So I tried stoic game for the first time, at a club. Usually I have a "fun, say hi to everyone, feel like you're having so much fun" mask painted on, but this time I tried stoic game. This is what happened and then I stopped it, now I want to know what the next step would have been:

  • as I was walking slowly and purposefully through a House music room, this time I am not even nodding to or acknowledging the beat, someone pushes me, and says "out of my way" (woman's voice)

  • I thought, this is kind of rude to do on a dance floor (definitely not part of dancing, not accidental, and I wasn't in anyone's way.) So I just stopped where I was and looked at who pushed me: some chick

  • she talked some more shit, I forget what (like that's right can't you see we're dancing here or something).

  • I looked around and it was just an empty part of the dance floor. So, I just started dancing slowly. Not dancing well or heavily, barely moving. This was appropriate to do on that dance floor and there was no one in the area.

  • soon another girl is hitting me, her friend! And saying like "go away". Now what I imagine could have happened is friend imagined I must have pushed or grabbed her friend or provoked her, so she's standing up for her friend and wants me to go away. But her friend stops her! The girl who had pushed me is saying to her friend who is hitting me (I don't react to this or acknowledge it - so now on a pretty sparse dance floor and without me doing anything other than looking handsome, two girls have aggressively hit and pushed and yelled at me, in a way completely ingruent to a dance floor: I didn't react except stopping there) she is saying to her friend no it's okay. So her friend backs off.

Now I start to dance with the original girl. In my mind I passed her shit test and she even just confirmed it publicly, saying "no he's cool" and dancing with me. I have an excellent theoretical basis for understanding her pushing me: she shit tests / pushes to see my reaction and see that I'm strong. I think this is explained in The Rational Male.

But now I am dancing with her. Bases on how I would have escalated my previous game I expect us to be grinding soon. But this time I am playing stoic game so I am just making little movements with my feet. She shit tests me more saying (she seems very turned on by this) "Is that all you got? This tiny pathetic little dance" or something. She is extremely insulting, this isn't said playfully. She and her friend have technically just a minute ago assaulted me. If she's not going to melt into me I won't escalate (put my hands on her etc)

I realize at this point that I'm out of my depth so I pretend to check a message on my phone and leave the area.

This is really interesting though. She was obviously very turned on by my passing her shit test (obviously other men don't behave this way or this is what she wanted, there was no reason to push me) - I also have a tight and bad boy haircut and have good facial aesthetics. But how she continued the game isn't one I played before.

I would normally expect her to turn playful, or if she is teasing me (based on my usual game) then we understand it's just teasing.

How does this stoic game work?

She keeps insulting me and trying to provoke me, and I keep being a rock and pass her tests - meanwhile she is there and makes it clear to anyone who would intervene that this is fine? Then what? At what point do I put my hands on her? With "open/fun game" it's easy - I'm laughing and dancing and touching everyone, if someone dances up close to me I'm touching their hip right away and escalating, grinding, etc.

But with stoic game? How do I deal with that situation?

By the way this turned her on waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more (from what I could tell) than the usual game. Just because someone is grinding on me doesn't actually mean they're wet.

But I wanna know if the shit tests will stop or I just have to keep getting hit till morning? Also should I go without glasses just in case one of these girls or their friends start hitting me or misjudge their strength??

I can tell this is a shit test but I am not sure about the rest of the details of stoic game!

Also are there any special consent considerations or how it would look to others? With fun/social game it's easy I guess. But with stoic game? Will she be helpful and cooperative in determining logistics, splitting cab fair, whatever - or is she going to be this brat the whole time, because getting taken as a brat is what she gets off on?

Please give more information.