Posted in r/relationships, seeking advice. Got some great comments but most of it was a flood of angry sexist women offending and calling me "a dick" because I had excruciating pain in my testicles and my girlfriend helped me.

This is the post: http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/udqrp/girlfriend_is_too_lazy_in_bed_is_there_anyway/

Some of my comments have been downvoted 50 times over trying to explain the situation (I thought I'm talking to reasonably humane people) after being almost called a rapist, pressuring my own girlfriend of almost 3 years into oral sex as a weapon of punishing her for menstruation (seriously WTF goes on in some women's heads).

I DO NOT want to start a flame war!! So please DO NOT reply to those people in the thread!

I just wanted to share with someone how appalled I am. It really amazes me how incredibly shallow and indifferent women can be. It really changes my perspective on how some (apparently a lot) of the women think behind the curtain.