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That's interesting. So you're stressing delivery above all else (including content).
/r/seduction25/05/11 07:05 PM
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So as your telling a story, more people would be engaged? Sounds about right. One problem may be my storytelling skills are a bit rusty, but nonetheless thanks for the suggestion.
/r/seduction25/05/11 06:19 PM
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What got you here in the first place? What was going on in your life when you discovered the seduction community? What got me here was curiosity. Back in the day, my friend read The Game and mentioned how it's used to get girls. I never had any female friends, and all the girls I had a crush on came and gone because I was too shy. I was skeptical of the book at first and just entered college, so decided "What the hell!" and gave it a shot. As I read more into the book, I fell in love with it and…
/r/seduction20/04/11 09:11 PM
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I like what you're doing. Be careful though; there's a fine line between being the "creepy guy who asks random random girls to lunch" and "the awesome/friendly guy who just seems to know everyone."
/r/seduction09/04/11 08:03 AM
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Hey maximumunlimited, you don't need anyone's approval if you look good or not (especially from random people online). You have an awesome look and a great smile. And as a fashion advice, wear something that portrays you and you feel good about.
/r/seduction03/04/11 09:18 PM
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I feel like having a strong identity is essential for inner/natural game. If you agree, how long did it take and what transitions have you made to develop your identity?
/r/seduction25/02/11 06:30 AM
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Cracked actually has a (somewhat justified) stigma against PUAs. But some of their writers suck with women. http://www.cracked.com/blog/what-i-learned-about-online-media-by-interviewing-pornstars/ also, I hear blue is the color to wear http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-to3B5gylH0 (dating science)
/r/seduction03/02/11 03:05 AM
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He’s totally facing her here. Very awkward. Is it bad to be directly facing your target?
/r/seduction16/01/11 05:22 AM
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I'm a little confused by this advice too. I feel like predictability and monotony are a real relationship killer. But at the same time, I don't like to think that you would have to change your style around, because you're trying to satisfy her reality. Perhaps if she finds you to predictable and has you figured out, and she is bored of you; maybe it isn't a good match?
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:16 AM
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Kind of lame to look up how to do a basic human function, but I'm guilty of it too. Hope this helps. http://www.lisashea.com/lisabase/skincare/smile/smileexerciselips.html
/r/seduction13/01/11 07:41 AM
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To be honest, I'm kind of incoherent to write a proper response, but I understand what you mean. The things I said before are far from universal truths; they're merely just observations. Also, don't forget the amount of sex a women has prior when discussing the "attachments" to sex. I'm guessing that women that are virgins or do not have sex very often are more prone to greater commitment and perceive sex as more valuable.
/r/seduction12/01/11 03:46 PM
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I feel like girls commit a lot when they have sex. For men, not so much; for women though, I feel like they have to truly like a guy to have sex.
/r/seduction12/01/11 03:28 PM
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If you learned something, then it isn't a failure.
/r/seduction12/01/11 03:22 PM
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Girls will fuck guys they don’t want to date and they will like guys they don’t want to fuck. I don't believe this is true....Anyone here care to disagree/agree?
/r/seduction12/01/11 08:20 AM
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Sound advice, thanks!
/r/seduction11/01/11 09:35 AM
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Awesome read. It definitely seems like there is a lot of amog/cockblock attempts which makes Japan an interesting place. Which then makes me wonder if Japan is the most difficult place to "game." Also, I feel like with AMOG attempts, you always have to be witty and quick thinking which scares me. Is it ever possible to just ignore them (and say nothing)?
/r/seduction11/01/11 09:11 AM
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I agree. Upvoting this post will only give seddit a bad reputation.
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:43 AM
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Actually, I've been doing some thinking, and MM M3 model seems very linear and definite. To me, it seems to be fun -> to serious -> then closing. Do you use this method verbatim Delightful_white?
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:09 AM
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Thanks. I always viewed those terms as interchangeable, but I guess they are not.
/r/seduction07/01/11 03:39 AM
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I have a question about this line... I made a mistake to jump right into comfort without re-igniting attraction What's the difference between comfort and attraction? I view the two terms as being kind of the same. Can you give an example of each of them?
/r/seduction07/01/11 02:53 AM
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I think if you have enough inner game; outer game doesn't matter. Just imagine a person so confident, endearing, charismatic, easygoing, and fun that everybody just wants to be with him. That person wouldn't need routines or lines.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:15 AM
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I'm down. Invite please!
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:11 AM
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What's more to say really? I am generalizing though. But really, in DC, people really do frequently talk more about jobs more so than other cities. I guess people take pride in what they do.
