For more than a year, I've been dating this amazing girl who is smart, hot, very redpilled, zero feminist bullshit, doesn't like anything in bed where I'm not dominant (e.g. doesn't like me going down on her), very low mileage (I'm the third).

But occasionally she's giving me a hint that she wants to penetrate me with a strap on. Says she's just interested to see how it's like when you are the one doing the penetration.

I'm not really interested in the idea. How would you recommend to handle it, and in general what are your thoughts on occasional bits of femdom in the bedroom?

So far I've just been saying "you have to give me your ass first" (which she categorically rejects).