Difference between 'LTRing' a plate and a FWB?

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-07-25T11:42:03+00:00

First of all she should bring up commitment not you.

Secondly 2 months is way too short to have her thoroughly vetted.

Test her good, because giving her your commitment, time, energy and attention are your most valuable goods.

Glowv2 · 2018-07-25T11:23:42+00:00

Sidebar

AyeAmScottishYaCunt · 2018-07-25T11:49:56+00:00

Far too quick to be giving away your full time commitment.

The difference is the evolution of a relationship with a woman. You plate her which is a strictly sexual and on a semi-regular basis (1-3x per week).

After this has been going on for a while, you may begin to spend a bit more time with her as you get to know her and enjoy her company (2-4x pw). Go for food, watch a movie, go rock climbing/hiking whatever. Sex is still a vital part of the relationship and it is the main reason you spend time with her, if she’s not putting out then she doesn’t get your attention.

If she continues to tick your boxes and demonstrates all the qualities you look for in a woman (whatever you deem those qualities to be), you have been vetting her for an EXTREMELY long time (6 month minimum in my opinion) along with keeping your options open, spinning plates to avoid any case of oneitis then a relationship is the next possible step. Many on this sub completely shun the idea of LTR’s and that’s their choice but it’s still an option considering you’ve followed the above steps

It goes plate >> FWB >>>>> LTR. LTR status only if she has seriously earned it over the course of months. Only 2 months with a girl is far too soon to be throwing away your commitment like it’s nothing.

freew33zy · 2018-07-25T12:50:00+00:00

Yes it's too quick. I think 4 months is the minimum to have a decent enough understanding of a girl.

Exodus230 · 2018-07-25T13:04:59+00:00

Go read the guide to bitch management

It is not your job to worry about commitment and relationships, it's hers. Gate keep that shit and demand high standards and never compromise

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-07-25T13:21:43+00:00

Never ever LTR a girl you have known for less than 6 months.

And that's the absolute BARE minimum.

Also, I advise guys to maintain sexual relationships with multiple women (3-5) so that no ONE woman can walk out the door with 100% of a man's pussy supply.

ACTUAL Abundance is a position of strength, and nobody can fuck with you when you have options.

mrHappyPotatoe · 2018-07-25T13:22:05+00:00

Yes. And you have oneitis. Go fuck 10 other girls to clear your mind.

vandaalen · 2018-07-25T13:37:08+00:00

http://archive.is/yxzC1

Title	Difference between 'LTRing' a plate and a FWB?
Author	mindstruggle
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	July 25, 2018 11:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/91qyij/difference_between_ltring_a_plate_and_a_fwb/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/difference-between-ltring-a-plate-and-a-fwb.103633 https://theredarchive.com/post/103633

Comments