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tr4guy/r/seduction17/02/19 06:14 AM
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Conversationtr4guy/r/seduction15/01/20 12:59 PM
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tr4guy/r/seduction22/04/19 04:48 PM
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Just jump, when you feel like it. The post misses the point that there are qualities in humans that are not measured as positive by societal standards. There is being different and being "different". In the end some people dont make it.
/r/seduction27/08/20 09:45 AM
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I've missed an oppurtunity to have sex w her. And I hate myself for this. Parading in front of her could that be on social media aswell?
/r/seduction11/02/20 11:51 AM
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The thing is she told me she finds me attractive. I think that i just left the impression on her to seem not as sexually adept as she'd like.
/r/seduction11/02/20 11:31 AM
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Does this work to also restore attraction with a woman that has lost attraction when you for example show up with a hotter one at an event? Or does this kill interest? She is in a relationship and chose me over another guy, also into the borderline spectrum.
/r/seduction22/01/20 12:55 PM
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Listen, my main goal is to have a go with her in a sexual way. I am well aware that a serious relationship with someone that has bpd is no joke, but i think she is extremely attractive to me and I dont know how i should tackle this with her in order to get to where i'd want with her in the future if that is even possible. I am just lost on how to tackle this challenge on getting her interested in me in that way again. If you have any practical advice to give me, i d be happy to read it.
/r/seduction20/01/20 06:43 AM
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What do you mean be in her thoughts?
/r/seduction16/01/20 10:35 AM
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I know but heres the deal i'd like to be considered an option again bcs i'd love to get a shag. So how should i behave?
/r/seduction16/01/20 05:43 AM
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Listen, i just want to get out of the friendzone so that i can get ny shag with her. Whag would i need to do?
/r/seduction16/01/20 05:40 AM
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She has it legit. That doesnt mean shes not worth fighting for.
/r/seduction15/01/20 10:54 PM
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I know. She isnt getting treatment atm she thinks she doesnt need it. I am aware what i am getting myself into.... So hit me with the advice.
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:54 PM
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Yeah sure
/r/seduction15/01/20 02:48 PM
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She is kind of special to me. Thats the thing
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:12 PM
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The thing is idk waiting around in the sense of pursuing other girls while she is in a relationship? Idk
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:08 PM
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Its similair to the post ive seen ages ago of the guy that got out of the friendzone by deliberatly going into it. Idk if dread game can work or going no contacr idk. I want to discuss my further actions on what i can do
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:15 PM
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But there needs to be a way i am sure
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:14 PM
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And what should i answer to her implying not wanting to date me?
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:48 PM
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I understand that. But whst shpuld i answer to this message? And what should i do? Hang out witj her still? This is my issue
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:31 PM
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Thing is pne of my friends suggests me to ask her if this is something serious. But idk if thats a smart thing to ask answer. Chris from develop attraction says to not do anything. But i want to keep things open for possible conmunication to happen. Idk.
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:06 PM
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So what do i do? I find the hotter women are highly selective and demanding, like some dont respond at all to a simple hi or whatever opener, or a genuine remark about their profile. Also one mistake in terms of texting and you're out. Ghosted. But what they all do is test you with delaying their responses. No matter how attractive they are.
/r/seduction03/06/19 01:24 AM
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The thing is I dont see myself getting very close to women in general, this would be the fastest way to experience something like this. Hell, I don't know how to kiss. I am very aware that it will never replace a real situation but with my time and current skill of game( look at my other posts pls) and having already screwed up two dates bcs of lacking experience, granted one was poor text game w a chick that was playing and the other i managed to get onto a date but couldnt be physical with her…
/r/seduction22/04/19 08:20 PM
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I tried going out but it shows that i have never been physical with a woman. For example a chick tried to dance with me rubbing her butt against me, i immediatly tensed up, not knowing how to act. Her friends saw that and pulled her away. I feel like even though i am 25 about to turn 26 soon, i will never lose that fear of getting physical that way without any experience. Women can sense the weirdness miles away and it hinders me from gaining the experiences people make in their teenage years. I…
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:17 PM
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I signed up for one in my area in a couple weeks. I thought the same as the other dude, lots of chicks for relatively small amount of guys. If you have trouble w online dating check out playingwithfire . They have a great tinder guide and lots of free info on there too. I am considering buying the thing to check it out.
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:48 AM
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I had something like this happen w a girl from tinder, where she ended up let's be friendsing me even before meeting up. I had to reject her. She responded with it may be better than to string me along and waste my time. At last, she was honest and unmatched me. It's 100% that you are not her number one priority. Tell her you don't mind not meeting up at all if she cant make the time. Most of the time the girl will show you some interest again by saying no, she really wants to but xyz. You can t…
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:36 AM
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I was straight up honest with her and told her no i'm not interested in a platonic relationship. I realized that if she doesnt agree with us dating and there would be an incongruence and i would lie to myself not being able to withold myself. She did not respond yet and I think even if I 'd agreed to the friendship, she wouldnt have met up with me regardless. This is also a way of coping for the woman in question. As is i am not going to waste my time w someone that is not receptive per se. Also…
/r/seduction04/04/19 06:54 PM
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The thing is, she probably doesnt have a big enough social circle, she is a foreign phd student, i get the idea but i feel like i would compromise my inner intentions.
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:03 PM
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I have this fear of people reporting me and getting me kicked the fuck out of the place if i behave differently. Daygame is much harder i feel.
