Help with going out alone clubbing

ntipz011 · 2019-02-17T06:19:32+00:00

I feel you man, I started going alone to clubs last year. So hard that they eventually made me a promoter there.

You dance with people by first dancing alone and having fun, they you move closer and try to initiate eye contact. If they lock EC, keep dancing the same and do whatever you regard as fun with that person. If that's a girl you like, slowly dance your way closer to her and see how she reacts.

You open people by basically saying anything. If you know how to small talk this is easy. If you don't know how to you have a few magic openers like "where are you from" and "what do you do here". Add any situational opener you can think of.

You wear whatever makes you look "cool for that venue". If this is a hiphop club don't go with your slim chino and white shirt. Take into consideration the kind of clothes you like, don't force yourself to wear what you don't like.

Yep you fucked up. If you don't talk to her or engage her in any way she's not gonna stay around you.

You don't need to drink to get in the mood, but it's true that it's harder to get past the first approaches without alcohol, the anxiety is stronger there. But at the end of the night you can pull easier because your mind is clear.

WIA20XX · 2019-02-17T08:33:14+00:00

Go places where you like the music. If you can't sing along and have a good time, you're fucking it up for everyone.

Before you head out for that night, build a routine. Open strangers during the day, listen to the music of the club, and shit shower shave, etc.

Wear white shirt/black pants/black shoes or black shirt/black pants/black shoes. When you start, you want to blend in, be anonymous After you get better, then dress to be noticed.

At most, two beers. Better to be sober. If you're too self conscious, club soda and lime.

If it's your very first time at a club, go at 9:30/10 and see how boring it is until the place fills up.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-02-17T06:30:58+00:00

At the club alone the best advice I got was the following:

1: you're not at the club to meet women you're there to enjoy yourself. Even if you are, keep telling yourself otherwise.

2: because you're not there looking for women, you will not engage with them unless they show you interest first.

3: never buy her a drink without resistance. I try not to but if I do I usually say "I only buy drinks for blowjobs"

4: wear what you're comfortable in but dont be a try hard. It should be fitted and reflect you

5: the club should be close by your place or a place you can pull her to finish the night. Logistics are important

tr4guy · 2019-02-17T17:08:28+00:00

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Title	Help with going out alone clubbing
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Date	February 17, 2019 6:14 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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