looked down on, and everyone involved would be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:23 PM
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Yeah I made a comment about that, I think I heard $400 is the price for it in the usa because it's illegal in most states, and in the only state it's legalized in, it's $1,500 I believe in other places it's $100 because it's legalized, less risky, and there's more competition. I'm not sure about much, but I'm sure if there was more competition it'd be like $100-$200, per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:20 PM
1

Interesting, do you think this is positive or negative for the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:17 PM
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I agree with you 100% But yeah that's all so long as the girls aren't forced/coerced I'm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:16 PM
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Being poor and having a job isn't being forced to do that job imo. Like if a girl was poor and decided to work in a restaurant, no one is forcing her to do that, she could easily work at a warehouse, get a trade, or whatever she wanted to do. People get jobs to make money, and some actually like that job haha. I'm about to work at a warehouse, not because I want to, but because it pays well, and no one is forcing me. My dad told me I could stay living with him and my mother forever if I wanted, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:15 PM
5

That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:07 PM
2

What about legalized and not stigmatized?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:54 PM
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God I hope not, like if this profession could nullify the whole incel thing that would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:54 PM
2

Interesting take 🤔 Threesomes aren't something I ever think about to be honest haha, I guess cuz I know I probably will never have one lmfao. But yeah, I've heard of some couples using escorts for threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:53 PM
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Fair, what price would it have to be to effect the SMP and still be an okay price for the women. $50 an hour? 3 clients a day = 50k per year 6 clients a day = 100k per year Do you think $50 is fair, getting laid twice a week, sometimes more. If not, what price would it have to be to affect the SMP? Just curious. I'm more concerned with the women getting rich off of it though, because I'd like to know that they at least get their money for it, and are able to live comfortably in doing something l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:50 PM
2

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:47 PM
1

Oooo tell me your reasons for it? Just curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:47 PM
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So long as no women are being forced into it, I think that's hella dope 😎 What country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:46 PM
2

So are you against sex work for the women who want to do it? Some women want to do it, would you tell them they can't and should "find something better"? This isn't an attack, I genuinely agree with almost everything you said, except encouraging them to find something better, and not feel like they have to. What if that's what they want to do? It's sort of like a Christian telling non Christians "don't have sex out of marriage, you're above that." I feel like the government and society should ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:46 PM
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Interesting, what if it wasn't stigmatized tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:28 PM
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I feel you, I agree that no one should be abused ever. I don't think the whole porn thing, and prostitutes would be bad for men, especially for the ones that rarely get laid anyways. It would simply be an alternative for what they can't get on the SMP because women don't like them. This way no one would have to be like alone/ unable to get laid. Everyone would get some play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:27 PM
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I mean I'm sure most guys could spend $100 once a week and get laid on Saturdays or something. I mean think about how much you spend on other stuff, or even in a relationship haha. Probably not quite $400 a month, but for the average guy that just wants to work his week, and get laid at least once, it'd definitely would have some affect on the SMP I think lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:23 PM
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No, at least not most of them. I'm sure there would still be plenty of relationships, it's just sex wouldn't be something that's like held over the guy in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:17 PM
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In Mexico they have to have a sex workers ID and they are required to get two std checks every month. I'm sure they have good hygiene as it's how they make money, (ofc there isn't much women can do immediately if they suffer from bv as it's not a hygiene issue) I hear it's only like $100 per hour, (which is fair for both parties imo) If it got legalized here I believe most women would start for like $400 an hour, but as more competition gets involved I bet it'll go to $100-$200 an hour. Even at …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:14 PM
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I don't have any fantasy like this at all, I fully wish the best for people and accept rejection relatively well. It just sucks more so than anything, it's like some girls will half try with effort and take things only so far with me (phone calls, nudes, very rarely sex) then get bored eventually and move on. I personally have no gripe that most girls aren't willing to give me a chance to get to know me, literally whenever I talk to a girl it always feels like she's sizing me up, trying to see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:16 PM
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I don't think this is true 100% of the time but I definitely think a good portion of the time, this is true. Society has long looked at men as dominant, and women as submissive. It's just fucked up gender rules that are outdated and a lot of people, even younger generations, still are affected by this mentality. The idea is that women are "fragile" so you're a dick if you do anything that upsets them, like yell at them, hurt their feelings, sometimes even self defense against them. The reverse i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:27 PM
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Should he think less of you for not offering to pay for his meal? Why should he automatically be expected to pay for your food when the two of you don't even know each other well, and are just trying to feel one another out to see if you even like each other? But again should he think less of you for not offering to pay for his food, if not then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:55 AM
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I'mma dm you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:10 AM
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Oh damn sorry man, you been like single or just had bad experience with the women you have talked to?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:00 AM
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I definitely felt that, it feels like most girls barely put in any effort, at least girls I meet. It'd be nice to have someone who was really into me, but at this point I'd settle for a girl that at least showed some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:49 PM
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Damn why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:16 PM
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Lol, I've met tons of sane women, idk about kid numbers because that rarely comes up but I'm 22 so that's probably why. I've seen some nice girls, idk about forgiving because I never do shit that crosses the line xD I feel you on having a bunch of kids, just gotta make sure you can afford them. I might have 2-3 myself, but if I were rich I could have like 5-6 maybe 🤔 if my partner was willing. I think rn I'd tell a girl I'd need 2 minimum or me and her just aren't suited for each other. 3-4 migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:09 PM
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I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:03 AM
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Well I guess to each their own, I'm more of a sex positive sort of guy, but we all adhere to our own moral codes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:56 AM
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I mean I personally disagree, also like I said before it's a business not a charity. If someone likes porn and is willing to pay for it to support the industry, it's not the same as charity. Thats like if someone likes marvel movies, and instead of pirating the movie, they choose to buy it to support marvel/the industry/business thats like you telling them "well if you really want to support something out of the goodness of your heart, go give to charity instead of buying marvel movies because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:29 AM
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Yeah but I said it depends on the couple, my main gripe was her insinuating that if a dude watches/pays for anything sexually related that it's "gross" to spend money on your "dick" I disagreed mainly with that part. Anyways it's up to the couple on what they consider bad or not in spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:02 AM
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Supporting a business is all I'm saying, that porn is a valid business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:22 AM
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Interesting, just so you know the comments are going to eat you alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:20 AM
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For relationships that's different I guess if there is a discussion against porn. But I personally believe in sexual positivity. Spending money on ones dick isn't gross, just like spending money on ones vagina isn't gross. If a girl bought a dildo or a vibrator, or if a guy bought a fleshlight or a dildo, they aren't gross perverted people. They're adults exploring their sexuality in a healthy way that's not harming anyone. Again as far as buying porn it depends on the couples discussion about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:08 AM
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So supporting sex workers is pathetic and disgusting? Pornstars are people too with families and needs just like everyone else, sex work is work and their jobs are valid. I think so long as it involves two consenting adults it's fine, I'm more left wing tho. I know some right wingers tried to make porn illegal in the past few years, but personally I disagree with that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:43 PM
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Frfr, some people thinking love is always supposed to feel "passionate" with a rollercoaster of emotions, arguments, everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:18 PM
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Ahhh fair enough lol, I Lowkey hope I just have daughters though, because if all the girls I date is 5'0 and I'm 5'8 then best case scenario my son is 5'8, worst case he's 5'0, or he can get sorta lucky and fall under 5'5. If I have daughters that are 5'5 that'd be cool lol Ofc I know some people are taller than both of their parents, and some are shorter than both of their parents, but I'm more or less talking about the average person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:43 PM
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That never made sense to me, as someone that's 5'8 I always thought it'd make more sense for guys to pursue taller women, that way they have taller sons. However, I think most guys pursue shorter women, and most girls pursue taller men, leaving the short men/tall women to fend for themselves xD which I often see pairing that are extremely short men 5'0 and extremely tall women 6'2 on a regular basis. I guess this is why there is still tall/short people. Because some guys have mom's that are 5'0 …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:22 PM
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I don't see anything wrong with watching porn in relationships personally. There was a girl that I was/am talking to (long story, she says she likes me, but barely talks to me these days, so I'm trying to move on) Anyways, she was asking me my opinion on people watching porn in relationships, and I told her I watched porn and didn't think it was a big deal, then she told me she watches it too, and I was surprised and was trying to say "oh neat really" but it seemed like she back peddled and told…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:28 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:24 AM
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I sorta hate the whole beta/alpha mentality too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:58 AM
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Probably from the whole "bad boy" idea, and girls always going for hot, but asshole guys stereotype. I think real life is more nuanced than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:10 AM
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Gifts should matter more, but some people will value what others think more, even tho the opinions of strangers won't affect their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:53 PM
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Explain that last part, didn't quite understand what you were saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:17 PM
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So it'd matter more to a girl what her guy is perceived as than what he can provide for her right? I think it honestly depends on the girl and what her finances is, and what her priorities are, all are valid. If I were rich, and I decided to settle down. Looks won't matter, I'm picking whichever girl is the kindest/smartest so that I reproduce kind/smart kids. I'm handsome but average height, so best case scenario if she wasn't pretty they take after me in looks, and have both of our brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:49 PM
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Thnx 💯🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:15 PM
1

