I'm a lady with a ton of male friends, but am dreading the bachelor party train my boyfriend will be invited too once all my buddies start tying the knot.

SarcastiCock · 2012-11-06T20:40:59+00:00

Checking out someone else's voluntary nudity is far from the same as flaunting your own.

Mediumtim · 2012-11-06T21:13:42+00:00

Thoughts? I think this is a limit to be set by the two of you. (How about a "look, but do not touch policy"?)

On a more general note, this isn't a mensrights issue, this is about how the partners in a relationship deal with attraction and relationships. It applies to monogamy and open relationships, gays, lesbians and bi-when-it-strikes couples.

IMHO: the traditional roles are outdated and unnatural. It's up to the individuals to agree upon boundaries, respectful of each others whiches and desires.

Idiopathic77 · 2012-11-06T21:24:18+00:00

Unless bachelor parties where you come from involve the attendees cock-slapping women in the face, this is a false comparisson. Watching a porno and acting in one are different entirely. I read your response below to a similar point and I have to say that, No "women" are not universally drawn to getting attention. That is more of a habit of immature and insecure women. If you don't want your BF to attend bachelor parties where there are strippers try talking to him like an adult. Don't demand, or throw a fit. And definately do not equate his seeing some boobs to you grinding your naked ass on a fat guys lap.

My SO asked this of me before I went to a friends bachelor party. I went to the dinner, skipped the stripper bus, and met them at the bar after. No problem. And I may add that before I was involved I attended probably a dozen bachelor parties, ten of them had strippers, no one got laid by them. If the people you know see it as ok to hook up outside of their relationships then so be it. It will be the end of a relationship where both parties are not on the same page.

rightsbot · 2012-11-06T20:32:18+00:00

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SarcastiCock · 2012-11-06T20:40:41+00:00

False equivalence. I've been sober driver for my GF and her friends going to strip clubs. Doesn't bother me a bit, but I wouldn't become a stripper.

EpicJ · 2012-11-06T21:17:43+00:00

Maybe but if you had a hen party would there a male stripper, in fact I think nearly every hen party has semi naked guy even if it's more of a jokey one.

2012-11-06T22:13:53+00:00

You're being unreasonable and self-entitled because you're attractive, knock it off.

SarcastiCock · 2012-11-06T20:36:32+00:00

I was outraged over the things I saw in the bachelor party I was at. Here you have men with girfriends, at home, and they all had unprotected sex with women they just met. They swore an oath to keep it quiet afterwards. One patted another on the back and said you got a little drunk bro, but I got your back. None of them pulled out. Some of them surely became fathers.

You ought to keep an eye out for it. I don't think you should let him go.

SarcastiCock · 2012-11-06T20:47:23+00:00

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Title	I'm a lady with a ton of male friends, but am dreading the bachelor party train my boyfriend will be invited too once all my buddies start tying the knot.
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Date	November 6, 2012 8:30 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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