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3	How do I make it clear that were both going on a date and not just hanging out? Don't read too much into the "friends and maybe a boyfriend" reply. Girls try to play it safe and won't be very direct because they fear slut shaming. The "when are you going to ask me out?" isn't that bad. It shows that it's expected for her to do it because you frame it as you're the "prize" here. If going this route, I'd probably do it in a more cocky way with some like "So how much time do you need until you have the courage to ask me out?" - has to be done in a playful way, which is more di…	/r/seduction	06/07/20 08:51 PM
1	Question for experience men "Are you from around? Are you with friends/co-workers? What are you guys up to tonight/next/going to another club/bar/home?” You have to be indirect, obviously.	/r/seduction	09/02/20 06:46 PM
–	Question for experience men Waiting until the next day it's fine, not early in the morning, though But don't just text saying it was nice to meet her and then wait. Or straight up ask her out. Spark conversation, tease, create comfort, etc., then soft close. Call back to something you've talked about. Or depending on how the interaction was, tease with something she said/did. "I bet the hangover is hitting pretty hard today"//"How bad is the hangover today?" Just an example. Study some texting game, just because you had a …	/r/seduction	09/02/20 05:31 PM
7	What are the pros and cons of texting her your name vs calling her right there after getting her number? To check if its real. This. If she gave you a fake number is because she was uncomfortable and maybe trying to be nice. No need to test her right away. If you find out it's a fake number, how will you react? Pretty cringe situation, I'd say. Text her in one/two hours (if you're day gaming). If it's fake, move on.	/r/seduction	09/02/20 03:30 PM
2	Which direction should I go here? Message on Tinder or wait to see her again? Hit her up, obviously. Start the conversation with something you've talked about during your interaction.	/r/seduction	09/02/20 10:04 AM
–	How would you get a picture of you being social/laughing/smiling with other friends to make you look social for tinder? Ideally, it would happen organically because you have friends. Say you want to user tinder now and are still just meeting new friends in the area Overthinking this, just for one picture. Have 4/5 good ones, even if alone. A good profile is about good pictures and a catching bio. This increases probability of getting matches, but it's only 20% of it. Then your need to find good openers to get a conversation started. After you have to be good at texting. And only then you get a date, which is totally another "can of worms". You're stuck at step 1 of 20.	/r/seduction	08/02/20 10:45 PM
1	Mark Manson's Models for women? Introduce her to r/FemaleDatingStrategy /s	/r/seduction	07/02/20 09:07 AM
16	First Date Yeah, buddy... First, I wouldn't go for dinner on a first date. Might be too long and puts too much pressure. Second, yes, it may have been awkward, but don't say shit like the fool thing. Doesn't help, you're just undermining yourself. Showing vulnerability it's okay sometimes, but not like that, not after a "awkward" first date. If it wasn't that good of a date, just ignore that part, act as normal as possible. Third, don't ask how did you do. You're just qualifying yourself, trying hard. Afte…	/r/seduction	07/02/20 09:03 AM
7	Reciprocating interest 1st option. If you're able to create tension you're good. Don't reveal everything right away.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 08:28 AM
3	How do you like keep up the convo after she gives one word answer on what she's studying. "What are you studying?" "Physics" (and you know nothing about it). Okay now what do you like saying next to continue convo? Or how do you word the question so you get a longer answer from her to work with? An artsy person might be offended that you think they're can't be as smart as physics students.... It can go both ways. You won't get anywhere in any interaction if you don't take some risks. Tease but don't insult.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 09:24 PM
–	How do you like keep up the convo after she gives one word answer on what she's studying. "What are you studying?" "Physics" (and you know nothing about it). Okay now what do you like saying next to continue convo? Or how do you word the question so you get a longer answer from her to work with? Don't keep asking questions. Make assumptions. "That's interesting, I would've never guessed" This will get her attention, she'll ask you why and the you can tease and make her qualify "You look more like an artsy person" or whatever. Depending on where are you in the conversation, tease directly "So you're a big time nerd or...? 😅".	/r/seduction	01/02/20 09:18 PM
5	Does Todd Valentine Have Low Energy During Nightgame? I think he mentioned being low energy/introvert in general. What he recommends is to increase the energy level for the first 30 seconds, to match the girl(s). And then you can go back to your "normal" state after you see they're "hooked".	/r/seduction	01/02/20 02:40 PM
20	Texting in between dates What are you looking for? How did the date went? How far/intimate you got? How did the date end? How did she act? What's your read on her? It all depends on those questions, it's always contextual. If you just had a friendly conversation, didn't really got to touch, escalate, kiss, etc. - Restart the conversation at the same level. I wouldn't escalate and flirt right away while texting if you didn't do it during the date. After/if she replies in a friendly way, tease/make assumptions/flirt/escal…	/r/seduction	01/02/20 02:21 PM