That sounds sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:42 AM
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Sadly I feel most people think this way, I want a girl to get to know me, and not just see me as that average nerdy guy that I can keep as a back up plan. I can see how for you, dudes only being interested in your looks and showing you off like some prize could suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:39 AM
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Next girl like that, make sure you let her know she deserves the world! Just learn from your past mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:37 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:37 AM
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True, like they're always sizing you up, and wondering if they can "do better"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:47 AM
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I felt this sort of energy from a lot of girls that turned me down after showing interest, it was like they liked me, but wasn't sure if I'd be considered a prize to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:36 AM
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Yeah, not gonna lie I don't see myself as the sort of guy that would ever be able to just hook up with random girls. I mean a lot of girls have said they'll fuck me, but then never go through with it and we eventually fall off. I would rather be a lone than someone's last option though, I often feel depressed because most of the girls I talk with are only playing games, ghosts me sometimes, and just seem to not care at others. I've added so many to my block list, and honestly sometimes I feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:57 AM
2

That's even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:47 AM
3

That sucks 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:26 AM
2

What's Dual Mating?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:49 AM
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I think this is definitely a big part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:31 AM
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I mean if u trust her and she's never cheated before, and you're good enough in bed to where you can satisfy her, it shouldn't matter how many other guys have been with her if ur on ur A game. Someone could of been with less guys and might still cheat, maybe due to wondering what else is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:21 PM
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I feel u lol, college kids can definitely be dumb and rowdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:37 AM
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Ahhh I think Tuscaloosa may have a higher cost of living but idk, my friends that live there like to party and shit, so Idk if it's a place for raising babies. However, Alabama is so big, so much land lol, Birmingham is cool for the most part if you're not dumb and don't tell everyone what you have, and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:09 AM
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Bro Alabama isn't all that bad, the education is alright. There's a lot of stuff to do if you live near a big city, and the COL is cheap, especially if you own ur house. House's prices are rising sadly, but you could possibly find a starter home for like 50k, it'll need some work, but it'll be solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:00 AM
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Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:57 AM
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Lol I live in Alabama and 50k a year here is enough for a family of 4 or even 6 to live comfortably, like vacation once or twice a year and private school comfortably. Where the hell is 100k not a lot so I make sure to never go there 🤣😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:54 AM
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Ohhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:51 AM
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Sorry, I write professionally and I can't help myself, but it's "there" not "their." 🙏🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:44 AM
1

What does smv mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:43 AM
1

Exactly, Men shouldn't be hating women, and women shouldn't be hating men, we just need some middle ground!
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/22 12:46 AM
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Interesting, the first time I got laid (a year ago) I wasn't expecting it tbh. I asked the girl if we could make out, and she said "what do you think" and I started mumbling and studders "idk if it's cool with you" (she knew I was a virgin) she kissed me, then took her shirt off and told me to take my pants off. I didn't ask for consent, but I didn't initiate it either lol, she just sorta started doing things/ got on top, and after that we tried other positions. To any virgin males out there, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 09:54 PM
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I love your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:57 AM
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Oh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:53 AM
1

Ah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:42 AM
1

I wish I got the reference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:33 AM
2

Explain the nails part?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:15 AM
2

Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:05 AM
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I just hope Russia doesn't try to take anything else if it succeeds with annexing all of Ukraine. They were mad Ukraine wanted to join nato because they wanted to conquer it. They are mad Finland and Sweden want to join nato, and threatened nukes if they did, why? 🤔 Also there are 3 countries Lithuania is one of them, all three of these countries are protected by nato, and I heard that Putin wants to take them as well because they were former Russian states. Shit might get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:50 PM
3

