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| 126 | I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM FathersWhat a cool post this is 🤗 I'm pear-shaped, which is great for a big booty but not so much for the boobs. I've wanted to get breast implants ever since I realized that my A/B cups were as big as things were going to get lmao. But I never had an extra $15k+ for the subtle quality C cups I always dreamed of. Now, at 37, after finally learning to love myself and my body... I'm glad I never had the money (and even if I did, I'd rather put it toward my son's future college fund). I love my small boob… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 55 | Why can’t they support women like women support their partners?I'm so sorry to hear you went through that ❤️ and that ex fucking sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 12:24 PM |
| 398 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysGoddamn. It's pretty early to start discussing Clown of the Year nominations lol but... I think the asshole category might be taken 🤡🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:30 AM |
| 24 | It is NOT about "Finally finding the perfect HVM so that I can have my happily ever after" - It is about prioritizing YOUR HAPPINESS no matter what happens.Awww I really needed this message tonight 🥲 Thank you for writing & sharing this powerful, awesome post ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 11:22 PM |
| 16 | "Trust is the most valuable thing you can give away"Cool, hadn't heard of this series til your post. It sounds awesome! Great recommendation write-up ❤️ thanks OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:16 PM |
| 34 | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentTurn his nasty ass in. No one deserves to deal with that kind of skeezy nonsense at work. Do it for yourself, do it for all of the women he's very likely harassed in the past, and do it to prevent him from harassing women in the future (at least at this workplace). And personally document everything (I recommend emailing yourself so it has a date/time stamp) in case management doesn't follow through on their promises. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Roe will likely be overturned.Awww thanks lol 🥰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Roe will likely be overturned.That's fucking awesome ❤️🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 37 | Roe will likely be overturned.Well, we have to make it work. Somehow 😂 🤷♀️ cuz we don't want to lose ground on such a slippery slope. We can't. Too much potential pain and trauma and death are at stake. I suck at saving, but this is actually inspiring me to finally start that emergency fund Dave Ramsay talks about lmao - save up for the upcoming "Oh HELL No" 2022 women's strike across America 👭👭👭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:33 AM |
| 14 | Roe will likely be overturned.Omgggg does all of this make my blood boil. As if healthcare isn't FUCKED enough here already--- Hey! Let's reintroduce BACK ALLEY ABORTIONS! 🇺🇸🦅 I'm done I'm done 😂🤦♀️😂 going to bed, thanks for great discussion as usual ladies, & thanks for your great post, OP ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:11 AM |
| 13 | Roe will likely be overturned.There's no need to apologize for cussing Well thank fucking God for that 😂😂😂 No for real, thank you for saying that ❤️ And you're right.... it's frightening. I hope things somehow go okay lol 🤷♀️😂😂😂 But if they don't, I'm sure as fuck not going gently into that patriarchy-poisoned night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:04 AM |
| 30 | Roe will likely be overturned.Well.................fuck lol 🤷♀️ So it goes. I'm sorry, too, that we women have so much on our plates already, with stacks & more dirty stacks forever piling up around us. I figure we all just gotta do what we can to support each other and lift each other up, in little ways, big ways, whichever ways we can manage ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 53 | Roe will likely be overturned.I'm sorry you were sexually assaulted ❤️ I'm sorry that another person's actions have distorted sex for you ❤️ I hope that that's a temporary distortion ❤️ and I'm happy to boycott with you 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:27 AM |
| 22 | Roe will likely be overturned.I'm such a loudmouth when I get pissed off 🤷♀️😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:55 AM |
| 15 | Roe will likely be overturned.Shit 🤦♀️ watching the Bachelorette makes me cry my eyes out, so this show will just destroy me 🤷♀️😂 thank you for the heads up ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:33 AM |
| 53 | Roe will likely be overturned.My mom's been warning me of the same thing since Kavanaugh was added but I haven't really... believed that we would be reaching the point where one state would actually ban it, let alone the Whole. Fucking. Country. I've been staying on top of voting, thank God, but I'm always so busy & don't make time for the news enough & big shit is happening all the time & now this has snuck up on me. ...Which is crazy, because abortion has always been such a complex/troubling/important issue for me (as it i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 492 | Roe will likely be overturned.FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK. Well oh fucking well. Like many women, I love (LOVE) me some sex lol; but as God is my witness, if abortion is federally outlawed in this stupid fucking country, I vow to share this bombass pussy with no man. Not a one. Not even Chris fucking Hemsworth is getting closer to me than six proper feet of social fucking distance. And I would hope, and honestly expect, that a shitload of my fellow American women would also boycott ALL sex whether single or in a relationship (exc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 33 | Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓Inconsistent communication (especially when it's exacerbated to the point where you straight-up feel ignored) is soooooooooo fucking inconsiderate. And deliberate. And immature as all-Hell. ....He's either not interested in you anymore (and too cowardly to tell you like a grownass adult), or he's interested but willfully choosing to play some dumbass, self-serving game with your head & your heart. Fuck. That. Noise. ..........Good for you for protecting yourself from any future nonsense from tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 51 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?And I want to burn society to the ground and begin anew with some sort of Amazonian-style culture lol 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:57 PM |
| 130 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Didn't know about MGK, but I've heard plenty about Drake re: Millie Bobbie Brown and other underaged girls/CHILDREN 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 242 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?I've only known him as the sometimes-funny, generally-troubled, ghostly-looking SNL guy who somehow pulled Ariana Grande lol (and lately Kim K??) 🤷♀️ but thanks, now I also know he's a piece of shit 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 395 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Pete Davidson is the dream now? FML 🙄🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 10:13 PM |
| 159 | The Media Hates Women: TV Title EditionI've noticed that my local news channels basically recycle attractive young female meteorologists every few years or so. Like... their contracts must end the day they turn 30 🙄🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:41 AM |
| 95 | The Media Hates Women: TV Title EditionGreat post/list. I loved how Tina Fey highlighted (and hilariously mocked) this misogynistic ridiculousness with the "MILF Island" subplot on 30 Rock. ...Which, honestly, just sounds like a very realistic show that could be on this list 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:38 AM |
| 155 | Live action Cowboy Bebop won't dress Faye as scanty as original, actress speaks outThis reminds me of Elizabeth Olsen speaking out about her disliking how revealing her original Scarlet Witch costume was in the Avengers movies, which led to her getting a much more covered, and way cooler IMHO, outfit for her tv show WandaVision. Speak up & speak loudly, ladies 🗣❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 56 | What made you finally decenter men from your life?Thank you ❤️ Reading through these comments (& OP's post itself of course) it looks like a lot of us have been through pretty much the same dating/relationship disappointments 🙄🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:08 AM |
| 560 | What made you finally decenter men from your life?Finally realizing that my "romantic" relationships have been an ongoing primary destabilizer throughout my life. So much chaos and trauma and disappointment. I'm happier, healthier, and more centered, the more I decenter men from my priorities/attention 🤷♀️🙂🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 52 | A hearty thank you to this communityThank you for writing this post ❤️ reading it made me feel really happy 🥰🤗 for you, for me, for all of us here on FDS... getting a little smarter/wiser & stronger, post by bombass post. Love y'all ❤️ & OP -- good for fucking youuuu Sis 🥰🤗🥳 I'm toasting the last of my Merlot to you heeey 😂🍷🍷🍷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:55 AM |
| 35 | Y’all do not be hating LVM enough for me.Ohhhh okay. It's been a while since I've read the handbook & I've had in the back of my head the general idea that FDS was against OLD. Thank you for the clarification ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 70 | I can't help itThe micropenis never lies 🤷♀️ *****edit -- actually.....for real though 😮😂😂 any guy I dated with an extra petite dick turned out to be a TOTAL FUCKING PSYCHO 😱🤷♀️😂 I'm talking raaaandom, like, when the psycho reveal happens, I'm not even actually upset about it - more like, bemused at how the fuck I didn't see this coming 🤦♀️😂🙄🙄🙄🤦♀️😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 80 | I can't help itCan we talk about whatever the fuck that scooter-hybrid-"motorcycle" janky thing is that tops out at 35mph... and the men who boldly, proudly scoot along in them, dead center of the 45mph no-passing one-lane road, without a care in the fucking world for whoever the fuck is running late to work behind them? ....or is this one just my own private asshole pet peeve 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:11 PM |
| 26 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 36 -Barstool Sport‘s Dave Portnoy: Let‘s Roast This (Alleged) RapistThank you so much. I love what I do. It's the best job ever 🤷♀️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 97 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 36 -Barstool Sport‘s Dave Portnoy: Let‘s Roast This (Alleged) RapistI mean, colostomy bags are actually simple yet amazingly useful/necessary/clean marvels of modern science & engineering. As a nurse, I happily empty them often... I say "happily" because I use that time carefully building up the self-esteem of my patients with ostomies (colostomies, ileostomies, etc). Those patients almost universally feel disgusting. They're not 🙂 Heck, even poop isn't gross to me 🤷♀️😂💩 it's an efficient & crucial way to eliminate waste from our bodies once we've extracted all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:56 PM |
| 66 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.Haaa that made me snicker 😂🤣 & your mother got it dead on, that's for sure lol ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 407 | Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone”I don't friendzone any guys, ever. I cut them loose quick - not quite a full block & delete, in case we share mutual friends/colleagues... more like bare minimum courteous contact. Acquaintance-zone, so to speak 😂 I learned long ago that guys who "settle" for friendship are rarely a true friend; they're more like vultures patiently circling your love life, seeking whatever scraps they can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 91 | The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering.A 55 year old somehow snuck through ALL of my filters yesterday with this travesty (and this is verbatim): "Hey babe 🌹 i kno what your thinking. But like my life motto- your never to old to have fun 😉" ...What... Just WHAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 168 | The maze I went through to find ONE seemingly HVM on OLD. The statistics are staggering.Ughhhhhhhh the GRAMMAR!!! If I get one more fucking message that says "Your so pretty," I'll... I'll... hopefully delete the dang app once and for all 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:10 PM |
| 60 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.That post in general just made me wince; any social media posts that cry out for attention (and this one ends in a literal plea for attention, good Lord) make me wince, let alone this airing of embarrassingly dirty laundry. IMHO high-value women keep their social media clean, classy, and well-edited. And to be clear: I'm not saying social media should be "fake." I'm saying: one can be authentic and real without needlessly sacrificing one's dignity 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 49 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...This is just so bizarre & cruel & sad/infuriating af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 50 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Gross 😂😂😂 wtf 🤦♀️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:05 PM |
