Hi, fellas. I hope you all doing well. Recently, I dealt with a chick who is alpha widowed by Chad and also who has BPD issues. In this post, I will write down how these type of girls will manipulate you, how it will feel to be in relationship with them, how you will feel after breakup, and how they will chase you in order to chop your balls after breakup.

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Well, it all starts with her kind and caring attitude.

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101 lesson about alpha widows is that she will text you first for multiple times. She will text you and she will be extremely kind and caring towards you (even if they know you just for two hours). They say Free cheese is only at mousetrap. Yes, that's extremely true. They will love bomb you in all kinds of ways and you will feel like the greatest of all Chads. At the very first day, I realized that she was alpha widow and I deliberately put distance between us. But guess what? She has other manipulation tactics, too.

Lesson 1: Alpha widows will make the first move and she will love bomb you. Put distance between you and her crazy ass for your own sake.

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After putting distance between us, she was my number 1 social media follower. She liked all my photos first, she watched all my stories first, and as a chump I thought to myself this chick is fully into me. But there is a subtle manipulation going on in here. It doesn't take a great effort in order to like someone's post or just skip his stories without watching. She doesn't invest emotionally, but the other person (me) thinks that she does. And by this way, you start to invest emotionally in her (because you think that she does the same, too).

Lesson 2: Alpha widows are the master game players. Even if you put distance between you and her crazy ass, keep your eyes open. It doesn't matter how darkest triad person you are, she is more darker than you are.

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So, I text her and now... She is extremely cold and distant. She knew that I already started to attach to her. After this point, when I walk away from her, she chased me like a puppet and love bombed me again. It's like a continuing cycle. One day she will value you but the other day she will devalue you. At this point, my guts screamed to me that something is different about this girl and you should just RUN. But my blue pilled ass started to rationalize like only 5-10% people have BPD, maybe she was undecisive like all women, maybe blah blah blah.

Lesson 3: If you doubt that she has BPD, then she definitely has BPD. Trust me on this one. Don't rationalize her unstable behaviors.

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The same manipulation goes on and I asked her out. But one day before asking her out, I made a dread game move in order to secure my date. And guess what she went to crazy mode and her true evil nature revealed (BPDs have highest level of fear when it comes to abandonment. That's their kryptonite). She said all kind of nasty words to me, she said that she has higher value than me, she said that I will be loser in life, blah blah blah. But the point is I knew that those nasty traits actually her traits, not mine. I mean the problem was not me, the problem was her. She gaslighted me to think that her nasty evil features were actually mine. That's why they say you can't know her true nature until you break up with her.

Lesson 4: The problem is not you, the problem is her crazy ass brain. The nasty words she says to you after breakup, are actually her devil nature. She will make you think that you are miserable human being, but indeed she is like that.

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After this point, the story is obvious. She replaces me in 3 days, she fucks with him at first date (Thanks to my gut feelings) and then she comes back to me. She chased me almost like 1.5 month and all I gave her was a silence. Is this the end game with Alpha widowed BPD girl? Of course not. She send me the link of her YouTube music playlist, and it was full of miserable songs. Something like "Let's come back together again", "Let's make a peace and never break it again", "We can make it again". This part is the master degree manipulation. Because she turns on Mr Captain Save a Hoe which was built inside us and as a man you want to save a hoe. But you can't. No one can. She can't be saved and she DOESN'T WANT to be saved. She just want to indulge her emotions at this exact moment.

Lesson 5: She will play the victim after breakup and she will turn on your Mr Captain Save A Hoe side. You can't save her and she doesn't want to be saved.

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After break up, you will like a numb person without any emotions. You will think like you won't find a love again (not feminine true love, but the conditional love of course). You will feel like every female will chop your balls like she did. My move was going out and making more interactions with women. By this way, I saw that not all women are crazy like her. Even if they reject you, they will reject you with respect, not with hate and disgust.

Lesson 6: After dealing with BPD girls you will think that you won't find a love again (conditional one). But you will be okay in long run.

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Signs of her being an alpha widow: I know her ex from the university. One of his hobbies is MMA fighting and he is Chad type of guy. She told me multiple times that she got cheated by her ex bf. I guess he also knew that she was crazy and that's why he just plated her. She thought that she was in LTR but then realized that she was just a booty call. Some guys said that there are no signs of Alpha widow. I didn't want to mention the basics but here they are.

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This was all I want to share. Have a nice day and Don't play the game that you can't win (BPDs, alpha widows).

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Peace.