I feel most here try to dissuade open relationships especially when the girl is the one who has asked to open it. However I'm curious because my circumstance is a bit different. I was in a ltr for a good couple of years with a girl and I never got pissed or over her, however I decided to break up with her because I wanted to see what being on my own was like and honestly didn't want everything that comes with a relationship. At the time, she offered to do practically anything even make it an open relationship for my sake so I could get my rocks off. At the time I said no because i knew going straight into that wouldn't be a good idea. I didn't believe she could mentally be ok with going right into that. She practically worshiped the ground i walked on and I couldn't imagine her being ok with me seeing other people. Now that some time has passed how bad of an idea do you think it would be to try it out now that we've had some time.