| 26 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...I know 🤦♀️😂😂😂🙄 Ughhh I know 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 28 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Yes. Don't be like me. I do not recommend 🤦♀️😂 Save yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:13 PM |
| 46 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...The ones with depth are psychos. IMHO 🤷♀️😂 or in my awful experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 49 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...It's depressing omfg 🙄🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:03 PM |
| 136 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightThe professional pics actually weird me out 😂 like, it makes sense to me if you hire a photographer for family pics, or newborn pics, or senior yearbook pics... but hiring a photographer to snap pics of just you, a 45 year old man in a variety of polo shirts, posing awkwardly in your backyard/on your bland staircase/swinging a golf club? No 😂 No no no no no no 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 04:05 PM |
| 81 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightOmfg 🤦♀️🙄🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:18 PM |
| 72 | 15 years old and already and already mentally ahead of 99% of adult men.And even with their own personal benefit as incentive........... many of them still fail, & fail quickly 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 47 | Narcissists, No Contact and the Spaghetti Technique - EsteemologyThat fictional example of a text convo was a liiiiiiiiittle too real for me lol 🤦♀️ gives me like emotional flashbacks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:04 AM |
| 370 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️His porn stache + Rachel haircut is an absolutely alarming combo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 36 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?This one is so fucking important & has been SUCH a gamechanger for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:30 PM |
| 66 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢Ugh, none of my insanity fits were temporary enough 🙄🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 113 | FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behaviours"There's LVM, there's also LVW" Preach, sis! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.Y'all 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.Yeah I adore the elderly & my dad so this part GOT me 😭🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:26 AM |
| 7 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.This is the most adorable fucking thread 😭🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:25 AM |
| 7 | Help, I think my sister is not in a great relationship and realizing it and I don't know how to helpOkay cool, I'm glad you're being careful with your own boundaries in this situation. Maybe I'm projecting my own empathy-boundary/hero complex issues onto you 😂😂😂 Again, good luck & best wishes to you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:54 AM |
| 18 | Help, I think my sister is not in a great relationship and realizing it and I don't know how to helpDo what you can, Sis. All you can do is what you can do 🤷♀️🙂 I think one of the most difficult things that I'm working on these days is not giving away every scrap of myself to my loved ones. Give what you can give to your sister without losing your own peace of mind. At the end of the day, it's up to her what choices she'll make with her own life. I do wish both of you lots of luck, & hope that you both pursue your own happiness & health ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:42 AM |
| 37 | How Men Coerce Women into Domestic SlaveryLove you too Sis ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:25 AM |
| 42 | Help, I think my sister is not in a great relationship and realizing it and I don't know how to helpLiterally just the two words "very charismatic" set off mad alarm bells for me, due to a recent experience I had with a "very charismatic" narcissistic (and possibly sociopathic) NVM I dated, who turned out to have another girlfriend the whole time we were "exclusively dating." As far as how to help your sister, I'd say (IMHO): 1) be there for her as someone who she can trust, confide in, & vent to 2) recommend/assist her with seeking out a therapist/counselor 3) offer your viewpoint/advice when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:22 AM |
| 281 | How Men Coerce Women into Domestic Slavery"Refuses to take responsibility for finances, household duties and for own children" ...uhhhhh yep! I can pinpoint to the week when my ex-husband began his affair: when he stopped assisting with checking the mail, partnering with paying bills, & assisting with the housework, and began out-of-the-blue dropping off our baby at his parents' house while I was working in the evenings (he worked during the day) to get more "me time/time with his friends." And when I confronted him about feeling overwh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 38 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Very true 😂👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:54 AM |
| 99 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.100% agree with all of this & congrats on feeling fully awake! ❤️🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 143 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Good for you!!! ❤️ Compared to my life, you're ahead of the game 👍🤗 I think I truly starting enjoying just being me, with my body & mind & heart, when I was 33... not-so-coincidentally the year I got divorced 😂🤷♀️🙌🤗 ...And at 36 (current age), FDS has helped me reach an even better way of living: truly focusing on self-care & self-respect for the first time ever. Better late than never, my fellow awesome ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:19 AM |
| 706 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.One of the best parts about getting older is giving fewer & fewer fucks about others' unnecessary & fruitless opinions (such as anything related to being too old for whatever the fuck I want to do 🤷♀️😂). ...Not to say that I've become less empathetic; that's the cool thing about maturity - I'm more empathetic than ever, but I'm discerning about who to give away my empathy to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 134 | Leveling up this weekMy leveling-up plan for the week is returning to the mantra I made for myself three months ago, when I chose to stop dating for a while. I almost slipped up last week, but I'm back on track now. My mantra a.k.a. my own personal 4 Agreements: 1) Don't date; wait 2) DO NOT DATE! Just don't fucking do it 3) Be kind to yourself 4) Remember to breathe & relax those shoulders, girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 12 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Ben & Leslie are so sweet & lovely 🥺❤️ My ex always talked about how annoying Leslie was, but I always loved Leslie's strong girl power vibes, even when I was full-PickMe... I think it's very revealing of my ex 🤡 & of Ben for him adoring Leslie for exactly how she is 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:05 PM |
| 15 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Awww that's true ❤️ I love Jerry 😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 31 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.Okay good point 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:01 AM |
| 110 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.Girth. Is. EVERYTHING. mic drop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:57 AM |
| 89 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Shit do you know Kanye too?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 70 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Who hurt you? ......was it Chris Pratt 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 52 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Weird flex but okay... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 21 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Dusty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 95 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳I forgot about the age gap, good call lol & you're damn right, he is LITERALLY the DEFINITION of MANBABY 🤦♀️🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:42 PM |
| 14 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳I wouldn't know, my sister put her account on my tv so we could binge-watch Dr. Death together (which is AMAHHHHZING) and then gave me the gift of ongoing Peacock mooching, God bless her 🙌💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 79 | What happened to the FDS hand book?Lol when I saw that yesterday, at first I thought I'd been banned or something & was like 😬😬😬 what did I do 😂 Then when FDS let me post & comment as usual I was like PHEW 😰🙌🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 80 | I Relapsed After Two MonthsProgress is so often two steps forward, one step back, over & over again. The one step back does suck ass, yes lol. God knows I sometimes fall like three steps back. ...But what I'm finally learning is how important it is to be kind to myself - whether I'm two steps forward or one step back or even three. Practicing being kind to myself, no matter what, has truly been a game changer. You're making progress, OP ❤️ I'm proud of you & supporting you no matter which step you're at ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:07 AM |
| 41 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himThis thread's getting me hot & bothered 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:04 PM |
| 27 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himOoooh that's hot 🔥😍🔥😍🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 6 | I am so uninterested in relationships now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:04 PM |
| 30 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Wtf?? Scrotes just psychotically disappearing into the streets mid-date?? THE AUDACITY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 4 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Thank you so much 💕🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 128 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.Man I LOVE emojis 😩😭😂🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:13 AM |
| 297 | I am so uninterested in relationships nowLove your whole post, but the thing that compelled me to comment was your strong aversion to letting a man make the decorative/interior design choices lol 😂😂😂😂 WHY DO SO MANY MEN ONLY LIKE BROWN, BLACK, & RED FURNITURE?!? And "modern" tastes, aka bare minimum furniture?! And leather?! So much fucking leather?! Newsflash: oversized ugly lazy boy armchairs & boring-ass black & white photography doesn't make you a "manly man" 🤦♀️🙄 ....end rant lol 😂 Glad you extricated yourself from that ex, & gla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:00 AM |
| 29 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Also exactly the same lol 😂❤️🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:41 AM |
| 39 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️You're welcome for the field report 😂 & yep, I'd say I've now tested the FDS hypothesis & am ready to call it an official theory lol 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:40 AM |
| 57 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️I also love walking 😩 it's like one of my favorite things to do, period. Elizabeth Bennet ain't got shit on my passion for walking 😂 so it was too easy to let myself get tempted. In retrospect though, while I'm a social extrovert, I've always vastly preferred solitary walking while listening to music. I think my decades-long addiction to falling in love just kinda reared its ugly head again, so that combined with my love for walking overrode my logic. Ah, well. Lesson learned. Now I know more th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:36 AM |
| 28 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Love your comments, & feel like I'm in a similar boat - full-time working single mom of a preschooler with a full PickMe history lol. I also deleted all but one of my dating apps months ago.... the last one was expensive, & the subscription hasn't ended yet, & while I deleted the app itself, I still get emails constantly... and all it took was my dang cursed curiosity kicking in one time last week & checking one of those emails & boom - here I am 🤦♀️🙄😂. I think for now, I need to be fully aware… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 06:32 AM |
| 55 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Learning..... Lol my fail of a nonexistent walking date just taught me that I got a liiiiittle cocky, thinking 1) I'm a FULLY reformed PickMe (wrrrrong!) 2) Who cares what all of the FDS personal stories & evidence-based horror story articles have tried to tell me... I'll just justify this walking date cuz it's been 3 months since I've shutdown dating & a guy just pumped my ego with lots of compliments (🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️🙄 to quote Mean Girls: "so wrong!" lol!!) ....learnING is the right word, Sis. I app… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:39 AM |