/r/seduction06/01/11 06:08 AM
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I personally think Day Game is different from night game through its difficulties. PS. I noticed the text too and how he didn't immediately respond. Little subtleties are cool to spot.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:49 AM
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Blam. also I've been reading "Influence: Science and Practice," and you can apply some of it's methods in real life. For example, if you can get them to admit something, they will be consistent with that label. Ask them, "You're not one of those stuck up DC natives who only cares about their job, right?" If she says yes (likely), then she will be more open and hopefully less stuck up. Bonus: you can make her qualify by asking "What do you that makes you so fun then?" or etc.
/r/seduction06/01/11 05:46 AM
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I'm going to enjoy this influx of females seducing men. It really does shed new light.
/r/seduction06/01/11 02:33 AM
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Kinda. DC is really political, and lots of people just work for the government in one way or form. I guess when people all of similar/successful jobs, it makes them boring.
/r/seduction06/01/11 02:09 AM
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Agreed, building comfort rapport is really important if you wanna hit the heavy subjects.
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:38 PM
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Yeah, DC isn't as lively as some other cities (LA, NYC, or Miami). But it didn't seem to hold you back!
/r/seduction05/01/11 05:21 PM
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Dressing better and hitting the gym is the best way to offset these "disadvantages." But my philosophy is that having looks can only help you. If you're not as "good looking" as some people, that just means you have to work harder (be more charismatic, fun, and etc). As for dressing better, I found this IAMA thread really helpful in the clothes i wear. http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/e3wlm/iama_personal_stylist_for_men_i_teach_men_how_to/
/r/seduction04/01/11 10:17 PM
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A female subreddit would be awesome. I definitely think you should be a moderator of it, LesbianPUA.
/r/seduction04/01/11 10:10 PM
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Appreciate the effort puzzlecracker!
/r/seduction04/01/11 10:06 PM
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I feel kind of noob asking this, but I don't have enough reputation to chat. What's the deal?
/r/seduction04/01/11 10:00 PM
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Seems kind of passive, but whatever! So....is it true?
/r/seduction04/01/11 01:48 AM
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I know what you meant. But if you really want to destroy his soul, you attack his wallet first.
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:34 PM
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This times a thousand. Before I got into seduction, I had no idea how girls convey interest.
/r/seduction03/01/11 09:04 PM
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I cannot upvote you enough sir. Female friends provide the worst pickup/dating advice. I heard a PUA analogy regarding advice from naturals vs people who learned the game (hard way). It was a quote from a deadlifting champion after breaking the world record. The reporter asked him how he did it, and he replied "I just picked it up." It the exact same thing with girl advice; they'll say be confident, be good looking, but it's all vague. They actually never tell you the steps or how to become conf…
/r/seduction03/01/11 05:54 AM
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Yup, I agree. When some people come in with preconceived notions to this subreddit, they will pick out/search for the things that offends them. It can suck time to time, but whatever!
/r/seduction03/01/11 05:47 AM
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Get to know her. Follow all the regular seddit advice (confident, relax, talk loud and good paced) and get to know her. Best line for picking up people in service is saying something like "Does it really suck working here?" and take it from there.
/r/seduction30/12/10 10:23 PM
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I CAN USE THIS PERSON TO BUY ME FREE MEALS AND GIFTS?! AWWWWWWWWWWWWW YEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAA
/r/seduction30/12/10 09:08 AM
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Lol, I saw your comment of "avoid seddit at all costs" To this day, I still have mixed feelings of seddit slowly getting popular. Helping people is cool and all, but so is being in an exclusive club :D
/r/seduction30/12/10 09:04 AM
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Wow, I use to believe in the advice of "just be yourself," but that shit is trite and cliched. I stopped "being myself" when I discovered I was a pretty shit person to begin with. People, do not "just be yourself". If you're a horrible person with low social skills, confidence, and self-respect, then somethings gotta change. If your not making yourself better, what's the point of living?
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:58 AM
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That's disgusting that men do that. Girls want the complete opposite of that....wait a seco...
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:53 AM
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I find mystery as more of a bricklayer of the PUA. But other than that, I believe there are much better PUAs out there.
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:44 AM
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You have 2 ways to approach this "Lets go somewhere we can be alone" obviously means sex for the girl; she knows it, and it really does add pressure. So, like in the video, have a reason to bring her back. It could be a stupid reason, but something like "Let's go back to my place and cuddle! :D" can be that much better. The other way you can approach this is by using this as a time constraint. Are you traveling or visiting temporarily? If so, AWESOME! Say something like, "I'm leaving in (blah da…
/r/seduction30/12/10 08:34 AM
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1.To go out more 2.Become a genuine kind of person, where I will have interest in everyone
/r/seduction29/12/10 06:56 PM
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Sounds like you have logistical issues. I highly recommend watching Adam Lyon where he talks about issues outside gaming. It's a long video, but is really helpful in figuring what's wrong in the situation (as oppose to game) http://www.the21convention.com/2009/09/28/afc-adam-lyons-t21c-2009/
/r/seduction29/12/10 06:49 PM
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I think showing off knowledge/intelligence is a major DHV. But if you're doing it and it's alienating them, then something is seriously wrong. Unless you can go into more details like an example, then that's all I can say.
