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What am I doing right? You're young, tall, confident, run good game (vague answers, poke fun, generally don't give a fuck, bold/direct), know yourself and what you like. That makes you different from the typical pussified American male.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:21 AM
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Ask her out and see where it goes. "Hey let's hang out this weekend." Then plan it and run tight seduction game.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:11 AM
1

Run tight game in places frequented by this demographic and play the numbers.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 06:09 AM
1

Three women so far, one an American 7.5, another a Canadian 7; can't remember what the third looked like. The Canadian had daddy issues. The American had a good father relationship.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 08:10 PM
3

Skype sexy time
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:17 PM
1

You don't lift for confidence, you lift for health, fitness, strength. The confidence is just a bonus. In the same way that you don't learn to fight for confidence, you learn to fight so you can defend yourself.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:15 PM
2

hence more experiences...and you facing your shit (introspection, reflection, meditation, etc) so you can make peace with your shit
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:10 PM
2

For maximum use of your time at the gym and best results, do compound exercises (plus proper bodybuilding nutrition) for 1 year and see how big (and how strong) you get. A good measure of strength is how heavy you can lift on your first set. Do 5 sets per exercise, target 5 reps per set. Perfect form is extremely important because anything less will result in injury (it may take a while to happen, but it will happen if you're lifting heavy with incorrect form). Set 1 should be the heaviest start…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 11:00 PM
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It's normal. That reaction will continue to fade over time and over more experiences.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 10:47 PM
1

A man with a full head of hair is more attractive to women than a man with thinning hair, a receding hairline, a bald spot, or just bald. As for hair length, it's personal preference, but generally, the more masculine the haircut the better. Too metrosexual of a look and it's borderline effeminate, this also applies to beards and eyebrows. On the other hand, if the only masculine thing you have about you is your beard, you're doing it wrong. First find your masculinity.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 10:45 PM
1

Stay fit and stay committed to your fitness, for yourself, not for anyone. If he loses interest and the relationship ends, so be it, you'll save yourself some headache, and it would prove that you were with the wrong person to begin with.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 10:42 PM
1

Full steam ahead. She just needs more time for comfort before you can give her the D.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:46 PM
1

Any girl who spends more time at the gym taking selfies than working out. Any girl with an Instagram, Tinder, Twitter, or Facebook account.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:45 PM
1

Read and reflected a lot. Hit the gym regularly. Traveled solo.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:04 AM
1

You're 24. You got plenty of game years ahead of you. Life's too short. The world's your oyster, young man. Don't waste your opportunities.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:03 AM
1

Bang her. She's obviously interested. Let things play out.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:02 AM
3

It's a good sign...means your game's working and it's causing her to get carried away. Any of these with a playful/teasing vibe: "I know." "That's ok. I don't trust myself around you either." "I don't trust you either." "Don't worry, you will soon." "Do you trust yourself more on top of me?" "I know, they told me about you." "Tigers and bears have one thing in common. Sometimes peanut butter sticks to the wall." [Non sequitur]
/r/askTRP17/06/15 12:59 AM
1

The general rule is to text strictly for logistics. When you follow this rule, it's best to reply quickly and get it over with, then stop texting. Also best to keep your texts short, direct/clear, and to the point. You: "Hey..lets hang out this weekend" [6 hrs later] Her: "Heyy not sure yet, i'll let u know" You [immediately]: "Ok" [1 hr later] Her: "What are we doing?" You [immediately]: "You'll see..pick u up at 7" Her: "Ok :)"
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:44 AM
3

Even though women can be as horny and nasty as men are, you should still treat everyone with respect (unless they're disrespecting you), and that includes your language (unless the conversation is explicitly going one direction). No one wants to feel used, even though that's exactly what's happening and even if they know it's happening and they're participating in it. With most women, learn the art of doublespeak.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:37 AM
2

Get busy (and have fun while you're at it) doing your own thing. If you're truly enjoying yourself doing whatever it is YOU want to do, you won't be pretending you don't want her too much. You'll actually won't want her too much, because you're having too much fun on your own already.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:31 AM
8

It's sad when you have to do this because ideally we'd all have functional relationships with our parents, but you gotta do what's best for you.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:29 AM
1

Travel widely.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:49 AM
1

A man's SMV will help him lead, but it's the man who leads. Always lead.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:48 AM
1

Tell her you need some time to think. Give her a specific timeline. Then assess what you truly want and make a decision.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:46 AM
1

Always lead the interaction. But don't be clingy / needy.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:45 AM
2

Do the work. There are no shortcuts.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:44 AM
3

Then stop it. Pause, observe, reflect.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:42 AM
2

Stick to your standards. Don't bang anyone who doesn't meet your boner test.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:41 AM
1

Irrelevant to RP. Move on with your life.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:39 AM
4

Why? Where's the satisfaction in this? Just do whatever feels right to you.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:38 AM
6

I still just don't want to believe I'm in store for a life of empty relationships and loneliness There's your problem. Life is abundant. Live accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:36 AM
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Love isn't something you feel (emotion). Emotions come and go. Love is something you do (choice). Or to an "enlightened" person, love is something you are (the "is-ness" of things, i.e., "Love is"). The parent's love for a child is natural, because the child is an extension of the parent (literally, same DNA). In the case of relationships, be with a person long enough and that person becomes an "extension" of you, and you start loving them the way you love yourself. Thus the magic ingredient to …
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:19 PM
1

Nothing wrong with waiting if you have other things / plates going. She just needs more time to feel comfortable. 1-2 more dates.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:09 PM
1

"Pick you up at 7"
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:06 PM
10

You can do whatever the fuck you want with your life, but whatever you do, be fully aware of possible consequences and be willing to accept them.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:06 PM
8

