so I was out this weekend with a girl and friends at a music festival. we are dancing the whole time, and I destroy 4 of her shit tests to the point where she's groping my dick while we dance. I thought everything was a sure thing.

when we get back to the hotel I wanna take a dip in the pool before I go up cause I'm dirty as fuck. when I go up, I try initiating and she just completely shuts me out.

now not having sex was kind of a bummer, but I want to know what I did that completely turned her off.

I'm thinking of asking her straight up. in aware this will probably ruin my chances of sleeping with her, but that's meh. I'd rather Learn from my mistakes, plenty of other girls.

what are your thoughts