Sir what??!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:48 PM
1

I doubt the situation will ever come up since there are so many people I'd likely never need to date someone a friend dated. But if the world nearly ended and I somehow survived (which is a big if, cuz I'm unlucky asf) then sure I guess I'd have to get over this pet peeve lol In whatever small settlement I end up in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:31 PM
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Lmfao 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:28 PM
3

see him outside chopping wood You: that rat bastard! Jkjk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:23 PM
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Bro for real, someone even tried to kill me once lmfao. I don't live in a bad area anymore tho, my parents have started doing better financially in the past few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:21 PM
1

Gosh darn it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:17 PM
1

Where was you a year ago when I still had my virginity lol, if it's all the same tho I only got a n count of 1, can I still slide in dms? 🤔🤣👀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:15 PM
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I feel u lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:12 PM
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I understand not wanting a doormat, but constantly testing your guy? Why do some girls do this 🤣😭 like I just want basic respect, not to have to always prove myself of deserving it. Bro when I was in highschool this shit had me up at night, one girl was hella rude to me for no reason when I was trying to find out where my class was moved to, so I told her to stfu, and then after that day she started flirting with me like Ayooooo 🤔🤨🤔🤨 that's some coocoo for cocoa shit lol. Then me and my female f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:57 PM
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Fair enough, but some people that do care about high n count definitely are judging. But you've opened my eyes that not all are being judgemental. But the guys/girls that say if someone has a high n count they lack self control, those people are definitely judging, but not the ones who just prefer a lower n count. Same with those who judge low/ no n counts btw, saying something must be wrong with em 🤣🤨🤔🤨🤔🤨🤔 like damn there's no winning sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:51 PM
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Everytime I talk to a girl outside of the usa I'm shocked at how different they view relationships. Like honestly it is good to explore everywhere, but I still do like the women of my country too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:48 PM
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No I didn't contradict myself lmfao 🤣 Not choosing to sleep with someone, and judging them are not the same thing. A girl can sleep with my cousin, just because I don't want to marry her doesn't mean I'm judging her. Just like if a girl doesn't want to sleep with/ marry me it doesn't mean she's judging me??? I think the choice of who we sleep with/ marry is far different from basic judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:45 PM
3

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:27 PM
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You've got good points, and I definitely should have added that to my list as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:27 PM
2

Shit, you got a point lol. I should of included that into my list xD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:26 PM
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Bro, you're parents are going to die someday, when that happens you're gonna want a shoulder to cry on. Go find a wife and stop worrying if she's a virgin lol. However, if that's truly how you feel, then I guess to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:25 PM
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I feel you, it's not a problem for me personally, but I can't really judge your feelings on that because they're valid, never let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:22 PM
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Just insecurity, which is human. I wouldn't want to be married to someone that I know my best friend, or cousin or someone I knew and still deal with personally had been with and seen naked. Like knowing your homie has smashed your wife, and that she has memories of fucking him just isn't something I really want personally. Especially imagine everytime you and her hang out with him, just nah I'm good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:20 PM
2

Wait you're virgin hunting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:17 PM
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Bro what do you think personally about all these guys that whine about body count etc? Like for me as long as she ain't fucking/thinking about fucking anyone else while she with me, then idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:13 PM

sound advice, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:40 AM

Damn that's disappointing 😅 thanks for keeping it real with me my guy 💯🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:33 AM

Eh I'm awkward as hell and not that tall either, only 5'8 lol. I sometimes genuinely feel like I'll die alone lol. Also I don't lead with what I bring to the table, I'm just saying that here in the post for like context reasons, and you know so you can see my mindset I guess. Anyways I appreciate the advice 🙏 yeah I think it wouldn't be such a bad thing to consider pursuing older women either, I just sorta wanted to see if anyone else would agree with me. Thank you again!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:29 AM
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Depends on age I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:35 PM
7

Nerds are awesome! I agree uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:56 PM
1

Because my parents will die someday, and I rather not be alone when that happens. Plus I want children and someone to spend my time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:54 PM
2

That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:27 PM
4

Wait, so if you got into a relationship with a guy, but he had a kid he didn't know about pop up later, would you have a problem with that? Let's say it wasn't his fault, he smashed a girl, she ghosted him, had a kid and never told him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:05 PM
2

🥺❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:23 AM
2

Girl I feel you, I got a low body count too lmfaooo. It's just 1 rn and I'm 22 almost 23 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:12 AM
1

22 here, girls my age do. I mean as soon as you start flirting with them they do, but ofc it doesn't come up with people u casual chat with that often. Edit: atleast nearly all the girls I've met
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:15 AM
0

I don't ask unless they ask me lol, and nearly every girl asks me for some reason... Except for two of them lately, which I've been planning to hook up with for a few weeks, they're both long term friends tho so I guess that's why things are more chill idk. I have a body count of 1 so far, but hopefully that changes soon 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:06 AM
2

That's fair, I guess it's the same for the guys that do care about body count, they just feel how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:03 AM
3

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:00 AM
3

I get you, but as a guy that lost his virginity at 21, I always hated the whole If he has a low/no body count he's a "loser" And the If she has a high body count she's a "slut" Mentality, cuz if the male and females body count in this scenario was reversed it'd be fine. I get we all have preferences, but I hate how much it's stigmatized for both sides, and honestly feels like everyone loses in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:59 PM
2

Do you think it's okay to have a high one,, and okay to have a low one, or is one worse in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:51 PM
1

You ghosting those women means you just missed out on sex with an experienced girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:50 PM
1

Does it matter though?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:41 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:34 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:32 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:17 PM
1

Thanks :') ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:53 AM
12

I rather be boyfriend material. A few girls lately have told me that they would fuck me, but they aren't sure about dating me, and some have casually mentioned never wanting to have kids. I want a girl to settle down with someone who wants the same things as me, I might be about to have my own house soon, and I'll be able to make enough to live on my own. But it will be pretty damn lonely, I want a family someday, but sometimes I wonder if anyone would ever be willing to have my kids and start o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:07 AM
3

WE MEET AGAIN!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:47 AM
2

:') ikr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:58 AM
3

I made an edit to the post 💯🙏😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:34 AM
3

Ahhh you've got a point!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:32 AM
5