Spend more time at the gym. By yourself. Flirt with other women.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:04 PM
1

Do it.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:23 PM
1

I don't see a problem. They haven't said no to you. Always initiate.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:22 PM
2

Go inward and know yourself better. There's a part or parts of yourself you don't like / you're disconnected from. This prevents you from connecting with other people.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:21 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/The-Key-Logger-Forbidden-Glimpse-ebook/dp/B00FZXE2HY
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:20 PM
13

Start over. You have enough savings and wits to figure it out. Fuck bitches get money.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:19 PM
7

Passive aggression is faggyness. It's the opposite of masculine.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 05:18 PM
1

Initiate conversation on text, not FB
/r/askTRP13/06/15 05:03 PM
4

Their pussies belong to Jesus. The gardener.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 04:48 AM
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If you see her in person again, a quick "Hi" is enough. No need to ask how she's doing or get into deep conversation. Maybe 5 minutes talking AT MOST if you're compelled to. Treat her like an acquaintance (not a friend).
/r/askTRP13/06/15 01:03 AM
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You have nothing to gain accepting their request. They have everything to gain in terms of being validated by your acceptance and possibly gaining a beta orbiter. Never friend (on social media) any girls you wanna bang. Also when you reject their request, it increases your social value. "Who is this guy and why did he reject me?" Now they'll clamor for your attention.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 01:01 AM
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"You have no idea what you're in for". Then walk the walk and fuck her hard.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:19 PM
1

Too vague. Ask a question.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:18 PM
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Doesn't matter what anyone thinks. You do your thing, you stay on your journey, you keep growing.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:18 PM
3

The way he handled it tells me that he's in a good place and won't tolerate bullshit--sign of maturity. You fucked up. Suck it up and get straight.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 11:16 PM
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He was right to end it with you. he would be cutting off contact with me until I was single again and for him not to contact him again until I was "boyfriendless." Do this. And maybe you'll have a chance at it again. Or not. Be single for a while and get your head straight.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 10:51 PM
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Yes. Because it keeps you stuck on her. Move on. Block her on your phone, social media, etc. Delete all your pics together. Delete all your texts with her. Move on. Then whatever you do, do for yourself and no one else.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 10:48 PM
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Read half of this and concluded that 1) She's years ahead of you in maturity. 2) You have some growing up / manning up to do. Until that happens, you'll continue to annoy / irritate / alienate / repulse every girl you get in relationship with. I don't blame her for dumping you. Don't worry, most guys don't grow up until around early to mid 30s. Your mindset is normal for your age. Take a long hard look at yourself, dig deep, and handle your shit / grow up.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:25 PM
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Determine exactly what you want out of it, and talk to a lawyer. This isn't the right forum for legal questions. The lawyer would know how to word the agreement.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:22 PM
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Tell us how you feel about the situation and what you'll do about it after you've read this book: http://www.amazon.com/The-Key-Logger-Forbidden-Glimpse-ebook/dp/B00FZXE2HY
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:20 PM
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Right, hence Agree & Amplify to disarm her. "You don't" is not A&A, it's vague, and it triggers her safety alarm.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:18 PM
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This would likely cause her to think you are a creep. You want to say the right things, and that includes making her feel safe about you. Most women are concerned for their safety. Agree and amplify works because you're exaggerating the response to absurd levels that it's obvious you're joking. You're simultaneously disagreeing with her (in a roundabout way) and charming her with your wit and humor. "You don't" says, "Well, I could be a creep, but I neither confirm nor deny it, which pretty much…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:10 PM
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"How do I know you're not an airhead and actually have something interesting to say?" (Script flip, now you're getting her to qualify herself)
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:09 PM
2

You're welcome. Feel free to pm me with further questions/specific instances/examples. Also corrected a sentence in my reply: The main goal of FI is to save and invest enough money so that the returns on your investments are enough to cover your annual expenses
/r/askTRP12/06/15 08:07 PM
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A girl who's willing to go that far to see a guy will probably fuck him if she isn't already fucking him. You got played. Dump her with no explanation and move on. Block her on your phone, social media, etc.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:12 PM
1

Teasing can be flirting but "harsh teasing" can be ball-busting (depends on what's said and the intention). To bust a man's balls is to literally emasculate him. I thought you were asking about emasculation.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:07 PM
1

If you have no major psych issues, you'll do better spending time in solitude, traveling the world, dating a lot, etc.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:05 PM
3

You cannot diminish the fear, it will always be there, what you do is act DESPITE the fear. The unknown is always scary. Why? Because your mind makes shit up about the unknown. Why? Because it doesn't know what to expect. Think about all those young men on the amphibious craft landing in Normandy Beach on D-Day. They were all scared shitless, thousands of them died that day, and yet they still went on that beach and fought anyway. A samurai is aware he can die any moment yet he still fights. It'…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:58 PM
1

trp sidebar, also do a search there. /theredpill
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:44 PM
1

I assume you meant "ball-busting from women" = "when women unnecessarily or destructively criticize a man / nagging / emasculation"
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:42 PM
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Femininity is soft, subtle, nurturing. It feels like "home", the feeling of the womb. Ball-busting is the opposite of these.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 05:37 PM
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Ball-busting is unfeminine behavior. Masculine men are attracted to femininity.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 04:45 PM
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"Don't have a heart attack, I know what I'm doing"
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 06:28 AM
1

Check out the travel subreddit. Plenty advice there. Otherwise you could really stretch your funds in Southeast Asia.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:17 AM
3

Keep asking her out until she goes out with you. You need to lead this interaction. She's giving you enough signs that she's about to jump ship.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:16 AM
1

