Great Advice: Friends don't let friends get married.

toinfinitiandbeyond · 2009-08-10T00:18:20+00:00

I wish I could give this guy more upvotes! After my wife pumped out two kids she went nuts and did exactly what this guy says in his video. Here I am 5 years later and I can't even see my kids because of her lies. $9,000 in supervised visits! For what I've spent a total of 14.5 days with my kids in the past 5 years! I haven't seen my kids in 6 month because I can't afford the supervised visits. Even after passing 2 polygraphs, psychosexual exam, custody evaluation and being questioned by the police I still have no visitation. I'm tired of paying legal shrills and being swept under the rug. I have pretty much given up and now just hope that someday my kids will search me out and discover the truth that their mother is a pathological lying piece of shit that doesn't deserve my monthly "child support".

BinaryShadow · 2009-08-10T05:02:30+00:00

Hey I'm curious, and I figure this is as good a place as any to ask.

I live in Canada, and my universal health care covers vasectomies (/bragging), so I'm extremely tempted to go ahead and get one done, for obvious reasons. Is there an age I should wait until to do this, to make sure I wont absolutely regret it? I'm only 20 now.

HUGEGIRLtinygirl · 2009-08-12T19:44:19+00:00

This is off-topic, but I don't know really how else to go about this. Sorry in advance. I am a female non-feminist who would like to have a conversation with a male-rights activist who can't stand the idea of todays marriage, but who also doesn't like traditional views of marriage where the man is the protector and the woman is the home-provider. I've come across this a little bit browsing through to comments. I want to ask some questions, play devils advocate to try to understand, and stay civilised. I don't want a fight, I just have some questions. If you have a lot to say about this subject, please respond or send me a private message. If you hate that I'm typing this request in the comments, please don't get mad. Just tell me where to go to get a better response.

SwampGass · 2009-08-10T17:45:58+00:00

This guy is a bit bitter. He had a lot of good points but he did remind me of the feminists in intensity. I guess by being suppressed like MR needs to be like this. MR just needs to be careful not to become the thing they hate.

Title	Great Advice: Friends don't let friends get married.
Author	Tronus
Upvotes	24
Comments	14
Date	August 9, 2009 11:18 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/991pi/great_advice_friends_dont_let_friends_get_married/
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