Happy Cake Day! Also, thank you so much for being nice, ngl I get my feelings hurt on this sub from responses sometimes, but your response was so kind 💯 Also, I think I see what you're saying, but yeah they call it a porn addiction when the man does it, but "just the female brain" when the girl does it. I like that sub but lately I've been seeing a lot of energy like this and it's just disappointing and makes me feel like soon it'll warp into something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:25 AM
2

Possibly, but I think weakness is based on experience honestly. I was a very timid boy that only wanted to make peace and was described as a pacifist. Until people attacked me and I had to defend myself several times, even leading to me using weapons to defend myself. I think we change based on what we experience, but no matter how tough or violent you are, you still have emotions my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:37 PM
1

So never tell your s/o how you feel is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:56 PM
1

So men should never express feelings of insecurity because it makes women uncomfortable? They should just bottle up their feelings? I'm genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:30 PM

Yeah but I think it'd be best
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:11 AM
3

Fair enough, I appreciate your well though out response! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:07 AM
3

Why are you uncomfortable around people that are insecure? Like if a girl says she's insecure because her boobs aren't big enough in her mind, would that make you uncomfortable? Or like if a guy said he felt like he was too fat or something. I'm not trying to say you shouldn't be uncomfortable, just curious as to why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:43 AM
1

Wait are you going to take my post down? Can't I change it to a question for bluepill or something? I really hate being silenced, coming to reddit to discuss is the whole reason I have reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:57 PM
1

I took the flair away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:54 PM
1

What should I change the flair to for it to fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:53 PM
1

I feel you 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:44 PM
1

You worded it perfectly!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:43 PM
1

You're right! There are some asshole Men on here. Plus their are asshole women as well. I really wish we could all get a long and stop this cycle of hurting each other :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:42 PM
1

True, but some use it dismissively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:41 PM

Exactly lmfao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:38 PM
1

You're completely right, I shouldn't let what people online say get to me. It still hurts though, I probably should get off reddit tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:36 PM
1

That's true, but sometimes it honestly is used for no reason in a way to like, idk make someone feel like they aren't a man in a hurtful way, or like gaslight people. That's more so what I'm talking about honestly, however, if you're not the sort of person that does that, and you only call people insecure when they are truly exhibiting insecure traits, then idk if you can answer this question. Anyways, even if you call someone insecure when they present as insecure, what does that help?? If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:32 PM
1

So if a woman commits paternity fraud against a man, it's still his fault? Victim blaming much? That's like saying if someone gets beat in a relationship, "why'd you pick an abusive partner?" Instead of "why is this person hitting you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:12 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 09:01 PM
0

Fair, I agree (said it in my post too I believe) They'd be force to pay for the child support of a baby that's not their anyways lol, so this wouldn't be such a bad compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:52 PM
1

A test can be as low as $25, and I said the man can pay, you clearly didn't read my post at all smh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:18 PM
3

I agree, some people on here actively want to commit paternity fraud. One 40 something year old lady called me a coward for even suggesting this idea. Some have argued that it's better if a dude didn't know he wasn't the father, and how this would just break up millions of families. It's honestly disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:01 PM
2

$25?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:29 PM
2

You okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:29 PM
1

Ahhh, can we get him banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:28 PM
19

Bro what? You're making us look bad, I honestly think this is a troll post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:20 PM
1

People in other countries that are used to manipulating the legal system to take advantage of others are the main ones whining about this being rectified lol. Also, what country do you live in btw if you don't mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:06 PM
4

I say the truth is always good for all parties, especially if they can learn the truth at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:44 PM
3

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:42 PM
5

They can care for children that isn't theirs, if they know that child isn't their child then sure. But it's fucked up if they are made to believe it is, simple and plain. You can't justify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:41 PM
6

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:36 PM
4

I mean this would stop people from being duped, why should a man raise a child that isn't his to prevent divorce? How about, bare with me, people don't try to get others to raise children under the false pretense that it's their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:35 PM
2

Fuck yes I'm down, I honestly think we should have all dna on file, and that the government should monitor all of our computers. It'd stop cp from being spread and probably save a lot of abused children. Idk if ur being sarcastic, but I'm 1000% serious, I want a better government we can trust for sure, but the government literally has the power to stop rapist, and pedos if we allow them to. Plus they can track down the dad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:33 PM
3

Okay, you've changed my mind actually. I'll make an edit because you have a good point. If men are able to do the test themselves without permission, and if paternity comes up as false, they can be relieved of any obligations despite anything they've signed, then it should be up to the fathers and not mandatory for them to do it. That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:28 PM
4

Yes, just yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:25 PM
3

So be it, it'd prevent people from growing up thinking someone else is there dad, only to be heart broken later on by finding out your dad isn't actually your fucking dad. Also, I'm not swearing at you, that's just how I talk sometimes when I'm passionate about a subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:24 PM
2

We have a government for a reason, that's like saying the government shouldn't be involved in civil cases at all??? Also, calling me a freak in a discussion shows your lack of maturity smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:22 PM
3

Fair, I totally agree. I'd pay that $25
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:21 PM
2

Lmfao why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:20 PM
2

To protect people from a crime, yeah I care about my fellow man. Let me ask you this, why are you so against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:20 PM
3

The man has to pay, he'd have to pay for the child if it's assumed to be his, if it's assumed to not be his then he ends up saving a lot of money anyways. Cost is cost, they'll have to pay for the birth at the hospital, what's a little extra $25? Yes there are tests for $25 compared to the cost of the delivery alone. This seems like grasping for straws honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:17 PM
2

No, it's to prevent paternity fraud. They can choose to do whatever they want with their relationship afterwards idrc, so long as they have all the facts they need legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:14 PM
3

This is fair, this would resolve everything actually. If a man is assumed to be the father, he can get a dna test whenever without permission, and if it's proven he isn't, then he should be freed of any responsibility. We could actually get this law made. But also, all laws are made to stop idiots, we have laws that tell us not to hit each other 🤣 that's all laws are because humans are babies that need to be governed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:07 PM
3

Well then it should be an option that is requested at birth always, and the father can turn it down, but it should be recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:59 PM
5

In Elsa Voice: LET IT BURNNNNNNNNN (I know it's let it go but still) Bro I'm not gonna drop this, I'm actually thinking about petitioning this become a law someday. A lot of planning would have to happen first tho behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:50 PM
7

1000% agreed. I wasn't circumcised thankfully, but one of my classmates lost half his dick to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:47 PM
1