1	Can you critique/help a newbie with female interaction? I know this is cringy, but you have to start somewhere. Nah, that's a bit insulting and not teasing. She teased you about you, you don't have to turn it on her. Leave that for when you tease and flirt. That was a shit-test. Agree and amplify. "I know, right? Usually I just play with Lego's, not cards". 3.After the "people who don't get out of the house" line, with which she was teasing, you can also agree and amplify. "Yes, this is my first time leaving the house in 10 years". Your option is also good. Or just laugh it off and say something like "You…	/r/askTRP	12/01/20 11:56 AM
1	I’m 30 years old and I’ve never been kissed or know how to flirt. Don't worry about flirting or kissing. Just don't act socially retarded. Step by step. For now focus on being normal, even if you'll be seen just friendly. It doesn't matter with this girl. See it as just an experiment, not trying to sound harsh, but just get into this mindset so you don't put too much pressure on it. You'll probably fuck up the first 5 dates, especially if you're going out with girls around your age that might be more experienced than you. And that's ok, because these will be j…	/r/seduction	05/01/20 03:51 PM
2	Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of time If you can get matches and not much more, then you're lacking text game. I had numerous girls telling me on dates that almost all guys on Tinder are boring as fuck. I'd say it also depends where you are from. I assume in the US it's seen much more as a hook ups app, but there's also a bunch of trolls, bots and attention whores. In Europe there's more stigma about the app, but they tend to take it a bit more seriously, as in they don't ghost or flake as much.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 04:32 PM
10	22 year old Male- Late bloomer sexually- Deeply frustrated/upset at lost time and trying to figure everything out at once. You're fucking young. Relax, take your time with things. There's no age limit to have everything figured out. Take everything as an experiment. Literally everything, every girl, every interaction, every thrust. And learn from each one, whether good or bad. The journey is far more exciting than the end result, which is often underwhelming. I'm not trying to make it look like it's not worth it, just to focus and embrace the process, don't get too caught up in getting it done so you can check thing…	/r/seduction	29/11/19 02:30 PM
2	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? Also, don't ask/care about women's feedback. Act according to your standards and the person you want to be. You can't please everyone and it's better to be disliked by a few than to try to please everyone. That being said, if you look back to a certain date and you think you fucked up by saying or doing something, judge that by yourself, not external feedback from that person.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 12:33 PM
–	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? Meh, don't care that much. The end result is the same whether she says anything or not. She ghosts - She's not interested enough - >Move on She says something - "Ok, no problem" -> Move on	/r/seduction	21/11/19 12:27 PM
–	Men, How do you text after first meeting? Women, what do you want to receive in text? After 1st or 2nd date I mostly just send something calling back on a topic we talked about. I try to tease her about it. Or just send a meme or funny video. Questions like "How are you, how was your day?" are boring and you'll probably get a short, uninterested reply back. At least make it more playful, like "What kind of trouble have you been getting into lately?" And don't reply back with a simple, boring thing. Make it playful, say something absurd like "Planning to rob a bank, need another p…	/r/seduction	07/11/19 04:03 PM
8	How to cut down the mind games? Pull back. You seem too much into her already if you think seeing each other only once a week or so is not enough. Take it easy and don't look to eager. Wanting to see her too often is an attraction killer so early. Besides that, if she's recently out of a long relationship, she probably only wants some attention, like she probably has from other guys, and to have some fun. Make sure you're on the same page. I'm saying this because you seem too attached and interested already. Use texting to pla…	/r/seduction	04/11/19 06:30 PM
–	Woman here.... I guess it's all about what both parties are looking for. Some people, both guys and girls, might just want to casually date and not get involved in a LTRs. It would become problematic when one is looking for something and the other for something else. About your example, if it's a first (even 2nd date), I wouldn't see that as such a big deal. Normally girls have lots of options, I don't see why guys should be allowed to look for more options as well.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 01:26 PM
–	Woman here.... None, I wasn't trying to say that. What I meant was is normal for guys to approach several women and this shouldn't be a reason to not trust them.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 12:37 PM
–	Woman here.... The difference is when you're the aggressor, it leads to something way more often. When a guy is, it might lead to something or most likely not. It's a numbers game for guys.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 11:29 AM
