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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | How do you deal with women that have strong personalities?She’s Puerto Rican so she has this weird balance of crazy/combativeness and ultra femininity | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Is my game weak or are my looks just not up to a par?I’ve lived a sheltered life so I don’t have those kinds of stories/anecdotes I usually do if the vibe is right but it’s not much of an accomplishment. I find that it’s better not to have a heavy make out session until she’s at your place | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Is my game weak or are my looks just not up to a par?On dates I let them do most of the talking, tease and use kino gradually where appropriate | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?That thought just makes me feel worse. I’m always coming second to someone else | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?It usually does make it easier to move on and break out of my sad spell though. The only downside is that I’m burning that bridge forever and eliminating the remote possibility that she’ll come back around, especially if it was just a timing issue | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?One girl ghosted me after seeing my instagram. I can’t help but feel like I could’ve had her if I just had a body I could show off or more candid/social photos outside of my house | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?No. I’ve slept with only 3 girls this year despite going on dates every week | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Can you a lose woman by taking too long to respond?Thats a little different and not that unusual. I’m talking about stretching out a conversation when sparks are flying and the person is showing interest. If you cut them off instead and reach out a month later it’s kind of like you’re starting fresh | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 09:13 PM |
| 2 | I’m trapped in the vicious cycle, my failures keep weighing me down mentally and messing up new opportunitiesYes, validation and quality sex and intimacy with someone who isn’t going to kick you out after one nut If pleasure is all that matters why are you even here when you can just pay or use your hand? Every straight man wants validation or some kind of ego boost from women | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I’m trapped in the vicious cycle, my failures keep weighing me down mentally and messing up new opportunitiesThat’s like telling someone who’s dying of hunger that they’re too “greedy” and obsessed with food. You don’t understand my perspective and can only chalk up to some moral defect that I supposedly have | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I’m trapped in the vicious cycle, my failures keep weighing me down mentally and messing up new opportunitiesIsn’t the source of depression just a lack of pussy in most cases? If I had a regular sex life for someone who has the opportunities that I do, I probably wouldn’t feel this way | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m trapped in the vicious cycle, my failures keep weighing me down mentally and messing up new opportunitiesBut I feel like my poor romantic life is the sole source of my depression. With all the women I meet and go on dates with, I should have a roster or a relationship by now and I’m frustrated that I don’t | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textI haven’t found a solution yet, and part of the reason why I’m miserable is my lack of success with women and the countless negative experiences I’ve had with them. It’s a vicious cycle - I constantly have new opportunities fall on my lap, but I’m still being weighed down mentally by the last 10 girls that I fumbled | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textIdk man, unless I become a wealthy fashion designer or sth im always going to hate the 9 to 5 grind | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textOnly time I’m ever in good spirits is on weekends and Friday nights. I just don’t have anything going on the rest of the week and don’t have any updates to share besides “hey I’m working” or “I’m in bed watching tv” | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textWhen I’m at work and feeling pressure to keep another girl’s attention long enough to make it to the weekend because they’re all fickle as fuck, yes | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textYeah, that’s why I choose not to talk to them when I feel shitty | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textEasier said done. I basically hate working and having any expectations imposed on me | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Unusual Problem: It takes forever for me to respond back to girls over textUsually I’ve already asked them out | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 01:28 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being bitter?Looking back, I understand why it happened in a lot of cases. Either: 1) I wasn’t that into the girl and was going through the motions for sex 2) They would flake or leave me hanging a bit on planning a date, and our interactions over text were reduced to me just asking them out every few days instead of keeping a consistent convo going. If I get a number, I’m usually trying to plan something within the first few messages after making some basic small talk. I could see how this approach could co… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being bitter?The thing is, I can’t tell what went wrong and no girl is going to tell me why they didn’t want to fuck me | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 03:12 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being bitter?Best case, I’m miserable and desperate (due to my lack of success with women) and they can sense it Worst case, i could be autistic and the way I communicate and think is inherently off putting to women. I’m not funny or interesting and never will be because i don’t have the right brain wiring to charm and excite people with my words | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 02:44 PM |
| 3 | How do I stop being bitter?I find that any time I try to spice up the conversation and veer away from interview questions it backfires. Women just seem to find my jokes and attempts at flirting corny and I can’t help it. I’m not witty and good at making astute observations on the fly | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?Unfortunately corniness comes from a lack of wit and that’s something you have to be born with practically | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 02:33 PM |
| -16 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?I think it’s lame. Any girl of quality would judge the shit out of you for dating a 20 year old | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:40 PM |
| 11 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?I usually lose them when I try to act too unserious | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:21 PM |
| -20 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?It feels sleazy. A grown man has no business talking to a 20 year old who still needs to sneak out of the house | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Can you make up for missing out on casual sex in your teens/early 20s?Even then, that’s a small handful of years that you can enjoy before you feel internal pressure to settle down and have kids. I don’t want to be an old dad | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Building up mutuals >> Dating appslol a gap year? Try losing 10+ years of socialization | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 05:42 AM |
| 0 | How do you stop being thirsty?I sometimes rush to sexualize the conversation or make some corny joke about being married or how attractive they are whenever there’s a lull. I show my card too quickly | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 08:46 PM |
| 0 | How many new girls do you lay each week?If you count any qfailed talking stages it’s 1% | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?People think the same thing about me, they’re just too cowardly to say it out loud. What different does it make | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?I sympathize, but my point was just that an ADHD woman is still going to think I’m weird and unattractive just like a neurotypical woman | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?I’m just being honest. Just as autism is an ick in men, and can also be an ick in women | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?By putting me in my place I mean straight up ignoring me. They don’t even consider me worthy enough to insult/neg | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 10 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?How about night clubs/bars? I feel like women are too concerned about what their friends think and used to being validated through their phones nowadays to want to go through the trouble of hooking up with a stranger | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?No and probably not, never had to | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Im starting to think game can’t be taughtIsn’t that what players do? Sell a dream and breadcrumb so they can get in their pants? Why doesn’t it work when I do it? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?What? Some racial shit? The type of women I go for like black men Or do I look autistic af? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Im starting to think game can’t be taughtThis probably works for you because you’re ripped. If I did the same thing they would just feel bored and tell me there was no spark | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:25 PM |
