A lot of what I've read shows this whole "restraint" approach to flirting. My example below is texting since it's happening right now but I'm curious about restraint in general.

I met a girl at a party Friday and we got to flirting pretty hard before I had to leave. She actually found me on Instagram and we got to chatting again. A few hours later and were sexting and escalating.

I'm super down to just get raunchy with this as I usually do but is it wiser to leave a lot to the imagination?

For example the last message I sent was something like "might end up distracting you if you come study with me ;)" type stuff and she replied "well now I'm really curious what you'll do".

Half of me wants to be coy and just say "I'll leave that to your imagination" but the other half wants to keep escalating and have each other describe how well be fucking each other. Lmao. What's the way to go ?