Ignore it completely. Have no emotional reaction whatsoever. Someone who plays pranks on you wants that reaction. If you don't give it to them, they will stop eventually.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:10 AM
1

Read more.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:08 AM
2

Become a Marine. It's the toughest boot camp in the military. It will teach you self-respect. If you're truly a pussy, you'll never make it through.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:07 AM
1

It doesn't matter. Pondering that kind of question is futile, and that kind of thinking is self-limiting. The only thing that matters is how much of his masculinity he has finally claimed for himself and how tight his inner and outer game are. He's not going to attract every woman, no man does. You do the best you can with whatever hand your dealt and see how far you can go with it. That's all you can do.
/r/askTRP12/06/15 06:03 AM
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Wouldn't have said that myself, but looks like it worked for you since she's blowing up your phone. It's a good sign.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:23 PM
1

That's already a good line. Shows you're willing to spend a little more time getting to know her (may or may not be true) and it gives you an opening to escalate.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:52 PM
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Text her when you feel like texting her. Do what YOU want to do.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:51 PM
6

Doesn't matter why she's attracted to you. Never make the mistake of asking why either. Keep doing what you're doing and keep fucking her hard.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:49 PM
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No. If you say it that way, the sex becomes tit-for-tat, i.e., "If you do this, I'll do that." Sex should never be that way. It should be a celebration, an explosion of your passion, your desire for each other. If you want her to do something, tell her to do it. Or guide her to do it. Best to just say nothing and instead do it, do whatever you feel like doing to her. In that sense, you're taking control, you're dominating in bed, and that's attractive to most women. As a general rule, say very l…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:31 PM
3

"Not interested in roller derby..hit me up for drinks later when you're done"
/r/askTRP11/06/15 09:54 PM
-9

"You're not my gf, we're not fucking. I don't spend my quality time with girls I'm not fucking."
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:58 PM
2

It is understood that the sexual market place of the USA is extremely brutal towards non-whites You're already shooting yourself in the foot with that mindset. Become the man that you are and learn game, period. Don't let race define you. It's part of your story, it's part of what makes you interesting, but race is not who you are.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:54 PM
-13

"If I notice next time, I'll spank dat ass"
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:52 PM
3

Do it this way, "baby I want you to suck my cock" or "suck my cock". Then eat her out. Or not.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:05 PM
2

If there are no legal consequences for hitting a woman back, then by all means put her in her place and hit her back IF she hit you first. Probably best to have video evidence at all times.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:03 PM
1

thanks
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:06 PM
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Don't eat her pussy every time. And every time, grab the back of her head gently, guide her mouth to your dick, and have her suck you good. Follow the 3:2 rule, for every 3 times she sucks your cock, you eat her out twice (or less). Good general rule in everything you do with her.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 07:03 PM
2

You have the book knowledge, all well and good, but you still need to find yourself, find your masculinity. Until this happens, your actions and energy will be incongruent with your book knowledge. You can't fake confidence, not to women. They can smell it from a mile away.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:59 PM
1

send me a link
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:56 PM
1

sure pm me..or you can post on imgur, pm me with the link, and take it down after i've seen it
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:53 PM
1

Run game offline. Flirt with everyone. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:40 PM
1

That sucks dude. You'll have to make peace with what you have. It's gonna be tough but there's not much you can do about it.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:28 PM
0

Run game on other girls the rest of the week. Also read http://www.amazon.com/The-Key-Logger-Forbidden-Glimpse-ebook/dp/B00FZXE2HY and decide if your chick is really monogamous with you.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:25 PM
2

Shave it all off and move on. Shave every day.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:20 PM
2

Walking away from any fight (with a man or a woman) even if you know you can kick their ass is not being a bitch. It's being prudent. There are laws in place and some fights are not worth the trouble. When you hit a woman back, you're almost guaranteed jail time, even if she instigates it. She doesn't even have to physically hit you, she just has to say you did, and you're fucked. Alpha also means being street smart, and that includes knowing which fights to pick.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:19 PM
1

Yeah dude it keeps getting better the more you do it (and the more you fail), you'll keep evolving. Just remember, NEVER stop running game even when (especially when) you get into a relationship. You run game on your LTR (different kinda game, but still game), you run game on other girls. Game is the only thing that works.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 04:31 PM
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Also when you dont use a question mark, the question is still a question but looks like a statement. It's a curve ball. "Is he asking me a question? Let me read it again. Oh yeah it is a question." It causes a double take. Eventually she'll get used to you not using a question mark, but she'll still pay more attention to the text because she has to make sure it's a question.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:29 AM
1

I dont see anything wrong with that specific question, I ask it myself, but I say "where u at"
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:01 AM
1

explained it in another reply
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:00 AM
1

Sounds like you're already running good game on her and she's responding well. I don't see anything you're doing wrong.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:52 AM
1

Stop overthinking your texts. Stick to the guidelines: Short, direct, commanding/leading, careless or no punctuation, no smilies, no question marks. When you overthink, it throws off your text game.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:50 AM
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2nd text is too long. Could be shortened to this: "drinks later..lmk where u end up" The lack of punctuation and use of abbreviation is intentional.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:47 AM
1

Give me an example.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 05:44 AM
3

All three of what you listed, or a combination of them. Either way it's a good sign that she's rejecting them. Keep being her alpha and keep fucking her hard.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 04:57 AM
1

