Context:

Recently red pilled for a couple months, still working on my reconditioning. Previously blue pilled, but nothing crazy. Stopping fapping and watching porn. Been pumping iron and eating good. Body count of 4, been in LTR’s for 2 of them. About to turn 20. This isn’t a oneitis post, I just want to LTR her.

Been seeing this girl for the past 3 weeks, she has a body count of 5 (told me privately and told one of my friends privately). One of my friends was trying to hookup with her and they made out a few times but no sex. She sees me; attractive, buff, social proof etc. and I fuck her the first night we hookup. We had sex 3 times and she told me it was great. The second time was at her house, I couldn’t get hard at first but after jerking off 2x in her bathroom I fucked her hard and moved the bed like half a foot. I’ve been giving this girl good sex, and she’s been paying for dates and stuff. Hinted at LTRing her last night but last night is where I fucked up and I’m asking trp how big of a fuck up it is.

The Fuck Up:

I couldn’t get hard. I don’t know what it was, I fucked her 2 nights before at 4am and everything was fine. We spent the day together yesterday and I didn’t have much to drink and felt sober when we were making out etc. but I just couldn’t get into it as much as the previous times. I excused myself to go pee after ~25 mins and got myself hard in the bathroom; came after a min of stroking. This also happened the 2nd time banging her, but I was able to get hard. I guess I just didn’t feel as into it this time. She didn’t seem disappointed or anything, we were both kind of tired and ended the night with conversation about us dating in the future. I don’t shower her with love/affection, only compliments I give are “ur cute”. I don’t talk to her much on the phone, she instantly replies when she’s on her phone. I feel like I’m doing everything else right. We made out in the morning and I got hard but didn’t have enough time to do anything (at least I got hard next day?)

How big of a fuck up is ED? In this case, I didn’t feel embarrassed, she didn’t say anything, it doesn’t seem like a big deal. The only reason Im posting is because I like this girl a lot, I want to try LTRing her during school or at least staying in contact and staying desirable to her. She lives in a very rich town and hour away and comes down to see me alot. I’ve driven up to her house twice. I feel like everything is going good I just want your opinion on how big of a fuck up this is.