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:44 PM
6

Trust me, if this law ever gets made for real, dynamics will definitely change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:44 PM
5

The man can pay for it, he'd already be paying for the child if it is his, if it isn't his then I'd save him a lot of money either way. Money will be spent regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:39 PM
12

Yeah, she can get any man she wants tested if she doesn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:37 PM
3

Obviously this is something that's not going away then, and probably will become something debated at a much higher level eventually. Maybe new legislation will be passed someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:36 PM
5

I feel fathers should have a right to raise their children. If it's their child Also, I feel I'm being baited into a switch and bait sort of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:35 PM
5

The only reason I see is because they want to commit paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:24 PM
8

There is paternity fraud in seemingly happy relationships, happens all the time. Also calling me a coward in a discussion shows your lack of maturity. Grow up. (Also I don't think I will be responding to anymore of your replies because of that so feel free to say whatever bs you want)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:16 PM
3

Shit today can be the start, I've definitely found a few like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:13 PM
3

There actually is a way to get out of financial responsibility in paternity fraud cases. That's only in cases of fraud, not the ones where the father knew and adopted willingly. You can look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:13 PM
2

Until people force them, by petitioning and telling law makers when their term is up we won't vote for them again unless they push this law through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:09 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:06 PM
1

Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:06 PM
2

Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:03 PM
7

So, you did it with the false belief that you were the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:01 PM
2

In cases like that, the father should just be tested anyways or he'll be given responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:58 PM
4

I feel, that even if they are married, even if he signed something saying he's the father, if he finds out he isn't then he should be relieved of all responsibility, and paid any monies he's given back, that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:56 PM
3

How about in cases where there wasn't a sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:53 PM
3

Well shit test the father too, any other problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:52 PM
5

It would only be for new cases, anyone that was fooled into paternity fraud before this wouldn't benefit from it. So instead of opening old wounds, it'd stop new ones for the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:50 PM
2

So change it back to cmv?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:48 PM
2

THANK YOU So many people are grasping at straws for reasons this shouldn't happen, I literally think we should try and start a movement and get this law rolling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:48 PM
2

Literally I'm not even trying to police women from cheating, just paternity fraud. If a woman is in a marriage she can literally just not cheat while trying to conceive to avoid this, then wear protection when she does cheat. Not saying that I condone cheating, but I'm saying it's not about the cheating. It's about paternity fraud and people being reckless, so this would avoid all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:47 PM
3

Well then this may be something that needs to be discussed at every single birth, that a negative test can be because someone is a chimera, and that if a woman knows she didn't cheat then she should have either the child or herself tested for being a chimera.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:45 PM
6

Then the parent can be tested Either way the parent and child could be tested for the outlier situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:41 PM
4

I was asking if that was the case, not claiming it to be. Because if it's not then there's nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:41 PM
2

But in each case they can prove the child is a chimera so she can simply have a test done for that if she suspects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:39 PM
2

Oh I misread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:38 PM
9

Those are outliers and not the majority, and would have to be dealt with on a case by case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:36 PM
3

It's already out of control, it might as well benefit us, I mean they already have our dna so there's no stopping it at this point. So with that being said, is there any other reason you'd be against this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:35 PM
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If this could save actual children from being abused, then no I wouldn't have an issue with it, I KNOW that I wouldn't abuse my daughter, so sure if her getting checked means they check an actual abused child and save them, then I can swallow my pride for that. Honestly I wouldn't even have to because I know it's just a safe guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:33 PM
2

Now that I changed the flair, any problems with the whole ending paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:31 PM
4

Fine I changed it to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:30 PM
4

You taking about smashed sperm or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
3

So the government has access to the dna of every dna test thus far? Or every 23 and me test? (I know it's private but still) If the government wanted our dna they could get it either way without us knowing, from doctor visits etc. Hell they might already have our dna and not be telling us, even if it can solve a crime. But that being the thing from ending paternity fraud is sort of ridiculous in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:29 PM
13

People have had dna tests done before without being framed for crimes, I'm sure the government has access to the whole 23 and me thing even though it's a private company, also if not then it could be private testing. I think the whole government having someone's dna is sorta just an excuse in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:26 PM
3

But paternity fraud can end badly, people already get dna tests, why not just give one for every child that is claimed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:22 PM
9

Because some guys are too naive to even consider it and end up raising children that aren't there's, why are you so against a general rule? This would make paternity fraud impossible, and honestly the only reason someone would have a problem with this isn't because they feel their partner doesn't trust them. No, it would be because they aren't ready to give up the luxury of tricking dumb people into a responsibility that isn't theirs. Cheating is rampant, if you are married, but not a cheater, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:21 PM
5

That's naive thinking in my opinion, because tons of people end up in a paternity fraud case because they trusted their partners, this would nullify all that, so if someone isn't cheating around the time they conceive, then they should have no worries about this being the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:10 PM
2

I misread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:07 PM
0

That's not what she said tho, she said if you want to be friends with someone and sleep with them, then they are a partner, not a friend you just sleep with. Idk if she made a typo but that literally is a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:07 AM
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What you said doesn't make any sense literally. You said if you liked someone enough to want to fuck them, and be friends with them, then they're a partner, not a friend you sometimes fuck. What??? So what's the difference between a friend that you want to fuck, and a friend you want to fuck? You literally said the same thing but said one was different and it makes absolutely no sense, sorry I have to call you out on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:39 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:22 PM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:26 PM
3

You've never became friends with someone you've fucked? Or do you only have sex in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:25 PM
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Fair enough, also, I thought I explained it sorry if I didn't thoroughly enough. My mother told me that I shouldn't tell future partners about people I'm friends with that I used to hook up with, but I told her that I think full disclosure is good for relationships. So yeah I'd definitely tell the person. Reason being, if you have a close friend you hooked up with and have been friends with for years, then you meet a new girl for months, and start dating and cut your long-term friend off. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:24 PM
2

I'm only talking about friends that you used to sleep with, like friends with benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:06 PM
7

I don't think western society blames any gender for getting cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:07 PM
1

How old are you, and what age range of a woman are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:29 AM
1

I worked with several lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:55 AM
2

To each their own 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:36 AM
2

Who df is Robert Redford 🤣😭 I ain't never heard of that nigga in my life so he gotta be old. Edit: I googled and THIS MAN IS 85 YEARS OLD, GIRL YOU NEED TO CHILL 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:28 AM
6

