low smv problems help

JugglingSoManyThings · 2016-04-25T08:09:31+00:00

Keep reading. Look for my post "Meeting People 101" for some tips on that front.

Get out of your head that you have a low value. Think of it this way, as long as you keep doing the things that will be truly good for you (look at my post The Great List of Non-Negotiables), you have an ever increasing smv. Smv is not static nor black and white.

Be patient. Be consistent.

Edwoodz · 2016-04-25T10:24:16+00:00

Confidence is key. You're self-degrading yourself so much so that you are beginning to believe it yourself. Take those improvements from the gym and build on that.

The__Tren__Train · 2016-04-25T09:08:43+00:00

Are you Indian?

cheechawcheechaw · 2016-04-25T07:12:49+00:00

Join Facebook groups dealing with your certain interests.

jayremedy · 2016-04-25T07:32:44+00:00

Something's up with your personality. Fix that.

Letsbeserioushere · 2016-04-25T09:28:13+00:00

Work on your self-respect. Once established, your life will get a lot better.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-04-25T11:38:22+00:00

Be patient. Be consistent. Don't have such a negative perspective of yourself, this lowers confidence and people can see that. Have hobbies and read a lot of red pill theory while working on SMV. Save up money. Keep practicing your game and by the time you are a higher SMV, you will be able to really reel in the women.

Don't be lazy.

NightwingTRP · 2016-04-25T11:41:01+00:00

Should I even be working on game right now with this shitty smv?

Monk mode is typically advised in the early months of swallowing the pill. When you become epic you're no longer playing the game on nightmare mode. It makes game easier to run by a mile. All base game is covered in my TRP Field Toolkit series... bookmark it for later. Typically monk mode will take about 2-3 months as a minimum. I remember trying to come out of monk mode after 1 month and it was an unmitigated disaster which I still laugh at to this day.

You appear to have a twofold problem. Firstly, meeting and getting people to like you. Secondly, finding some new friends. I'd recommend the classic "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie to help you with the first. The second one depends on your personality. You're going to need to think about the sort of person you are and the sort of person you want to hang out with. Let me know what you think of that. I had to replace the majority of my social group as I improved myself so I can try and give you some pointers on how to go about it.

plasticslug · 2016-04-25T15:57:04+00:00

Here is the thing, you are not a special little snowflake, you are not that interesting, and you may not bring anything to the table. But hell that could be any of us.

I dont really have a life (personally) but I make it seem I ALWAYS have somewhere to be, my time is very, VERY valuable and if I give you any of that time its a real honor.

With that being said, most people dont really have the time to give to other people, especially those who seem to have nothing to do or be constantly available.

Hell even my best friend (a brother to me) sits on his ass 24/7 and is always available and its an actual chore to be around for me, because he brings nothing to the table.

One thing I did last round in college was to be Mr. social, talk and help everyone, and fuck did it put a sign on my back that said im desperate, lonely and PLEASE, please.... give me attention. Being Mr. Social and being Mr social that people actually want to be around is two very different things.

098521745630 · 2016-04-25T07:22:48+00:00

I have accepted the fact that I have an extremely low smv.

wrong. wrong. wrong. never commit to being a loser. fake it til you make it, it's a little concerning that you have no friends. if you're in college join clubs and go out to every single event that you see of facebook/etc. if you're older join gym classes and try meetup.com

DeLeko1 · 2016-04-25T14:15:18+00:00

Don't depend on your friends or any girls. Treat them as if they're your plan B.

Title	low smv problems help
Author	Throwaawayq13
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	April 25, 2016 6:57 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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