Good hunting
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:48 AM
1

Never answer a woman's questions directly. Or if you do, agree & amplify (should be a standard attitude anyway). You can choose to answer some questions and ignore others. But don't answer all of them. You always lead the conversation, YOU take her where YOU want to go. YOU tell her what YOU want. As for tonight, don't make it a big deal. Just text her when you're ready. "Hey where you at" Just got out of the show "Meet me at xxx" ok ;)
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:42 AM
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If you're still texting her, start cutting it short and move it to some real action. The more you text, the more chances you have of texting something stupid or something that can be misinterpreted and thus cockblocking yourself. Push for the meetup then push for the bang. Generally limit texting to logistics only. You can do more suggestive texting AFTER you slayed her pussy.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:31 AM
1

Or "I'll tell you in the morning" And don't tell her in the morning Or "Don't worry, I like older women." This flips the script and drives her hamster wild. No woman likes to be called old.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:31 AM
1

Dude...less words. Summarize. Condense your story so nobody has to page down to read it.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:22 AM
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Always on the lookout. It's neither good nor bad. It's just how it is. It's how we're built, that's how we evolved. To fuck (and impregnate, even if we're not conscious of it) every fertile-looking female. Why do you think we gotta jizz every 3 days? Because we got millions of sperm that need a home. Survival of our genes and the species. You wanting to fuck every girl is your evolution talking. You not wanting to cheat is societal programming talking.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:08 AM
1

Use less words and use paragraphs. Nobody has time to read this wall of text.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:05 AM
1

"I don't make out with ash trays" Shows you have standards (you don't date smokers). Or just ignore it. How old are you? "Doesn't matter if we're having fun". Or "Old enough to be your daddy"
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:01 AM
1

I get lots of initial attention from woman..but they rarely want anything to do with me after spending time with me. (they seem to almost hate me after a while) That's because they eventually see through your facade and smell your beta-ness. Women are very good at this, no matter how much fake swag and exterior alpha cards you have. If you're still beta inside, they will find out very quickly. And they will be repulsed. You're the equivalent of a fat chick who knows how to take good pictures. I …
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:50 PM
1

Perfect, looks like you got a good handle on this.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 11:41 PM
1

Well done getting both digits. A bit of a pickle though. Fat chick seems like a surer bet and generally a bird in hand is better than two in the bush. "I might go on the town alone tonight" is pretty much an invitation. Problem is, if you go for her, and cuter girl does hit you up after, you're in a bind. If this happens, you could make up an excuse while mid-thrust with fat chick (or finish), then go after cute chick with your dick still wet. Another problem is if either chick finds out about t…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:39 PM
1

If it's a shit test (she's really interested in you but wants to test your frame), say, "Cool..let me know how it goes." If it's not a shit test (she's NOT interested in you), say "Btw introduce me to [pick a specific hot chick that she knows], she's cute."
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:50 PM
1

If you're already in bed, chances are very high that she wants to fuck even if she says "just cuddle". That's code for "I want to feel more comfort with you, I need more time". Or "I want to know you're not just going to pump and dump me because I don't want to feel used." (Nobody wants to feel used. Everybody wants to feel special. So give them what they want, to your advantage.) So cuddle for a bit, have some pillow talk, tell her some fake vulnerability stories, make her laugh, tease her, nib…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:45 PM
2

Watch the whole series. There are more alpha examples in the early to middle episodes. He wasn't muscular but he wasn't fat either. But his body wasn't his main alpha card, these were: tall good looking white writer (artist / creative / rebel achetype) published writer screenwriter in Hollywood the character probably has a big dick like the actor playing it is rumored to have witty / wicked smart / funny and cocky in a charming way
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:38 PM
2

b. Never get into that conversation. It's today's politics or religion. You aren't gonna win anyone over either way.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:32 PM
3

Watch Californication and observe how Hank Moody handles women. He's never disrespectful to them in his language. But he LOVES women. He appreciates them. But he doesn't kiss their asses. He loves fucking them, too, no apologies. He never apologizes either. Nor does he even explain or defend himself when he's caught in a lie or a compromising situation. His only problem was his oneitis for Karen.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:30 PM
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Never be a woman's emotional sponge. Your job is to fuck her good, not to be her gay bff. Just forget the issue and move on. If she wants to talk about it, let her rant for 5 minutes while keeping your mouth shut then change the subject and start having fun again.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:27 PM
1

If it's a literal "no", take it as a no and stop. Then try again. If "no," stop. Try again. If still "No," quit and move on. Otherwise, keep pushing if her body language says yes, e.g., "We're not having sex tonight," or "I don't want to have sex with you," and she's responding well to your escalating kino.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:22 PM
2

Mostly bluepill females with the feminism 3.0 mindset
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:19 PM
1

Irrelevant to game unless it fucks with your freedom to explore.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 07:13 PM
2

Generally with networking, be their friend. Which means stay in contact regularly, not just when you need something. Your mindset in networking should be "How can I help this person?", not what they can do for you. Check in once a week or two to see how they're doing. You can invite to lunch or happy hour or other activity.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:37 PM
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You need one good male friend with whom you can talk to weekly about everything without being judged. This friend should call you out when you're fucking up or when your head's in your ass. This friend always has your best interests in mind, is never envious of you, and never betrays you. This kind of brotherly relationship takes time to develop. Find a guy that you click with at this level and cultivate the relationship over time. Talk about everything, most importantly your feelings, emotions,…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:27 PM
1

She's flirting with you and shit testing you. It's a good sign. Don't be bothered by it. Call her by another animal's name and keep doing it, even if she stops calling you your nickname. Keep teasing and flirting with her and go for the bang. You're in a good spot, the women are responding well to you. They all work together. You have no idea how competitive women are with each other, especially in the workplace. Use this to your advantage. And don't be bothered when people don't take your quest…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:17 PM
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No need to apologize. Never apologize for anything unless you truly fucked up and want to make amends. The casual use of "sorry" is beta.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:04 PM
2

Great. Still ask a trained professional about specific exercises.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:02 PM
1

