So over the last couple of days, I've been engaged in discourse with people on reddit. I've noticed a very interesting trend by the feminists I've talked to. Basically, the people I've talked to all have had a tendency to dismiss parts of Feminism they don't agree with as "Those women aren't real feminists".... well, multiple have done this and have conflicted on multiple issues.
I figure this is part of the problem. There is no rigid set of ideals that feminism stands for. Each individual wants to pick and choose what they think Feminism is and says that the parts they don't agree with are fringe benefits. Specifically for instance, there are feminists who don't agree with the "Men can stop rape" poster, but they just brush it off as not representative.... well, what am I, a lay person, supposed to think when engaged in dialogue? Every single thing we talk about, we talk about because a self-declared feminist is propelling the idea... and yet, when brought up, s/he's just dismissed and now we "just don't understand feminism".
What I propose is that we come up with a list of resources where self proclaimed feminists are pushing forward completely contradictory views on the exact same topics, which can segue nicely into any "that's not real feminism" defense. In essence, I want to counter "that's not real feminism" with "what you're describing is YOUR feminism, here's a list of resources where feminists disagree with you". Becauase, really, how can you argue against something without shape and form?
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