| 153 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️Good LORD. That date was like a love bomb in walking-date clothing. A walking bomb, if you will 😂 "bumped into his Mom" omgggggg 🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 58 | Just wonderingEgo's a powerful drug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 239 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴The Giving Tree. FUCK that boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 17 | 100% certain this has happened to every woman on FDS...Haaaaa 🤣🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 112 | 100% certain this has happened to every woman on FDS...Aaaaaaand incoming curt subject change to football or Joe Rogan in 3, 2, 1..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 67 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?A close male family member of mine has, over the years, confided in me his struggles with his addiction to pornography. We hadn't talked about it in several years, then this summer as I began reading FDS I brought up to him that I think I need to stop watching porn altogether (I watch it maybe 1-2x a month). He (without any additional information/prompting from me): 1) applauded me for this 2) talked about the various ways that porn is disrespectful & demeaning to women 3) talked about how many … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 56 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?Me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:07 PM |
| 61 | I was groomed as a minor, twice. How do I cope with it?Therapy. ...Talking about it in a safe environment with a trained professional is, in my opinion, the best way to heal major trauma in our pasts. .......Just know, going into it, that there are good & bad therapists, since they're human, and therefore flawed like all of us. Don't get discouraged if the first one you meet with isn't your vibe/helpful/a good fit. Just as we vet the men in our lives (and our friendships, jobs, etc), be sure to vet your therapists, too, as well as all medical profes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 86 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Hell, I'd say they're below street-level... Men who purposefully use women - they dwell in the gutter, the sewers, where shit rightfully belongs 🤷♀️😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:31 AM |
| 40 | Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒Oooh thank you, just learned a new word 👍 *edit: fuck if I can pronounce it though 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 39 | Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒No. No I would not. LOfuckingL. ....Also (and I find myself saying this often on FDS, due to the posts that rightfully expose alllllll the depths of SCROTAL AUDACITY) - like what the actual fuck is wrong with so many nasty ass men 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 47 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyySomeone get Angela Lansbury in here quick, cuz there's some MURDER gettin written up in here!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:28 AM |
| 9 | Lurking Redpill forums is actually very beneficial for womenThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:05 AM |
| 56 | Lurking Redpill forums is actually very beneficial for womenGreat point! I don't know any redpill forums; can you "recommend" any? Or is it bad to mention specific ones, like saying Voldemort's name 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:31 AM |
| 304 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsI'm a simple woman; I see "male lurkers" & "shut the fuck up" and then I upvote accordingly 🤷♀️👍😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 166 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorOh sweet Jesus 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 55 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorWhat the fuck is that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:33 PM |
| 115 | “Age is just a number.”So is a prison sentence.Yeah I used to love the movie Pineapple Express... then I rewatched it a few weeks ago (after months of daily FDS) and was like wtf is this... late-20s Seth Rogen is dating an actual high school girl? Like, she's a senior in high school & he's a decade older?? Red FLAG, Seth 🤦♀️ ...also it speaks to where younger me was at mentally, that that age difference didn't give me pause at all during previous viewings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 27 | Gentle men are so attractiveThe ability men have to compartmentalize their treatment of human beings (and animals/pets) is... mind-boggling? Horrifying? Disquieting? Sociopathic? Pick an adjective, any adjective lol... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:24 AM |
| 162 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesLol cuz he wants to fuck his sister Lolz 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 121 | Gentle men are so attractiveJust... be careful. A charming, sweet man I dated, who was SO sweet to my cat (even brought her toys), who was a pescatarian because he just loves animals so much, who cried easily, was so tenderhearted - surprise, he was cheating on me the whole time, with multiple women. Never stop vetting. Some be sneakier than others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:07 PM |
| 189 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)Women are so good at internalizing pain. Too many men are cowardly psychopaths; they can't stand hurting alone. "Fuck this world, but I'm also taking as many people as I can with me on my way out the door." That shit's just evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 60 | "Activity dates are best for first dates because they enable you to get to know each other better and in a lower-stress manner": solid dating advice or liable to make women lower their standards?You just helped me discover my dream date: an early dinner followed by one of those mystery locked-in escape places! Never been to one, & it would be a great & fun way to get to know things about someone that wouldn't tend to come up over dinner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 12 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Awww I'm a nurse and your comment made me tear up 🥲 thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Found in a sub that routinely bashes women for having high standards. The comments are all ridiculous. Men are praising the guy for "setting expectations" and "EqUaLiTy!!!!!", and pick-mes are proudly claiming they "always pay on the first date. A bunch of 🤡🤡🤡*had a date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 35 | Can we collectively update Urban Dictionary?Lollllll 🤣🤣🤣😌 ***** edit: just remembered this one - "A Walk not to Remember" : when a LVM suggests taking a hike/walk, aka the lowest-effort (and stingiest) of first dates ********2nd edit: lollll okay I just remembered "The ol' Porn-Freeze Squeeze" : ....when a scrote has difficulty staying hard right before/during sex (jerked off too much to porn earlier that day... & last night... & yesterday afternoon, etc etc) so he real quick last-chance mashes his softening meat; typically he will attemp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 30 | “Pointing out toxic behavior is toxic 🤡”Stay toxic, Tyrant King! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:26 PM |
| 25 | Gone with the Wind - both Rhett and Ashley are LVMThis is so eye-opening for me! I've read & watched Gone With the Wind but only in my PickMe days (a.k.a. my entire life up until a couple months ago lol). I thought Ashley was kinda weak but romantic, & Rhett was really hot & "real" (🤦♀️🙄) ...never suspected either of them of being shit guys. But your analysis is like - oh wtf they really were just examples of two more selfish men using & compartmentalizing women, in different but similarly evil ass ways. Excellent analysis, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 103 | 🚩Why you shouldn't settle for "no red flags"🚩"You know what you don't want but you don't follow what you want." ...OUCH, Sis!!! I'm over here just minding my own damn business, perusing a little FDS before getting ready for work & HOLY FUCK half my dang life choices just got called out Harddd 🤯😵 🤷♀️ But okay lol, point taken 😂❤️🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 35 | Not sure if this has been posted here yet but for goodness sake, men are so desperate to be oppressed. I just hope it helped some women find FDS 🤷🏼♀️Awww poor wittle scwotes 🥺 ...the real victims!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:24 AM |
| 3 | I need a break from datingYeahhhhh it's a bit of a dumpster fire out there... I'm presently happy to be back in the clean, cool AC of me & only me 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:57 PM |
| 86 | Female pick up artists? Pfffft don’t flatter yourself men. Women have been vetting, weeding out men and voicing their concerns since forever! Don’t act brand new.1) Stellar post 2) Thank God for FDS & its moderators 3) To the incoming waves of delusional misogynists: go fuck yourselves, cuz we sure don't want to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 118 | Men constantly reminding us we're unsafe even in spaces for grief 😍Pathetic fucking bottomfeeders 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 44 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Terrifying and INFURIATING. This thread's got me running HOT tell you what Fucking creeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 234 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Replace "sir" with "hey you sick fuck" & we're on the same page. Do NOT trust men around children/teenagers. And to those men who post about "I hate how I can't go on playdates at the park with my daughter without being side-eyed constantly by all of the moms" -- sorry Charlie 🤷♀️ Your fellow nasty men ruined that for you. Maybe if the few decent men fully expressed their disgust and condemnation every time their nasty coworker/friend/cousin says something gross about being attracted to underag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 104 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.I have a little boy and plan on not having any more children, because I don't wish this world on a little girl. (I already feel bad about having my son, as news of the awful future of our planet pops up constantly these days. I adore him and in no way regret having him, but I still feel bad for the world he is inheriting.) Also, I deleted all of my dating apps and am currently closed for dating business. .... that's how I'm coping 🤷♀️😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:34 PM |
| 206 | A man attacked three women on a busy street and no white knight came to the rescue...Hungry women peacefully waiting in line: 🙂 Violent psycho predator man: 🤬👊 Delusional buddy of violent psycho predator man: 🤷♀️😇 All other men present on the scene: 😬🤷♀️ The police: 🥱 White Knight: 👻 (died centuries ago) ....Lovely. Just lovely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 31 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?And we all know (or hopefully are in the process of learning) that you can't change anyone, let alone a scrote. Say it with me, all together now: 🗣 Scrotes gonna scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:55 PM |
| 30 | Always Date with Intent. Anything less is a waste of time🎵 Aaaaaaamennnnnnn 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 48 | Someone I've known since middle school just got proposed to with a Ring Pop.Ha, facts. Revision: Engagement: ring pop 1st anniversary: blow pop 2nd anniversary: he gives her the gift of letting her blow him 🥰😍🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:49 PM |
| 13 | My husband is worried about the stray cats I feedI think that's a great example of HVM behavior. He cares about something solely because you care about that something. Very cool, thanks for sharing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 81 | Scrote keeps gf as bangmaid, grossed out by her wanting future with him?He sucks; but he's also (according to his version of the story at least) making it obvious to her that he sucks. And she's choosing to stick her fingers in her ears & squeeze her eyes shut & go "la la la la la la!" No judgment here, just.........🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 104 | Always Date with Intent. Anything less is a waste of timeSettling only ever brought me pain in the end (and throughout). Don’t be like me - She Who Only Learns Things the Hard Way. Lonely & horny hurts way less than heartbroken & lonely & horny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 86 | guys who try for sex at the end of an obviously bad dateLollll I actually have a term for this: the Dirty Hail Mary 🏈🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 183 | Someone I've known since middle school just got proposed to with a Ring Pop.How sweet 🥰 maybe for their anniversary he'll bestow upon her a Blow Pop! (Not like, her favorite flavor or anything. Also she probably doesn't like blow pops.) Ahhhhhhhh romance 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | From Pickme to picking Me :)In my experience, sudden mysterious gaps in communication + running late to see you = he's with another woman. ...Your instinct & intellect were correct spotting the first red flag, but you let your kindness override them. I'm glad your kindness didn't win red flag round 2 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 6 | A supportive motherI don't say "Y'all" all the time; but when I do say it, I'm either suuuuuper pissed or suuuuuper emotionally moved by something & about to cry. Just for what it's worth lol 🤷♀️ (Source of sporadic y'all usage: Virginia, the North of the South) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The Unlikely Story of a Sex Trafficking Survivor and the Instagram Account That Saved Her LifeHorrifying story. That woman was used & used & used by so many selfish men. I'm so proud of her for escaping from a life of being a literal sex toy for sick men. Thank you for sharing that article, OP! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:03 PM |