Consult a physical therapist for a professional opinion. Then consult another. With that serious of an injury, it's worth paying for expert advice to make sure you're not injuring yourself any further.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:50 PM
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Never be sexually explicit in your language with a woman unless you've already been fucking her hard and dirty for a while (or unless she initiates the explicit language). Women don't want to feel cheap even if they're just as horny as you are (slut defense). You use "code language" (respectful language) to entice them. It's your body language and your tone that communicates the sexual tension, not your words.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:47 PM
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I didn't literally mean wink, more like a smirk. But a wink works, too. If you've already been eye-fucking her, the ground work has been done. You could say anything deliberately/purposefully/slowly without any double entendre, and it would still be sexual in her mind.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 06:35 AM
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If the instructor already noticed and got uncomfortable, don't sit next to her, that would alarm the instructor even more and it may get back to your company. So keep the non-business stuff outside of work hours. But still eye-fuck the woman discreetly to keep up the heat. And flirt lightly on break time. For rides, download Uber and/or Lyft to your smartphone and see how much they are. They should be cheaper than a cab. After class, just say "Hey let's get a drink." As a general rule, don't ask…
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:37 AM
1

Read and re-read until you internalize the information. Then go out and fail many times. Then reflect on what you learned. Then read, re-read, try, fail, reflect, repeat.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:39 AM
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Amused mastery Cocky + funny Agree and amplify Playful teasing Ask "Why do you say that?" when you're challenged and act like you really want to know but don't give a fuck anyway. Make and hold eye contact when you're talking to someone then look away when they're talking to you End conversations first Leave without saying goodbye Never explain yourself Never apologize unless you truly fucked up
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:35 AM
1

The grind will either kill you or kill your soul (same thing) eventually. Decide what you really want and the price you're willing to pay then act accordingly.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:34 AM
2

We have a difference in experience.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:32 AM
2

Be very discreet running game while in class. After class, tell her to meet you back at the hotel bar for drinks (but do NOT get drunk). Run tight game then say, "Let's check out the hotel's hot tub," (or pool or whatever amenity conducive to escalating kino is available). Or just bounce straight to your room ("hey let's watch a movie" or be even more direct and say "let's get outta here").
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:31 AM
1

Run tight game on the girl you like. Then slay that pussy hard.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:27 AM
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Yes. They're just as horny as men are, and objectify men's bodies as much as men objectify women's bodies. If you stumble across one who isn't horny or who identifies as "asexual", run the fuck away.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 04:26 AM
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Then you're fucked. Don't do long distance. It's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 12:10 AM
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a) She wants to make you jealous so you're more into her. b) She wants to fuck other guys. c) She is fucking other guys. d) She's just joking to get a rise out of you. Never forget that all women will lie to your face and not feel any regret or guilt over it. And most will cheat. Read this http://www.amazon.com/The-Key-Logger-Forbidden-Glimpse-ebook/dp/B00FZXE2HY Your reaction in any case is to not give a fuck. And if you do find out she's cheating on you, dump her.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:11 PM
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Also http://www.lmgtfy.com/?q=+how+to+travel+the+world
/r/askTRP09/06/15 07:02 PM
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"Haha yeah you can of you want" That's a weak response anyway. It's vague. What do YOU want? Do you want to see her? Do you NOT want to see her? Then say so. Instead, say this "Yeah stop by...I'm gonna fuck you hard before work." As for your response to her last text, just drop it and move on. Your next text to her should be "Come by tonight. Wear that thong I like." Then pound that pussy hard. Dominate her in bed.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:40 PM
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No you dont have to be rich, you just have to be frugal and savvy with money and learn some tricks. Look up travel hacking. For $1,000 a month you can live very comfortably in Thailand and travel within that country. You can do that even cheaper in other southeast asian countries. So just work your ass off and save enough money to let you travel for a year. How do you decide where to go? Pick any place, really doesn't matter. But your money will go a lot farther in southeast asia or south americ…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:33 PM
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A girl volunteering information does not necessarily mean she's interested, but it is a good sign, a green flag. She's opening the door. Walk through the door and ask her out. You: "Hey let's hang out sometime." Her: "Sure!" You: "Okay, give me your number. I'm free Saturday. Let's go hike." ... You: "All right, see you then."
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:28 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 06:24 PM
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Some of these things are healthy. Which ones are healthy and why? An entitltement mentality gives you confidence An entitlement mentality gives you false confidence. An entitlement mentality is insecurity. It's weak. It's beta thinking.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:38 PM
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Volunteering is neither alpha nor beta. But doing anything just to please others or to make a good impression or to cause others to think highly of you is beta. You do anything because you WANT to do it. Otherwise you're still a slave.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:07 PM
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Yes. I just made that up. You can make it whatever you want it to be, just don't make it legal. People get married because of social pressure ("I want to tell my friends and family that I'm committing myself to this person"). Women get married because they want 1) security for their offspring and for themselves (being alone is the worst thing that a woman imagines can happen to her), 2) feeling like a special snowflake unicorn who was picked out of the millions of other women by a high-value mal…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 03:59 PM
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Good to know. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 12:46 AM
1

Attraction is simply her genes telling her that your genes are good/strong and would make good babies. That's the bottom line-- reproduction / the survival of our species. It's what drives everything between men and women.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:49 PM
1