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:44 AM
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Glad you agree. Just make sure you sound awesome and can follow through on it. You don't wanna say "I make the best pancakes!" followed by feeding her flattened turds.
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:39 AM
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Also watch out for nervousness; I think that's a major giveaway when girls are trying to pick you up, like the aforementioned This might be a weird question but, do you get hit on all the time? Hearing girls say "Uhm" is a major dead giveaway, especially when it is like "Uhm.....so [question about you]?" Usually, it will be paired with a shaky kinda tone.
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:36 AM
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Cooking. Being able to cook is not only a major DHV, but a practical hobby that you can seriously do everyday (unlike skydiving or other eccentric hobbies). Plus, cooking together is an awesome cheap date activity. For anyone who is not a master chef, this is a PDF I found awhile ago filled with cheap/delicious recipes. http://bitshare.com/files/26i998ua/redditfoodpdf.pdf.html
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:29 AM
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I apologize, I meant "bottom right" on the title. But anyways, AA represents the top left, where you have low skill and approaching a beautiful target can be challenging. I'm saying that you should be on the right side of the spectrum, where your skill is high (preferably the bottom right). When the target is not challenging and your skill is high, you are relaxed. As you progress upwards on the right side the target becomes more challenging, but since your skill is up there, your state of mind …
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:13 AM
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I know what you mean; when I got into this, I was pretty bad and it was pretty much just overload. But you have to understand that your progress is not linear; you get as much as you put into it. So what do you do? Try to expose yourself as much you can. Even when you burn the fuck out, keep still going out. Because it's worth it at the end. Hope this helps!
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:00 AM
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Yeah, seriously. Really strong direct game is probably works if she has heard of you (ie. Celebrities and etc.).
/r/seduction28/12/10 09:36 AM
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Definitely know one. One of his facebook posts was something on the lines of "I'm sitting in a dark corner of a party on my phone." I really wanted to bitch slap this mofo because he's a overall nice guy.
/r/seduction27/12/10 08:00 AM
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There are a lot of witty retorts, but I like (and trying for) the genuine (guy) approach. Whenever somebody talks smack (i catch myself doing it too) and they look at me for a response, I say "I try not to speak badly of anyone. I only talk about the good things." If you can say this 100% genuinely and they respond well, not only did you demonstrate an awesome characteristic, but you also found an awesome person.
/r/seduction27/12/10 02:40 AM
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Kinda makes me thankful I found PUA stuff before all that shitty relationship/pick-up advice from the opposite gender. I have a friend who started out reading crap like this (which never worked) and now is a misogynist because it never worked. I, on the other hand, have gained much more respect towards women because I have such a better understanding of them. But I digress...
/r/seduction27/12/10 02:10 AM
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I haven't used this personally, but I hear one easy way is to associate something interesting about them to their name/face (like a unique hobby or talent). Not only does this create conversation and help you remember names, but also allows people to qualify for you (and creates potential negs such as "Awww, that's not interesting at all!")
/r/seduction25/12/10 05:55 AM
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Speaking of physical pulls, the physical distance between you and her also matters too. I accidentally negged chicks like 100 feet away, and then realized that there was no way I could pull them back in physically.
/r/seduction25/12/10 05:51 AM
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To be honest, I don't like reading FR's because most of the time I'm like TL;DR. But yours was really solid. Some good takeaways for me were Get the number early If you pick up an existing conversation, it’s important to KEEP WALKING while making eye contact and saying it. Wait until they respond before you stop walking. You should get in the habit of opening a set over your shoulder rather than directly facing them.
/r/seduction25/12/10 05:47 AM
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The mentality you should have is that it's her loss. But if anything, talk to your mutual friend to set something up (not a date), so you guys can all hangout/have fun.
/r/seduction24/12/10 07:17 AM
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I thought luck was a major factor (she has to pick up phone, she sees one of her friends and has to go, etc), but then I realized if you have enough skill, then luckiness/unluckiness doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction24/12/10 06:59 AM
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Agreed. You want to be fun and lively, but there is inevitably that women will complain at some point of a conversation. It's just up to you to lend an ear.
/r/seduction23/12/10 12:49 AM
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No problem! There are differences in listening between genders, so I found this really helpful in gaining respect from men and closing the emotional distance with women.
/r/seduction23/12/10 12:47 AM
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I agree; there's always a ton of input from this guy.
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:30 PM
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niiiiiiiiiiiiiiice So, uhhh, when are you selling lessons? :P
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:11 PM
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Yeah, 2 new moderators would be great for the community. If you guys could put in a introduction for AFCs, it would help take out a lot of bad/AFC posts.
