Long story short: meet a girl while traveling in Europe, we hit it off big time, hang out for 5 days straight, sex multiple times a day. By the end, she's looking up flights to come visit me this fall and her dad has promised to foot the bill. We're talking about having her visit for a few weeks as a trial run for a ltr.

There are a few things about this scenario that break the mold for normal trp relationship progression. For one, when she visits she'll be staying with me which breaks the rule of delaying or avoiding moving in together. But having kids is an eventual goal of mine so it's a bridge I'll have to cross eventually.

My biggest concern though is figuring out the best way of maintaining her current high level of attraction for the next few months while she is thousands of miles away. In my experience (and according to trp) you can only really loose attraction through texting. My plan is to just keep any texting focused on fun or inconsequential topics and maybe video chat once a week. In general I don't bother with sexually suggestive texts or nudes because I prefer to do that in person, but should I make an exception in this case? I've only ever done long distance once before when I was still super beta.

I'm still planning on fucking other girls in the meantime to avoid developing oneitis, but I kind of have a thing for foreign girls, and this one checks a lot of the boxes. She's got a 7 face, solid 9 body IMO, smart, but a little dorky, we have good chemistry, and I feel pretty naturally alpha around her.