So there's been girls interested in me trying hard to get my attention but I've been too busy studying for my degree to even bother gaming them at the time, though I guess ultimately that's just an excuse.

But, now we've graduated and I'm free. The problem is I don't have them in person since they live in nearby cities. I was thinking of hitting them up on Snapchat and asking out them out on dates.

To give you guys the situation, my smv is quite high, easily one of the highest at my uni, but I feel it's gonna look pretty beta now that I haven't approached in person and now I'm hitting them up through texts.

Im looking for plates and some of these girls are quite dtf. Though when I saw them at graduation and I wasn't getting the usual insane come get me IOIs. Think I mightve missed my window of opportunity.

My question is, is it worth it being direct through text to plate someone even if the situation isn't ideal and totally favourable?

Also one of the girls I wanted to plate might have a bf? She had a guy on one of her snap stories though he might just be a beta orbiter. Should I leave it or not give a fuck even if the ship might've sailed and try anyway risking the rejections?