| 15 | Reminder ✨I never had a backbone to begin with 🤦♀️ I think FDS is miraculously growing me one from scratch 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Targeted advice from FDS “older sisters” needed for “younger sisters” (adolescent and early 20’s) 👩👧I'm so happy that there's a lot of young women reading/absorbing FDS posts! I'd love to be an older Sis soon ❤️ (I say "soon" because I'm older, mid-30s, but still working on becoming wiser lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 20 | I hate how Reddit made me believe porn and being the ‘cool girl’ is perfectly normal.👆This right here, well said Sis 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 39 | I hate how Reddit made me believe porn and being the ‘cool girl’ is perfectly normal.I know right 🤮 I wish I could un-learn what that word means 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:39 PM |
| 39 | PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards.Jeez thanks for sharing that link. I had no clue what a vicious asshole Teigen is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:29 PM |
| 63 | FDS hits The Guardian 🥳: ‘Sales funnels’ and high-value men: the rise of strategic dating’This is SO well-written/said!! 👏🤗❤️ It sounds like you're just as inspired & excited by FDS as I am 😂🥰 ❤️ This subreddit feels downright revolutionary to me... It's for real been revolutionary for my life in SO many ways... ..Reading posts on FDS has directly brought about me loving & respecting myself for the first time... ever 🤷♀️🥲 FDS has opened my eyes up to the myriad ways that men have tricked me & used me; and of course, those are painful lessons... but then as I've gotten through those … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:50 PM |
| 97 | PSA: A Guy Being Charismatic/ Popular Does NOT Mean He’s Emotionally Intelligentgross gross gross 🤮 Everything you described about the first guy, your ex-boss, reminds me so much of the super charismatic, charming ex I dated for a over a year... who ultimately turned out to be cheating on me literally the whole time 🤮 ...Your ex-boss & my ex-boyfriend sure seem like narcissists 🤷♀️ Thanks for this post; I'm attracted to super-charismatic men who end up not being emotionally available 🤦♀️😂 Learning more about ways to identify them (and therefore avoid/deny them) is VERY he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:27 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 22 - Judge Lynn Toler Holds Court with The QueensLollll when I'm ready to date again, I'm totally going to "dabble" 😂🙌😂 Love this podcast! This is the first episode I listened to & it was excellent! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:59 AM |
| 30 | FDS hits The Guardian 🥳: ‘Sales funnels’ and high-value men: the rise of strategic dating’Go FDS go!!! 👏👏👏 ...This subreddit has groundbreaking & life-altering (and correct) viewpoints on the realistic love lives of women in 2021. The more people exposed to FDS, the better 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:37 AM |
| 165 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteYeah also that girl looks about 15 years old... she was (probably) 18+ when modeling for this, but whoever was in charge of that little photoshoot obviously wanted a half-naked young teenager look here... Women (of all ages) are prey. Society sucks ass. Society needs to change. Faster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:28 AM |
| 316 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteUghhh.. how did I never really piece together how totally fucked that "advice" is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:56 AM |
| 3 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!I'm addicted to "falling in love." Two months clean lol. It's starting to feel so good - the stability, the lack of painful LVM drama, the gradual self-growth & self-love that I'm working on... I'm realizing that I really, really needed to break the cycle of jumping from one painful rollercoater of a low-value relationship to the next. I need lots of time to heal, and nurture myself & my happiness. I hope your break from dating starts feeling really good, too. I love how free I am now! I'm happy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:42 AM |
| 5 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!He really has all meat & no filler throughout each podcast episode, too. I could spend a week reflecting on just one episode. Very cool, empowering stuff ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:36 AM |
| 4 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Cowards 🤷♀️ ....Cruel cowards, at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 20 | I did it, thanks to FDSI'm sorry you went through that terrible abuse ❤️❤️❤️ I hope it's in your past now, & you never get hurt like that ever again 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:23 AM |
| 29 | I did it, thanks to FDSYou deserve to be excited and happy ❤️ Whenever you have a chance to feel good during this stressful (& heroic, & inspiring) time, go for it - hold every happy moment close ❤️ Soon the stress will decrease, then be gone altogether; and your joyous freedom will fill you up more & more ☀️ You did the right thing. You are courageous. It only gets better from here. Best wishes for you!!! I'm so happy for your freedom 🥲❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:21 AM |
| 7 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Aww thanks! I was so sleepy & rambly when I posted that lol, it for sure could be cut down from full-thesis length 😂 Yeah, our pickers are broke all to hell, no argument here lol 🤦♀️ & everything you listed at the end, is ✅✅✅✅✅ for me 😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Bonus Round ✏️😂 Just listened to another episode of the RC Blakes Jr podcast (yeah yeah I'm obsessed 😀🤷♀️) & of course wrote some more notes! This is focused on helping women really DISCERN the men they date...Thank you for this info! ❤️👍 Sometime when I'm off work I'll have to look into that... & also I want as many empowering/how to see through LVMs/NVMs trickery sources as I can get lol! If you get a chance, I'd love either a message thing or a reply with any names? I especially love podcasts 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Ooooh didn't know he's on youtube, too! Thanks for the heads up! I can't get enough of brutal honesty after being lied to by... all of the men I dated? & the entire planet's misogynistic propaganda? And you're welcome ❤️ so happy to see other women learning & appreciating this guy's stuff, too 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:47 PM |
| 67 | tHe MeN YOU ChOoSe ArE tRaShMy Dad just wasn't... specific, I'm realizing. He warned my sisters & me frequently that "all men just want one thing" etc (thanks Dad, you meant well ❤️) But like, I really could have used a handbook of some sort lol. Like that American Girl guide about taking care of your hygiene. Only this would be like... SCROTAL NAVIGATION: How to Spot & Stop Scrotes in the Wild. (age 13+) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!That's awesome 🤗❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!That's awesome you can sift out what you need 🤗❤️ I'm like a bad Christian, very loosey-goosey & pretty much an Olympian sinner, so I don't like to ever come across as preachy/pushy... but yeah this guy's stuff was just so searingly on point & so relevant to what we FDS ladies are working on understanding (why/how so many of us have been hurt so much by men & how to prevent further pain) & supporting (each other and all women) & condemning (the varying degrees of cruelty enacted on way too many … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!You're preaching to the choir, Sis... this brutally (and awesomely) honest podcast about destroyed me... But... it didn't 🙂 the truth sets us free ❤️ Now that we know this stuff, we can protect ourselves & watch out for all of our fellow women & teenage girls & little girls ❤️ knowledge is power ***edit: I keep forgetting to say you're welcome 😂😂😂😂😂 you're welcome ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 5 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!I'd have pity for all of the broken men out there... but I'm presently pretty cranky with them for taking their brokenness out on all the innocent women just naively trying to love their dumbasses 🤦♀️🙄🤷♀️ ***edit: lol but I'm glad you liked the podcast notes 😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 6 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!It's downright life-changing, just like FDS 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 27 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!I see what you mean 👍 I was looking at it more from this perspective: if I have no self-respect, no self-esteem, and have only ever been with men who don't treat me well and tie my self-worth to sex; and that's the only kind of man I've felt attraction to... Well I guess it's comparable to the way men get conditioned to darker & seedier porn. If most of a man's porn history is hardcore dark stuff, then if you instead suddenly take away his phone/laptop & hand him a book of beautifully-written, s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:52 PM |
| 18 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!You're welcome! I'm still listening to him 😂 I'm just so hungry for truth & reality. ....He's currently saying: Women's Liberation? More like Women's Incarceration (!)..... Women thinking they're being so free & powerful when they sleep around... that's just so sadly opposite of what's actually happening. It's like sex slavery-via-mass-cultural-manipulation. We've just been totally brainwashed 🤷♀️ ....He really expresses the exact same viewpoints as FDS. Love it! 🤗❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 15 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!I sure wish I'd understood this a long time ago. Instead I trusted in the Dating Manual As Written By Rom-Coms, Disney, & Bodice Rippers 🤦♀️😂 yeah... wrong manual lol. But I'm glad I'm learning this stuff now; better late than never, yeah? 🙂 *edit - and you're welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:28 PM |
| 58 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Listening to this podcast, hearing things like "dating is for data, not romance/sex" made me realize, uhhh I guess I have no clue how to date correctly? 😂🙄 I'm 36 & have dated plenty, but... I think I have literally only dated incorrectly 🤦♀️🤷♀️😂 .....I always dated to fall in love fast, I was not carefully observing, I was either flirting or listening to the guy lol. Realizing how reckless and super naive I've been makes me even more relieved to pursue single-life for a long, long time (two m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 9 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!You're welcome, hope you find it okay 👍❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 23 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!Sure, so I just use the Podcasts app on my phone; I just search RC Blakes and it pops right up. There's not a specific podcast "title," it's just his full name RC Blakes Jr. I'm not sure how often new episodes come out, maybe weekly? There are at least 100 episodes so far; they range from like 20 minutes to 60 minutes. And... every single one I've listened to so far has been awesome. I bounced around randomly, choosing what to listen to next based on the descriptive titles & my mood. ********Oka… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:43 AM |
| 24 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!I must've binged like 12 of the episodes tonight and they are all just jam-packed with gems of wisdom! I'm so glad my friend recommended this podcast to me 🤗 The more knowledge we have, the more power we have! And of course you're welcome, it was fun to listen to & write up 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:03 AM |
| 13 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!My pleasure! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:48 AM |
| 90 | Scrote pulled out of mens bathroom so me and my friend could pee at the barChivalry is dead. Really, truly, super-duper double dead. ... & I don't look back over the past with rose-colored glasses, thinking men were just chivalrous knights throughout history. Nope, pleeeenty of them used & controlled & raped & murdered women. But the concept of chivalry used to at least exist; it was a relatively widespread goal/belief/standard that some men strived to achieve. In modern times, well... The word itself has been decomposing since before I was born. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:32 AM |