| -2 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?Well, they’d still be autistic and have the characteristic traits that I’m not attracted too | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Im starting to think game can’t be taughtWell women aren’t exactly open with feedback so I’ll never know wtf I’m doing wrong | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I feel good about myself up until a woman puts me in my place. They’ve already decided what my value is before I even interact with tjem | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Im starting to think game can’t be taughtIdk because I can’t tell where I’m going wrong anymore. I’m funny, I’m escalating/doing kino, they seem attracted, we make out, I invite them over at the end of the date and they decline more often than not, and then boom, they ghost me The only flaw in my irl game is that I don’t reveal much about myself, and just react to whatever they say. I don’t have any cool stories that I can share, I can’t teach them anything about life, etc. My humor is more silly and playful than witty but that’s just … | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I don’t know how to be an asshole in a way that doesn’t come off sassy and uncalibrated. Who the fuck am I anyway? I’m just a groupie loser who wants something from them like everyone else. They don’t respect my opinion | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?Yes, and I’m not attracted to women with the same traits who I would probably have an easier time with | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Its probably the easiest place in America to get laid. The gender ratios are favorable, women love light skinned/dominican men and I can literally meet with 1-2 new women every week | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?Do you think the type of women I describe are inherently superior to me due to my condition? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 0 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?My shitty mindset comes from being rejected a trillion times | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:38 PM |
| -9 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?Meh, ADHD isn’t real neurodivergence. Everyone below 30 has it and it doesn’t impair your social skills unless you have ASD also | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:23 PM |
| 13 | How many new girls do you lay each week?5 a year. I meet at least 1 new girl every week so my conversion rate is like 1% | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?So might as well be ugly is what you’re saying? You can’t cure autism | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?But fair point. I honestly have a chip on my shoulder from all the rejection I’ve faced and can’t help wearing that on my face as some kind of act of defiance: “you think I’m beneath you? Well I feel the same way about you and hope you regret it one day” knowing damn well that it would make my day if they liked me back | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I do all of that and I think they read me as being sleazy and insincere It’s almost as if in my reality, women are just never into casual sex | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Who says black women can’t suffer from internalized racism lol | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Im playful (sometimes too playful, as if im using it as a crutch to avoid vulnerability), do lots of kino and let them do most of the talking. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I’m very playful, touchy, make a lot of eye contact and usually invite them back home at the end of the date | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Arab? That’s a first. Most people correctly guess that I’m Dominican | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I have undiagnosed autism. That explains everything | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:41 AM |
| 5 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Easy women for now | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Whenever I’m direct it backfires and I get ignored | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I’m 6’ | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 11 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I can’t reply directly for some reason but alphagreen, it’s because they’re wrong. They have no idea what NYC women in their 20s like and want me to dress like a nerdy white washed guy | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 4 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Ghosted after the first date at the latest. Rarely ever ends in sex and I’m meeting new women literally every week. My success rate is like 1% AFTER mutual interest is established I’m starting to think I’m autistic and women are creeped out by me for reasons they can’t even explain | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I’m meeting them through hinge, instagram and cold approaching at night clubs | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:09 PM |
| -7 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I promise you that’s not the issue. A lot of women prefer the laidback casual look | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:04 PM |
| -12 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?I’m good, i like the way i dress | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 3 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Anyone who’s remotely cute and in shape | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 09:56 PM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Tell that to Messi | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 09:54 PM |
| -11 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?But then there are guys out there getting threesomes with minimal effort while those same women act like they’re nuns with me | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Feels like my sexual desire puts women off?There’s a whole human/social element to this stuff thats common sense and hard to teach. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Feels like my sexual desire puts women off?I deleted the conversation on WhatsApp but it went something like this: Me: “Ha sido un placer conocerte y espero que llegues bien a la casa. debemos coordinar y planear algo pronto” Me: “me dejaste con ganas en verdad ;)” Her: “tu también y si, pero en un ambiente más tranquilo” Me: “claro, te dejaré saber. Espero que duermas bien y que sueñes conmigo ;)” And then she blocked me at some point today. She’s Spanish also if that helps That one message from her says a lot, but keep in mind, she was… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 10:35 PM |
| – | How do I become more open, less vain, and stop trying to coast off my looks?There’s no plastic surgery procedure that would be worth the money for me | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Is the feeling that someone is interested in you usually true ? Or is it delusional?I would look for signs beyond just being friendly and nice like lingering in your personal space too much, staring too long, asking loaded questions that go beyond small talk, etc. Things you would find weird and presumptuous coming from a man you barely know. Edit: Actually if you’re in a shared setting like school or a job where there isn’t an expectation of being super polite and professional towards colleagues, you’ve barely ever conversed, and she consistently greets you first, she might li… | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the feeling that someone is interested in you usually true ? Or is it delusional?I would look for signs beyond just being friendly and nice like lingering in your personal space too much, staring too long, asking loaded questions, negging, etc. Behavior you would find a little weird and presumptuous coming from a man you barely know. The vibe between you two should be tense, charged, push-pull, not just pleasant Edit: Actually if you’re in a shared setting like school or a job where there isn’t an expectation of being super cordial and professional towards coworkers, you’ve … | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 12:22 PM |
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