Girlfriend got mad at me and we broke up for no reason, as I know..

heyuguyzbrekfazt · 2018-07-22T22:51:58+00:00

If you want relationship advice, go post this on the relationships sub-reddit.

If you read the sidebar and gave two craps about TRP, you would already know the reason doesn't matter, what matters is the lack of her attraction, and the fact that you need to move the hell on.

TRP isn't some band-aid you use for when a relationship goes bad, it's a way of thinking and viewing the world. Either embrace TRP, or stay blue-pilled. You already sensed that something was wrong a while ago, but like a chump, you listened to her dumb excuse of "nothings wrong" and you trusted her. The second you feel in your gut that something is wrong - something is wrong. Don't allow any excuses or listen to her crap, unless she gives you a no bullshit answer, she is lying and just buying herself time to monkey branch. Use this as a lesson for future girlfriends - when you know something is off, start pulling out of the relationship immediately and prepare for a break up, or better yet, initiate the break up and don't give her the satisfaction of dumping you.

The reason for all of this doesn't matter, it could be anything from you gained weight, to she met a better guy, to ancient astronauts abducted her the other night and implanted a break-up-with-your-boyfriend chip into her brain. It doesn't fucking matter, just realize the relationship is burning out.

daytonbull90 · 2018-07-22T23:42:30+00:00

Look man, she cheated on you, you're the most blue pill user I've seen in here yet. You need to put time aside, go to r/theredpill, and read the entire sidebar, absolutely everything. After that, you'll either figure it out for yourself, or remain a cuckold.

opper-hombre1 · 2018-07-22T23:12:20+00:00

She could just be getting tired of you. Girls change their minds all the ducking time

[deleted] · 2018-07-22T23:22:28+00:00

Have you even read the sidebar?

usedtobeNOTHING · 2018-07-22T22:53:59+00:00

First of all op you need to break your text into smaller paragraphs so it’s easier to read.

Second of all, if you don’t think she’s treating you the way you should be then you shouldn’t tolerate the disrespect and cut the bitch out of your life.

JarHeadJoseph · 2018-07-23T04:04:46+00:00

I’m your age bro. This EXACT thing has happened to me and is the reason I went full red pill.

You need to back off and be indifferent. Don’t play those fucking games with her. Find other girls.

ShotgunTRP · 2018-07-23T02:36:21+00:00

Monk mode and sidebar for you

zboo1h · 2018-07-23T00:49:10+00:00

First of all, move on. That's your only thing to do. Forget about her, she's dead. Whoops. Oh well, you're alive. Move on.

Second of all, it doesn't matter why, but think of it this way: she fucked another guy. Her actions show that she no longer respects you or sees you the same way. You will waste your efforts and life attempting to change that, so quit it. Move on.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-07-23T07:41:29+00:00

This is what women do when they are cheating and want to branch swing. They create a fake fight. Her friend knows what’s up and had a reason to believe that particular time was perfect to “surprise” her. Your gf was probably upset because the other guy couldn’t come over like she wanted. This is not the behavior of a girl you should trust... why you trust her is beyond me. Go no contact.

balalasaurus · 2018-07-23T01:48:17+00:00

Judging by your responses I have to ask what you think you’re doing here. You know it’s over and possibly have some idea why now. Stop asking more questions until you’ve read the sidebar. That’s if you want to stay. If not, don’t let the door hit ya.

dandar4600 · 2018-07-23T11:50:49+00:00

17, first relationship rarely lasts. Enjoy it for what it was and use it as a springboard for the next one.

From your comments, know that there is not just one little thing you could do and fix your old relationship. 2 weeks barely seeing each other and she isn't all over you? Yeah, it isn't just one little thing.

Ps. The reason that lead to the break up may not be a single guy. Maybe she enjoyed the attention and doesn't want to be tied down so that she can ride the carousel for the next decade or so. She will never admit it though because of ASD.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-07-23T12:38:24+00:00

Girls are retarded, especially at 17. Also, you are nowhere near swallowing the Red Pill. Decide what you want to do, first. Then Sidebar.

[deleted] · 2018-07-23T21:54:25+00:00

Get the fuck out OP.

Time to rip the bandaid off because a lot of us here including myself had to face this:

It is highly probable she found a new chad/fucktoy/prospect and wants to give it a run. Expect her to torpedo things with stupid amounts of drama so she can rationalize why she left you.
Don't break up in front of her friends or yours. It just creates drama and they both are looking for a good story to laugh with the new chad.
Ghost her. Block her social media, phone number, and everything. Just get out, OP. I had to deal with my PREGNANT ex doing this shit when a new "gay guy friend who is a country good ole' boy" .... nope. Just leave OP, I can't stress it enough. No closure, no contact, or ANYTHING. In my situation I only maintained the phone line when my child was born. You aren't married, have kids, or live together - THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO EJECT. DO IT NOW.
It's going to suck ass for a month to a year however you need to focus on your life. Yes your EX is going to get fucked by chads, go partying while you sit alone some nights, and so forth.
By the way. Never take her back. She doesn't respect you now and what makes you think she will again when your chump ass takes her back after her games?
Relationships are like cars: once they crash into a wall, it will never be the same no matter how much you "work on it" or "fix it" Get a new ride.

Auvergnat · 2018-07-23T04:31:36+00:00

She most definitely cheated on you or simply found a better prospect than you but can't summon the courage to break up with you as this would make her have to burden the responsibility for the relationship failure. So she'll keep you hanging in that painful "mixed-message" limbo until you do it yourself.

Trust your gut and start understanding that the medium is the message.

Kid, you are young so I will impart on you the most important piece of wisdom you have ever come across. Ready? Here it comes:

Women are not complicated to understand, and you can be hugely successful in relationships in your life at the condition that you're lucky enough to come across the actual rules, intelligent enough to understand them, and dedicated enough to integrate them. If you fail to come across the actual rules that govern human relationships, understand them, or integrate them, women will own you your entire life, and your recurrent relationship failures might end up killing you.

MrSittingBull · 2018-07-23T05:02:26+00:00

u/usedtobeNOTHING, you are sentenced to 6 months of monk mode which will consist of intense physical labor and sidebar rehabilitation on the charges of 1st degree frame battery and assault.

allcity28 · 2018-07-23T02:21:23+00:00

Where is the mod on this? Take this shit to r/relationships or something like that

Title	Girlfriend got mad at me and we broke up for no reason, as I know..
Author	usedtobeNOTHING
Upvotes	9
Comments	34
Date	July 22, 2018 10:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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