/r/seduction03/03/19 08:13 PM
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I had success doing game there with a wingman aka former buddy of mine in the manner that we would chat them up get to know the chicks and later move them or spot them in the lounge area and open them again. Going out alone is super difficult as in opening a set of girls on the dancefloor alone is difficult. I really dont have much choice, since my funds and knowledge of hometown nightlife are limited. I am less inclined to experiment since my wingman decided he doesnt want to go clubbing in gen…
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:21 PM
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Bcs in the clubs i frequent, the dancefloor is the biggest area, other than that you can't really meet chicks anywhere other than the coat check. I can't hang out at the bar next to the dancefloor and stare at the crowd dancing can i.
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:13 PM
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I do this but on the dancefloor it doesnt help. The whole homebase thing doesnt work when you are a massive nerd in the club.
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:09 PM
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Well they do. Last experience was this that people avoided proximity there was this bubble around me. So yeah go figure i am a chode. No wonders i am on seddit....
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:06 PM
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In the club, being alone is the most depressing thing. You are there dancing on your own and usually people avoid you since you're there alone. So i for shure need a wingman. I really do. Preferrably someone who has more experience would be nice too.
/r/seduction03/03/19 06:59 PM
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There is an article around from a physicist that did his phd creating a formula for just what you wanted to explain. But he came to the conclusion that the older you get the less likely it is to find your partner. For him in the range of 25-30 he calculated a probability of something like 1/280'000 to find his ideal partner. Case in point beeing, yes there are plenty of fish in the sea, but you will either have to find your partner abroad or fish in another age group if you are a social reject l…
/r/seduction03/03/19 06:29 PM
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Are you sure?
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:16 PM
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The thing is women decide very quickly if your a beta chode or not. You got lucky when i judge what happened to you based on my "theoretical" knowledge.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:29 PM
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Date will most likely be during daytime with a coffebreak after doggo playtime.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:27 PM
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Shes a phd student. I dont want to fuck this uppppppppp
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:25 PM
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Thank you! 1&2: realized that but it also means i need to recognize interest in the first place which is difficult for me in crowded places especially. Was this accidental eye contact or not? Did she move closer on purpose? 3: lol. I am broke as it is. 4: good fit is important, i got that. I recently got the tip to wear darker colors so sweat stains are not as visible. Gets super hot if there are tons of people there. 5: live in a small-ish town so it's relative. Also can't really pull bcs i liv…
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:39 PM
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It's not just that. I end up helping them with some task, whatever it is and they then dont have the time to give me a favour back. Helped a guy move, asked him for a favour back his response was literally: "nah, am busy. Sry" or them promising to return the favour but never do. This is what i call a shitty, onesided relationship that be it with a girl or dude is just unnecessary. I dont have the nerve to get walked over and over again by people i spend my lifetime on but dont value mine. Simple…
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:23 PM
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Thank you! I am a university student and aiming to go to parties aimed at this demographic. Also i have trouble seeing the girls that do hold eye contact and most of the time i am also unsure wheater or not the dude she's dancing with is her bf or whatnot. Really dont want to get punched in the face, i am ugly enough as it is. Also big thing for me is the dancing with girls per se i am so stiff in a sense when i notice proximity. Like wtf do i do?? Breaking that barrier of physicality is a big o…
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:28 AM
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I was thinking of telling her what i think, that she is scared to take the next step. I don't want to be friendzoned tho so i don't know if she got it that i'd like to potentially be more than friends with her.
/r/seduction03/02/19 05:19 PM
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She is weird. Bottom line weird with anyone. I just dont know whst to do in this situation.
/r/seduction03/02/19 08:30 AM
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Harmless, but on the edge.she is testing my waters.
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:59 PM
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He is my buddy, she is known to be a crazy bitch.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:59 PM
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She says specifically her goal is to tease me bcs it is fun,she revealed that to another coworker who thought needed to tell me this to protect me from her. EDIT: he asked her if she fancies me bcs she is so glued onto me; she said no, she has no interest in me, afterall she has a bf. With a straight face too, apparently.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:40 PM
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This is what i was talking about. I mean upfront this would be really stupid and creepy.
/r/seduction20/01/19 12:15 AM
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Make eyecontact, dance in proximity, if you get eyecontact back come closer. Eventually reach for her hand. Thing is i have yet to succeed in doing this myself but this should be the basic structure i have figured out.
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:54 PM
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Why? I was thinking of something like: hey, let's take a picture together so that i have proof you spiked my drink if i don't remember how i got home. I'll tag you in it.
/r/seduction19/01/19 11:49 PM
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Looking heavily into the natural, approach anxiety is meh but its more the situational calibration that i lack, that is why i need video material to show me how its done, i think. If i cant torrent the stuff that i want, i will have to shell out the cash for it. Its either that or hookers, but i prefer to spend the cash on me learning how to do it, rather than pay for affection the rest of my life....
/r/seduction16/01/19 11:51 PM
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Where can i find the torrents? Sry i am bad with stuff like this..
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:38 AM
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I dont have any friends that i can do this with. I have to go out alone which is really hard for someone like me. I am 25y old, still attending university and have no friends to party with. It's difficult to approach 2 sets as a low experience guy, can't hold em to actually have a conversation with.
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:53 PM
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Books don't do it for me. I need to see how it's done. I've read loads of em but they don't give you shit compared to an actual video of a situation.
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:44 PM
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The thing is, she was giving me major ioi's in our first physical interaction. Shit tests followed online via insta story responses en masse. But she flakes still. She could just play hard to get or idk. I will have another chance of meeting her in person at work. I will escalate physically as much as possible and see how she reacts. If she doesnt like it, chances are i blew it. Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction04/01/19 05:32 AM
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