| 58 | “It’s men in their thirties with huge beards, and they’re pretty much all stay-at-home dads...Their wives work office jobs and they work on the vans so the family can go out and vanlife on the weekend.”"Van-life" ----- Nah, sis. Just fucking NAH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 63 | 🤡🤡🤡This might just look like me about to barf 🤢 most likely because this post makes me feel like barfing 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Very sad. Another reason to avoid hike dates.Vet for your life 🤷♀️😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 24 | Very sad. Another reason to avoid hike dates.Of course no charges have been made… despite the whole thing stinking to WTF heaven of some degree of rape & murder. Law enforcement sure seems like the ultimate breeding ground for NVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | I thought I’d share this meme from another subreddit 😂Dating apps, in my experience, truly are just too much of a (very high-risk) gamble. It’s like the Buzz Lightyear meme: Neanderthals… Neanderthals everywhere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 35 | i don’t know who james fell is, but i appreciate him (shared via The Female Lead) on instaOoooh that's a burn so subtle & lovely, it's practically just a deep tan 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 4 | LVMs be likeI love how intelligent & chatty the women in this sub are, too! It's so refreshing 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 6 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsThat's sickening. So many of us have been treated so cruelly by the opposite sex. Thank God FDS is helping me learn how to better protect myself. I hope you can start to heal soon. I'm beginning to heal. The human body is amazingly good at healing, given rest, nutrients, medications, treatments; and thankfully that includes our hearts and minds, too. Best wishes to you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 105 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?Why? Because tons of PickMe's fucked up and "fell in love" with the LVMs on that first date; then they fucked up double by telling those LVMs all about it. .... (Don't ask me how I came by this information... It was... my friend, bottom_of_the_stairs... Yeah she told me 😌) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 60 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsOoooooh paper trail, smart! As a PickMe I went out of my way to not leave a paper trail, because I was that loyal... (only speak ill of m'lord in hushed, shamed whispers...) Someone give me a bucket, I've gone & nauseated myself again 🤦♀️🤢😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 08:05 PM |
| 86 | Share your badass breakup stories!On LinkedIn 😂😂😂 hoo boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:37 PM |
| 23 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsLol yeah, I owe my dad & best friend some phonecalls for sure 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:29 PM |
| 38 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsGreat viewpoint from the flipside, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:25 PM |
| 103 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friendsYup. Low-Value Men & No-Value Men are predators who want to separate us from our protective herd so that we place our trust solely in them; then they can do whatever they want to us without consequences. Nope! Stick with your herd, ladies ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:21 PM |
| 106 | Anyone else not dating becauseYep yep yep. You nailed it. I too am tired of being tricked into sex by LVMs & NVMs masquerading as decent human beings. I need a dang break, so I'm taking one. I'm two months purposefully single now and every day of zero mindfucks, lies, manipulation, etc (all to have sex with me without truly committing to me) makes me stronger and happier. When I'm not sick of dating/scarred/weak/exhausted, then I'll date again. Smartly. Cautiously. Until then, I'm relishing choosing not to give away all of m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 4 | “Soft” sex-work…?WOW. I agree with every single word of this comment. Well said!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Tip of the day: Go to a mirror and look yourself in the eyes; then tell yourself, a la Captain Phillips: "Look at me. I'm the Captain now."I get it. I'm so hard-headed; I'm 36 years old & just now really working on this. I started by reading the posts on FDS, then practicing saying out loud to myself: I love myself. It was surprisingly hard to do. Now I'm finding that the more I fill myself up with my own self-love (literally reminding myself that I love myself and want/deserve happiness), the easier it's becoming to recognize how poorly men were treating me. How they were just saying what I wanted to hear ("I love you") to have se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:45 AM |
| 128 | No, just no…Lol ummmm yeah no... I'm not going to "act" like anything. Let alone your mommy. Good grief 🙄🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:43 PM |
| 94 | You Have Heard About High Value Women, But Do You Know About High Agency Women?I kinda liked this article. Not a fan of some of their examples of high-agency people (Steve Jobs, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Cardi B - not three people I hold in high moral regard). But I do love that quote: "I shall either find a way, or make one." That's badass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 6 | Tip of the day: Go to a mirror and look yourself in the eyes; then tell yourself, a la Captain Phillips: "Look at me. I'm the Captain now."That's awesome 😂❤️🙌 I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:00 PM |
| 58 | “Soft” sex-work…?Venues like Hooters are "okay" because men are running the show; a woman selling imagery of her body on OnlyFans is not "okay" because a woman is in charge. Regardless, though, that woman is still selling herself as an object and a fantasy to obtain money from a man... and therefore the man is still in control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:33 PM |
| 269 | “Soft” sex-work…?I know how I feel about it: it's demeaning. Any job where you're getting paid to fulfill/act out a male sexual fantasy, no matter how big or small of a fantasy, is demeaning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 6 | I broke up with him todayI'm two months purposefully single now and while a lot of it's been ROCKY (hoo boy!), I've now reached a point where I'm actually making progress on self-respect and self-love. I'm thinking of this single-time as a time of strengthening & wising up, so that when I choose to date again, I don't make similar mistakes that I've made in the past. FDS has been an incredibly knowledge-filled source of inspiration and empowerment. I recommend soaking in a bunch of the stuff here as I've been doing, so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 24 | I broke up with him todayI support you. You did the right thing. This next little bit's tricky - you may want to fill the little void with another guy, but ooooooof take it from me: that only makes things worse. Focus on you: your health, your happiness, your self-respect, your self-love. Get plenty of rest, stay hydrated, be with supportive friends & family when possible. And good job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 9 | This article also advises blocking & deleting after breaking up with a Narcissist 🙅♀️True, I was side-eyeing that part, too! And I agree there's just no point staying in contact unless you have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 33 | This article also advises blocking & deleting after breaking up with a Narcissist 🙅♀️Apologies with formatting, I also meant to include this text: As soon as we know what they are (as soon as their mask either slips off their face or you tear it off yourself), it's time to evict his rent-free toxicity from our lives, our minds, and our hearts. It's never too late for a spring-cleaning, ladies; out with the old & dirty (the web of lies spun by LVMs & NVMs & Narcs) and in with the sunshine and fresh air of honesty, reality, and self-empowerment ☀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 422 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friends"With the body type of a Victorian child stricken with the Consumption" ----aaaaand there goes a mouthful of Cinnamon Life 🗣😂😭🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 02:34 PM |
| 9 | Help with breaking off a NV relationship?Block. Delete. Rinse. Repeat. Forever. ❤️ p.s. if he's a NVM, consider that console a consolation prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:51 PM |
| 4 | "With that short hair, she must be misandric"That's awesome. You sound awesome. Good for you, for openly being exactly who you are... A ridiculous compliment, lol, but a very real one, from a very recently reformed PickMe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 12:25 AM |
| 66 | my quickest vetting strategyLol, sadistic, evil, pathetic, and weird - aka the Four Horsemen of my "type" 🤦♀️🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 09:48 PM |
| 30 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄She's stressful. I watched her for about nine seconds and now I need a nap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Gift back?Oh God no. And I place any gifts he ever gave me into a hefty bag, tie it up, & walk it out to the trash. ....I love that little walk ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 51 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"I love your energy 😂😂😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:33 PM |
| 86 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)Lolll what exactly is this guy a king of? Softness? Squishiness? ....."All bow before His Royal Highness: King Floppy the Porn-Poisoned! hailing from the desert land of Lost Libido..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 66 | Things that are definitely NOT queen energy and why FDS must remain blunt and focused on priorities / real life strategies rather than blind following ideologies and people pleasing everyoneI think maybe I speak for a lot of women here when I say: THANK YOU MODS for all of the hard work you do & we APPRECIATE the tough love, because it's helping us break out of vicious cycles. Y'all are awesome. ....And a special shout-out for you, ModernMedusa - just cuz you're great & we all love you lots ❤️ ***shit I spelled your dang name wrong 🤦♀️🙄🤦♀️😂 Medusaa!!! Queen! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 129 | Know your worth and don't accept less, this engagement ring and an engagement announcement popped up on my newsfeedSo.... that looks like a maggot that took a shit and then up & died. This has to be a joke, right? ........right? (?!?!!!!!!!!????) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:27 PM |
| 10 | I want to thank this subreddit for helping me find my self-respectGod bless you, too, Sister! 🙌❤️🙏🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:22 PM |
| 98 | I want to thank this subreddit for helping me find my self-respectI feel the same way, OP! ❤️ FDS has been a total game-changer & lifesaver for me. Not even exaggerating lol! I love your progress, & my progress, & all of our progress here... Just such an awesome & powerful community of increasingly shrewd, high-value women here ❤️🥰❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 479 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.Okay that's hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 59 | Update. Water is wet, and my psycho ex is still a psycho.I think that the more documentation you have, especially on public record, the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 256 | Update. Water is wet, and my psycho ex is still a psycho.Uhhhh that is some unhinged fucking handwriting right there... Keep staying safe, OP 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 17 | 💕 Dear PickMe; Love, Maya 💕Good for you 🥰🙌 & Just in case your inner strength crumbles tonight or sometime this weekend: Cry your ass off, binge-eat, oversleep, whatever you gotta do --- just don't fuck any random scrotes. .....You know how that only increases the overall pain. You know ❤️ I'm just reminding you, just in case ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 108 | 90% of my OLD matches’ Instagram is female followers.The 90% following-women is enough of a red flag for me, without factoring in the likely probability that yes, that's a decoy account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Taking care of your friends.That is so sweet, and inspirational to me... I think I'll send one of those edible arrangement things, or some chocolate-covered strawberries, to my friend going through a breakup. Lovely post! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 310 | In sickness and health.Facts. Makes me think of couples who talk proudly about their "in case of health emergency, break the relationship" agreements. You know the kind: "I told my husband if I'm ever in an accident that puts me in a wheelchair for life, or comatose, or just not able to have sex anymore - he is free to leave me! I never want to be a burden." .... Sweet tap-dancing Jesus 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 72 | LVMs will harm your daughtersHell, I'm a single mom with a young son and have had this dating rule since my divorce: Do not even introduce a man I'm seeing to my son until after a year of dating. ..... also, I have a lovely high-value woman friend who chose to wait six years until her daughter turned eighteen before letting herself re-enter the dating world. She said, "I never wanted to make her feel uncomfortable having an unrelated man around all the time." I have nothing but huge respect for her doing that. Children. Com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:27 PM |
