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Is it just me or are most girls on Tinder practically un-datable?

resnine · 2018-06-27T00:32:22+00:00

I've just been browsing and browsing and it's just fucking tons (emphasis on tons) of girls that are undatable. Fat... I mean land manatees, or...

resnine

June 27, 2018

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Title	Is it just me or are most girls on Tinder practically un-datable?
Author	resnine
Upvotes	3
Comments	35
Date	June 27, 2018 12:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8u56uk/is_it_just_me_or_are_most_girls_on_tinder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/is-it-just-me-or-are-most-girls-on-tinder.101195 https://theredarchive.com/post/101195

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[–]Morphs_0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

First of all I'm 37, which is I guess of influence on the whole thing. Face I find hard to say, I think it depends on the woman. I think it's around 7-8. Nothing too spectacular, but pretty good teeth (not perfect), rest is about the haircut and grooming. I always carry a 3-dayish beard that all women seem to like, it's a masculinity thing.

Financial scale is irrelevant, since I do not portray anything about this towards women. Why? Because I'm not a provider to them. That's a BB job. I want to be the AF guys.

That said, I am self-employed as a dancing teacher. I can sustain myself and although I don't make a lot of money, I'm wise with spending money and last year I started investing in order to provide my own retirement fund as I'm self employed. I sort of feel rich. Because of the dancing and because I like working out I have a good body. I'd say it's around a 9/10, especially in my age bracket. My pictures don't portray that very well actually. There's one shirtless pic on there from last december, but to my standards I was out of shape (still looks quite good, like 8/10).

I found that masculinity is an important concept to trickle into every aspect of an online profile. So in the pictures, but also in the profile text. The shirtless pic wasn't taking in the gym, but on a mountain in Poland where I finished an iceman training by the famous Wim Hof. Telling that story always interests women, because it's about man dealing with nature. It's a caveman thing.

The profile text works as a filter. It contains a part that says: "Looking for prince on his white horse? swipe left. Want to go on an adventure with the stable boy? swipe right.". It's completely covert but women immediately know what it's about. It's a good filter and allows for immediate banter and playful texts.

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[–]Morphs_0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I'd say models are the highest tier, so in my book those are 9-10s. I consider myself a bit a above average. I'd say average is a 7, hence the 7-8.

Now if you consider average to be a 5, then I guess I'm a 6. I guess I should give truerateme a try.

All I have on my profile is two pics and my bio stating my height. Might need something more clever.

Yes you need more pics. I have 5 (max is 6). The more the better, it allows you to convey different part of your personality.

Ok, so here is my profile text (translated from Dutch):

Part-time adventurer and life-hacker, fulltime life enjoyer. Humor, sporty, dancer, relaxed, rhythmic, fanatic cuddler, open-minded.

185x20 cm ;)

Looking for prince charming on his white horse? Please swipe left. On an adventure with the stable boy? Then swipe right. Passions.. I'll tell about them personally!

So the text contains enough indicators that I'm not looking for something serious, but also that I'm not desperate for something. The 185x20cm (=6'1'x7.8inch) is a playful joke on the fact that women seem to filter by height. Even had one girl match me just to ask if the 20cm was real so I answered I could be off 1 cm, and that I'm 184cm :) Never heard from her again but I had a good laugh. Actually a lot of women don't even read the profile text that well and scan through it.

The text leaves enough questions unanswered and allows the few girls that are actually creative with text to start the conversation in a fun way (hey stableboy, want to go for a ride? or something)

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Very interesting, you basically nailed it. I have two friends who clean up on Tinder. One of them is very successful and his job more or less gets him noticed every time. Regardless, his profile looks like: 1) Dog Pic with him smiling 2) Him with a group of well dressed suits smiling. 3) Him at an exotic location and smiling. Girls message him first saying shit like "wow how is it being a *job title*?"

My other friend is very good looking with an average job, he looks like a muscular River Phoenix more or less. His picks are 1) Him with a shirt off walking his dog 2) Him at a pool slightly submerged. 3) Him at social event laughing at a beach with others. He also has other pics but I can't remember what they are.

I'm considered a good looking guy but I'm not jacked or successful (working on it though!). I get like a few matches but the chicks are definitely not pursuing me on there haha

[–]resnine[S] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

It is ALL, I repeat ALL about your SMV. That is what gets them into bed with you. Once you prove your SMV to them through the medium of chin/jawline/eyebrow/social-proof/dog/gym/education/job/outdoors and the like, then she'll think you're a real winner and sexual thoughts will begin to trigger in her mind, let us not forget the importance of word-game/seduction/and gaming. No woman wants to be with a sperg loser with rock-bottom SMV. I made a fake profile awhile back of a woman just to browse the other guys on there, once you do that you start noticing a trend with a lot of the guys... the dog pic, the education pic, the job pic, they are all trying to display their SMV. What's weird is just a small percentage of the population knows about TRP, so maybe this knowledge is just common-sense because they already seem to know how the game works, possibly just naturally? and it's just us social-retards and autists that need it spelled out for us to make it "click" Lol. I see dudes all day pea-cocking and puffing out their chests, and I'm like "Do they read TRP?" and I think of how small this community actually is, they couldn't, they just know it on an instinctual level.

I've always said this to people, the best skill you can have is social-skills and second to that is the ability to sell yourself. These guys you speak of are good marketers, they know what women want: the looks, the money, the status, the high SMV male.

The:

1). Dog pic w/smiling...

2). Group (social-proof) being well-dressed and smiling...

3). Exotic location w/smiling...

4). Shirt off with dog...

5). In pool slightly submerged...

6). Social event laughing and at beach w/others (social-proof)...

7). XYZ...

This was all carefully planned, calculated, and executed, all that was deliberate. These guys know EXACTLY what they are doing and what drives the women crazy. My profile is that of a socially retarded autist. If you want them to come to you then you have to be bringing the goods to the table.

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