/r/seduction18/12/10 02:53 AM
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A little direct, but that's cool. I like hearing different approaches.
/r/seduction16/12/10 03:14 PM
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Haha, true true. I never said worship them!
/r/seduction15/12/10 04:59 AM
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Whenever I feel AA, I then force myself to talk to whomever. As soon as you feel that anxiety, then you have to approach. It's the only way it will go away.
/r/seduction15/12/10 04:57 AM
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Yo, awesome advice. Upvote for you
/r/seduction15/12/10 04:44 AM
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Good advice!
/r/seduction14/12/10 11:14 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one.
/r/seduction14/12/10 11:14 PM
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Are you me? I have trouble with names and faces, so I just simply ask "What's your name" Look Offended "It's Blah" "Nah, c'mon, I'm better than that. I meant your last name"
/r/seduction14/12/10 11:11 PM
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I can see what you're saying. But what if she is actually talking, not texting?
/r/seduction14/12/10 05:25 PM
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I liked it. I can see how true this is. As a PUA newbie, this is just another reminder to respect all women; they are normal people, no matter how ridiculously good looking they are.
/r/seduction14/12/10 03:55 PM
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Also, too many jokes appearing in Seddit is putting the good advice towards the bottom of the page. Sure, jokes are funny, but too many times I have seen it as the top rated comment.
/r/seduction14/12/10 05:23 AM
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I think this is very true. And it lowers prostate cancer depending on age. http://www.webmd.com/prostate-cancer/news/20090127/masturbation-and-prostate-cancer-risk
/r/seduction14/12/10 05:20 AM
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I think if you're a fun and funny guy, then your funny pictures will best highlight your personality. Some people say that having few friends on fb is fine, but I honestly think having a lot of friends is social proofing. But if there are a lot of girls on your wall, and multiple women you are after, then that could be a problem. There is no need to have a fake Pierce Brosnan persona with little friends if that's not what you are. But having pictures of you throwing up isn't necessarily DHVing y…
/r/seduction14/12/10 04:12 AM
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Clubs are more physical, and you have to be loud. Pull girls in when you want to talk, and if you see girls eyeing you, just dance with them. But yeah, seriously stick with ones that highlight your personality; but getting practice in different environments is good.
/r/seduction14/12/10 04:07 AM
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Not sure why you got downvoted, but really true. Online dating has its ups and downs, but you can really get some experience and fun if you are willing to put in effort.
/r/seduction11/12/10 07:10 AM
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If you read more of the subreddit instead of quickly judging it, then you'll that a lot of it is just really shy guys who are bad girls. So yeah, banging is a reward- but not the sole goal.
/r/seduction11/12/10 07:05 AM
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But who lies more!? Girls or guys?!
/r/seduction11/12/10 07:02 AM
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Look good, I mean, really fucking good. Carry yourself very well, but don't be snobby. And talk to everyone. That's it. I believe there a female version of "The Game" but can't remember the name of it.
/r/seduction11/12/10 06:41 AM
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Good job man. Really subtle but strong use of push/pull man. Would upvote again, A+++++
/r/seduction11/12/10 06:33 AM
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Comments from AFCs aren't helping this subreddit.
/r/seduction05/12/10 10:05 AM
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"I love her, can't get over her, but am stuck." God, I fucking hate these posts. This is AFC shit. Go to AskReddit or some other shit so you can get shit advice from them about relationships. Until then, man the fuck up.
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:13 PM
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Kino Escalate until you get slapped or freak someone out. You'll find out that your preconceived barriers to touchings are much more limited then it should be.
/r/seduction13/11/10 04:44 AM
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This. Give her shit, and be like "I don't even know if I wanna hang out with anymore" (with a fucking grin). If she still blows you off, move on.
/r/seduction13/11/10 02:13 AM
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Approach, conversation, and exposure.
/r/seduction12/11/10 01:45 AM
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Here's my 2 cents Criticism: Wtf is your problem? Are you in middle school? Why the hell would you tell someone besides your target? ESPECIALLY, WHEN YOU HAVE NO FUCKING IDEA IF SHE ATTRACTED TO YOU. Now you look like you have no confidence/creep, a major turnoff. Solution: Don't bring it up. Act like it never happened. Still be the cool guy. If that doesn't work, just move on; it's her loss.
/r/seduction12/11/10 01:41 AM
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Seriously, get shit that you like. If you surround yourself with cool looking shit, but you have no interest or liking in it, then you might as well be throwing away your money. Seriously, if you like comic books, outdoors, or whatever, then show it. And make sure you talk about it like its the shit.
/r/seduction11/11/10 05:16 PM
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When people talk about HB6 or HB10s, this is what I think of. What do you guys think?
/r/seduction11/11/10 04:56 PM
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