| 30 | I don’t need to have children to be a real woman and I’m tired of my conservative family telling me im not a real woman and most men telling me I’m not a real womanSince you haven't heard it enough, allow me: You are a real woman. You are a real woman. You are a real woman. You are a real woman. You are a real woman. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 17 | 💕 Dear PickMe; Love, Maya 💕She was a true Queen 👑❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:04 PM |
| 92 | On a dating break, starting to notice I'm getting way more rest now! 😴🥰Wooooow I literally just went through exactly that! Spent all my free time on him? ✅ 2 years?✅ Found out he was with multiple other women? ✅ Turns out he had a for real girlfriend the whole time & I was the sidechick? ✅ Kept insisting he loved me? ✅ Attack of the dang LVM clones 🤦♀️🙄😂 (p.s. I told the "real" girlfriend & other woman I could locate, so they could be aware of wtf was going on & also get tested for STDs 👍) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:00 AM |
| 18 | 😂😂Men have come up with a new excuse for cheating. It’s not about the “female” it’s fighting “his own demons”🙄That one time in 6th grade his mommy forgot to put string cheese in his lunchbox 😱 #demonz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 19 | Dump him on the first lieThat is so bizarre wtf 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 14 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atpI understand 🤷♀️😂🤦♀️😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:16 PM |
| 104 | What made her such an excellent villain in this movie was her highly realistic ax to grindSadly, I have so been the "cool girl." Take it from me... at its core, it's just such a pathetic and fake way to exist. Thank God for FDS continuously bitch-slapping me back to reality, & self-respect, & self-love/worth. .......And I say that with 100% sincerity lol 🤷♀️😂 I was so deeply lost/entrenched in the tragically false fairy-tale Land of PickMe... I mean, wow. I need every harsh sting of truth I can get 🤦♀️😂 I can never go baaaack.... I can never go baaaaack.... (anyone old-ish enough t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 32 | It’s always a breath of fresh air seeing Queen Shit in the wilds of Reddit 👑👑Well that whole convo just got more & more delicious 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:03 PM |
| 7 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Sounds like a RAT race amongst the lowest-value males & their ”I can drive like a kewl manly maniac too - wait up boyzzz” pickmeisha fans… Careful out there, Sister ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:54 PM |
| 9 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Fuck that fast & furious (more like scrote-ass murderous) probable Paul-Pedophile-Walker wannabe CLOWN. ***edited to delete a death-wish.. my bad ladies, I’m running real hot this morning 🤷♀️😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 29 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)So… reading the way that evil piece of shit purposefully put your life in danger while blaming YOU for said danger… & verbally fucking ABUSING you… I think I’m experiencing vicarious internet rage..? uh like FUCK that demon scrote & the car he traumatized you in. That scrote deserves to ROAST one day 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Wishing you health & happiness & safety, Sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 79 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atpSooooo complex, so many layerzzzz…!!! 🥺🥺🥺 betcha he gets super deep & vulnerable sometimes, sharing his real demonz & strugglez he acktually has with his Mother to this day 🥺🥺🥺 & of course he can only share his darkkkkness with you, the love-of-his-life dreamgirl as of date 2 😍😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 16 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Lol yeah I actually meant my vows before God & family & friends… I would have held on to that marriage for a tragically long time if he hadn’t set me free with his infidelityyyyyy 🥳🙌🥳 Cheers to us for our guilt-free freedom, fellow Queen 🥂👑🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 203 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atp5’2, 44 years old, & what the fuuuck is that stank-ass face he’s giving 🤦♀️😂😂😂😂 ….HARD pass even before we get to his incestuous “I hate mommy but I wanna fuck mommy too” nastiness 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 52 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Ugh what a psychotic fucking loser... Thank God you ran; and God help any women ever trapped in a car with his masked ass 👺🤡👺🤡👺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 24 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Yuuuup. …Also has anyone else noticed how often these jackass LVM drivers treading all over the dang road often have a ratty old “dOn’T tReAd oN mE“ sticker peeling off their bumper 🤦♀️🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 39 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Been there, Sis 🤦♀️🙄 (been there, married it, got cheated on by it, & got left in the dust by it… and three years later still say on the regular “Thank you JESUS for freeing me from my vows“ to it 🙌🥳🤗😂❤ the devil really is in the details, ladies… take heed… in hindsight, my LVM ex-husband’s driving was actually a snapshot of how terribly he handled stress and how much he needed to be in control) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 16 | He just might be a LVM if... (behind-the-wheel edition)Good riddance to shitty men 😌🙌 and their shitty-ass driving, too ✌️😎🖕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 14 | For my fellow reformed PickmeishasIt applies to me so hard... I was calling out myself, first & foremost 🤷♀️❤️ I think the hardest step is really absorbing the reality of my established PickMe ways. Now for step 2: don't. do it. again. .... okay maybe step 2 will also be a bit challenging 🤦♀️😂 but doable!!! I'm ready to break the cycle!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:00 AM |
| 329 | 18 year old man from Maine looking for a wife in 1865. Better than most OLD profiles.Poor guy only had livestock for company for a hot minute... he tweren't too picky 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 98 | This is a new TV show...the bar is drowning now🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 come the fuck on this is for real? ...the bar drowned & the bar is now in HELL 🤦♀️🔥😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:58 PM |
| 59 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...So this is amazing 🙌 & super stuck in my head now 😂😂😂 But still amazing ❤️🙌😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:05 AM |
| 208 | Instead of worrying if he likes you, ask yourself: “Do *I* even like *him*?”I think (in my opinion, & at least regarding myself) that part of being an ex-PickMe is realizing that you weren't just a people-pleaser; you were especially a man-pleaser. And to a sick degree. ....People-pleasing, man-pleasing... Bah! I'm ready to please myself 🤷♀️❤️💪🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone Else Cut Off A Lot Of Friends/Situations That Didn't Serve You Recently?GOOD FOR YOU, SISTER!!! ❤️🙌❤️🙌❤️ I'm proud of you, you inspire me, & I hope your life just gets better & better from here on out! 🤗🤗❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Men, learn what fucking hygiene means.I hope you rolled down a window while dead-eyeing him in the rearview mirror | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:41 PM |
| 33 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance.Lol yeah, the goal posts for what is deemed "high-maintenance" never get a dang break, poor things 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 42 | This is the most laughably pathetic thing I've seen in a long time.All that & betcha he’s still over at his actual sidechick’s place while Super-Wifey’s at her full time job 😀👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 33 | Scrotes tell on themselves when asked “What are you addicted to that is legal”. Porn, drugs and procrastination.Lol they don’t stop at proudly proclaiming it; they award themselves for it, too 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 14 | This is the most laughably pathetic thing I've seen in a long time.-- and when to wake the fuck up & learn how to love herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 21 | How to avoid falling back into old pickmeisha habits?Apathy... so insidious, so dangerous. Apathy is the first turn you make en route to self-destruction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Reigning in the extreme pick me horror tales - this is not a place to just vent, get sympathy points for tolerating extreme clownery, remain clueless and go back back to being a complete pushover.Superb post. Thank you so much for taking the time & energy to write this. Very true & very important stuff. I hope the mod who had to take time off from negativity overload feels better soon. Peace & love to all of my FDS sisters 🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:24 PM |
| 56 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”"You will forever be my soul mate at the same time I wish you was dead" This line had me lmao 😂😂😂 the shocking transition of sentiment, in one sentence, without even a comma to prepare you for the transition, was accidental genius comedic timing 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:15 AM |
| 9 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Lollll me too 😂😂😂 I whistle so much that a coworker long ago said to me, "If you were a Batman villain, you'd be called The Whistler." ☺️🤣 -----What the fuck ever, whistle-haters! I love whistling while I work, so I'll just g'head & keep on a-whistlin', ya can't-whistle-for-the-life-of-ya jealous-ass bitchass SCROTES 🤷♀️🤗😗🎵🎶🎵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:46 AM |
| 3 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Ha!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 "Sitcho ass down, clown." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:39 AM |
| 8 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingYou're so welcome, & you're so, so, so right about that, my sister & lady-comrade-in-arms!!!! 💪❤️ It's all uphill & clear skies from here 🥲🌈☀️ (with some realistic occasional stormclouds & valleys; but I swear, since I've seen the "light" ..... I've yet to go anywhere but up 🤷♀️🥲🙌) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:27 AM |
| 10 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Harry Potter and the Half-Erect-At-Best Clowns 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:21 AM |
| 131 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.Yep, there's for sure a current worldwide critical shortage of clown wigs, clown shoes, clown makeup, red styrofoam noseballs, & of course viagra lol... (for all those porn-sick limp-shrimp-clown-dicks 🍤🤡〽️) ------And in all seriousness - since unfortunately all of these countless scrotes don't reveal their clownness openly but rather take such great care to conceal it... ---in all seriousness & gravity, I am so fucking grateful that FDS is gradually showing me how to recognize/identify these ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:10 AM |
| 22 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Thank you so much /u/ceramicunicorn & /u/Aocwannabe for taking the time & effort to share your wisdom/advice with all of us!!! I just want both of you to know how powerful your words are! Your words are actively making tiny chemical adjustments in my brain... firing up neurons so that they can form new, healthy pathways and connections in my brain... And I can't say thank you enough 🤷♀️🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:24 AM |
| 20 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingI'm sorry for the years you lost, sister 😢❤️ and I hope that the years ahead for you are filled with all of the joy & freedom & love & respect that you should have had all along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:10 AM |
| 15 | Not all men are bad. This is great news for women and bad news for the unwashed masses of Reddit.I don't know what iFunny is, but Sis: I'll tip some tables on some scrotes ANY day with you ☺️❤️💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:02 AM |
| 44 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingI love my mindset too, sister 🥲 I've never felt so strong in my life. I feel like for the first time, EVER, I'm on my own side, you know? 🙌 and it feels so incredibly good!!!! ----To any women out there reading this: You CAN love yourself, even if you have ZERO experience with that! You can respect yourself!!! It is a very real thing! Even lifelong vicious cycles CAN be broken. I am current living proof of this. And I wouldn't say these words if I didn't feel them, know them, down to my soul. ..… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:23 AM |