Ight, at this point we're just arguing semantics lol, anyways I see ur pov and I think u see mines idk. Anyways, take care 💅😎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:20 AM
13

You literally called old men gross initially, and I think u said it to an older guy... 🤨🤔😵
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:17 AM
8

Fair enough, I'm just saying you shouldn't judge those who do I guess. I mean personally I wouldn't advise someone to date another person that much older, but I also wouldn't judge them nor their partner, we're all going to die, the least we can do is be nice to each other until we're in the dirt. Anyways, AYEEE fellow Gen Z 😎 ngl I used to think I was a millienial but nah born in 99 btw, wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:15 AM
3

Yeah agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:12 AM
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I mean sure it's not frequent, but you're saying that all girls our age think older guys are gross. I think that's speculative at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:11 AM
4

Why would you say she forced him??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:06 AM
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You don't speak for all the girls your age, just like how I can't speak for all black people, or one gay person can't speak for all gay people. You can voice your personal opinions but I know at least one girl my age that has told me she has a kink for older guys in their 60's. I make fun of her for it but yeah there are people out there that like that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:03 AM
2

There were a ton when the post first was up, I saw at least 10 so you didn't look hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:14 AM
1

I did it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:46 AM
1

I know how to edit a post, but how do I add the auto moderator?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:43 AM
1

How do I do that??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:38 AM
4

Yeah I agree it's something to be wary about, but then again you'd have to be wary about any partner lol. But yeah I probably wouldn't try to be in a serious relationship with someone way older because I still want kids someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:22 AM
4

Lmfao you wild 🤣 But to each their own uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:18 AM
15

This reddit post says otherwise 😭🙄🤣 Edit: the comment section I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:12 AM
9

Ikr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:08 AM
1

Lmfao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:21 PM
1

Glad I could make someone smile today :3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:43 PM
8

Not trying to sound sexist, and God I already know how this is already going to come off, but... I'd make them more decisive. I have a female friend that asks me what she should eat nearly everyday sometimes. Then there's this other girl that can't decide if she likes me, or just wants to fuck me. I have another female friend that said we could definitely hang out, but then back tracked and said no because in the past I've seen her nudes and her current fiance probably wouldn't like that, then s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:22 PM
2

I feel you, also yeah there's nothing wrong with changing your last name to your partners if you want that! Ngl I'd be touched if a girl was willing to take my last name lol. Anyways yeah my niece was adopted but they never changed her last name (like some dumbasses) and when she was 10 she felt left out and started asking questions. They eventually lied to her and told her she wasn't adopted but like, she's not dumb and she knows. She was adopted by my brother, her mom already had her from anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:42 PM
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That's what I'm saying, however people did mention that you don't have to change your last name, which I agree with it's a personal choice really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:27 PM
1

Ooooh true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:12 PM
1

Well I mean that's religious reasons, so I understand that. But I guess my question is more for none religious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:50 PM
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I mean depends on your upbringing. In Sweden it's common for some couples to stay together for life, have kids, and never get married. Also what do you mean walk away scott free? So if you were married and your husband wanted a divorce, you put him through some turmoil for daring to leave?? Lastly if my daughter's partner treated her right, then yeah I'd have no problem with this. Don't mean to make assumptions, but it seems you have a very Christian outlook, or that's the vibe you're giving me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:41 PM
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I like the Maya Angelou quote. Anyways people with divorced parents aren't worse off with those with married ones. Someone can have divorced parents that are healthy and coparent well, someone else could have unhappily married toxic parents. No broad generalizations can be made since it all goes based on couple by couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:24 AM
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Well leaving a relationship, and walking away from your family are two different things. If a couple are married for 10 years and then they both change and things aren't working out. If she decides to leave, or if he decides to leave the relationship, it doesn't mean they're leaving the kids. If a woman looked at her no longer being with the man romantically as the equivalent of him not wanting to be involved with his kids ( or worse, her deciding to make it hard or next to impossible for him to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:03 AM
1

None taken either 🙏💯❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:59 AM
1

That's fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:12 AM
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Eh, if they are I'll come to that road when I get there. The only thing I might receive from my parents is a house or two, one is average size, but needs some work done, the other isn't even fully paid for so I don't think they'll be super worried about the legitimacy of my kids since we aren't rich or anything lol. Even if they are I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get there, but if I had questions myself then I'd get a dna test done as well. Edit: That's assuming I'll even find a girl will…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:03 AM
2

How is it fraud? To have someone marry you in the eyes of God? You don't even have to get a real pastor, you could get like a friend. It's more ceremonial and spiritual. As for the rest of your points, they all make sense, I can't argue with you there. But I guess it's really about each couple, maybe they'll work out what they want to split amicably, or at least that's the idea. However, if they disagree then yes everything you said is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:58 AM
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I mean I can sign the birth certificate and legally be their parent without being married to the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:55 AM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:34 AM
5

Wait, is it also a red flag if a girl makes it clear that she doesn't want to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:31 AM
3

Ngl, I like your style. Sweet and simple 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:05 AM
3

Thanks, also got it! I didn't take it personally if you did though, I know a lot of people think that being above average is a thing we should all strive towards, but glad to hear you agree and think otherwise. Anyways, this conversation has been nice, you're really cool! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:58 AM
2

Wait I know what you mean, but the way you worded your sentence is like you're asking your one night stand to marry you xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:53 AM
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Oh also another thing I wanted to add, there's nothing wrong with being average. I mean it's better than being below average, and also not everyone will be above average, if so then the ones above average would simply become the new average haha. So you know I sorta take pride in landing in the middle on some of my traits, but I definitely do have some above average traits that I take pride in. Overall self love is good for everyone, even those below average on certain attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:51 AM
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Thnx!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:45 AM
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Didn't mean to offend you if I did lol, yes I agree it's not the same thing, but I relate more with the virgin community than I do with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:45 AM
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Oh well, as far as one of the reasons I want to reproduce is that I hate being a minority. So like why not help fix that problem by making a lot of money, and having a lot of kids. Like tbh that's my goal is to get rich, help other people in my community make money and fix our community. Then reproduce so much to the point where we are no longer the minority. That's a dream of mines atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:42 AM
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Girl did you ignore what I said 🤣 I said that I know it doesn't matter if I pass on my genes, but like it matters to me personally lol. I want there to be more people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:39 AM
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Lmfao, Average height (at least that's what r/short said when they said people of my height should leave) I have straight teeth, I actually got three sets, 1 baby set, and two full sets of adult teeth which sucked, happened to my sister too. Vision is fucked, but like glasses and contacts. I'm unnaturally strong, and pretty muscular even tho I don't work out, I plan to work out tho to build up my chest. In school people would tell me I had "virgin strength" because I was the strongest guy in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:36 AM
1