Go for it. If things get awkward, be a man, figure it out and handle it.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:46 PM
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Don't tell her anything.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:45 PM
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This one.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:45 PM
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Never tell anyone how many people you've slept with. If you're pressed to do it, tell them what they want to hear and stick to your story. Then change the subject. It's really none of their business, unless you have an STD. This applies to both men and women. The truth, especially in this matter, hurts and most people cannot handle this particular truth. In your case as a woman, stop sleeping around. Keep your number low. If you love sex, go wild but only within the context of a monogamous relat…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:42 PM
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Sounds fishy, but why not. Fuck her good and see what happens. But be careful. Keep your eyes and ears open. Observe her closely.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:39 PM
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I mean money definitely isn't everything but it does help tremendously. Yes, money does not buy happiness, but it gives you options. And money represents your blood, sweat, and tears. Money represents your time. It takes time to make money. And your time is limited. Every dollar you spend means you have to spend time to earn another dollar (unless you're financially independent and living off passive income).
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:38 PM
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Marriage can wait until I'm finishing accomplishing what I want to accomplish. tl;dr avoid marriage, at least until you're much older. Avoid marriage, period. Think about it objectively-- what are the benefits of marriage to a man? None. All the benefits are for the woman. From the wedding ceremony to divorce court, it's all in her favor. None of it for you. You WILL be raped in divorce court. If you're into long-term relationships, by all means jump in, but keep running game. If she starts hemm…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 11:33 PM
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No, the legal age of consent. It's 18 in the US.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 10:04 PM
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Tight game solves this problem.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 09:41 PM
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Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe. TL;DR: If you just do the basic compound exercises in perfect form (find a reputable bodybuilding coach in your area to show you perfect form), you'll do yourself a huge favor. The basic compound exercises are: Bench Press, Squat, Deadlift, Military Press, and Pull-Up. Accept nothing less than perfect form because anything less than perfect form will fuck up your joints in the long run. Otherwise, for inspiration, read Arnold's books.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 03:52 AM
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Generally you should always do whatever the fuck YOU want to do, but your situation IS a bind. Shave it now and you will fail the shit test. But this is a matter of timing. Don't shave it for 3 months until AFTER you've been fucking her and until after she asked you the first time. That's enough time to "forget" that she ever asked you. If she keeps asking you, ignore her or agree/amplify, tease, and keep resetting the clock. Then shave it 3 months later. If she asks why, say "Because I wanted t…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 06:01 AM
2

No. The magician never shows what's behind the curtain.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:54 AM
2

I seem to get this impression that the game is just never going to be as good as it was back in my younger years. That may be objectively true but you won't know this until decades later looking back on ALL your experiences. You're always growing/evolving and your mindset/priorities WILL change. That said, do NOT get married or have children unless you know ALL of the cost (opportunity cost, potential and likely post-divorce/child support rape, etc.). Assuming you're still in your 20s, the best …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 05:51 AM
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Why all the butthurt about this? If you're truly "Red Pill", you wouldn't give a shit what anyone says about you or anyone or the choices they make. No crime has been committed. Butthurt is weak, butthurt is beta.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:07 PM
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He will let the woman know that he plans to and give her the option to either accept it or terminate the relationship. Good point Not letting girls know you're sleeping with other women is how you get stabbed by a crazy bitch. a RP dude would have enough sense to avoid batshit crazies
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:44 PM
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A woman will shit test a man until he dies. You can't hate the cat for being a cat.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:33 AM
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She fucks alphas in her 20s, settles for a beta when she's hit the wall, they don't live happily ever after, only the beta thinks they are. Meanwhile she's giving him pity sex once a year on his birthday and she either fucks an alpha on the side or dreams of the day when beta husband keels over so she can take his money. Or she divorces beta husband past year 5 so she has almost guaranteed alimony. The end.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:31 AM
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Well said...when you wife (or GF) up a slut, chances are she'll fuck other guys behind your back without you knowing any better. Not necessarily a moral judgment on the woman because a RP dude will do the same and have no qualms about it, but slut history becomes very important when you want your own and only your own kids.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:27 AM
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It's all a big shit test to see how serious you are with her. She saw your SMV with other girls and now she can't believe you're THAT into her to call her "your girl". Two scenarios: a) She wants you to be serious with her, or b) she doesn't. The answer to either scenario is not give a fuck and go back to what you were doing before. Don't even explain yourself. If she asks, "But I thought I was your girl??" say, "Eh, I changed my mind. You look sexy in that dress. Come over here."
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:29 AM
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This is retarded thinking. Life is abundant. And short. Go get yours. Alpha or no alpha.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:45 PM
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Put yourself on the pedestal (self-improvement / face your shit).
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 09:37 PM
2