| 37 | LVM ditches wife and newborn, she still loves himRock-bottom self-worth. The lowest self-esteem. Zero practice with self-respect and low, low levels of self-love. A lifetime of putting myself last, and doubting myself first. That's why. ...but there is very, very good news: ALL of that can be flipped right-side-up!!! ...And that's started through knowledge & truth. And FDS is jam-packed with knowledge & truth! Thank goodness I started venturing more & more into this life-changing community. I have never in my life felt so empowered and free an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:57 AM |
| 18 | If Carrie Bradshaw posted on FDSYou're not the only one lol 😂🙋♀️ yep & yep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:33 AM |
| 74 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingI wish that, too. I have a newfound passion & duty to look out for my fellow women now. FDS had been such a life-pivot for me, & I'm so grateful to all of the women here who share their awful stories so that we can learn, grow, be smarter, wiser. Stronger together 🙌❤️ I also wasted my 20s on scrotes... & half of my 30s. But hey - I'm just so glad that I'm finally wide awake and free now. Better wising up at 36 than 76!!! Thank God 🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:31 AM |
| 23 | Currently in the grieving process after YEARS of being a pickme. I am relieved to finally have arrived here. Sadness and loneliness is okay. It means I'm healingFDS is so amazing, & honest, & blessedly eye-opening. I've learned SO much just in the six weeks or so since I started reading through the posts here. Thank you for joining & you are another Queen among us! 🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 4 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Lollllllll yes 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:54 AM |
| 11 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Ha!!! I forgot about that awesome woman... embarrAHZing! 😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:32 PM |
| 53 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???You know what I "deem necessary?" The exact location of where this guy must place his application: anywhere within his Sigmoid colon that pleases him best 🤷♀️ Heck, I'm a generous soul; he can go a bit deeper to his Transverse colon if he likes 👍 ......but yes, deep & far beyond the Rectum, that's where this application belongs 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:22 PM |
| 77 | Not all men are bad. This is great news for women and bad news for the unwashed masses of Reddit.How charming 😍💕🥰 & nasty & dumber than moldy fucking mulch 🤦♀️🙄🤢🤮🙅♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 208 | Not all men are bad. This is great news for women and bad news for the unwashed masses of Reddit.Wait, so we're not obligated to provide them with their introductory gift bag, filled with the required Map to the Clit, flashing neon lights, & "You Rock My World!" ego-boosting sparkly stickers...? Lol for real, I've gotten maaaany messages thus far from reddit guys who "aren't like those kind of men," yet are oddly still totally aghast/hurt/cranky on behalf of all men 🤔 If I reply at all, I've learned to keep it short: Why so offended if you're not that kind of man? ......fascinatingly enough… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 33 | LVM who love being "one of the girls"Wait... is this "cool boy" like some mangled hybrid creature of a Pickmeisha...? Like a calculating, purposeful pickme? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | Leveling Up after a BreakupSo proud of you ❤️ I admire the mental/emotional strength it must have taken for you to remain collected/poised as you took out that old bag of trash... And I love love Love all of your new goals! Wishing you health & happiness!!! ❤️💪❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 75 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeLol right? No pic holding a fish, no terribly-angled, frowning car selfie, no pic where a woman was poorly cropped out still leaving her hand around him 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:21 PM |
| 42 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeHammered shit 🤣🤣🤣 fossilized diabetic asses 🤣🤣🤣 FDS has the best fucking writers on Reddit, hand to God 🙌😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:10 PM |
| 116 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeDon't even mention to most guys the dirty L word: LOTION 🙄🤦♀️😂 they get so offended & are like: "Bruh u calln me GAY?! I dont use that shit!" Yeah... we can see that you don't 👨🦳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | There's a comedian's bit where he says "if someone is paying you minimum wage, what they're saying is 'this is the lowest I can get away with, but I'd pay you less if I could'". I think grown men who say they are into 18 year olds are the same way and I want to screamGlad you made it out ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 20 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeWatch out sis, they're right behind ya 😱🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:34 PM |
| 53 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeLol!! "Young maiden fair, make haste to me: I must fucketh you. Oh, thou desires I purchase thy supper first? Nay, silly wench; yet I may perchance take thee for a stroll in yonder park..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 22 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeShee-it... I betcha those crones already signed their dang DNR forms 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:57 PM |
| 90 | My adds on Youtube 🧓🏻🤮 Google knows I'm 27 and the company that bought these adds thinks it's fine to normalize dinossaurs on my age rangeClaude. Fucking. Frollo. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm weak, I'm dead, I'm in heaven, & I'd like to report back to my Earth sisters: ain't ONE dang scrote up in this cloudy piece 😇 Claude fucking Frollo, gotDAMN I almost woke up my toddler with that shrieking laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 10 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really sounds👆 This. Fuckboys get zero defense from me. I mean, the term fuckboy clues you in all by itself 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 85 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really soundsLovely. Romance (and basic human decency) is either straight-up dead, or at least unconscious & covered in piss 💕🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Signs you have been benched or 'kept warm' and how to avoid it happening to yououch ouch ouch the realness hurts 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 26 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really soundsIf only there were an emoji for "standing ovation" - I'd write a block paragraph of just that emoji in response to this comment! Guess I'll settle for some "preach hands" lol 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 574 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesYou call it a "kingdom;" I call it a one-bedroom apartment that's never known a vacuum cleaner, ruled by a "king" of video games, paper plates, and crusty socks. I pity the "queen" (slave) who wants any part in running that hot mess... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:27 AM |
| 856 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really sounds🙋♀️ I'll take option C: masturbation and self-respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:58 AM |
| 195 | If Miranda was a man, no one would have viewed him as the villain.That character was such a no-nonsense, succinct badass. ....."That's all." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 03:21 AM |
| 94 | Ladies, now the war is really on. We have came this far now. One down, many more to go!Bish bye 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 125 | It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level."Low-income men exploit higher earning women by mooching off of them." .......Ain't that the DAMN truth. And because I love giving and helping and supporting, I always convince myself in these moochy relationships that I'm just being such a good person, & anyway he just needs a little help to get his own thing started....right? Right?! in Ron Howard voice She was not right... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:39 PM |
| 117 | No, he doesn’t just “meet the right woman” and become a good man. He meets a woman who doesn’t know any better, hides his 🤡 shoes in the back of the closet and cheats on her throughout their marriage. 🤡gonna🤡And try to avoid even taking it for a spin; you don't know the sanitary state of that bike seat... 🤷♀️🤢🙅♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:02 PM |
| 94 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…I know it got me good 😂👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:26 AM |
| 11 | Truly embarrassingMalformed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 30 | Truly embarrassingOmfgggggg it does 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 21 | Truly embarrassingThose at least have some length 🤷♀️ better than the lowest/cheapest/saddest there is: Maverick shorts 🤦♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 19 | Truly embarrassingOmg this thread has me dying 🤣🤦♀️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 19 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.That's a bingo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......I guess I'm a bit of a wicked woman, my friends, cuz honestly... I get a lil kick out of talking right back into the void.... nice & clear & loud 😂🗣🗣🗣 I've found that you gotta enunciate real good to get through the thickest heads 🤷♀️😂 & I promise I'm not trying to feed the trolls, honest to God 🙏 ......just rough 'em up a little bit in private ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......Ha!!! Love you too already (who'd'a thought us ladies enjoy compliments, not 4th grade misspelled insults ahem paging SCROTUS MINIMUS - again it's ho without an E, unless you're callling me a gardener's device for toiling the soil 🤦♀️😂) & lollllllll thanks for repairing whatever sad, oh so small damage a couple of lowest-value-male-wannabes are probably attempting upon my karma horde 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 4 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......Thanks Sis 🤗❤️ love y'all & got y'all's backs along with my own 💪 & tell you what, I've had a tough year with all the Covid... it was real stressful; & fucking with the minds & egos of these mewling lil fuckbabyboys to let off a little steam feels like just the hobby I could use right about now. 🤷♀️😂❤️ Cheers to demanding respect from the male sex on the internet 🍷❤️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 5 | The emotional labor of being hurtAwww ❤️❤️❤️ that is so sweet 🥰 & here's something cool: the peace, the feeling of a weight being lifted, comes faster than you might expect 🤗 you just drop that baggage in the dirt without breaking stride, & just watch how with every step you lengthen the distance between yourself & that cheap offbrand baggage, you feel lighter...& lighter... If you ever need more spirit-lifting, I'm here for you, along with all of these other awesome ladies ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 12 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......Awww I feel bad for the lil guys 😔 scrotes without scrotums (my private messages are awful empty 🤷♀️), & all they've got are a handful of downvotes for me as their only outlet for their insecurity-born, ignorance-fueled rage.... Awww but, my poor scroteless scrotes, I've got so many dang upvotes/karma/internet points already in my two short weeks on Reddit that I feel positively gluttonous about it 🤷♀️ y'all making me feel better with your downvotes... I'm all full-up, y'all take a couple poin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 18 | Got my very first Reddit post from a guy who's not a fan of FDS......Awwww 🥺 poor widdle scwote 🥺 now don't you go makin more work for my lovely FDS mods, ya hear? You just message me private, if you like 😘 we can have a nice lil chat 🤷♀️😀😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 15 | The emotional labor of being hurtAnd PEACE is really the word!! 🙌❤️🙌 In the past 30 days of me choosing to focus on my health & happiness, and just let dating wait over there and get good & dusty while I get RADIANT & CLEAN over here in my rapidly-recharging womanly sunshine.... ......in the past 30 days I've begun to actually experience PEACE. Lovely, easy, sweet-feeling PEACE. Zero drama; zero angst. Not one damn eggshell for me to tread lightly across. And it just feels so good 🥲🙌 Yes, sister; it is indeed time to fuck that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 19 | The emotional labor of being hurtI always blamed myself, too 🤦♀️ always went straight to thinking the worst of myself 🤦♀️ meanwhile always giving guys I barely knew (or knew all too well) the benefit of the doubt regardless 🙄 ......why are so many of them like this? A lifetime of being spoiled & coddled (and therefore turned self-absorbed) by Pickmeisha Mommies (something I'm now very much working on with my little boy) and Pickmeisha Girlfriends/Booty Calls/Temporary Wives who have been like, fucking indoctrinated to put our… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:32 PM |