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:58 AM
4

Wait your response didn't make much sense to me, can you explain? What does having kids have to do with being legally married? What do you mean by not being insane or "recovering" when you're talking about not getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:47 AM
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Yeah, a name is just a name imo lol. All I care is that the kid is mine and my genes pass on to the next generation xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:45 AM
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Oooo, genuinely curious, what advantages are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:43 AM
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Ayyyye always nice to run into a like minded individual. Ngl I personally don't even care if my kids have my last name. I just want my genes to carry on personally. Even tho I know that itself doesn't matter too much either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:25 AM
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Sheesh I'm basically a virgin, I'm almost 23 and I only had sex once. XD Edit: not trying to flirt, just relating to you from lack of sexual experience, ngl I'm not the biggest fan of sex, I mainly want it with girls I feel close to in some way, if they find me attractive ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:09 PM
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It's 2022, women probably would have to fight too fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:14 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:12 AM
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Mutations occur in offsprings. If you get exposed to radiation you'll either get cancer and die, or get cancer, survive and possibly reproduce. But, if you reproduce your kids may have some harmful mutations. However, all humans have mutations, that's how evolution works. Whenever a sperm meets an egg the dna unravels and often there are minor mutations on genes. Some mutations get passed on especially if they are beneficial like our big brains. Some harmful mutations causes the offspring to die…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:05 AM
2

Happy cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:23 AM
0

Explain your viewpoint of both scenarios, like what would happen in each and why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:44 PM
2

It's okay pal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:18 PM
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It's depressing asf but tbh that's probably what would happen. Not to sound like a simp, but I see why some women probably hate men. Edit: Men would probably be getting raped and murdered too ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:16 PM
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That's not how starving to death works. Someone can be fat and starve to death faster than someone who is half their size. When your body doesn't take in enough calories you die from malnutrition. Fat people have died from malnutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:15 PM
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For saying that it's weird for someone to want women to die... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:31 PM
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The way you worded it sounded like you were wanting women to die, I still don't know if ur being sarcastic or not, anyways I think both are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:01 PM
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Yeah, but people in general work together, so if you and a group of guys work together to protect each other, if a woman wanted to join your group would let her? Like give her a gun and she protects you as much as you would for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:46 PM
3

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:43 PM
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You're right, just edited it to add women, wasn't really thinking it through, just rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:42 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:12 PM
1

I mean for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:11 PM
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YOU AGAIN! Lol how are you girl 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:43 AM
3

Actually I can get what you're saying, the person I met irl that was like this was stunted, but he was also high functioning autistic. He was cool for the most part but he managed to also piss people off with the things he said. I don't know if he was a danger but he was much taller than me and once made me uncomfortable with some things he said lol. I'm a guy btw, but I had one encounter with him that made me uncomfortable and me and him was alone in the store. Anyways overall he was alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:27 AM
5

Wait why do you assume they are dangerous and shouldn't be around women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:15 AM
1

Oh nah, I said guys into anime girls, to the point where they proclaim they're dating said fictional character.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:05 AM
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I like the thought you put into your response, btw I watch all those same YouTubers lol. I never knew arkada's wife had a face reveal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:04 AM
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Nah, just dudes falling in love with anime characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:53 AM
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The dude I knew is a year younger than me, so he's turning 22 this year while I'm turning 23
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:50 AM
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Do you think they're actually happy tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:48 AM
2

I imagine that it'd be lonely asf tho, but I guess no kids or stds?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:47 AM
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If someone doesn't like you and they like assholes, then you don't want them to like you because that means you'd be an asshole too. I think some girls like dudes to tease and annoy them, I make sure to get on the nerves of the girls I like, but in a fun way. Like the way friends do, I'll roast them when they do something that doesn't make sense or just for fun. XD gotta keep some excitement in people's lives. However, I never mistreat anyone, or talk down on them, I tell them they're beautiful,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:35 PM
1

I wouldn't mind dating either tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:41 PM
3

Yeah! It's good to be social occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:04 AM
1

I feel that 💯🙏🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:52 AM
3

I feel you, but if someone is single because they can't find anyone at the time and searching, I think that's okay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:52 AM
2

Thank you. 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:51 AM
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With no one judging yes, but in general for me no. 😭🤣 I mean I'm not a stud personally, I have been told I'm funny, and that's how I pull the few women I manage to pull in my life thus far. My style of comedy: being a dumbass 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:50 AM
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When I was like super single (no crushes, or potential love interest or anything) I used to watch hella anime, and eat pizza. Now this might sound sad asf (and it was partly a coping mechanism for me) but I think in that time I was probably happier than I was when I was chasing love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:48 AM
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Yeah, I think for me personally I'd like to be in a relationship. But for right now while I'm recovering from a bit of a heart break it might be best that I stay single lol. Ofc that's a common thing I know, but yeah for right now I'd like to think being single is bad. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:44 AM
1

I feel you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:36 AM
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Some nice coffee and a good book 😎 And peace of mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:36 AM
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Not judging, but why? My stance: Legal Marriage is simply getting the government involved in your relationship, why not get married spiritually in the eyes of God and among your community, but leave the state out of your private life? Again not trying to start an argument, just a discussion. I'm hoping/looking forward to hearing your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:29 PM
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Trueee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:59 AM
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And they don't have the women? 👀 🤣🤣🤣 Jokes, I'm just joking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:58 PM
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I get that, also I don't really have a lot of sexual experience but I do have a lot of relationship experience so that's probably why my grasp on love and sex is a bit off. I do have a high libido but I'm just not the sort of guy that gets to have sex all that often, and so far I've only had full on penetration sex with one girl. Everything else with the other two girls I was involved with intimately hasn't been like actual penetrative sex lol. Anyways, I really loved your response and the analo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:56 PM
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Lmfaoooo got it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:03 PM
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I grew up thinking to myself ( A man's job is to provide for a woman) and that was my belief. I've only been intimate with a handful of women and every single one of them expressed how they wanted to be independent, and was not interested in my money at all. Ofc I know that golddiggers exist (men and women) but I don't think Women are just out here spending all of their mans money, some do for sure. But for every woman like that I'm sure there's a bum ass man as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:03 PM
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This is refreshing, ok so this might sound weird coming from a man. But it sorta was depressing when I was starting to wonder if all relationships were built on sex, like is love not real?? 😭🤣 But I loved your response thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:00 PM
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So you claimed women are only with men for their money. But you're a woman and you clearly aren't with you man for his money since you pay for everything. Do you see the contradiction in your beliefs? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:59 PM
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You again 🤣 So would you say that you as a woman are mainly only attracted to men with money? I find you very interesting and your views even though I don't agree with them and I think men and women are equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:36 PM
1