Long, slow blow jobs, artfully done.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 09:35 PM
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The man has many alpha credentials-- smarts, tenacity/drive, vision/skill in business, money (through hard work), not too short (5'11", acceptable to the typical 5' or even 5'4" woman who wants to wear her 4" heels without towering over "her" man), seems well-spoken, reasonably good-looking (who knows about his actual game without money). Yet here he is paying $16 million TO DIVORCE her. The system's truly fucked up. We already know something's rotten in Denmark and here's another example. But m…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:37 AM
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Or feminism in 2014 has been so hijacked by extremists (SJWs) that the word/movement has lost its original meaning and people are confused and don't want to identify with such extremism.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 11:52 PM
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Physical strength is tangible. A physically strong person can carry not only his weight but also external weight and do things that he wouldn't normally be able to do if he weren't strong. A person becomes physically strong through regular exercise, specifically weight training. If we extend the analogy, a person with inner strength can carry not only his internal burdens, but also those of others. But only when he has dealt with his inner shit can he begin to help others with theirs. A person b…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 10:49 PM
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Ask away.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 06:13 PM
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Weakness and fear are neither feminine nor masculine. Weakness is a lack of boundaries. Fear is either the ego's reaction to a perceived attack on it (the ego as the outer shell of who are, not who we truly are), or the body's reaction to a threat. Feminine is soft, masculine is hard. In a good match where there's attraction (and for attraction to remain), there's a harmony between the two energies.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 08:05 AM
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Sometimes this is exactly what a man needs to wake the fuck up, see the red pill, and have the choice to swallow it. Sometimes one must leave a boy so that he learns to walk about and become a man, on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 06:21 PM
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Man's perspective: He needs to cultivate his own social life, spend enough time away from you, spend enough time on his own masculine hobbies, keep his game sharp. This is HIS responsibility as a man, not yours. If he doesn't do this, it's only a matter of time before your vagina completely dries up. Tell him what you expect in very clear words and see where it goes. If you were the one fucking up, I'd expect your "man" to tell you you're fucking up so you can fix it and keep the attraction goin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 07:44 PM
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25 isn't old. Neither is 30. But as you already know, if what you want is a family, the younger you start the better. You can still have children in your 30s but it will be higher risk than in your 20s. Human Biology 101. You're right about men not putting much importance on a woman's academic/career credentials (unless he's hiring her for a specific position). What matters most to us after youth and fertility is a woman's femininity. Can you be intellectually interesting without a PhD? Yes. Jus…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 01:15 AM
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Telling, expecting, or demanding that someone change who they are or do what they don't want to do.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 11:05 PM
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that's why i LOLd internally when i said "American girl 'normal'", more so after the posting the same link to /r/okcupid
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:59 AM
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sure, just as messed up, minus 100+ penis experience
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:46 PM
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/u/Giacoppolo gets credit for this
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:45 PM
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Chrissy Moran "got saved" and is now a public Christian figure, just in time before The Wall. Facebook page and everything. Betcha one dollar every church she goes into, all the dudes look her up and wank off at home after church service, including the pastor.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:43 PM
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Kudos.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 05:27 PM
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Man's perspective: Be single for one year. The rule of thumb is half the time you were with someone. This gives you enough time to be alone, face your shit, let things fully sink in, and learn from the experience. Doing anything else is only a distraction (fuck buddies, rebound relationships, partying/getting wasted to numb yourself, etc.) and only prolongs your healing/growing up time. Learn to be alone. Learn the pleasure of your own company. Learn to rely only on yourself for your own happine…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 05:10 AM
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It's a waste of time. Cut clean and move on.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:21 PM
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"I know you cheated on me. It's over."
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:31 AM
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Would you still be around if that was true? Come on dude that's just retarded.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 12:19 AM
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Don't get married. There are no benefits to you. If you do get married: 2.1 Make as much money as you can BEFORE you get married and put it in an account under YOUR name. 2.2 Make sure she makes more than you. She might lose respect for you in the long run but at least you may be able to avoid divorce rape. 2.3 Don't have kids. 2.4 Don't get her an expensive ring. $1k at the most. 2.5 Don't spend more than $5k on your wedding. Spend the rest on a long trip abroad. 2.6 Don't get a house.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 06:53 PM
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A woman who works, has her own business, you enjoy her company, she's rational, she does chores, the bullshit is low = good woman. Do the dishes. I assume she sucks your cock well.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:14 PM
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She had me at "for all intensive purposes". That's pretty intense.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:00 PM
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Sorry dude that's just how it is. The same is true for ugly women. I assume you've already maximized everything else you can control. If not, do it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:53 PM
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Volunteer at an animal shelter, mentoring program, farmers market, etc. Take dance classes. Take up yoga. Go to speed dating. Network and attend all social events you're invited to.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:52 PM
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Good point, equally plausible
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:32 PM
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Yes, "hot" is overreaching. She looks younger than 38, maybe late 20s, early 30s at most. Still a considerable age gap given her options. Or could be a classic case of alpha fux beta bux. Maybe she's riding on the side, who knows. But a girl who makes that many sandwiches for her husband...my bet's on her loyalty. If you find a better example, post it here. From my own experience-- I know a girl, 30 (looks mid-20s, good genes), with many slut tells who went through a short phase of re-invention …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:07 PM
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milton
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:31 PM
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why
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:54 PM
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Alpha fux beta bux also a possible scenario but who knows for sure. The husband does sound a bit effeminate when he talks.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:53 PM
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Fair enough
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:49 PM
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Couldn't have said it better. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:49 PM
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#3
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:11 PM
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Alpha credentials (business owner, money, local fame) give the appearance of alphaness.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:27 AM
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Alpha credentials (business owner, money, local fame) give the appearance of alphaness. I cant say definitively she went for the money but all the signs are there, ie it's likely.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:25 AM
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dammm 26?? she looks older
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:26 PM
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article doesn't say she converted, just the ceremony was Muslim and they exchanged vows in Arabic..tho idk if necessarily that means she converts first
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:26 PM
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beta tells include leaning towards her in the pics (in one pic it looks like she's pushing him away, although her smile seems genuine), getting down on one knee to propose, and of course changing his name to hers (wtf)
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:23 PM
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no argument here..tho that wasn't my point she overlooked him being too old, too short bc he had alpha creds
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 09:00 PM
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yep my thoughts exactly
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:57 PM
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the tall one...very soon if not already
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:57 PM
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I facepalmed a few times
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:55 PM
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Fourteen of his eponymously named shops are spread throughout the Bay Area, and he is expanding to other states. Ike, a month out of a long relationship, was at a bar with friends when a bubbly blonde approached their table. Marcella, then a pre-nursing student working as the mechanical bull operator at the bar, was also recently single. In an attempt to drum up riders, she chatted up the guys, but none took the bait. Instead, Ike offered a card for a free sandwich. Initially, Marcella didn't un…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 06:19 PM
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Great article.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:43 AM
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Right on.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 04:11 AM
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I wanted her to describe in her own words what she means by "be there for me emotionally". I have a good idea of what women generally want by now. But I'm always open to hearing specific, first-hand examples.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 12:49 AM
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That's not deep enough. Dig. Ask why. Keep asking why.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 11:03 PM
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Ask yourself why you "hate being tied down or attached to people."
/r/askTRP25/01/14 09:21 PM
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I see my confusion--I thought you were confusedaboutTRP, whom I presume is a woman. I wanted her opinion, not a man's--thanks anyway.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 09:13 PM
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Thank you. I'm trying to make sense of what you said: [the man should] take appropriate actions to ensure that she feels...happy. If you agree that you are responsible for your own happiness, then you contradict yourself. If you don't agree (i.e., your man is responsible for your happiness) then that takes away your responsibility for your own happiness. Or maybe what you're saying is, "I want my man to meet my emotional needs sufficiently that I feel happy in the relationship."
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 08:57 AM
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Would you agree that you're responsible for your own happiness?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 05:13 AM
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be there for me emotionally Could you elaborate on this? What do you mean? What behaviors will confirm to you that someone is being there for you emotionally?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 02:19 AM
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Yes. You can be masculine man and you can be a decent person at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 02:18 AM
0

