And stop gaslighting women 😏

TieDieEye · 2021-08-20T23:15:48+00:00

Omfg please. The amount of times I've been called insane or toxic for not putting up with a guy doing obviously disrespectful shit.

I don't even mean reacting to it either, I mean walking away from it or ignoring him. We're literally socialized to deal with men's bs and the consequence is basically abuse and gaslighting 90% of the time.

YellowBA4 · 2021-08-21T01:23:18+00:00

Ah yes, my first boyfriend, ‘All my ex girlfriends were psycho’. Naive little 19 year old me, four years of gaslighting.

The day I moved out, my last words were ‘stay away from me and stay away from my family’, his response was ‘I don’t know what’s going through your head’

Three years later, he’s still pulling laps past my work on a quiet street and I still can’t wash my car in peace because he found out where we moved to. Young me really knew how to pick a great guy. 👍

Ironsculpture · 2021-08-21T09:16:44+00:00

Also, let's normalize calling men crazy when they act disrespectfully.

CocoCeleste · 2021-08-21T10:46:17+00:00

It's a red flag if a guy refers to his ex as "crazy". All I think is, what did you do to make her act that way?

Usually the behaviour he describes as "crazy" is some form of concern based off of his previous actiona.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-08-22T01:22:09+00:00

Another thing to add is: women need to stop gaslighting each other. I’ve been seeing that a lot lately for some reason.

Title	And stop gaslighting women 😏
Author	Actual-Response793
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Date	August 20, 2021 7:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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