2	Woman here.... Guys will say 'Yes', women will say 'Maybe'. So it depends on what sub you ask.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 11:27 AM
3	Woman here.... Just ask him directly. If he says yes, he's interested. If he says no, you move on. Suggest something specific since he's a busy guy, like "Let's have dinner/a drink on X or Y day". If he's interested he will accept, if he's busy he will suggest another day. If he doesn't, you move on.	/r/seduction	06/10/19 11:24 AM
3	I just started day game, what do I say when they say they have a boyfriend? It depends if it's right in the beginning of the interaction or after a while when you go for the number or trying an insta date. Also look at the way she says it/IOIs. It you open her, let's say with a direct compliment, she says 'Thank you' or whatever and follows up with 'I have a boyfriend', it might be true. Or she doesn't find you attractive. Either move on or just shrug it off and continue the conversation about something else totally unrelated. When she uses the objection again later, go…	/r/seduction	25/08/19 06:24 PM
4	What Most Guys Are Doing Wrong On Dates The way you describe this, it makes sense. But if you actually want to be more than friends, there should be hint somewhere that this is a man-to-woman interaction. Without this, it just becomes way harder to escalate, especially if you've already met more than once and interacted only as friends.	/r/seduction	03/08/19 05:45 PM
1	This is what happened after 9 days of switching my regular profile to Brazil There's this guy on YouTube that has a channel about mostly dating and a bunch of videos about dating apps. He's always running some experiments with it. One of the strategies was to create a new profile, change location to another country where you'd be perceived as higher value for 2/3 days just to get you ELO score high because of a very high number of matches. Then get back to current location and start swiping. Not sure how helpful is it now because Tinder made some changes to their algorit…	/r/seduction	07/07/19 11:49 AM
2	I think my physical therapist is cute. How should I approach this to get a date Ethically she's not allowed to do it. Best chance is to do it after you're not her patient anymore. After a week or so, send her a message saying you're doing well, the rehab results are persisting (hopefully) and just ask her.	/r/seduction	16/05/19 08:08 PM
6	Today a super cute girl who worked at Sonic was eyeing me, but she was busy and I only got to talk to her for about 3 seconds. How do you ask out a girl in situations like this? This. Simple and quick. Shows you aware of the situation, deliver a compliment and you show interest. Do it soon, she probably sees a lot of people everyday and you don't want her to forget you.	/r/seduction	12/05/19 03:08 PM
–	What's your BEST starting question when just meeting someone for a date? Well then it seems that it's just in your head and it's something you have to get rid of. Those first 15 secs. won't make or break a date, especially if you feel you got the hang of the rest. Don't overthink it, keep it normal and simple. Again you don't have to prove you high value right from the start like in a cold approach.	/r/seduction	12/04/19 05:04 PM
–	What's your BEST starting question when just meeting someone for a date? About your first paragraph, when they just stare at you after an answer: Comment on their answer with a statement and/or question (just don't always use a question after every one of these). Use more open ended questions. If it's a question that applies to both of you (like What's your favorite place to eat?) just say your answer to the same question even if she didn't asked back. Also, before you ask a question start with a statement and then make the question (ex: say some story about some coo…	/r/seduction	12/04/19 04:36 PM
–	Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girls That could totally happen if you completely shut down the girl from the interaction. While talking with the rest of the group, mention your target by asking the others a question or two about her (these could be even qualification questions). And also make eye short eye contact with your target once in a while, just so she doesn't feel invisible. Forgot to mention in my previous comment, this approach works if your target it's the hottest girl from the group, the one expected to get the most att…	/r/seduction	12/03/19 06:27 PM
–	Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girls Cold approach in a group setting. After you picked the girl you want, focus your attention (mostly friendly behaviour, not too flirty) to the other girls and don't pay much attention to the one you're after. Girls get jealous AF when you're only seem to be interested in their friends.	/r/seduction	12/03/19 03:39 PM
24	Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girls This might work is all of the starts align, like in your case. 1) Hot girls, used to get attention and be chased. 2) You guys were in a group setting repeatedly? where they played with the other dude while you stayed your ground. Not showing interest could work, because it might fuck with their brain thinking they're not good enough for you or you can do better= you're a high value guy. Being considered mysterious might also create tension because they'll try to 'break' you. But I'd say it matte…	/r/seduction	12/03/19 01:38 PM
1	Step 1 To Eliminate Social Anxiety (Nerds, Introverts, SAD, Social Phobia) You just went full retard when someone tried to engage in a conversation with you about your struggles. No wonder you can't get laid when you're this fucked up in the head.	/r/seduction	07/03/19 10:38 AM