wtf...now i gotta wash my eyes with porn
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 10:38 PM
1

First become a man. Everything else will fall into place, including pussy.
/r/askTRP16/01/14 03:41 AM
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Discipline beats motivation. Don't wait for motivation. Just do the fucking work.
/r/askTRP
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Only you could truly know why you act this way. Dig deep and be honest with yourself. If you can't do that on your own, consider therapy; there's no shame in it, although ultimately you're still responsible for your own growth.
/r/askTRP
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Yes, it's ok for a man to cry. Bawl your eyes out. Express the grief. Feel the pain. But do it in private. Let no one see you.
/r/askTRP
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Bearing and birthing babies.
/r/askTRP
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Too much trouble / potential drama. She'll expect you to wife her up after she makes that trip and you bang. You'll get roped into raising the kid. Block, forget, move on.
/r/askTRP
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A girl bringing up money problems like that usually means she's fishing around if you'd offer to pay. Otherwise she'd never even bring it up specifically, she'd just say, "Nah I cant". Ofc, I'm an action junkie who needs his nightly dose This one is trying too hard. You're trying to sell/qualify yourself. Just say "Yep, come see it"
/r/askTRP
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Learned game through reading, dating, making mistakes in the field for 2-3 years but mental programming was still mostly beta. Mindset changed when a girl dumped me summarily after I spent thousands of dollars buying her experiences with not even a genuine thank you. Painful experience but I can say definitively my programming has changed. Still have beta moments but mostly gone.
/r/askTRP
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Very good. Happy to hear you're motivated about all of this. Re: money, read up on the financialindependence subreddit. The main goal of FI is to save and invest enough money so that the returns on your investments are enough to cover your annual expenses the rest of your life so you have the option of never having to work again (or work very little). You have time in your favor. Time helps grow your money exponentially (compounding returns / compound interest). Re: knowing yourself / becoming a…
/r/askTRP
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Know yourself. Become a man. Learn game. Save money. Invest well. Never get married. Travel the world. Learn MMA. Lift. Play in a rock band. Learn to cook well. Learn to survive in the wild. Buy your own house. Never get married. Spend wisely.
/r/askTRP
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It's no secret that good-looking white dudes with tight game have high value in the dating market. But that doesn't stop non-white dudes with those 4 alpha cards from getting laid.
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Tall. Fit. Good-looking (symmetrical face). Masculine features. With these top 4 alpha cards (all markers for high testosterone), plus tight game, race usually doesnt matter. Even better when he has an interesting story (exotic in the current pool he's playing in, has overtly masculine hobbies, etc.). This kind of guy is the equivalent of a hot chick, the top 20% that get 80% of the options in the dating market.
/r/askTRP
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First, drop everything else and find yourself. Go on that quest. Spend a lot of time in solitude. Read some good RP books. Lift heavy. Travel the world. Cultivate a few masculine hobbies. Learn how to fight (MMA, judo, jiujitsu, muay thai). Learn your boundaries and enforce them. Find your masculinity. Only then can you learn and run game with any success.
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No, you misunderstand. The hamster is a woman's rationalization engine, or whatever lets her justify anything she does that she knows is "wrong" but does it anyway. Men have hamsters, too. But with men, our word is our bond. You can trust a man's word 95% of the time. You can trust a woman's word 50% of the time (or even less). But you can trust a woman's actions (and reactions) 95% of the time. Which is why part of game is learning how to read a woman.
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Don't feign stupidity. Just go straight to amused mastery, like you know exactly what she's doing and you think it's cute. Then tease her, agree and amplify, etc.
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"I'm pretty. Men should buy me shit." [No, you're being delusional.] "I spend x hours at the gym and I'm jacked because of it. Women should fall in love with me." [No, you're being delusional.] "I didn't wake up on time because I forgot to set the alarm and missed the exam. I should still be allowed to take that exam." [No, grow the fuck up.] "I have a pussy. I should get half and more of your money when we get divorced." [No, but the courts agree with you so I'm really fucked.] "I've done so ma…
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21 is still a teenager in game years. You have at least 15 years of good hunting ahead of you, assuming you keep improving yourself and your inner and outer game. Yes, it does get better. You're already ahead of the game at 21. Side note: While living rent-free, save as much as you can and invest it well. What you want by age 40 is enough passive income from your investments that pays for your annual expenses so you can choose not to work the rest of your life. You got 20 years ahead of you. It'…
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Do you like prison? If you do, go ahead and bang her.
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I don't see a problem. Encourage and cultivate your reputation as a player.
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