To make things short and sweet, she has been doing well in our two month relarionship. Doesn't argue, no bullshit, nothing.

Has a "get together" she goes to after work with a female friend at around 12am. I find the timing a little late and inappropriatefor for a "get together" but I'm holding frame and I'm fine with it.

She feels it's necessary to call me when she gets there and hints she'll be by her phone at all times and even sends me a video of the surrounding party. (Drinks, music, couple guys there, beer pong at the girls house)

I get a little annoyed and says "cool cool" in response because I'm just not feeling it. She asks me "what's wrong, you okay?" (Notices my dry and short response" I tell her "yeah everything's fine, you're crashing there?" (I'm not okay with this at all. Alcohol, opposite sex is there and now she's sleeping over?)

She replies "yes, she lives so close to my job" My response "k have fun and goodnight" I get a call, I decline it because I'm working late and tell her I can't pick up. She responds "okay" and that's it for last night.

It's the following day.

What do I do? Any input? I'm extremely upset she did this, not only does this compromise my trust and boundaries, she didn't run it by me at all.