im laid up just now post surgery so very little to do , over here the maury povich show is on and boredom led to watching it , it was a paternity test show which for a large portion consisted of the following things 1, a woman comes out , bad mouths and abuses the supposed dead beat 2, the guy is found out not to be the father 3, the women run off stage and throw temper tantrums ( im serious laying on floor screaming , kicking and punching ) and on the few times a man was the dead the first words out of the womans mouth is money , i actually felt sad today seeing this and seeing how accepted the idea of a man being a punchbag has become .