| 19 | The emotional labor of being hurtGod. This is so. Fucking. True. ........I am just shocked again & again as I'm reading posts on this subreddit by just how much I have pampered every man-child I've ever been with... It's unreal!!! But all too real. And I'm just so fucking done living that tragic, exhausting reality ❤️ I'm ready to leave behind all of the pampering and coddling ..... at least, no more pampering & coddling LVMs 🙅♀️ ....time for a new reality, ladies.... where we pamper & coddle ourselves 🙂💁♀️🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 8 | The emotional labor of being hurtAwesome advice, thank you!!! 🙏❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 14 | The emotional labor of being hurtSame, sis 🤦♀️😂❤️ Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:25 AM |
| 131 | The emotional labor of being hurtGotta love when he finally gives in and placates you: "I get it, sorry, I get it." (said with just a hint of impatience, then subject change) .... and really gotta love the subsequent 99 times you find yourself starting from scratch (because of his oddly random memory loss regarding you & your feelings): "Hey, you know how it makes me feel when you..." 😕 "Oh my gosh! We've been over this, what the heck?" 😟 "....do you really not remember me telling you how that hurts my feelings??" 🤯😖😢😞 FDS oh p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | The Misattribution of Arousal: Why Cliff-Dangling is SexyI love mountains & I hate OLD, so this post gets two enthusiastic thumbs up from me 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 01:43 AM |
| 3 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.Welcome!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 12 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.*hustle ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:59 PM |
| 69 | Congrats sisThis is fucking gold 🤣🤣🤣🤣🥇🎈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:22 PM |
| 90 | How is he getting a little bit better every day?My dad always told me that his idea of a truly loving relationship is two people continuously competing at who can be more loving/kind/supportive to the other. According to that concept, I'm the only one in my relationships with much competitive spirit 🤦♀️😂 ...I'm realizing lately that maybe I need to give guys a hell of a head start in the competition first lol... stop wasting my Olympian efforts on guys who never get up from the couch 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Newbie field reportOh dear God am I ready for an easier path 🙏🤣🤣🤣 I've been going in circles on the same dang rocky hot bullshit path for waaaay too long 🤦♀️🙄😂 show me the way, sisters!! ❤️💃💃💃💃💃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Newbie field reportWow!!! Thank you for this awesome post! You're giving me hope of being able to actually apply the stuff I'm learning here on FDS, & a clear vision of what empowering progress looks like in action! 🤗🤗🤗 Good for you, OP; I'm rooting for you & for all of us 🙌❤️🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 79 | hope everyone has a good Friday ❤️I feel this hard. My relationship with makeup is so warped... I love putting it on, but also have worn it to work almost every workday at every job for, jeez, almost decades. The thought of not wearing it to work is so randomly hugely anxiety-inducing. I'm just so sensitive to hearing "Whoa, you look exhausted" & "Oh no, are you sick?" over & over 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:25 PM |
| 14 | Men lack selfawarenessHoly shit 😳😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 7 | The FDS answer to everything. Kick him out, sis. Block and delete. Go live your best life.The dumping always sucks, but it's over relatively quick; but allllllllllll the rest of that's going to keep me busy a hot minute lol 👵🏻 ⬅️⬅️⬅️ me on my next date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:46 AM |
| 9 | The FDS answer to everything. Kick him out, sis. Block and delete. Go live your best life.9/10 times, not bad advice at all 😂🤷♀️ (but let's be real here, probably the 10th time too 🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️ glad to be here 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Jarring, yes 😂 like waking up from some misogynistic matrix Speaking of clarifying what a healthy relationship looks like, I found myself reading over the sidebar essential reading stuff again last night, and realized that I have never, ever put thought into just exactly what I consider to be my standards & my boundaries with dating men 🤯🤯🤯 ...... It was a flabbergasting realization lol 🤦♀️🤯 so I made a list, which was SO AWESOME to do, so empowering; re-read more stuff, kept realizing I never … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:53 AM |
| 2 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Never knew that! Thanks for the new knowledge 🙂❤️🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:31 AM |
| 15 | Confronting a former friend who turned out to be a NVM abuser on Monday. Terrified.......... if the senior pastor considers it to be sexual assault, then ummm why the fuck didn't he advise you to report it to the police? Like what the fuck? Why is he setting up a dumbass pointless meeting when a) he must know how difficult/uncomfortable that would be for you, and b) he's the fucking senior pastor lol 🤷♀️ call up this piece of trash, ban him from ever stepping foot on property again, and threaten him with law enforcement if he gives any pushback. Sorry to be a possible bearer … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:08 AM |
| 86 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.Faaaaacts 🤦♀️🤮🤮🤮 so gross & so careless & so true ughhh 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:57 PM |
| 56 | The CheckgotDAMN that is hilarious 😂😂😂 I mean... I guess it’s so funny cuz it’s so true. And that’s kind of a huge bummer. But I’m learning that it’s better to be a little bummed out from afar, and armored with reality, then super bummed out up close & personal whilst trying to pretend away reality. Still, 10\10 hilariously spot-on commentary 👌😂 Jesus do these boys love wearing us down on anal, which they are fully aware almost always gives us much more pain than pleasure... lovely of them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you!!! ❤️🤗❤️ starting to feel proud of myself! Y'all have been doing nothing but lifting me up & giving me so much encouragement 🙌 grateful for all of you & your thoughtful words ❤️🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:11 PM |
| 84 | Title: “I (25f) am pregnant. Partner (28m) wants a paternity test. I think he's looking for an excuse to leave.” Just yikes 😬God... I've been so desperate so many times to be wrong about the oh-so-obvious writing on the wall... I really feel for this woman. What an awful situation to suddenly find yourself in... & after three years together, ugh. Heartbreaking's the word, yes 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Gotcha 👍 thanks for looking out!! 🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Us having such nearly identical dating histories/struggles & then reading about your progression from where I am (and where you once were) to where you are now - being 5 steps ahead of men!!! Incomprehensible!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 - your progression is just filling me up with hope ❤️❤️❤️ At 36, as I keep repeating the same toxic relationship patterns that I've literally been stuck in for decades 🤦♀️🙄 I've been getting this hopeless, sad feeling that I'm too old to learn new tricks 🤷♀️ that obviously I'll … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 4 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you very much 🥰❤️🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Wow....! You just described my whole dating history in like one succinct paragraph! It blows my mind how similar so many of our romantic dealings have been! Zero boundaries.... yep, struggled with that SO much with SO little improvement 🤦♀️ I can't describe enough just how much my short time of exploring FDS has opened up my eyes, clarified so many things for me... I feel like I'm starting to get it now, too (thank GOD 🙌) & I have also been feeling a growing sense of relief within me... Thank y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 6 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Love your post, love your defense of emoji usage, & good to know that I can let all of my emojis live wild & free at least here on this sub, without judgment! 🙌🤗❤️🥳 Two things that matter to me SO much - truth & kindness - I'm finding absolutely everywhere on this lovely subreddit!!! Y'all are great people ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you for welcoming me! ❤️🤗❤️ and lol tell me more about why I should turn off the private messages..?!? 😂 I know women get weird/intrusive messages frequently from men, is that why..? I've lucked out so far, but it is only day 2 for me.. 😬😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Need support. Going through a breakup and having a hard time taking care of myself.Hi ❤️❤️❤️ So I can't in good conscience give you much advice... simply because I'm just the hottest of messes during a breakup 🤷♀️😂 & I doubt that many of my ways of coping are healthy 🤷♀️ When I'm heartbroken, I: cry my ass off, text the guy way too much, cry my ass off more, smoke weed, binge-eat, drink wine, sob until I'm basically just a vaguely-human-shaped blob made of mostly snot & tears & despair. So lol I don't think I'm the right one to give you advice 😂😂🤷♀️ BUT - I've got empathy f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you & Amen to that, friend!!! ❤️🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 5 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Amazing post!!!!!! You just gave me chills!!! Like, not scary weird chills, like super-duper-fucking-chills-of-EMPOWERMENT! 🤗❤️🤗 (is it okay how much I'm cussing?!? I do NOT want to get kicked out of here like two seconds after getting in 😂🤦♀️🤣) every damn thing you wrote is right on the money! & thank you for your kind & hope-inspiring words 🙌❤️ And another big-ass thank you from my SOUL for your smart & real advice about the maintenance stage to come, in the unchanged society around me! That'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...It's kind of inspirational as fuck right? 🤷♀️ 😂😂😂😂😂😂 This place gives me like born-again vibes for real 🤷♀️😂🙌 My perspective changes since I've been glued to this subreddit the past couple weeks have been downright holy feeling! 🤷♀️🙌❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:59 PM |
| 17 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Y'all love emojis too 😭🙌😭 Y'all are my people 😂😭❤️🙌🥰👩👩👧👧 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 7 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Doubt... omggggg I've spent my whole life constantly doubting myself, thinking the worst of myself, being downright mean to myself, & all the while just flinging all of my warm sunny forgiving kind-ass energy at low-effort guy after unkind-guy after manipulative guy... I'm over it!! 😂😂😂 I'm sick of doubting myself; so thank you, I am awesome lol!! 😂😂😂🥰❤️💪 & so are you!! Omg this sub gets me so HYPE 🤣🤷♀️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 13 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...I'm sounding like such a dang parrot but YES it feels so freeing 😂😂😂 YES this place is amazing 🤷♀️😂 & it DOES feel like a veil has lifted 🤷♀️😂 & thank God it has, cuz so far I am loving this unveiled way of living/being/feeling!!! ❤️🤗🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:59 PM |
| 8 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...First of all - you DO matter!!! ❤️❤️❤️ And secondly, I think that's what has been so compelling to me about this subreddit - how uncannily similar so many of the experiences women are sharing here are to my own experiences... Time & again I could have written the exact story I was reading... this sub is downright unsettling at first, I keep feeling like real-ass truths are just slapping me in the face left & right 😂😂😂 But the truth is so, so, so empowering. It feels so clean and good. & it feels… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 9 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Wow y'all are welcoming as FUCK & I really appreciate it!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 18 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...1) thank you so much 🥰🤗 2) it has been such a relief!!! 3) I somehow missed the kinkmeisha page of reading, so I just looked it up & read it & 😱🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ okay so I'm a recovering Kinkmeisha, too 🤦♀️😂🤷♀️ hoooooo boy do I have some work to do lol! But luckily, I love working 💪 4) & I want to be a High Value Woman, too 🙏❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 34 | After nearly 10 years of being a Reddit lurker (never even made an account) this subreddit has had such an impact on me that I finally had to sign up, so I can say to all of you...Thank you!! 🥰 & thank you for your generous emoji usage 😂🙌 I've been kinda holding back on them (probably because I've read hundreds of comments on Reddit over the years totally denouncing them 🙄) but I can't hold them back much longer... like half of my texting correspondence is practically hieroglyphs 🤷♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:12 PM |
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