Elaborate, what I'm asking is does sex play a big part in most people falling in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:33 PM
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I feel you 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:36 PM
1

Still weird imo for him to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:54 PM
1

That's completely fair! Also wtf? Why does he care if you use a dildo??? Some people are so insecure, one chick was like mad if her man ever uses a fleshlight and like why??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:00 PM
2

Ooo interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:12 PM
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You can clean your sex toys smh, you really came back here just to say one more negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:05 PM
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Ikr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:27 PM
1

Yeah ofc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:27 PM
1

And can you explain the part about the friend and the spouses? Not trying to be a dick but I genuinely don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:33 AM
3

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:30 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:23 AM
1

If your partner agrees then why not lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:16 AM
2

Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:24 AM
2

I feel you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:23 AM
4

Girl idk what kind of men you've been dealing with, but you don't deserve to be treated like this, regardless of how "high value" he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:10 AM
3

Samee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:36 AM
2

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:33 AM
2

I completely understand your viewpoint!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:33 AM
2

What do you mean a man can't cheat? Can you explain this further? Do you think women can cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:31 AM
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Ikr lmfao, so long as my partner was fucking me as much as the robot I'm with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:20 AM
4

Lmfaooooo damn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:19 AM
2

That's a good fucking point, maybe under the bed when you're not using it, or in a closet or a corner. Idk but yeah storing it would take some thought. Hell maybe it might need a bet itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:11 AM
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I like the way you think lol so liberal I love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:04 AM
3

Strong words haha. So off the topic of the sexbots. What are your opinions on people using sex toys in relationships? Like if a woman's partner isn't in the mood, in your opinion is it okay if she uses a dildo/vibrator? Also if a man's partner isn't in the mood, is it okay if he uses a dildo/fleshlight? I'm not saying this is at all similar to the sex bot it's not, this is a separate question haha. Curious on your opinions on sex toys in relationships when the other partner isn't in the mood but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:55 AM
6

That's a valid argument haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:44 AM
1

I mean true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:43 AM
3

I feel you, this is definitely a person to person sorta of thing, and I totally understand how you feel haha. You put your response beautifully btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:43 AM
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I respect your thoughtfulness for the well being of the robot. 💯🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:20 AM
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Just because you're on reddit doesn't mean you're broke and sad, some wealthy people use it. Also you said you know from experience, then I want to let you know that your situation can change! You won't always be broke and sad if you have hope, hard work ethic, and perseverance! Once things change come back and tell us about it. Anyways wish you the best from one fellow Redditor to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:07 AM
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You're here too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:57 AM
3

Why do you think I couldn't afford a robot if they came out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:54 AM
2

I can understand that, but what if the robot is programmed by nature to feel joy by making others feel joy, and doing whatever you wanted naturally pleased it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:53 AM
2

I totally agree with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:51 AM
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True, atleast the first generation exposed to something like that would think it's weird. After a while it might be more common, and people that were born always knowing this sort of thing was used might not think it's weird lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:49 AM
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I mean I don't have an emotional attachment with my fleshlight no ... And I think most women who are in relationships but uses dildos don't have an emotional attachment to their dildos or vibrators haha. Outside of the sex bot, you're saying sex toys in general are bad? Like women/men in relationships should never masturbate with a sex toy? If so do you think women/men in relationships should masturbate at all, or should any sexual gratification they receive come only from their partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:48 AM
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I agree with you about the part on using the doll more than you. If my girl had a sex bot but only fucked me once a week and fucked it the rest of the time, I think I'd be out lmfao. Otherwise, I think I'd be fine with the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:45 AM
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Oh also the sexbot could be programmed to go wash itself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:42 AM
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Lmfao, I mean he wouldn't get her pregnant, nor give her any stds. Plus he's a robot that you can tell to cook you dinner and do your dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:42 AM
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Yoooooo I highly fuck with your mentality. I think it'd for sure be up to each individual on whether or not they consider it cheating, but I personally don't think I'd have an issue if my partner fucked a sex bot. Ofc idk and wouldn't know until I was in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:41 AM
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Ahhh I feel you lol, that comment about men's hygiene is a bit rude tho because I'm sure men clean their sex toys, I clean mines 🤣 . Sorta like if a guy said a woman has bad hygiene and probably never cleans her sex toys is probably a bad generalization ya know. I'm sure there's people in both genders that have good/bad hygiene. As for the second part about "real pussy not being enough" I think it's not a bad thing for relationships to have sex toys involved. (This question is different because …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:39 AM
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So if you're single and one of these things come out, you're buying one and never dating again? Also maybe they might want an s/o to have kids or because they fall in love with them haha, not just for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:30 AM
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Lol, why? Like if these things came out and he asked you if he could get one, you'd say yes and dip? Instead of saying no and staying? Not judging just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:28 AM
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If a girl hits me, or damages my property, we're over. Cheating can be forgiven if and only if she comes clean before I catch her, if I catch her even if she was just about to come clean it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:53 AM
1

Yee sorry btw, I phrased the question that way to see what people would choose more if they had to pick. However, I'm not saying one is better than the other since everyone lives life their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:57 PM
1

Not if they are on the verge of killing themselves like 600 pounds. However if she got really heavy, but could at least still walk, I'd stay and try to help her turn it around so she won't die, but if they got so big they couldn't walk, and wasn't trying to fix it still then I'd leave, if they were trying to fix it and actually trying I'd stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 12:59 AM
1

I straight up tell girl's I'm interested and ask if they feel the same. If they say anything other than yes, I move on and look for someone else to give my attention to until I find someone that feels the same way. The girl I'm talking to now is interested but not sure if she wants a relationship, which ngl sorta bothers me. But tbf when we met we agreed it'd be casual and ofc I caught feelings first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:36 AM
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